Spree8nyk8 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Surround yourself with the right people		Spree8nyk8	/r/seduction	15/11/18 08:35 AM

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3	Something I learned when I was 22 years old don't put numbers on things, i mean if it's 3 weeks that's fine. But don't circle a calendar. Just sit back and let her contact you, and play it by ear. Relax and be confident.	/r/seduction	16/11/18 01:51 AM
1	Surround yourself with the right people This isn't saying make friends with the people at your job. It's saying make friends with people that are succeeding. Whatever you are into, whatever you do. You'll be meeting other people and some of those people are going to be successful. Those are people that will push you in the right direction. Even within the friends that you know now. You're bound to know some successful or moving in that direction people. Be around them more and your loser friends less. I'm not dissing anyones friends. …	/r/seduction	16/11/18 01:41 AM
1	Socializing is boring It's not a matter of whether they like you or not. You're going to have friends. But if you surround yourself with people that don't push you to do more, you won't do more. THAT is my point. I know you're feeling down right now about this but dude, a lot of people suck. Sometimes they are just going through stuff. And sometimes they just suck. When people suck don't get upset about it. Get around people that don't. And if you don't have any of them available. Clean your room. You fucking know th…	/r/seduction	15/11/18 01:51 PM
1	Everyone takes me as frind Only yourself my friend. Best of luck.	/r/seduction	15/11/18 01:47 PM
1	Bad idea? Awful idea, dude just relax and chill. She likes you. No reason to worry. Can you only see her on a date? Whatever you do, don't rush just to get to the kiss. That will definitely dry her up.	/r/seduction	15/11/18 11:06 AM
3	Everyone takes me as frind Stop being things you don't want to be. If women are making you their friend it's because you allow it. There is nothing attractive about a wishy washy dude. Girls that know they can have you any way they want will only want you as a friend. If you want to sleep with a girl you need to pursue that and not pursue the things you aren't interested in. If you get shut down you need to be comfortable to break that off completely and move on to the next. Women are attracted to men they can chase, guys…	/r/seduction	15/11/18 11:02 AM
1	How to loosen up and be vulnerable? Your first question isn't so easy, if you want to loosen up you have to be comfortable and confident. This date doesn't matter, this girl doesn't even matter yet. The only thing that matters is having a good time. So if you want to be comfortable you have to know and believe that if things do not go well with this girl that it doesn't matter bc you'll just go out with other girls. You are going to succeed and strike out lots of times, so never get too hung up on one girl. This girl is 4 years ol…	/r/seduction	15/11/18 10:53 AM
2	Socializing is boring Then they are the wrong people. How many people in your life are successful? Like doing something with their lives, you look up to them kind of people. You need more of those. I've been changing my social circle for awhile now bc I finally realize that surrounding myself with people that are going nowhere doesn't push me to better myself at all. But having one friend who was very successful move back to the area had a huge positive impact. When you look at your friends and they are all messed up…	/r/seduction	15/11/18 08:21 AM
0	7 Common Phrases That Show You Lack Confidence That's a very good video.	/r/seduction	15/11/18 08:05 AM
3	Something I learned when I was 22 years old Small word of caution maybe to help you finesse that...say less. You're definitely on the right track with that. But you don't need to explain your reasoning. Especially when what your explaining is that bc you did this, now I'm going to do this. It can come across as petty. I don't think it did the way you used it. But it's stronger to say yes. Maybe something like "Sounds like you have a lot going on, maybe another time." And leave it at that. It sounds SO MUCH STRONGER when you don't explain …	/r/seduction	15/11/18 07:57 AM
3	How do I start getting more attractive women than the ones I have been with? I don't think he's desperate whatsoever, he's getting women fairly easily from the sounds of it and he's merely trying to improve on it. Not sure where you get desperate from at all tbh. As far as what attractive girls will feel, they'll feel whatever they are led to feel. Attraction can be managed. That isn't to say he can't come across as creepy but he hasn't done or said anything that indicates he is.	/r/seduction	14/11/18 07:37 AM
3	How do I start getting more attractive women than the ones I have been with? even if it is, you're in the Seduction subreddit. Why are you bringing up moral issues in a place like this? He never said it was all he cared about. But he does care about it and this is the appropriate place for the discussion isn't it?	/r/seduction	14/11/18 07:28 AM
0	How do you avoid the friendzone with women you'd see regularly (volunteering, meetup groups etc) without being known as a creep? Neg her. A neg is a comment that isn't an offputting remark that puts her off balance. It's not an insult, but it makes you feel awkward. Like if someone tells you that you have food stuck in your teeth. They are trying to help you, but you feel diminished in some way. When a woman is negged, she feels a blow to her ego, less attractive. It's subconscious and she doesn't realize it's happening but she'll want to earn those points back. She'll play with her hair, adjust herself, depending on what…	/r/seduction	14/11/18 07:26 AM
1	How do I start getting more attractive women than the ones I have been with? Identify why you succeed with 7's and figure out how to do that with 9's. Sounds like you are probably different yourself around them. Maybe you are super confident around 7's because you don't value them highly. But your confidence is lower around 9's bc you value them so highly. Treat the 9's like 7's. I mean treat them like you treat the 7's	/r/seduction	14/11/18 07:07 AM
1	How do I start getting more attractive women than the ones I have been with? Then you don't have an answer and you didn't need to reply. He isn't asking you for your opinion about creepy or not. He's asking for advice for what he wants. He wants to date more attractive women. If you can't add to that, you shouldn't have answered.	/r/seduction	14/11/18 07:05 AM
2	I'm aware I'm using women to validate myself and I want to stop. To get over your ex make a list of things that you like to do. And make a list of things that you need to do. When you have thoughts about her start creeping into your head pick something off one of the lists and start doing it. Don't mope and wait, start the second you realize it's happening. Eventually it will hurt less but that takes awhile. You can't change that, but you CAN make yourself more productive which will raise your esteem and also make sure that you are managing your life. Sometim…	/r/seduction	14/11/18 07:02 AM