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Doom scrolling at its finest
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:20 PM
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How would you know if most people you meet are virgins or not? You're going to be branded as a weirdo for asking random people this. I'm not sure where you are from but I have never heard someone say having sex makes you a good person. If anything there are cultures that'd put you in an undesirable light.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:14 PM
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The whole masculine energy and femine energy comes across as the RP version of astrology/crystals
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:45 PM
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Nope, I don't want to be a stay at home Mom nor am I interested in an open relationship let alone a one-sided one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:08 AM
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Run, the long term consequences of a 10 on one fight which would likely just end up in a group beat down isn't worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:48 PM
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Pretty sure the Prince of Eygpt answered this in a very catchy song
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:43 AM
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I mean if he is waiting for marriage wouldn't he want someone with similar values? Realistically speaking tho I don't think to ask the men that I know of they've ever had romantic or intimate experiences. It'd be weird to just bring it up. They come to me asking advice from time to time but over all its not the main topic of group conversation. I think one was 28 when he had his first time and we were more suprised then anything. But he was painfully shy, did a very male dominated degree at a sm…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:41 AM
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I want to know my partner is able to do their own chores and take care of themselves. I've met men who lived at home and couldn't do their own laundry. Lack of life skills just isn't attractive to either gender
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:52 AM
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Probably 30 if I was taking a guess where I'd be likethats abit odd. But also context is important, is chastity important to him and he's waiting until marriage? Fair enough my guy. We're they in a mostly male dominated university program where they focused more on school? It happens, pandemic made dating really difficult for a couple years so that didn't help either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:46 AM
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Has he been tested for STIs? This is a question I had for all my partners body count didn't have a bearing on it. But yeah his body count wouldn't bother me. I genuinely don't care enough to even ask. If I was looking for a fling and that's what he also wanted cool. If he was looking for only a fling and I wasn't why would I date him? We want different things
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:11 PM
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All depends if you end up with snow down the back of your coat 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:42 AM
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Wait are roofs not peaked so that the snow just slides off or you can whack it to get alittle avalanche going? Snow removal is a 2 person job at least if you want it done at a decent time, one working the blower the other shoveling the parts the blower can't reach.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:13 AM
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How many fights is OP getting into that this is a concern?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:09 AM
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I started doing it more after I started hiking and joined the military. Hiking is because the views are fantastic and fuck yeah I just climbed 5000 feet and the view is great I want to look back on it when when old. The military aspect was you make great friends but you never know when someone is going to be gone forever. It's nice going back into my photo albums when I'm missing people that deployed, got posted out or otherwise. I've lived a really good life and sometimes it's nice to visually …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:35 AM
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Photos became alot more important to me after joining the military, and picking up hiking as a hobby. Not every moment needs to be staged and photographed but give your friends your camera and tell them to pass it around and have fun. The results are great. These moments in time are really nice to look back on after everyone has been posted out or deployed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:29 AM
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That's really interesting. I started taking candidates of my guy friends with my dslr and eveb just having them do silly poses. Gave myself and some othe rdemale friends free reign of setting up their dating profile and they had all mentioned a significant up tick in matches. Mind you it was only 3 dudes we did that for
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:25 AM
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It's determined by a provincial/state calculator, my guy. Spousal support is determined the same way in my province
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:59 PM
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Is child support not an assumed given in the event of a break up and one parent becomes primary?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:57 AM
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Except plenty of women in their thirties and beyond are getting married
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:55 PM
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Same ones that sit around getting made about hypothetical women's body count. Scroll through this sub there's tons of post about how women will hit the wall, and that's why they shouldn't be so picky. It's weird
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:15 PM
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Itd also give me doubts of his fidelity. I'd think he's projecting from his own actions
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:29 PM
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An unhappy household is not a healthy upbringing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:26 PM
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This is something that should be brought up and discussed when family planning. Same discussion time as what do you do if you get pregnant. Id be offended and mad if my spouse, whom I had been trying for kids with asked for one after the fact. Its saying they think I would not only cheat on them but pass another person's kid off as theirs. There isn't a way that isn't insulting. Now if it was back when I was just casually dating or even if it accidental pregnancy I would be more open to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:08 PM
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There's cheating and then there accusing someone of trying to commit paternity fraud along with cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:56 PM
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Listen, looking like an idiot is fine. it's how you react to it. Getting flustered or self conscious because some asks you to move a way or switch an angle is not it, just roll with it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 01:54 AM
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Has it been successful in practice ? I have no problem asking my partner to do something or change an angle durring sex. They get flustered when they aren't experienced, soomeone who is is more go with the flow. My personal experience and preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 01:27 AM
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Sex doesn't require a PHD. But men that have been with women and understand different personal preferences typically come from more experienced men. That's my experience, I don't speak for everyone else. But personally someone who can't take some sort initiative in the bedroom isn't my cup of tea and the in my experience is less experienced people. That being said what works for me and my preferences does not negate others feeling differently
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:57 PM
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Well if you think women are garbage thats probably why you turn them off you. Personally I wasn't interested in someone who was completely new to the female anatomy because I didn't want to walk them through every step.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:14 PM
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Wait so is sex with Chad not sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 10:36 AM
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Idk man my friend group is pretty open about how frequently they personally want it. From me and my friends who are also women seem to agree the desire for sex ebs and flows through out the month as their hormones fluctuate. It also is impacted by the state of the relationship. Plenty of women want their partner and shouldn't be called liars for saying so.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:34 AM
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Haha women want sex and do infections initiate hook ups on their own. Are you on something? This seems more unhinged than normal for you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:29 AM
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We split according to income, but also chores get divided by free time. Who ever is home more takes on more of the choreload. It varies week to week but has worked well for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:33 PM
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Poop hole loop hole
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 01:09 AM
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Husband is the same height as me. Makes more, we treat eachother as equals. Whoever is more suited to the situation at hand takes the lead when necessary. I'm the one to send a meal back if something is wrong or coordinate with other people to get tasks done. Who ever is home first makes dinner, the other does the dishes. We are eboth pretty good at doing tasks for household chores that need doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 12:02 AM
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Was he tested after his last partner? Does he expect to be able to still have sex with men while we are together? Honestly, as long as he has been tested and is on the same page for sex acts/ kinks, then I don't really care. I'd have the same expectations as I would any of my previous long term partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 01:58 AM
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Blow to the ego I think would best fit it I guess. But it's still also not the end of the world. OP put way too much gravity towards the scenario. That being said when saying something is a woman's biggest fear it shouldn't be a shock when they talk about things they are actually afraid of.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:06 AM
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The imaginary boogeyman when I shut off the lights in my kitchen and head to bed ranks higher than a pump and dump. OP is being wild
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:02 AM
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A snake hiding in a Porta potty waiting to bite me while I'm trying to squat while holding mt breathe . Also ending up I'm a ditch.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:33 AM
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If you're being fiscally responsible wouldnt you prefer someone with a similar mind set? Obviously financial security is more important than a random hook up. If you're at the point in a relationship where finances are coming up investing for a future should be more important than fancy toys if that's what you value. -which I don't think is wrong for the record.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 04:39 AM
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If you're following influences I guess. I mainly post hikes I do, and I gues to a random peeps they look expensive but aim 5 hours from the roubtains and a hostel $50 for an over night 🤷🏼‍♀️ doesn't take a ton of money to do. It's either that or group bbqs my friends do. We all pitch in so the cost is like $7pp. Most of my friends IG are pretty similar. Beer league softball, nice photos of lunch with friends maybe a cat they see on the street. I really think it comes down to the media you consum…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 04:36 AM
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People that don't want kids are doing their maybe kids a favor by not having them. No child should have to go through their parent not wanting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:10 AM
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I'll sometimes act like I haven't seen a meme before when he gets particularly excited about finding one about one of my more iche interests. He's excited to share it with me, and it makes them even better that he saw it and was like hey she'll like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:07 AM
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I always thought the wood you love me if XXX was always a playful tpunge and cheek sort of thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:05 AM
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I'm agreeing with you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:21 AM
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The attractive don't give a fuck attitude are still socially aware and don't go out of their way to be mean to others. Will happily enjoy their hobbies weither it's cool or not. They also let people so their own thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:12 AM
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Came here to say this! My husband and I continue to date eachother. He's my best friend, but still has other friends and interests. We make time for each other as a couple. We split chores equitably and do little things to show we care. If I've had a particularly long day at work he runs me a bath pours me a glass of wine and lights candles. He will sit beside me on the floor and we just sip wine and enjoy. If he's had a long week in the field I'll have his favourite snacks stock pulled and some…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:27 PM
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My partner isn't an accessory. I don't really care if my friends think he's hot. That's not something they'd comment on
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:38 AM
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I think it matters more in the sense dressing for the occasion. Basketball shorts and a graphic t for a grocery run? Sure, but if it's for a date, going out to dinner something like that I'd be put off by it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:57 PM
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Combo, planning the second date, hug that leads to a kiss.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:55 AM
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I've been on reddit for 3 minutes and already I've seen enough today.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:15 PM
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High school boyfriend - joined the military, I think he's doing well. University ex- works as a bell hop no real idea what's going onnin his life. Don't really care to know And last ex I believe is engages and seems happy but to be honest I don't keep tabs on him either
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:52 PM
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Right like at the end of the day it's all about how a person conducts themselves. It's ot complicated
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:50 AM
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Being attracted to women or even just noticing a particular person in general is fine. Obsessing over them, leering, or just not treating them like nothing more than their looks is an issue. Somw thoughts just need to be kept to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:45 AM
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I think its a very valid saying. Sometimes people just have too much on their plate. Sick family members they're helping, intense training programs that will take them away for months, deployments, posting out. If you don't have the space in your life, or the capacity to emotionally or mentally take more on thats completely fine and better to be honest about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:54 PM
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Right? Like, I dont know any adults that ask this. I could see it being important for someone saving themselves for marriage but beyond that not really. I do wonder if some of the people here that are struggling so much with dating here are having issues because they are so concerned about body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:25 PM
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I honestly have never been asked my body count past high school, maybe first year university. It's also never occurred to me. I think asking previous relationship history, like have you ever lived with a partner, is important, and even cheating is valid. But someone concerned with body count just would check all my boxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:45 PM
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Feeling upset about being lied to is completely valid, be it body count or whatever. It damages the trust in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:32 PM
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Yeah after high school noone has ever asked and honestly I never thought to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:31 PM
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I dont think there is any reason to lie, but I also don't see why he would need a play by play of every sex act ever. I personally don't care about body count, just that we have similar lebedos and preferences regarding sex. Someone who continuously needs details about every ex or encounter isn't someone that'd check all my boxes. I'd be concerned about a person suffering from retroactive jealousy if they wanted every single detail.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:31 PM
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In the late voice of Steve Irwin And here we have a female. Just gorgeous, now be mindful when you approach as they can be aggressive. looks at the camera I'm going to give it some drugs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:22 AM
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There isn't one specific thing that would work. Women just like men have individual wants/values/interests. You'd have to just find someone with similar interests and thinks you're attractive. Looking for just hook ups vs relationships are two totally different things. If you want to have just meaningless sex and hook up. Go to a bar/club with friends. Dress well, stand up straight, hang out with your friends, realize you might not pick up, and just enjoy the night. Smile at others, if they smil…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:09 AM
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That's even if OP can keep up with the lying and fake personality. If they struggle with interacting with women, lying about what they do won't change much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:57 PM
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You won't get love from an escort, but it would solve your problem about not having sex. The suggestion to pay for it isn't an insult. It's a means to an ends. If you actually can't interact with or attract women on your own and the hundreds of comments of advice beyond hire a prostitute aren't working, what exactly do you expect? What advice are you looking for?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:52 PM
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Then don't hire one. You don't have to, not wanting to is fine. It's also going to be common advice given if you insistently lament over no woman wanting you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:26 PM
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OP struggles with mental health issues. They have post history of wanting to mutilate their own genitals. It's brief window into the mind of someone who isn't well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:54 AM
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Honestly back flips are pretty cool
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 10:59 PM
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I appreciate a well tailored suit! But it also doesn't have to be a suit. A nice pair of chinos and an interesting button up are always more eye catching than sweats. Same with maintained hair and facial hair. I think someone who is well put together is more likely to catch someone's eye, especially when most people dress more casually now
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 10:57 PM
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I notice a guy is super jacked in a more passive way, like dmn thats a big guy. The lifestyle to maintain being super jacked isn't really conducive to a lifestyle with a partner who also isn't really committed to fitness.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:09 PM
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Good sense of fashion, head held high. Depends on the environment, really. If he's at the bar with his friends, he's actively engaging people, they're laughing and seem to be in a good mood. I'd notice that. If I'm on a hike, I'd notice how they're handling the trail. Do they look prepared etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:05 PM
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I dont think most men are unattractive. I feel more neutral about them until I see how they treat others and interact with the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:01 PM
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Mine and my husband's jobs incentives marriage, garuntees living together or at minimum pays for a second residencyshould we have to live apart, it also alows me to have medical power attorney and visa versa. Our parents wouldn't respect our personal preferences for end of life care. Medical directives can take time to get hands one before conflicting decisions are made. Not wanting to get married is completely fine, so does wanting to get married. What works for some doesn't work for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:06 AM
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Cardio and healthy eating. Quickly losing weight doesn't matter if you don't developed good habits and can't kep it off. Low weight and lots of reps too! Eta my partner supports me living a healthy active lifestyle and minds the kids while I go to the gym. It's binding time for him with the kids and gives me some time to decompress
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 01:28 AM
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Ohh fair! I miss read the tone
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:18 AM
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I've met a couple but they had PHds and preferred a partner with at least a masters and had similar academic goals and values. Which fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:15 AM
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But she wasn't ashamed of her partners success like OP is alluding to
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:51 AM
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Clearly through observation of the act /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 11:45 PM
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Bullies go after someone they think is weaker than them. They aren't going to go after someone they think will have negative repercussions. If you are facing bullying in the work place, compile proof and bring it to HR. Regardless of gender people deserve safe working environments.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:43 AM
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Well the aids thing is a legitimate crime in many places and I really hope your friend is able to get justice. What you described isn't a woman specific behavior. Unkind and manipulative people will do that, be it a man or a woman. You can be kind and empathetic while not being walked over. I created a boundary for myself that I wouldn't trade or pick up less desirable shifts from someone who wouldn't return the favor. If someone tries to blame me for their problems I have no problem telling the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:30 AM
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What are they doing that you consider them being hateful? What spiteful behavior are you referring to? Mean people exist, that's just how the world is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:08 AM
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It's off putting that their hiding it. In my experience, not too many people like to be tracked, especially without their knowledge. Realistically speaking, there will be times in relationships where you do more or your partner does more. Trying to nickle and dime every interaction doesn't take into count the variables of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:07 AM
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Everyone takes mental stock to an extent. But doing this behind your partners back does not come across as a way to benefit the relationship. A couple agreeing to do this together is different than just doing it yourself. If its something you're transparent about front the start. Weird but you aren't hiding it so it'd be much less off putting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:38 PM
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It's a moderation thing. Any hobby can be a negative if it's the only thing in your life. Most hobbies are going to have people that are going to shit on it.
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 11:30 PM
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I actually really enjoy Gundam! Alot of the predisposed dislike comes from the more off putting side of fan bases but that could be any interest. Like you get steptypes of Disney adults or horse girls too. If someone is adamantly against all anime, then they like aren't compatible for you anyways. Making fun of someone for something they like is shitty.
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 11:21 PM
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And celebrate even. Calling it fan service, not to mention the characters, that apparently it's fine because their a million years old 🤮 Liking anime is one thing. Making it your whole life is another. Having Waifu's, body pillows, and multiple figurines of hyper sexualized characters is just not an inviting environment. The caveat being I'd find this behavior from any fan base not just anime.
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 11:10 PM
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The hyper sexualization and often objectification of women in anime is a put off.
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 10:49 PM
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I mean do what you want but if I came across my partner doing it I'd be weirded out if someone physically tracked the amount of times we had sex. What wpuld your reasoning behind all of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:46 PM
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I have quite literally never met someone who is ashamed that their partner worked hard to get to where they are now. That's something they brag about. What type of people do you surround yourself with? Not having time for your partner because you need to devote all of your time to practice/work whatever it may be could be a detriment to the relationship. That'd be a lack of compatibility of relationship expectations or needs, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:27 PM
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Why do these few quotes speak for all women? Is it not possible that women are not a hive mind and different people have different opinions, experiences and preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 02:43 AM
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Physical satisfaction of completing a hard climb/ kyak/ canoe. The view at the top or along the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:51 PM
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Depends. Do they want to have an open relationship with you? Are all of their relationships open relationships? If it's something they are interested in still doing then it'd be a no for me. But if they tried it realized it wasn't their cup of tea and want an exclusive relationship with me I wouldn't be bothered they had previously been in one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:58 PM
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I think the woman in the photo is pretty. Fat doesn't = ugly, plenty of overweight people still take care of how they present themselves, trendy clean clothes, styled or at minimum clean hair. I think weight matters to people to everyone to some degree. Personally skinny men aren't my cup of tea when it comes to looks, but that doesn't mean they can't be attractive. Nor does it mean others don't find them attractive. Plenty of men do like heavier set women with rounder stomachs. I don't think it…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:05 AM
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I do when I'm road tripping, or hiking! He does the same. But over all no. There's no real reason for us to
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:24 PM
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Both mine and my spouses line of work have incentives to be married so it worked for us. When we have to be a part they'll pay for visits. It makes it harder to post us apart
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:24 PM
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Companionship, someone who is not living with their parents, knows how to cook and clean - their standards of a clean home being similar to mine. Similar if earning more than me. Its important to me that either of us could help eachother out and our bills are covered should something happen to the others employment. I work out and would prefer someone who maintains a healthy active life style. Treats others with kindness and expresses whe they're unhappy instead of blowing up over little things …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:57 PM
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What about women athletes that while may be above their prescribed weight ranges and still considered healthy if not above average health? Over all more people would be single and I'd see women ending up holding men to similar height and weight standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:05 PM
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It would still be on your partner to know their limits with drinking, and behave appropriately. Just because someone offers them a drink doesn't mean they gave to accept. If they've drinking to the point they're going to sleep with other people is that really someone you'd want to be with? Not being interested in someone who frequents clubs since it doesn't line up with your lifestyle is completely reasonable for either gender. If you knew this person was someone who goes clubbing frequently bef…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:17 AM
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I'm not a bar star myself, so I didn't date people that frequented clubs regularly. If ny partner wanted to go every once in a while with their buddies tl the bar/club I wouldn't care. Their appearance has nothing to do with my comfort level of them going out. It's up them to conduct themselves appropriately no matter their environment. If my partner gets hit on so be it. It's how they react to it that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:39 AM
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Not to mention if this is one of their first interactions itd leave a bad impression. If this is how they act before they're completely comfortable around you yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 02:17 AM
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That happened to my buddy, he was introducing us to the girl he was seeing. We were all in the car and she had terrible road rage to the point off shaking the steering wheel and violently rocking back and forth. He was instantly put off, in all fairness, none of us were too keen about her after that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 01:50 AM
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Probably column a column b situation. I think height can be a sensitive issue for guys so it can feel like more people are focused on it than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:33 AM
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Does not make a difference in picking a partner. My husband is the same height as me, it would not make a difference to me if he was any taller, and it wouldn't have made a difference if he was shorter. I've dated men shorter than me before it wasn't that big of a deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:23 AM
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None of them have asked about height of the guys I introduce them too. 6'2 on the nose isn't a be all end all number for must people. The shorter the woman the more liekly it is to find a partner that's taller than them so being 6'2 like OP is asking about isn't really relevant. If you're on the shorter side as a woman like 5'2 a 5'9 guy has 7" on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:22 AM
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Taller could be marginally taller than you. Not 6ft+.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:13 AM
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I don't see it being a complete deal breaker for most people. Being 6'2 isn't the magical be all end all number. I'd see height as a more of a sprinkles on ice cream sort of thing. Nice to have sure? Be all end all of the ice cream not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:05 AM
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I think a lot less women care than you think. To be honest, I have no idea if a man is 6'2 on the dot. Either you're kinda taller than me, alot taller than me, the same height, kinda shorter or noticeably shorter. I work with mostly men, and when I consider introducing one of them to my single women, friends' height is not a factor I think about. Height is not something they ask me about. Honestly, I think the last time I've even heard a woman I know speak about height was when we were like 20/2…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:38 AM
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Not to mention sex isn't the only aspect for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:01 PM
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A monster clearly /s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:15 AM
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I can afford all my bills without his help and he can afford his without mine. We both earn similar salaries and I obviously think he's attractive. What a person finds attractive depends on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:09 AM
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Sex with the right partner doesn't suck. That's the fun part. There's more to relationships than money and status. My husband is my best friend, supportive of me and I'm supportive of him. If I have a long day at work he runs me a bath and pours me a glass of wine. If he's had a long day, I'll pick up his favourite beer and snack. We go out and explore new areas and enjoy watching a movie on the couch. Companionship is a big part of alot of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:36 PM
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5'9
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:26 PM
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They don't hate short guys haha life is too short to carry that much anger about a strangers existence. Hate to break it to you but 2 are married to men noticeably shorter than them, my husband is the same height as me sometimes shorter if it's a humid day or if I wear heels, and the other friend is with a guy her same height. Self-hatred can make it seem like the world is out to get you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:21 PM
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Mmmh none of my tall female friends hate being tall, they love it. Maybe it's the area you're in 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:06 PM
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As a tallish lady I've dated shorter men, in my experience some guys were insecure about their height. Personally I don't care but if you're going to mope about saying "You probably wish I was taller" then it gets old pretty fast. I've also had partners that were shorter than me and encouraged me to wear heels because "Giant ladies are hot". It comes down to the person. Plenty of people don't care about height until their partner is miserable about it. Eta -I've never been insecure about my heig…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:59 PM
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Did your school not provide you with basic anatomy lessons?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:22 AM
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You shouldn't do anything sexual for someone you aren't comfortable with. That being said you shouldn't expect other people to do something for you that you won't do for them. I'm indifferent to BJs and do them because my partner likes them but he also reciprocates. If he didn't want to go down on me that's completely fine but then I also wouldn't be particularly interested in doing it for him. At the end of the day if your partner is fine eith your arrangement thats all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:44 PM
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So its not possible you've grown as a person and become someone she would be interested in?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 09:31 PM
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How is it settling for you? Are you never going to pursue other people after being rejected once? Peoples preferences, goals, and views on life typically change as they age. What's important to you in your 20s could be completely different than your 30s. It's fine if you don't want to date her, but being insulted because she is interested in you is silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 09:26 PM
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Some people aren't compatible. Why is it insulting that someone doesn't want you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:33 PM
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Imagine the audacity of someone leaving a relationship for feeling neglected /s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 07:25 PM
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