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Outer Game Spotdown23/r/seduction21/05/22 03:09 PM
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Thanks man
/r/seduction08/07/22 07:28 PM
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So like while we’re kissing? Cause I’m not just gonna ask her at a bar “hey so how fast do you want me to go when giving you oral”
/r/seduction08/07/22 07:12 PM
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Ya but I’m saying she’s not like super attractive but she’s cute
/r/seduction08/07/22 07:10 PM
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Tbh I didn’t find her super attractive when I matched with her. Like she’s cute I guess but I really wasn’t that into her until I met her
/r/seduction08/07/22 07:05 PM
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I want to ask her what she wants while I’m doing it but not sure how to
/r/seduction08/07/22 06:59 PM
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Ya but idk if we rule the scene on apps. I have a lot of options but I really like this one and that’s where my issue is
/r/seduction08/07/22 06:54 PM
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Thanks! What defines the top 10% of men on apps/dating pool?
/r/seduction08/07/22 06:53 PM
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It sucks
/r/seduction08/07/22 06:46 PM
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I’m trying. Any tips?
/r/seduction08/07/22 06:46 PM
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I’ve tried but can’t
/r/seduction08/07/22 06:39 PM
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I’m dating to get to that point with someone but I feel like girls in NYC don’t really want that and just date for casual sex
/r/seduction08/07/22 06:39 PM
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Thank you!
/r/seduction08/07/22 06:37 PM
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Thanks bro fingers crossed it goes well and she doesn’t flake
/r/seduction08/07/22 06:37 PM
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Not really lol I kinda like her and want to keep seeing her
/r/seduction08/07/22 06:37 PM
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Only been 4 dates it could scare her off
/r/seduction08/07/22 06:36 PM
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Ya I don’t flaunt it or anything I work in finance. But. I guess it can just show financial stability which could be a point of attraction that I have my life together
/r/seduction08/07/22 06:16 PM
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Ya I agree. It’s just kinda tough cause I really like her and then I’d have to start the process all over again and wonder if new girls will give me the same excitement
/r/seduction08/07/22 06:15 PM
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Thanks. I’d consider myself somewhat successful. 25, undergrad and grad degree, making over 200k. But it just feels like others are just as successful so I don’t stand out
/r/seduction08/07/22 06:09 PM
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I guess it comes down to 1. Does she want something more than just casual sex at 25 and 2. Is she still interested enough for that to happen
/r/seduction08/07/22 06:07 PM
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Thanks I need help with my morale and confidence
/r/seduction08/07/22 06:06 PM
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It’s not like that trust me for people in their 20s it’s pretty even and a girl on a dating app is going to have endless options
/r/seduction08/07/22 06:06 PM
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Thanks bro but the issue is it’s NYC so girls have countless options. So I feel like it doesn’t really hold as much weight as it would in a smaller city
/r/seduction08/07/22 05:58 PM
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Funny you say that. I scheduled my first therapy session for next week
/r/seduction08/07/22 05:57 PM
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Be honest wouldn’t you want the guy that didn’t treat you amazing but treated you decent enough for you to kinda keep interest?
/r/seduction08/07/22 05:54 PM
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I’m 25 as well glad to know we’re in the same boat
/r/seduction08/07/22 05:47 PM
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I’m trying to fix it but I have low confidence in myself. However, I try not to show it when I’m with her
/r/seduction08/07/22 05:47 PM
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Haha thanks. It just feels like in NYC it doesn’t hold as much weight
/r/seduction08/07/22 05:38 PM
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Thanks man. How old are you by the way?
/r/seduction08/07/22 05:37 PM
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Doesn’t feel like it
/r/seduction08/07/22 05:36 PM
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Thanks man I have confidence issues. How did you fix yours?
/r/seduction08/07/22 05:19 PM
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How do I do that
/r/seduction08/07/22 04:55 PM
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I am myself but I’m wondering if there’s any tips in general
/r/seduction08/07/22 04:54 PM
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It’s been 4 dates. The first time I left cause it was a weekday then the next time she left at 5:30 AM when the sun came up after hooking up all night
/r/seduction08/07/22 04:51 PM
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I do I be mysterious on the fifth date?
/r/seduction08/07/22 04:45 PM
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I don’t want it to stop and I’m sad when she leaves
/r/seduction08/07/22 04:44 PM
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Thanks man I really needed that confidence. Really appreciate it
/r/seduction08/07/22 04:39 PM
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I treat her well but I keep reading that women like men that treat them like trash lol
/r/seduction08/07/22 04:38 PM
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It was just fun. We were hooking up for hours
/r/seduction08/07/22 04:35 PM
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Great connection. I also like spending time with her and think she’s a good person who has goals
/r/seduction08/07/22 04:20 PM
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Sex is amazing
/r/seduction08/07/22 04:14 PM
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I’m talking to multiple women I just like this one the best
/r/seduction08/07/22 04:14 PM
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I’m always looking for tips and advice from others with experience so I can learn to jot make those same mistakes
/r/seduction08/07/22 04:14 PM
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I’m a little worried because the girl I was seeing last month messages me first after a great night and hooking up then lost interest a week later
/r/seduction27/06/22 05:31 AM
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All feedback is appreciated
/r/seduction27/06/22 12:29 AM
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I fingered after sex I had her place my hand where she wanted and hit it for a few mins and she said she came so hopefully she actually did haha
/r/seduction25/06/22 09:55 PM
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Thanks man! My stroke game is whatever from lack of experience but I made sure to go down in her a couple times and finger her as well
/r/seduction25/06/22 09:44 PM
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This was our second time having sex and she stayed for like 5 hours
/r/seduction25/06/22 09:43 PM
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I didn’t ask if she came but I went down on her a bunch and fingered her and she told me she did
/r/seduction25/06/22 08:39 PM
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Just wondering if it helps set me apart from other guys because we met on a dating app
/r/seduction25/06/22 06:01 PM
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Thanks bro I will do it in honor of you
/r/seduction18/06/22 10:47 PM
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Good advice thank you
/r/seduction18/06/22 10:28 PM
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YouTube?
/r/seduction18/06/22 10:28 PM
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True I was going in for a kiss on damn near every first date a little while ago and having some success with it I should probably do that again
/r/seduction18/06/22 10:27 PM
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It’s difficult to get the bad ones to talk to you on the apps though
/r/seduction18/06/22 10:06 PM
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Happens to me too sometimes
/r/seduction18/06/22 10:04 PM
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How do you do it without coming off too strong or too awkward?
/r/seduction18/06/22 09:50 PM
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Huh?
/r/seduction18/06/22 08:02 PM
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Ya need to learn how to be more flirty I think
/r/seduction18/06/22 08:01 PM
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Gonna keep trying
/r/seduction18/06/22 04:55 PM
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The date was last night I don’t think 2 day break would do that
/r/seduction18/06/22 04:55 PM
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I’ll ask her on a second date this week
/r/seduction18/06/22 04:26 PM
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Damn I thought NYC was easy to date in thanks for your advice
/r/seduction18/06/22 04:26 PM
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Getting to know the person and life experiences I guess
/r/seduction18/06/22 03:33 PM
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Been on a cold streak lately so maybe I need to be more flirty
/r/seduction18/06/22 03:33 PM
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I never do dinner it’s always a quick drink or two
/r/seduction18/06/22 03:32 PM
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Easier but it’s difficult to get second dates
/r/seduction18/06/22 03:30 PM
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I reached for my wallet and then when she said we could split I asked “are you sure?” And she insisted
/r/seduction18/06/22 03:28 PM
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Thanks man. I live in NYC so I feel like it’s easy to get dates but hard to keep them around after
/r/seduction18/06/22 03:28 PM
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I never show that I’m not interested. Spent 2.5 hours having a good convo and then after I walked her home
/r/seduction18/06/22 01:29 PM
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I feel like I need to build sexual chemistry. Conversations are fine on dates and they flow well I think. But could come off as more of a friend
/r/seduction18/06/22 06:38 AM
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I live in NYC which is why I know it means she’s not interested lol
/r/seduction18/06/22 06:38 AM
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I’ll text her in a couple days but I’m telling you there’s a 95% chance she’s not interested
/r/seduction18/06/22 06:26 AM
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Ya but on the first date? I just don’t see a girl who’s interested splitting the bill
/r/seduction18/06/22 06:25 AM
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No I walked back with her and said we should do it again and have her a hug
/r/seduction18/06/22 06:03 AM
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No I said we should do it again soon then hugged and went on my way
/r/seduction18/06/22 05:47 AM
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From my experience I think it is. Just the whole vibe was off after that
/r/seduction18/06/22 05:35 AM
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Nah I take it that they intend to not see you again. If it was “I’ll get it this time you get it next time” then that’s different
/r/seduction18/06/22 05:35 AM
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I walked her back to her place
/r/seduction18/06/22 05:34 AM
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It always does. We talked for 2.5 hours and she kept saying stuff like she’d show me around the city then the bill came she wanted to split it then I said good bye to her outside and that was it. How it usually goes
/r/seduction18/06/22 04:43 AM
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Their reaction for what? And you don’t think I’d come off weird if I was super high energy?
/r/seduction17/06/22 04:13 PM
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Ya it’s just kinda rough cause it gets expensive
/r/seduction17/06/22 02:57 PM
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How do you master it?
/r/seduction17/06/22 02:50 PM
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It was a first date through online dating I’m never going to see them again. I’m talking to multiple girls but lately haven’t really gotten past the first date
/r/seduction17/06/22 12:37 PM
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All advice is appreciated
/r/seduction17/06/22 05:46 AM
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Ya same. Had some success but lately been on a decline. I’m trying to see how to deal with this kind of rejection and change my mindset
/r/seduction17/06/22 04:32 AM
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I texted and she said she’s down to hang out again next week
/r/seduction15/06/22 06:32 PM
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She sent a couple messages so I sent a flirty one back and I’m waiting to hear back
/r/seduction13/06/22 11:25 PM
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I did she replied
/r/seduction13/06/22 10:07 PM
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She replied
/r/seduction13/06/22 07:54 PM
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She texted back
/r/seduction13/06/22 07:53 PM
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Just did. I’ll let you know if I get ghosted or bot
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:29 PM
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She texted me first after our first date saying thanks and she had a good time though
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:11 PM
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You think so?
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:11 PM
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So 7 days total in between talking to her? You don’t think that’s long?
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:11 PM
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We had sex like 4 days ago and I’m thinking she lost interested cause the sex was whatever and she didn’t text me after
/r/seduction13/06/22 03:17 PM
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Ya which makes me think I shouldn’t reach out first
/r/seduction13/06/22 12:13 PM
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Ya it just was a weird situation cause I was outside the door and she was inside half naked. Hoping she didn’t lose interest cause I’m not good with rejection
/r/seduction13/06/22 03:49 AM
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She’s going out of town next week so I kind of just want to text just to let her know I didn’t desert her or something
/r/seduction13/06/22 12:53 AM
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She’s going away for a week so I don’t think I should wait that long
/r/seduction12/06/22 11:01 PM
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Causal sex
/r/seduction12/06/22 11:01 PM
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Alright I’ll text tomorrow . Fingers crossed
/r/seduction12/06/22 09:45 PM
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Ya I’m just thinking that if she was interested she would’ve texted by now
/r/seduction12/06/22 09:40 PM
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Just kinda scared of rejection
/r/seduction12/06/22 09:35 PM
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I live in NYC people don’t do relationships here
/r/seduction12/06/22 09:34 PM
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I’m trying. So I shouldn’t text?
/r/seduction12/06/22 08:49 PM
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Idk I went down on her before and lasted a decent amount of time so idk if it could’ve been that bad. She hit me up asking to hang the next day too
/r/seduction08/06/22 10:46 PM
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She hit me up a couple times after but I was busy with work then she said that
/r/seduction08/06/22 04:27 AM
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I’m white though so I’m not packing like OG Mudbone
/r/seduction08/06/22 04:04 AM
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Damn dude you’re a god lmao
/r/seduction08/06/22 04:03 AM
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Damn I’ll ramp it up then go harder and more rhythm
/r/seduction08/06/22 03:11 AM
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Damn dude thank you for the detailed answer I really appreciate it. So even though you’re with your gf now you still see other girls and she’s cool with it?
/r/seduction08/06/22 03:10 AM
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Thanks man. Left it on a friendly note and said I wish for the best and that was it
/r/seduction08/06/22 01:58 AM
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I don’t have her on social media so I legit will probably never see her again lol
/r/seduction08/06/22 01:56 AM
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You’ve had good success with this? Girls don’t get mad that you’re talking to other girls?
/r/seduction08/06/22 01:55 AM
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Ya I would take like 4-5 hours to reply to the girl then she’d take 12 lol. Shit sucked. I’m also kinda nervous that maybe it was the sex that changed her mind. Any pointers on how to tackle that issue?
/r/seduction08/06/22 01:53 AM
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How do I stop that from happening?
/r/seduction08/06/22 01:32 AM
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Thanks man really appreciate it. I have a really good job so I have my shit together. I never told her I had girls like that I don’t even know how to bring it up lol. Any advice going forward on how to seem like I have other girls?
/r/seduction08/06/22 01:24 AM
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I’m talking to like 10 other girls. It’s just that I liked this one the most
/r/seduction08/06/22 12:36 AM
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By another woman do you mean somebody new?
/r/seduction08/06/22 12:19 AM
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Ya I’m hoping so. Just really liked that girl thought she was super cute and we got along
/r/seduction08/06/22 12:17 AM
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I live in the city so I’m talking to like 10 other girls
/r/seduction08/06/22 12:06 AM
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Really liked her. Would be a confidence boost
/r/seduction07/06/22 09:30 PM
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Doubt she ever hits me up again. Damn dude this sucks
/r/seduction07/06/22 07:45 PM
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Nah she just told me she sees this as a friendship
/r/seduction07/06/22 05:46 PM
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Ya
/r/seduction07/06/22 05:26 PM
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Thanks bro
/r/seduction07/06/22 04:44 PM
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Fuck dude how do I get better
/r/seduction07/06/22 04:44 PM
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How do I not let it effect me
/r/seduction07/06/22 04:05 PM
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Went down on her before we had sex
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:23 PM
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Ya this is just hard. I really liked her. Feeling bit good enough now
/r/seduction07/06/22 02:49 PM
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I don’t but it would do a lot for my confidence
/r/seduction07/06/22 02:44 PM
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Same dude like part of me is wondering if it was the sex but the next day she texted me like 4 times first which she never did then asked me to hang with her and her friend that night
/r/seduction07/06/22 02:23 PM
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No she would take long to reply she’s def not clingy
/r/seduction07/06/22 02:06 PM
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Any of them ever come back?
/r/seduction07/06/22 02:01 PM
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Idk but then why hit me up fire the next day and ask me to hang with her friend then when I said I couldn’t she asked me to hang with her friend later that week too
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:58 PM
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Any chance she ever hits me back up in the future after saying that?
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:46 PM
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Check dm
/r/seduction03/06/22 06:10 PM
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We’ve been on 3 dates and had sex on the last one. She hit me up the next day and asked me to hang out but I was busy. I proposed different days later in the week and she said she’d let me know. Proceeded to not let me know so I sent a follow up text 5 hours ago with no reply
/r/seduction03/06/22 05:55 PM
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I’m dating multiple but I like this one way more I think that’s why I’m emotionally attached
/r/seduction03/06/22 04:22 PM
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I get too attached to the ones I really like way too quick I want to stop it
/r/seduction03/06/22 01:28 PM
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This was 12 hours ago. Think she enjoyed it but I guess it ended abruptly
/r/seduction21/05/22 07:02 PM
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How long do I wait to text
/r/seduction21/05/22 04:26 PM
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Ya just hope she didn’t lose interest
/r/seduction21/05/22 04:05 PM
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