SpursChamps2025 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Need some moral support and encouragement right now that's the spirit! Let me know if you need any help along the way!	/r/Divorce_Men	08/07/23 11:09 AM
2	Need some moral support and encouragement right now what's on your mind my dude?	/r/Divorce_Men	06/07/23 05:00 PM
2	Need some moral support and encouragement right now what's your situation like, maybe there's a chance?	/r/Divorce_Men	06/07/23 04:40 PM
1	How much did divorce cost you? I'm very sorry a lot of guys here fill this way because it's not always like that, the biggest problem being the fact that it's bound to repeat if you don't fix what caused the problems in the first place and it's never one sided despite what you might hear.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/07/23 04:38 PM
2	Need advice I went through counseling and coaching and personally I can recommend coaching because there's less of an emphasis on who did what and more on practical solutions on how to improve, and I've really seen and heard some amazing stories from the guys in those groups that I haven't seen on divorce forums about counseling as far as I've seen atleast	/r/Divorce_Men	04/07/23 03:41 PM
5	How much did divorce cost you? I got lucky and she came back because I changed my ways, that still cost me the marriage coaching, the gym membership (was more for myself but it helped, she'd lie if she'd say it didn't) and the trip to Hawaii to celebrate the renewed love and that STILL is a fraction of the things I'm reading here in the comments man!	/r/Divorce_Men	04/07/23 03:35 PM
1	Married to a narcissist I'm glad that you happily moved on and aren't with her if she doesn't love you, but I'd be careful throwing around narcissist like that. Narcissists are rare and that type of behaviour is often something we bring out of because we stop trying. I'm saying that from my experience but I've seen that again and again with my friends and guys online too.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/06/23 04:35 PM
3	13 years.. Married for 7 Hey man, I'm just gonna be super upfront about it, but in this short message you just posted, I feel terrible about it but I can see why she left you. You're listing off chores and tasks that you did, ignoring that the changes she wants to see in you are internal. You say how you fought for that house but you're not losing the house, you're losing your WIFE. You say you want to try and I'm sure you do but you also said you keep swerving off the path to being a better you and that just says to me…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/06/23 04:09 PM
1	I don’t understand ,she wants you out and a Divorce, buy I’m the one who filing why is that ?? I talked just yesterday with Rock, this guy who coached me through my divorce and he told me to send you this link, says you can arrange a call there and they'll figure out how they can best help you, I know it doesn't work for everyone, I had some friends who preferred counseling but personally this helped me tremendously so I'm a big fan.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/23 09:13 AM
1	I don’t understand ,she wants you out and a Divorce, buy I’m the one who filing why is that ?? I don't know man, I feel like you have a chance. I had an even worse situation, she left me for the other guy and was living with him and man I was desperate to win her back, but most importantly be a better man because I knew what was happening was on me. It really hurt going through it all alone so I looked around online and found these guys who coach guys during their divorce process and they helped me a LOT. Ofcourse I don't know your situation nor if you're like me and if that type of help …	/r/Divorce_Men	14/06/23 05:36 PM
1	I don’t understand ,she wants you out and a Divorce, buy I’m the one who filing why is that ?? have you had any success in trying to win her back? In my experience, her hesitancy is her indirectly giving you a test to see if you're determined enough to change what lead you down the divorce path	/r/Divorce_Men	14/06/23 05:04 PM
1	Looking for wisdom/encouragement would you like to get her back? Sounds like that's definitely possible considering she still hasn't filed for divorce and it would make you feel a ton better.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/06/23 05:01 PM
1	I would have left me too. that's not uncommon at all, you just lost the intimacy and spark you guys had in the beginning of the relationship and it's on you to step up and show her why she fell in love with you in the first place. I can send you a link if you're interested to this guy who coached me through my divorce way back, he actually helped me get her back after she filed for divorce.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/06/23 01:39 PM
1	I would have left me too. how far gone is it, do you think you have a chance to recover the situation?	/r/Divorce_Men	02/06/23 01:04 PM
1	I would have left me too. me too man, it's often like that, that's why they leave, if they were really that bad we wouldn't have been with them in the first place, but working on yourself is so important, thank god I found help man I couldn't have done this myself.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/06/23 01:03 PM
0	Wife wants to leave I'm so sorry you're going through this champ, I went through the same thing a couple of years ago but the good news is it's not too late, not even close. Some advice I can give you right now from my experience is to realize it's not over, she's letting you know you were not meeting her needs for some time now and she's had enough, but it's still not over. Now she's testing you to see how you'll respond but trust me she doesn't want to leave you as much as you don't want her to leave, you just ha…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/05/23 02:00 PM