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All irrelevant to what you said Literally no one cares if men passport bro I have no qualms against it, I wouldn't do it myself personally, but I was simply arguing against the point you made. People do care about it, some women are very vocal about hating it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:37 PM
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You all tell? You're acting like I'm a passport bro, I'm just an observer. You'll see women discussing it on subreddits where there aren't even any men, or barely any.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:28 PM
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I can't see any tracked data for that, but there was one that said 55% of men had no relationship/dating experience in their teenage years. Edit: Found another that said 45% of men 18-25 have never asked a woman out
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:45 AM
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63% of men under 30 are single. Only 34% of women under 30 are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:29 AM
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No one cares? Uhh that is definitely not true
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:12 AM
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Most passport bros are not sex tourists. If they wanted sex they'd just see an escort or go to a massage parlour
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:08 AM
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Nothing stopping you except the housing market crisis and cost of living.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:11 AM
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And for the most part its not verified is my point, having a few women say "x is not a good person he went on a date with me and was abusive" is not verification, for all we know she might never have known him, or if she did know him then might just be bitter that he rejected her. For every story there are 3 sides. It happens a lot more than you think, a guy had his life ruined and is basically a social hermit due to anxiety and fear because one of these girls who was bitter he rejected her made…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 06:53 PM
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And how do you know these accusations are true or not? You don't, its basically just slander. A guy had her female friend create a post in her city posting a picture of him and asking "anyone know anything about him?" And she had a handful of women say they had bad experiences with him. Thing is he had never even visited the city his friend was in, she lived across the country
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 06:32 PM
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And some women do the same when their friends try to tell them about their toxic bf. Thats not a gendered issue
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 06:30 PM
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Yes? Wtf kind of question is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 06:27 PM
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Lol bullshit, men in education are treated like potential predators. Just look on the teaching subreddit to see mens lived experiences, and why so many either changed careers or for the ones who are still teaching constantly walk on eggshells and take a shitton of precautions. Many acts women teachers would make with their students a male teacher would be seen as creepy or a danger. https://np.reddit.com/r/Teachers/s/NQpiALGBn1
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:03 PM
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Women make rules for men they don't want and break them for those who do. Basically don't listen to all this "advice" just be yourself. Women know within 1 minute if they consider you relationship material or not based on your personality and appearance, its biological. The women that are interested will gravitate towards you anyways, they'll let you know they're interested, you don't have to force anything if its mutual.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 11:49 AM
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And that is how the term "man cave" came to be
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 08:39 AM
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Do you have a point that refutes my argument that OP was wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:02 AM
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Irrelevant to OPs point. Besides that wouldn't change things anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:49 PM
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I completely agree, but its why its also important to have these relationship experiences when they are young so to avoid this mindset. Its why I think its unintentionally unhealthy advice when you tell people its fine if you haven't had any relationship experience because you can have it later and theres no point in having one now, or that young relationships are shit therefore you didn't miss out on anything. Ironically the reason for them failing oftentimes is for the same reasons this mindse…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:21 PM
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Moving the goalposts. You went from "its not banned" to "okay its banned in some places but its not banned everywhere"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:31 PM
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People get arrested in England for posting certain messages on social media
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:58 PM
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Yeah, they don't approve of him. Yet his body count is in the hundreds
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:59 PM
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And yet the woman still picks them, what does that tell you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:54 PM
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Lol ugly obese women get more matches on tinder than a 9/10 guy does 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:16 PM
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No? Do you think its weird for a mum to want to be a grandmother?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:11 PM
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It wouldn't make it more balanced at all. Women have made it clear that between not dating anyone, casually seeing an attractive guy they know won't commit, and having a committed relationship with a guy that isn't attractive, the last option is always least desirable. Women find 80% of men below average in attractiveness. 63% of men under 30 are single, its not purely an availability thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:14 PM
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What rights do women in western countries not have?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:33 PM
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"It almost never happens" is in fact a massively minimising statement to the point where to you it is so rare it is a non-issue. In places like England there are no statistics on it because by definition a man cannot be raped by a woman. When you go to report it you are laughed or dismissed. Like I said before many men have a story.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:19 PM
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"You've never directed a film so you can't critique a movie" is your logic. Its not even my word, it is the word of scientists. Uhh that wasn't what my comment was about, I don't even disagree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 09:19 AM
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Every person that has done scientific studies ever knows that self-reported is the least reliable method of gathering data
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:05 AM
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Men have absolutely been raped by women, including roofied, there are whole threads about it on reddit if you search for it. But nobody takes male rape by women seriously so its ignored
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 03:50 AM
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You'll be hard-pressed to find a Gen Z guy on here that still wants to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 07:45 AM
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Its the default view, most mainstream. But that doesn't necessarily mean its the "right" view. Like how meat eaters are the default in society, or being a capitalist. The reason its popular is 1. Its the most pleasant to think about, and 2. It does work for some, you'll find someone you hit it off with in high school or college and never have to really worry about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 10:24 AM
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Purple pill is a bit more niche, i don't know exactly what it is bc I really only know the main 3. But I assume its a combination of the beliefs or red and blue pill in some way. Not everyone that classifies themselves as purple pill will have the same mindset, some will lean more red, some more blue
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 10:21 AM
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Blue pill is super simple. Its the Disney ending where everything ends okay for good kind people because the world is just and fair. You get your happily ever after with your special person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 10:10 AM
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To put simply, red pill = Your ceiling will be limited to how attractive you are, however you can increase your ceiling through personal development, improving your physique and social status etc. So your destiny is still in your hands you just have to work hard for it. Black Pill = Your ceiling is not only limited it is also largely fixed based on your physical appearance, and personal development outside of extreme circumstances will not do much to affect your dating options. Your destiny was …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:46 AM
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Not the same
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:12 AM
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You'll get ignored by everyone, not just men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 05:44 AM
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Welcome to the black pill
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 01:28 PM
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Wdym young women aren't interested in dating? 66% of them are in relationships, at least in America
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 06:29 AM
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Not if you have a roster, you can literally have sex whenever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:09 AM
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Isn't it obvious? Bc with hookups looks are the only thing that matters they will be much more selective about the guys' appearance. In a relationship other traits like ability to provide, compatibility, kindness etc. also matter, so women will be selective of those traits and as a result will care less about physical appearance if the guy makes up for it in other areas
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:58 PM
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Where are those men? I agree with him
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:43 PM
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None better available Key words there, he was the most desirable out of all her options, and that option includes just not sleeping with anyone. That scenario doesn't even happen to over half of guys ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:35 PM
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I'm sure women being compared to prostitutes for liking sex is not something THEY would want to hear though. Also, idk how you can support someone who works in an industry where you despise the people who keep it alive. Uhh who said they expect you to leave as soon as possible? They wouldn't agree to be fwb if they didn't like you lol. And no its the opposite, my dick is valuable because if sex is as easy for women to come by as you say, then I must be pretty valuable if she chose me to have sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:28 PM
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Did you just compare women who like casual sex to prostitutes? 😂 She can also have another boy just as soon as she likes That still happens with relationships, you hear people being dumped for someone else all the time. Besides, I was having more sex with fwb who weren't seeing anyone else anyways and it lasted longer than any relationship I'd had too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:15 PM
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Same could be said about the whole calling a woman fat then, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:51 PM
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Lmao I wasn't the one that shifted the convo, all I did was list examples common phrases women use to insult men which is what she asked for. Then she went from, theres no phrases to, you can only think of one phrase.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:49 PM
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So you can only think of one? Nice moving the goalposts
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:29 PM
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Small Dick Energy? Never heard of that one? Or how about Napoleon complex/short man syndrome? Or mentioning how a guy is losing his hair/is bald
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:12 PM
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Women could work in certain careers since the start of the 20th century, and had the ability to enter all fields back in the 60s. They could buy their own home with no male co-signor by 1974 in the US. The complaints red pill groups have only started gaining traction in the late 00's and accelerated in the 10's. In fact I'd say the 80s/90s were the greatest time for opposite sex relationship dynamics (including friendships). Something else is evidently causing this shift in perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 10:58 PM
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Thats such a good analogy because the number of parallels between modern dating for men and job hunting/interviews is uncanny
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:57 AM
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Just World Fallacy. People think that if you are a good person and do everything right you will end up successful and happy. And if it doesn't happen its obviously you who is at fault, you must have done something wrong and you are the problem. The thing is that nature is cruel and not everyone had the opportunity to be successful, some people can't grasp that unfortunately. For every early bird there is an early worm.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:40 AM
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Just letting you know the whole "taller than me" thing is the polite way women put it to say they value height to not appear superficial. Its not just "taller than me", what women tend to look for is guys who are taller than other guys. Thats why women are most satisfied when their partner is 8 inches taller than themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:30 AM
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Do you feel the same way with the word "incel"?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:21 AM
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Going to the gym is dishonest advice too. I sort of agree, but its dishonest to the extent that it doesn't help everyone but it is helpful for those who would benefit from it. An average build ugly guy struggling is not gonna get a noticeable benefit, but an underweight guy has the potential to greatly increase his attractiveness if he has good facial genes. The problem is that these gym pill guys often present the gym as a silver bullet that fixes all dating problems. It only helps a subgroup o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:01 AM
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The most attractive women that approach you are roughly your league Ngl this is the first time I've heard this and it actually makes a lot of sense. For some reason I never processed it from that angle, but it lines up with my experiences too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 06:54 AM
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Then they gradually work down to their real level Not all of them, some stay delusional and think if they're persistent enough one of these top guys will commit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 06:46 AM
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Most people aren't perpetually online? Next time you're at a train station or on public transport, take note of how many people are on their phones. A good percentage of those are on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 06:38 AM
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Why do you call yourself purple pill when you clearly hold black pill views?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 05:08 AM
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Yeah tbh I am too lol. Theres pros to being a man that go beyond looks though, I love the feeling of being able to lift heavy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 04:47 AM
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95% of OF models make less than minimum wage. Its not the infinite money hack people think it is. The reason they are so relentless and pervasive in their advertising, especially on reddit subs is that they desperately need new buyers to provide money. In fact, I would argue Onlyfans is predatory to vulnerable women too, that are looking for an easy way to make money, and were convinced by influencers and news reports (such as with Lil Tay and Bella Thorne becoming overnight millionaires). Once …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 04:27 AM
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Thats what the whole body positivity movement was founded on. Notice how that movement doesn't target men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 03:32 AM
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"Back in a sec need to take a shit" I've said and heard something along those lines multiple times with guy friends
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 02:26 AM
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I have no problem because I'm attractive enough. I don't delude others into false hope that they can all achieve success if they just try hard enough. Nature is cruel, and women select for the best physical traits first and foremost, like height and face. And you can't change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:52 PM
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Ahead of 6ft guys? Lmao maybe if you look like Brad Pitt or Zac Efron. Having a muscular frame doesn't matter as much to women as you think, they'd rather a lanky 6ft guy over the buff 5'6 guy any day. This "put in the work" talk only applies to people at a 5 or better to begin with. Going from a 4 to a 5 is not going to drastically increase chances of success. Going from a 5 to a 6 however does.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:15 AM
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I think relationship skills are more for keeping the attraction rather than creating it. So for someone who wasn't into you to begin with you're right that it wouldn't make a difference, but for someone who does like you its important to know how to not unknowingly sabotage the relationship and her desire for you. For example, what to say, when to say it, how you say it, what to do if shes feeling down or shes acting a bit different to normal, ideal dates, navigating family matters, how to maint…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:00 AM
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You do realise this is a systemic, muti-faceted issue right? Its not just, these young men just don't want to try anymore for some reason. You're putting the cart before the horse, have you maybe thought about WHY what worked for you 20, 30 years ago isn't no longer commonplace? Like hanging out at third spaces and going on outings to the city? And before you say it's just men, its is women too. In the mid 90s young people used to spend on average 90 mins per day socialising outside of school. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 12:12 PM
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*more likely
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:26 AM
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Psychopathic/narcissistic men have the greatest rates of success on dating apps, both for dates and sex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:18 AM
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Nah not always, sometimes its just pure physical attraction. Maybe its a time thing too? I've had 2 fwbs, 1 I had known for a few months, the other like 4 years. In both we talked about things other than sex, we checked up on each other etc. So we were friends first, and with the trust and closeness the sexual side just came naturally. I still liked and cared for them like you said. I've had one I could kind of classify as a fuck buddy? But yeah we only met up for sex, we'd only met once before …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 01:47 PM
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There are, the most successful one i know of is called Feeld.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:48 PM
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They aren't though? To my understanding a fwb you're still friends, so you're not necessarily having sex every time you hang out. A fuck buddy is simply that, someone you just meet up with to have sex with
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:45 PM
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Ok tbh I did conflate physical attraction with hypergamy, I'd heard it as synonymous with dating up, and that tended to be included with dating up physically too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:04 PM
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I just gave statistics of how women display hypergamy, your response is "oh its obvious you think its men who are the hypergamous ones" like wtf is this mental gymnastics?? Everything I said before points to the exact opposite of male hypergamy. Fathers have little to do with female mate choice in western cultures, but even back when they did it was more holistic than simply - oh he has more money so you should marry him. It had a lot to do with personality, likeability, you know if he would be …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 11:37 AM
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Uh that first paragraph, that is narcissism 101. I'm not saying all people that do that are narcissists, I'm just saying the more natural he appears doing it the more likely it is, because it means he does it often. Narcissists know how to manipulate womens emotions, thats why they do those things and are so good at getting women to leave with them. To them its like a game, they don't genuinely feel any sort of way towards the woman,
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 11:15 AM
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There is literally no benefit for a man nowadays. No fault divorce was one of the worst things to happen to society. All it takes is for her to get bored to blow everything up, and then you can get divorce raped in court. Wow sign me up! You don't even get guaranteed access to sex either, the amount of dead bedroom stories is eye opening.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 10:38 AM
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Historically 80% of women have reproduced while only 40% of men have. In fact during the Neolithic period the ratio was something like 15 women for every 1 man that reproduced. Theres reasons for it like mating for the strongest genes, status, wealth, resources etc. But regardless that would imply hypergamy is a natural phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 10:24 AM
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Guarantee those men haven't been married previously LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 10:00 AM
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So no difference between a relationship and a fwb then, other than exclusivity?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 09:58 AM
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Can a man not have preferences? Obviously not you misogynist
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 04:53 AM
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Because its not the most important part of dating. Genuine physical attraction towards your partner is. If someone dates you because you have money you are setting yourself up for heartbreak. You even see it in this sub, women admit they would date someone with not much money if they actually felt a strong romantic attraction to him. Money is important in general, but not necessarily for dating. In fact it could be a hindrance because it becomes hard to work out if people like you for you or for…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 03:37 AM
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Similar to my experience at college. There is a distinct difference between the frat/party scene guys and the rest, if you only ever knew the first kind you'd think hookups were the norm for everyone. Outside of that though the hookup rate drops drastically. 3 of the 7 guys I lived with on campus stayed virgins throughout uni.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 12:55 AM
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So it made no difference? I don't see what the big deal was then, sounds like you just want to shit on your friends who desperately wanted to make a change to their miserable lives. Only now its acceptable to shit on them, to you they should have tried to live in blissful ignorance that everyone finds someone eventually and "you'll find someone one day just be patient".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:52 PM
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I literally said the proof is in the equivalent behaviours from women aren't treated the same. For women you still have subs like female dating strategy active and running, while subs like red pill, mgtow etc have all been banned. Basically an active suppression of mens groups. When men have standards for dating its treated a lot more judmentally than women (stop trying to date out of your league vs the bar is in hell, don't lower your standards). Also when it comes to actions, women get away wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:30 PM
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This doesn't sound like a ringing endorsement of the blue pill to me. In fact it sounds like you've argued against your case. So they had no success at all, then they changed and then they were getting chances? Do you think if they'd stayed the same as before they'd have any more success or would they still be struggling?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 06:37 AM
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Because it proves the point of RP that masculinity is demonised, as the equivalent on the womens side is ignored or even justified by these same people. One side shits on you and calls you privileged and your masculinity toxic, the other side says you have a purpose. And people wonder why young men turn to these communities at an ever-increasing rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:32 AM
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Shroedinger's modern western woman. Simultaneously oppressed and empowered until something happens, then chooses whichever side benefits them most. Its why they can argue for traditional gender roles for dating, but argue against traditional gender roles for being a housewife (its patriarchal and sexist) without a hint of irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 11:16 AM
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Because he gives their pussy the tingles thats why. Quite a few broke guys I know have girls lining up for them because they're attractive and charismatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 11:04 AM
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45% of 18-25 year old men have never asked out a woman. So its not as common as you think with guys. Its likely the same 5-10% of men approaching loads of women, and the remainder asking girls out anywhere between once every few months, to once or twice ever
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:51 AM
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Your source is from almost 7 years ago, before covid/lockdowns happened too which was significant to dating behaviour patterns, especially the move towards online dating
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 10:51 PM
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Face is ultimately more important than height. Someone who is 5'8 that looks like a young Zac Efron is gonna get more attention than a 6'0 guy with Steve Buschemi's face. But its within reason, height acts more like a multiplier, the taller you are the less your face has to carry your attractiveness. A guy who is 6'1 with a 6 face is gonna get as much attention as a guy with a 7 face who is 5'11, or an 8 face who is 5'9 etc
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 10:33 PM
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Theres 2 definitions. The one OP is talking about, which is basically a position reversal of the "friendzone", used a lot in feminist spaces. And the one you're talking about which is more common to hear about in red/blackpill spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 05:06 AM
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Thriving in regards to what? In Australia the average age of a first home buyer was 25 in the 1970s. Now its 36. And this goes for everyone here, no one is thriving in this economy unless you have a top 10% salary job. Single income households have effectively been destroyed. Are the women that dreamed of becoming a stay at home parent and cultivating a loving household thriving?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 12:57 AM
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Trust me you'd much rather that then being led on and stuck in "orbiter" mode forever. It sucks but it allows you to get over her quicker. And if you can't get over your feelings for her then you can always just walk away. It might not seem like it but sometimes someone looking out for your best interests results in you getting hurt, like a tough love type thing. Doesn't mean she doesn't actually like you or is trying to mess with you. Its the unfortunate part of dating and crushes no one likes …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 09:18 PM
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That first line is stupid, thats like saying if you were paid to do lawn work you'd be called a gardener. Are kids that do chores around the house unpaid child labor? Also, funny for housework when the woman does its work/unpaid labor, when the man does it its the bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:54 AM
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Could be that. The woman could agree as a way of feeling wanted, or poor self-esteem. Its not a great situation if either of them are agreeing to it. Also you kind of gave yourself away in that second paragraph. Your whole argument was "if you want sex see an escort", but even though the escort is the more "acceptable" option in your opinion you end up having no respect for them anyway. So that whole argument was all performative, you aren't actually okay with them doing something like that. And…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:30 AM
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No I don't but you're a woman so its not possible for you to truly understand and empathise with the desperation ugly men go through to experience intimacy. The thought of being a virgin for life is actually a real possibility. Its fine for you maybe, but a lot of women judge that, and I'd say even moreso than having a hookup with an ugly woman. Some women will breakup with a partner if they found out he saw an escort. And wdym discarding? Its a hookup, and given they are upfront of their intent…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:02 AM
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I was responding to your comments, not the thread itself. Even my initial comment was about your take on this, not OPs thoughts. Saying ugly men can do what they want is not being "up in arms" about it. I'm not single. Thats great, but you will never be able to truly empathise with being an ugly unwanted man that has never been considered as a potential sexual partner, and the negative thoughts of maybe never experiencing intimacy in your life coming with it. And thus them making desperate decis…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:24 AM
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Idgaf about the actual hypothetical because I would never do it, I just find it funny you are all up in arms about it, if both parties are consenting and neither is leading the other on, no matter the guys motives then there is no issue. If the sexes were reversed their would still be no issue. Stop acting all morally superior and thinking ugly men are trash for considering stuff like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:48 AM
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Pokimane
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 09:07 PM
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So basically hide your hairline? Thats just delaying the inevitable for a little longer. For these guys that would work for about another 2 months until the hairline recedes too far where you couldn't hide it no matter what... or a strong gust of wind comes along.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:59 PM
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This comment is so full of ignorance I stopped reading after the first 2 paragraphs
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:48 PM
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The first part I agree with, I'm sure almost everyone would. For the second part just look at the study I linked and it'll explain it. There have been multiple studies released that reach the same conclusion, that attractive men give orgasms more frequently. Even when all the participants are in relationships so the access to sex is the same its still the same outcome. For your example, its not whats done that makes it "good", its simply the feeling you get i.e. the ends are more important than …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 12:59 PM
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By "gain them faster" do you mean they have sex more frequently? In any case attractive men simply have to do less than unattractive men to achieve the same level of results
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 11:55 AM
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She won't answer this because it'll show her hypocrisy. Woman uses man for casual sex = empowering. Same man using the woman for casual sex? He's a mysoginist pig. Make it make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:44 AM
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You're wrong on that, as incels actually have lower standards than your average person. So asking them to lower their standards is essentially asking them to make any standards they have non-existent. They certainly don't think they have a chance with the Scarlett Johansson's or the Megan Fox's of the world to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:33 AM
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Not completely true. Studies show women have more frequent orgasms with men who are more physically attractive compared to less attractive men Skills play a part, but even if every other variable including skill set is the same the attractive man will typically "outperform" in bed based on orgasms and level of pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 11:43 PM
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OLD absolutely does not make things easier. Its all an illusion of choice, most men are barely getting any matches and women are overwhelmed by choice. A by-product of this is an ego inflation for women and the opposite for average men. But in the end neither are happy for differing reasons For your other comment about the statistics, it literally says over half of men get less than 1 match a day as one of your sources. Another says 1-2, but you also have to remember the quality of the matches. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:01 AM
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Probably the best answer on the thread
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 12:52 AM
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They really aren't, its just the thirstiness comes in cycles. And the knowledge you can get a hookup at any time you want certainly has a big psychological affect and will make you appear less desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 09:16 PM
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Sure men get heavier sentences, but women get asked non-serious questions more, that seems pretty equivalent to me. As for the positions of authority, that only applies to the top 0.1% of positions. Women are 16% more likely to be given a position over a man if they have the same credentials For being hysterical vs calm, women are also considered caring and nurturing too, while men are easily seen as suspicious or shady depending on the environment, for example being at a children's playground. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 08:22 PM
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Thats a circular argument, give specifics. Like for example men are given lighter sentences for an equal crime committed compared to a woman... oh wait its the other way round
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 06:25 PM
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Its called pre-selection. Don't you know about men wearing fake wedding rings to get more attention from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 10:42 AM
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Why didn't you ask them out?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 10:04 AM
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Women create rules on dating for men they don't find attractive and break them for the guys they do want. So basically just approach anyway, and if they say no they were going to turn you down no matter where or how you did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:09 AM
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Damn got em
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:30 AM
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1 was a neighbour, 1 was at her work (actually almost another at my work but we decided it was for the best if we didn't start anything, definitely would have been something though), and 1 was at a club (my gf), she doesn't even go to clubs normally so it was really lucky for me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:17 AM
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Most? You got any source to back that up? Because according to the Pew research centre 63% of young men (18-29) are single
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:25 AM
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I'm decently attractive, I landed loads of dates on dating apps. Even multiple 2nd and 3rd dates. Dating apps don't work for the fact its not a natural connection. On the other hand I've had 2 casual flings as well as finding my partner, all of which happened in person. Its in our nature to mingle in person and build attraction that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:23 AM
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Tbh I think this is probably the best way to go about approaching now. People have all these concepts of what works and base it off historical trends or maybe personal anecdotes if they are a bit older, the problem is the dating landscape has been altered drastically to the point most of these methods are nowhere near as effective as they once were for the reasons you mentioned. Like the "try to be her friend first" method is very outdated now, it can work but you'd have to be pretty attractive.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:48 PM
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Agree with your last point. Its hard to find these introverted women, but they definitely do exist. I was lucky enough to find one myself, so much more fulfilling than dating girls that were into flings and casual dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:23 AM
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But the guys that are the biggest misogynists I know of are most successful with women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 10:17 AM
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I don't actually understand how you are that bad at understanding statistical trends. Men are increasingly single, and increasingly not getting married. If men aren't in relationships how do you expect them to get married? They're not going to suddenly end up in a relationship and get married in their 30s after having no experience in their 20s. No shit people dont get married before 18, do you really think they included under 18s in the study? And yes I do understand, I have my own lived experi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 10:53 PM
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18-29. Ratios look better as the ages increase, in fact there are more men in relationships in their 50s and over than women, and a lot more in the 65+ age range.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 10:30 PM
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You don't have to be married to be classified as not single though so that is irrelevant. A lot of those statistics are based on older generations too, so the number of people that are married is decreasing every year. 25% of people below 40 in America have never been married. Again you are simply just not looking up actual statistics on this, 60% of young men are single, 25% haven't had sex in the last year Personal dating struggles? I'm in a relationship, doesn't mean I can't observe whats hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 10:25 PM
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Mate you can look up situationship stories yourself, by the most part its self inflicted but acting like its no different to conventional dating is wilful ignorance on your part.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:09 AM
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Same here, certainly helped I met her in person but she made it pretty obvious she wanted to make things official which like you said was so refreshing. Commitment seems like such an issue nowadays. Online dating has made things so much worse I feel
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:06 AM
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No its not theres a difference. A situationship can last for years without any sort of label or commitment. You can't "date" in the traditional sense without becoming official after that long. Dating is both people agreeing they will try to make it something more. A situationship theres no defining, one person might think its just casual and nothing more, the other will think theres potential for more based on the set up feeling very "relationship-like". Its usually just either lack of communica…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 11:44 PM
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Or the difference between "dating" someone and actually being in a relationship with someone. My gf had to explain to her parents before we became official that just because we were seeing each other didn't mean we were actually committed and that I was her bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 11:33 PM
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Easy, ban online dating apps. Its contributed greatly to the erosion of societal intersex dynamics like communication and expectations, and that goes both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 09:21 AM
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Reddit is a forum for posting ideas and thoughts. Isn't this the perfect place to start a conversation and formulate plans of action with others?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 10:18 PM
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I hope you keep that same energy for the inverse too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 10:12 PM
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There have been studies that show majority of young men are single while its the opposite for women. You could look it up yourself instead of just being quickly dismissive of it. I mean i get it at face value it doesn't seem to make sense, but from what I can gather the main 2 reasons would be women dating older men, and women dating the same men (women counting the "its complicated" situationships as relationships while the guy doesn't). Which does tie into the rest of OPs points of society tur…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:58 PM
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The amount of women dating other women is minuscule, thats not the reason. In comparison to that there are far more women who are by conventional standards "single" who are regularly seeing the same guy, whether you want to call that fwbs, fuck buddys or a situationship is up to you. These aren't "poly" relationships. But for them having occasional regular sex without the commitment with an attractive guy is better than being in a relationship with an average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 10:33 PM
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Its systemic like I said, its all related. Most of the men wanting and unable to get into a relationship can't even get sex to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 10:50 PM
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Yes because men are increasingly seeing society and not something worth participating in, as they see it whats the point in slaving away at a company for the rest of your life when you will likely never find a romantic partner and start a family, or even own a house. And for disabilities there are so many contagioions now that everyone is sicker, not just men. Autism and ADHD is on the rise for all youth. 37% of women have been diagnosed with depression too for example
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 10:43 PM
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Quite ironic, men are told to put all this effort into themselves, while women are told to not settle and know their worth. The reason men are less successful now is simply because men have infinitely more attention now from social media and online dating, now they're getting instant attention from attractive guys they never would have due to proximity. Most guys goal isn't simply to get laid, its the romantic attraction. This isn't lashing out either lmao I simply posted statistics? And they've…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 10:40 PM
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30-35% of young men haven't had sex in the last year. One study even found it was 43%. Those numbers have nearly doubled from 20 years ago. This is not an individual problem, its systemic
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 09:50 PM
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I was friends with a chick who knew 2 guys who each had 10+ woman rosters. Most of the girls knew they were just part of a roster, some didn't care but others secretly resented it - I'm guessing it ruined their perception of ending up with him long term and realising she was just a side piece, didn't stop them coming back though. In any case its the same small percentage of extremely attractive guys sharing a lot of the women in these fuck buddy scenarios
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 10:02 PM
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Do you really think old, grey haired, overweight ladies are getting sex? Yes, they just have to go on tinder. Its that easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 02:00 AM
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Its funny too because this approach towards clubbing or bars ensures it will only ever be fbois, players and emotionally unavailable narcissists who will approach them as the average guy would be way too daunted to appoach a group of women who aren't giving any signs they want you to talk to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:20 AM
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Online dating and social media. Men used to only have to compete with other men in their neighbourhood, and women had a handful of suitors to pick from. So expectations or demands weren't too high. Also the stigma surrounding pre-marital sex or having a child out of wedlock, especially with the decreased options for contraception. Women can now freely hookup with attractive guys without consequence with ease. And the guys that she would have probably married if she was born 100 years ago don't m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:06 PM
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Probs an extension on the pc version, I've got them enabled too
/r/MensRights07/06/25 09:37 AM
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And that one song where she wants to throw herself at some hot guy, and if he decides to reject her then "I didn't want your little bitch ass anyway" and "I'll deem you gay"
/r/MensRights07/06/25 09:30 AM
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200 is optimal? You kidding? That literally falls in the overweight category according to the BMI index.The fittest guy I know is 155 and hes 5'11
/r/MensRights28/04/25 10:12 PM
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Indian culture is fucked when it comes to relationships. I became close work friends with one girl who was from India, her brother worked in the same building as us, and his friend also did. The level they went to trying and catch us out as if we were in a secret relationship was insane, from spreading rumours to spying on us, having her phone tracked and forced to show messages, not being allowed to call anyone at home for fear it would be me, and not letting her leave the house or meet friends…
/r/MensRights23/04/25 10:27 AM
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Thats why I like trans men, they actually undergo this social change as their appearance changes and realise that no - it's not men being weird or creepy or bitchy being there reason no one cares - its that society treats men and their struggles different to women. So many trans men have experienced this, the friends they had when they presented female are suddenly no longer as available, and making friends and talking to people is noticeably harder, especially talking to women. These trans guys…
/r/MensRights15/03/25 05:22 AM
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