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Bullllllshit.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/25 01:10 PM
3

Why does it matter?
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/25 01:16 PM
14

Yes. You might not be the ahole. But you’d be SIMPING and it would be kind of a weak move. Move on. Why on earth would you even consider that? You going to send her flowers on your anniversary too?
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/25 05:51 PM
3

Because it’s a ridiculous question. It sounds like you want to believe your ex is still attracted to you or the flirtation is sincere. And that would be…foolish to say the least.
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/25 08:46 PM
3

Is this a serious question? To soften you up for better terms in the divorce. Make you more agreeable. Seriously?
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/25 08:42 PM
2

You need this explained to you? Are you saying you dont understand how women use sex to manipulate?
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/25 08:40 PM
2

90-95%
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/25 12:37 AM
11

100% completely ignore it.
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/25 01:24 PM
6

Dude pop Viagra before you go out and take all the worry away. After a couple times your confidence will be back and all is good. Just take away any doubt whatsoever and enjoy yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/25 03:08 AM
12

Dude. You won. And sooner rather than later you’re going to realize that. So many men get absolutely destroyed financially through the divorce process. You had no choice but to divorce. The rest is just business. You won. Grand slam down by three bottom of the 9th with two outs kind of won.
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/25 01:51 PM
37

You got married less than a year after your divorce? Good luck man. I don’t suggest anyone try and replicate that, statistically that’s a ver bad move. In a year you’re still in the honeymoon phase of a new relationship and add in the impulse to escape the trauma of a divorce, without any other details that seems like a …..questionable move.
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/25 04:42 PM
2

You’re a sucker if you don’t take advantage of the gift she has given you. Do it now. No waiting. No excuses.
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/24 07:21 PM
4

It wasn’t fun I can tell you that. But worth it 100%
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/24 11:53 PM
7

Bluffing. She came at me guns blazing on custody and support, betting I would make her a juicy offer and go for 50/50 on kids. I responded in kind and matched her spending and aggression dollar for dollar. She eventually gave up, I got full custody, the house, no alimony and comfortably over 50% of the assets.
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/24 11:18 PM
6

120k at 450 an hour. Did NOT go to trial.
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/24 11:03 PM
9

Pop a Viagra first couple times to get your confidence back and you’ll be fine.
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/24 02:16 AM
4

My ex was exactly the same. Culminated with her having an affair and me having full custody of four kids.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/24 02:29 PM
1

Gotcha. Good luck man.
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/24 08:26 PM
1

If you agreed to all that why are you going to trial? Just for custody?
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/24 04:14 PM
24

Dude go get laid a few times and you’ll forget all about your ex.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/24 09:25 PM
3

You kind of started it.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/24 03:44 PM
5

Minutes.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/24 04:46 AM
5

Fuck. This.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/24 09:32 PM
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Ummm. Maybe referring to a woman as a “married bitch” might be a clue to why you’re having trouble.
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/24 05:32 PM
11

Dude same is happening to me. New girl after 20 year marriage, great sex but I only climax maybe half the time. I’m just rolling with it, at least I’m not a two pump chump and she is enjoying the endurance so it’s good for my ego.
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/24 05:11 PM
1

There is a beach in San Jose?
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/24 02:48 PM
11

Di not sign a shorty deal. Deal with the pain now or deal with the pain for the rest of your life. No short term thinking.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 10:25 PM
5

Dude this is exactly how my situation is going down. Wife stopped hanging with all her nice married friends about 6-8 months ago and all the sudden all the friends were divorced barflys. It went straight downhill.
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/23 02:05 AM
17

Ha! Well, I’m a LONG way from dating and all that. I’d settle for not feeling like checking out all goddam day.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/23 09:23 PM
49

Today has been a bad day and this helped me brother.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/23 08:21 PM
28

I found out my wife was cheating 9 days ago. I don’t even care who it is. It’s her job to do what’s right. Not some stranger to honor our family and commitment. She is 100% responsible.
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/23 09:17 PM
9

As someone in the thick of it now, it’s strangely the last thing on my mind. I couldn’t care less about meeting someone new. I want to be there for my kids and re-build financially.
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/23 07:25 PM
1

I needed to read this today. I’m still mourning the dream and lamenting the pain of my children, but I am absolutely worn down to a nub and I used to walk around like my dick was dragging on the ground behind me. I’m ashamed of what I’ve allowed myself to become.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/23 09:08 PM
4

Brother, I could have written the same thing. 20 years, she’s moving out next week. It’s baffling and it cuts to the core.
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/23 09:52 PM
2

Once you bring the trash to the curb you don’t bring it back into your house.
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/23 12:54 PM
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