Spooky3264 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	I broke no contact like an idiot.... Dude she's keeping you as an orbitor. You have no kids together, she has kids from a previous relationship and she's gaslighting you about not seeing anyone. And keeping your last name?! Gray rock this woman and enjoy your freedom! My ex wife literally was saying the same shit, only to find out two weeks after the divorce she was "madly in love" with a new guy. All the while, she was telling me "I'm not looking for a relationship at this time". Just to keep me in her orbit. And to add insult to …	/r/Divorce_Men	25/06/26 07:18 PM
2	Need advice . Wife agrees to go our separate ways and live apart for good , but still wants to fuck exclusively . This is on point. Manipulation 100%. And you nailed it, even the less attractive woman have no problem finding dicks to suck at the bar. But they'll struggle to find one that actually wants her for more than a cock holster. So the ex wife claiming "Let's remain exclusive" is just her way of keeping you as the fall back plan, after all the dicks she sucks leaves her empty handed.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/05/26 12:38 PM
1	Considering escort This sounds completely ridiculous. But I don't necessarily know how to find E-scorts. Can't Google them. Can't ask neighbors or coworkers. Maybe near truck stops?	/r/Divorce_Men	03/03/26 02:10 AM
1	Considering escort Can these be performed in the US?	/r/Divorce_Men	03/03/26 01:08 AM
1	Question for divorced men. Why do some of you see an fwb instead of a prostitute for sex and vice versa why do some of you see a prostitute instead of a fwb? I keep hearing about prostitutes and massage girls. How do people find them? It seems like you have to know someone that knows where to go...	/r/Divorce_Men	15/12/25 02:36 PM
3	I’m honestly just angry now. Sorry to hear, your story is similar to mine. I tried to inform the AP's wife and she called me a lying crazy person. I literally have evidence and my ex wife admitted to the long term affair, yet the AP's stupid ass wife still chose to file a police report against me for stalking since I reached out to her. Eventually I found out the guy my wife slept with is a serial cheater. Women can be stupid as hell. Question for ya, how did telling his wife end up with you going to jail?	/r/Divorce_Men	09/10/25 07:47 AM
2	Did you have sex with your wife after separating? Doing the best I can .. some days are easier than others. I can't help but feel like I ruined my life but some days I see a glimmer of hope. Cheaters don't usually stop cheating.. they just get even better at hiding their antics. She promises she's a different person... But talk is cheap. Especially from a cheater	/r/Divorce_Men	11/09/25 06:56 PM
3	Did you have sex with your wife after separating? You are absolutely correct. But here's the thing I've learned, she is delusional at best, bipolar/manic/borderline personality disorder at worst. She dodges accountability like it's kryptonite. It was MY fault that she started sucking another man's dick. Literally her first line of defense was "you did this, you did that, what else was I supposed to do?!". NO, I did not shove that man's dick into your mouth! She ruined her family (we have 3 kids, 4th on the way). Our youngest was distraught over…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/09/25 06:34 PM
20	Did you have sex with your wife after separating? Edit for spelling* Be careful with sex after divorce. I suspected my wife of cheating, this began in 2022 when she started acting distant, changed her entire appearance (dyed* her hair black, got hair extensions, tattooed eyebrows, lip filler, Botox) and she stopped spending time with me. Late nights out, not knowing where she was or who she was with, you know all the typical signs of cheating. It led to us divorcing in June 2024. Fast divorce. By July that same year, she was "madly" in love wit…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/09/25 04:14 PM
5	Called my kids to pass along the news. Have you never watched a male athlete, UFC fighter, talk show host, or a dude in the military? Gloating and "I told you so" are exactly the things that men do. This dude knew his wife chose a clown loser. "I told you so" is quite fitting, and his kids will learn from it.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/06/25 06:55 PM
9	Having a real hard time. Time to focus on yourself, eat healthy, hit the gym, and learn to gray rock your stbxw. Yes, she will likely have a hot girl summer, and ride a few dicks in search of greener pastures. And she might even string you along during her dick tour, keeping you in her back pocket just in case nobody wants her for more than a cock holster. Stay strong, don't be her backup plan. Best of luck to you!	/r/Divorce_Men	07/06/25 01:37 PM
4	Wife Wants Divorce, Affair? Damn bro, your own wife said no French kissing? Diabolical! Sounds like she's protecting her affair partner over you. They generally become less attentive, less caring, etc. The really nasty ones will become angry at you often for no real reason. They may even purposely start fights with you. It gives them an excuse to run off to the other person. They may withhold intimacy and sex because they're getting it somewhere else and feel like they're cheating on their affair partner if they're intimat…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/05/25 03:09 PM
33	Talking to ex after divorce Listen, if she left you, destroyed the family in pursuit of her own happiness, I highly encourage you to gray rock her. She will ride the d*ck carousel, revisit old flings, enjoy new attention... Etc. But when she finds out that they only want her as a mushroom holster, she'll come running back. Don't allow her back in. She'll bring chaos. She'll view you as a weak man. It may not appear that way initially, but in due time, she'll return to the same person or worse. Take it from someone that wen…	/r/Divorce_Men	10/04/25 12:35 AM
5	My Wife is Leaving Me and The Country for Another Man This, all of this 💯%. OP, I hope you listen to this advice and follow it to a T. I was in a very similar situation, I stupidly assumed she wouldn't go scorched earth against me, but she did. Get ahead of her. Only a selfish whore destroys her family for some new dick.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/03/25 03:48 PM
3	Divorce + cancer? It's "Couldn't care less". Saying, "could care less" implies that they have some amount of care of us, but we all know these ex wives don't give a shit about anyone but themselves	/r/Divorce_Men	04/02/25 04:46 PM
2	I wish she hurt me. Damn man, I'm sorry that you had to experience all that. That's awful..	/r/Divorce_Men	24/01/25 10:24 AM
6	Did you cheat on your wife leading to divorce? How is this getting down voted? Cheating on your spouse is such an egregious act. It shows that you lack respect, and are willing to violate your partner's body, putting them at risk for an STD. It's abusive mentally, emotionally and spiritually as well. Physical abuse takes the edge as the worst thing a partner can do.. But cheating is a close second because it can cause physical damage to the body as well (bringing home an STD such as herpes, warts, HIV).	/r/Divorce_Men	10/01/25 04:48 PM
3	Is it easier to move on when you know your ex is dating again? Hopefully OP reads this. I had clues about my then wife, getting with other men. She's a sneaky harlot, so I never had concrete evidence. Late nights out, not answering her phone, being sneaky with her phone when she's around me. The divorce was finalized in June. I spent months in a depressed state, thinking about her, missing the illusion of a perfect relationship that we had, etc. Then, right before Christmas, my step daughter gave me the crushing news; my wife was having an affair from 2021-…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/12/24 02:23 PM
3	Checked her social media You are absolutely correct. My ex "fell in love" two weeks after our divorce. Made plans to move across the country, get married within the year and attempt to have kids. These clowns didn't last more than two months before he left her.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/10/24 11:56 AM
3	Truth always finds a way to the surface. This is wild.. two weeks after our divorce, she admitted to being in love with a new man, with plans to get engaged. She swore up and down she didn't cheat, and that the relationship began after the divorce. TWO weeks!	/r/Divorce_Men	10/09/24 02:17 PM
4	What was your final straw? Same	/r/Divorce_Men	08/08/24 03:12 PM
5	Learning to move on Thank you for sharing this. I needed to hear it. I'm not the OP but I'm going through a very similar situation.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/08/24 08:57 PM
5	What are some if the red flags in the beginning of the relationship that you missed? Holy crap, are you me? This defines my 14 year saga to a T. My now ex wife's first husband cheated multiple times, before her divorce was final, she forced herself upon me. Now looking back, I was obviously just a rebound. She pushed having a child, getting married, adoption , everything. We had a child together after 9 months of "dating", so I tried my best to make it work. She had two babies from her ex, that I raised as my own. Sperm donor didn't pay child support and he literally disappeared…	/r/Divorce_Men	06/08/24 06:22 PM