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I like this theory. Makes sense to me!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 05:45 PM
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STRONGLY agree. It has been my experience that the people who beat their chest and scream about 'inequality' and the isms the loudest in public are the most hateful and insidious behind closed doors, with no exceptions. I am and have always been somewhere center of left. I cannot stand hard-Leftists. They make me itch.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:06 PM
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They just need an outlet for their frustration. Teenage girls exhibit annoying and destructive/toxic behaviors too. Most of them grow out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:54 PM
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LOL I'd better go tell myself and all of my girlfriends and most of the women my age that I've ever met that we're bucking the 'norm' then :P I don't think I've ever met an OF model in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:53 PM
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That part actually surprises me too. That is not what I would have expected, given how boys behaved when I was a teen. Have times changed that much that fast?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:52 PM
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I don't want to sleep with Brad Pitt - he's not my type. Does that now mean he's unattractive? Really? :P
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:41 PM
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Good for you? lol What is your point, exactly? Me having a privileged life does not somehow mean I am discounting yours and nor does it affect you in anyway. You asked a question, and I answered it truthfully. I never claimed to do more than you do. If the answer bothers you, why are you asking to begin with?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:11 PM
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Other women have already given a pretty good synopsis of it already. I'm very particular about how our home is and what food we eat, so I do all of the house-care (cleaning, tidying) and meal-planning and cooking myself. I don't have to, but it is my preference. Laundry, home-maintenance (things like painting and small DIYs), pet-care, dealing with services (things like HOA, gardener, contractors, appointments, bills, etc). Being a soundboard/advisor for my husband re: work-related projects and …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:05 PM
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She sounds great!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:57 PM
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This. Cleaning, tidying, meal-planning and home maintenance are full time occupations. Many people also have pets who require care, too. It's not all about shopping, gym and nail appointments as OP seems to imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:56 PM
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We do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:53 PM
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I feel like it's easier to dehumanize other people when you're not actually looking at them face to face. You sort of forget that it's another person there, instead of a handle and a snarky comment that gets under your skin. Equally, I've often written a retort that I didn't feel was particularly spicy and the other person reacted as though I had stabbed them. I am not generally a vicious person at all, so that really surprised me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:31 PM
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I'm with you on this one - I'm a woman, and I am neither super traditional nor 'modern.' I actually don't know anybody who is either of those things - none of my girlfriends are into crazy clubbing and all that, but none of them are pinning up their hair and shopping for irons and china either. So where are they getting this from? I have to wonder if these extremes are being heavily suggested by RP content creators as being representative of the norm when they're actually not. I seriously doubt …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:29 PM
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But you didn't, though, because you completely mangled it. I don't need to 'like' or 'dislike' anything - I'm just letting you know that you objectively did not understand, and you clearly still don't. You're the one downvoting, bud. Clearly you're the one with the butt-hurt. Just saying ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:58 PM
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No, we don't. Stop projecting what you THINK women think onto us. You don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:45 PM
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Nobody is calling men horny beasts. Not sure where you're inferring that from. The fact is that men are more motivated by sex and they do things to woo women because they want sex. Women have the thing with which men want to have sex. It's that simple. You don't need to take it so personally and assume everything is a slight or criticism. It's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:40 PM
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I'm sorry you're going to have to translate this for me because I'm not sure what you're trying to say :P
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:38 PM
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Ironically, what they all fail to realize that having this kind of bitterness oozing out of them is so revolting and off-putting that any normal woman who encounters them in real life is going to run a fucking mile as soon as she sees them. They're caught in a toxic self-fulfilling prophecy loop. They're able to spot these mental gymnastics in toxic females, but not in themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:15 PM
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I'm so curious about this wall. I know we're supposed to hit it and turn into evil hags but someone needs to tell the men in real life because they don't seem to have noticed? I am convinced internet men are a different species to the kind I encounter IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:12 PM
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You did not understand my very simple analogy at all. Wow. I literally thought that was bullet-proof but even that was too much :P
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:56 PM
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Oh yes we do. Unless it's rape, women decide when and where and how and whom with the sex happens. Not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:54 PM
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If you were a vegan standing in front of a buffet that consisted only of meat, would that seem like a great option to you too? Women do not want casual sex in the same way that men do. Men want steak and are apoplectic that the woman standing in front of the all you can eat steak buffet isn't eating. She doesn't want steak, that's why. She wants some frigging salad, ok? Why is this so difficult for you (whiny men on this sub) to understand? Yes, not ALL. But MOST. You want sex, we GET IT. But WO…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:36 AM
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Lol as if their downvotes actually matter to me :P I feel sorry for them. I also would like to make it clear for any future readers that I have mostly only ever had very good experiences with men in my personal life. None of them are like this guy. I think men are great. Just not this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:31 AM
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I say it because a man has to decide that he wants to get married - a woman cannot force a man to marry her who doesn't want it. Traditionally, he gets to decide whether or not he will ask for her hand. It wasn't a criticism - it's just an observation. Sure, women can and do propose but it's not really a widely occurring practice. Women gate-keep access to sex. Men gate-keep access to protection and resources, and both are with very good reason. Obviously, there are always exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:22 AM
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PS: I had great conversations. There are a lot of very funny and entertaining and clever men out there. I simply pointed out that there are many other men I didn't speak to because I did not find them interesting or scintillating conversationalists. This is still allowed, even if you don't like it. Shocking, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:21 AM
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I am actually (according to my sister, anyway) pretty witty. I enjoy banter. When I was dating, I would put in effort to get to know people. The point I am making is that if the way dating is set up is that men will pursue, then I don't need to initiate a conversation. I let it be known that I'm open to conversing with him and then see what he does, because men have created this very same social set-up that they're simultaneously complaining about. If men did not do this, we'd have to work harde…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:20 AM
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You can't tell just by meeting a man whether or not he's going to commit. People lie and misrepresent themselves all of the time - both sexes do this. It's easier for women to find casual sex - that's a given. But I strongly disagree that it's somehow easier for women to find men who are willing to commit than it is for men to find women who are worthy of commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:12 AM
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The discussion regarding whether or not you are entitled to more messages from women you want to sleep with is not even remotely comparable to being treated as a human being with rights. Sincerely - and I don't care if I get banned or deleted for saying this, either - Fuck all the way off. Forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:07 AM
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You literally read my comment and then digested none of what I said. I realize my expectations are too high for Reddit, but I find it continually disappointing that so many people here come in with pre-conceived ideas and conclusions that they just refuse to let go of no matter what evidence is presented to them. With your cold dead hands will you ever let go of the ideology to which you cling dear. You just will not accept that men suck sometimes too. That they ignore women they don't find attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:04 AM
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How are you seriously going to compare sending messages on a dating app to the liberation of women and regarding us as whole people instead of as property? Get out of it. Unworthy of a response.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:45 AM
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I don't mind a cold approach (or rather, I didn't, when I was single). But every woman is different, so OP should factor in the context of each scenario and accept the fact that she may or may not be amenable to being approached in such a fashion. I agree that nothing he wrote seems to be offensive. Just depends on the person he's approaching and whether she is open to that or not. But there are also a lot of creeps out there who will literally roll the window down and curb crawl you as you walk…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:19 AM
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I think you should realize and understand that women are individuals and not pets. Act accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:15 AM
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I feel like you're my favorite person on this sub. You pop up everywhere, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:14 AM
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Ok but what material effect will that realistically have on his life? 'Women' are not a monolith. The ones who think that way are not the kind he wants anyway, so isn't it just streamlining the process for him? I fail to see how this is an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:12 AM
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I want to ask why you care what random women on the internet think about your preferences, as though any of their opinions matter or will have any affect on your life, in real life. Do you think I give two hoots what any men here think of my dating preferences that I had in order to find my husband? No. And neither should you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:11 AM
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Christian or conservative dating sites. Church. Temple. Synagogue. Mosque. Charity fundraisers. Country clubs. Nobody tells women where to find rich men, and yet they figure it out. Are you really going to tell me you need someone to tell you where to find what you're looking for? Make a list. Go to those places. Find woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:01 AM
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Get yourself onto a Christian dating site. There are others also that are not religious. If that's what you need then you need to go where they are. I would not go to the dentist expecting to see a doctor, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:17 AM
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But the whole point is that I don't need to, therefore I don't. Why would I do that? It's nonsensical. It is ridiculous to expect that anyone would choose to do something with no return on the action when there is literally no incentive to do so. How are you going to argue that it is something we should do? Based on what? The fact that you want us to? Why are you so important, lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:14 AM
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If that's a frustration for him, why is he trying to marry a woman who isn't also a virgin? This doesn't make sense to me. Nobody is forcing him to marry a woman with more sexual experience than he does. He is not a sexual invalid. He has agency. Why would he not just choose a woman with the same level of sexual experience as him, if that's an issue? He'd be projecting his own issues onto his hypothetical wife instead of taking control of his own life and his own choices. That's unfair to both o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:08 AM
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You accused me of being "cliché" in my answer earlier- If I did, I apologize. I don't remember your handle. I think I have a tendency to come across much more bombastically in text than I actually am in person. That's just how I type. It's not intended to be as 'energetic' as I think you received it. And men don't mind marrying women no matter how negatively it can affects them. - Maybe you should have higher standards. Why don't you? [...] women understand this but deem men as entitled when the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:04 AM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:57 AM
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I wouldn't touch a man who expressed the fact that he was salty about not getting to 'enjoy lots of women.' WTF? Do you not hear how weird and creepy that sounds?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:57 AM
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Nightclubs suck for everyone, tbh. They're just meat-markets and I never enjoyed them. My friends and I all agreed that the best part of the night was always the getting-ready (we loved to dress up) and having some pre-drinks at home before heading out. I don't think men realize how much we don't like clubs either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:44 AM
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Who is 'they?' Are all men one monolithic hive-minded blob too, or just women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:42 AM
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It depends. If a more average looking woman is in a friend-group with a much more attractive woman, it's pretty much a given that 95% of the men in that bar will all be focused on the more beautiful one. I've mentioned this before on this sub but I had a friend at university who was overweight and whenever we would go out this would happen over and over and over again. Men would just ignore her like she wasn't there. It was awkward and uncomfortable for us as her friends (she was/is a truly love…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:40 AM
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Most messages start with, 'Hey, how are you' and ask the same boring, generic questions over and over again. There's only so many times you can respond to that before you get sick of it. If it were the other way around, you'd be the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:35 AM
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He could do all that and not choose to stay or choose to marry her. Those are both active choices the man is making in your scenario. Men have agency, I'm not sure why you're pretending you don't. This reads like fantasy cope, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:34 AM
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Not really. There's a wide chasm between having men thirsting over you on social media and actually wanting to date or marry you and put in anything of themselves into a relationship with you. Men are the ones who gate-keep marriage and who pace the relationship, not women. Once she has granted him sexual access she has to hope he's not going to love her and leave her (if a relationship is what she wants, that is). You're making the classic mistake of looking at this from a male perspective and …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:32 AM
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Someone is not a happy camper, lol. Why does the fact that a woman you don't know and will never meet finds Alan Rickman hot trigger you so badly? Just because you're not having much luck in that department doesn't mean other men struggled in the same way. Personality matters a lot, and clearly you have issues with that. Something to think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:00 PM
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Why are you, a man, telling women who say they find him attractive that they're lying? Lol. Why on Earth would I lie? It's so silly. If he's not your type, it's ok to say so, buddy. You can stick with your boy-band crushes, and I won't judge you for it. We can't all have good taste ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:45 PM
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I first saw him in Sense and Sensibility and I just loved the character, and that will forever and always be how he is associated in my mind. I can also totally see the Jack Black thing. There's just something about a genuinely sweet or funny guy that really does it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:36 PM
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I'm not sure about the friends part (do you really mean NO friends, at all?) but I can assuredly say that if I were interested in someone, I could not care less if another woman is into him or not. That's such a weird thing for a woman to care about, in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:46 AM
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Alan Rickman - a total babe. Hardly a pretty boy. I thought he was so attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:21 AM
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Finally, a post and a comments section with some common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:19 AM
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Bittter Bettttyyyyyyyyy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:09 AM
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I would never live with another woman. Unless you're *extremely* good friends or sisters or something else to that effect, I would not even dream of it. Living with men is easy. They don't care what color you paint the kitchen. They don't care where you put your floral arrangements or your Christmas decor. The only stipulation my Husband made is that we have multi-colored lights on the tree, and I obliged. I love my husband dearly, so I'm not in the unhappy category anyway. But I stand by my ass…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:05 PM
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Who suggested that she could? This is so lazy. For the love of God, man. Can you at least try?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:41 AM
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Nowhere did I say that men only want sex. If the only way you can think to try to win an argument is to deliberately and blatantly misrepresent what the other party actually said, you're simply not worthy of the debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:40 AM
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Women hold a resource that men want and deem to be so valuable, they are willing to spend their resources to acquire it. That resource is sex, and it is a commodity in the same way that money and status are. To deny this is ridiculous. Every other post on this sub is about precisely this, and to suggest otherwise is outright stupid. You missed the entire point of what I wrote, because you've formed a pre-conceived conclusion that you're unwilling or unable to deviate from in order to consider an…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:42 AM
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The woman provides a service that only a woman can provide - which is to bear his children. That is not something any man can do on his own without her genetic material and her womb. How much is that worth? If it's something he cannot physically do for any amount of money, then it's exceptionally valuable. He provides resources. She provides his heirs and his legacy. It's a fair exchange. Housework is a perk.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:50 AM
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Young women bring their sex and their beauty and their youth, which is what YOU want. All men on this sub ever whine about all day long is the fact that they're denied access to these things when they feel entitled to them. If these things were not valuable, you wouldn't be bitching about not having access to them. If these things were things you could get from blow-up dolls or porn, you'd choose those overwhelmingly over real live women. You wouldn't even be concerned with trying to date or hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:39 AM
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Sometimes, more traditionally-minded men with a strong family structure, morals and values are exceptionally attractive, over and above men with more money and height. How many of those are in the West? Western women get continuously lambasted online for how they behave and dress, but yet Western men such as yourself seem to think they have no hand, act nor part in the casual sex/non-traditional culture that's actively eroding the very system you're extolling. How much porn have you personally c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 07:58 PM
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If you're not a woman, how exactly do you know the breakdown of our messages from other men? Just as it is annoying when women denigrate men's unique challenges and experiences, it is irritating when men postulate about ours as though you are somehow privy to what it must be like to be a woman. You are not, and you couldn't possibly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 07:48 PM
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Some might but most will see right through it and become very irritated by it. How do we even know that OP is actually a woman, and not the real woman's sex-addled boyfriend? This could be part of his kink for all we know. Posts like this are just a waste of everyone's time. People honestly need to keep their kink to themselves. It's weird and creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 07:40 PM
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And incredibly unfair and misandrist towards other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 07:38 PM
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Invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:40 PM
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It's not controversial, but it's also not you who decides that, is it? It's the market. That's kind of the whole point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:25 AM
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...if you do say so yourself ;P
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:38 PM
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Men are the ones who set the standard - not women. You get what you accept. Please get a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:37 PM
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It is a perfect correlation. Why are so many people on this sub incapable of basic logical reasoning?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:04 PM
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Yes - that is precisely what I said. Did you read my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:13 AM
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No, sweetie. You're confused by your own personal biases and the severe shifting of the Overton window. Liberals are left. They are not centrists.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:12 AM
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This is a very well-balanced comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:07 AM
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I think this is absolutely a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:06 AM
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Well in that same vein, you could argue that men do, too. A beautiful woman is going to elevate his status irrespective of whether she's college-educated or not. An ugly woman will not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:04 AM
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Because it's easier to relate. It wasn't about money. It was about experiences/mindset/overall values in common. This was exactly how I felt, too. Conversely, I am not a Progressive (actually, I am a Classical Liberal, and my husband is more Conservative) and I still have to agree with u/TSquaredRecovers on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:52 AM
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Blue pill is not Centrist. The Left are nowhere near the center.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:15 AM
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Being a centrist also doesn't mean falling in the middle exactly on every topic, which is another stupid 'argument' I see being made regularly. People love to foam at the mouth online at each other but their positions are very often extreme. Being moderate or more centrist in your leaning simply means you are not an extremist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:14 AM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:12 AM
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That's assuming your vote counts in the way that you think it does. Who donates to their campaigns? Who knows all of their dirty secrets? You and I cannot simply 'run' as a candidate tomorrow. It requires a ridiculous amount of funding. It's a closed pool, and everybody knows it. The people (families) who do, are the ones who really run the show.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:12 AM
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I personally feel that this is purposeful, to undermine the overall cause. I do not believe that the big donors for these people had honest intentions and I do not believe they meant to bolster and uplift the communities they pretended to care about. I think it was done to sow further resentment and division.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:09 AM
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This is the kind of comment thread I thought this whole sub would be about when I joined. This is so much more interesting than the daily whinging about why women won't sleep with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:07 AM
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Ooh, a downvote. Nerve touched, I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:21 AM
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I'm not triggered at all. I have opinions, and I shared them, like everybody else. My style of delivery is my style of delivery - your perception is your perception. You seem to be the one who is particularly bothered by me, not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:20 AM
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I didn't string two men along at the same time. You seem to have major difficulties with following basic comment threads - do you struggle with your reading comprehension?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:19 AM
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No, that's never happened to me personally. I actually was in the position of having to turn down one man to see another and I felt so awful about it I never did it again. I didn't even do it on purpose - you on the other hand, are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:59 AM
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Dude your post is literally titled with a question. Are you deliberately being obtuse or...? Asking for dating tips and tricks is asking for advice. If any of those women were doing this to you or any other incel on this forum, you'd be whinging about it and saying they're stringing you along. These women are not your girlfriend, dude. You haven't pinned down any of them. You're here, talking about optioning women as though they're cattle as though you're even successful at this. Irony is totall…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:58 AM
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Using two women at the same time as 'options' quite literally means you care about neither of them. This is very basic. They're simply a number to you, and you couldn't care less about them as people so long as they can fulfill YOUR need for sex and attention. You are in deep denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:53 AM
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But aren't you just reinforcing my point? If you're not ok with it, and you find out a month or three in, wouldn't that change your perspective on that person dramatically? Would you be ok with the fact that they concealed it from you? Would you continue to date them? According to you, 'most other humans' don't want to date someone with those issues. So it's kinder to the affected person if they disclose from the jump, is it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:28 PM
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Then you need to stop picking flaky women. Pick better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:26 PM
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...if it's worked out so well, why are you still on internet forums years later asking for advice on dating strategies? Where is your girlfriend or wife? I rest my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:25 PM
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Take a walk. Learn to read. Learn to understand that 'you' can be used both for a specific person and in the general sense. And then accept that I have no intention of reading your long-winded whinge of a rant, and nor do I care about your opinion. I am happily married, and I'm doing just fine. I am not a misandrist. Sorry. I know you need someone to hate to justify your own lack of achievement in life, but that's your issue. Sucks to be you, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:17 PM
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Oh no, I took it in jest as you meant it. You aren't the focus of my annoyance - it was OP. I'm sorry if it came across that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:32 AM
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It works when you actually care about the woman you're asking out and not looking to see how much sex or care or attention you can extract out of her. That's the part you're missing. Egalitarian's husband was clear about his intentions from the get-go because he wanted her and only her. And she wanted him. You're missing the most important part of what she wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:31 AM
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Sure it's hilarious - unless both of those poor women actually show up and then one is left wondering what the hell happened. He doesn't seem too concerned about the women and their feelings at all. Like so many men on this sub - if you don't even LIKE women, why are you bothering us? Find a hobby or get a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:29 AM
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It depends on the woman, doesn't it? But instead of being fearful about a bad reaction, you could just think of it like this: you can't un-autism the autism out of you. It will always be a part of you. Wouldn't you rather know earlier rather than later whether or not the woman will judge you or bail on you for it? You're better off knowing on the first date than after a few where you've become more emotionally invested. Also, it doesn't have to be a big deal. You could just bring it up casually …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:27 AM
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Are you asking women out whom you actually like, or are you literally throwing things at the wall and seeing what sticks? Because that's what it seems like. If you're literally just trying to get ANY woman, I guess this might work. Maybe. If you're actually trying to find a woman that you are compatible with, attracted to and who shares your goals and values, then this is a terrible strategy, and you'll only feel hollow and unsatisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:22 AM
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Women are not attracted to older men Yes, we are. You are not all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 08:45 PM
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It depends entirely on the person, and on the size of the age-gap. There is a huge difference between having a 10 year age gap (as is the case in my marriage) and a 25 or 35 or 45 year age gap. I married for love, have never cheated and would never cheat. Please speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 08:44 PM
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And then punish that poor woman for being the only one to deal with him whilst having committed the mortal sin of simply not being the woman he really wanted. How many of these men are absolute dicks to the few women who are actually prepared to entertain them? Quite a few.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:46 PM
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Get a cat,
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:44 PM
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Well if it makes you feel any better, I personally feel that men get exponentially better looking in their 40s and onwards, where women don't (I'm a woman). There's just a way that men age in that specific decade that's so attractive to me. I'm not the only one either. You have all of that to look forward to, if you're not there already.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:39 PM
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she didn't say no because she was afraid of his reaction" "she was in a fight or flight mode" "she was raised to please" "she was very shy" "she froze" These are not 'awkwardly undisclosed behaviors' for a small group of women. This is HOW women are socialised. You're attempting to conflate two totally different things in order to continue to play victim and get attention from women and/or commiserations from similarly frustrated men on this sub. Stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:34 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:34 PM
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Specs? That's your problem. Women aren't cars. You will still be single this time next year, guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:33 PM
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Nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:13 PM
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I think it just hasn't occurred to you that other people are not missing what you clearly are, and so are capable of being happy and in love with their spouse over the long-term. You sound extremely selfish and immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:11 PM
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It amazes me that people just cannot see grift when it's staring them right in the face. Men pride themselves on being rational and logical and not driven by their emotions - and yet this fool plays them like a fiddle whilst they *allow* him to manipulate their emotion, frustration and despair for his own personal profit. It's incredible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:07 PM
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Damaged people seek out other damaged people. Healthy ones do not. If a woman like that is 'hot' to you, then you are also damaged. Sorry to be the one to break it to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:04 PM
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'Hot' according to whom? It's a well-known ism on subs just like this that men's standards are apparently a lot lower than women's are for physical beauty. Have you considered that maybe your picker is broken? Because it sounds to me like you have a particular woman in mind who didn't choose you and you're salty over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:03 PM
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Women looking to date the kind of 'handsome' men you're describing (e.g: the ones with 'Red Cross Syndrome') are themselves deeply damaged. Well-adjusted, well brought-up and happy women with no childhood trauma or Daddy issues do not look for emotionally stunted men. That is a myth, and you need to get over it. Men make up the most ludicrous nonsense on this sub to cope with what they just don't want to hear. You don't want to put the work in. You just want to stamp your foot and complain. You …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:00 PM
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Then I'd suggest the problem lies with you. Women want what they want. If you don't have a requirement in that area, that doesn't mean we have to drop ours.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:56 PM
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Then to borrow another favorite phrase for chronically online men: Choose better. It's your fault if you choose the wrong wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:54 PM
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This. What they actually are whining about is that they can't have THIS.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:52 PM
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VoteReplyShareReportSaveFollow Forcing a woman to live in your level four with you is absurd. You don't live in your car. Comparing the two is just ridiculous. If you want to be dirty, be dirty on your own. No woman is going to tolerate that, unless she is also a slob.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:50 PM
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But they'll still describe women as being like literal children, incapable of making any kind of rational decisions for ourselves. Not one of the men saying stuff like this online is in ANY way masculine or manly enough to attract any kind of 'ideal' woman he thinks exists out there. She simply wouldn't want him, and they just won't accept it. It's all women's fault that he can't find his Helen; never his for simply being inadequate in the first place. It's so irritating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:48 PM
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I think a compromise could be had here. No fault divorce = automatic no alimony. At fault = possibility of alimony. Child support should always be given but it should be reasonable and the father has a right to paternity tests if he wants them. I think that's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:45 PM
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Why on earth would any woman take that deal? She can't rear her children, her salary goes to daycare for another woman to take care of them, just so you can have your cake and eat it too? Dude just admit you want it all your own way. You see women as tools to be used for your own ends. You should not be marrying anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:43 PM
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Ok but what photos did you use? If you used photos that reflect those stats I'd be amazed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:00 AM
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Top percentile men have always had access to the top percentile of women. This has not changed with modern times.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 04:00 AM
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Male models and movie stars are not chasing down morbidly obese women, which is the point. I think you missed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:52 AM
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This one woman as an individual might have been better. That does not mean women as a whole are 'better.' It's not an 'uncomfortable truth.' You're taking your own anecdotal evidence, and combined with your own selective biases have determined a universal 'truth' that somehow encompasses every woman and man. This is the same ridiculous logic that extreme Red-Pill ideology uses to denigrate women and postulate the general superiority of men. How can you not see the issue with this? I have to beli…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:45 AM
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But also once she's given him the casual sex he asked for and wanted she's actually too easy and that means she's not wife material because now all of a sudden he has 'standards' that she doesn't meet (despite the fact that he himself doesn't meet them either, but hey-ho).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:20 AM
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This whole post is dripping with misandry. It's gross. Women are not superior to men. Men are not superior to women. We are simply different. Different, but equal. To openly state that you believe women are not only superior across the board but that they'll take most of their roles away from them is both ludicrous and obnoxious. NOBODY can replace men, any more than anybody can replace women. Men are needed as fathers, as brothers, as role-models. Men are needed for their strength, bravery and …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:13 AM
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All women are different. They are entitled to feel however they feel about this, and you are not owed an explanation or an apology for it. If Patrice is fine with being approached but Jessica is not, that's their prerogative. What's your complaint?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:38 AM
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Dudes are frustrated about being expected to literally do what men are supposed to be doing? Don't these same dudes talk about how everything good in society was created by men and that men lead and women are incapable of it? How are women supposed to simultaneously submit/follow your leadership AND be the ones doing the gallivanting and courting of men they actively pursue? How in any universe are you going to argue that that's a fair and reasonable expectation? You don't even put that expectat…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:34 AM
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Even then, they're still choosing wrong because she's supposed to know whether all he wants is sex or not and she should just say no because it's her job to control the relationship but also if she doesn't sleep with him she's bad and she'll die alone. Or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:31 AM
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To be really honest, I actually believe that they rubbish the things publicly they are most attracted to privately. Otherwise, why would they expend SO much energy bloviating about what they don't like about a woman? It seems like a lot of effort to me, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:28 AM
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I know very little about either of them but I do know she was married before. Divorce rates skyrocket for people on their second and third marriages. That's the unfortunate truth. Stats don't lie. So the chances of it working out were low to begin with, either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:12 PM
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Just because the media makes it seem that way, does not mean all women think that way. In fact, it's often not the case. Just as it's not the case that most men are players and cheaters. If they lie about you, they can also lie about women. Think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:10 PM
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Sorry, just in case I missed something here - do you expect that women should just put out for you because you exist...or? The level of entitlement is off the charts. Bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:56 PM
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There are so many mid-size kings out there too. Online makes it seem like the only options available are 6ft+ and 5'4" when it comes to men. That's so weird to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:26 AM
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I'm generally not very picky with who I fuck, You should be. It's called self-respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:24 AM
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Right but eventually we get sick of listening to it and attempting to engage with them. And when they successfully drive all of the women away from this sub with the constant repetition of the same nonsense over and over again, they'll whine and say, "See! ALL WOMEN ARE BAD." It's obnoxious that they don't see this. How are you* going to tell me a sob story and expect empathy about your* inability to find a woman to be with when this is how you* behave around the women who do interact with you* …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:20 AM
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Wow. What a peach.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:13 AM
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You can have three of those things without ever having a woman. This is what men here just don't (or wont) acknowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:12 AM
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I really feel like this should be permanently pinned to the top of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:10 AM
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Secondly- I wasn't referring to their PHYSICALITY. Clearly, I'm going to have to spell this out for you. It doesn't seem to have occurred to you that you're going for the same type of woman, *irrespective of what she physically looks like*. The common theme here is your poor judgement. Personal accountability. Learn some.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:30 AM
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Who is victim-blaming? Asking you a mere question is not tantamount to that. For the love of God.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:28 AM
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If they're saying it (knowing that it's false) in order to rig an outcome from which they are the main beneficiary, then yes. It's coercive, manipulative and shitty behavior and we see right through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:22 AM
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I'm just curious; why does an arranged marriage gross you out? It's just pre-selection from a pool of suitable women by people who know you the best (and already love you/are going to be looking out for your best interests). From what I have read, people who do it tend to do actually very well in arranged marriages. Do you mind elaborating on your reasoning? I'm genuinely interested in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:46 AM
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I agree with this. I'm married, and I like being married, but being married doesn't define me. I think having your own hobbies and interests and doing all of the things you described are things everyone should be doing. They're healthy for you. Whether you do find (or want) a partner or not, your relationship with yourself is so important.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:38 AM
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Side note too, Without internet, video games, porn, drugs, etc the significant amount of incels may react with violence. Would they? I kind of wonder if a lot of the bitterness is not just caused by online-induced FOMO? I think the internet worsens and perpetuates incel behavior/misogyny; not the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:29 AM
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I mean, lab rats behave differently when you expose them to different conditions. They behave totally differently in captivity vs. nature. We are now in an age where a good deal of our interactions with one another are online via platforms like this rather than in-person meetings and discussions. That's a significant and very recent development and it's already had a huge impact on how we relate to one another. I'd argue we're not really in our natural environment anymore. We are social creature…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:27 AM
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Has it occurred to you that the type of woman you're pursuing is the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:23 AM
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I'm of the opinion that you attract what you are. If he's getting through that many women, it's no surprise this is the kind of woman he keeps finding. There are billions of women on the planet, but apparently the fifty he's dated (?) are all it takes to form an opinion on our 'universal' behavior? I've never cheated on anybody. I never would.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:22 AM
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All of this. I'm not the world's most amazing chef (I follow a recipe well; not naturally gifted) but cooking for my husband/family and being able to make sure they're getting proper nutrition actually brings me a lot of joy. I really love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:45 AM
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Men are not generally into actually fat women. The ones who are are in a very tiny niche comparative to the rest of the male population. Men in general are however, hardwired to be attracted to a higher body-fat percentage on women than would be acceptable on men. That's because sex is a function necessary for procreation, not just for pleasure. We are designed to ensure our own survival by continuing to procreate. We all have those basal instincts for this reason and this reason only. Men act o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 08:24 PM
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It is absolutely true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 08:15 PM
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Because men have higher levels of testosterone and it is their biological instinct to pursue women. It is women's biological instinct to restrict access for seletive mating. ***Obviously*** Why do people pretend that the answer is so much more complicated than it actually is?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 08:15 PM
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Home-cooked always tastes better than frozen meals and most take-out too (in my opinion). It's not always possible but it's definitely my preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 08:09 PM
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Men on this forum are so full of BS. You seem to love to pretend that women are all horrible and mean to saintly self-endorsed 'nice guys' who are just so morally superior and would never do wrong by a woman. Give me a break. Men constantly judge women for every aspect of their personalities and appearances all day long and reject them for those reasons with some made-up nonsense to cover for it. She's too fat. She's not thick enough. She's too tall. She's too this. She's too that. If a man thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:41 PM
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I think you're pretty spot on with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:26 PM
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When we say that, it's not the real reason. The real reason is that we're not attracted to him. It's very plain and simple. Men do exactly the same thing to women and call it something different.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:34 AM
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I once matched with a guy who was very good-looking on a dating app. He turned out to be extremely low in self-esteem and was bordering on obsessive right out of the gate. This guy was just...I did not expect that behavior from someone as attractive as he was and it really freaked me out. I reported him to the app within half a day and blocked him. So I think it depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:00 AM
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I mean...they can get 'a' wife, sure. But can they get one who actually loves them?Can they get a woman who would stay even if they lost everything? Or who cares about them as a human being? If you can't, then having all of that money just to bag a hot wife who doesn't love you or care if you drop dead tomorrow so long as she is taken care of is kind of pointless. I don't think this is a flex at all. It's actually quite sad, and it shows a weakness in all of these men. Money can rent access to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:23 AM
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I think this brings up a very interesting point, which is marketability. If more people understood that marketing oneself well (in a manner tailored towards the sort of mate one is seeking) is a vital part of a successful dating strategy, we'd have a lot fewer posts on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:18 AM
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Not to get all hippy-dippy on you for a minute but I genuinely believe you can create the future you want. If you decide you're going to have the best life ever and you're going to meet somebody amazing, then you will. That is what I did and it was very quick and easy. Commenters here often describe women's 'value' here in terms of their looks/youth, and mens in terms of their wallet and height, etc etc - and that can be true. Those are valuable currencies in the dating market. But there are als…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:14 AM
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I have often wondered how some women stomach it. I personally couldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:56 AM
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Agree strongly with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:30 AM
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No. Absolutely not, not under any circumstances. And I'm totally comfortable in admitting that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:55 AM
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Clearly, you do. The original post made the same claim, and you had no problem with that. You're simply angry that a woman countered with the obvious logical outcome of such an argument and it didn't suit you. Perhaps *you* should learn to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:12 AM
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Oop, someone's triggered :P Russell Brand is also considered attractive by millions of women. He is a multi-millionaire. He's also a man-whore with dubious morals. I wouldn't touch him with a bargepole. You still have no argument. Stay mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:09 AM
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Nothing is ever impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:31 PM
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I'm sorry - I didn't mean it as a personal attack, but a defense of other women. I'll behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:46 PM
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This analogy has so many holes in it I'm surprised you can't see it. The correct analogy in that scenario would be to make video talking about how women IN THAT COUNTRY should be lucky to receive attention from you, since she'd be competing with 20 other women of the same group. Not women in the home country who already don't even know you're alive. Why on earth would you think that yours made sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:42 PM
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I'm not sure why most of the men here are here when clearly they belong on TRP sub. Maybe this is the only direct interaction they can get with women so they can hurl abuse at us. They love to talk about entitlement and yet so many of them act entitled to attention, sex and love from women that they haven't earned? I cannot believe some of the things they say and write about women. My father would never. My brothers would never. My husband would never. It's outrageous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:39 PM
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I think the fact that he casually described women as 'cum socks' should tell you everything you need to know about this person's ability to reason. How disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:34 PM
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Ok but let's say you're the 10th guy (I don't mean you personally, I mean you in the general sense) - you still wouldn't win her. So does it matter whether there are 10 or 1000?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:33 PM
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This. Ugly men aren't necessarily nice or kind. Thats a myth and a lie we've all been told.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:29 PM
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It would depend. Harvey Weinstein is a millionaire, is he not? Come on, now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:27 PM
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That wasn't the premise of the original post, which was written by a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:26 PM
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OP is the one who stated that 95% of men are only looking for sex. Women who commented in response simply pointed out that if that were true, we shouldn't be blamed for then choosing the ones that are most attracted to since none of them offer anything else. In reality, we are aware that most men are decent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:25 PM
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Thank you! I'm happy to see you doing well too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:40 PM
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I disagree. I've had the pleasure of knowing many men who are wonderful human beings as well as strong and disciplined leaders. It is noticeable that the ones who are doing well are not spending their time criticizing or being angry at the opposite sex for imagined transgressions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:36 PM
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Oh, I'm not humbly bragging at all - I'm straight up telling you we have the life you claim you're entitled to, and we have it because my husband is a better man than YOU. Not because I am better than other women. Other women are not and never have been my competition, and any man who puts them down for making different life choices than me is automatically repulsive. My husband would NEVER have said or written what you did. That's the whole entire point you are incapable of grasping. Take your …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:32 PM
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I wouldn't say anything at all, because it's nothing to do with me. I personally feel that neither men nor women should have high body counts, because it damages your ability to bond over what should be an intimate expression of love. I am not however, in the business of insulting anybody unless they decide to be nasty to me first. In other words - unless you're being a dick, I keep my mouth shut when I don't have something positive to say. Maybe instead of assuming what I think you should accep…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:27 PM
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You seem to be very unhappy and rage-filled, Jay. You don't seem to really understand anything that hasn't been drip-fed to you in an IV by a podcast bro. You're so blind to this that I pity you. I am married to a man in the 1% and I'm currently sitting in the home he bought for us. I love on that man from the minute he walks in the door. I do whatever I please whenever I please and as far as I am concerned, whatever he asks for, he can have. I AM the woman Red Pill bros fantasize about. I'm you…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:22 PM
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Maybe you could look at it from a different perspective. Had you had more luck in your twenties when you were more gullible and more likely to be taken advantage of yourself, you could have fallen for an unsuitable woman and been in a huge mess as a result of that. Divorce would be a prime example of how that could have ended terribly for you, both financially and emotionally. However, now you are a little older (but still young, really, in the grand scheme of things) and wiser you will not fall…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:07 PM
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Who cares if they shame you? If the younger marriage-minded woman are willing and consenting and want to date you, then you should. My husband is 10 years older than me. I am from a traditional culture where it's normal. My Dad is older than my mom. My preference right from the beginning was always for a man to be at least 5 years older than me. My sister's boyfriend is also older. We don't find this weird at all. No-one else's opinions matter in this regard but your own, so why even give them c…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:01 PM
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Literally who said that? You're projecting. EVERY woman is not that one woman who hurt you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:43 PM
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I think a lot of things get better for both sexes as you age, in the sense that you're far less concerned with other people's opinions and you're more confident in yourself and your beliefs/opinions/body/looks, etc. Confidence does go a very long way when it comes to succeeding socially, whether that's with dating or just making new connections and friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:41 PM
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Well your brain is still forming and developing until you're in your late twenties, so I think there's something to be said for this. That kind of loneliness probably does significantly impact young men emotionally and mentally. The issue is, what can be done about it? Men need companionship and connection just as much as women do but I think they're often not as well-equipped to be able to seek that out as we are from a biological perspective. It also doesn't help when men's issues are often ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:38 PM
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I think this is pretty spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:30 PM
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I think this is somewhat true, but not always. I would never (and have never) openly approach a man first. I am from a very traditional background and it would be considered weird to do that. *However* - I think women do actually initiate in other ways that let men know it's safe to approach, if we really think about it. It could be a smile or a glance or deliberately getting up and doing a walk around the room (IYKYK) to make sure he sees you. Like the proverbial handkerchief dropping on the gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:30 PM
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Maybe you just have a more introverted personality type than the other guy. It doesn't mean you're boring, you're just more reserved or you have different interests. Comparison is the thief of joy. There are thousands of women out there who would probably find you far more exciting to be around than the other man - but if you're fixating on this one woman and what she likes, you're going to be frustrated and disappointed if that's not you. The other guy isn't worse than you because he's 'ugly' a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:23 PM
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Hold on. If women are meant to submit to men's leadership, why are women also somehow responsible for men's actions and behavior? How do none of you ever see such glaring inconsistencies in your thought processes? They don't make sense. Either men are the leaders or they're not. Either women are meant to be submissive or they're not. You can't have it both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:18 PM
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I think you're missing the entire point. If the majority of men are only looking for sex (as per OPs statement), then there is literally no benefit to giving less attractive men a shot. Why would we? If 95% of men only want sex, then may as well only go for the ones who do it for us. To do otherwise would be stupid, wouldn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:15 PM
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I agree with this. I'd also like to point out that if you're in great shape it's not just about the look but also what it says about you as a person. It suggests discipline, work ethic, dependability, organization, health, etc etc etc. It also says you value yourself highly and prioritize your health. All of those are very attractive qualities. And all men can benefit from being associated with those qualities, irrespective of the factors they can't change, like height and build. You are absolut…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:03 PM
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Well that's the thing - we aren't bothered by it. YOU are. We are telling you repeatedly that the kind of men who want to date younger women aren't the kind of men we're looking for, so we don't care. You're insisting that we do. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:47 PM
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A lot of chronically online men don't seem to understand this. It doesn't matter what age you are; it doesn't actually even matter what you look like. If you're a woman, you will be hit on. If you happen to be particularly pretty, it's an even more common occurrence. They just can't imagine it, because they've never experienced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:46 PM
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And those men are a vanishingly small percentage of the male population, yet your initial comment spoke of it as though men in general get more attractive or attractive enough to 'get a 20 something.' You are not in this percentage, that much is clear. So what you exhibiting here sir, is facetious cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:37 PM
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I think you're falling into the same trap that so many men do which is assuming that women think the same way you do. We are not "inviting" you to check us out and flirt with us. We are simply existing. I have had men literally shout out to me across an entire store because I happened to accidentally make eye-contact. I have had men follow me down the street trying to talk to me when I literally was wearing a pair of jeans and a sweater. I have been cat-called, followed, popped up on outside my …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 10:21 PM
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This is what I don't understand. I see and hear a lot of men admonishing women for their "choices" and the condescendingly telling them they "should have picked better" when they are single mothers, for example. Single mothers get a lot of abuse in red pill communities. But then they also make posts like this where they're baffled that they couldn't make a woman change just because they're in a relationship with her. Maybe men should learn to pick better, or pick what they're actually looking fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 10:08 PM
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It's true. I think that's because there is a lot of mystery surrounding childbirth still. Nobody really tells you anything about it so it's left up to you to just figure it out. To me it's the scariest thing imaginable and I'd imagine for a lot of us it's the same. It's a really life-changing event from a purely physical perspective. Many, many women go through traumatic births and are not believed when they say they're in pain or something is wrong. Even with modern medicine it's still one of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:25 PM
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Yep. Pure rage-bait. Most of the time I ignore, but sometimes, I have time :P
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 09:15 PM
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I wonder if he'd feel the same way if it were his body/life on the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 09:14 PM
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I wonder if there will ever be the kind of technology or medicine to where a woman in this situation could have her whole uterus explanted with baby inside and have the pregnancy continue on via artificial support whilst she gets on with her treatment. You can currently retrieve and store eggs prior to chemo but you can't preserve an ongoing pregnancy. If this were an option and I were ever to be in this horrible position I'd choose the explantation/artificial support situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 09:13 PM
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I feel it should be pointed out here that it's not only assets which are divided 50/50 in community property states. All debt acquired during the marriage is also split 50/50. So if the husband accrues credit card debt during the marriage, it's her debt too, and she will have to pay half. We never hear them mention that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:16 AM
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I see we've migrated from no-name sociological studies (that according to you, support your point but somehow still can't be referenced) to dating app statistics. Dude if a point slapped you on the forehead you wouldn't know what one was. You can't go toe to toe with me. You can't even bring the basics.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:03 PM
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There are, on the contrary, countless studies that show women desire, seek out and are enriched by intimate social relationships of all natures, and no, dear incel, they are not sexual. Women's brains are not the same as yours. Women don't have the same testosterone levels as men, and women's sexual desires and desire for sexual intimacy are different than men. Vastly different. This should be basic, but I see we are not paying with the full shilling today.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:41 PM
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Are you seriously trying to frame your bud's baseless, self-projecting assertions regarding women's wants and desires and experiences as being somehow legitimate solely because you are unable to properly read and understand the "every sociologiocal study on the subject" you have conveniently omitted to include in this 'rebuttal?' I realise this is Reddit, but dear Lord. I'd expect there to be SOME standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:39 PM
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We are different, we are telling you how we are different, and yet still you continue to bulldoze on telling us how we think and behave as though you know better. We are not YOU. We did not hurt you. When we say what our experiences are, they're just as legitimate as what you claim yours are. You don't get to tell women what they think just because that happens to parallel with what you personally want to believe. You just come across as being bitter and wrapped up in your own feelings. Are you …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:47 PM
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