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They will never even think about admitting they were wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:14 PM
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That's fine. Especially if you have your life in order, wanting someone who also has their life in order takes priority over everything for most people when it comes to dating. Wanting someone with a similar life experience is healthy. No problem with that. My issue is with the general sentiment in a vacuum. I just remember that age and considering the crisis young men are having in general, it just rang to me like a sentiment that could only lead to things getting worse. But when you account fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:13 PM
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No, I said she was too young to feel too old because she's not too old. Her age demo is literally sexually inexperienced. If she feels sexually experienced to not have patience, it's because she has the ability to have a lot of sexual experience in a short period of time. Most men in her demo simply don't have that ability. So for her, it's about sexual experience, but in terms of life experience, they're both the same. Respectfully, this opinion isn't in her best interest because relationships,…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 10:56 AM
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I was hyperbolic with the male virgin population, but the point still stands that most guys around that age are struggling with dating. So, to compound those existing struggles with an expectation to have been good enough with women to have had sex at least once is just unreasonable at her age range. If she was in her late 20's and up, it would be understandable. But early 20s? I also think it's disingenuous of you to suggest I'm saying anyone is obligated to do anything. I never even suggested …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 10:33 AM
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Because both don't have a lot of experience in life in general. So if she meets a guy her age, who's a virgin, they have the same life experience, she's just had more sexual experience. (Which is easy to get as a woman). At her age, most guys are still virgins because we broke and are still figuring out how to interact with women in general sexually and romantically. Especially now a days when most younger people in general aren't having a lot of sex. Ultimately, I see dating getting worse if mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 07:18 AM
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Im sorry, but you're too young to feel too old to take someone's virginity. (I'm 34M.)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 05:59 AM
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As a "Bluepilled" man, I feel like you had a good point but if you understood feminism a bit more or listened to feminist critiques of feminist men, and the like, you would have a more coherent and accurate critique. But this just falls short because you're over generalizing, contradicting and not understanding the difference between achieving the same goal but by different means. Your best critique was the age game. There are bluepilled guys where that's accurate. They're 35 but dating someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:57 AM
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Because you waited too long to shoot your shot. Make your intentions known upfront. Don't waste time. I don't care if you just want sex. Present your best self and respectful tell them why you are interested in her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:47 PM
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Damn that sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:36 AM
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What did her parents think?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:27 AM
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Bro... I can't even put into words...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:15 AM
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It's really disgusting. I would shame any guy I see doing this. Fortunately I haven't seen it in person yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:09 AM
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Yea because the guy has financially stable and experienced and the girl just came out of high school and looking to have fun and experience life. By the time she's 30, she already has kids, doesn't have a work history and hasn't known another man since before her old man. Kinda sounds like a dependent relationship and probably why she doesn't leave because she would basically have to make up 10+ lost years of her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:39 PM
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Still love the song. They need to update it though. Ring a bigger bass because the bass is kinda weak from how old the song is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:33 PM
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What I mean is that Patriarchy got men into this situation and it will take men dismantle patriarchy and reframe manhood in the modern world. Women can't do this for us, this is a process men have to take upon ourselves. It's not your responsibility to fix what we broke and any attempts to do so will ultimately fail anyway. Women and non cis het men can present their expectations for us to consider and meet, but ultimately the decision is ours as individuals and communities of men. However in ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:01 PM
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There is nothing women can do. This is a problem that us men have to collectively solve. The only thing you guys can do it accept the reality of men at this time and leave space for men to exist in ways outside of what you and society may expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 02:51 AM
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It's really the negative outcomes from male insecurities that is the problem. When you harm other people because of your insecurities, people have an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:07 PM
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If I go to Gay bar it's for passable transwomen or to hang out with a gay friend. Other than that I would be a total tourist just talk to random people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:49 AM
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It's ultimately a superficial thing. The so called, "high value" man. The women I'm talking about don't date anyone under $100k. So according to those type of women, those guys are excellent, because they date them. But they don't commit because they feel they can do better. That's the issue I'm highlighting for those particular women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 12:47 AM
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Because I care about people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:21 PM
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The motivation is examining how some of them become bitter and passing up on excellent options is 1 reason why.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 07:53 PM
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Right it's not my problem. Doesn't mean I can't or shouldn't point it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 07:06 PM
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No. I'm talking about an actual thing that some women do where they meet a lot of guys who qualify but because they feel they have access to a lot of guys who are "high value." (I don't like that term, btw) no guy is ever enough because they always find a guy they think is better. It's not even hypergamy, it's something else. But when you meet a lot of guys who qualify and you always feel as if the next guy is better, you do that a certain amount of time, you're gonna be 40 and single. I'm not s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 05:55 PM
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But ironically even when they get those guys. They are so picky, they think they can do better and basically try to climb higher than their assets will realistically allow them to go until they fall off end up single, 40 and bitter. When they should have just picked any of the guys that were their match. They think they can do better and miss them all an old try to go back but those guys are end up being taken by women who knows a good deal when they see one. So being eligible is just half the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 04:31 PM
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The disconnect here is there are guys who can fit all of the needs for the brain and fit few of the needs for infactuation and the guy that fits her infactuation will over come the brain 80% of the time. So yea we know it's complex because we can't get a truly reliable handle of what women actually want. Because they contradict each other constantly. We know that ultimately when she's ready to settle down she's gonna listen to her brains. But until then she's not checking for any of the guys her…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 07:37 PM
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I don't share your sentiment. But I there's a lot of crazy people out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 02:06 AM
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It's not even really red pill it's just basic. She's shown she's incapable of empathy. Just trying to look on the guys side and only consider her own. Like why would someone continue to pursue you if your sleeping with someone else and not them but claiming your interested but more interested in the other person because it might be a better situation. Like pick a struggle. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 01:59 AM
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This comment is why guys need sex for validation. It shows your level of interest. If you're willing to be intimate with someone else but not him, that means he's secondary and should look elsewhere. I guess for women it would be like crushing on a guy but he's only serious with another girl but with he just bangs you whenever the girl he actually likes isn't in the mood. Only guys are ok being a fuck buddy. For women that's default so y'all need more than that to feel validated.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 08:55 PM
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I wouldn't have said that last part publicly. He should have said, "because you said no." Not doing something because of prison isn't good character. Doing it because it's the right thing to do is good character and part of PR is publicly presenting as if you have good character to give people less thing give you shit about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:04 PM
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Ok that's cool for a few days, but do most people have the money to go on a trip for a few days everytime they want some intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 10:20 AM
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Well that's Europe. Here in the US of A. Ain't happening. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 11:48 PM
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You'll find quickly that paying for it isn't necessarily a good option. Like do you have $100 to $300 ($50+ for 15 min) or more per hour to spend everytime you get horny?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 11:07 PM
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Truth is you can't tell anyone's true intentions. You can't judge by words or actions. So you have to figure out what you value, what expectations do you have for the relationship. What do you even want out of the relationship? Once you figure out what you want all you can do is check off what your partner fills in. Then determine whether you can live with what he fills in, can see what he's gonna do later and deal with what he won't have later. But you can't tell what other people are. So just …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 11:10 PM
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So are white collar jobs. White collar jobs are hurt the most during recessions because most white collar jobs are bullshit jobs. They don't do shit. You're bored most of the time and if you're sitting around on your phone or in the bathroom for too long they act like you ain't doin shit. But there ain't shit to do. But you gotta look busy so Management can justify their jobs. It's all bullshit. I've never been happier doing Blue collar jobs. I have way less stress and I don't have to deal with …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 03:18 AM
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Most are never gonna earn that much. Most will do basic desk jobs. At most they'll get a useless management job that earns slightly more. But Trade jobs can provide a stable living for a lot of people. Because white collar jobs are hyper competitive. There's not a lot of Tradesmen are in short supply so they're getting paid a lot more now. Unless you're going into STEM a white collar job is hell trying to get experience for and you gotta work unpaid internships of which have replaced the entry l…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 06:25 PM
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I'm describing my life. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 12:41 PM
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I think much of it is we are competing for the same jobs. Boys have been cultural turned away from blue collar jobs of which are male dominated industries to more white collar jobs of which are more female dominated in the sense that the white collar culture though still dominated by men, but are more suited towards femininity. Blue collar work is inherently masculine. But white collar work requires a lot of soft skills that women learn more inherently in society. So many of these jobs prefer wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 03:16 AM
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Cock Carousel = Long Term Avoidance Syndrome
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 07:16 PM
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What you're saying is wishful thinking. The reality of the situation is even if that was the goal, what would actually happen is she gets drunk off your dime and then she gets loose enough to have sex with some other guy who didn't pay a dime all night. That's reality. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 04:49 PM
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You've actually helped me better articulate what I've been. Noticing too. Women are supportive of males who want to be Trans or Gay and I'm supportive as well. However the contradictions come when it comes to their dating preferences because though a Male maybe more accepted if they are more effeminate or less masculine women are not attracted to these guys at all. It seems the more masculine you are as a Male the more attracted they are to you. So they're kind of being dishonest because yea the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 04:19 PM
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After you play the numbers game and keep failing you give up. I don't talk to women because I'm still trying to improve myself. It's fucking hard man. But I can honestly say I'm better than I was last year so there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 02:32 PM
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So casual sex is treating people like objects?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 01:05 AM
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I said I wasn't interested in dating. But yea I know women are humans that doesn't neglect the fact I want sex with women. Why do I have to have a connection with women to have sex with them? Women have sex with people they have no connection to all the time. I just want to be one of them. Why is this a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 01:04 AM
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What do you think my Y is?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 12:48 AM
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It does belong because women complain that men don't approach and this is one reason why but I figured why not approach it as a personal story and see if others will join in and present their own story. Hasn't happened yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 12:47 AM
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Trololol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 12:44 AM
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Yes. It's not necessarily the right place for hook ups. I've had it for over a year. I used to go to kink events when I had time. I don't have the time now. But I will soon to get back into it. But yea it's almost like if you don't have a girlfriend it's impossible to hook up with a woman on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 12:36 AM
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But thats5the thing. I don't care. So when I ask it comes off not genuine and I lose interest and then I'm just jumping from topic to topic. Being direct works better for me, but it takes a lot for me to work up the courage to do it because of my years of rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 12:22 AM
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Well like I said there are plenty other non violent ways to defend yourself. Get better at roasting people. Get better at leveraging certain situations to your benefit. Dress better. Get fit. Learn good social skill. All are far better than sitting on the internet bitching about being short when I know short mothafuckas pulling more tail than I am and don't take no shit from nobody regardless of height. You here making excuses for why your not getting pussy when the excuses you're using are nega…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 10:42 AM
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Missing the point. The issue isn't be able to win the fight. You're probably going to lose hard but people respect people who defend themselves. Not people who Curl up in the fetal position and take it. You're not learning how to defend yourself physically and non physically to win, you're learning how to do it to make them not want to put in the effort. And eventually if you keep fighting back you might actually win. But you'll never if you keep acting like a little bitch and making size affect…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 08:34 PM
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Sure but plenty of attractive people have a hard time dating. Most people are not 10's. Plenty of 6's and 7's are having a hard go at finding romance and sex. So while sure attraction is the main thing that gets people to the door it's the personality and and actions that gets you to the goods.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 08:26 PM
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Physical attraction is only 1 half of attraction. Humans are attracted to more than just physical attraction. Also personalities and actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 11:19 AM
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Other than verbally rejecting his actions, learn how to fight. Be willing take an ass whooping. Being a manlet is no excuse to act like a bitch when challenged. Chad smells the bitch in you. I know Manlets that will fuck a dude up no matter how how tall or big they are. Get that bitch up out ya system. http://imgur.com/gallery/IMAMD
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 11:16 AM
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I didn't say anything about in public or not. It's both public and in private if someone is out of pocket you check them. You stand up for yourself. And sending them to Fuckoffville is checking them. So you agree with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 08:39 PM
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Bullshit. Plenty of white and suburban and rich women (ghetto is code for black don't think I didn't catch that.) Who are the exact same way. It's not exclusive to class or daddy issues. All women get bored of men who don't challenge them. If you're a man and you're giving them attention without making the earn it or correcting them like a normal person does anyone else who is acting out of pocket, she's not going to respect you and find someone who will notice her flaws because someone who does…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 06:19 AM
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Nah, you don't have to have daddy issues to be attracted to those guys. Plenty of girls with good dads are attracted to guys who they find, "exciting." Not projecting it's true. No checking someone who does something wrong is not verbal abuse. It's correcting someone who has crossed a line.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 12:21 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 12:17 AM
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Yes, it's specific. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 09:42 PM
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Sad part is they'll never admit it. So you're an asshole for exposing it, but all know it's true. If they dominate you they lose interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 09:31 PM
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Ok so I'm black. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 09:13 PM
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What's that supposed to mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 08:59 PM
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What was 10 years ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 08:51 PM
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Because simple minded people are annoying as fuck. You can say, "don't be afraid of being an asshole to defend yourself." And they'll say, "So you're saying it's ok to be an asshole?" That's why I made that statement for those simple Jack ass mothafuckas.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 08:49 PM
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No Chad is an asshole to Becky. He bullies you because you allow him to. Chad does not respect weakness. Women don't respect weakness. Grow some balls and defend yourself. Set boundaries. And stop looking for respect, demand that shit. If people don't fall in line, that's their problem, not yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 08:47 PM
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I agree with you. But I'm trying to correct men's view point. So I'm coming at from another angle. What I'm saying is literally what you're saying but I'm explaining it from a perspective that they're viewing it from.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 08:42 PM
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Well I don't think anyone is depressed because they're not someone special. I think a lot of people are depressed because they were expecting to get a certain type of job with a certain amount of pay to live a certain kind of life and where they end up has no future, little advancement opportunities and the pay is often not sufficient to meet your needs as an adult. Which is why a lot of people are living with their parents. It's really hard to get laid living with your folks. A lot of guys in p…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 06:43 AM
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Yea you're now a threat because you have more skills than the people hiring you. Here you are thinking you got all these skills to make sure they can't not hire you and turns out over impressing is how you not get hired. Fuck me right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 02:17 AM
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They've made what was originally an Entry Level Grunt Work job into an unpaid job that. They don't want to pay living wage for the smaller jobs. That's why these jobs are really classest jobs. Because poor people can't get those jobs. Poor people can't live with their parents for 2 to 3 years doing unpaid internships. When we graduate we have to start working a fulltime job and gain skills to get higher pay. We can't not make money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 12:51 AM
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I've fucked up a lot of my own interviews. But the worst thing for me is doing a bunch of internships and still not even getting a call back. Like a degree, I got a few internships. I can't even get a call back for an entry level job. Then you find out the unpaid internship was the entry level job. Lol Fuck me right? And it's gotten to the point where it's getting harder to even get unpaid internships. They don't even want you to work for them for free. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 12:38 AM
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And the fucked up thing is anytime you try to bring up how fucked up it is, everyone gaslight you and calls you lazy or just complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 11:43 PM
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A lot of young men realize they haven't gone anywhere in life yet. The way the job market is. A lot of guys are having a midlife crisis in their late 20's.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 09:54 PM
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Fair point. That does happen. But many Incels would say that they even get rejected by women they believe are less attractive than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 06:39 AM
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Nice try but no. I'm talking about Average looking women with and without makeup, rejecting men who are around their same attraction level because they know they can have sexual access to men who are more attractive. You can come up with other scenarios all you want. I'm not talking about those scenarios I'm talking out this specific one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 06:39 PM
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They rate themselves worse but they expect more. Guy rate ourselves higher but expect less.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 06:56 PM
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One thing that is undeniable at this point is that women of all appearance levels thinks they're hotter than they actually are. I've had girls say they don't date ugly men and they don't look all that hot themselves. I've had girls tell me they don't date fat men even though they're fat. I've even had black girls tell me they don't date black men but they're clearly having trouble dating white men and I advise them to try to date other races of men because it's clearly not working out with white…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 08:23 PM
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Either way a straight man's brain is instinctively not attracted to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 07:50 PM
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The issues you brought up are not relevant issues to the Demographic I'm talking about. Homelessness maybe but a lot of young men are not making as much money as their female counterparts of the same age range. We're not succeeding in academia as much. We're not getting the same employment opportunities. Socially we're undervalued outside of hard labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 12:18 AM
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Quote where you said because I don't see you asking why me haven't started their own movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 12:12 AM
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Maybe. But I wouldn't put it passed me at this point. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 12:09 AM
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No he's not serious about being anti-feminist. There are MGTOW who have completely sworn off women. They won't have sex with women, they won't be their friend if they can help it they won't even work with women. So if an anti-feminist isn't using the restriction of his dick as a bargaining chip he's not serious about it. Because if only anti feminist women were getting dick and relationships it would be harder to be a Feminist. There are no consequences for being a feminist in dating. And most w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 12:08 AM
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Finally a constructive critique. You're right men should be doing more to uplift young men and boys. But the problem people will. Bring up is that any time we do so to our standards we get criticized for it. People tell us we're reinforcing Patriarchy or setting rigid standards of manhood. And other gender neutral critiques. And when we tell you guys to go fuck yourselves this ain't about you, now all of a sudden people want to play victim. See nobody was bothering you when you were having your …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 11:21 PM
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Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 11:16 PM
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The issue is and was that that's all they could do. They didn't have the option to do something else. Now being a housemate is a choice for both men and women. Everyone Universally agrees that if one spouse is sitting at home they need to be doing something. So it is a raw deal if you can't choose anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 11:15 PM
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I get that but that's not a palatable movement. It's inherently antagonistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 11:04 PM
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Well sex cuts out all the bullshit. Yea you disagree with them but when you have sex with them you validate them in the sense that you're not so serious about the changes you want because you're willing to fuck someone who is completely against you. It's like being Non White or Jewish or both and you're having sex with a Nazi. Like ok you say you hate nazis, but you liked the Swastika on on Richard's Spencer's biggest fan's nipple.bso obviously Nazis don't bother you that much. And most guys are…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 11:02 PM
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Never heard of that term. I'll look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 10:54 PM
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Ok but even to that point. This is also a generational issue. A bunch of old white guys in Texas trying punish womennfor abortion is generations in the making and it's supported by Cis Conservative Women a like. So you're point only applies in a certain region with a certain culture of a certain generation. I dont5know that Millenial Men and Boys agree with those policies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 10:52 PM
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Those are old men. I'm talking about Young Men and Boys. This is a generational issue. And also you're talking about establishment power. We can really get into he of this but I'm trying to keep the top to just Millennial (I don't like the term or the idea of rigid generations perse) and boys. Let's keep it simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 10:39 PM
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I'm sorry but MGTOW isn't a very good movement. It has a lot of positives but much of it isn't helpful and is misguided. Most MGTOW I hear honestly believe the 50s and 60s were better when they were objectively not for neither men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 10:33 PM
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But I'm not even talking about laws. I'm talking about Social issues. Socially we have left my generation and boys behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 10:28 PM
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Dude I'd smash the fuck out of a bearded woman right now my dick so dry. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 09:33 PM
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I wonder what the goal is for this idea? What's the conclusion specifically for cis-straight penis bearing men? Is the conclusion that men or rather cis-straight men should expand their standards of beauty or not have them at all? Is the goal for cis men to see a bearded woman just as attractive as a beardless woman? Should we start accepting Trans and the plethora of other gender non conforming people into our dating options? If the goal is to get men to accept vagina bearing women as they are …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 08:11 PM
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Hairless women is purely a social standard. Bearded women being unattractive is purely biological. And for the Gender Critics it should be obvious but I will explain. A woman having a Bush is no doubt a sign of sexual maturity. (Note pre-historic man did not have the same age maturity standards. The moment you were able to give birth is the moment you got fucked.) Now a woman with a beard is clearly a turn off for most Straight men because it's a sign of masculinity or penis bearing. So you're l…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 08:00 PM
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You're right I shouldn't say relationship. Marriage is really what I mean. Sure women can date very easily but getting a man to put a ring on her finger isna completely different story. If a butt ugly guy has resources he can marry within a year. Sure the woman won't actually like him and there purely for the benefits. But the guy really only wants her as a Trophy Wife so there's an even exchange. But I hear more women complaining about getting someone to marry or commit to them. I've rarely hea…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 10:45 AM
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It's cool. But I do agree that a lot of guys are not being open and honest about wanting casual. And a lot of that is because we listen to what women say they want and not what they actually do. What I mean by that. I like you said. It may say on her profile that she's looking for a relationship. But you find out she's fucking Chad. She may say she's looking for a relationship if you ask her, but then you find out she got a fuck buddy. Now she's not lying, she wants a relationship but that don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 10:59 PM
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Now I don't think anyone is entitled to sex. I think a lot of people see the complaints men have about the imbalance of sex as entitlement. I don't think that's the case for most guys. We're just expressing our frustrations. I do agree that men need to be more selective. Problem is if you havea scarcity mindset you see every interaction with any woman as special and as a potential for sex. But if you have an abundance mindset you don't care whether any interaction with any woman is special or a …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 10:23 PM
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No I'm saying give us the point. Not give us sex. Give us the point that sex is harder for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 10:01 PM
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I think you're being disingenuous. Yes. You can't force people to be sexually attracted to you but you can't blow this legitimate complaint as, maybe you're just not casual sex material. Be that as it may. Guys gotta get laid. And you have to give men this win because it's true. It's completely unfair that some guys can get casual sex without having to invest so much as a dime or an hour of their time while most guys have to invest way more money and time than others. Now yes. Life is not fair b…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 09:24 PM
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The point isn't so much what you personally do. It's the principal of the issue. In general. Women put men in sexual or nonsexual categories. Chad's are placed in the sexual nice guys are in the nonsexual and the average guy is in the middle and can be either or. The key is most women know what category they want you in the moment they see you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 12:44 PM
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You're missing the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 12:26 PM
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Every woman has a man for everything she needs. Chad is for her sexual needs. You are for her non sexual needs. Yea you are relationship material but she not looking for that right now. She wants to have fun. And low key she knows you really just want to fuck. So she's just gonna keep you around for her non sexual needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 12:20 PM
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I'm not even talking about online dating. I'm just talking about any interaction be it online or IRL. You gotta be able to check her when she's out of line, call her out on her bullshit and challenge her to be a better person. Again we have to stop putting women on a pedestal. Treat them they ain't shit. Not for misogynistic reasons, but simply because humans in general ain't shit. And when you acknowledge that people ain't shit and you treat people the exact same people will fuck with you. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 04:56 AM
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Ok hyper pedestalizing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 09:37 PM
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Yea but that's when you have to set yourself apart. Being the guy who's doing complete opposite of other guys is key because if you're just telling her how beautiful she is, you're just another fan. But if you critique her. See her as a human being with flaws. If you talk about her flaws women will be liable to talk to you because they're so used to guys telling her what's so great about her, hearing a guy being able see past that us actually interesting. It's like you see her as human. Guys hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 09:28 PM
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I disagree. It has changed it without a doubt but it's actually enhanced the dating game. Now you just have to be more thorough about your business and be careful about what you post and make your social media like an advertisement for your life. All it's done is enhance what's already there. Guys have always been super thirsty. Women have always loved to be admired by as many guys as possible for their looks. And people have always wanted people who were way above their pay grade. Meeting peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 08:17 PM
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Just have a FWB. Why make the relationship more complicated than it needs to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 01:11 PM
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All I know about Burth Control is what I need to know. I only need to know whether or not my partner is on it or not. How often she chooses not to use them if at all. What brand I need to buy or help buy her in the event she can't get it herself. Not alter her decision on it. I keep my mouth shut.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 07:01 PM
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Yea because prostitutes are expensive. Easily 200 to 300 dollars for a decent one. 100 if you can find them. So you're asking people to spend 100 to 200 each time just to have sex. That's not consistent sex. We want consistent sex. 100 to 200 each time for an hour. That's not feasible for most people. So when people just blow us off and tell us to just buy prostitutes they say it as if it fixes all of the issues and it doesn't. Ok I'm no longer a virgin but I still have to save up a hundred doll…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 11:30 PM
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Yea but I'm one of them. It's really mostly about sex. We really just want the sex. But see a relationship as a stable situation for consistent sex. But once they get consistent sex they'll end up like every other guy who doesn't identify as an Incel or FA to not really wanting a relationship but rather consistent sexual access.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 11:06 PM
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Women complain about being and staying in a relationship. Most guys complain about getting sex and getting it regularly. I've never heard of a guy complain that he can't get into a relationship. Most guys aren't even looking for a relationship and try to figure out how they can get the sex without the relationship. So I would agree based on what I've observed as someone who has never been in a relationship and struggles to get sex on a consistent basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 04:49 AM
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What is TRP? Also Pimps get into women's mind. They actually ask question to get to know women to see if they are special. They don't assume women are special and then try to persue them no. Pimps first don't think anything about you. They try to get to know you to see if you bout something. That's why guys who see women as possessions have a hard time talking with women and getting to know them because they already see women as special beings and therefore they are not worthy so when they talk …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 09:51 PM
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If that's how you feel there's nothing I can do about that. I'm just describing a mindset to change the way a lot of guys see women so they stop having toxic ideas about women. See women as nothing special is actually closer to feminism than how a lot of guys see women. Now which are special being who they require the validation of and require them to be "clean" innocent objects to possess. To a Pimp a bitch is just a bitch. Removing the possessive special view of women is integral to the growth…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 09:39 PM
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Revenge for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 09:30 PM
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Bullshit. See you're stuck on the word bitch. Ok so let me reword it so it's less abrasive. "Women are not possessions, she doesn't belong to you. Stop treating women like beings and treat them like normal people with flaws and feelings." There I literally said the samething. But with more words and no bad words. Guys who view women as nothing special and just regular people with flaws no different from anyone else or themselves. That mindset attracks women because guys who don't have this minds…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 09:22 PM
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No it includes marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 08:25 PM
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Women are attracted to men with this mindset. Take out the B words and these are the men women are attracted to. Men who don't see them as possessions or some higher being, just someone who has no obligation to them and understand it's just they turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 08:25 PM
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Hot damn somebody listening to some pimps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 08:21 PM
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Treat all women the same. This is Pimp philosophy comes in. I'm not a pimp but I've studied some of their philosophies. One that will reduce all this bullshit is a simple quote. "The bitch don't belong to me she belong to the game..." Hot dog I'm preaching but yall don't hear me. What that means is when a hoe leave you for another pimp, don't stress about her being a Choosy Suzy. It's either something wrong with your pimpin or that pimp doin something you not. Either way if your pimpin is strong…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 06:58 AM
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Well of course that line won't work. But the spirit of it will with women who are attracted to you. I remember asking this chick online she said she was interested and wasn't looking for anything serious. We had sex. Once because I told her her pussy didn't taste good. Which was true. It was sour pussy. But hey you win some and you might lose it after you win it, but you gotta take your wins and loses where you can. Honesty is a double edged sword. But when it works man it's peaceful. I don't ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 05:49 AM
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Of course it's not going to work on most women but it does work with the women who are actually attracted to you. A woman has already decided whether she wants to fuck you or not the moment she see's you. So beating around the Bush about changes nothing so just go for the gusto. I'm not a Chad by any means but I've gotten further being honest than lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 05:09 AM
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I believe it's based on your desires interests and intentions. If you want to fuck just say you want to fuck. Now of course most women will reject you but you were going to get rejected anyway or the relationship would have fell apart. So instead of lying to yourself and others just tell the truth. "Hi I'm [name] and I would like to have sexual intercourse with you." Now of course you're probably going to have to be more discreet or creative about it. Flirting is a skill but stop lying and sayin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 02:36 AM
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