SpoiledVegetable Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Any pointers on how to start and hold a convo?		SpoiledVegetable	/r/seduction	21/12/19 08:01 PM
0	Did I miss something? I've been trying to decipher this for awhile	Conversation	SpoiledVegetable	/r/seduction	19/07/20 01:54 PM

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6	Eye contact when the other person doesn't break it first Its the matter of intent, not the action itself, imo. If i'm committed, i can stare you down so hard u'll feel awkward, but thats not the point of eye contact, especially in this context with women.	/r/seduction	12/10/20 04:45 PM
1	Guys, when a woman refuses to date you, accept her rejection in good faith and don’t fall into the temptation of insulting her. Doing that shows her that you lack manners and dating courtesy. Don’t try and persuade, coerce or manipulate a woman who is not interested in you into giving you a chance. So the answer is "no", right. Welp have fun ¯\_(ツ)_/¯	/r/seduction	09/08/20 07:46 PM
1	Guys, when a woman refuses to date you, accept her rejection in good faith and don’t fall into the temptation of insulting her. Doing that shows her that you lack manners and dating courtesy. Don’t try and persuade, coerce or manipulate a woman who is not interested in you into giving you a chance. A bit better, still missing that "punch" when trying to shit talk tho. Nevertheless, quite a nice deflection. Or have you grown up already to stop throwing random insults?	/r/seduction	09/08/20 07:30 PM
0	Guys, when a woman refuses to date you, accept her rejection in good faith and don’t fall into the temptation of insulting her. Doing that shows her that you lack manners and dating courtesy. Don’t try and persuade, coerce or manipulate a woman who is not interested in you into giving you a chance. Ah, I'm sorry. Wasn't aware I was dealing with a 5 year old	/r/seduction	09/08/20 02:49 PM
1	Guys, when a woman refuses to date you, accept her rejection in good faith and don’t fall into the temptation of insulting her. Doing that shows her that you lack manners and dating courtesy. Don’t try and persuade, coerce or manipulate a woman who is not interested in you into giving you a chance. I mean, you asked the question, I answered. Tho if you prefer painting everything in black and white, who am I to stop you?	/r/seduction	09/08/20 02:44 PM
4	Guys, when a woman refuses to date you, accept her rejection in good faith and don’t fall into the temptation of insulting her. Doing that shows her that you lack manners and dating courtesy. Don’t try and persuade, coerce or manipulate a woman who is not interested in you into giving you a chance. Wow those are dangerous mindsets. A bit morbidly curious as to how they got to that point	/r/seduction	09/08/20 04:37 AM
3	Guys, when a woman refuses to date you, accept her rejection in good faith and don’t fall into the temptation of insulting her. Doing that shows her that you lack manners and dating courtesy. Don’t try and persuade, coerce or manipulate a woman who is not interested in you into giving you a chance. Bruh. Your point is "yes man can be asshole, but you are also a bitch". It's the "you are also a bitch" everyone has an issue with. Have you considered a possibility that maybe it's those guys fault? Like how often do women get approached? And how often do they have to shoot them down? It's like a never ending flow of mosquitoes that whittles away at your patience, so no wonder they snap. Can people who snap, handle it better? Sure, however it's a situation that's been forced on them, so you sho…	/r/seduction	09/08/20 04:27 AM
1	Did I miss something? I've been trying to decipher this for awhile a....	/r/seduction	19/07/20 02:30 PM
1	Did I miss something? I've been trying to decipher this for awhile ... Both. We are both not exactly the best conversationalists. We were reminiscing (thats a terrible word for what actually happend) about us both in school having a crush on each other and how that went nowhere. "i'manyofit" just threw me off, no idea what she meant by that	/r/seduction	19/07/20 02:16 PM
1	Did I miss something? I've been trying to decipher this for awhile "I'll just stop" was in reference to me correcting my typo only to have another typo that I had to correct again. The topic we were talking about was heavy in the first place, so wasn't sure which part of it needed more explaining	/r/seduction	19/07/20 02:02 PM
1	People here dont appreciate the wisdom and stuff you learn of game. That... Feels... Backwards? Of course there are people who do it from the wrong reasons. and that is why this is backwards logic. People get into "game" to get laid, self-improvement is an accident. What i'm suggesting is do some self-improvement, and "game" will become your "accident"	/r/seduction	21/05/20 10:20 AM
55	Are some girls / guys really out of your league? idk, this sub was never good with giving advice. Its all about vague ideas and/or "just go do it"	/r/seduction	22/04/20 01:10 PM
1	What you need are social skills or you can make excuses why you won't Riiiiiiiight. My bad. The question isn't whatever i will or i wont. The question is how to improve	/r/seduction	30/03/20 10:06 AM
3	What you need are social skills Now thats interesting. I have no clue where you got the idea that i dont want to socialize. This is just fascinating. No, what i'm saying is that your "just do it" is less then useless	/r/seduction	30/03/20 09:54 AM
2	What you need are social skills Wow this is quite the long-winded way to say "just do it", which again is not exactly helpful. Its like me trying to explain differential equations with "oh its simple, just do it" while you are still struggling to add 2 digit numbers together without a calculator. There's no "Do ABC and XYZ will happen." Yes and no. Now that depends on how u take those sort of "instructions". There is a big difference between doing and explaining. "Jump off the mountain if you want to die" vs "jumping off high …	/r/seduction	30/03/20 08:02 AM
1	What you need are social skills I think that's the most constructive comment here	/r/seduction	30/03/20 07:39 AM
2	What you need are social skills you get better at socializing by socializing HOW is the question that no one seems to be able to answer. Me saying "hi" to everyone wont fix my issue that i manage to kill any convo even when i try not to. "Oh just ask questions" my ass. After 1-3 of em there is nothing else to ask. "oh branch out" is oh very helpful. Like there is a lot of to go on from "I've ate ham and cheese sandwich" or something. This isn't something like learning how to play an instrument, how to rockclimb, how to build a…	/r/seduction	29/03/20 11:35 PM
1	Game is about you are you implying that if i have all my shit together, am prideful to a point of narcissism and whatever else, ladies will start flocking me from all the sides? xD	/r/seduction	16/03/20 08:02 AM
3	Shut up and let them talk I can do it but I refuse to because it would turn either dark or technical and no one wants to listen about how AI will come around and kill us all and I'll probably be the one to set them off (I'm a software engineer)	/r/seduction	15/03/20 01:39 PM
11	I've read a lot of books, and most were useless. But these 3 have helped me the most: 'Models' by Mark Manson, 'How To Win Friends And Influence People' by Dale Carnegie, and 'Way Of The Superior Man' by David Deida. If I had to start again, I'd just read and revise these books, and ignore the rest. The one I got is by Allan & Barbara Pease. Not sure if there is more with that title (there is quite a few on the topic tho)	/r/seduction	12/02/20 08:25 PM