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Spiritual-Tourist227/r/RPChristians24/10/21 09:16 AM
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Question For MenSpiritual-Tourist227/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 05:06 AM
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Most women don't take care of themselves and start getting fat now that they don't have their metabolism to do all the work. Fat is not attractive to attractive men. If you want good looking men with their life together to be attracted to you, you have to remain attractive as well. Men don't want to deal with your crap as you get older and bitter from dating other men, you think you're so much more mature than guys you're age but that's horse shit and we know it and it's only because you've been…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:38 AM
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Yes
/r/seduction19/06/22 06:56 AM
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Flirting is for women, just completely forget about the sex and ask them out if you think they like you. You shouldn't be scared of rejection because you're ONLY asking them out to get to know them first. It's just talking, plain and simple about, shit you like and shit she likes. Make conversation on dates to get to know them, invite them to your house if they show interest, be seductive once you guys are alone and then you can progress things, until then don't worry about that shit, just try t…
/r/seduction17/06/22 10:56 PM

You can watch the mpmd video but basically try to make friends with girls or keep them as aquintences instead off just ignoring them and moving on, when you find out they are not interested in sex.
/r/seduction16/03/22 05:34 AM
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Nah... Fuck her, she no longer exists, if by very low chance she talks to you it should literally surprise you to the point that you don't even recognize her face. Preoccupy yourself with things you have to do in the gym. I've done this so effectively I literally greeted girls with enthusiasm when they come back to talk to me, as if they were complete strangers and they get mad as Fuck because I have so deeply deleted them from my memory that I absolutely don't remember a thing about them. The s…
/r/seduction14/03/22 07:48 AM
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I have the same problem sometimes I download the apps out of boredom You have to remember the apps are literally designed to be rigged against you, they hold back matches until you pay money and prevent you from seeing girls who have liked you, it's very obvious if you look up stuff on it Also remember the types of girls on the apps are desperate , degenerate sluts and have baggage considering they have so many options in this modern world and still use an app, even for hookups that's not someth…
/r/seduction25/02/22 05:43 PM
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It's okay I'm bored too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 07:08 AM
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True but there are certain things you should not compromise. What you have to understand is that if anyone is going to settle it's going to be the person who is not okay with being alone. I'm willing to die alone and be happy pursuing my goals, I don't live my life looking for a relationship and I'm not going to compromise for anything. Both sides can get what they want if both sides are putting in work to be great, nobody has to settle, but that's not how it works usually, one side always does …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 06:55 AM
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I'm sure you do nvm
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 06:44 AM
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The idea is that relationships and sex are different things a lot of women are settling for guys they aren't attracted to in a relationship because the top guy in her eyes don't want them but will still sleep with them. Ask how many of those relationships actually last? Who really cheated or wanted to end it? If anything it's helping guys be more aware and selective while improving themselves and to have standards to find a woman who is actually proving to be relationship material with her actio…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 05:54 PM
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"all men love being approached" ok... Watch out the ALL police is here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 05:18 PM
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Yah if he's attractive and she is also attracted to him but generally most guys don't have good odds at that and to just do that on the off chance it will be exciting to her is not going to work in your favor, especially since you have no idea who this person is, it's not worth it. Doesn't mean I don't do it I'll still approach everyone now and then for fun but that's it for shits and giggles, I don't take it seriously. Usually if I'm out with friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 04:57 PM
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Women have never like being approached by random strangers anyways, the most natural way to meet women is through a common interest/event or friends of friends. You can just approach girls completely randomly but that's bad because you have no idea who she is and essentially you're meeting a stranger as well. It also makes you look incredibly desperate/ thirsty. Start building a social life and making friends the more friends you make the better. Try to do social things that you actually like, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 05:53 AM
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Yes it removes the drinkers from your dating pool. Which is ultimately a good thing. You're sifting out a lot of bad people and maybe a few good ones but there's a reason YOU'RE deciding to quit. There's nothing wrong with having less options especially if they're higher quality. Even if you're not going for a relationship, better people means less drama, you just have to get creative with socializing and not rely on drinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 04:57 PM
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The wall is not just about age. The wall is self imposed. It's a person's bad choices catching up with them. It reflects unattractive behavior and body and faster aging. In reality men and women who take care of themselves and have a healthy mindset, attitude, stay in shape, will always have options, younger or older. The same reason theses women have horrible standards or are so judgemental is the same reason they hit the wall in the first place. They just aren't great people with mental issues…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 04:44 PM
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I don't think anybody would ever ask this to someone they are genuinely interested in or is interested in you in actual conversation. You keep it in mind and keep it to yourself when assessing this person as a partner. This should definitely be something you think about for yourself to improve your own relationship quality. Even if somebody gave me an answer to that question I would never believe them. If you want to asses someone seriously you always have to judge a person based on there action…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 04:31 PM
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Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 04:10 PM
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22 male purpill, more redpill ish I'm looking for anything that can give me an idea of her actual body count, body language, speaking, history, friends, nose piercings, hair dye, morals, lieing. Has to be 2 or lower ideally a virgin because at this point I don't trust women. That is the most important thing to me but it's not what comes first what comes first is compatibility, hobbies, attitude, then I'll see how committed she would be to me for years, meet her friends, family, get to know her a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 07:56 AM
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I agree on everything I just think that if the age gap is too great it becomes less that a women prefers a little more success and money than really for other toxic reasons, daddy issues, gold digger, and for him it's his inability to find a good attractive women earlier in life or closer to his age with good relationship qualities. 10 years should about be the limit. Women are attracted to strong young looking men as well. And sexual attraction in general also involves looks and that is subject…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:12 AM
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Looks 7 Success 2 Status 2 Social skills 3 I'm always going to the gym I'm confident in my looks, I'm still in community college and work retail a little over minimum wage. I'm 22 trying to get my associates in electrical engineering still because I left school for 2 years. I live with my uncle but have my own crappy car and a non running motorcycle in storage. I have friends from highschool school that were the jockey types and pretty cool and I was in some clubs and rushed a fraternity at ASU …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 01:35 AM
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I agree on the view of virginity. I apologize if that was a non concensual dramatic experience I honestly can't tell from the way you wore it. It's non of my business either and I actually didn't ask for that information as well. I just wanted to know if you think your perspective would change if you had a very low body count compared to your potential partners if you had been dating. I really think now to have a very low body count you would need a different perspective at first, essentially be…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 01:15 AM
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Thanks for responding but that comment you gave is for the guy not for you. Forgive me for assuming but I'd think if you were a virgin you'd care more and have a different opinion. I am not a virgin so I can't have high standards but my opinions differ a lot from my buddy with a high body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 12:23 AM
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I agree 100 percent thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 12:18 AM
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I think they should and it would make things a lot better, why do you think they don't just shut them down? Both men and women should have that standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 11:03 PM
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Do you think you'd care if it was low? Or Virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 10:55 PM
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I think that's good if, like you said, DATE SOMEONE WITH THE SAME PAST EXPERIENCE I think it's messed up to expect someone else to get over your past, as if you're so great to demand that. The past matters. Your resume matters. Your reputation matters. After you get a job you don't have to worry but you still have to get hired first.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 10:54 PM
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Wow sounds really nice lol I'm gonna look into it more thanks
/r/RPChristians30/10/21 10:09 PM
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No, I am new to a lot of stuff, I wouldn't exclusively want to be a part of most church's anyways just yet, I really just want to meet good people that share the same ideas, talk about the bible. I'm someone who could have very easily fall into becoming the toxic type redpill and just use women, with all my friends being players. I want to try to just do things the right way and maybe find others doing the same.
/r/RPChristians26/10/21 08:21 AM
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Cool
/r/RPChristians24/10/21 11:58 PM
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Ok?
/r/RPChristians24/10/21 11:58 PM
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I'd check it out, thanks
/r/RPChristians24/10/21 10:33 PM
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Ok I'll look into that thanks
/r/RPChristians24/10/21 10:32 PM
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Lived in mexico and I went to chatholic school for a bit and don't trust chatholic church, I think it's filled with pedos. Where I live it was practically normalized for grown men to sleep with teenage girls and it seems to carry over a lot. Of course it depends but I still don't trust it.
/r/RPChristians24/10/21 10:32 PM
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Ok nice
/r/RPChristians24/10/21 10:26 PM
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Even if this is old, I'm glad someone doesn't just disagree because they can't get a huge amount of numbers, honestly it seems like these posts are from guys who are still not even confident in attracting women, still blue pill, and are just desperate and only focused on increasing their odds for sex. If you're purple pill you're essentially striving to be red pill inside a relationship with one women, of course without a lot of the toxic traits, and not chasing ass so you can focus on a purpose…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 05:46 AM
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Seriously bro watch more AMS videos. As a matter of fact. And keep rewatching them as you get better lol Stop making just friends, find the girl that’s into you first and every date progress it towards eventual sex. Date 1 get to know her let her talk about herself focus on listening invite her over at the end. If she declines try again the second date. If she declines again just invite her over the third date and if she declines forget about her and move on to another girl. Once you’re alone th…
/r/seduction22/07/21 09:22 PM
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Friendzone her back just stop responding. Talk to her a lot less. If you’re not excited that’s how you can communicate it. She can stay your platonic friend without as much attention or she can take a hike and stop wasting your time.
/r/seduction21/07/21 07:37 AM
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Friendzone her back just stop responding. Talk to her a lot less. If you’re not excited that’s how you can communicate it. She can stay your platonic friend without as much attention or she can take a hike and stop wasting your time. Girls are not stupid she’s known you’re into her and the whole situation, don’t waste any more energy texting or talking.
/r/seduction21/07/21 07:37 AM
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I think it becomes subconscious, just because they’re aware how meaningless it is doesn’t mean they still don’t want to see their phone blow up, if so their actions would match that and they would stop using the apps. It’s like when guys are entertaining the hot catfish for a while because they’re bored or whatever. We know it’s not going anywhere. Don’t lie you know you’ve been there at least once lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 11:44 PM
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•I’d agree that there are a lot factors and it is a correlation. •The initiator is not always the one being wronged, I think she is biased here, it seems like she’s a faithful women and has healthy friends and mostly takes away from her own experience instead of considering a greater majority of women •she says when amicable men let women file first because they think she’s vulnerable and needs protection but who knows whether or not she cheated or had other intentions and played the part to lea…
/r/ExRedPill15/07/21 01:10 AM
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Don’t idolize movie stars, being a man is about stoicism, living your life free and independent by the virtues that you see fit.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/21 07:28 PM
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Yes, out of principal if I’m not genuinely attracted to her I’m not going to pursue it. I have never been drastically over weight and would never give an overweight girl a chance. Only average men have low standards. I even had a very attractive friend hit me up as a last resort after she cut me off a year ago and she let herself go and I told her no and goodnight. For context she’s a shitty person as well. She could have lost her weight and then messaged me but no. I don’t even look if I’m not …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 11:18 AM
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If you had said you’re dating for a relationship or something serious but you didn’t you were perfectly honest and most people are not, and that’s great, seriously. I wasn’t talking about you specifically even though I use the word “you” a lot. I was talking about the idea of dating several people vs one person at a time and how dating isn’t always about meeting more people and hooking up, just to have fun. Some people like to taking dating serious and it’s going up with a lot of guys getting sm…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 06:36 AM
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Like you said maybe if she doesn’t take care of herself, the wall is self imposed when you stop taking care of yourself, let yourself go, and your bad habits catch up. Most women have tons of baggage and are not healthy minded and won’t take care of themselves in the long run these women can be almost guaranteed to hit a wall. It’s a lot harder to overcome years of bad habits then it is to start good from the beginning. Mental health can affect your appearance too as well as your ability to take…
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 01:49 AM
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It’s like some are some aren’t to different degrees, if you truly go you’re own way and aren’t worried about women only you know. If you’re lying it’s only to yourself. Even if people see you as a women hater you can’t control what they think, so why bother.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 01:13 AM
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True, I look at a lot of things, and it just honestly doesn’t take me long to decide if a girl isn’t for me. I also don’t have time, energy or desire to entertain different girls, or go on dates. I’m very comfortable being alone, and I don’t agree with keeping a rotation. I’m more along the lines of life is good enough alone and unless the other person is adding to your life you’re absolutely better off alone. Thats why I think it’s better to just take your time, focus on a purpose and enjoy you…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:41 PM
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It’s not the people don’t get it. It’s that we have different perspectives. Nobody wants to compete and be just another option. It’s all cool until the other person is doing the same thing. Why would you ever invest yourself into someone who has their attention on 5 other people man or women. Not everybody dates multiple people at once. How long does it really take to judge if someone is a good fit for you, until you’re just dating them for other reasons lust, attention, insecurity. Then once yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 02:06 AM
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Make sure you get lean if you aren’t and meet more people, not just girls. Make friends through hobbies. Make friends with guys that are social guys that get laid and they’ll help you too if that’s your goal. Or make friends and try to find a good girl through good friend groups to find a good girl. A lot of initial attraction starts with how much body fat you have. Reach out to old friends, do the initial work to setup hangouts with them and new people. Get involved in anything that is a group …
/r/ExRedPill10/05/21 02:42 AM
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Riiiight... but the idea is to practice good judgment and learn from multiple sources it’s not like you have to listen to him.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/21 05:49 AM
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Didn’t know, but wouldn’t you?
/r/ExRedPill08/05/21 05:40 AM
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A lot of feminists are delusional. They are the female equivalent of an incel when it comes to relationships. They only experience low quality men because that’s what they attract. The smart ones see it before it’s too late but they don’t all make it unfortunately. Same for guys and becoming confident, it really is amazing how both sides are present. I guess it makes sense though two sides of the same coin, yin yang etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 11:31 PM
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This is it exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 09:17 PM
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For sure man, just be careful don’t waste too much time around hoes that bring you down even if you are getting just sex and you think you’re winning. I was into football and wrestling in high school and got friends who were players/man whores and learned by experience and didn’t know about redpill this or that. They are still chasing girls in their 20s, struggling to build shit and they’re mental state is not better off for it. Addicted to weed, drinking, gambling etc...
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 06:33 PM
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A lot is bullshit. The one does not exist, but you are still improving yourself to get better options regardless, not to find the one per se. You can do that on a purely sexual basis or on a looks and personality basis. If a women is ACTUALLY doing work to remain good future wife material who do you think she would go for? We’re all improving and learning at our own pace you don’t have to worry or stress you’ll always have options, you can even date younger. There was a guy that posted before wh…
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 04:23 PM
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The red pill has some truths to it, if it was completely wrong it wouldn’t be relevant. The reason we separate things is to understand it better hence the black and white thinking. It’s not a mental illness, it’s a process of growing. Black and white contrast each other very well and makes things clear and easy to see. Once things are simplified to a basic understanding we work from there. I don’t agree with everything about the red pill anymore but there are some kernels of truth. I got into it…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 07:23 AM
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Yah that’s the point all you really need is game and it comes naturally when you start building confidence my best friend is a short ugly Jamaican with a receding hairline and dreads literally just blew me off for an hour because he’s piping the hot light skin girl with a fat ass from our old high school track team , and he just started talking to her a few weeks ago just over snap and he always used to come across as very awkward and talkative him and my other buddy are both friends from high s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 04:47 AM
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Attention whore, never puts out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 02:22 PM
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I swear the only thing they have going for them is their mentality about it, my buddy is like 5ft5 and fat, as in he is round, and jokes about his small dick and still fucks girls. And he’s a barber and he’s inbetween jobs. He’s also not really the smartest person a little bit dyslexic actually but he’s still confident and funny as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 01:42 PM
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It already is better... if you look decent, have self respect, authority and confidence and learn to go after girls that are all ready into you, you can literally get a date and have sex tomorrow. Especially with social media it’s so easy it’s ridiculous. Go out, join groups, meet friends of friends. You don’t even have to go on dates to get laid. Once you realize how easy it is to attract girls it becomes more of a waste of time and you just start worrying about yourself your passions and caree…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 07:08 AM
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And that’s good for them, I wouldn’t be wanting to be like most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 12:23 AM
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Lol it’s a reality but, I don’t need or want revenge, I don’t have issues attracting girls I’m just looking for a good one and sharing what I learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 07:03 PM
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Cats and wine for sure, if you’re a man looking for a relationship think of this as a blessing in disguise all the independent girls are weeding themselves out of relationship material showing off their degrees and hooking up in college (not all but most). Women get desperate for a relationship as they get older way more than men do, and when college days are over her past catches up when she starts looking for a husband. Really it should be, “Will men give these women a chance at a relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 08:11 AM
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“I will not be talking about all women, even though it feels like it” - Anthony Spade
/r/ExRedPill09/04/21 07:10 AM
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O
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 06:59 AM
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If you think it’s important then like you said it is a spectrum with varying degrees some may think I’ve slept around and some don’t. A FWB is probably not as bad as a ten guy gang bang but it is still casual sex. It also depends on that person’s perspective of you, I have friends who practically consider me a virgin. However stopping casual sex of any form will help you in an effort to become less promiscuous and build a better foundation for a future relationship. It can be very difficult to e…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 08:43 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 04:30 PM
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I agree however seems like that’s just shifting the conversation to semantics. Point is your equal is best in terms of relationship qualities and body count. Also it comes down to preference, if the body count isn’t important to you, you can meet someone who thinks the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 02:37 PM
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I have not slept around, my friends have, I’ve just met a lot of girls and seen what happens when guys are chasing ass and the girls they meet. And you don’t have to go to bars and stuff these are girls from their work or just friends of friends, I mean my buddy has slept with hundreds of girls and there are really really crazy and you wouldn’t know it they seem fine like regular people, until you find out how they are. And yes a lot of girls casually hookup that’s what I was saying but most gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 01:48 PM
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I can let you know from personal experience that hookups and casual sex makes things worse for men and women, it’s builds greater distrust and feeds in to developing manipulative behavior. You really just get what you are if you sleep around less you deserve someone who sleeps around less. Also It really goes both ways read it as “Men having casual sex are mostly disqualified for LTRs by women that have never had casual sex” and the same idea is there. Women are more accepting but most women do …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 07:14 AM
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You can start scheduling your entire day with things to do, that matter to you, use Google calendar. Whenever your doing something be off your phone and focus your attention on what your doing, that way when she’s waiting a few hours you, you were actually busy doing something. There are plenty things that can get added to your day try new stuff and it’ll make you more interesting too.
/r/seduction18/02/21 04:32 PM
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100%
/r/seduction18/02/21 04:17 PM

You’re bullshiting her and you got caught, that’s why it’s “cringe” your embarrassed at least to a degree. When you make a girl wait you should actually be doing productive stuff like the gym or working on your career or passion, it makes you seem ambitious and busy. But there’s a difference between actually being ambitious and prioritizing your goals over texting some girl vs just looking like you do. Even if it works It’s still harder to fake it than to just actually just work on your goals. A…
/r/seduction18/02/21 08:38 AM

How To Text Women (@The Alpha Male Strategies Show​) on YouTube Watch the whole video and save it, go back to it when you need to. In short don’t text so much. Texting is for setting dates and keeping tabs. Your giving too much attention away. If she’s interested just let her wonder and build tension until you want to see her again then make each date in person memorable and seductive and progress towards a chance at sex. You want to play at your advantage, being in person it’s just you and her.…
/r/seduction18/02/21 08:06 AM
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