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| 53 | Break-Up Survival Guide 🧘♀️Get a change of scenery. Really bad breakups were SO much easier when I broke out of my routine. When you’re in a routine with them their loss is felt more, but if you can get through the first few days or week (toughest part) in a different place, it makes a world of difference | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 02:13 AM |
| 20 | Let’s discuss: why do some people try to shame you for not wanting to be in a casual sexual relationship?Casual sex = chill, cool, go with the flow And if you’re not into it you must be = rigid, inflexible, prudish LVM are largely are afraid of what nonexistent people think and want to seem cool and chill? Also, if I don’t want casual sex that MUST mean I want them to be my boyfriend and to be in a serious relationship with them 🙄 I hate that one the most. And “cool” guys don’t want girlfriends /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 05:36 PM |
| 28 | She told him straight and held to her ideals - a Reddit GOAT post from years ago.She’s not a hero: 1. she bended to give a man who she wasn’t even in a relationship with what he wanted 2. went against her wishes and put her body through a lot of trauma for, again, something she didn’t want and then 3. didn’t even consider the damage her absence would do to the child in the long run | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 04:37 AM |
| 28 | She told him straight and held to her ideals - a Reddit GOAT post from years ago.I agree, it’s a set up to argue that men who get a woman pregnant and say she should get an abortion because they want no part of it, can get off scot-free. But frankly, the answer would be similar? If a man got you pregnant, you wanted the child and he made it clear he did not, but then he paid more than his share of child support, there’s nothing you can do. A woman or man that knows their partner wants nothing to do with the child should obviously take that into consideration when moving forw… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 04:32 AM |
| 97 | His reaction was scary 😳I’m surprised in the heat of the moment he was able to catch himself, honestly, lol. But whyyy is this that guys’ favorite clip? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 10:34 PM |
| 163 | The friend zone doesn't existanyone wanna friend zone me tonight? is really what making friends as an adult is like.😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 05:18 AM |
| 14 | Women are attracted to money...I wouldn’t really want to be with a trust fund baby that doesn’t have a job. Women like competence but also, ambition. Do something with your life! Have interests. Care about something! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 02:40 PM |
| 9 | FDS has helped me resist social pressure to date for the sake of conforming to societal normsWhen I was your age (lol, in my 30’s) I def should have spent less time with men. I still struggle so much because society makes me feel like I am worthless because I am in my 30’s and single. Might as well be an old maid. But I honestly don’t WANT a relationship. It’s hard! You’re doing great and the irony is you’ll find a better relationship because you’re busy and interested in your own life and that’s more attractive to hvm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Is anyone feeling particularly sad for their pick-me mom after finding this subreddit?This makes me in awe of my parent’s relationship and how healthy and amazingly balanced it is. How did I become a pickme :( lol (pickme in RECOVERY) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 07:32 PM |
| 3 | Is anyone feeling particularly sad for their pick-me mom after finding this subreddit?Omg, give your mom a hug for us! Life changes like that are extremely difficult, especially after 30 years of that being the status quo. It sounds like she’s starting to love herself again :,) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 07:30 PM |
| 26 | A guy walked into my apartment & I realize to exist as a woman is to be constantly reminded of my own vulnerabilityI wish men could understand the constant vigilance and fear we deal with automatically, all the time. Honestly, I think the closest they would get is being in prison. A lot (most?) prisons are really dangerous, you have to watch your back, not put yourself in vulnerable situations, say the wrong thing, look at the wrong person funny, etc... a lot of similarities | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 07:08 PM |
| 23 | From HV to NV, a short story.honestly if he’s not willing to buy me tampons or pads, i don’t want him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 08:58 PM |
| 6 | Use actual conditioner, groom, shower, wear nice clothes, and utilize the treatments for baldness. Us women take care of ourselves you need to as well.Hahaha they touch it like it’s on fire 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 01:36 PM |
| 65 | Use actual conditioner, groom, shower, wear nice clothes, and utilize the treatments for baldness. Us women take care of ourselves you need to as well.Guys (and women!) automatically look quite a bit more attractive when well groomed, even if they aren’t “classically” good looking. Hygiene shows a level of self-care and self-respect which radiates into other parts of your personality, as well. Love yourselves, men! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 03:25 AM |
| 139 | Use actual conditioner, groom, shower, wear nice clothes, and utilize the treatments for baldness. Us women take care of ourselves you need to as well.This reminds me of the tweets that were popular around this time last year that had me in tears 😂 One person tweeted about calling an Uber as being “gay” and someone replied, “Fellas is it gay to get to your destination?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 03:23 AM |
| 48 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit pieceYep! We must be as relentless at encouraging, supporting, and helping each other recognize and reject manipulators, gas lighters, and abusers as they are relentless in trying to gain our attention and body. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 03:17 AM |
| 268 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit pieceAnd that (gasp) we don’t want to conform to societal norms or pressures just to be ‘coupled up.’ It’s not the 1950’s anymore and we no longer need to put up with abuse in order to survive - we live our own lives, make our own fertility decisions, and make our own money. However, how quickly society has evolved does not change our biological reactions which draw us to men in ways that no longer serve us. I don’t think we believe men are braindead or ass garbage. We don’t talk about ALL men, becau… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 03:11 AM |
| 55 | Great example of healthy empathy on both ends, self respect and a man that respects you and your life with or without him. *If he is into you, you will know from the getgo*We love men that set us up to shine and be the best versions of ourself. It’s so rare, which is sad because us shining doesn’t dim their light, it only makes theirs burn brighter because having an awesome woman is a power move, but men just don’t understand that... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 12:16 AM |
| 64 | Men are entering Academia with the express intent of preying on students. Like most LVM and Predators, they try and infiltrate the ranks of trusted institutions to find their victims and hide their intentions behind the authority of their title.Don’t look at this guy’s other posts. He wants to fuck 16 year olds. Seriously. I agonize for every woman that has to deal with him, ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 12:12 AM |
| 18 | Men aren't stupid, men think WE are stupidI just want to scream... “WHAT DO YOU WANT!?” I feel like the point is to just converse? But its like they’re gaslighting from the jump... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 02:11 AM |
| 42 | Things men do we should start copying (alternative title: What hanging out with boys taught me)This is so true. I feel like adults coddle little girls, more, too, without even thinking about it. We’re delicate flowers where the boys can rough and tumble. So much of our growing up is about looks, being clean, un-scraped, wearing the “right” thing so we don’t get in trouble at school, looking and acting certain ways so we don’t get assaulted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 02:05 AM |
| 40 | Of course the comments are filled with disgusting men 🙄Well two 17 year olds having sex isn’t “gross” - that’s why it is legal... But he, he was a grown ass man interested in a child, it’s a totally different game. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 10:10 PM |
| 39 | INCELS KILL. FDS DOES NOT.Also self reported “nice” or “good” guys means you should R..U..N!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 03:04 AM |
| 74 | INCELS KILL. FDS DOES NOT.It’s not about sex itself, it’s about power and being able to control women. edit to add - I know FDS is extremely against sex work, but sex workers are people, too, who have agency over their body and should not be called upon to ‘fix’ or ‘satisfy’ these violent men with dangerous views against women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 03:03 AM |
| 6 | From /AskReddit about which subs give useless or even dangerous advice. Lol.“dangerous” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 06:31 PM |
| 2 | A message for the female lurkersThis is amazing! I wish I could invite you to speak with my friend... <3 Proud of you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 09:04 PM |
| 4 | HVM making valentines special, beats last minute gas station flowers!Very true! And we are not settling for a man who doesn’t go through the effort and work to surprise us with something wonderful! And I can buy my own chicken nuggets 🙄😂 Hugs** | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 04:29 AM |
| 17 | Cardi isn’t the best example of FDS, but this is straight facts.She portrays FDS but behind closed doors isn’t. I hope she starts to practice what she preaches. I know there have GOT to be men out there that wouldn’t cheat on her and appreciate her large personality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 02:21 AM |
| 9 | Cardi isn’t the best example of FDS, but this is straight facts.Oh daaaamn I strive to never be an afterthought. Love that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 02:19 AM |
| 18 | HVM making valentines special, beats last minute gas station flowers!oh that looks delicious! now i’m a little sad to be single. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 02:00 AM |
| 5 | HV Valentine’s Day giftThat’s thoughtful! Shows he is listening :) Love that for you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 02:33 PM |
| 19 | HV Valentine’s Day giftThis is so sweet. I have never understood women getting expensive rings, bags, shoes from men. Sure, I am as materialistic as the next woman, but it just doesn’t really mean anything? My first boyfriend made me some mix CDs (this was a long time ago) to listen to on a trip I was taking. They had different themes. I still remember them so many years later because he took the time to curate and put together mixes :,) We love thoughtfulness, anything to show you care and don’t want to just look lik… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 05:20 AM |
| 17 | Cosmopolitan Magazine argues that cannibalism is acceptable nowYeeting men into the sun is my kink. Is there a “safe” way to do that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 04:13 AM |
| 72 | thought you lovely ladies could use a laugh today - instant block & deleteHopefully he’s dealt with it before 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 03:11 AM |
| 46 | Why is it that I’m supposed to specify “not all men” when discussing rape when 1 in 10 men are rapists?Idk anytime I complain about men, the men around me that are decent don’t mind because they know I am not talking about them and don’t feel the need to defend the scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 06:03 PM |
| 13 | Found this posted online by a therapist and I had to repost as I know many of you have experienced this with a man, or will potentially experience itIf you decide they are “not worth it” that sounds like you are weighing pros/cons and deciding there isn’t a net positive. I think if you cut someone out the first time you get into an argument, that could be a lack of OP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 11:15 PM |
| 4 | Found this posted online by a therapist and I had to repost as I know many of you have experienced this with a man, or will potentially experience itInteresting! My two best girl friends and I have gotten through some tough disagreements, which makes me proud. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 11:13 PM |
| 69 | Get more in a divorce? This is why men murder women!Just want to add, Universal Health Care! For women and their children who need to be on husband’s plan. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 03:31 AM |
| 16 | I was lurking on a subreddit and found this "HVM" lmao“no food stamps” ummmm what? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 03:28 AM |
| 24 | Being decent isn’t difficultThey talked about it a lot at Brock Turner’s rape trial. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 11:22 PM |
| 36 | Clown Central 🤡🤡“not always available” - so we have to be always available or else they’ll cheat or watch porn? ew, no thanks!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 12:35 PM |
| 8 | Oh... oh god... oh god it gets worse... oh it gets even worse...“I’m taking the dog, dumbass!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 12:32 PM |
| 158 | As of today, February 1, 2021, I am DONE being a pick-me doormat!Congrats! This sub is really informative and supportive. You’ve already lost 150+ lbs that you had dragging you down :,) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Held off on sex, it was horribleYes! Had this happen recently. He would’ve been teachable but I am in my 30’s and have no patience for that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 07:43 PM |
| 72 | Held off on sex, it was horribleWell I am damn near virginal then :,) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 07:42 PM |
| 7 | Evan Rachel Woods steps forward about the abuse she, at age 18, suffered from 36 year old Brian Warner aka "Marilyn Manson"This reminds me of the Armie Hammer accusations, similar in that he also fantasized about violence. Sick individuals who don’t deserve to even look at women! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 07:30 PM |
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