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Yeah this has a very late 00s early 10s vibe. Not in a bad way.
/r/seduction03/11/19 10:30 PM
19

Yeah this has a very late 00s early 10s vibe. Not in a bad way.
/r/seduction03/11/19 02:51 PM
2

The important thing is that your shit doesn't stink.
/r/seduction03/11/19 02:31 PM
1

Well normal men don't care. There are plenty of nutbar abusive boyfriends/husband's who "care" in the same way they care about other trivial shit in the name of control.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/11/19 12:29 PM
1

It's raining here so why do some places suffer drought?
/r/MensRights15/08/19 09:31 PM
5

FYI a lot of stories in Alchoholics Anonymous start like this.
/r/seduction27/07/19 02:49 PM
29

Always the basics. Better health = better looks Better pictures = better looks Hobbies = energy, free time, social validity, some measure of finances, half a brain or more Pictures of you living life = social validity It always boils down to being the best visual advertisement possible, and communicating through pictures that you aren't threatening and other people agree.
/r/seduction13/07/19 10:02 AM
3

Sweetie, you can accept something and still acknowledge it as "fucked up."
/r/seduction06/02/19 11:37 AM
8

It's fucked up when a girl does that and men respond that way. Human social dynamics are super fucked-up across the board. What's your actual point?
/r/seduction06/02/19 09:16 AM
41

Super true and super fucked-up
/r/seduction06/02/19 03:21 AM
6

Be willing to piss people off. Practice with people you don't like. Don't be a dick or abusive, just be willing to say "no" and state your mind with the goal of disappointing them. It's empowering.
/r/seduction14/01/19 07:37 AM
6

You can't safeguard against everything in an approach. You're making yourself vulnerable. You will never get around that when asking a girl out.
/r/seduction12/01/19 01:14 PM
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Older guy here-- this is real solid stuff and works well in-practice. Great work OP. Also remember the invisible Tip 13: If she responds badly with cruelty, mockery, dismissal, or something impolite then remember that was her choice to respond that way. Plenty of women know how to respond to jokes they don't like or unsolicited advances with grace and tact, even when they're "having a bad day." Be grateful that this woman showed you who she was nice and early and enjoy the luxury of moving on.
/r/seduction28/12/18 05:53 PM
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It's actually really ironic that you thought that "Don't think; just act" needed to be broken down into 1268 WORDS Respect brother, just pointing this out.
/r/seduction21/11/18 10:39 PM
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For a slimy sales pitch repackaging generic "alpha male" advice, unironically using BIOTRUTHS and Jordan Peterson as serious sources... there's a lot of truth and good shit in here. This is impressive stuff. The only rider I would insist on, is that a lot of these qualities aren't things you can force, and paying OP to study is a waste of your time and money. The best way to naturally embody these qualities is to live life-- participate, engage with society in the real world, develop yourself an…
/r/seduction20/11/18 12:58 PM
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Where are we again? Oh yeah the thread where you started defending what someone else posted. Jesus you're a salty little fish.
/r/seduction19/11/18 05:53 AM
0

It's his use of "feminist" which is a term I have only ever seen dickheads use as a perjorative descriptor. Smartass.
/r/seduction19/11/18 05:45 AM
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Whoop there it is
/r/seduction18/11/18 03:34 AM
3

Take it from someone who has a habit of intellectualizing, but is also hyper-verbal and prefers to articulate social issues in an attempt to quantify them... I'm used to hearing the "you're overthinking it" line. Even when it's completely correct, it never isn't the shittiest way to offer that thought.
/r/seduction26/07/18 03:41 PM
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"I didn't have to think this hard to get success therefore you shouldn't either." He's peacocking, even if he truly believes that he's just offering advice.
/r/seduction26/07/18 03:21 PM
2

If you're not reading Jane Austen, you're not doing your homework. She wrote the blueprint for modern pop Romance.
/r/seduction25/06/18 11:00 PM
19

This is an exceptionally sheltered comment. Nothing has really changed aside from the scale and speed of communication and the tools we use to facilitate comfort. Go actually read "my fair lady" blah blah blah crap if you think that shit back in the day was simple. Hell, just go back to the 19th Century and read some Jane Austen. Courtship and dating has always been a headache, and if you're just looking to fuck on the downlow there are (and always have been) plenty of avenues to do so. The latt…
/r/seduction25/06/18 07:30 AM
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shoot me a message on how to stop being such a fucking loser The how is simple. Small, iterative steps of self-improvement and focus on personal growth and a healthy investment in your ego and the right to take up space and influence your environment. Starting it and maintaining it are usually the harder part. Again, iterative steps. If you don't know what that means, Google it or pay me. I'm not your Dad. learn how to live without wanting to die Yeah pain is real and it sucks a lot. No one faul…
/r/seduction04/01/18 03:33 AM
7

The idea that a great man never betrays his cool or independence is very baked into this sub.
/r/seduction23/12/17 11:39 AM
3

Yeah. You're putting the judgment of worth in the hands of other people. You will never win if you do this.
/r/seduction04/11/17 10:36 AM
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You seem like a really great guy and I believe your success on dates, but there is something fishy about your claimed Tinder success. I'm not calling you a liar, but without a profile /blurred pictures /location /height (yes, height) to add context this is just general advice anyone with a fertile imagination could write in an afternoon. Please do the community a solid and provide this information, not to deflate but to demystify.
/r/seduction18/09/17 09:39 PM
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Introversion is horseshit
/r/seduction18/09/17 09:36 PM
1

Bingo.
/r/seduction18/09/17 09:36 PM
1

Goddamn dude I'm 5'7" and I wish height was acknowledged more as a major factor in casual hookups but you are not fucking helping.
/r/seduction18/09/17 09:35 PM
1

I am really glad you had fun. It sounds really high energy and enthusiastic.
/r/seduction10/09/17 01:42 AM
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By counting every even slight interaction as an approach.
/r/seduction10/09/17 01:42 AM
3

What does Omega Dad mean?
/r/seduction16/08/17 04:38 AM
5

Hate to say it but you probably are very good looking. You still played solid game and as you know it's more about numbers than anything, but I do think you're being falsely modest.
/r/seduction19/07/17 10:26 AM
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Nah the threshold for guys to be acceptably good looking is a lot lower than you think, especially if you're not a bore. Grooming, exercise, and giving a shit goes a long way on principle alone.
/r/seduction19/07/17 10:25 AM
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I remember when it started half a decade ago it was about self-improvement to have a healthier social life with women, including but not limited to sex. Dilution is a hell of a thing.
/r/seduction22/05/17 04:27 AM
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Love means you recognize the flaws and accept them, not that you beat those flaws.
/r/seduction09/04/17 12:03 AM
1

Limerence is a bitch but you can get through it. You had an amazing sexual connection (even one-sided) and are hungry to go back to that, only you're getting regular sex so the fantasy shifts to a romantic one. Try to seriously date a few girls, not to hurt them but change your gears. Ease the fantasy out.
/r/seduction27/02/17 05:50 AM
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Do hobby, intellectual, or community things you're passionate about and you'll run across like-minded women. Volunteer somewhere, start a reading program, teach sports or play sports. Nothing fancy required.
/r/seduction06/02/17 05:18 AM
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Well said mate
/r/seduction09/01/17 01:52 AM
2

I'm autistic and well into adulthood; are you going to tell me I'm not trying hard enough with a straight face?
/r/seduction02/01/17 10:59 AM
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You don't try to stand out. You are exactly who you are and have your shit together, and women will either respond to that or not. Recognize what you contribute, how you contribute it, and play to that strength-- e.g: Don't try to be the field commander when your friend is clearly more comfortable and competent in that role. Don't try to be the life of the party if your friend is much better at cracking jokes. This is what people really mean by "just be yourself." You will find a place that suit…
/r/seduction08/09/16 01:22 PM
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What a wank piece. Terrible, terrible writing. Still, thank you for reminding me that vulnerability is important.
/r/seduction09/08/16 01:22 AM
1

A lot of dudes genuinely believe it has a profound effect on how your body functions. For my money it's the placebo effect at practicing discipline against a constant urge, and the method of withholding masturbation is one of convenience, not one that has any specific benefit other than increased ejaculate.
/r/seduction01/08/16 08:27 AM
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Yeah pretty much, but then again five years ago it was mostly shucksters abusing acronyms and offering courses to sadbrains.
/r/seduction01/08/16 08:23 AM
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Yeah yeah it gives you the strength of ten men and does your taxes too. The placebo effect is powerful shit. I went a month without and all it did was make my daily random erections more annoying. No energy boost, no hunger for life, no greater focus nor insight, just a more annoying sex instinct. I'm glad it works for you but I'm convinced it's all in your head.
/r/seduction01/08/16 08:22 AM
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Potential, to put it simplistically. You could be everything they never knew they wanted, or you are what they know they don't want. You could be something bad or good or anything in-between, or you are a known quantity of bad or good and thus inert and unexciting.
/r/seduction31/07/16 05:24 AM
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I'm sure there is an answer but I doubt anyone knows it. Either way the solution is to approach who you want and find out.
/r/seduction03/07/16 08:21 AM
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It means he gets tired from doing something he doesn't normally do and/or has a lower overall stamina or he just straight-up does not get the same enjoyment from interacting with others that you might. None of that psuedoscientific "draws energy from others/charges like a battery alone" horseshit.
/r/seduction26/06/16 05:53 AM
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Nah he doesn't think he's that good looking. Then he takes the value they add to him for granted. Looks are very far from everything in a man, but they do matter.
/r/seduction07/06/16 02:58 PM
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She is not an ethereal being. She is an animal, like you. Get in that animal headspace. We are relatively hairless primates who wear refined plant fiber and ground up rocks on our faces. We are capable of great abstract reasoning and collective effort but we are also meat machines run on liquid iron and salt transfers. She is not outside of this paradigm. She is worth animal respect, but also animal recognition. Take things to a more primal (not necessarily more lustful) level and watch how your…
/r/seduction21/05/16 08:12 AM
1

You write out a giant mess of an essay full of little more than poorly formatted accomplishments that you seem to think are impressive, followed by no actual advice for the OP, and you wonder why I don't treat you with respect? I don't presume to know dick about you--maybe you're a trust fund baby, maybe you worked your way up from poverty to go study music. I don't particularly give a shit either way because what matters are your actions here and now. I'm not a 4chan anon. I'm an actual adult g…
/r/seduction10/05/16 03:18 AM
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That's all awesome! Now you just need to convey that to women. The calibration involved in doing that is very difficult even for neurotpyically charming guys, so lots of failure is inevitable and really quite good... just don't be surprised if the skill curve and ceiling for you is more harsh than you want it to be. You just have to ask yourself what your goals are, and how you can be the kind-of person that can earn those goals without setting yourself up for failure (e.g: if you're blind, don'…
/r/seduction10/05/16 02:54 AM
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Well I did offer my advice. Knowing literally nothing about OP other than his Aspergers, I gave him the broadest advice possible. You haven't offered anything other than peacocking your resume and sound like a manic douchebag. I think you take social calibration for granted. Aspergers is a spectrum disorder and symptoms express to varying degrees of severity in different people. Thus my advice is catch-all and indeed may not apply to OP. Incidentally there is likely a lot of social proofing you'…
/r/seduction10/05/16 01:06 AM
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They don't need to be. Are you passionate? Do you give a fuck about what you do? Do you have any other interests you pursue to improve yourself, make money, or otherwise enrich your life? Do you have friends or at least acquaintances you can speak with and call upon for mutual exchange of goods, services, and other value? How is your relationship with your family? Is your body in decent shape? Do you eat right? Exercise? Sleep well? What do you like to do for fun? How do you dress? You don't nee…
/r/seduction09/05/16 11:18 PM
3

Validation from third parties-- ideally a girl's friend--that you're a good person and worth a look. Social Proof is what tells a girl you're not a psychopath or creep or "loser." Given how many guys proposition a girl on any given day of their lives, this makes social proof a primary and generally valid way to filter through them. It's very important. Social proof is also what you'd call "inductive." I work in a hospital and I'm not high-ranked. But I wear scrubs, glasses, and am an intelligent…
/r/seduction09/05/16 10:50 PM
3

For an Aspie everything is about offsetting your social limitations. It's like being a regular guy but more extreme. Make money, have passion about what you do and the learned ability to express it gracefully, learn good wellness habits, and rely on social proof via others to help you meet women. Solo flirting,seduction, and casual sex is not as likely as they rely on social calibration in environments most aspies suck in like bars and clubs. If you want that go with a wingman. Day game is possi…
/r/seduction09/05/16 10:27 PM
3

Yeah this guy has a solid body he clearly takes care of, an adequate clean-cut face, and then the good energy. He actually hits a decent sweet spot between manly and nonthreatening. If he's unattractive then woe to the common man.
/r/seduction08/04/16 03:10 AM
1

I applaud your commitment to the bit.
/r/seduction23/02/16 05:22 PM
2

There's a difference between recognizing a factor and defeatism. You sound vain supposing confidence is somehow irreconcilable with understanding physical reality. Put another way if the formula for success could somehow be reduced to "y=mx+b" it's not defeatist to realize that guys have different natural values for m and that affects their ease with different types of approaches the same way changing m on a graph will change the slope of the line. It's not insecure to think this way unless it i…
/r/seduction15/02/16 12:21 AM
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Cracked.com is frequently a digital cesspit and David Wong is overrated, but he wrote an excellent think-piece to all the young guys who kept writing him asking him for Dad/Older Brother advice: http://www.cracked.com/blog/6-harsh-truths-that-will-make-you-better-person/ He reposts it every year. I read it often even though I've broken many of the habits and mindset described in the article because it's that good. I've paraphrased a lot of his words for other "nice guys" as it's some of the best…
/r/seduction13/02/16 07:03 AM
3

Even for a troll this is basic.
/r/seduction13/02/16 06:53 AM
2

This thread has some impressively bad comments.
/r/seduction12/02/16 01:21 PM
0

If you want to jack off to yourself then use a mirror. The world is wider than your peak.
/r/seduction12/02/16 01:20 PM
8

A loser is someone who has given up on himself. You can have a shitty job and no social circle and not be a loser, and you can own a Fortune 500 company and be a total loser. Granted they aren't likely to happen, correlation does occur more with the former than the latter, but the key here is that a loser is someone who defeats themselves before anyone else has a chance to. Because it's safe. Because it's comfortable. Because it's a known quantity. Because it doesn't involve as much work.
/r/seduction11/02/16 01:15 PM
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