SpontaneousLightBulb Archive

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1	Are any of you planning on reading Neil Strauss' new book, The Truth: An Uncomfortable Book About Relationships? Yeah #2 is spot on. I think Neil's particular issue may apply to himself a bit, but is definitely not unique. In my experience with PUA, I left the South Florida lair because it seemed a lot of guys were pursuing the abundance lifestyle for validation, which is oxymoronic. To treat woman as abundant, but to reframe yourself so heavily just to pursue them doesn't accomplish your acceptance of abundance mentality, rather you just rationalize validating yourself through others, and rationalize the …	/r/TheRedPill	15/10/15 09:20 PM
2	Why it's Important to Learn how to Spin Plates Yeah I do have to agree that most of this is how you find partners, and avoid letting yourself get down when you have a rejection or don't find women for prolonged periods of time. I do think though that a lot of people adopt these habits as part of their general ethos, which can become problematic at the point that they do choose a partner for a LTR. Holding frame is a good example, where sometimes it pays to be submissive in certain situations. If you're excellent at maintaining your frame, al…	/r/TheRedPill	19/01/15 05:45 PM