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| 1 | CMV: "I thought y'all chose the bear" is an immature response to women's frustration with datingThey meant bear over an ugly ugly. A good looking guy will always win over either a bear or an ugly/average guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 06:15 PM |
| – | "But I know so many ugly guys who are married !"I think this is jumping to a far reaching conclusion. A man just doesn't want to be told or implied to that a woman only married him for his money/stability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 06:10 PM |
| 3 | Nothing wrong with dating actuallyI just think it ends up being disingenuous in most cases. And yes there are women out there who have different priorities, I am not denying that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 06:09 PM |
| 3 | Nothing wrong with dating actuallyA good looking guy can have that too "'I would like a gf whose similar to me, and maybe some freinds?'" And an easier time at it than 99% of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 05:48 PM |
| 3 | Nothing wrong with dating actuallyI can't even make sense of your sentences at this rate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 05:45 PM |
| 4 | Nothing wrong with dating actuallyBut a really good looking guy can have those average women and good looking women. He can have whomever he wants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 05:44 PM |
| 3 | Nothing wrong with dating actuallyBut the thing is, they will tell this to an unattractive man anyway, why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 05:41 PM |
| 3 | Nothing wrong with dating actuallyI never said anything regarding your looks or my looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 05:40 PM |
| 3 | Nothing wrong with dating actuallyI didn't say anything about my own looks. My point is, if you are good looking, you will generally have little issues with dating. It is what it is. Of course, people can value other things if they want to. Like some people value a lot of money, intelligence, being good at art, etc. It's up to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Nothing wrong with dating actuallyAre you a man or a woman? I can't tell. Your flair says man but your posts read more like a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Nothing wrong with dating actuallyThe women themselves may not, but they might tell someone "looks aren't the big deal" and/or may talk about someone who isn't very attractive they allegedly know that does well dating. Again, you may not align with these women so you may not see their comments, but I see it a lot. Granted, it's not just women though. There are many bluepilled men here too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 05:32 PM |
| 1 | What constitutes a simp?Calling a man a simp isn't misandry per se but it can be depending on the context. Usually guys call someone a simp when it is clear the woman doesn't reciprocate the same level of mutual respect towards the said simp. However, there are definitely guys out there who call any man a simp just for being respectful, but it's not usually the case IME. There is treating a woman well, but then there is treating a woman well when it is clear she doesn't really like you and she is just exploiting you fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 05:28 PM |
| – | We need to retire the dating app argument as to why men are unsuccessful.Yeah, second this. Plus IIRC most people did not meet through dating apps in 2009 anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 05:22 PM |
| – | "But I know so many ugly guys who are married !"I was specifically referring to Beta Buxxers. I guess I should have made that more clear initially. Yes there are many poor and ugly people in relationships, but the context OP is outlining is more the beta bux concept and usually the men in those cases are rich. But even being rich doesn't necessarily help them get much out of their league, although I am aware there are exceptions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Nothing wrong with dating actuallyYes, but there are also many women here that deny the importance of looks. I do agree such men should either just get plastic surgery to get to their desired league or lower their league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Nothing wrong with dating actuallyI wasn't even complaining. I was just stating a simple fact. No offense and I don't mean to be rude, but did my comment get to you for a reason? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 05:07 PM |
| – | "But I know so many ugly guys who are married !"They are 100% still a thing. Just look at social media and people lusting over celebrities. These are not just young people either. Attractive celebrities have large followings for a reason. And it's not just a thing online either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 05:02 PM |
| 3 | Nothing wrong with dating actuallyIf this subreddit just accepted that looks are more or less the main picture, both sides would shut up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 04:59 PM |
| 7 | Nothing wrong with dating actuallyNever said that. Good looking people were always valued. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 04:53 PM |
| – | "But I know so many ugly guys who are married !"Well that just proves my point even further. Most people are not only looksmatched, but status and overall SMV matched. I grew up in the rural South so I saw this all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 04:51 PM |
| – | "But I know so many ugly guys who are married !"I feel like there's also just a lot more women here; it makes it seem like men's voices and opinions are drowned out but that's just me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 03:45 PM |
| – | "But I know so many ugly guys who are married !"People always don't look at the big picture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 03:44 PM |
| 9 | Nothing wrong with dating actuallyIf you're good looking, you can have whatever you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 03:43 PM |
| – | "But I know so many ugly guys who are married !"True. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 03:16 PM |
| – | "But I know so many ugly guys who are married !"I think some of these people are just bitter about their past relationship experiences and projecting it onto us men here, as if we're responsible for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 03:13 PM |
| – | "But I know so many ugly guys who are married !"Yeah I think most guys just want one loyal woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 03:10 PM |
| – | "But I know so many ugly guys who are married !"It's all about looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 02:56 PM |
| – | "But I know so many ugly guys who are married !""Look I’m sorry but not every man can live out his biological imperative to be a warlord with 1000 concubines." Where did anyone say that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 02:53 PM |
| – | "But I know so many ugly guys who are married !"It's amazing how people on this subreddit don't realize this and still want to live in some bluepilled fantasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 02:43 PM |
| – | "But I know so many ugly guys who are married !"Yeah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 02:31 PM |
| – | "But I know so many ugly guys who are married !"Most of those "ugly guys" are usually just rich/well off older guys who are with women who are roughly looksmatched with them. Yes, they are exactly beta buxxers, but they also usually aren't married to women who are out of their looks league either per se. But yes the whole argument is disingenuous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 02:12 PM |
| – | Society upholds women’s standards of men more than men’s standards of women, because women’s ideal man is someone broadly admired and socially successful, while men’s ideal woman is someone valued almost exclusively by her romantic partnerITT: Most people don't really understand the ideals of either gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 02:11 PM |
| 1 | If women were not into men, there wouldn't be so many women being side chicks and humiliating themselves for a manYeah I agree. Face is the king, although if we are speaking for most normal/average guys, height seems to come out on top. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 09:53 AM |
| -5 | Women logically are the cause of most dating problemsWe should just start plastic surgery trust funds for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 09:47 AM |
| 4 | Who typically tolerates ignorance in a potential partner more? Men or Women?Men don't care as long as she is attractive, loyal, and compatible with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Some Women Are So Obsessed With Older Men That It Makes You Wonder . . .It's just about looks. That's it. Nothing more to it. Be they older or younger men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 04:36 PM |
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