SpiritsPath Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
103	There is a confident person inside all of us	Inner Game	SpiritsPath	/r/seduction	04/09/20 05:43 PM
6	Many girls I approach give an excuse that seems like a rejection but they make no move to leave.	Escalation & Calibration	SpiritsPath	/r/seduction	17/08/20 09:41 PM
1	Finished reading Models. thoughts? And what next?	Resources	SpiritsPath	/r/seduction	22/05/20 02:20 AM

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3	What do you do if a girl asks you “Why do you want to get to know me?” Hahaha oh dear! Damn I hadn’t thought how dangerous a territory I was in there 😂	/r/seduction	21/09/20 10:03 PM
18	What do you do if a girl asks you “Why do you want to get to know me?” You look good on the outside. I want to see what you’re like on the inside. Or be playful / joke about it and be like “are you human? Humans do this. Are you an alien?” “I already know everything I need to know about you ;)”	/r/seduction	21/09/20 08:27 PM
3	How do guys feels about girls being nervous when they approach them? Depends on what you mean by “nervous”. If they’re nervous because they’re suddenly in a kinda romantic(?) situation and are a bit flustered, then I don’t really mind at all. I’m nervous too probably. But if they’re nervous as in “I am suspicious of this man and scared for my safety”, it makes me feel pretty bad, even though it’s understandable that a woman can be more suspicious about it etc. But when it’s just assumed that I’m out to do harm it still feels bad because I do my best to show that …	/r/seduction	19/09/20 12:02 AM
2	For all the guys out there if you lock eyes with a girl and she smiles approach her please! Yeah those girls are definitely worth it! :)	/r/seduction	12/09/20 09:33 PM
2	For all the guys out there if you lock eyes with a girl and she smiles approach her please! There was once a girl who looked at me and smiled in a friendly way for a while as she went past. And I went to say hi in a friendly way and she was like “haha noo” when I asked if she fancied a chat 😂 everything is so unpredictable!	/r/seduction	12/09/20 09:16 PM
9	Genuinely curious, why is seduction so important to you? To me, it’s about the potential in life. What things are possible? How many amazing people do you pass every day? How many thoughts and rules that we assume are in place are really false? Is there a truth to romance, love, sex, and dating? For me, it’s less about seduction and more an exploration of romantic and sexual possibilities :). It doesn’t have to consume our every waking thought, but at this point in my life, I do find myself pondering romance and sex a lot, and I think I need to explor…	/r/seduction	08/09/20 07:56 PM
2	There is a confident person inside all of us Hey, I’ll try and answer here but feel free to message. 1) I suppose that’s quite a hard one because it‘s hard to pin down exactly what confidence is. I don’t think anyone can say “I AM confident or I AM unconfident” because people vary drastically depending on the situation and whatever different areas of themselves are confident. E.g. someone who sings very well alone may be confident in their ability to sing, but they can’t get on stage because they’re not confident in their social ability / …	/r/seduction	05/09/20 10:00 AM
3	There is a confident person inside all of us Indeed! Thanks for my very first award :)	/r/seduction	05/09/20 09:15 AM
3	There is a confident person inside all of us Woohoo glad it helped, good luck! Not that you’ll need it ;)	/r/seduction	05/09/20 09:11 AM
2	There is a confident person inside all of us You’re welcome :) yeah it sometimes feels like guide videos make more stress than they help. Because by watching them you’re saying to yourself “I don’t do this well normally” but maybe you do in the right mindset!	/r/seduction	05/09/20 09:08 AM
4	There is a confident person inside all of us You were self assured enough to disagree with me here. That’s some feeling you could cultivate! Some people would find as much worry in the potential of online conflict etc. that they don’t comment or post at all. The majority of reddit users never actually type anything on the platform. But you did. The same way we may feel worried about social shame or whatever else. It’s just typing, and everything else gets easier and more comfortable with time and experience. Maybe there’s something you do …	/r/seduction	04/09/20 11:22 PM
2	There is a confident person inside all of us Well hey, at least you could say you lost a finger to help make you brave enough to meet her 😊	/r/seduction	04/09/20 09:40 PM
1	Many girls I approach give an excuse that seems like a rejection but they make no move to leave. Also, I doubt many people here think only about how WE feel about approaching, and not the women or men we approach. The most common of fears is that we don’t want to make her uncomfortable because most people do have empathy. When I get a bad reaction, and by bad i mean fearful, it makes me feel horrible. It’s worse than being told to fuck off or some sort of aggression. But it’s rare thankfully. We’re not just emotionless sex-seekers. But we cannot deny our own goals and desires. Would we even…	/r/seduction	18/08/20 07:22 PM
3	Many girls I approach give an excuse that seems like a rejection but they make no move to leave. From this post you may think that of me. I tend to err on the side of “anything other than a clear yes is a no”. Even though it’s against what many here would say was a “good strategy”. Similarly against common advice: some of the first words out my mouth are “if you want me to go away, that’s fine and I will.” In this case she said that my presence was fine with no body language showing discomfort. I try to judge how she’s feeling from words and gesturing. And as I alluded to in my post, if i f…	/r/seduction	18/08/20 06:40 PM
1	Many girls I approach give an excuse that seems like a rejection but they make no move to leave. And that’s what I did. And that’s what I assume. That being said, some people will be different to you. It’s always a balancing act between being confident and too pushy. That’s what I’m trying to figure out. I never said she was obligated to do anything, and i prefer not to take a pessimistic view of things. I wasn’t saying she SHOULD stay with me or SHOULD use x body language. I was wondering why she might do what she did. As i guessed from the accusatory tinge, you’re a regular on FDS. Just k…	/r/seduction	18/08/20 05:41 PM
1	Many girls I approach give an excuse that seems like a rejection but they make no move to leave. Yeah that’s a nice perspective to have! Can be hard to remember that things don’t have to be taken seriously. Ig it’s easy to get bogged down in thoughts about “what-ifs” and stuff. Haha I like to try and figure people out though, and think about... just being human, so the behaviour kind of intrigues me.	/r/seduction	18/08/20 12:18 AM
1	How would you like to be propositioned by a woman? Apparently a lot of guys feel weird when a woman approaches them for multiple reasons. So you might have to get used to some strange or maybe even some hostile responses. A lot of guys here would probably appreciate it, me included, but idk for the wider world! In a way, you’re treading mostly unknown territory! Just remember that there’s nothing to be ashamed of in respectfully expressing what you desire! Curiosity and the feeling of openness and being able to easily express my personality are …	/r/seduction	06/07/20 07:03 PM
2	One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 18 Progress Report ( 2 Facebook and 1 Insta close) Negative comments probably won’t stop. Just realise that they don’t understand your world view. Perhaps they can’t believe that any woman would react well to being approached. But we both know that many do, and the rest are mostly indifferent to it. Or it’s because they’re too scared to do it themselves, or they have too big an ego and gave up after being rejected a few times. And so, they can’t stand seeing someone braver than they are, so they have to drag you down. It’s the internet. These pe…	/r/seduction	15/06/20 03:40 PM
2	Always backing out (cold approach) I had (and still sometimes get) the same thing. What helped me was getting in touch with what my body and emotions were telling me. You can really feel the moment where you go from “I’m gonna go for it” to “actually maybe not”. I kinda just accept the state I’m in, kinda nervous and scared, and tell myself that I’m going to continue despite it. Another thing is to be curious about what might happen! Instead of thinking “She IS going to...”, try to think “What IF she is gonna...”. It opens your m…	/r/seduction	14/06/20 12:58 PM
2	One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 8 Progress Report Some of the loveliest people and experiences have been those that seemed the most unapproachable! Headphones in, rushing faster than the wind, looking really stern etc. But it’s all just me interpreting it in that way! They might be a naturally fast walker with resting bitch face. I know i have a severe case of rbf haha, so I try not to assume anything and just go :). It does make me hesitant though. That being said, some of these people just are really nasty! It’s much rarer though, in my exper…	/r/seduction	05/06/20 12:16 PM
9	One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 3 Report Don’t let anyone in the comments discourage you! Well done for doing stuff out of the comfort zone!	/r/seduction	31/05/20 06:57 PM
1	Why isn't there any advice for women to seduce men on this sub? Why do you want to make the man think he initiates? Is it simply how you like things to happen or are you worried that he’d think negatively of you if you were direct? Is it not kinda worrying if a man labels a woman as a slut for being direct and honest? Surely open communication is something both parties would want to feel able to do	/r/seduction	11/05/20 03:33 PM
3	Are some girls / guys really out of your league? It’s subjective. Ask enough people out and you realise it. Leagues exist whilst you believe they do. And even if you can’t believe rn that it’s not subjective , why not just try. It’s just a no. Why let someone else dictate to you what you can and cannot achieve? People who stop you from talking to her have no business doing so and it’s likely coming from their own insecurities. You could even joke about what you know people might be thinking. ”everyone’s telling me not to talk to you but I’m go…	/r/seduction	22/04/20 11:57 AM
2	Is being a male virgin degrading and a inferior trait? I feel like this is one of those things where YOU decide what your reality is. It’s just completely opinion based. Millions of people will judge you for it, yes. Millions won’t care, and millions will like/respect it. Do you see why it’s pointless to worry about it? It’s a strain on your mind which you’re not getting any positive out of, so I’d say get rid of the negativity. Try to realise how big the world is and how complex people are, and that your worth - sexually and as a whole - is in your…	/r/seduction	02/04/20 01:44 PM
1	Is being a male virgin degrading and a inferior trait? Hey, I’m similar in that I didn’t care about love or sex until comparatively late. Do you ever worry that you lack knowledge and experience (not just sexual) compared to others of your age group because you started caring late? How do you deal with it?	/r/seduction	02/04/20 01:37 PM