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ConversationSplitNo492/r/seduction08/05/24 08:30 PM
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ConversationSplitNo492/r/seduction08/05/24 02:45 PM
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Okay i appreciete both perspectives. But i want to clarify a few things. This girl has only been acting like this for the better part of 1 and a half/2 days, NOT a long period at all. I just have bad trust issues, and i dont want to mess it up with this girl so i made 2 posts on her to see what people with more experience than me had to say. I often see that girl pull back once it goes too well, or too fast. This is something that i dont only see happen with myself, but with my friends aswell. A…
/r/seduction09/05/24 01:46 AM
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By do nothing you literally mean do nothing? No long responses or anything, just do nothing with her for a bit. See i think this is a test over actually getting ghosted. Just wanted to see other opinions. The funny thing is this girl started talking to me because i got with one of her mates, so thats your preselection theory correct.
/r/seduction09/05/24 12:40 AM
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Dude thats so crazy, you really opened up my eyes, i dont even know the first step to fixing this, i mean i cannot afford therapy. I have friends that trust people, and it just shocks me. Like i genuinely cannot fathom trusting another person, i dont even tell my friends whats happening with the girls i talk to, unless i 100% have to. It does suck man, i really wanna open up, i dont mean be i wanna bitch and rant about my life to this girl, just secure and comfortable with her. I get so close to…
/r/seduction09/05/24 12:26 AM
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Dude i was thinking this was a "test". I think im going to give the same energy back. For a week, then ask her out. If she says "No" to going out, ill simply cut her off. How common is this test? I feel like i hear this done pretty frequently, in the same formula too. e.g Get to know girl, it goes well, she starts acting distant, man acts more clingy - Ghosted.
/r/seduction09/05/24 12:14 AM
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Ahhh. I wish i had known this. This sucks dude, i only learn this shit after everything is said and done. Big downside of having religious parents. Do you think i can do anything to make myself seem like a catch? RIght now im making my response time longer. Thanks for your advice, this is something im going to keep in mind forever haha
/r/seduction08/05/24 11:58 PM
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Thanks for the advice man. Im definitely going to watch that video, watching it right now. This last part is so weirdly true. My dad is unforgiving and VERY unpredictable, i mean the man has chased me with a knife before and ive been hit, a lot. His manner of parenting made me into an obvious "nice guy' (a pushover). Im getting out of this habbit, im not scared of conflict, or standing up for myself. But i guess i still have a shield up, i THINK my problem is i REALLY want affection, but when i …
/r/seduction08/05/24 11:55 PM
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You can never have anyone you are afraid of losing But doesnt that just remove the whole point of a relationship? Getting feelings, and boom youre scared of losing them.
/r/seduction08/05/24 10:41 PM
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I know i need to consider her being sick. I just find it so difficult to trust people. I noticed that too, girls are just bad at making plans. So if shes still texting ill ask her out the next week. I can tell you right now im not boring. People say im funny, im known for messing with people, pulling pranks, smelling good, im literally known for "Improving the mood". So being nice is not the only aspect to my personality.
/r/seduction08/05/24 10:39 PM
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Haha yeah i see it bro. So what do you think i do? Cut my losses? Thanks for opening my eyes
/r/seduction08/05/24 10:24 PM
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But i did make it sexual. On Date 2 i was touching her tits and shit. I guess i got caught lacking with my feelings for her.
/r/seduction08/05/24 10:14 PM
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Thanks for the help man
/r/seduction08/05/24 10:01 PM
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Im obviously new to the game. So itd be nice to actually here how this is a recipe of ghosting? As far as im aware, from talking to friends, im going at the right pace? Making a girl your girlfriend takes 1 to 3 months? She pulled the first move on me, saying "I had a crush on you for 2 weeks before i followed you on instagram". But thanks for the advice man.
/r/seduction08/05/24 09:56 PM
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No it isnt. Not in the slightest.
/r/seduction08/05/24 09:49 PM
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The problem is i dont see how im chasing? This girl pulled the first move on me. I would say in every date i have been confident and funny. Is the fact im even trying to do this redemption stuff me chasing? I dont see how i am chasing, however, i definitely want to feel affection, so this is clearly where i want this to work out, and why im making these posts to try fix this.
/r/seduction08/05/24 09:43 PM
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This isnt even advice bro. You havent helped me in anyway apart from try be the "Cool guy" over reddit.
/r/seduction08/05/24 09:27 PM
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I have religious parents, cant have her over, she knows this. She said she wanted to take it slow, then invited me over, i did try push it forward but to no avail. Shes hinted at me cuffing her, her friends like me.
/r/seduction08/05/24 09:22 PM
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I mean im 18, shes 17. I think the pace right now isnt too crazy considering age.
/r/seduction08/05/24 09:04 PM
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Nope. I have fondled her breasts + ass.
/r/seduction08/05/24 08:56 PM
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Thanks for your in depth comment, ive spent a good bit breaking it down haha. I know people that started at 50 what are you talking about Late. I know 18 isnt late for dating by any stretch, but i mean i would shy away from girls till this year. Like i had 0 friends i could say are my friends. What is a talking stage ? You kids and your modern words . Haha, so, a "Talking stage" is basically someone you are dating. Its between dating and making them your girlfriend. Or simply dating. That is an …
/r/seduction08/05/24 06:23 PM
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With the current girl i have touched her breasts and ass. When i went to her house i was expecting it to go further than, so i brought condoms. Didnt go further than kissing and shit. With this girl its been around 3 i think.
/r/seduction08/05/24 06:01 PM
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Wasnt the first date. More around 3 or 4. But nevertheless in the moment i was thinking wether it was too much or not. Asked my friends, and got a mixed bag of opinions. Some saying It is, while others said it was sweet and differentiated me from other guys.
/r/seduction08/05/24 05:05 PM
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Dude wtf, youre right. I always have this "I wonder when this will will end." mindset. AND THEN i see these hints, like her saying shes sick, or taking longer to respond. And i convince myself "This is it, this is the last one". Then i double down on texting (I stopped this part and generally give the same energy back), but i still do this: make myself hyper available, hyper conversational. Girls can sense the desperation i guess. Dude wow, what a can of worms you opened.
/r/seduction08/05/24 04:16 PM
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I love hanging out with these girls, the issue i have is, genuinely in the back of my mind I have this thought "I wonder when this is going to end". This sucks. I would Love to identify the issue. If its me, so be it, ill fix it. You are right, it really shouldnt matter if shes lying or not. I got exams, need to focus on them. Ultimately i think my issue is im new to the dating scene, im still in this sort of Disney mindset of "This girl is the one". Just like the other comment said, i hope i be…
/r/seduction08/05/24 03:58 PM
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Is there anyway i can shift this draining mindset? I mean the biggest issue i have is i go into the interaction with the mindset "Only looking for fun, i dont care if i get ghosted" and then a couple dates in im looking at my phone constantly to see if they reply. I would like to say i dont spam message, or do anything clingy that the other person would notice. Im clingy in silent haha.
/r/seduction08/05/24 03:05 PM
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Thanks for the advice man, I think this is just super draining. I get this is how the game is but man. I wish everyone would relax on the trigger haha.
/r/seduction08/05/24 02:56 PM
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