SpoutingThomas Archive

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4	RP Christians and the Black Pill I'll lead by saying I agree with others that you need to start with mission. That said, I'm 5'8", with naturally soft/baby-faced facial features (though I grow a good beard) and an early receding hairline. I think my wife is very sexy, certainly the best-looking woman I ever dated. And she's also pretty naturally drawn to me physically, which seems to be largely a combination of me taking care of myself and simple good luck of chemistry. I've found that some women will just plain like your look …	/r/RPChristians	18/12/20 11:26 PM
2	How long did you wait till the next pregnancy? When it comes to waiting less than a year, at minimum, I would think about medical consequences. From what I have read, there are increased risks to child, and perhaps also mother. I've also read some evidence that it can lower the child's intelligence, because the mother's body hasn't built up various reserves of omega-3's and so on. I have a friend who had 3 kids in 4 years, and I've spent a lot of time around them. The children all turned out healthy, but his wife (around age 35 when the last…	/r/askRPC	17/12/20 07:28 PM
3	Got a breakup text telling me I’m a “kind, gentle and curious spirit”. How do I stop being so nice and toughen up? If a dude is 6'4" and not morbidly obese or otherwise terribly groomed, then I seriously doubt appearance is his top problem. For most women 6'4" and skinnyfat is better than 5'9" and ripped. Not to say he shouldn't lift anyway, but at best will only help incrementally with what's fundamentally a behavior problem.	/r/RPChristians	02/12/20 01:20 PM
12	HillSong Pastor Carl Lentz' Lover Matthew 23:5-12 But they do all their deeds to be noticed by men; for they broaden their phylacteries and lengthen the tassels of their garments. They love the place of honor at banquets and the chief seats in the synagogues, and respectful greetings in the market places, and being called Rabbi by men. But do not be called Rabbi; for One is your Teacher, and you are all brothers. Do not call anyone on earth your father; for One is your Father, He who is in heaven. Do not be called leaders; for O…	/r/RPChristians	12/11/20 06:29 PM
23	If anyone else needs "proof" about your virgin awalt church girls Not sure if this is implied here, but the fact that AWALT in the sense of being at least somewhat two-faced and fully capable of sexual sin does not mean AWALT in the sense of being sluts that actually engage in hookups. That's absolutely not true and is too blackpilled, to the point of suggesting one must abandon all hope for his daughters. But a good reminder that a potential spouse's character needs to be investigated thoroughly, and involvement in church is only the starting point of assessi…	/r/RPChristians	11/11/20 04:59 PM
1	Methods you've used to teach your children? I'm some years behind you, so I'm more curious about what advice you get than able to offer it. But one thing you didn't bring up and are hopefully thinking about with your son: how to avoid porn addiction. A friend of mine recently got into an open conversation with his 10-year-old son about porn. Thankfully there is a lot of trust in that relationship, and the son came clean. Well, let's just say he had already seen a LOT, including some really hardcore stuff, and he did not seem to be an outl…	/r/askRPC	06/11/20 10:15 PM
2	Why do Rich People marry Ugly Women? A lot of what you point to as changing societal norms for female beauty are media depictions created primarily by women and gay men, for primarily female conception. I'm not so drawn to the tall, thin look as the average man seems to be (which has nothing to do with society but likely my biological/genetic makeup). But I'm sure that if most men find a tall, thin woman attractive, I would find her attractive enough as well, and a man from 2,000 years ago would too. Yet a gay fashion designer migh…	/r/RPChristians	07/10/20 10:44 PM
16	Why do Rich People marry Ugly Women? Beauty consists of both objective and subjective components. It's subjective within a range: one man's 7 is often enough another man's 9, but very seldom is one man's 2 another man's 10 unless an unhealthy fetish or hang-up is at play. I think both my wife and I find the other more physically attractive than most people of the opposite sex find either of us, and this was true from basically our first meeting. To me, this is partly what is meant by "chemistry".	/r/RPChristians	05/10/20 06:27 PM
2	Why do Rich People marry Ugly Women? How much of this is most politicians being "men of one wife"? Melania is 20+ years Donald's junior, while Hillary is basically Bill's same age. Young Hillary wasn't a supermodel but she was OK, especially when not going out of her way to look dowdy with those huge glasses.	/r/RPChristians	05/10/20 01:36 PM
1	why does it seem many former protestants convert to eastern orthodox rather than catholicism if both orthodoxy and catholicism are technically part of the same church from Jesus? I have a friend who recently converted to Orthodoxy from being Baptist. His basic argument: over time, he came to agree with most of the Catholic arguments against Protestantism, but he also still agreed with most of the Protestant arguments against Catholicism. This put him in quite a quandary until he discovered Orthodoxy and found that it seemed to answer most of his complaints. I've been drawn to Orthodoxy at times and have attended a few services, but it does have big practical problems. St…	/r/RPChristians	23/09/20 09:58 PM