Squally425 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	How to tell a girl about your feelings without looking weak or stupid and without fearing rejection too much ? Practice makes perfect. Sounds like oneitis. Your chances are low. Keep working on it though. No one's ever "stupid" for admitting their feelings though. Think about it, if a girl you're not interested in at all had the courage to look at you and say she liked you, would you think of her as stupid? If so, the problem lies with you, not with her. Similarly, would you want to be with anyone who thinks you're "stupid" for admitting your feelings? Doesn't sound like someone you'd like to spend a lot…	/r/seduction	25/03/18 07:38 PM
12	Be careful of who you take advice from on here It's also a place for improvement. So it depends on how far back his history goes of course. He might've learned, improved, and is now sharing his knowledge.	/r/seduction	23/02/18 11:35 PM
5	How do you keep a girl interested after an relationship has been established? Everyone here has it spot on. Acknowledge the insecurity, but don't act on it. Don't do anything out of jealousy. Don't do anything you'll regret. However, now that you're in a relationship, definitely focus on genuinely learning more about her. Have her work her way into knowing the good things about you too. Start thinking of ways to give to the relationship, pick up a hobby together, pick up some activities to do together... etc. Leave your comfort bubble too and start doing some activities t…	/r/seduction	30/11/17 10:12 PM
13	Do you guys ever get just bored listening to people? Have you ever listened to a stand up comic / talk show host who you simply can't stop listening to? Some people are better at capturing your attention than others. Don't take it too seriously. At the same time, sometimes it's how you reciprocate to continue the conversation as well. That's what some younger people refer to as "clicking"? When you find those you enjoy speaking with, it'll come naturally to you. Post-post edit: You might like to look up the concept of how some sedditors will focus…	/r/seduction	05/02/17 05:30 PM
2	How do I let her know this is a date? (Details inside) I'd like to upvote this more if I could. You're seeing her at coffee, so take the chance, man up and drop in that you'd like to take her out on a real date. Make it fun.	/r/seduction	01/12/15 02:41 AM
2	[25 M] GF broke up with me after 9 months, trying to move on Give it some time. It's your first breakup, you're not going to magically exit out feeling totally fine. Let yourself go through the regular steps of grieving. Once that's done, then come back here, read the sidebar, review the basics, get out there and start talking to people again. Not just women, but everyone. Form a social bubble so to speak. We're a community of self-improvement and seduction, not a community of iron men / women who weather through every single emotion. That'd be a lie to y…	/r/seduction	31/10/15 02:58 PM
1	What Seddit has done FOR me and TO me. Seddit deserves all the credit for these accomplishments, as I would have never had the comfort to discover concepts like "Always Be Closing" or "Demonstrate High Value," and for that I'm thankful. While I appreciate the giving back... no, YOU deserve all the credit for these accomplishments. You did a great job! You learned some good lessons along the way, and you're back now a better person (I'd say better man, but... I think everyone learns something here in Seddit, regardless of gender)	/r/seduction	07/05/15 01:21 AM
2	what are ways that guys show they seek approval and validation? I've noticed genuine compliments are generally more specific, and caters to an actual interest from complimenter. For example, a non-genuine one would be something like: "You're so hot. You've got such a nice dress. I like your style." Whereas a genuine comment would show what you approve of. "Great dress. Melanie Lyne, right? One of the few designers I've followed closely. It's no wonder you caught my attention. It comes in purple also right?" It somewhat shows that you aren't throwing complime…	/r/seduction	08/02/15 10:14 PM
2	I'm a secret hopeless romantic but I always chicken out when someone is into me romantically. If you're not ready for a relationship, then you're not ready for a relationship. After all, you have to be comfortable before things will move along. I'm certain that when the right person comes along, he'll know how to make you feel comfortable; you wouldn't even want to ignore him then.	/r/seduction	08/02/15 09:59 PM
-1	Is constantly being called cute or sweet a way of saying I'm not hot or date-worthy? Look straight at her, hold eye contact, grin and then say "Don't get used to it."	/r/seduction	27/12/14 08:53 PM
2	When the girl brings up her boyfriend/other guy... I've got to say, if she cracks... you're probably doing her bf a favour also. /adds more evil to the mix	/r/seduction	04/07/14 02:47 AM
2	At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever! I barely know you. I only hear about you. I've only skimmed over this project you're writing about. You know what? I'm pledging. Rock on, dude!	/r/seduction	09/06/13 02:46 AM
1	Simple primer on winging - Lots of beginners ignore it, but it's so freaking important Man, rule friggen #1 is so damn true. I've got a friend who'd jump into my conversation every time I'm speaking with anyone of the opposite gender. I hate competing for attention from anyone, so it ends with me gradually leaving the convo. But that shit is seriously annoying. If I'm offering to wing for you, man... don't force me out of the picture.	/r/seduction	09/04/13 05:22 AM
3	Is kino absolutely necessary? Let her decide that. Not you.	/r/seduction	09/10/12 09:33 PM
6	Going hiking for a 1st date with I girl I used to know back in the day. Advice? Have fun.	/r/seduction	02/09/12 12:41 AM
1	I have a really bad case of oneitis. Shut your phone off when you're out with friends. I know this won't help when you're home alone, hence the reason why you should head out with friends as much as possible. Quote from a friend: "Why do you need your phone when the most important people you want to see are right here with you?"	/r/seduction	08/08/12 03:26 AM
2	How to deal with talk of 'other guys' and how to ask her out... Upvote for you, my good sir. OP, please read his advice. It'll do you wonders. Main point: Make your intentions known. If she likes you, great. If not, move on. You're the prize. Someone else will definitely want it.	/r/seduction	30/07/12 08:41 AM
2	Does anyone else feel "distant" from their friends when it comes to seduction? (Explanation inside) Was just about to say. It seems the average person would see it negatively whenever I don't appear to settle with the first girl I start talking to.	/r/seduction	13/07/12 01:25 PM