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I’ll repeat this until I’m blue in the face. Women would much rather swipe on a bunch of 8/10 men while sipping wine and watching Netflix on the couch, than sit at a bar sipping an $18 Manhattan while a bunch of schlubby losers cold approach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:06 PM
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"Lots of women online" != how it works in the real world. Don't read too much into the whole macho take charge BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:23 PM
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You can very much make it romantic. I’ve had zero issues with this giving “the ick”.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:22 AM
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Can't really argue with any of your points; very clearly defined. I'd just toss in my $0.02... 1) Re: first kiss... at or before the end of the first date, I will always advocate going in for it before you head your separate ways. I'm big on consent, its certainly worth asking "can I kiss you", but just like popping the question or cross-examining a witness, don't ask the question if you don't already know the answer. Additionally, you can absolutely infer a great deal of sexual chemistry and sk…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:42 PM
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Men do not give a flying fuck about most of these things… have you ever asked a man what he finds attractive? A nice head of hair, sure. And don’t be Sasquatch, sure. Who gives a shit about your eyelashes or asymmetrical boobs? I guarantee you we do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:37 PM
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The sausagefest epidemic is VERY strong and not discussed enough. I commented yesterday in another sub something along the lines of "why would a woman sit at a bar and sip on an $18 manhattan and have schlubby losers approach her all night, when she can watch netflix on her couch and line up 2 weeks worth of dates with 8/10s without ever getting out of her pajamas?" You can't win either way lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:10 PM
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Wait until your mid30s. Zero women are interested in anything casual, unless it is the LAST resort.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:07 PM
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This. The number of times I've heard women complain about "talking to guys who look like the gym is their entire personality"... ...well, stop swiping on only ripped dudes and maybe you won't have this problem that YOU'RE causing? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:04 PM
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Bios are only there to determine the most basic of compatibility. Religious? Political leaning? Want kids? Cat or Dog person? Swipe based on that, then actually ASK the person about who they are. A few sentences are never going to give you an accurate picture of a "vibe"...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:02 PM
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but it said the (attractive) guy the woman knows in real life will always win over the chad she’s talking to online. Guys, you aren't hearing the full message. She's not comparing online chad to the "average man" in her social circle. She's comparing online chad to IRL chad-lite.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:00 PM
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Using social media is free. Almost every other social activity these days costs money.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:32 PM
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No idea why anything else needs to be said on this topic. This has been argued to death and back.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:30 PM
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I have one of these friends. The kind of guy who would bail your ass out of jail without hesitation at 3am. Hurts to see them struggle in romance, but you can only lead a horse to water…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:03 PM
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Everyone says “get off apps” but there are no single people out and about anymore where it is appropriate to socialize. It’s a real problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:17 PM
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The people this would help the most live in places where it is illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 06:16 PM
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Not what’s being debated here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:46 PM
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This. There is some unknown % of people who aren’t putting themselves out there and you’d never get hard data on how big that number is. Dating is expensive, and after the 50th bumble ghosting a guy might think “COD tonight with the boys is a much better use of my time.” And I wouldn’t blame them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:44 PM
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Prenups are often not worth the paper they’re printed on
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 11:31 PM
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If a dude is spitting redpill/blackpill tropes from the front seat of his truck while wearing oakleys... there's a 95% chance he's in a loveless marriage and his wife won't let him spout his bullshit in the house in front of their miserable kids. They're all idiots... except honestly I really enjoy that "Better Bachelor" guy, though I'm not sure he's even doing anything these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:37 PM
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They should be using bumble and hinge… those are “dating apps”. Tinder is and has forever been a “find someone to hookup with app”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:46 AM
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If you’re hot, you’re attractive to the largest pool of the opposite sex. The nerdy girl next door will still find you attractive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:04 PM
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White Anglo Saxon Protestant aka white girl ass aka “not big/round/plump”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:33 PM
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Was he wearing baggy Jedi robes to your dates? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:32 PM
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Fucking preach
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:47 PM
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Oh I would discourage the agoraphobia, but that doesn’t mean I can’t be sensitive to their position that many spaces are seemingly hostile (especially free activities). I live in a city with very few free activities that would be worthwhile for a single man to make friends… so I get the complaints. But sure… I’m feeding him poison…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 12:46 AM
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I go out plenty, I’m attempting to empathize with OPs plight.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 12:13 AM
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Perhaps OP is mistaking “hostility” with “sheer indifference”?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 11:06 PM
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FWIW all of the parks near me are full of homeless people. “Free” activities are not places you go to socialize anymore, sadly. Unless you live in Colorado and like hiking or disc golf.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 11:03 PM
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The sub was banned because men aren’t allowed to have safe spaces anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:52 PM
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I was genuinely “nice”, but after a decade of being nice getting me precisely nowhere I tried the opposite. And lo and behold I became much more successful in dating. Guys spout this shit because they experienced it firsthand, not because they read it on an Internet forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:49 PM
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My parents never told me to do any of that shit. You cannot apply your upbringing to every other man. And I imagine most of us would’ve LOVED to have someone sit us down and explain it so succinctly. Would’ve saved me about 10 years of dating headaches lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:40 PM
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Grew up in the conservative religious American south. Sex was taboo, and you were programmed to pedestalize women. Being a good kind man was all that was taught. Growing up is already a social minefield, and when you trust your peers when they say “be yourself” you completely miss the point. I never truly got any decent amount of attention until I hit the gym, became an aloof asshat with options, and stopped being a doormat. The bar for “nice” is low, but the bar for attraction is high. Many men…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:37 PM
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They swipe right on all the ripped guys and then wonder why he wont meet up for a pizza and beer… like… do you know how much self loathing it takes to look like that? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 09:21 PM
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Ladyboners is likely 70-85% gay men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:52 PM
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17/18 is old enough to know better. There are a handful of people I still wouldn’t forgive from this own era in my life either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:36 PM
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Haha exactly. This person is clueless
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:33 PM
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There is a cheat code here, it’s called “wear a fake wedding ring when going out” Pre selection is very real.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:29 PM
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Gotta play within the rules and results you’re given. 99% of women put “want a relationship” because if they were actually honest they’d get a deluge of “hey bby u wan sum fuk” And lol all you have to do is ask what someone is open to. Have a dialog. It’s not hard to figure out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:30 PM
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I actively advise women to never actually put "something casual" as what they're seeking for this reason. Everyone should just have "relationship" and then when you actually get a few messages in, you can have the "what are you really seeking" conversation. And lo and behold, MANY of them are completely fine with NSA/FWB/Casual. Guys, just don't be a douche for the first 5 hours and you're probably going to increase your odds 1000x. Think of the average man, sending the average neanderthal horny…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:07 PM
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Probably about 80% actually ;-) lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:05 PM
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You can, with two clicks, filter out based on age and what someone is looking for...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:02 PM
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They never want to be approached, unless they do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:54 PM
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Bro why do you think guys get puppies? They don’t want the unconditional love and affection and puppy breath mornings… dogs are chick magnets lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:53 PM
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They want men who "just get it" - this extends to understanding what they really want physically just like all of those other unmentioned requirements. It is a test, if a subconscious one. And we failed it during very crucial formative years.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:53 AM
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INB4 "it should be obvious to any man with eyes and ears that looks matter"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:46 AM
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There'd be a gym on every corner in America if women actually told men what mattered most.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:44 AM
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This. Don’t work on your personality first, go to the gym and don’t look up until you’re top 10%. Then guess what? You’ll realize that your personality was never the real issue! Crazy how that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:11 AM
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"Dark hair and green eyes" are still specific physical attributes. My point is, what I was told (by my parents, my peers, popular media, etc.) was that female attraction was "complicated" but dependent primarily upon non-physical attributes (see: funny, smart, charismatic, commanding, sensitive, etc.). And that "universally attractive frame" is different for every woman and isn't all that important. I guess this all boils down to what matters most. If someone (either a woman whose opinion I resp…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:29 PM
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This is literally all I was told growing up - that personality, sense of humor, etc. were what women are really attracted to. Just cause a girl says she likes a guy who's kind and loves animals and volunteers with the homeless doesn't mean she's implying she likes any guy who does that. But some guys act like she's committing some purposefully misleading omission by not adding "and is also hot" I made this point a few days ago and it bears repeating: for men, the phrase "I like men who love anim…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:38 PM
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I grew up with the interpretation of "just be yourself" as "someone will love you for who you are". Just like a lot of things in life, the quiet part never gets said out loud. "Just be yourself" means don't change your aspirations, beliefs, and core personality to be more compatible with someone. It doesn't mean that what you're doing and what you look like are sufficient to find love. This is where we went wrong (see also: "looks aren't as important to women" lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:32 PM
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Are you a woman, talking with other women in mixed company, when they discuss this? Not once has anyone in my life said something along the lines of "I'm dating so&so because he's so hot/muscular/tall"... I have several FWBs and women friends, mostly mid-30s, and it literally has never been brought to my attention unless in the context of why they're attracted to me, but well after we've been dating/seeing each other awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 03:03 AM
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The issue is that men have no hesitation when voicing that physical attractiveness is 90% of the battle. "She's hot AND can cook? sign me up!" Most men have never heard such honesty reciprocated by women in this regard: "He's hot AND he volunteers at the soup kitchen? HUBBA HUBBA!" Just fucking say that looks matter, that's all we're asking. Stop tip-toeing around this all-important but completely hidden requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 02:08 AM
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there is a lot more to life than chasing tail. Sure, but you have to have experienced enough of this to understand the position to be able to make such a claim. A significant portion of men have no idea that it isn't everything because they've never even had any positive sexual attention or physical touch in their lives. To them, it is everything and you cannot convince them otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 01:10 AM
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Because those things never got me anywhere with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 12:54 AM
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Neat. Maybe we have different experiences growing up. I was told that being a good guy who was intelligent, driven, interesting and talented would be enough. This is a shared experience amongst many men. No one told me that having 12% BF would be worth more than all of that shit, until stuff like TRP came along. But good for you for reaching that conclusion I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 12:46 AM
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Going to assume you didn't even read the rest of what I had to say. https://old.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/13ejh7t/what_changes_did_you_make_to_your_tinder_profile/jjq2rf6/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 12:39 AM
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I'm going to respond to this with the assumption that you are a woman; feel free to correct me if that assumption is incorrect. nobody has been saying looks don't matter to women. I see this claim all the time but nobody can identify where it comes from beyond "women", despite the ample evidence from women themselves that of course looks matter. I never claimed looks don't matter to women, I merely stated the verifiable fact that as a man, the importance of looks was never communicated to me by …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 12:35 AM
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TRP can take credit for broadcasting the unspoken importance of physical stature, discipline and the confidence that comes from being fit. Since no women I’ve ever met or dated has ever ACTUALLY admitted that it matters (before we get intimate), when it actually matters a metric FUCK TON. Physical fitness is lauded as a society, but when women refuse to acknowledge its importance and instead talk about “personality”, “kindness” and “being funny” as the cornerstones of attractiveness… well it’s n…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 12:01 AM
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Do I need to explain to you the vast difference in communication styles? Women work off of hints and inference; men just say what they mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 11:39 PM
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They miss them because they’re possibly not communicated clearly and concisely. “It’s fine” is not sufficient lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:55 PM
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“We like funny guys” and “we like hot guys that are also funny” These are two completely different statements to the male brain, which typically interprets information at the most literal level. We grew up hearing the former, when you should’ve been proclaiming the latter. Just my $0.02.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:53 PM
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Perhaps they are accusing you of lying by omission? Like “he was funny and charismatic and charming” but leaving out that “he drove a 3 series and was 6’3” “ haha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:27 AM
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Your individual situation isn’t under attack here, as I think you understand. This is a generalization, and one that I reckon most men can attest to. We acknowledge that outliers exist, and your honesty and anecdote does contribute to the conversation. What works for YOU is fine, but the argument falls apart if you claim that “most women ______” based on your experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:06 AM
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You can’t be mad at us for “not getting it” when you refuse to communicate what “it” actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:42 PM
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It’s on the list because it makes you universally undesirable to a lot of women, not because it’s in any way actionable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 12:21 AM
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It’s all the things women want in a man that they’ll never come out and explicitly say.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 01:11 PM
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It’s the difference in transparency; guys have no issue explaining that they want an attractive partner. The topic is that women completely obfuscate this hidden equivalent requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:51 PM
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“Someone will love you for who you are” is a BP counter argument I hear often. Aka “it doesn’t matter if you have a dad bod and work a social services job that pays $40k, you’re still worthy of love.” This is the exact opposite of what works, which is “get fit, get rich, and your dating woes will basically be resolved”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:55 PM
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You want nothing to do with the one playbook that’ll help address the anxiety you feel about relationships. Classic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:23 AM
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Yes someone chooses to be born 5’7”.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 08:21 PM
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Give me a hoodie, pony tail and jeans all day, I could give two shits about what you wear.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 08:20 PM
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If you get good at <insert instrument here> it turns into “nerdy shit” VERY quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 08:16 PM
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If they don’t want to kiss you by the end of the first date, move on. You’re wasting your time, and time is our most precious resource.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:04 PM
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They are the “giant sunglasses that hide my face” for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:03 PM
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I’m glad the 0.0000006% of violent men are ruining it for everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:55 PM
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You date her, and maybe put her through school lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:44 AM
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Men approaching women at bars, I imagine to most observers that would count as “being hit on” even if we are talking about the weather or the local sports team. If they’re moderately attractive, I’m going in with the hopes of at least getting a phone number… lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:32 PM
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Please kindly point me in the direction of the groups of women wanted to get hit on at a work happy hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:47 AM
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Would love if you pointed out $7 pitchers in ANY walkable portion of my city lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:42 AM
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The proliferation of remote work puts a huge dent into this. No one I work with is even in the same state as me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:41 AM
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I dunno about you but I can’t walk into a bar without spending $40 these days. Adds up quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:40 AM
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“Men don’t bring other men to RP; women do.” is a core mantra actually lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:32 PM
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A man in his 20s/30s struggling to date now could not care less about “what it was like in the 50s and 60s for women.” He is worried about the rules of the game how it is played today, and you’re talking about the NFL before they allowed the forward pass, lol. We can acknowledge it sucked back then for women, just like we can acknowledge that it sucks right now for a lot of men. This isn’t the “big gotcha” you presume it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:31 PM
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Going out on a date can fun, but it can also be a lot of work and money. Grabbing a few beers after a long workday? Cool. Dropping $400 on a nice dinner and then going to the symphony? Also cool, but requires way more work. If they end up at my place afterward in either scenario, give me the former 9 times out of 10. The trick is finding someone who likes doing both of those things with you. If she’s into you, dating should be fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:19 PM
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Doesn't help that most of these mass shooters are male testosterone-fueled confused virgins... but apparently we aren't ready to have that conversation yet as a society.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:51 PM
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Only about a third as many men experience common mental illnesses as women. I struggle with this claim; I imagine men are just notoriously underreporting the issues they face because society demands we bottle that shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:27 PM
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jUsT tAkE a ShOwEr BrO
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:56 AM
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One is illegal in many parts of the first world, and the other requires already being a 7/10+ in looks... I feel like its not exactly a viable discussion point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:55 AM
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Honestly dating is fun when you’re in the top 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:44 PM
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People don’t truly understand the implication and weight of the word “just” in “just be yourself”. I wish they’d just say “be yourself, as long as you are fit, tall, financially well positioned, etc.”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:35 PM
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Both things can be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 04:24 PM
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If you're those things, you can afford a personal trainer, personal chef and personal stylist.... and aesthetician.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:09 PM
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Hmm… what color might that hard to swallow pill be?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 03:00 PM
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I'm making a point regarding u/BecretAlbatross 's statement and confirming yours. It was not meant to be argumentative, simply an elaboration.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 06:39 PM
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You can respect women and be selfish with your own intentions. These things are far from mutually exclusive: being a player has nothing to do with hating women, despite what everyone on PPD might lead you to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 06:31 PM
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Sorted by top, all time, not some random incel woman hating bullshit. Anyone who claims TRP is nothing but woman-hating is just showing their ignorance on the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:20 PM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/top/?sort=top&t=all Again, please point to the part about hating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:01 PM
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fucking LOL mate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 06:00 PM
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The first time you're lying in bed with a woman and she starts talking about how boring the men she's dating are, it really amplifies how much greener the grass really is. Not everyone gets to see this side, but every man should experience it at least once to reframe their approach to romance, relationships and intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:26 PM
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Some of us were not as fortunate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:22 PM
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None whatsoever. He's dating adult women and the world apparently has a problem with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:59 PM
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I'm saying you need to protect yourself from all snakes, not just the venomous ones, because you don't have time to identify which ones are harmless. But we are indeed in agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:32 PM
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Well guess what? Not everyone's parents told them that. Many of us were simply not given the proper tools or direction to be our best and most attractive selves, hence this "epiphany" phase later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:25 PM
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Not all snakes are venomous either, but I'm still putting on tall leather boots before I go walking through high grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:16 PM
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Please point to where OP talked about hating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:14 PM
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No commitment or long term expectations. Just hang out, watch a movie, go to dinner, bang and maybe stay the night. It’s glorious honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:59 PM
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Chase the bag, not the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:52 PM
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Well let’s fucking hear some bro don’t just leave us hanging like that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 01:28 AM
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The craft breweries here are for wives/moms to bring their kids while their husbands also socialize. Zero single women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:09 PM
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I’ll admit most establishments are sausage fests, you aren’t meeting any women at sports bars and breweries. But the dressy place with the $20 craft cocktails that you saw on IG? Different story entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:57 PM
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A+ advice on all fronts. Unassailable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:18 PM
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"He seems happy" "He's also openly talked about self deletion." PICK ONE
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:30 PM
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Kick ass now, and people will want you in your mid30s. No shame in keeping your head down and building yourself up. You aren’t on a timeline.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:19 PM
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Fit women are single for about 9-12 microseconds, in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:08 PM
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Another victim of “just be yourself”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:03 PM
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That’s why you show up and kick ass. What did you spend that year doing if not getting fit and flexible?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 06:35 PM
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The average man should not return to Tinder, full stop. No woman is going to match with Mr. Average. Go buy a dog and join a yoga class and meet women IRL at that point. Again, not kidding.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:05 PM
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Improve themselves and try again in a year. Seriously, try it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:58 PM
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Read: $27 craft cocktails
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:51 PM
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Big southern city checking in; every social space is a sausage fest. The single women are just staying home.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:47 PM
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Way to completely whiff on the meaning of “watch what they do, not what they say.”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:54 PM
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Helps that they’re probably getting alimony + SS
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:16 PM
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I have to have my tools!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:54 PM
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Just keep an open mind; what /u/BN5130 said is accurate... all of this women-hating incel shit that pops up on PPD that people label as RP is NOT RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:32 PM
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Nope, OG TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:41 PM
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So go correct your dismissive responses in the rest of this thread now that you understand what TRP actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:26 PM
1

They aren’t posting pics, they are literally discussing those personal details in the comments of these posts. It’s a massive violation of privacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:21 PM
4

My tinder picture are public. My dick size and aftercare game is decidedly not public information.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:11 PM
5

Okay but that sub is legit hilarious; akin to r/menwritingwomen lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:34 PM
14

Because humans want what we can't have, and the majority of men will never experience being lusted after by women, objectified, or otherwise DESIRED physically and emotionally for who we are -- not just our resources. Also, we were spoonfed media of the chubby, bumbling husband who the wife simply tolerates since we were born. No man wants to be THAT GUY. Just a guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:00 PM
2

When dinner consists of hastily scarfing cold chicken nuggets and half-eaten mac&cheese over the sink in the 45 seconds you have before kid's bathtime, before getting maybe 5 hours of sleep and then sitting in a chair all day... see how ripped you stay
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:02 PM
1

If all of your hobbies are male dominated, there are going to be startlingly few women anywhere near those circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:25 PM
4

This is painfully accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:55 PM
2

99% of the BW on OLD are overweight/obese in my part of the country so… yeah this holds water. At the end of the day, attractive people are attractive, regardless of race, but if you are head and shoulders above the competition it probably helps a ton lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:59 PM
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Pre avoiding rejection aka “dating as a man”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:50 AM
1

LilithofBabylon is like 53% of all posts/replies in this entire subreddit and people think they're having conversations with "the masses". It is a fucking joke at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 06:01 PM
1

Exactly this. Example: I have no interest in dating a NASCAR or UFC fan (lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:27 AM
5

Stop. Using. Tinder. It’s hot garbage compared to alternatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:55 PM
0

You get out what you put in. Take the time to look good, dress well, and take good pictures and you will reap the benefits of that effort. A hilarious number of dudes put in zero effort, and it shows, and they’re the most vocal about getting zero results.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:05 PM
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Makes it a lot easier for a LOT of people. I no longer need to dress up, go out, spend $100 on Ubers and drinks at a bar to “meet” 20 single women (who I know are single, not just trying to get me to buy them drinks lol). It’s incredibly efficient for the people it primarily benefits… which is attractive people who have maximized their online profile/presence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:15 PM
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Just using an example; I could say the same about Timothy McVeigh and retard fundy Christians if you'd prefer? And you should throw out anything that was written after about 2015 lol, it is nothing but garbage now. Welcoming a second opinion, certainly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 05:49 PM
1

No, it clearly states that you shouldn’t get mad at women for their nature. You can be frustrated for not understanding it, or upset that you’re just now finding out how things really work. But there’s nothing inherently adversarial about TRP except keeping your guard up and being capable of keeping someone on their toes. This is like getting mad at all of Islam because a handful of whack jobs flew planes into buildings. A few bad apples shouldn’t spoil an ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 05:37 PM
11

It’s like 5-10 seconds, not even 30 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 03:28 AM
3

Does “a good family” mean “stable” or “has money”?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:01 PM
4

Make no mistake where you are…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:26 PM
1

Yeah but… she wouldn’t want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:18 AM
8

Blatantly false. But nice try, downplaying the importance of physical attraction for both sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:14 AM
7

TRP claims another “victim” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:13 AM
21

I’ve seen them get interested once they saw me with someone objectively more attractive. It’s hilarious if you know what you’re looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:26 AM
4

Mom told me “just be yourself” and that was essentially useless advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:46 PM
15

Do not lead a date with “come play a video game with me” Christ almighty guys you’re making this much harder on yourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:22 AM
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Nah, just an interesting observation. Cutting ties is the way to go for sure but you don’t have to burn bridges in the process. You may run into them later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:37 PM
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Sounds like you got your shit together. Men (as much as women) respect the work that it usually requires. We know what it takes, and want to encircle ourselves with similar individuals, even on a subconscious level.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:49 PM
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Not only that, the distance created will actually make them want you. It’s stupid, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:47 PM
11

Fried ice, baby.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/09/22 02:10 PM
7

Spoiler alert: fatties everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 07:07 PM
1

I don’t see many single butterfaces; fit girls have no problems in the dating game.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:27 AM
1

False rape accusations, false sexual harassment accusations, fake pregnancy scares. They might not be physically imposing but they're far from harmless lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:37 PM
0

As long as you retained the "get a haircut, solve the logistics, dress better and get fit" advice and not the "hate all women" BS haha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:35 PM
1

Counterpoint - that VLAD THE IMPALER guy lmao he's just a jaundiced grandpa
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:31 PM
3

Crimes against women (assault, sexual assault, murder) may be down from 100 years ago, but my point is... we've got rovers on mars, a giant telescope in orbit able to peer 15 billion years into the cosmos, and a woman can't put her airpods in and go for a run after 7pm in this country (USA). It is pathetic, despite the silver linings you lay out above.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:35 PM
1

Go spend some time in /r/FitToFat for a real eyeopener on the effects of obesity on previously hot people
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:49 PM
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Well actually hate crimes against minorities and women went up under Trump so maybe don't be so quick to decry those "woke feminists". Hate Crimes Under Trump Surged Nearly 20 Percent Says FBI Report The FBI's annual reports on hate crime statistics show that hate crimes have increased from 6,121 incidents in 2016 to 7,314 in 2019, a 19.49 percent increase. Hate-motivated murders spiked to a total of 51 in 2019, the highest number in nearly 3 decades, according to an analysis of the FBI's data c…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:23 PM
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How is this not higher? Obesity will lead to all of this other crap... poor social status, poor hygiene, poor communication skills, lack of confidence. And it fucks with your libido... OBESITY is far and away the obvious answer, and that's before factoring in that if you're fat you're starting out at a 1/10 in terms of hotness lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:00 PM
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We've failed as a society if you can't go for a jog at dusk. It's pretty fucking pathetic that you should have to even think twice about your personal safety while traveling alone, working out, walking to class, walking to school, etc. Incel weirdo women just stay at home and hoard cats and take up knitting and extreme couponing. Incel weirdo men shoot up schools and abduct women and seems to be an accelerating phenomenon... and it makes me sick to my stomach.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:45 PM
3

I assure you no one is marrying part time gamestop employees.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:56 PM
2

This would be endlessly entertaining. Lots of happy, well rested financially stable people vs. wigged out parents justifying their "little miracles" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:11 PM
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Respect. Go forth and spread the message that women are also superficial lol I reckon a lot of blackpill/redpill types experienced this kind of socially painful inflection point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:42 PM
2

Lucky you! :-) Well all the sexually frustrated men in America do not have this option, but I also realize Reddit != America
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:26 PM
1

If a fish needed to breathe air it would have lungs. Women in general do not need game.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:20 PM
5

Did you become a supervillain, or did you hit the gym as a result of this event?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:15 PM
6

...probably because it is against the law...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:12 PM
3

r/beholdthemasterrace
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:51 AM
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There’s the “fuck you, I got mine”s and the “I wish for a better existence for those beyond the walls of my immediate self and family”s… I agree, personal politics reveals your moral compass more than you might imagine or wish to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:49 AM
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Men are more attracted to the female body as a whole than women are to the male body. This is the crux of the argument; you say that (and you very probably mean that) but this is in fact not the observation of many men (myself included). And I hate to boil this down to "watch what they do, not what they say..." but my experience is completely counter to what you're claiming, and I don't doubt I could find many others who would agree. We may have to lay our swords down on this one, because we're …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:02 AM
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Correction, I said all of the women I've dated, not "all women". Significant distinction. But that is encouraging. And as a reminder, this entire conversation is within the context of what do men get wrong about women, not "what do men get wrong about u/pinktuliplover". We are dealing with generalizations, and while I understand women aren't some monolith.... humans are VERY good at pattern recognition. I doubt I'm the only guy here that has recognized the pattern of asymmetry of physical prefer…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:51 PM
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You: "They [large sample size of real world women in their 20's and 30's] are not the spokesperson for women." Also you: "LOTS of women like bald men." I'm not arguing as to who speaks for a larger % of dating-age women. You: "...women care more about non physical things than the physical attractiveness." does NOTHING to argue the original claim that "attractiveness is more important to men than to women." You may care MORE about non-physical traits but that doesn't mean you care LESS about phys…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:35 PM
2

Lets go back to the original comment: "They put too much emphasis on the physical... attractiveness is more important to men than to women. Because attractiveness is the most important quality to many men, they think it’s the same for us." I'm saying the bar for attractiveness for men's preferences in women is SO MUCH LOWER than the inverse, and the asymmetry is what I'm calling attention to. I can't refute how YOU feel or what YOU THINK other women's preferences are, I can only speak to what wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:16 PM
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Cool man, I’m telling you this is the reality because these are conversations with real life women I’ve had over 15 years of dating. Ask any guy here thats 5’6”, bald, or down on their luck financially how their dating life is going. Go spend 10 minutes on r/tinder or r/dating (or r/datingoverthirty) to see who is struggling the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:04 PM
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No I’m emphasizing your point, we agree that it’s doublespeak for “I’d vastly prefer you were hot, but you can make up for your inferiorities by being charming and funny.”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:58 PM
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This has “if he has a small dick he can make up for it with his fingers/mouth” energy lol Listen to what you’re saying. You’re saying it’s an inferiority!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:50 PM
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“I want a man who has his shit together” aka owns his own car/house and has a good job. Guys don’t just make these arguments up from thin air, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:47 PM
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All of them said they’d never date someone their height or shorter, or a bald man. That’s a standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:44 PM
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No, they admitted those things to me because I am that guy, hence the brutal honesty. I think the issue we (speaking in generalities) have is that our preferences basically boil down to “don’t be a drag, don’t be fat” and that’s literally it. Any ethnicity, big ass, little ass, big boobs, little boobs, blue collar barista, it doesn’t matter — it’s the asymmetry of expectations that grinds our collective gears.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:43 PM
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I know the plural of anecdote isn’t data, but every single woman I’ve ever been with has expressed strong preferences for tall (non ethnic) men with a full head of hair, the ability to grow a beard, good teeth and making over 100k. Please understand that it’s difficult to resolve this confusion about women not caring about looks and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:13 PM
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I think we’re going with “woman of color” these days champ lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:17 PM
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Not just that, she’ll find you funnier and smarter because you’re hot… but they’ll never tell you this because they only want the guys who “just get it”.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:40 PM
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I'm poking fun man, but not trying to be mean spirited. We clearly differ on this issue, and I'll leave it there. Good luck in your endeavors.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:35 PM
2

"My perspective as a sexually inactive male is supremely irrelevant to the topic of abortion, yet I must let my voice be heard. " Got it haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:49 PM
1

Enjoy paying child support, pal. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:40 PM
1

Condoms break, BC fails, even vasectomies fail. So no one should have sex ever, unless fully prepared to raise a child to 18 years of age? Our foster care system is completely full, we are experiencing unprecedented wealth inequality and you want to force babies onto people who weren't planning for them? Am I hearing this correctly? Just checking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:31 PM
2

DEFINITELY and UNDENIABLY by what definition? Those are very strong words.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:04 PM
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Guess what? State laws make zero distinction, and a large percentage of abortions are medically necessary for the health of the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:01 PM
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Open a fucking book, our founding fathers were primarily agnostic and atheist you goddamned moron lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:05 PM
1

I got snipped in March, should I add that to my OLD profiles? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:02 PM
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It is a message to men everywhere that the burden of proof is on you in both criminal courts and the court of public opinion when it comes to allegations of this nature. There is no “innocent until proven guilty” and remember, if you call 911 because your girl is assaulting you, YOU will be the one taken to jail. I’m not saying record every conversation but be mindful of the mountain you’ll have to climb to clear your name. Brian Banks lost a lifetime of wealth and opportunity and many years beh…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 01:47 PM
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This is so counter intuitive. If you're hot, the safe assumption is that you have sexual experience. The "late bloomer"/"now-crazy former church girl" folks are out there but are exceedingly rare. Experience is nice if you have the mental maturity to not compare yourself to the faceless dudes that have blown her back out in the past. She's with you for a reason and your dick is probably perfectly fine. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:19 PM
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Tis indeed a trope here. "Lack of personal hygiene" is an extremely common complain amongst women, but it is often phrased as "if guys just took showers we'd find them so much more attractive!" No, we have to be attractive first to be attractive, and I can even attest to having had hookups after a long sweaty day outside where I know I'm gross but it matters precisely zero. Nothing matters past rules 1&2 ;-)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:20 PM
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Redpill 80/20: "Hey, do these things and respect yourself and you can be in that 20%." Blackpill 80/20: "You weren't born tall/white, don't bother trying to become part of that 20%." MASSIVE disparity in philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:33 PM
2

A date can be as simple as two cups of coffee or 4 beers, each less than $20. Dinner dates are for suckers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 02:12 PM
3

The other side of that coin is telling them that their looks and social skill will set them up for a comfortable and successful life when growing up. There’s a middle ground for sure but if you spend any amount of time here you’d get the feeling like it’s a much bigger problem on the male nerd virgin side lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:30 AM
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Was a weak nerd. Was told “women will love you for your mind and personality” they just failed to verbalize the “if you’re also hot and fit” part.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:03 AM
1

Sliders >>>>> Full House so no, not alpha widow
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 04:50 PM
3

I saw a vid of RSDTyler (no idea what he calls himself now) and that dude fell off the ugly cliff lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:59 PM
3

You’re 100% correct; no amount of “game” and “personality” can overcome obesity no matter what people tell you. You aren’t jack black. Lose the weight before even THINKING of getting back out there and entertaining romance. Grind, focus on yourself (r/keto works for many, also IF) and once you’re a normal BMI reassess. Don’t be upset that people treat you better once you’re thinner; this is human nature. They will respect you when you outwardly show that you respect yourself and the ONE body you…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:00 PM
1

Or it takes inheriting daddy's business, which I've seen several times. Braindead but will make more money than I'll ever hope to earn.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:56 PM
3

She said so in the article, calling herself a 6 (or maybe 7 if she wears mascara)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:22 PM
7

Yet only about 400k that aren’t fat lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:38 PM
2

Because she needs to post on IG with her hand out with a big sparkly ring on it for all of her bitchy HS friends to see, with a stupid hashtag like “#hePoppedTheQuestion”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 04:57 PM
1

Yeah but how tall is he lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 05:51 PM
3

They're referring to this study: https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=2148033 Agree with u/Lakeyute, the meat of this article basically infers that Liberal states actually give a substantially higher percentage of their income to charity then their conservative counterparts do when you remove church contributions from the equation. Some of these "charitable donations" do indeed help the poor, but a non-zero portion go to covering up child sex abuse scandals, mega-church pastor yac…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 03:40 PM
1

An anecdote every man needs to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 04:48 PM
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It wouldn’t be so popular if it didn’t conform to real world interactions, people, etc. Its that “lightbulb moment” of realizing that self improvement and “watch what they do, not what they say” works and is consistent with observation. Any guy who has found the gym, a sense of style and (maybe) gotten a nice job/car notice a complete 180 in the tone of interactions with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 03:35 PM
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Not if you start out a REAL porker
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 08:18 PM
3

PUA - Here are traps you should use to catch your prey Red pill - Here are the tools and training you need to become a good hunter. Don't listen to your prey, instead pay attention to what makes successful hunters successful. Black pill - You're either born to hunt, or destined to gather. Shoulder shrug.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:21 PM
3

Don’t fucking take a stranger out for a $50 dinner then? One coffee or a few drinks is more than enough these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 03:23 PM
1

Kudos for making it work. I know way too many people who will only consider having kids after they buy a 2500sqft house with a big yard… good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:57 PM
4

Did you burn through your savings, live in a country with UBI, or stay at home on the taxpayer dime?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:39 PM
1

I refuse to set myself on fire to keep others warm.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:37 PM
1

There is nothing funny about this, sorry. Your grandma needs her license revoked immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:15 PM
0

bUt WoMeN dOnT gO fOr ThE dRuG dEaLeR tYpEs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:29 PM
1

bUt WoMeN dOnT gO fOr ThE dRuG dEaLeR tYpEs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:29 PM
1

Alternatively women like men who’s dad gifted them the family business; the hard work and success aren’t necessary ingredients. Nothing wrong with finding hard work and success attractive, but there’s a non-trivial amount of luck involved that everyone seems to gloss over. Also it’s much easier to exude “confidence” when you own the place lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:07 PM
6

It works when you own a business lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:58 PM
10

Yeah not to mention if they crash and burn you still have to see them every time you work out. DO NOT ENGAGE WITH PEOPLE AT THE GD GYM
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:16 PM
4

That’s black pill… at least this way you are aware of the steepness of the hill you have to climb, but you don’t just sit at the bottom of it and wallow. Without RP, you would be unaware that there’s a utopia just out of view, obscured by clouds, atop that hill.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:27 PM
1

Why do you think there are 8 billion people on this planet? Evolution has wired men to want to fuck everything with a pulse and ovaries, and to reward us for doing so. Don’t overthink it, we are talking about our lizard brains here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:40 PM
14

“He was interesting, mysterious, handsome, engaging…” meanwhile his VMs sound like he has the personality of a brick. Wealth paves over all else, don’t let anyone convince you otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:26 PM
1

First of all, the series X is exquisitely designed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:24 PM
5

I appreciate the response and that you reciprocate in other ways. Romance shouldn’t be one person doing all the heavy lifting to make things “exciting”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:58 PM
6

How often do you propose spontaneous adventures? Or is this an asymmetrical expectation?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:46 PM
3

I, for one, want MORE aircraft carriers /s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:13 PM
2

My female HS friend died on the back of a motorcycle from this bullshit “dangerous” stuff. You can be mysterious but not life-endangering.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:12 PM
1

SmartAsset found an American family needs a gross income of $597,815 to fall in the top 1% of earners nationally.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:02 PM
1

I think the disparity here is that in this forum, the ONLY thing a woman has to do is not be fat and she can have dating success. Men get some leeway because we can take on work stress, have a beer gut but be physically strong/domineering, etc. but women (again paraphrasing) only have to worry about one thing and it will solve all of your relationship woes. Like Peter Griffon says, “Lois, men aren’t fat… only fat women are fat!”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:58 PM
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It tends to embitter some people because they weren't liked "for who they were" but instead for "how they looked". Its a tough pill to swallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:17 PM
4

You should be uber-ing, not driving to the club.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/22 06:52 PM
5

Then you have no idea
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:01 PM
3

Have you gone from fat to fit? People treat you 100000% better. It’s undeniable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:40 PM
1

No arguments there, this sub should be meant for entertainment purposes exclusively. Just beware of chastising someone who sees sex as a reward; it reeks of a billionaire telling poor people that “money can’t buy happiness.”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:23 PM
3

If you had a penis and never (or almost never) got to use it, you’d see this differently. Remember half of these PPD guys are virgins or severely undersexed so for many, sex is this forbidden fruit that they can’t seem to get close enough to taste. I cannot fathom what it’s like to, for example, have a child grow inside me or have menopause or whatever… so don’t try and understand why men are so biologically driven to value sex above almost all else. There are reasons that there are 8+ billion p…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:37 PM
5

^<sup>Friendly</sup> reminder that men are human doings and that romance “just happens” to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:50 PM
1

They were fine, and my vision wasn’t that bad. But now it’s perfect and I don’t have to worry about it at all!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:22 PM
2

Can confirm, got LASIK, braces and a septoplasy and it made a tremendous difference in my self esteem (and ability to see and fucking breathe normally…) $3600, $6500, and $2000+ all told…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:44 PM
6

whoosh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:44 PM
2

It’s almost 100% financial stability. Can also include things like “no criminal record” or “good relationship with his family” but it typically boils down to “does he own his own car and have his own place”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:58 PM
1

Repeat after me: “it is illegal”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:11 PM
3

Hit the gym, get a more prestigious/better earning job, get some other hot girl on your arm and then run into her after you’ve almost forgotten she exists. Upgrades+preselection.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 02:20 AM
2

Women hate this FYI
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 06:50 PM
9

They want a jacked guy, but one that requires little dedication to look that way. Aka Fried ICE lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:36 PM
1

If you don’t want kids, marriage becomes a really tough sell.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 12:33 PM
1

It’s a disproportionately fat slice of America, I’d argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:46 PM
12

Why is this so difficult for people to understand? Any number is infinitely larger than 0. I’ve expressed this IRL when talking to women, they are honestly astonished how few matches I get and I am anything but hideous lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:46 PM
-27

Condoms are not 100% effective. That’s what I’m saying. Accidents happen every day
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 04:13 PM
-5

Responded to the wrong comment, this was in response to the “why don’t they use condoms” comment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 02:26 PM
-54

… because contraceptives aren’t 100% effective even if used properly? Because hormonal birth control can have devastating effects on a woman’s body? And some people might live in a state where getting an abortion is difficult coughtexascough? It’s no accident there are 7 billion people on the planet… “life…uh…finds a way”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 02:13 PM
2

Because incels won’t stop shooting up movie theaters, schools, etc. Why do you think Reddit keeps quarantining / banning these subs? The worst that comes from FDS and other feminist communities is that now my date wants to go to sushi for the first date like it’s some kind of test. Big whoop.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/21 04:24 PM
7

How dare we try and better ourselves! But yeah the hyper-misogynistic incel AWALT stink is hard to wash off.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/21 03:33 PM
21

People who claim TRP doesn’t work are akin to people who think weed is bad but have never smoked in their life. Experiencing it only once is enough to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 03:18 PM
10

Tinder is 80% male. There is data out there confirming this 4:1 ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 02:47 PM
20

I think she misspelled “plates” as in... plates of food at the buffet.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 10:28 PM
1

Where would one find such a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:37 PM
2

Is this a real thing? Asking... for a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:03 PM
1

Seconding this. No one wants to get hit on at the fucking grocery store, they go out to bars/clubs to proclaim their single-ness. Alcohol, music, close proximity, lowered inhibitions open a lot of social doors... especially if you have mixed groups or have a wingman or two. Don't hit on women at work or at school, but become friends with them and maybe they'll invite you out the next HH? Maybe one of them has a hot sister who is in town for spring break... but have at least one degree of separat…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 03:48 AM
0

Go spend some time in /r/FitToFat for proof... there are beautiful people walking around but you wouldn't know it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 12:14 AM
2

Fuck the haters. My friend showed me that sub back in 2013 (or thereabouts) and it completely changed my life and relationship with food. While it isn't for everyone, the results are undeniable for those who have found success with it. If even one person here makes it over there and changes their life for the better, then your link has made the world a better place.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 04:16 AM
45

"Just be yourself!" "You're such a sweet guy!" "Nice clothes just look weird on you, and what's with the jewelry?" thanks for nothing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 02:45 AM
3

Car, clothes, house, hobbies, friends, career, even the contents of your fridge are all indicative of money/status.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 02:30 PM
3

This. Grab two pints at the local sports bar or take a walk in the park. Save the $400 steak dinner for anniversarys/birthdays lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 02:23 PM
2

Then there is light at the end of the tunnel! But cheese curds are delicious so I understand why everyone is fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 03:04 PM
2

Join a yoga class or something? Fit women do fit women things... Or wear a shirt that says “no fatties” haha
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 02:37 PM
9

This is perfect and I'm stealing it, thanks (and couldn't agree more)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 03:59 AM
23

This is the answer. A guy's SMV is peaking in his 30s (still clinging to youth, not fat yet, higher status and income) so once he sees he has options, all of the sudden he wants what you presumably had in your 20s... "abundance of options".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 03:55 AM
1

You mean Ginyu Force?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 09:29 PM
9

Considering everyone is after this same 15% of men (and thusly a larger proportion of said 15% are likely taken) it is probably closer to 5% or less of these people who are actually available.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/04/21 02:37 PM
3

Except he can't read for shit lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/21 02:06 PM
37

You clearly have not personally experienced the phenomenon known as “black don’t crack”. It’s quite astonishing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/20 05:48 PM
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