Sponton Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	40[M] going through a major dry spell - what can I do??? top comment	/r/seduction	09/11/17 07:45 PM
1	40[M] going through a major dry spell - what can I do??? Read this, if it doesn't work, read it again. https://www.reddit.com/r/getdisciplined/comments/1q96b5/i_just_dont_care_about_myself/	/r/seduction	09/11/17 07:17 PM
1	At my wit's end, but I don't want to give up wouldn't say lower your standards, but be realistic. I'm going to be straight with you. There's not a perfect person out there, you're going to meet a lot of people that will get you excited for the first few weeks, perhaps months if you're lucky enough, and then you will realize that person isn't exactly who you thought they were, that it turns out those qualities you saw in the person were rather part of a more complex façade. So you will get dissapointed for a while and then you will meet som…	/r/seduction	27/01/17 09:38 PM
2	At my wit's end, but I don't want to give up I think you're scared. It makes sense since sex isn't something you've been involved in. You're scared at being bad at it, or perhaps I'm projecting myself when I was younger but I don't think that is the case. If I were you I would find an ok looking girl who's just as horny and have sex with her. And I give this as an objective advise, you will realize how unglamorous and unromantic and unimportant sex is (of course this is when you have no idea what you're doing) but as you move on in the exp…	/r/seduction	27/01/17 04:15 PM
5	Got nervous while putting on condom Stop worrying about it, that's the only way. Take it slow, enjoy the act. It had never happened to me until a few weeks ago, I just laughed it off, had a bit of a chit chat, when to restroom to refresh and came back and continued.	/r/seduction	13/01/17 04:10 PM
1	24 year old virgin considering going to a escort Truth being told, you should do it. I mean, afterwards you'll realize how sex is really not that important [meaning it's not everything in this world]. it surely can be amazing when you do it with someone you have feelings for, but at the end of the day you'll realize that there are more fulfilling things in the world or at least equally fulfilling. Hmm, if it's going to help your self-esteem and it will help you feel more prepared when you meet somebody you can actually have a relationship with…	/r/seduction	13/01/17 04:03 PM
1	You ask a girl out, she said she's busy but will text you when she's free to see when you're available... but she doesn't. How do you proceed? Meh, women do the whole "I will ignore you" even if they're into you. Why? because that's the way women filter guys that just want to bang and are not willing to put the extra effort. So like the person above me said, just ask her out directly, worst that could happen is she says no and you go about your day, at least it's one less thing to worry about.	/r/seduction	03/01/17 09:18 PM
1	Silence is Safe, Seductive, and Sexy I agree but when you don't really know someone that well it's kind of nice cutting the flow of the conversation until the date, I think you're more eager to meet the person and talk to them rather than having forced texting conversations in which you try to be witty and you end up looking like an idiot. Plus you don't go into the date and then re-talk about what you already texted. Truth being told, I hate texting, I hate looking at my phone waiting for a text from her. So not texting allows me …	/r/seduction	03/01/17 08:56 PM
1	Stuck in a rut, any advice? We all go through those bumps, it's a good period to focus on improving yourself and healing your emotional wounds, when the time comes someone will come. It sounds cliché but it's nonetheless true, specially because I do think when one is going through rough patch one radiates bad energy, if you want to call it something, and then one morning it's all back to normal and you go on a lucky streak and gain more confidence. It's all cyclical, enjoy the good and the bad times.	/r/seduction	03/01/17 08:44 PM
2	How should I approach dating with loose skin? Like you said, the only time that a woman would stop herself from having sex with you is if you make the whole thing awkward. Be proud of who you are and what you've done [your transformation]. Everybody has a little wrong in all the right places, this is what makes us unique. The best thing about finding someone is being able to free yourself from them for a bit and have the other person do the same.	/r/seduction	03/01/17 08:40 PM
1	Stop Being A "Nice Guy", Damn It. Oh stop complaining and just work it. http://i.imgur.com/cx3Nvlp.jpg	/r/seduction	22/06/16 12:54 AM
1	Stop Being A "Nice Guy", Damn It. I think it depends on the degree of maturity. When you start you go for numbers, as you grow up you go for quality, because your perception of time is different, your value of time is completely different. It becomes more valuable (since you seem to have less of it) so you decide to invest it on somebody that's worth while, that makes you want to be better. I mean, i love the beginning of a relationship, the flirting, the getting to know each other, feeling vulnerable, opening your heart and bra…	/r/seduction	21/06/16 08:19 PM
2	Stop Being A "Nice Guy", Damn It. Yeah, I actually appreciate posts like this, I usually don't lurk around in this subreddit. At least this makes me think that not all of the people here are just following prescribed rules on how to pick up women, and going by a script. You know the typical "you have to be a douchebag so women like you" "be a dick" "ignore her" blabla I think part of making yourself attractive to people, not just women but anyone you will meet, is developing yourself, having self awareness, knowing what you like…	/r/seduction	21/06/16 07:45 PM
3	Stop Being A "Nice Guy", Damn It. haha, that made me laugh. There's nothing wrong with being courteous, you don't become less of a man by being so. I'd even dare saying that would make you stand out over your peers. Like the person below said, one thing is letting her use you, the other one is being polite because you appreciate/respect that person. I don't know if you're american, but I'm living here and I find it rather surprising how unpolite men are and how they think being a dick will make them more of a man. Genuinely, if …	/r/seduction	21/06/16 07:36 PM
2	Stop Being A "Nice Guy", Damn It. Yeah I agree with you. Dudes that claim to be 'the nice guy' don't seem to be self aware of what they're doing. They, as you claim in your post, behave in such a way purely because think they'll get a reward, they don't act selflessly, they think the manner they conduct themselves will grant them some power over someone else just because they went out of their way to do something extra, according to them because they're nice, but if this was the case they wouldn't get pissed off when things don'…	/r/seduction	21/06/16 07:31 PM
2	What do I do if she invites a friend to come with her? This is the best advice, I always accompany it by flirting on the other girl slightly nothing too noticeable for the coffee girl to feel offended, or just seem more interested in what she has to say. This works because the other feels less attractive and therefore inclined to do something to steal the attention. works like a charm.	/r/seduction	25/11/15 02:05 PM
4	I can't seem to attract the "girly" girls. You have to work the girly girls, seduce them slowly, charm them. With the girl-next-door type of girl it's always casual, I don't know if you've noticed, no need to impress them but your personality or whether you have fun together. With the girly girls there's the whole environment, your career, your future. They seem to be more variables at play that they pay attention to, like who do you know, who are your friends. It's funny in a way but I thought the same way regarding feeling more attract…	/r/seduction	24/11/15 03:06 AM
2	Going out with an older girl tomorrow, tips please? "Age is an issue of mind over matter. If you don't mind, it doesn't matter"	/r/seduction	28/09/15 06:52 AM