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Generally IOI, but it doesn't matter. Talk to her and find out.
/r/seduction18/12/15 05:25 PM
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Dude I'm 34. I was 32 when I did the 14-day grinder. It's so fun you don't notice the pain lol.
/r/seduction18/12/15 02:49 PM
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It could have just as easily been a red bull or anything else. I only mentioned the A because I happen to be prescribed.
/r/seduction18/12/15 02:28 PM
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I'm not advocating any particular substance. I'm advocating a 2-week period where you go absolutely ham and FORCE yourself to go out ever night until last call, SOLO, making the best of sometimes shitty situations. You learn to be social, resourceful, and you learn to generate fun for others. I am in no way advocating any sort of long run substance dependency or any other permanent self-destructive behavior, but pushing your own limits for some pre-defined period of time is the best way I've fou…
/r/seduction18/12/15 02:00 PM
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You'd think, right? As much as that makes sense, and it DOES make sense, girls (especially hot ones) are conditioned by society to give guys a hard time, because they get hit on constantly. Seriously, I'm not trying to be overly sappy here, but they're humans too. Once you go out enough and figure out your own methods that work for you to break through the shit tests, you'll find out that a lot of chicks you thought were bitches are actually charming, intelligent, engaging humans who happen to a…
/r/seduction18/12/15 01:57 PM
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I still had a job. You learn to deal with it. Just drink red bull or whatever you need to do, then handle your shit during the day. I don't exactly have a slapdick dayjob either, I was in Institutional Commercial real estate acquisitions back when I did this, so think Boiler Room 70 hrs/week kind of high pressure shit. I still made it work. It's rough, but it's not a long-term life choice. Just a short-term "finding yourself" kind of experience. Honestly the best nights are when you're out alone…
/r/seduction18/12/15 01:55 PM
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The addy was just a suggestion. Whatever it takes. The "sleep" part is the issue. If you have a day job, staying out till 3am every night for 2 weeks can be tough, but I still recommend it. Definitely not a positive long term life choice, but for people who are trying to get out of their shell, it's a short term sacrifice for a permanent life-changing experience. I say this because I did it.
/r/seduction18/12/15 01:52 PM
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And I'm saying it's part of the game. Nice girls act like bitches in dating scenarios as a screening device. Win them over. They aren't bad people, society has conditioned them to do what they're doing.
/r/seduction18/12/15 01:15 PM
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No one's opinion of you matters. Only your opinion of you matters. You're only letting other's opinion of you influence you because your own opinion of yourself is substandard. We all do it. I do it. But we should all TRY to ignore it.
/r/seduction18/12/15 01:05 PM
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The only way to get over a girl is with new girls. Go out every single night for 2 weeks until last call, SOLO, talking to every single stranger you can, and then see if you feel the same way. My money's on you being a changed man. It'll beat you up, but it'll also totally change your life. Changed mine.
/r/seduction18/12/15 01:01 PM
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Dude you're in HIGH SCHOOL. No relationship is worth a shit. If it's more than 20 minutes of trouble, GTFO and find something else. Source: 34 year old man
/r/seduction18/12/15 01:00 PM
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Have my upvote good sir!
/r/seduction18/12/15 12:59 PM
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Don't take shit tests personally. You're getting butthurt for absolutely no reason.
/r/seduction18/12/15 12:58 PM
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Get some adderall or red bull or whatever it takes. I encourage everyone in community to go out every single night for 2 weeks until last call. It'll beat you up, but it's finite and it'll change your life. You'll be a totally different person at the end.
/r/seduction18/12/15 12:55 PM
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Honestly? If you have that much social anxiety but are otherwise experiencing success? Get a Paxil prescription or something, or go see a psychiatrist. Nothing wrong with professional input. It sounds like your biggest issues are in your own head.
/r/seduction18/12/15 12:46 PM
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I'm not even sure what this post is supposed to be. Clarify pls
/r/seduction18/12/15 12:44 PM
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I mean, for next time, you should have suggested something, rather than leaving it up to her. For under 21, say you'll blaze and go to a museum or get a flask and go to the movies, something like that. The best dates make the girl feel like she's doing a little something she shouldn't. Nothing brings two humans together like a little misbehavior. In this specific case? Don't say shit. If she replies, then cool. If not, then NEXT.
/r/seduction18/12/15 12:41 PM
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Don't volunteer it, no. Never volunteer any sort of DHV. Make them pull it out of you. Every time you volunteer a DHV it's counterproductive. If you meet a girl who wants to get buds, you can say you're your own source, but don't go out there advertising it (beyond the obvious reasons). Don't hide it, don't lie about it, but don't use it as a marketing point either.
/r/seduction18/12/15 12:37 PM
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Stop complimenting. Give her shit, make her work for it. Don't be a dick, but don't bear your soul at the first opportunity either. And by "hooking up" you mean fucking? You want a relationship with this chick but she just wants to be FWB? OP needs more information.
/r/seduction18/12/15 12:35 PM
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I've never used any sort of online dating. If you're not meeting so many people in the course of real life, just by going out and talking up strangers, then you're not going out often enough.
/r/seduction18/12/15 12:34 PM
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www.reddit.com/r/relationshipadvice
/r/seduction18/12/15 12:33 PM
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MAKE A MOVE If it doesn't work, move on. Otherwise you're trapping yourself in purgatory indefinitely. If a girl will spoon with you, she'll hook up with you. It's only your lack of confidence that's stopping you. Next time you're cuddling, pull her hair a little and plant one on her. If she recoils, it was never going to happen anyway, but if she's already cuddling in a bed with you, I'll eat my fucking socks if she's not feeling you. Stop waiting for shit to come to you, just do things.
/r/seduction18/12/15 12:33 PM
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This is bullshit. Stop focusing on girls. Go out every night, until closing time, for two weeks and meet people. I don't care if "people" is dudes, or 60yo women, or whatever. Just get some adderall or red bull or whatever and go to bars solo for 14 days and push yourself to start up conversations with randos and make friends. Some of these will inevitably either be or lead to attractive women. Push your comfort zone. Don't do it for girls, do it for you. It'll make you a different person.
/r/seduction18/12/15 12:31 PM
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MO = Modus Operandi
/r/seduction18/12/15 10:47 AM
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Just grab their hair and fucking go for it. NEVER ask to kiss a girl, just do it. Permission is awful. IMO on a first date, best time to kiss a girl is when you're bouncing them from the 1st venue to the 2nd, walking. Just stop, grab her hair lightly, and say something like "I'm going to go ahead and do this now" then lay it on, but then be the one who pulls back first, and keep walking like nothing happened. Girls get anxious when you've gone through a whole date and haven't kissed them bc they…
/r/seduction18/12/15 10:14 AM
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Why daygame? IMO the best angle you can have with a girl is "I'm going to show you a good time that no one else has ever shown you", and it's IN the moment, not like "I'm going to get your number and we'll do this later. The best dates are instadates. Be unforgettable. I've daygamed but it's always with the same MO. The idea is always to find a girl and go do something totally crazy with them and create a memory right then and there. Everything else is secondary. It's not even about fucking. We …
/r/seduction18/12/15 10:11 AM
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Go out EVERY NIGHT for 2 weeks. EVERY SINGLE NIGHT, until closing time. Get some adderall, red bull, whatever it takes. SOLO. Within 10 minutes in every bar, be in conversation with a stranger. I don't care if it's a 50yo dude. Whatever, just meet people. In the first 2-3 sets of girls, just say any fucking thing. Run up behind them and put your arm around a group of hot young chicks and say "Ya'll bitches hear that?" and then fart and run away. Whatever. NO RULES. The idea here is to reinforce …
/r/seduction18/12/15 10:01 AM
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State is fucking bullshit made up by the pickup industry to get people to buy product. It's goddamned nonsense. State is what you make of it. In the first 20 minutes in any bar, you should be talking to strangers. Approach ANYONE. Groups of dudes, 50yo women, who-fucking-ever. Just meet other humans and make friends. Telegraph that you're about having a good time, and a good time will find you.
/r/seduction18/12/15 09:57 AM
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Girls are human. REMEMBER If average girls are finding you attractive, then hot girls find you JUST as attractive, only the latter is socially conditioned to play it cool. If you're getting positive feedback at all, then assume it's coming from EVERYONE, and project that onto the girl you like.
/r/seduction18/12/15 09:55 AM
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Not necessarily. If you have a ton of good close friends, you can just hunt and feel complete. If you want a relationship, get one, and then if it doesn't live up to expectations, you know that you can always go break it off and hunt again. Getting comfortable with your ability to walk into a bar and pull a girl will make you a better person, as much as the feminists may disagree. You'll tolerate less bullshit in relationships and generally respect yourself more. Where do you live?
/r/seduction18/12/15 09:53 AM
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Get outside of the college scene. Where do you live? Can you get a fake ID or are you 21? Go to bars where there are chicks other than college girls. PM for specifics
/r/seduction18/12/15 09:51 AM
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Don't focus on lines or routines that anyone else tells you. The best "lines" are situational. Use the world around you to generate conversation. The best conversations with girls are where you draw them into your reality and either comment on or participate in the scene that you're both in. Live in the now. This sounds like a great party BTW. Where do you live?
/r/seduction18/12/15 09:50 AM
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GET A FAKE SON It's 2015. You can get a fake that scans and works anywhere for like $300. Best money you'll ever spend.
/r/seduction18/12/15 09:48 AM
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1.) Stop the opinion openers. If you're spending this much time, you want to devote that time to developing routines that are your own. Nothing wrong with routines, but homegrown is best. You're putting in the time, may as well develop your own shit. 2.) Why so much daygaming? Bars man, bars.
/r/seduction18/12/15 09:47 AM
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Honestly lately? I've been way more into random sarging than hitting the sure thing, even when I have rotation girls lined up. Nothing like going out and eating what you kill, it's a rush.
/r/seduction18/12/15 09:45 AM
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Thank you sir for being the voice of reason. This is an awful situation and OP should run as fast as he can.
/r/seduction18/12/15 09:44 AM
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"Do what you can, with what you have, where you are". -- Theodore Roosevelt
/r/seduction18/11/15 07:22 PM
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Familiarity does not breed attraction. If you're not getting anywhere, spending more time together and eliminating even more mystique/unknowns isn't going to help.
/r/seduction18/11/15 06:16 PM
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Just talk to other girls while you're out. Don't take their numbers, don't make out with them, just talk to them and be cocky and fun and whatever. It's practice, and you already don't care, which is 99% of confidence.
/r/seduction18/11/15 05:51 PM
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Spain?
/r/seduction18/11/15 05:49 PM
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Be a cocky shit. Ask ridiculous questions, don't give straight answers, and generally just be playful. At the same time, if she does say something substantive, really listen.
/r/seduction18/11/15 05:48 PM
2

Walk by and drop a note that says: "Nice to have almost met you. XXX-XXX-XXXX" i.e. your number. Actually hitting on a girl in a library or something seems obnoxious, IMO. Sort of like the gym.
/r/seduction18/11/15 05:48 PM
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That's not really an AMOG. If anything, it's an opportunity for YOU to AMOG. Try to bounce the whole group if the guy was that interested in talking to you. Ask him to get the whole crew to walk to another bar or something. Time between venues tends to break up the conversation groups and people get to know each other on the way. i.e. take control of the situation, be the leader. Or just order shots for the whole group, I guess.
/r/seduction18/11/15 05:45 PM
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Dude she sent you n00dz. Just tell her to come over. Don't even ask her out. Just text her back this picture: http://cdn0.dailydot.com/cache/a8/e0/a8e019e7435e37873423a39a403a0032.jpg
/r/seduction18/11/15 05:43 PM
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I like you
/r/seduction18/11/15 05:42 PM
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1.) Grow Beard 2.) Find girl and talk to them 3.) While you are talking to them, hold their hand and rub it against beard. Maintain eye contact. 4.) Probably get laughed at, but fuck it why not. For the lulz.
/r/seduction18/11/15 05:41 PM
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EIFFEL TOWER WITH ROOMMATE GO!
/r/seduction07/04/15 05:48 PM
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No problem.
/r/seduction12/02/15 07:33 PM
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Of what, the environmental thing or just regarding getting to know people in general? IMO, the best way to get to know someone is to experience things with them. So if you're talking to a girl, in a place, you're both experiencing that conversation and that place. Why talk about your jobs or where you're from? Talk about what you're experiencing. Talk about how the line for the bathroom was insane and how you saw some guy doing bumps in a stall, or how it's full of business happy hour people who…
/r/seduction12/02/15 07:06 PM
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Just a thought, as I've got a couple of friends who had it and then either got therapy or Paxil and were much better for it. If going into a social situation like a bar makes you seriously apprehensive ("seriously" is relative), then it's probably worth looking into.
/r/seduction12/02/15 07:03 PM
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Honestly, you should look into whether or not you have social anxiety disorder. I am NOT suggesting you medicate your way out of the program, but go get a good psychiatrist and describe your shyness. If you get that out of the way, there are a lot of ways to meet people in 2015. While I don't think it's a super great way to meet girls, if you just want to become more social, try meetup.com Find a few events or groups that are interesting to you and show up. The whole point is no one knows each o…
/r/seduction12/02/15 05:47 PM
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Don't ask the same shit that everyone else does. Asking someone where they went to school or what they do for a living or where they're from doesn't really help you learn anything about them as a person. It should come from a genuine place of wanting to understand and know the person you're in a conversation with. What do YOU want to know about them? Ask questions that will shed light on whatever that is. Humans are lazy and we all just want to go on autopilot and not have to be particularly tho…
/r/seduction12/02/15 05:31 PM
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I'm probably going to get downvoted into oblivion for this, but this is not exactly the most informative post. I feel like if you're going to recommend anything to people on here, you owe them some specifics. Discipline is about holding yourself accountable, no matter what the goal happens to be. Set defined metrics and stick to them, whether it's lifting, something at work, going out, or whatever. Say you're going to go out 2-3 nights per week, until last call, and keep at it for like a year. S…
/r/seduction12/02/15 05:16 PM
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Big D with the wisdom as usual
/r/seduction12/02/15 03:44 PM
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