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| 2 | To Keep In Your ApartmentMixers. Major spirits (Gin, Vodka, Rum, Tequila, Whisk(e)y, and something girly like Bailey's). Trashcans either EMPTY or COVERED. No one wants to see your fap rags or dryer sheets. Something that has a cool story you can tell (thus incorporating storytelling and building value) - e.g. a weird shaped piece of driftwood ("Oh yeah, I found that when I was skin diving in the Cape...blah blah...") If you've got the cash, get some lights/fixtures from somewhere besides Wal-mart (e.g. no bare lightbul… | /r/seduction | 07/10/16 09:46 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with rejection from a girl you put in effort to...Yeah, she's not rejecting you, she's rejecting your approach. | /r/seduction | 04/08/16 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Any advice on tinder game?I really HATE texting Girls text. My grandma texts. Learn to not hate it. | /r/seduction | 02/08/16 06:40 AM |
| 1 | I can approach and build what seems like decent attraction with girls I meet, but when I contact them later I usually get ignored. Why?Use some callback humour or some sort of reference to your previous interaction in your texts +1. You've gotta give her a reason to remember you. | /r/seduction | 05/07/16 09:11 AM |
| 1 | I can approach and build what seems like decent attraction with girls I meet, but when I contact them later I usually get ignored. Why?She didn't respond to my last message (which was 2,5 days ago), and it doesn't even appear as if she read it / clicked the message, but she seems to be online quite often. Idk what to do? Stuff like this, you just have to be a goldfish. Start a new thread/subject/text opener. If she brings it up "oh so sorry I didn't reply" just be like "nbd." If not, then it is, in fact, nbd. | /r/seduction | 05/07/16 09:11 AM |
| 4 | I know this sounds sad but I got my first hug closeCan't make a shot you don't take. Everyone has to start somewhere, good job and good luck. | /r/seduction | 30/06/16 10:47 AM |
| 2 | Won't see her for 2 months, things to do until then?Why is it unlikely for you to see her? Make it likely. | /r/seduction | 30/06/16 10:46 AM |
| 3 | I can approach and build what seems like decent attraction with girls I meet, but when I contact them later I usually get ignored. Why?Are you texting them immediately after pulling their number/snapcode? Depending on what kind of gaming you've been doing with her leading up to that pull, you need to tie in some kind of flag that will firmly embed you in her mind. If she's a banker, for example, playfully tease her as an "evil banker" / "Do you foreclose on orphanages and kick out the kids yourself?" etc. (This is going somewhere, I promise). This can be about anything, an aspect of her personality, job, whatever, but the key s… | /r/seduction | 30/06/16 10:45 AM |
| 1 | One step forward, two steps back. Advice appreciated..Just remember, she can't reject you - because she doesn't (yet) know you. She can only reject your approach. | /r/seduction | 28/06/16 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Second lay problem. Any thoughts?Am I setting too casual a frame? Am I making it seem like I'm only interested in one night? Or perhaps is my approach attracting girls who themselves only want one night? Could be either or both. A drink date in itself isn't necessarily laying the groundwork for a ONS, I don't think. Followup question, are you actively trying to get a girlfriend from these Tinder dates? I thought Tinder was mostly people trying to get laid. | /r/seduction | 27/06/16 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Second lay problem. Any thoughts?Of these occurrences, what kind of dates did you have? What kind of frame were you setting during them? (SNL/ONS?) | /r/seduction | 27/06/16 01:50 PM |
| 3 | I'm 22yo. Where do you get the money to live by yourself and have money to pay for college.You sound like you're your own worst enemy. If you don't like yourself or your situation, no girl ever will. Even if you don't actually have your shit together yet, you need to frame it in the context of what you're doing to bring it together. Unless you're only into golddiggers, most girls will like you more for how you make her feel (humor, esteem, etc.) than what club you're in or what car you're [not] driving. I won't lie, the car thing might be a logistics issue depending on where you live,… | /r/seduction | 22/06/16 10:19 AM |
| 2 | [FR] First number close in a long time.Don't sweat the name thing too much. Not the first or the last time that will happen. Just play it off with a joking text. "You saved your number as CuteLawyer. Now that we know each other so well...blah blah real name." At that point she'll probably ask for yours. | /r/seduction | 10/02/16 12:47 PM |
| 2 | Looks fading due to receding hairline... what to do?Just shave it or get a crew cut. my head is completely the wrong kind for that look. If that's what you want to tell yourself. My look is 100% dependent on hair No it isn't. No one's is. | /r/seduction | 09/02/16 02:34 PM |
| 1 | How do you make your life more exciting?I'd fix that "most weekends" bit. Are you tied down geographically? Like in college or something, with deadlines that require you to be physically present? If you're in the US, go take a Southwest flight somewhere (RyanAir if in Europe). Anywhere. Approach women in that city. Mix it up. | /r/seduction | 01/02/16 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Another topic asking for advice about a girl that blew off a date!Don't ask her the yes/no question of "Do you want to hang out again." Answering "no" is easy as fuck and takes 2 seconds. Already have plans (because you do, because you're an interesting person), and invite/playfully tell her she's coming too. Talking is what people do with friends. Fucking is what people do to girlfriends. | /r/seduction | 01/02/16 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Tinder: Been using it for months, 0 matches.In this application, 20% of the ladies will be sough/chased by 80% of the guys, and 20% of the guys will get 80% of the ladies... | /r/seduction | 01/02/16 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Genius Underground Community or Just A Bunch of AFCs?Anyone who sees/perceives that someone else is happier with theirself than they are with themself is going to be salty. Do your thing man. | /r/seduction | 28/01/16 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Do fun filled parties that have tons of hot girls in them pretty much end after college?Or if you work in Hollywood and sling coke... | /r/seduction | 28/01/16 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Girls with boyfriends.There's no approach anxiety with someone that's taken. There is no question mark (or at least, not a very big one) over her head. | /r/seduction | 28/01/16 11:22 AM |
| 1 | hung up on "slut" I work withDo you like this girl, or do you like the idea of having a girlfriend that will blow you in the bathroom at a party? Sounds like you need to figure that out first. | /r/seduction | 28/01/16 11:20 AM |
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