Spiritual-Ad-271 Archive

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2	If you as a 30 year old man can’t be friends with 18 year old guys you have no business dating 18 year old women Lol. I would hope not. Not likely. How big is the age gap?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/23 06:33 PM
2	If you as a 30 year old man can’t be friends with 18 year old guys you have no business dating 18 year old women I assume you didn't take the job for the sole purpose of dating younger women, so I wouldn''t say it was strategic. But you can see how workplace environments break down these social barriers. Certain industries like restaurants, retail, education, the arts, entertainment, etc. Are notorious for age gap dating because they have these scenarios built into them where people's primary social environment revolves around the workplace which often has extreme age differences in it. When you put a bunc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/23 05:54 PM
5	If you as a 30 year old man can’t be friends with 18 year old guys you have no business dating 18 year old women Was it in the restaurant industry?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/23 03:11 PM
7	If you as a 30 year old man can’t be friends with 18 year old guys you have no business dating 18 year old women Well, that's the problem right there. Lol. If some 30 year old came around and actively tried really hard to start hanging out with you and your friends, it would be really creepy. But...if for some reason, you just happened to know someone who was older based on common interests or something, and you already genuinely liked them, it would be less weird. There's a lot of scenarios where it does happen organically. Could be because of a particular social scene... Think a dj who is popular or a mu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/23 01:19 PM
14	If you as a 30 year old man can’t be friends with 18 year old guys you have no business dating 18 year old women Honestly, this is actually a recommended tactic for older men who actively seek to date younger women. If you can befriend younger men and socialize in the same settings as they do, it validates you as someone within that social circle and any younger women in that circle will feel it's less creepy possibly engaging in a dynamic with you because you aren't seen as an outsider and you've been vetted so to speak by other men. I'm not advocating this position, I'm just saying that it is something t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/23 01:04 PM
2	Which relationship is more likely to work out, a conservative man and a liberal woman, or a liberal man and a conservative woman? I think it really depends on how strongly the two individuals feel about their political views. I am a fairly classic liberal man living with a woman who would identify as a libertarian but is extremely conservative by American standards. She loved Rush Limbaugh, supported maga, etc. It's a struggle and we don't see eye to eye on nearly anything, but we've lived together for over twelve years and we're simply used to each other at this point. I try not to discuss anything political with her, but…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/23 08:59 PM
1	Is there truly someone for everyone? I think most human beings have the probability throughout their lives to find at least a handful of individuals they will connect with in terms of attraction, physical relationship, and potential domestic partnership. On average, it seems most people will have at least a few long-term relationships throughout their lives, with a smattering of less committed and long lasting relationships interspersed throughout. Whether or not any one of those is the actual soulmate concept we've been sold by me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/23 12:36 PM
3	Q4W: Where would you go if you wanted to be approached by guys (and didn't drink)? That doesn't surprise me and on a personal level, I also find that kind of politicizing within a religious institution to be distasteful, regardless of whether it's left/right leaning. But really, it's the sustained community and active involvement with volunteering and positive activities that a house of worship can offer people that is crucial to creating an environment conducive to meeting people open to dating often with long-term mindsets. I only mentioned "liberal" because people who might…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 11:16 PM
1	Q4W: Where would you go if you wanted to be approached by guys (and didn't drink)? The key is to involve yourself with a social group that functions as a community unto itself and revolves around specific interests that are important to you. This allows you to engage in activities that are important to you and showcase your talents or abilities, while interacting with the same group of people regularly so that bonding and attraction can occur within that group. Anything that is of interest to you, whether it be specific literary groups, community gardening, yoga/meditation cla…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 04:49 PM
1	Is virgin shaming common in women groups if one is a virgin at a “late” age? That can certainly be true. If the only opportunity to experience dating or intimacy is through marriage, then if the person doesn't marry early as others in the community do, they run the risk of never having those experiences the older they get.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 04:29 PM
4	Is virgin shaming common in women groups if one is a virgin at a “late” age? Yes. I think there can be many factors and also, fear and anxiety can continue to grow over time until they become debilitating. A woman who is a virgin or has very little romantic experience at age 40 is very unlikely to change those patterns that become instantiated over so long a period of time. For to do so would often be accompanied with great fear and anxiety. Whereas, someone who is 17 can easily move on to another relationship, it's much harder for people to do so the older they get. The…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 03:11 PM
5	Can "intentionally settling" ever work in anyone's favour? I have rarely met anyone who specifically told themselves consciously, "This relationship/job/house is as good as I'll ever get even though it isn't what I really want, so I'm just going to settle for it." I think even when we have unspoken reservations about something or someone, we generally operate from a level of cognitive dissonance that allows us to believe it's what we really want at that time. Even if the person we're dating is largely beneficial to us in a primarily financial capacity, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 03:03 PM
13	Is virgin shaming common in women groups if one is a virgin at a “late” age? In my experience, and based solely on what I've seen in Western cultures, if a woman remains a virgin and has had no romantic or intimate interactions well into later in life, she is usually fairly socially isolated and has few friends. One woman I knew who was a virgin well into her thirties was by nature fairly introverted and spent most of her life being a caretaker for infirm family members. She literally had no friends and had no opportunities to experience what most people experience in th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 01:36 PM
1	A sentient android would be a better wife or husband than a human spouse /r/Replika	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 01:15 AM