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good news?!SquaredAndRooted/r/EverydayMisandry11/07/25 06:41 PM
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In modern usage, Bitch is also commonly used toward men and people of all genders. So it affects men too. Feminists should stop using it against people they disagree with and stop misandry. When used toward a man, it can describe someone perceived as weak, subordinate, cowardly, or overly submissive. In gay slang & popular culture, the term can also be used positively or humorously for someone who is assertive, confident or outspoken.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/05/26 04:36 AM
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Thanks, I'll read it.
/r/MensRights10/05/26 06:52 PM
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Unapologetic Misandry is reinforced by multiple things, not just narratives. So, as I see it - there are two layers at work : System / Institutional Layer Laws and quotas backed by political support Women being treated as the default victim Bias in institutions like academia, courts and policy Media constantly reinforcing the same narrative through news, movies, TV and entertainment. There is a seperate publishing category called feminist literature Social / Group Layer Policing & control of mal…
/r/MensRights09/05/26 09:57 PM
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How many times must Men say this - before it's understood this bunch of control freaks who want to control both Men and Women?
/r/EverydayMisandry09/05/26 08:43 PM
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When a UN level organization claims universal equality, has enormous intl. influence but repeatedly excludes & minimizes men' suffering over Women's, It directly contributes to neglect & indifference towards the welfare of men & violence against men. It's 2026 & UN women cannot avoid criticisms of hypocrisy.
/r/MensRights07/05/26 07:04 AM
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Noted. Thanks.
/r/MensRights07/05/26 05:22 AM
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Stuck in lift: Their coping - diffuse tension through humor. Her coping - show frustration, call names, control I didn't even get the joke. She said she was from high school and someone jokingly said middle school. This was not disrespectful because they're from the same age-group. BTW - that tall guy in the back reminded me of Ashton Kutcher 😄
/r/MensRights02/05/26 10:32 PM
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So last week I got banned from a sub for using the word female in my post because apparently that noun demonises women. I had posted a study on public judgement (perception) of male victims (sexual molestation) by female perpetrators. So on one side they want control and on the other hand they mock using misandry - absolutely diabolical!
/r/MensRights02/05/26 06:21 AM
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Yes Valerie was one of them. Never heard of any criticism of her work from feminist spaces except ex-feminists. Let me ask you a basic question - has there ever been any version of feminism through the decades that hasn't promoted misandry? Didn't feminist academics & theorists reinvent the definition of "Patriachy" - clearly aimed at promoting misandry and so that women feel the need to seek safety within feminist spaces & be easily manipulated and controlled?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/05/26 05:59 AM
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The spell-check must've changed lecherous to glamorous
/r/EverydayMisandry30/04/26 08:39 PM
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That's good enough time for preparation. Take some time out to read this post - Why Do Conversations About Men's Issues Go Sideways So Fast? Understand The Hidden Psychology Behind it!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/04/26 07:05 PM
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OP - your post has received lots of good responses and guidance. I don't know how much time you have but you could debate with ChatGPT as practice. It's trained on everything about feminism and acts like one too. It will be the perfect devil's advocate for your argument set.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/04/26 06:54 PM
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Imagine if Hitler was a woman ♀️ She would've been a white-washed Saint by now - the whole world gaslighted into thinking she did it because of Jewish Men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/04/26 03:25 PM
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Oh yes, please send me the name.
/r/MensRights27/04/26 01:03 PM
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OP try this - female and see if that works. Even using malefe will be hilarious 😂
/r/MensRights27/04/26 11:18 AM
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Ideological Mods!
/r/MensRights27/04/26 11:17 AM
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See this study when you get the time - Judgments About Male Victims of Sexual Assault by Women: A 35-Year Replication Study Source: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/34978934/ ⭕ Key Findings – Female Participants (1984 → 2019) Increase in victim-blaming toward male victims assaulted by women “Victim encouraged it”: 4.3% → 26.9% “Victim enjoyed it”: 5% → 25% More likely to perceive the incident as less stressful for the male victim ⭕ Key Findings - Male Participants (1984 → 2019) Reduced victim-bla…
/r/MensRights27/04/26 11:15 AM
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It was never a "me" problem. Your earlier comment states that "They are just covered more." which implies that women's stories are covered more. I asked for data and your response was uniquely confusing. Communication is more an authorship issue if despite trying, the viewer cannot understand what was the author was trying to say. Thanks for engaging. Bye.
/r/MensRights26/04/26 11:54 AM
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I am not sure I understand the connection of this comment with your earlier one.
/r/MensRights26/04/26 11:04 AM
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'Covered more’ is a broad claim. Any supporting sources? Anyway, this specific allegation still stands on its own relevance
/r/MensRights26/04/26 06:55 AM
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How does telling something specific to one person make it an issue of the entire woman-kind?
/r/EverydayMisandry25/04/26 03:14 PM
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Reminds me of Jody Allard and her article - calling her son's rapists
/r/EverydayMisandry23/04/26 02:37 PM
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The door being locked is irrelevant, if that’s what you’re suggesting. Her initial video showed her opening the door herself (knob or lever handle) & entering the house. Multiple viewers had pointed this out at the time. She had also deleted a few of those videos, but they were recovered during the investigation. Honestly - one of the creepiest women of our times.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/04/26 05:54 PM
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OP - So the precise classification is "Obligate reproductive symbiosis" from the functional/ecological perspective.
/r/MensRights21/04/26 02:24 AM
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Let me know when you have understood how you arrived at the conclusion. I cannot defend a position I did not take.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/04/26 12:56 AM
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Can you first clarify how you arrived at the conclusion?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/26 10:54 PM
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Yes, those points of yours are valid. The diagram cannot capture that because data collection beyond a few examples is not feasible. That's why there are no studies around it. One of the rare credible studies that was published last year is also a meta study of social media misandry. Take a look if you get time. An April 2025 study, "Women who hate men: a comparative analysis across extremist Reddit communities" Source: Coppolillo, E. Women who hate men: a comparative analysis across extremist R…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/26 01:54 AM
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<image> OP, Your concerns are valid. The legal system allows No to Low evidence cases to proceed to trial. In these cases, outcomes depend heavily on credibility assessments, which - despite formal safeguards, retain a high degree of subjectivity & always produce harm to the accused. Please note - the credibility assessments are typically gut feelings but we can't call them that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/26 01:41 AM
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Lol, you just need one statistics to prove feminists (Female Feminists and their male Allies) are Evil!
/r/EverydayMisandry20/04/26 01:09 AM
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62 million page views is not the same as 62 million people - which would include both men and women. But still if you want to argue - 62 million means roughly 1.49% of the total male population which is estimated at ~ 4.17 billion.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/26 12:10 AM
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Messed up minds!
/r/EverydayMisandry17/04/26 03:50 AM
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When these women join feminism, they undergo a Hemispherectomy. And then they are given free internet access while they recuperate after the surgical removal.
/r/MensRights17/04/26 12:28 AM
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This is a bit *oversimplified" but negativity & hatred towards groups comes from a deep sense of insecurity & inferiority. Misandry also originates from similar feelings. The fact that most ideologues like feminists display solidarity to misandrists, from within & outside their ranks speaks volumes about how misandry has spread rapidly since 1950s. But the world is changing now and misandry is slowly being recognised and few people - men &; women, have started calling it out. I am sure the time …
/r/EverydayMisandry16/04/26 09:53 PM
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Yes. But this takes time and effort. I liked the idea of silence for a day that someone had suggested a couple of days back. It's a powerful and frictionless idea. Maybe we start that way and then scale-up.
/r/MensRights11/04/26 02:03 AM
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All for it! Let's gooooooo
/r/MensRights09/04/26 03:39 AM
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I guess it comes from a sense of inferiority.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/04/26 03:26 AM
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I guess you haven't come across this line of products - tshirts, books, board games... <image>
/r/EverydayMisandry04/04/26 07:39 PM
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/r/EverydayMisandry03/04/26 03:16 PM
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OP, can you share your view on the societal context where feminism might be useful? And to whom?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/04/26 02:33 AM
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Aren't women overwhelmingly main perpetrators against children? Statistically! Remember last year an Australian women's commission was caught hiding male victim data by one of the members of the parliament?
/r/EverydayMisandry30/03/26 09:47 PM
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I have seen that feminism actively propagates gender-hatred. If you are a hatred spreading feminist, you’ve lost your humanity. Why should non-humans deserve human rights? We have animal rights for that!
/r/EverydayMisandry23/03/26 09:43 PM
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At a meta level - stop misandry, bring in gender neutral laws and throw feminists in jail. You'll see immediate improvement.
/r/EverydayMisandry22/03/26 11:58 PM
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<image> It's not just about numbers because numbers come from definitions, reporting standards and final reporting presentations. In-between there are asymmetric laws and corrupted doctrines. Dishonesty also comes from refusing to acknowledge false accusations and motivated charges (consensual relationship shown as rape).
/r/EverydayMisandry20/03/26 06:20 PM
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Imagine how high the false accusations numbers will be at that time. Boys will have to literally take their body-cams everywhere.
/r/EverydayMisandry15/03/26 10:42 PM
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South Korea has intense gender political conflicts online. Most of the times I find the SK extremist feminist voices to be out of line. IMO focusing on alleged crimes unfairly stigmatize veterans who fought under government orders.
/r/MensRights12/03/26 03:03 PM
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OP, nice post, but it’s 2026. Our discussions should not be about the existence of misandry. They should be about - what are we doing to address it? As a starting point - are we calling out people who practice misandry - professionally, ideologically or casually? And if we’re not, then why not? What’s holding us back? Why the hesitation?
/r/MensRights12/03/26 08:48 AM
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That's because we do not practice misogyny like misandry is practiced everywhere, and if someone makes a comment that doesn't sound right - they are corrected.
/r/MensRights11/03/26 01:41 PM
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There is. You'll have to check the posts, read them - see the way our community self - corrects.
/r/MensRights11/03/26 01:09 PM
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Imagine admitting you’re a “weak man” & then trying to insult others by calling them weaker. That’s not a roast bro, it's a self assessment. 😂 Thanks for the entertainment!
/r/MensRights11/03/26 05:30 AM
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Sure - ‘traffic flow’ & biological differences! Then why legislate it? Set neutral guidelines and let businesses decide what works. The moment it’s written into law, it becomes rigid & impossible to change. If reality doesn’t match the patronage, businesses will be left with wasted space. C'mon, we’ve seen how "protection" laws for women were drafted & everyone was so rational about it. Now, we understand how the absence of safeguards has become a weapon for misuse.
/r/MensRights10/03/26 05:49 PM
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This could be interesting in practice because if the majority of spenders are men & businesses don't recognise it, then they'll lose business of their regulars. Once that starts happening - bars can never really recover So, it's really their choice to hurt their own business or not.
/r/MensRights10/03/26 02:55 PM
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True. Most of these younger men have faced the brunt of excesses of gender hatred. The damage is massive and unfortunately long lasting. Imagine being told to stand-up in school class & apologise for being born a boy.
/r/MensRights09/03/26 09:56 PM
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All this gender propaganda & the active spread of misandry harms men, but it harms women too, especially those who are most impressionable. Imagine living in a world where you believe danger exists everywhere, where around every corner there could be death, rape or sexual assault - living in a climate of perpetual fear! Imagine their quality of life. But, honestly I have zero sympathy for both these kinds of women - the women who spread misandry & false narratives and those who allow others to c…
/r/MensRights09/03/26 07:55 PM
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I think you misread my comment. We are both saying nearly the same thing.
/r/MensRights09/03/26 01:57 PM
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No, I don't think you Got it at all. One of those 1 (Misandry) is routinely denied, dismissed or minimised. This study proves otherwise 🤌
/r/MensRights09/03/26 07:09 AM
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Please see this April 2025 study, "Women who hate men: a comparative analysis across extremist Reddit communities" challenges the narrative that misandry is insignificant or nonexistent by analyzing gendered hate speech in four Reddit communities. Source: Coppolillo, E. Women who hate men: a comparative analysis across extremist Reddit communities. Sci Rep 15, 13952 (2025)
/r/MensRights09/03/26 05:25 AM
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Hello OP :) the wiki linked above is a good starting point since it covers many of the commonly discussed issues here. Out of curiosity though, since you're interested in learning about men's issues - do you see any discussions within women's advocacy spaces about reducing misandry/hostility toward men online? IMO that would help make conveversations about gender issues healthier overall.
/r/MensRights08/03/26 08:29 PM
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The majority of Indian guys are sweet and good boys. This is what a foreign woman had told me 2 years back. I assumed that it meant they're not exciting but quite stable. I guess some women appreciate that.
/r/EverydayMisandry06/03/26 09:08 PM
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Doubling down with personal attacks makes my observations stronger. It's a pity they don't teach you anything about credibility. 😂😂
/r/MensRights01/03/26 07:41 PM
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😂😂😂 Seriously? I’m not constructing a syllogism. I’m asking for data to support your claim. If you have statistics or reports, I’m happy to review them.
/r/MensRights01/03/26 07:36 PM
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The only people who see "mens' rights advocate" as a fucking joke are the insecure feminists. Notice, how you started with rheoteric, was asked for data and you responded with personal attacks. I don't even have to prefix / suffix feminist or feminism. 😂
/r/MensRights01/03/26 07:21 PM
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Porn & the feminist brain dead - very potent combination! So, I guess you've got nothing.
/r/MensRights01/03/26 07:05 PM
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Interesting comment. It implies that rape is a common occurrence in trains. Do you have any data to back that up or is it just regular rheoterical misandry? If you can't back it up then I have to say that you are actually mocking victims apart from misandry.
/r/MensRights01/03/26 06:26 PM
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😂😂
/r/MensRights26/02/26 04:07 AM
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Let's say - Internalised Misandry to start with.
/r/MensRights26/02/26 03:53 AM
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Sounds exactly like MD talk (mentally disturbed).
/r/MensRights22/02/26 05:45 PM
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There’s no universe where anyone would willingly step inside that asylum you call a mind. 😂 Anyway… I value my sanity, so I’ll see myself out.
/r/MensRights19/02/26 04:47 AM
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Uh? Are you saying that I owe you proof? Really? That's messed up! I've never heard of a single feminist group raising their voice against what happens in Afghanistan. Why? Because they don't get you any funds? What about other parts of the world? Why the silence? Why target and harass Men who have historically enabled women's rights? Why abuse and misuse the laws that are meant to protect women? Why talk about winter when summer is already here and the sun is up in the sky?
/r/MensRights17/02/26 12:26 PM
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Disgusting & creepy to drag children into this just to create a fake situation and emotional angle. She violated his privacy and rights on Oct 12th, not Oct 31st. This also demonstrates your point about facts being twisted by feminists like you, to excuse a woman’s actions & avoid the actual issue. It's a case about an adult, her actions and questions of privacy & due process. I don’t know which version you’ve seen, but evidence against her exists, including recovered or deleted material and it …
/r/MensRights17/02/26 10:11 AM
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TBH these kinds of posts are more damaging than about building bridges. Your post is trying to - re-center women again, tone-policing men in our own space, pushing traditional roles as a solution, diluting structural/legal issues, subtly blaming men again 😂 It's time for you to understand that men aren't as gullible as we were in the 60s (thru 2000s). I feel that most of the people here are reacting by reading between the lines & the way you've tried to reframe the problem. From: Men face system…
/r/MensRights14/02/26 11:45 PM
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I checked the link. The entire article is rhetorical & academic commentary/opinion. Genuine question bro - Do you often read these kind of articles and call them statistical? Is this also your source of crime news reports?
/r/MensRights11/02/26 10:31 PM
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👏👏👏
/r/MensRights11/02/26 03:26 AM
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Oh hello, Meeralakshmi! Virtual 🫂 for you - you're doing a great job!
/r/MensRights09/02/26 01:03 AM
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True. But, shouldn't we find alternatives also... back-up plan.
/r/MensRights08/02/26 11:29 PM
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So, if I understand correctly - you're saying that because men have the potential to do much more damage, they should face violence from women. That's kinda messed up.
/r/MensRights06/02/26 11:19 PM
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It's not just about the bystanders or societal bias - I remember seeing a video somewhere - the women were saying that it's Ok for a woman to hit a man but not Ok for a man to hit a woman - under any circumstances. The majority of DV reports show that intimate partner violence is almost equal at 50:50, but the women's 50% rate does not even get acknowledged.
/r/MensRights06/02/26 11:17 PM
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Man orders food & clearly instructs that it be left outside his door - contactless delivery. (There’s no option to choose the delivery agent’s gender). He’s passed out inside his own home - due to alcohol consumption, as per reports. An adult female delivery agent ignores the delivery instructions, chooses to open the front door, enters the private residence, films him, publishes the video online and then claims she was assaulted. Some early viewers claim deleted videos showed her opening the do…
/r/MensRights06/02/26 09:12 AM
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Here it is guys - Daily propaganda This year on 31st Dec/ 1st Jan, some users had uploaded videos of girls passed out, drunk escorted by police, creating ruckus after too much to drink. The strange thing is that we spend the whole year talking about women’s safety & dignity, but moments like these don’t show them afraid, concerned, restrained or in any kind of danger. Maybe some of these year long debates & conversations have become performative.
/r/EverydayMisandry01/02/26 01:46 AM
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Chronology of Events Alleged sexual assaults were claimed to have occurred over 9-10 years, beginning when the child was around four years old. No complaint was lodged during this entire period. The mother had earlier approached a family court in a civil dispute but did not allege sexual abuse at that stage. A criminal complaint under POCSO was filed after the husband initiated divorce proceedings. At trial, only family members (daughter, mother, grandmother) testified. No independent witnesses …
/r/MensRights01/02/26 01:25 AM
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Feminism has always been a gender hatred group. Their Karma. Most of them die bitter and lonely anyways.
/r/EverydayMisandry25/01/26 10:00 PM
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Agree 💯 - you've articulated it so well.
/r/EverydayMisandry22/01/26 08:40 PM
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Please study this video. Save it, watch it again and again. This is a textbook framing trap.He played inside her frame instead of challenging it. Yes, harm exists & no, collective punishment is wrong. If the standard is “some members cause harm, so the group should be excluded,” then no group can exist in public spaces at all.
/r/EverydayMisandry22/01/26 06:53 PM
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That's just ideological rheoteric. I think OP wants to know your personal opinions.
/r/EverydayMisandry16/01/26 08:58 AM
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Actually I think they are frustrated and projecting. It's not as if men are queueing up for having babies with these kinds of women.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/01/26 04:21 AM
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I always wonder how men absorb this level of casual misandry every day and still manage to stay calm, functional & peaceful. The amount of restraint men show is wildly underestimated. Any other group facing this level of mockery, dismissal & blame would erupt in outrage, go on rage rampage - but men just keep going. The amount of emotional control men show would be celebrated as strength in any other group - here it’s just ignored.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/12/25 01:31 AM
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Psychologically, this is sexualised aggression aimed at a non consenting person. If a man posted a similar illustration daying his female manager should give him a xx to shut up, it would immediately be called sexual harassment or a rape threat. Hopefully, someone reported it & shared her post with her workplace, if they know where she works.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/12/25 02:53 PM
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Dear Father - all your son needs is a kind mentor. Just be there for him and verbally let him know that you'll be there for him always. Then give him some time. He'll reach out to you!
/r/MensRights10/12/25 07:33 PM
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Ask open ended questions and he'll speak about what you asked.
/r/MensRights10/12/25 02:08 AM
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It's rotten behavior shaped by incentives & will go away quietly when consequences arrive (formal/informal). I feel that we need a mindset change: I’m not being attacked by strength. I’m witnessing emotional insecurity & borrowed power.
/r/MensRights08/12/25 02:21 AM
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I’m glad you’re thinking rationally about risks before marriage. Yes please - Be Paranoid. Pay attention to red flags, verify background details, verify claims, spend time with her family & friends and make sure your values genuinely match.
/r/MensRights07/12/25 10:49 PM
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Sure, I got that you were loosely using it. I was not trying to argue - just sharing my views.
/r/EverydayMisandry06/12/25 04:00 PM
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It's just recycled rubbish from you know who. There's no movement - though I wish it were. Men need rest from these types 😂
/r/EverydayMisandry06/12/25 01:40 PM
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I think this will place an extra burden on many men, who already take on the bulk of society’s least acknowledged unpaid labour - financial responsibility, physical protection, crisis management & heavy maintenance work that keeps households functioning.
/r/MensRights02/12/25 03:12 AM
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Thanks
/r/MensRights01/12/25 10:42 AM
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... and after two dates, the man meets his only predator - that bursts out of the woman's body 😂 Who writes these kind of tweets? 14 year old girls?
/r/EverydayMisandry01/12/25 08:47 AM
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Exactly - They deliberately ignore the fact that emotional expression is not natural and easy for everyone. For many men, opening up is not at all easy - it’s risky. It can be socially dangerous, humiliating, rarely rewarded, often punished & tied to masculinity, so we learn to keep everything inside. It is a survival strategy that is dangerous.
/r/MensRights01/12/25 03:23 AM
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Man keeping is an interesting way to look at the study. My takeaway was different. The study identifies the risk - women may or may not have the best quality friendships, but they do have more emotional touchpoints. Most men have just one: their partner. So, men should take mitigative steps instead of waiting for the damage to show up later. Edit - So, IMO the study is not saying men are worse at emotions, it’s saying: A system with only one point of emotional support is fragile by design.
/r/MensRights01/12/25 02:46 AM
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Interesting insights. Nobody here is scoffing - the earlier scoffers must’ve been… let’s just say, not operating at full bandwidth.
/r/MensRights30/11/25 07:47 PM
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Would you have said this 20 years ago? Micro adjustments and mini changes are happening bro.
/r/MensRights30/11/25 07:42 PM
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Feminists use data like soft clay; they bend it, stretch it, smash it - whatever it takes to build the crisis of the week. A complaint magically becomes a conviction, a survey becomes epidemic level violence & any number - no matter how tiny, becomes proof of a national emergency. Context? Nuance? Methodology? cute concepts, but they're inconvenient for them. Why bother with actual evidence when a dramatic statistic, preferably misunderstood can start the outrage cycle? It’s advocacy by exaggera…
/r/MensRights30/11/25 05:26 PM
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TBH after daily reading all the mockery about male loneliness, I don't feel a lot of empathy for certain groups. But, it's Christmas so I can only suggest that she could connect with people already around her by doing things like baking cookies for neighbours, volunteering for a few hours or visiting an orphanage or old-age home. Songs she could play while making those cookies - * If We Make It Through December – Merle Haggard * Christmas for Cowboys – John Denver * That Was the Worst Christmas …
/r/MensRights30/11/25 06:28 AM
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Ahh! 😂😂 Let my comment be just a yearly roundup then. I completed a year on Reddit today :))
/r/EverydayMisandry29/11/25 01:38 AM
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Is it just me, or have feminists become far more bitter & hostile this year? Something must not be working for them - maybe it’s more female srx offenders being convicted, maybe it’s more false rape cases collapsing, maybe it’s DEI privileges shrinking. Hard to tell. All this year there has been no escape from rabid feminists insulting, degrading, mocking, patronising, putting down, shouting down, threatening, hating, despising, battering & torturing users for asking reasonable questions or disa…
/r/EverydayMisandry29/11/25 01:32 AM
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<image> You are right ... Reversal is possible only sometimes. Copper T for women is much better and safer.
/r/EverydayMisandry28/11/25 02:46 PM
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Yes, true - and we should actually challenge them at every opportunity. I feel this sub gives us that space!
/r/EverydayMisandry27/11/25 08:10 PM
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How gullible do you think people are to accept feminism fights for equality? Check the dictionary definition yourself 🤪 If feminism truly stood for equality, your leading voices would be the first to speak out against false allegations, one sided laws or the neglect of male mental health & suicide. But have you ever seen that happen? Feminism can split into hundreds of groups, but don’t expect outsiders to keep track of every group. Every group has the same mission & uses the same machinery for …
/r/EverydayMisandry27/11/25 06:18 PM
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The main issue is the dishonest framing & what it implies. It assumes that any man who feels uneasy is an oppressor, that any discomfort means guilt & that feminism occupies an unquestionable moral high ground. And when users openly call it propaganda, they’re admitting it’s about conditioning people to equate male identity with misogyny by default. It's harmful, hateful and that's my problem with it. If you are calling it a statement that fights oppressing women, you are being equally dishonest…
/r/EverydayMisandry27/11/25 04:03 PM
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Bro, male sexual desire is influenced by biology - hormones play a major role, just like they do for the other gender. So don’t let anyone make you feel guilty for something that’s natural.
/r/MensRights27/11/25 01:54 AM
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UN Women is one of those organizations that, even if they have data on violence against men, will hide & ignore it. Digital violence should include misandry, which is common across social media. Many platforms' policies specifically label women as a vulnerable group, which simply allows them to express hateful views without consequence. I think UN Women had an opportunity here to take a balanced stance & avoid alienating even more men, but I guess they chose not to.
/r/EverydayMisandry26/11/25 11:21 PM
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Now, this is a twist no one seems to be talking or thinking about 😀
/r/MensRights24/11/25 02:37 PM
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Additional information: The DoorDash driver who claimed she was sexually assaulted by a customer was arrested on felony charges of one count of first-degree dissemination of an unlawful surveillance image and one count of second-degree unlawful surveillance, according to the Oswego police. The police investigation revealed that the driver's story did not align with the evidence, leading to her arrest and potential prison sentence of up to four years. DoorDash deactivated the driver's account for…
/r/MensRights23/11/25 11:07 PM
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Got it, thanks for clarifying. It’s really rare to see someone include men in such an honest & balanced way, so I genuinely appreciate your perspective. Respect.
/r/MensRights20/11/25 01:45 AM
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Thanks OP, this is a refreshing post. Just wondering - do you also feel the same way about things like biased laws, false cases or stigma around male mental health? Lots of people agree with the easy parts but avoid the difficult ones
/r/MensRights20/11/25 01:01 AM
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Hate crimes against boys and men are being reported far more frequently nowadays. Will the misandrist (pronounced ˈfɛmɪnɪst') community defend this too?
/r/MensRights19/11/25 02:15 AM
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The current female mental health crisis may well be a result of feminist overreach. Misandry hurts everyone.
/r/MensRights18/11/25 01:56 PM
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Reducing women’s competitiveness Increasing discrimination Reinforcing stereotypes Making companies secretly prefer men The cost is significant (US$ 69 - 110 MM for just one Indian state) Good intention + bad design = bad outcome for women.
/r/MensRights17/11/25 04:36 AM
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TBH that's kind of sad. It's the negativity they spread about themselves. Self inflicted.
/r/MensRights16/11/25 10:07 PM
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Whatever you can give. Your comment made it sound like women are routinely convicted. My experience or maybe just my perception has been the opposite. I see daily that women rarely face real consequences and that the legal system goes easier on them. I’m sure you’ve experienced something similar - being let off lightly and then convinced yourself afterward that what you did wasn’t really that bad.
/r/MensRights16/11/25 07:48 PM
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I was hoping for 2025 convictions & what you supplied didn't get me much info. Can you share some more additional information to recheck? Brianna Porras (Texas, 2023) - Unverified Nikki Yovino (Connecticut, 2018) - Confirmed (but *not** revenge-porn related)* Moriah Gonzales (Ohio, 2015) - No mayches / Unverified Woman charged for revenge porn - Las Vegas, 2021 - No matches / Unverified Woman charged for revenge porn - California, 2019 - No matches / Unverified Woman charged for revenge porn - U…
/r/MensRights16/11/25 07:33 PM
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Isn't that a kind of inferiority complex?
/r/MensRights16/11/25 07:12 PM
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a belief system where women are seen as inherently wonderful and good, and men are seen as inherently bad, so you can shame, hurt and humiliate men because of it? Remind me of the time when Feminism was not this? I agree it has lost nuance and morphed into a 100% misandrist ideology now - Its the age of Femnarchy.
/r/MensRights16/11/25 07:11 PM
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I would like to read such conviction news once in a while. Can you share a couple please?
/r/MensRights16/11/25 06:05 PM
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Oh I came across this too - Girlie-handling Doing the emotional, financial, and psychological labour required to “manage” a woman rather than be in an equal relationship: Handling her tantrums Walking on eggshells around her Catering to her whims and fancies Managing irrational moods Absorbing blame unnecessarily Regulating her emotions for her Accepting isolation from your family and friends Going into debt to keep her happy Keeping the peace to avoid her reactions It's better to avoid such a r…
/r/EverydayMisandry16/11/25 09:15 AM
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This article is written in such a creepy feminist style. All the stats point to social neglect of men, not extremism. But the authors twist these into a warning sign rather than genuine male alienation. Also it's interesting to note that if 50% of men already believe feminism favours women… that’s not fringe anymore. When this moves towards 70%, the feminist narrative monopoly will start to slowly decline.
/r/MensRights15/11/25 04:02 PM
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I’ve seen content on these women's spaces & tbh there’s a kind of dehumanizing logic running through the posts & comments that is similar to many destructive movements through history. It's comparable in scale, intent & consequence. Governments can’t indefinitely ignore the institutional & social bias against men they helped build. At some point they will have to acknowledge & legislate it. We’re fast reaching the stage where that conversation will be unavoidable.
/r/MensRights12/11/25 05:03 PM
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I love the beast of burden analogy. it kind of hit two targets with one arrow 😅
/r/MensRights11/11/25 04:17 AM
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NGL the article gave me goosebumps.
/r/MensRights10/11/25 01:35 PM
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Be right, be left, be centre - doesn’t matter. But remember this: as a man, be selfish when you need to be, self-preserving when you have to be. You don’t owe anyone their definition of masculinity - not politics, not your lover, not a hashtag.
/r/MensRights10/11/25 01:24 PM
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A tidal wave of comments would accuse you of being a cynical, trust-fund-baby-turned-societal-commentator, and then you'd be instantly placed on three different government watch lists for 'disrupting economic confidence.' Of course, that doesn't mean that you wouldn't deserve a massive bonus for the sheer performance art of it all! So they'll call you a misogynist.
/r/EverydayMisandry08/11/25 05:27 AM
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I get it - you’re not interested in feminist theory or literature. But if you really want to debunk the ideology, you need to understand its conceptual framework. I’d encourage you to look into two things - the major criticisms of the so called feminist canon texts & the biographies of their authors. It will give you a good idea about the calculating & pathological mindset that shaped this ideology in the first place.
/r/MensRights07/11/25 06:47 PM
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So, Purpose - To protect victims from being silenced or harassed via shared services Action - Effectively penalize one party without investigation. Yeah, I always wanted private companies acting as judges 💀
/r/MensRights06/11/25 03:42 AM
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There’s a sizeable group of men in digital spaces with deep internalised misandry & emotional co-dependency. They grew up feeling neglected & undervalued by the opp gender, with insecurities & inferiority complexes that make them believe that bashing men earns them moral points & social acceptance. A word of caution though - unless you can confirm their gender, assume this is a rabid feminist in disguise with a sockpuppet account pushing misandry.
/r/MensRights04/11/25 03:08 AM
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By holistic solutions and programs for men, I mean things like: mental health & emotional resilience programs, legal & crisis support, skill building & mentorship, community & relationship support, & broader cultural/educational reforms. All these tailored for Men.
/r/MensRights31/10/25 11:52 PM
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Men's Rights Movement will start working when we actually have some holistic solutions and programs for men. But we should celebrate every now and then :) Keeps the spirit alive!
/r/MensRights31/10/25 09:59 PM
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Fair point - both masculine & feminine traits matter. Our goal isn’t rivalry, it’s fairness. Your concern about this sub turning into a “male version” of radical feminism is understandable coming from an outsider, but men’s rights advocacy has always existed within a framework of ethics - not hostility. Extremist or hateful content doesn't last five minutes; the community self corrects fast. Your last point is interesting and you’re right - feminine society might not be the best term. Maybe a be…
/r/MensRights31/10/25 12:09 AM
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Typical men - always think they know everything. Feminists, don’t fall for this condescending attitude. Let’s build that space programme & prove Men wrong.
/r/MensRights30/10/25 01:43 AM
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😅😂
/r/MensRights29/10/25 09:13 PM
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So, since feminists believe men are the oppressor class & that marriage is just an instrument of Patricia-anarchy, I would like to encourage them to leave men alone immediately. Totally ban them from your lives. Go full 4B: no men, no marriage, no kids, no dating, no he’s different exceptions. Crowdfund from all women billionaires & CEOs, buy an island and build your own country. Or better still - crowdfund a space program & start colonizing Mars. And please, stop using any product or service de…
/r/MensRights29/10/25 08:32 PM
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Elaborate please.
/r/MensRights28/10/25 09:25 AM
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All women who share the same thoughts - Please go 4B or start your own country or just migrate to some other planet 😂
/r/EverydayMisandry27/10/25 09:28 PM
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In my view, this is a problematic post. Men everywhere need recognition, purpose & belonging. Religion isn’t the cure; systems that respect men is.
/r/MensRights27/10/25 08:05 AM
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True. You’re basically doing public service fact-checking while I’m choosing peace 😂 Both are needed sometimes.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/10/25 04:03 PM
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Whenever I come across such hate comments l, I feel like responding with facts & logic. But then I ask myself - would I respond if a mad person cornered me & started spinning some wild story? That’s when I realize it’s better to simply not respond & offer a prayer of gratitude that I am not connected or related to such a person. Edit: Don't you think this comment is ironic, because the post is trying to champion women but ends up implying their lives revolve entirely around men 😂
/r/EverydayMisandry23/10/25 05:38 AM
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When Hypergamy Becomes a Cage: How Blind Economic Expectations Erased Emotional Fulfilment Research suggests that one key factor behind the US' record low marriage rates is a shortage of men with the economic profiles many women historically considered marriage worthy. This dynamic may well feed into the broader phenomenon of hypergamy. Mandatory disclaimer 😂 Ofcourse, this doesn’t mean that all women have lost joy or that every choice is shaped by hypergamy - plenty of other social, cultural & …
/r/EverydayMisandry21/10/25 07:55 PM
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Kudos. I want to help too. I report when I see misandric content. Anything else I can do?
/r/MensRights21/10/25 07:36 PM
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Alas, we could debate even though we are on the same side - but what do you do with those who don’t follow the same ethics we're bound by? Thanks for the references.
/r/MensRights18/10/25 11:26 PM
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Feminist legal theory dominates family-law, usually utilitarian or egalitarian, not Kantian. So Kant’s universality test is known, but often dismissed as too rigid or too abstract for social policy.
/r/MensRights18/10/25 09:19 PM
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OP, when someone claims to have moved from feminism to egalitarianism but still asks beginner level questions about why MRAs are angry, it feels more like performance than curiosity. If your shift is real, the starting point shouldn't be questioning the anger but understanding where it comes from. Without that, moving beyond a misandric framework to true egalitarianism is going to be hard.
/r/MensRights15/10/25 09:42 PM
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Whenever we have a draft, I say every man should have a feminist partner-in-arms. That’s how we close the gender gap 💪 & someone’s gotta lecture the enemy on consent afterwards 😂
/r/MensRights14/10/25 07:37 PM
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AI bias is real. Now imagine if this bias extends into agentic systems in hospitals - will women & children be prioritized over men (with more acute needs)? Or could it extend intersectionally - one race over another? For reference, I’ve posted a template earlier : AI Gender Bias in ChatGPT: UN Women Say It Hurts Women, Fordham Study Shows It Hurts Men
/r/MensRights11/10/25 09:57 PM
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So she saw it and thought it was cute = natural reaction. Then suddenly her ideology kicked in and the rest of her video is truly bs.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/10/25 08:39 PM
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Ha Ha Ha - you sidestepped the question. Saying you fight for MRAs doesn’t answer whether you’ve asked women’s spaces to reflect on misandry. Reducing misandry is a bonafide men’s rights issue. Calling women untouchable & implying only their spaces can vent frustration isn’t ‘fighting for MRAs.’ TBH it feels more like a Trojan - someone superficially claiming to care while subtly pushing feminist rhetoric. MRAs don’t need your help OP, focus on principles not performative posturing 😂
/r/MensRights09/10/25 04:28 PM
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Interesting point. So, which mainstream media outlet expressed regret after seeing your posts? Would be interesting to see the coverage.
/r/MensRights09/10/25 03:28 PM
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As the founder of r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic I've put more real work into fighting feminism than all the misogynists here combined. Shameless plug 😉 TBH keeping a diary of bad drivers is not the same as reforming traffic laws. It's just symbolic. I am not trying to minimise what you have done. It's good work.
/r/MensRights09/10/25 10:04 AM
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OP, that’s a fair point. Out of curiosity, have you posted a similar question on women’s spaces - about how they handle misandry or generalizations about men? It would be interesting to compare how both sides handle *self reflection***. Can you please share the link? An example from two years back: A post saying that all women are gaslighters was upvoted and allowed by mods. Link you provided I am not a Mod but IMO if the user is sharing personal pain & asking a rhetorical/emotional question lik…
/r/MensRights09/10/25 09:51 AM
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Good points, especially about how the same data is accepted for women but dismissed for men.
/r/EverydayMisandry07/10/25 03:51 PM
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See this recent study - Source: Coppolillo, E. Women who hate men: a comparative analysis across extremist Reddit communities. Sci Rep 15, 13952 (2025) An April 2025 study, "Women who hate men: a comparative analysis across extremist Reddit communities" challenges the narrative that misandry is insignificant or nonexistent by analyzing gendered hate speech in four Reddit communities: (r/)Incels & (r/)MensRights (misogynistic) and (r/)Feminism & (r/)GenderCritical (misandric). “Although misogyny …
/r/EverydayMisandry07/10/25 03:58 AM
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So, Women’s menstrual cycles are visible & well researched, but what about men? Research has shown that men also experience biological rhythms. Testosterone fluctuations: Men’s testosterone rises & falls daily, peaking in the morning. Some studies even find monthly or 4 - 6 week mini cycles. Natural rhythm: The body tends to maintain an ejaculatory rhythm every 2 - 4 days, balancing sperm production & hormone levels. Too long without release can dull libido, too frequent can reduce reserves. Men…
/r/EverydayMisandry06/10/25 08:59 PM
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Gender equality? I feel it's the most problematic concept humans have come up with.
/r/MensRights29/09/25 03:00 AM
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OP, I broadly agree with your points but want to point out that systemic misandry isn’t only about high profile examples like draft laws or media rhetoric but it operates in law, policy & daily life - limiting support, recognition & fair treatment for men everywhere. Expanding your conversation to include these everyday realities will help capture the full picture of misandry & gender equality.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/09/25 09:38 PM
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Exceptions, lol. If you’re leaning on exceptions, you’ve already admitted my point that relevance does matter. Rape shield laws block big chunks of evidence that could be relevant, then only allow tiny exceptions. At the same time, prosecutors can show all kinds of *character evidence against the accused*, while the defense isn’t allowed to question the accuser’s credibility. How is that fair? This is basically the Duluth Model 2.0 - built on the same logic: men’s behavior must be strictly contr…
/r/MensRights19/09/25 04:17 AM
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If rape shield laws are just about basic relevance, why do they need to exist at all - when ordinary evidence rules already exclude irrelevant material? In any legal system, relevance is already the baseline rule. Shield laws however are extraordinary exceptions that specifically forbid certain lines of evidence, even if they may be relevant. For eg, if the complainant falsely accused another man in the past or if there’s evidence of a pattern (like prostitution or exchange of money) that ties d…
/r/MensRights18/09/25 10:59 PM
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Best Luck 😂 to this woman. Extremism always gets contained someway or the other.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/09/25 07:27 PM
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Do you seriously believe he’s a man? I keep seeing these token comments from users claiming they’re men - saying things like they’re ashamed of being men or that they can’t trust men. And right below, there are always 2-3 replies like FR or This. TBH, those look more like filler comments meant to silence or demotivate rather than genuine ones.
/r/MensRights17/09/25 06:59 PM
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I think the damage is the same, so why not punishment. <image>
/r/EverydayMisandry16/09/25 02:50 AM
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Feminist psychosis is not a clinical term yet, but maybe it should be - studying how harmful ideological frameworks can distort risk perception, social incentives and personal morality could be valuable. In yesterday's news (India), a woman & her lover strangled her husband to death, then staged it as a heart attack until the husband’s niece exposed the plot and police got involved. Source Cases like these show that widow fantasy might not be theoretical.
/r/MensRights13/09/25 02:53 AM
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As a response to the image, the title is hilarious 😂
/r/EverydayMisandry11/09/25 06:11 PM
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Humans want their effort to be reciprocated. Men are no different.
/r/MensRights11/09/25 07:04 AM
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OP, It’ll always be like this. Our job is to debunk it every time it shows up. That distinction has to be ingrained like breathing or eating - unless misandry itself is banned. Helps with patience.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/09/25 06:17 PM
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whats the Duluth model? Duluth model Wikipedia
/r/MensRights08/09/25 05:45 AM
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Sounds tricky. Is it possible for you to discuss this with someone close to you but in their 50s? What about the mother of your son. Is she married or with someone? Eventually you will have to discuss or inform her - why not speak with her now?
/r/MensRights05/09/25 09:47 PM
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OP, fair points & I agree with a few of them but I think you meant androcide rather than genocide. On a separate note - I came across this a while back & it really illustrates (metaphorically) how our society has been infected by a certain ideology.
/r/MensRights04/09/25 02:44 PM
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So your answer is that women should suppress their desires? Interesting - that’s exactly how society kept women oppressed for thousands of years. - All Feminists
/r/MensRights04/09/25 06:34 AM
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She desires intimacy driven by her own desires & hormones. Yet later - she resents the pain of pregnancy and the blame is shifted outward onto the man, onto society. Out society was built on the idea of protecting the vulnerable. Unfortunately, in reality this has shifted from real vulnerability to perceived vulnerability.
/r/MensRights03/09/25 07:27 PM
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I’ve never really thought about it this way. Thanks.
/r/EverydayMisandry03/09/25 12:18 AM
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Misandry hides in plain sight
/r/MensRights02/09/25 02:52 PM
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Goldmine!
/r/MensRights30/08/25 01:32 AM
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This makes me think that we are moving towards a world like - Brave New World by Aldous Huxley (1932). It's just 200-300 years away. The world is divided into two regions: the New World and the Savage World. In the New World, society is stratified into first-class and second-class citizens. Second-class citizens exist to serve the first class. Natural childbirth doesn’t exist & all children are created artificially and raised by the government. People take “happiness pills” whenever they feel di…
/r/EverydayMisandry25/08/25 01:10 PM
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Andrea's personal life included several psychological and traumatic episodes, which definitely shaped her writing & public image. She was a radfem who channeled their personal trauma into sweeping universal claims (all sex is rape under patriarchy). She wrote openly about depression, feelings of isolation, and periods of breakdown. Some of her later writing (& public appearances) reflected an almost obsessive, trauma driven tone that critics described as extreme or unstable. She also struggled w…
/r/EverydayMisandry25/08/25 02:19 AM
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LOL - so basically no answer to my points, just a reversal with an “I disagree” on top? I guess Feminist rhetoric really is running on fumes at this stage. It’s ok, disagree! 😂
/r/MensRights25/08/25 01:46 AM
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Im certainly not willing to give more than my partner. I dont think equality is too much to ask. Equality that is ill- defined & from only one gender perspective is not equality. For the rest of your comment - I believe that's a fair realisation. Men have realised it and been discussing it for some time now. Continue down the path and you'll definitely find some answers.
/r/MensRights23/08/25 10:18 PM
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The idea of a strict 50:50 contribution between men and women in marriage or relationships is presented as the standard of fairness. But in practice, the balance is tilted very differently. The concept of equal sharing has largely been imposed by feminists, yet when we look at the legal, social & financial realities, it becomes clear that men are already carrying a disproportionate share of obligations. Legally, men are bound by far greater financial responsibilities during and after marriage. M…
/r/MensRights23/08/25 07:53 PM
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I don't think I've ever seen a poorer lack of comprehension or higher level of moral bankruptcy before in my life.
/r/MensRights23/08/25 02:04 PM
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Points? One paragraph of deflection and gaslighting because acknowledging male suffering poses a threat to Feminists and another paragraph of pushing an ideological agenda because your collective brains have gone soggy and maggots are eating whatever's left inside. The original discussion was about ED in young men, yet your comment reduces it to pleasuring women while dismissing the real issue entirely! That’s not just insensitive - it’s morally bankrupt. But then again - that moral bankruptcy i…
/r/MensRights23/08/25 01:08 PM
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Sounds like one of those cringey, soggy responses we are seeing a lot these days.
/r/MensRights23/08/25 11:24 AM
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So, the current social environment shaped by modern feminism - the pervasive misandry, prevalence of negative stereotypes about men in the media, changing gender dynamics, shifting expectations in dating & relationships and sometimes heightened pressure on men to perform in new ways. Could this enviornment contribute to the psychological stress that research links to ED?
/r/MensRights23/08/25 12:14 AM
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Most cases were strongly linked to psychological, rather than physical, causes. Other studies have suggested psychological or emotional factors may explain as many as 85 per cent of ED cases. Do you think this could be a result of the environment shaped by feminism?
/r/MensRights22/08/25 08:08 PM
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Post your experience. Why do you need multiple subs for different groups of people. It will simply fragment voices even more. Right now you possibly see these more because it's very explicit and in large numbers. But like I mentioned - even subtle ones should be shared.
/r/EverydayMisandry22/08/25 02:47 PM
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Is that her same sex partner?
/r/EverydayMisandry21/08/25 08:51 PM
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Denying misandry exists doesn’t erase it - it only enables it!
/r/EverydayMisandry20/08/25 06:01 PM
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Digressing a bit and thinking aloud. Ever wondered what happens if a species becomes overpopulated? Could all these male-female conflicts be just a symptom of course correction for our species?
/r/MensRights15/08/25 07:57 PM
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OP, see if this makes sense **Women deserve the dignity of full independence. Let’s stop trapping them in outdated dependency through alimony. End it & finally let them stand entirely on their own. Edit: Here's another one - **Women’s trust in men matters. That’s why we must ensure paternity testing is standard - so no woman is ever stuck with a man who secretly suspects the child isn’t his. Honesty strengthens relationships.
/r/MensRights15/08/25 08:29 AM
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Quite insightful. Thanks OP.
/r/MensRights12/08/25 06:51 PM
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Oh Ok - that's what you meant. Sorry I misunderstood. Edit: Check this video - The Debunked History Of Women's Credit Cards
/r/MensRights10/08/25 11:39 PM
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No Sir - I am asking if prior to the introduction of the 1978 card, were women not issued cards at all?
/r/MensRights10/08/25 11:28 PM
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Ok, and the 1978 card?
/r/MensRights10/08/25 11:17 PM
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Not heckling but what happened to Frank McNamara's Diners Club card (1950)? Also the 1978 women's card - was it a branded for women card or they simply couldn't get a card on their own prior to this?
/r/MensRights10/08/25 10:45 PM
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Hello 👋🤗. How are you doing?
/r/MensRights09/08/25 10:05 PM
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Anyone who thinks anyone politician is going to “help men” is fucking retarded.
/r/MensRights09/08/25 08:28 PM
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OP, I love the calm and assertive way you handled both situations. But, it seems to me that you may look like a sweet young man that might make you a soft-target. So, I recommend you carry and wear a Freddy Krueger mask the moment they start picking on you.
/r/MensRights07/08/25 06:09 PM
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Bro, think about putting this on Instagram or YouTube.
/r/MensRights05/08/25 10:33 PM
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So see this conversation I had with ChatGPT when you get time - Image For context/background: A village in India has sparked controversy after its gram panchayat (village council) passed a resolution banning love marriages without the approval of family or the local community. The decision has drawn sharp criticism from politicians & human rights activists, who view it as a violation of individual freedom and constitutional rights. So I asked ChatGPT his views and he started rattling about Patri…
/r/EverydayMisandry05/08/25 10:23 PM
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The fact is though, they do not happen at the prevalence your post suggests Interesting how I didn’t even mention any stats, but that’s where your mind went. That’s just your guilty conscience or bias trying to minimize the issue and shut the conversation down! I have spoken to people on this sub and a lot of them weren't even aware that charities for male sexual assault survivors, domestic abuse victims etc. even exist Please share a post about it. Awareness is key.
/r/MensRights04/08/25 06:28 PM
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Not only have false accusations been breaking records every successive year but the fact is False accusation = Rape. Everyone supports true victims of rape. But NO support for false accusers & those who defend & enable them. These are the people who: Steal credibility from real survivors Weaponize the justice system for revenge or manipulation Ruin innocent lives with irreversible damage Undermine trust in genuine cases And fuel public cynicism, making it harder for actual victims to be believed…
/r/MensRights04/08/25 05:51 PM
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Bro, think around this - Instead of Men Only why not Men First. Every problem has a solution - sometimes you just have to think a little differently.
/r/MensRights02/08/25 12:24 AM
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Another FSO walls free then?
/r/MensRights30/07/25 09:00 PM
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Anyone know what happened to this? Italy opens door to chemical castration for rapists and pedophiles | Source | September 19, 2024 1:02 pm CET ROME — Italy moved on Wednesday toward legalizing chemical castration, with MPs approving the creation of a committee that could draft laws on treating violent sex offenders with androgen-blocking drugs. The lower house of parliament in Rome passed a motion which said the treatment should be consensual, reversible and with the aim of reducing the risk of…
/r/MensRights30/07/25 04:10 PM
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Isn't it 12:52 pm PST?
/r/MensRights29/07/25 07:53 PM
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Got it, I'll remember that.
/r/MensRights29/07/25 01:25 PM
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That's First Information Report that is same as a written record created by police when a crime is reported by a civilian or discovered by officers - Incident Report/ Crime Report/ Police Report.
/r/MensRights29/07/25 12:51 PM
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Absolutely, thanks!
/r/MensRights28/07/25 06:42 PM
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Thanks. This will be a useful addition to the post checklist.
/r/MensRights28/07/25 05:43 PM
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raising a future monster. It's reasonable to say that she can only raise a monster even if an angel was born to her.
/r/MensRights28/07/25 02:36 AM
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An apology after false accusations that have shattered a man’s reputation, career, mental health & family life feels insultingly hollow. It may hold symbolic value in court, but to the victim, it comes far too late and without genuine justice. But I do agree - we also need to celebrate small wins when they happen. Here are some more cases - Delhi Court (2021) Acquitted in-laws in a false dowry harassment (498A) case and granted ₹10,000 compensation after years of suffering. Voice For Men India B…
/r/MensRights26/07/25 07:30 PM
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Do these count? - Terry Crews Issue: Male sexual assault, toxic masculinity. What he said: Shared his own experience of being sexually assaulted by a powerful man in Hollywood. Advocated for men to speak up and reject toxic silence. Quote: "Men are silent victims... the shame of being vulnerable is killing us." Brad Pitt Issue: Father’s rights & parental alienation. What he did: Spoke about the trauma of custody battles and how emotionally devastating it was to be separated from his children dur…
/r/MensRights26/07/25 12:12 AM
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Good question actually. Women were (and are) seen as the primary consumers and purchasing decision makers in households. I guess emotion sells, masculinity doesn't. That's why Men feel alienated from mainstream TV programming.
/r/MensRights25/07/25 06:39 PM
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Why is it so cold and dark in here? Start a fire or something guys ....
/r/MensRights25/07/25 12:20 AM
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Lol, then I'll be a TransWoman!
/r/MensRights24/07/25 06:05 PM
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Err... If I change my gender and promise to wear makeup all the time - can I get that surge pricing as a driver?
/r/MensRights24/07/25 11:50 AM
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No you said this - feminism just means equal rights and that’s all And all I wanted to understand was where this came from?
/r/MensRights21/07/25 10:00 PM
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Looks like you cannot. I don't need images. I am only asking for the book and author or manifesto and author.
/r/MensRights21/07/25 09:55 PM
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Can you or can you not share where it is written down?
/r/MensRights21/07/25 09:52 PM
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feminism just means equal rights Can you please point me to where this is written explicitly? Which book or manifesto has this?
/r/MensRights21/07/25 09:50 PM
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See if this makes sense to you - Idea Worth Replicating : Divorce Healing Camps for Men?
/r/MensRights21/07/25 08:04 PM
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Regarding your second point, we just need to develop a thicker skin when it comes to dealing with others.
/r/MensRights21/07/25 05:56 PM
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Thanks :)
/r/MensRights21/07/25 05:16 PM
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Hating takes up lots of energy. I can understand why it's so much of toll on you. I personally just say Ewww! Creepy Fems and move on!
/r/MensRights21/07/25 03:09 PM
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Inspirational!
/r/MensRights21/07/25 03:07 PM
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Two views you might want to consider - All Feminist Labels Serve the Same Machinery Feminists often talk about different “types” of feminism - liberal, radical, intersectional, sex-positive etc. But from the outside, these categories don’t really matter. What matters is what we actually see in practice: the same campaigns, the same slogans, the same selective outrage. Despite all the categories, all feminist groups end up pushing the same priorities - always ignoring men’s issues, exaggerating w…
/r/MensRights21/07/25 08:35 AM
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Different types of feminism exist inside your mind. You’re welcome to sort them into categories - liberal, radical, Marxist, intersectional, eco, cyber, sex-positive, abolitionist. *Build shrines for the ones you like. Disown the rest. But from the outside, it doesn’t matter. We don’t care what you name them - we see the machinery. We smell the smoke. We hear what comes out of those pits like the shreiks of newbornSaruman’s Uruk-hai. These ideologies don’t grow, they’re engineered. Selectively b…
/r/MensRights19/07/25 02:56 PM
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That was quick - your predicted meltdown. You jumped from scripture to rape to Genghis Khan’s genes in three sentences. But citing Genghis Khan’s genes or genocidal rape in war doesn’t prove female sexuality was vilified throughout history. That’s called history trauma, not vilification of female sexuality. Please learn the difference. Meanwhile let me enjoy your argument falling apart. Edit: Do you want to know a secret?
/r/MensRights18/07/25 11:05 PM
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Bro, let’s not play the real vs fake feminist game, OK? There are no good vs bad feminists. No gentle vs. extremist, liberal vs. conservative or cultural vs. intersectional. It’s all one ideology, one direction, one goal! ONE TEAM! Media isn’t manipulative - feminists have infiltrated, monopolised & weaponised media since the 1950s, maybe even earlier. Also let’s not pretend women are just passive, they have full agency and know exactly how and when to use it. Honestly, I’m sounding more feminis…
/r/MensRights18/07/25 10:53 PM
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Thanks, but no thanks. What you’ve provided is scripture, not history. That’s dishonest. You can’t mix these because prescriptive religious morality (what people should do) is miles away from descriptive historical reality (what people actually did). Right? Lol I doubt you'll find anything. Feminists rarely can find anything beyond their own imaginary story books. I know what comes next - some personal attack about my intelligence, a bit of gaslighting, or maybe twisting my words. But sure, go a…
/r/MensRights18/07/25 10:16 PM
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The confident and free woman is essentially a trope forced by feminists. Try to show it any other way and there are 1000s of complaints and articles moaning how women are shown in negative light. Result - we only see a caricature of confident and free woman. You cannot talk both sides and play victim both sides, lol
/r/MensRights18/07/25 08:31 PM
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Can you please give some examples of said vilification of female sexuality from credible historical references.. Nothing from revisionist feminism history, please.
/r/MensRights18/07/25 08:26 PM
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OP, thanks for sharing. It’s definitely interesting but tbh it didn’t make sense to me. Feels more like cocktail conversation material.
/r/MensRights17/07/25 10:00 AM
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OP, I think it’s great that you shared this video and the YouTuber approached it with maturity. TBH the reality isn’t just that men are hesitant to help anymore, but that for many younger men, the old idea that they must help a woman (and get rewarded with the “gentleman” badge) just doesn’t hold the same meaning. So, that’s a good kind of progress. It means we are no longer trapped the need to constantly “prove” our worth through helping the fake weak, especially in public spaces where intentio…
/r/MensRights16/07/25 07:05 PM
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True, feminists started pushing equity & that reframe is a bit dated. But this is a bit different and more covert. It pretends to still value equality but only applies it when feminists decide the conditions are equal, giving them an excuse to ignore male disadvantage (because “men already have it better overall”) - more power, less accountability.
/r/MensRights15/07/25 06:22 AM
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Absolutely. We’ll take the power, mobility & reward but not the risk, rejection or responsibility.
/r/MensRights15/07/25 06:05 AM
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I am not sure but this is a good question to explore.
/r/MensRights13/07/25 11:10 PM
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We know not all men rape, but we don’t know who does, so we stay cautious with all men I came across this a few weeks ago & you reminded me of it. Unfortunately I didn't take a screenshot but you must've seen variations of this. It thrives in all women's spaces today. It sounds rational until you realize it’s the same logic used in racism or xenophobia. This is essentially what creates & perpetuates am environment of fear. It normalizes suspicion, destroys social trust & alienates good men. Iron…
/r/MensRights13/07/25 07:57 AM
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Women are the majority of teachers in primary and secondary education, especially in the early grades
/r/MensRights12/07/25 08:53 PM
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OP, posts about female criminality aren't propaganda, they’re attempts to balance a system that refuses to see women as criminals. Society doesn’t treat women as fully responsible adults when it comes to wrongdoing & that’s a form of gendered moral inequality. The goal is to acknowledge male victims, confront double standards and force society to apply the same lens of responsibility and compassion to all genders. It’s obvious that feminists will find this uncomfortable & so will their stealth a…
/r/MensRights12/07/25 06:07 PM
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Hope lots of people fill it up.
/r/MensRights12/07/25 05:36 PM
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Bro pulled out kink stats, dismissed male hate speech as harmless “avoidance,” and thinks using Reddit for a peer-reviewed Nature study is wild. That’s the weakest misandrist deflection, I've ever seen. I get it - you are uncomfortable with facts!
/r/EverydayMisandry11/07/25 10:35 PM
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This post looks like a bad faith setup meant to make patriarchy denial look clever, but it’s based on a childish, fake version of what feminists actually argue. Be very careful with such posts. Ops definition isn’t just loose but it is clearly rigged. No feminist theory defines patriarchy as 'men having all the power' or 'every man being protected.'. Real feminist arguments about patriarchy are more insidious, precisely because they also claim patriarchy harms men. Discussing this brain-rot, fak…
/r/MensRights11/07/25 03:09 PM
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So, if I understand correctly you are saying: Actual Cases = Reported Cases – False Allegations There's a mix up here. The correct formula is: Actual Cases = Reported Cases (true + false) + Unreported Cases My comment was about the much larger, invisible epidemic of sexual abuse on boys that goes completely Unreported because boys are conditioned to trust women and never speak up.
/r/MensRights09/07/25 03:17 PM
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Reported cases ≠ actual number of sexual assaults against boys. While girls are regularly taught about good and bad touch, boys are often implicitly taught to trust women. The reality of unreported sexual abuse of boys is a silent epidemic we’re not ready for.
/r/MensRights09/07/25 12:54 AM
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Isn’t gender studies basically indoctrination on steroids? No real employability, no accountability - but it trains you to police speech and feelings and spread terror against men. I’ve heard you also get a certificate in Victimology!
/r/MensRights07/07/25 11:50 PM
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“When a man laughs at himself too much, avoids conflict at all cost or downplays his pain - he’s not weak, he’s likely been emasculated.” Some signs of Emasculation - chronic self doubt, loss of confidence in relationships or leadership, suppressed emotional expression or emotional shutdown, apologizing for being masculine, feeling replaceable in romantic, social or work settings, fear of setting boundaries.
/r/MensRights07/07/25 11:33 PM
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🧠 Me: Let’s have a fair, nuanced debate. 🧬 Feminist bot: Mutates & auto-updates to block criticism. 💻 System message: “Error 404: Accountability Not Found.”.
/r/MensRights07/07/25 03:24 PM
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Yes, this idea is very much needed especially in the current fragmented climate. Even if it starts small, it could grow into a strong community. The key challenge would be moderation: avoiding derailments or bad faith actors & trolls. Still, it’s a realistic and positive idea. We absolutely need safe spaces.
/r/MensRights06/07/25 08:56 PM
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OP, need some help to understand this - majority of young men still single in 2025 Can you clarify what age group & location you are talking about. Also can you share the source and %? while women are not? Same here Why can’t most subs on Reddit have a mature and open conversation about this? Name a few subs, or share a few post links, so I can go and read what they are talking about.
/r/MensRights06/07/25 12:15 AM
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Yes, you are absolutely right. The volume of feminist literature available is overwhelming. You can't search for men's rights or issues even on Google without been shown women's issues, Lol
/r/MensRights05/07/25 09:56 PM
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Your comment is so unintentionally funny 🤣 especially the way you phrased it.
/r/MensRights05/07/25 03:18 PM
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This is the only thing that I could understand from the article Nara Smith, famed for wearing OTT dresses while making her own bubblegum and breakfast cereal, was recently reported by Cosmopolitan to be earning an estimated $200,000 a month on TikTok.
/r/MensRights05/07/25 02:57 PM
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When you can’t be controlled, you’ll be hated. When women are no longer the center of men’s attention in society, many of them grow bitter. The backlash and assertiveness men are showing now hasn’t changed women’s worldview - it’s just made them more resentful. It’s funny how they keep saying, We don’t need men, yet get so easily triggered by MGTOW. Well, More power to men and women can go wash their faces and reflect on it.
/r/MensRights05/07/25 08:22 AM
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the feminists will look like they are deranged extremists Lol, I love the use of deranged! That's who we are dealing with. Well, when it comes to nuance, it’s going to take time. Consider that we’re still between Phase 1 & 2 right now. We're still reacting - not as a flaw, but because we didn’t inherit a ready made church or system of support like feminists did. We’re building our own structure first. Once we have that solid home base, the nuance will flow naturally. That’s when we’ll start shap…
/r/MensRights04/07/25 07:41 PM
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This is the classic innocent question post designed to farm karma through male vs male unity debates and gender generalizations. Seen this formula so many times now. OP’s other posts literally ask "Why are you lonely?" , "I NNEEEEED KARMA PLEASE GIVE ME SOME" and "Is being gay a mental illness?" - so take this with a giant salt shaker. My take - Men aren't nearly as divided as people think. It’s feminists who’ve splintered into countless competing groups - radfems, libfems, sex-posi, SWERFs, TER…
/r/MensRights04/07/25 12:25 AM
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Imagine this: A group of 10-15 people all log into a Reddit surfing app together. One person takes the lead, and wherever they browse, whether it’s a subreddit or a post - everyone else sees in real time. There's also a group chat, so while exploring comments (like you do), everyone can react, chat and have fun together XD
/r/MensRights03/07/25 11:03 PM
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Lol, what a meltdown! Muting you after this. Initially, you said: “THIS IS A COMPLETELY MADE-UP QUOTE.” while referring to my paraphrased line: “Although misogyny has been widely studied in social computing, misandry remains significantly underexplored. Our study identifies misandric communities that exhibit stronger levels of hate and negative sentiment than even misogynistic ones.” Now you are screaming "THIS PAPER SUGGESTS THAT THERE IS NOT ENOUGH RESEARCH ON MISANDRIST SPEECH IN COMPARISON T…
/r/MensRights03/07/25 10:53 PM
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you have done absolutely nothing to rebut any of my valid criticisms I don’t owe you a rebuttal for your brain-rotted criticism, but I still addressed your points. You just keep shifting the argument every time one gets answered. This study actually does investigate whether the gap in research on misogynist vs misandrist comments is supported by their analysis, and they find it is not. The study, in its own words - (Pg. 7, last point under We can hence conclude that). Also proof you've not read …
/r/MensRights03/07/25 10:00 PM
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Wow, you’re not actually asking for a summary. You’re asking to control the narrative. And since the study doesn’t support your framing, you’ve decided the real problem must be the person quoting it. My post is not a technical summary. It's a study highlight focused on misandry related insights. See the section title - Key Findings on Misandry I never claimed it’s an exhaustive executive abstract or a formal academic interpretation. If I did please point out, where? Every claim in the post is ei…
/r/MensRights03/07/25 08:22 PM
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This is not a summary and does not consider any of the nuances pointed out by the authors. So essentially - I get it, you simply want to bury it, lol
/r/MensRights03/07/25 05:13 PM
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Sure, If you genuinely believe the summary misrepresents the study, please share a version you think better reflects the findings. I’m open to updating the post if it’s more accurate. If not, let’s not pretend this is about academic standards, it’s just more of that brainrot you tried to deflect from earlier.
/r/MensRights03/07/25 03:53 PM
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Wait, there's more to this, Lol Bulls don’t participate in raising calves at all. So if they’re reducing human fathers to just bills, then by that same logic, men should also have the right to no custody, no opinion and no financial obligation either.
/r/MensRights03/07/25 02:52 PM
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“...Feminism consistently overcomes the others in terms of hate, followed by GenderCritical and MensRights. Under this optic, indeed, misandric communities express more negative sentiments than misogynistic ones.” (Sec: Prevalent Emotions) The authors have clearly discussed the intensity and consistency of user level hate in misandric communities. You’re welcome to disagree with their findings - but discrediting the summary by implying the summary was a misread AI interpretation of a graphic is …
/r/MensRights03/07/25 06:35 AM
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OP, it really depends on what you want to do, but here’s what might end it: I can't agree to that because I don't believe that suffering is a competition. If your love depends on me denying someone else’s pain, then it’s not love - it’s control. It’s not fair to demand a loyalty test or expect me to apply empathy through a gender filter that suits you.
/r/MensRights03/07/25 03:42 AM
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Absolutely. If Whitmer’s acknowledging that young men are falling behind and actually doing something about it, that’s a win in our book, isn’t it? We don’t care which party it comes from. We’re not looking for a savior. We’re looking for sustained action from both sides. Let’s also wait for the follow through, just like we will with Trump or anyone else.
/r/MensRights03/07/25 02:55 AM
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Agreed. This is really cool news. Realistically speaking UK might be next to open up - They are actively drafting a national strategy for Men and Boys, pushed by cross-party MPs. There’s slow traction but serious groundwork is being done. Aussies have shown early steps - some state governments support male suicide prevention and DV services for men. But they’re still politically terrified of the feminist lobby. Apart from these - Canada - Hard no. France - Double no. Germany - Probably not. Heav…
/r/MensRights02/07/25 08:50 PM
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See, Matriarchy is where your mom rules with love, food and generous hugs, and Femanarchy is where your girlfriend rules - with threats, screenshots and her ideologue friend group.
/r/MensRights02/07/25 08:36 PM
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Okay. I will feel sad for sometime today. 😂
/r/MensRights02/07/25 06:01 PM
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TBH, I’ll admit that when some of these women first started speaking for men, I was skeptical. Thought they were just in it for the clicks or cash. But they have stood firm, stayed & earned respect. And you are right - the fact that men need women to validate their pain before society even listens… that’s not patriarchy. That’s FEMANARCHY!
/r/MensRights02/07/25 05:30 PM
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I get where you’re coming from and yes, talk can be cheap. But here’s my take: Nobody else is even “talking” about men in this way - not Dems, not the media, not corporate campaigns, not universities. Whether Trump wrote it or not is irrelevant. When the institution of the White House puts out a message saying men are suffering, lonely, dying younger and we see you - that shifts cultural overton windows. That's what we all want, right? If you're angry about policies hurting men - totally fair. L…
/r/MensRights02/07/25 05:15 PM
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Fair point. You don’t have to like Trump to see that this message broke a huge silence. And it's definitely not a safe move. Just acknowledging men’s pain in this climate is enough to trigger backlash. Which is why no one else does it. Whether he’s doing it for strategy or belief, it still shifts the needle. Because now that the silence is broken, others may follow.
/r/MensRights02/07/25 03:44 PM
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Say what you want but this is possibly the most explicitly pro male message ever issued by the White Hous and it doesn’t just talk about health, it directly acknowledges cultural & emotional warfare against men. And it's perfectly ironic! 😂 Feminists, liberals, left media, academics & social media influencers have all spent years painting him as the embodiment of being La masculinité toxique and now he’s the only President in modern history openly pledging to protect men from a war on manhood.
/r/MensRights02/07/25 02:17 PM
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Female infidelity is being emotionally justified here while male infidelity is generally moralized or condemned. But, you have to admit they're really good at this - emotional framing & sympathy building Let's just hire a few of them to get us our rights.
/r/MensRights02/07/25 02:01 PM
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So your kind of justice is about moral accountability, not rehabilitation or healing, right?
/r/MensRights02/07/25 06:06 AM
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OP, you've raised an important point but have you considered this : I’m not going to disagree with you just to avoid the appearance of an echo chamber, especially when I actually agree. I absolutely agree with you - we can't become who we’re fighting. Sharing from my own experience: Most feminist subs I’ve seen are not about ideas - they’re about enforcing group identity. Loyalty tests. You’re either with them or against them. And ,that mindset spills out of these spaces too - Why aren’t you tal…
/r/MensRights02/07/25 05:23 AM
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OP, the biggest problem with your post - with all this data and analysis is that it's here on r/mensrights (which is a great place) and not on the UN front page or in the CNN or BBC news stories.
/r/MensRights30/06/25 10:43 PM
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Indeed Where Did the Good Men Go? Some went to the good women, The rare ones, calm and kind, They built slow love with quiet joy, And left the noise behind. Some met angels far too early, The ones that fate withdrew, God took them home with gentle hands - And left the men to rue. Some were punished for staying true, Crushed by courts and vows, They signed away their dreams and joy, And live in silence now. Some hoped too long and paid the price, Some walked from games, not once but twice. Some c…
/r/MensRights30/06/25 10:34 PM
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UN Women is a gender biased organisation. It is sounding alarms over online misogyny, which could be a problem in some spaces but remains silent about the rampant misandry online. That’s the deep, bitter irony here. There’s no UN Men, no equivalent budget, no agency whose mission is to protect boys or men from hate, stereotypes or institutional neglect. In fact when boys show signs of pain, alienation or identity crises, they’re often dismissed as potential incels. See and share the report in th…
/r/MensRights30/06/25 07:45 PM
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I love this. The formula will have to change now. Woman = victim/heroine, Man = oppressor/savior/buffoon. With growing awareness, that simplicity will go - they won't be able to just do the “poor girl, bad man” trope without someone calling it out. The writers probably will miss the good ol' days when no one noticed : Wait... we have to give men emotional depth too? Ugh, that’s going to take so many rewrites. 😩 But, most importantly, men should now start reporting unfair or misleading poyrayals …
/r/MensRights30/06/25 04:05 PM
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Absolutely. That rage is valid - appreciate you adding that perspective. Like our dear Kipling never said: The male of the species is more noble than the female. He walks blind into fire, not for glory or gain, but a duty higher. He builds, defends, then fades from the tale - For the world remembers only who wept, not who prevailed. They mock his need, they scorn his pain, Yet call him forth when threats remain. And still he goes - no poems, no fame, Just another man, just another name.
/r/MensRights29/06/25 04:15 PM
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TBH, I don't know either. So I took all the responses this post has received so far, added my own & ranked them from hardest to the easiest to overcome - based on how deeply they’re conditioned, how emotionally costly they are to confront & how much structural resistance they face. Hope it makes sense. 1. Internalized Misandry Men have been taught by society and each other that male suffering is weakness. Many men mock or shame other men for expressing pain. Most men themselves hate other men. T…
/r/MensRights29/06/25 09:40 AM
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It's pure, unadulterated brain rot to say that misandry emerged only as a reaction to misogyny or it only exists online - My personal opinion is that it started the moment God used Adam’s body to make Eve. Adam gave up part of himself, got no thanks and still got punished for trusting her. Since then, men have been sacrificing themselves for women and still being blamed for everything. Even by men who ironically can’t find sexual partners or form stable relationships. If you don't want to bring …
/r/MensRights29/06/25 07:27 AM
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Good, but we need at least 30 such clips from different celebs over 2-3 years before it will sink in.
/r/MensRights28/06/25 05:27 PM
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Disgraceful. Even basic structural correction for men’s health stalls in Congress, even though it is data backed, not emotional propaganda. But, I want to point out a couple of things: 1. There is no appropriations clause, meaning the bill doesn’t allocate actual funds. This risks becoming symbolic unless paired with budget support. 2. There is virtually no media coverage or civil society push around this. There is a real danger of it dying in committee without public support. If somehow we can …
/r/MensRights28/06/25 12:22 PM
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You don’t heal a starving body with a feast. You start with water, then a little juice, a few bites, something savoury for taste. Too much too soon, and they'll go into coma. So here's the advice - Love Him, Girl - but Stagger Your Love! Love him hard but pace the game, Too much drip? He’ll feel the flame. You give him hugs, he hits the brakes - “Is this a prank? Am I awake?” Call him “king,” then ghost a bit, Let him spiral (just a littttle hit). Buy him snacks, then eat one too - Keep him gues…
/r/MensRights28/06/25 04:54 AM
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Thanks for your perspective. It’s rare for people outside to acknowledge that misandry exists - especially in default subs like TwoX, where it has gone unchecked for years. And yes, any serious advocacy should call out lazy generalizations. But it’s also worth noting: a lot of what gets called “generalizing” in men’s spaces is actually directed at hate groups & ideologies not women as a whole. They're reacting to generalized hostility - not inventing it. Unfortunately, that nuance often gets ign…
/r/MensRights28/06/25 04:19 AM
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Quick question for you - Why are you approaching this question in bad faith, when it’s clearly trying to explore something that many men genuinely feel but rarely get to articulate? It’s not an attack on women. It’s not a competition. It’s an attempt to express a real contradiction that men live with: that their bodies are often treated as expendable - in war, labor and even family roles, while autonomy is celebrated elsewhere. If we can't even ask these questions without being dismissed as “mis…
/r/MensRights27/06/25 06:45 PM
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They didn’t directly estimate bots, but they analyzed user level emotion trends over time. That implicitly filters out one off spam or bot behavior & focuses on how individual accounts repeatedly express hate, fear, anger, etc.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 08:36 PM
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Lol, yes. But not a single one has provided any good justification. They've just twisted the facts and ran away. Doesn't this mean, it hit a nerve?
/r/MensRights26/06/25 07:45 PM
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Thanks, I checked - it's already posted under (r/)science; so I just posted it to r/psychology and r/everydayscience. Edit: r/psychology took it down after ~11 hrs and I deleted it from r/everydayscience because of zero views.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 05:11 PM
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Good Question. You could write to the author - Erica Coppolillo. Her email is provided on the source page.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 01:14 PM
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Feel free to crosspost or even copy the text and paste into a post. Shorten it if you like. Make memes.... Just don't delete the source, so people can access the full paper.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 12:55 PM
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Hmmm, we can actually help make it go mainstream! Share the summary on X with #Misandry or #MisandryStudy, tag journalists covering gender issues. If we frame it as a call for fairness for all genders, it could catch fire. Also, if we emphasize the study’s unique findings (eg "misandric communities express more negative sentiments”) to show why it’s media worthy. The idea is not to attack feminism but to keep the focus on the study’s data and credibility. Might work!
/r/MensRights26/06/25 12:47 PM
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OP, have you ever seen someone wake up inside a box they were trapped in and then try to fight back using only the rules, the language still “allowed” in that box? That’s what your post feels like. It's alright to feel frustrated. But you’ve already accepted the framing - that men commit 99% of rape/crime/violence. So, here’s the deeper issue: Who defines rape? Who counts it? In India, rape is legally something only men can do. In the US, for years, female perpetuated rape wasn’t even counted. F…
/r/MensRights25/06/25 08:22 AM
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The incident led to Jake spending eight days in a coma and another 74 days in Prince Alfred Hospital’s burn unit in Melbourne. The victim underwent 10 surgeries and can no longer expose his skin to the sun, thus affecting his livelihood of mustering cattle in Queensland. The burns also affected his sweat glands, which in turn means he cannot regulate his body temperature. She was given a sentence to seven-and-a-half-years in prison and would spend a minimum of four-and-a-half-years behind bars. …
/r/MensRights24/06/25 01:11 PM
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Maxority
/r/MensRights24/06/25 01:46 AM
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Do you have any idea how this perception came about? Because if you consider history, literature and even everyday life then there is enough proof that they not only have agency but exercise it properly and are even supported for it. And yet - Judiciary, media and institutions follow this thinking. Is it because it's safer?
/r/MensRights23/06/25 08:21 PM
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I think people deliberately misspell to avoid filters. You must learn to engage with the post rather than trying to troll.
/r/MensRights23/06/25 09:16 AM
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Male expendability is natural, female victimhood universal Lol, where have I heard this one before? This isn’t biology, it’s ideology. If we reduced humans to just ‘mammal instincts,’ we’d actually be throwing women off lifeboats. The dangerous part of this low quality feminist slop is that by calling male sacrifice natural just normalizes society’s indifference to male suffering. That’s core misandry.
/r/MensRights23/06/25 03:39 AM
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Fair enough. You’re still showing up. You still hope. That takes more strength than people think. Sometimes people need to hear they’re already doing the brave part Nevertheless, a gardener will make you bloom and won't care how you do. If only we all learnt to love like gardeners, not like museum curators!
/r/MensRights21/06/25 01:44 AM
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The Mirror That Would Not See Once upon a time, in a land that prized fairness above all, there stood a magical Mirror in the center of the village. It was said the Mirror could reflect the pain of anyone who stood before it, so the people might learn, understand and heal. But the Mirror only worked for some! When a woman stepped before it and quietly shared her sorrow as the village had taught all its people to do - the Mirror shimmered, glowed & showed her tears in vivid colors. The villagers …
/r/MensRights21/06/25 12:50 AM
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How deeply brainwashed - how utterly morally bankrupt must someone be to allow such evil to happen to the children of their own country?
/r/MensRights21/06/25 12:12 AM
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... But what if you are not hard to love. You are just trying to bloom in a season that hasn’t yet come?
/r/MensRights20/06/25 11:02 PM
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OP, Thanks for raising this very important issue. 3 questions for all of us - Did Men report that scene? Have Men ever leave a review or comment calling out gendered violence when it’s against men? Do Men know their country’s media complaint body? Women mass complain about offensive, discriminatory or violence promoting content all the time. Most countries have media regulatory bodies where users can file complaints, but most men don’t even realize this because they’ve never been encouraged to u…
/r/MensRights20/06/25 10:12 AM
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Hey, thanks for sharing your perspective, and it's terrible you had that experience at twelve. Whether the person who catcalled you was 12 or 30 wasn't mentioned, but it's a valid point. This post has a specific note on consent upfront, clarifying it's not a support of harassment or abuse, but rather a look at how natural attraction is conflated with predation. My aim was to discuss this particular nuance. Are you open to engaging with the article's premise? or would you rather keep the focus on…
/r/MensRights19/06/25 01:53 AM
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Real good points! Spot on.
/r/MensRights18/06/25 03:22 PM
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Absolutely - this isn’t just about sexuality - it’s about* who is permitted to express or enjoy it. Your gaming examples totally prove how pervasive it is!
/r/MensRights18/06/25 12:32 PM
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(_/) ( •.•) />❤️ For all Dads out there! Happy Father's Day!
/r/MensRights16/06/25 12:17 AM
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Can you please share the study details, author name, DOI - some info?
/r/MensRights15/06/25 09:16 AM
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Bro, You’ve been through hell. But please don't see yourself as broken or at the end of the line - you’ve been betrayed (period) It's very important for you right now to stop thinking at all (difficult, I know). Stop thinking & start saying this - Fck Everyone! Fck Society! Channel your anger at what's trying to break you and use it to rise. Secondly, please get legal aid and fight to reclaim your rights, your child, pets, home & dignity. We don't want fairness from people who never cared. Just …
/r/MensRights14/06/25 08:08 AM
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Yes, I agree and it's not really fair because the world doesn’t treat men and women equally. Misandry has become institutionalized, while Misogyny as a term is weaponized - even verified data gets dismissed as misogyny. Men are always at a disadvantage, no matter where they turn for help. Every institution seems committed to only one gender. Even in relationships and marriages - beyond the financial and protection burdens, the emotional blackmail slowly destroys men from the inside. It doesn’t m…
/r/MensRights11/06/25 07:18 PM
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Thanks, these are good points :) I agree that some feminists have acknowledged issues like toxic masculinity or unequal parental leave. And honestly, they’re the exceptions that prove the rule, Lol So, this satire is really a critique of how feminism, as a movement, hasn't meaningfully addressed structural issues affecting men like custody bias, suicide or male victims of abuse. It’s not denying that individual feminists have spoken up, but asking: why aren’t these issues a real priority if the …
/r/MensRights11/06/25 01:15 AM
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Lol, it seems weird because this question is still taboo in mainstream debates & even more so because a woman is asking this question. It’s an important question that we typically discuss amongst ourselves - but what if we are seeing the beginning of a cultural shift? What if this becomes normalised in online spaces and instead of asking Why are men afraid of commitment? people start asking Do they even get anything worthwhile out of it? OR it could just be a dipstick test to see how much ground…
/r/MensRights10/06/25 07:29 PM
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OP, this is such a rare and important perspective, especially coming from a woman. I’m genuinely curious - what made you think of this? Was it a personal observation, something you saw around you or just a philosophical question? And what are you hoping people reflect on or take away from this?
/r/MensRights10/06/25 07:07 PM
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Yes bro, what you're doing is very important. The power and control they have today has a complicated history - but in short, it exists because for decades men stayed silent, thinking they were doing the right thing by supporting women’s rights… all while their own rights were quietly stripped away. That silence should end now.
/r/MensRights10/06/25 01:27 AM
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Absolutely. There’s no justification for such an act and no excuse for supporting it. It’s time women stop coddling bad behaviour just because the perpetrator is a woman. This message needs to be made loud and clear to the apologists, to society to SM platforms & to the lawmakers/judiciary: We stand for women’s rights but we will not stay silent about women’s wrongs.
/r/MensRights10/06/25 01:00 AM
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So, these women are so entrenched in their ideology that they can’t even entertain the possibility of a woman being in the wrong. Many of them feel that acknowledging a man's innocence would somehow undermine all the progress made for women. That’s why you’ll see dishonest arguments & twisted logic used repeatedly - all to protect the narrative: Men bad. Women victim. Society unfair. Even if a man lies bleeding from a gunshot wound, they’ll ask what he did to deserve it.
/r/MensRights10/06/25 12:49 AM
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There’s much more to this than name-calling. Soon, the story will slowly shift & he’ll be painted as the villain. Claiming emotional breakdown but fleeing after a premeditated act doesn’t align with being simply “tired” or “abused.” Doris Winters (61) was arrested after attempting to flee the apartment where she had shot the man, 49-year-old Aerion Winters. A witness who was present at the scene said that Winters and her husband were living in separate residences.He drove the victim to Winters’ …
/r/MensRights10/06/25 12:26 AM
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Four weeks? Whoa whoa, let’s not get medieval. How about we settle on two weeks? C'mon And I’ll even watch a full episode of a show with emotional depth without touching my phone.
/r/MensRights09/06/25 03:59 PM
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To those who are wondering - Satire can be a powerful way to de-stress especially for men who often feel silenced or dismissed when speaking directly. It lets us express frustration, pain, or contradictions through humor, without attacking anyone. Sometimes, laughing at the absurdity is the only healthy outlet we have. It’s not about hate but about release, reflection & reclaiming emotional space that’s often denied to us.
/r/MensRights09/06/25 03:51 PM
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Just to understand your position: Are you saying men made all the rules in history? That women had no role, voice, or influence directly or indirectly in how society was shaped? That men designed these systems specifically to hurt themselves in order to maintain power? If that’s the claim, could you point to actual evidence?
/r/MensRights09/06/25 12:36 PM
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Awesome. This is progress.
/r/MensRights09/06/25 02:15 AM
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Oh no - please don’t report me to the Supreme Bro Tribunal. I already lost last week’s manspreading permit & my Quarterly beard oil allowance over a rogue compliment. 😔 I’ll submit Form 69-B for retrospective approval & await my penalty of 15 pushups & one less opinion. Please help me here, brother.
/r/MensRights08/06/25 10:49 PM
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Thank you for stepping up, Sir. We were deeply concerned that nobody had yet claimed responsibility for all male actions across time, space & evolution. Now, if you could also take responsibility for the extinction of the mammoths & inventing the concept of stairs (very sexist), we’d be complete!
/r/MensRights08/06/25 07:39 PM
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This is satire and I put up the disclaimer for that and put it under Humor flair. If a feminist made this post, it would end with, Men are fragile and it’s their fault. Ours ends with: We all got played. And men are tired too. This post isn’t mocking women for struggling. It’s mocking the false promises of modern feminism - the burnout disguised as empowerment, the silence when women suffer in systems built in feminism’s name & the constant deflection when men speak up. We’re just punching at th…
/r/MensRights08/06/25 06:56 PM
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Absolutely! . Misandry has become institutionalized, while misogyny is weaponized - even verified data gets dismissed as misogyny. Men are always at a disadvantage, no matter where they turn for help. Every institution seems committed to only one gender.
/r/MensRights08/06/25 04:43 PM
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Equalism doesn't suit the ideology because it's more like Equality-Never-Gonna-See-It-ism! I'll appreciate it, if you consider my suggestions too - iVictimism™ Misandrism Femanarchy
/r/MensRights08/06/25 09:46 AM
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Feminism didn’t start with a equality mindset. It adopted the language of equality once it realized it needed broader support and feminism began facing criticism for being anti-male or hypocritical in the 1980-90s. This is when equality became a buzzword - not because it was the goal but because it was better marketing.
/r/MensRights08/06/25 09:38 AM
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Can you please share the data source it's easier to understand your position? TIA
/r/MensRights08/06/25 01:54 AM
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Yes, he did.
/r/MensRights07/06/25 07:41 PM
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Your conclusion is way off. I haven't seen your post so please share the link. Men didn’t build the house of misandry - but many now live in it quietly, because they think they have no choice.
/r/MensRights07/06/25 04:17 PM
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Thankyou 😀
/r/MensRights06/06/25 10:33 PM
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Thanks for this article. May I ask how you are able to get images on the post?
/r/MensRights06/06/25 10:07 PM
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Thanks for the suggestion. Unfortunately They don't accept research that is more than 6 months old.
/r/MensRights06/06/25 09:27 PM
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Joint custody, men’s health, equal sentencing… all long overdue. Maybe it’s time we start demanding it louder. Lol
/r/MensRights06/06/25 08:44 PM
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Thankyou 😀
/r/MensRights06/06/25 08:39 PM
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Exactly. Yours is the real-world example of what the study found - where even the police feel confident enough to accuse you purely on instinct. Hope you're doing okay now.
/r/MensRights06/06/25 05:51 PM
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Ha Ha Ha, the sky is blue - agree! But scientists still study why it’s blue. That’s how we understand air quality, build better optics like cameras, telescopes & even predict weather. Same here. This study doesn’t just confirm the obvious, it gives us hard evidence that can be used in court cases, HR policies & even public debates.
/r/MensRights06/06/25 05:42 PM
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If you haven't read Sapiens and The Selfish Gene, I'll recommend you check them out. I’m planning to read about sexual selection next, one of these from my reading list. Any thoughts on which I should read first? The Red Queen: Sex and the Evolution of Human Nature - Matt Ridley The Mating Mind: How Sexual Choice Shaped the Evolution of Human Nature - Geoffrey Miller
/r/MensRights05/06/25 06:36 PM
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This is undeniably a symptom of a seriously dysfunctional society Are you saying that society is dysfunctional today? Lol - it has always been like this. Historically, twice as many women as men reproduced. ~40% of men fathered children, while ~80% of women did. The drive for companionship and family building can be incredibly powerful, and it has been a primary biological directive for all of human history for the most part. Drive exists, but reality is different. While modern day monogamy has …
/r/MensRights05/06/25 06:19 AM
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Totally agree. Just a few suggestions, LoL System Abuse Survivor. Wronged Innocent. Weaponised Feminism Survivor. Victim of Empowerment 2.0.
/r/MensRights05/06/25 03:05 AM
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Hello dentdelion_, thanks for taking this seriously & responding in good faith. However, I want to gently challenge a few things you wrote. Most of what you’ve listed involves - a) Individuals who happen to be feminist doing good work (like Erin Pizzey or Christina Hoff Sommers), b) Or initiatives that include men passively (like HeForShe or MeToo), c) Or programs focused on "fixing" men for women's safety (like Coaching Boys Into Men). That’s very different from feminist organisations actively …
/r/MensRights05/06/25 01:19 AM
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In the tragic Nirbhaya case (Dec 2012), the accused were convicted and sentenced to death within nine months on Sep 13, 2013 despite the complexity of the case & investigation. They were finally executed in Mar 2020. The delay was due to a series of appeals & petitions filed by the convicts, including mercy pleas to the President. These were deliberately staggered one after another. Since Indian law requires all convicts in a case to be executed together, this tactic prolonged the process. Their…
/r/MensRights04/06/25 04:17 PM
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The idea of men and women collaborating on gender issues is commendable - but it’s hardly new. The real challenge lies in the execution. Gendered spaces, especially around emotional topics like rape, often become performative and one-sided. Men are invited but not allowed to speak freely. If they offer nuance, question a narrative, or share personal experience, they’re met with moral shaming or emotional outrage. So, Even well-meaning men self-censor or withdraw feeling these issues aren’t for t…
/r/MensRights04/06/25 01:34 PM
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That's a crazy narrow view. It's like saying don’t get stabbed if you don’t want to bleed. Reproductive autonomy means having a say in what happens afterwards and not just what happened during sex.If a woman can change her mind about motherhood after sex, why can’t a man? If it’s all about consent & autonomy, why is only her autonomy protected by law? Also, paternity fraud violates man's reproductive autonomy, informed consent & obviously his financial & emotional well-being This double standard…
/r/MensRights04/06/25 10:14 AM
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Lol. Ignoring & avoiding my question and linking a travel advisory won’t make the U.S. any safer for white women. Seriously - what’s going on with your numbers? Second, if the U.S. State Department says “rape is increasing” in India, but India’s actual rape rate is 10x lower than the U.S., what exactly are we debating here? If perception based on a few clips matters more to you than actual crime data that says more about your bias than about India. Anyway, I asked what’s going wrong in your own …
/r/MensRights04/06/25 12:24 AM
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You are absolutely right. See these Karen DeCrow quotes - She was a former president of National Organization for Women (NOW) and openly called out the gender imbalance in reproductive rights & urged fairness for men decades ago: “If a woman makes a unilateral decision to bring pregnancy to term, and the biological father does not, and cannot, share in this decision, he should not be liable for 21 years of support... Autonomous women making independent decisions about their lives should not expe…
/r/MensRights03/06/25 11:39 PM
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Just to clarify - when you said ‘unsafe,’ I assumed you meant crime & violence (as most people would). That’s why I responded with crime data. If you’re calling a country ‘unsafe’ because tourists get asked for selfies or stared at & are relying on three SM clips, maybe it’s time to reflect on the standards you’re applying. Why are white women at far higher risk of assault in your own country ? What do you think is going wrong there? Any insights?
/r/MensRights03/06/25 11:21 PM
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Yes, foreigners especially white tourists - do attract attention in certain parts of India where they are rarely seen. It’s usually curiosity, not threat. People may crowd around for selfies, as seen in online clips shared by well meaning locals. That can absolutely feel overwhelming if you're not used to it. But let’s not confuse awkward social behaviour with criminal intent. In fact, it’s a behavior many Indians themselves dislike and openly condemn. Mob mentality isn’t an Indian problem - it’…
/r/MensRights03/06/25 10:28 PM
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Unsafe for women to visit? Sounds like you’ve been a loyal customer of the global victimhood industry. For the record, India’s rape rate was ~2.26 per 100K - lower than the US (~27.3), Sweden (~63.5) If you're genuinely considering a visit, I suggest do your own research instead of relying only on anecdotal accounts or online commentary. While these figures can be influenced by factors like reporting practices and legal definitions, they provide a general overview. - 2025 stats for US & Sweden D…
/r/MensRights03/06/25 10:06 PM
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You too. Cheers! 😊
/r/MensRights03/06/25 07:51 PM
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Look, you don’t have to keep dancing around this. Just ask me out already - I'll allow it this once.
/r/MensRights03/06/25 07:17 PM
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Discussing facts and societal expectations isn’t emotion - it’s clarity. If that makes you uncomfortable, maybe it’s time to rethink what “emotional” really means.
/r/MensRights03/06/25 07:10 PM
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Glad you’re laughing - means you finally realized how silly your arguments sounded. Took a while, but hey, progress!
/r/MensRights03/06/25 07:09 PM
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Lol, your reply is sillier - it's just emotion and selective but unrelated facts. So let’s get this straight: Because some women couldn’t open bank accounts in the 1960s… that somehow means they had no influence over parenting, gender expectations or the glorification of male sacrifice - for thousands of years? Amazing logic. Apparently, men made every cultural rule in history, untouched by the mothers who raised them, the wives who shaped them or the women who mourned them when they died in war…
/r/MensRights03/06/25 06:52 PM
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That’s such a silly take. First, you won’t be able to prove your statement meaningfully. Second, you’re assuming women had zero influence over cultural norms or expectations even though any man in power had mothers, wives, daughters & lovers who shaped his worldview. And third, you’re not even addressing my core argument - just deflecting & ironically defending the double standard we are discussing.
/r/MensRights03/06/25 06:25 PM
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OP, even India’s ancient epic stories have this bias. When Indra desiring Ahalya, disguised himself as her husband & deceived her into intimacy, he was cursed with a thousand vaginas on his body - a grotesque, humiliating punishment. What about her? In some versions, she consented knowingly but overall was either spiritually excused or seen as a victim and granted redemption. Men are punished to set an example. Women are excused to protect a narrative. Some things haven’t changed in 7,000 years.
/r/MensRights03/06/25 05:45 PM
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India leans very high on female bias in media & laws. The feminist lobby is too entrenched (media, NGOs, politics) but we have seen a moderate cultural backlash with open debates on men’s rights emerging in urban areas (lately). As a result, the reluctant Indian media has started highlighting men’s issues grudgingly. The courts have also started acknowledging male victims, especially false cases but the legislature still hasn’t addressed these concerns. So, I will rate India as 8.5/10 where 10 r…
/r/MensRights03/06/25 04:10 PM
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Notice the victimhood drama, fake stats & the ending that still finds a way to blame men. This is the internal world feminism has built - where fear of men is normalized & expected! So yes, this is a feminist post. Feminism doesn’t get to spread this fear and then disown it when it backfires. Either own the worldview you created or stop feeding women stories that make them afraid of half the human race.
/r/MensRights03/06/25 08:56 AM
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An afterthought because of fear of alienating those men who help/ed them achieve their political goals.
/r/MensRights03/06/25 08:22 AM
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Absolutely - but you don't have to. They come to help without invitation, lol
/r/MensRights03/06/25 08:20 AM
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Absolutely - many lesbian feminists were incredible allies during the AIDS crisis. That was about human decency, not ideology. But their kindness doesn’t mean the ideology of feminism prioritized men’s systemic suffering. If anything, it shows that individual women often rise above ideology but the ideology itself never fights for equal reproductive rights, equal criminal protections or against anti male bias in courts.
/r/MensRights03/06/25 08:15 AM
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Sure. Feminist groups were the only ones allowed at the table. Men’s orgs had no political access. So yes - men got scraps, but only after their pain was useful for someone else’s campaign. When exactly did these same feminists fight for equal sentencing, male domestic violence shelters or wrongful rape accusations? Helping once ≠ helping equally.
/r/MensRights03/06/25 08:14 AM
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Lovisa Stannow’s record is impressive but she’s not a “feminist working for men.” She’s a human rights professional who’s worked in war zones, with prisoners, and through organizations like Amnesty and Doctors Without Borders. Her focus has always been on abuse wherever it happens, not on male or female identity politics. Calling her work “feminist support for men” is like claiming the Red Cross is feminist because they help injured men.
/r/MensRights03/06/25 08:10 AM
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Valerie Solanas shot a man, wanted to exterminate men, stayed committed to that goal & was welcomed by feminist publications - she even edited one. The SCUM Manifesto continues to be sold and taught. Infact, some feminists treat it as a necessary provocation. The ideology of SCUM is welcomed, quoted & amplified in feminist circles - not rejected. To claim her manifesto is an accurate representation of widely held feminist beliefs is absurd. Robin Morgan, Ti-Grace Atkinson, Andrea Dworkin
/r/MensRights03/06/25 08:05 AM
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TBH, this is the first time I’ve seen someone try to discredit a genuine fight for men’s rights… by saying “but she said feminist things too.” Cool. So feminism wins as long as someone else did the actual work. Lol
/r/MensRights03/06/25 07:10 AM
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If my argument is too polished/coherent for you, maybe the issue isn’t an AI tool but the depth of the discussion you’re used to. Maybe you should try engaging with the argument, not the imaginary bot behind it.
/r/MensRights03/06/25 03:53 AM
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And yet you have not shared a single example? I'd love to see some concrete examples, please.
/r/MensRights02/06/25 10:36 PM
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Lol, there is no explicit or implicit support required or expected from feminists here. I am looking for examples - even global, where feminists have done anything for Men. Just examples.
/r/MensRights02/06/25 10:17 PM
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Ok, I took a glance but let me go through it in detail. Thanks.
/r/MensRights02/06/25 10:13 PM
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I just checked because it looked like you were asking for help.
/r/MensRights02/06/25 09:51 PM
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No worries. I really appreciate your efforts. Get as examples many as you can. Something from a credible source, so no one can question it - if you know what I mean!
/r/MensRights02/06/25 09:49 PM
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Did you come here for help with women's rights?
/r/MensRights02/06/25 09:46 PM
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I love how eloquently you wrote this. Could you write a shorter version to put on a T-shirt?
/r/MensRights02/06/25 09:11 PM
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Hello, thanks for sharing. I am looking for some concrete examples. As an example - but reversed, I came across this recently: In May 2024, a public awareness campaign in Naples, Italy, aimed at highlighting violence against men, featured billboards that promoted a helpline (1523) for male victims of abuse. . Despite its focus on supporting male victims, the campaign faced backlash from over 90 feminist organizations and 130 women's shelters. These groups signed an open letter to the Mayor of Na…
/r/MensRights02/06/25 08:57 PM
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Just to clarify - are you mocking feminism's contradictions or mocking men for finding protection only after identifying as women? Your comment seems layered. Curious what you actually think?
/r/MensRights02/06/25 02:53 PM
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That’s a great example and in fact, it highlights something important. Ruth Bader Ginsburg didn’t just fight for women; she fought for constitutional equality. She strategically chose male plaintiffs, like in Moritz v. Commissioner, because she knew the all-male Supreme Court would more easily see the absurdity of gender discrimination when men were the ones harmed by it. Her statement - “I knew that I was speaking to nine men... So I chose cases where the gender line disadvantaged men, because …
/r/MensRights02/06/25 01:37 PM
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OP, I don't think this needs any more refinement. Your vision is already sharp. Now; it simply needs - Execution.
/r/MensRights02/06/25 06:35 AM
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You are right - the real crisis isn’t just dating - it’s purpose, dignity & value for young men in today’s system.
/r/MensRights31/05/25 08:41 PM
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TBH, this is what got me irritated - they scraped 10,000 threads but only analyzed 171 for their actual findings? Then, they don’t tell us how many individuals these 171 threads represent. Are they quoting a handful of extremely online guys XX times each? Or is it a wider sample? There’s no clarity! Doesn't it feel like a case of cherry picking data to fit a pre-decided narrative. Worse, they focused on rot for the study - ie, they intentionally searched for despair & then used that to generaliz…
/r/MensRights31/05/25 08:34 PM
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Quote from the article: It's important to remember that it's not zero-sum. We can care about the well-being of women and girls and also acknowledge that young men are struggling, too. This article feels like it's gaslighting : When women suffer, articles demand justice, reform & accountability from systems. When men suffer, articles ask for empathy, listening & patience while deflecting systemic blame. This brainrot double standard makes the empathy totally manipulative - it’s basically a strate…
/r/MensRights31/05/25 06:55 PM
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So, genuinely wondering - We’ve talked about this for years. What’s our plan to stop feminist lies and misrepresentations?
/r/MensRights31/05/25 04:10 AM
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OP, This is a useful list of alternative viewpoints on top feminist talking points.
/r/MensRights30/05/25 04:46 PM
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Norway uses the same requirements for both men & women & has seen positive integration results, with women serving even in elite units. The focus is on functional capability, not gender. You are correct - physical differences can influence role assignment but most modern militaries aim for fairness by matching individuals to roles based on ability, aptitude & training results, not assumptions. All roles - combat or support are valued appropriately.
/r/MensRights30/05/25 09:15 AM
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It’s positively wild how Brownmiller’s 1975 book Against Our Will is still treated like sacred feminist literature - even though it reflects a worldview shaped more by internalized trauma than reason. She grew up as the only child of Jewish immigrants, raised on stories of pogroms & genocide. Hearing, and perhaps over - identifying with that kind of violence embedded itself deeply. Later, radical feminism gave her a new lens: one where men were the ever present threat & rape became a tool of sys…
/r/MensRights29/05/25 11:05 PM
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Keep this checklist handy whether you are marrying within your own country or abroad. Precautions to Take Before Marriage (General + International) Get a prenup/postnup - Fair, transparent, and legally enforceable in both countries. Keep premarital assets separate - Use trusts, LLCs, or separate accounts. Avoid joint ownership early on - Especially for inherited or family property. Consult legal counsel in both countries - Laws vary; dual advice prevents surprises. Document financial transparenc…
/r/MensRights29/05/25 08:40 PM
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Absolutely, not all military roles require the same physical demands. Gender neutral conscription can include a variety of positions - both combat & non-combat, allowing individuals to serve in capacities that align with their abilities and strengths. Norway & Israel are pioneers in Gender neutral conscription.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 10:02 AM
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Thanks for sharing your experience - it’s clear you've seen how difficult it is to raise men's issues in the political space. You're absolutely right that many politicians either don’t know or don’t want to take risks due to potential backlash. Very sad state of affairs. Hopefully, Men will be seen as a constituency with real & neglected concerns & not as a threat.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 07:34 AM
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Original Headline: Woman Accused of 'Smacking' Boy Who Called Her 'Fat' at Airport Faces Felony Child Abuse Charges “Smacking” sounds mild - even borderline justifiable, especially when framed as a reaction to name calling. But the actual behavior described in the article - fist strikes, blows with a water bottle, slamming his head into a window goes far beyond a “smack.” Headlines if the Genders Were Reversed: Man Allegedly Slams Little Girl’s Head Into Window at Airport After She Calls Him Fat…
/r/MensRights29/05/25 05:55 AM
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That’s a powerful way to put it - like water, steady and persistent from both directions. I really like that. You’re right, it’s not either/or - real change often needs the outside pressure and the inside shift working together. That kind of clarity only comes from experience and it’s inspiring to see.
/r/MensRights28/05/25 10:52 PM
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Oh man, that’s incredibly heartbreaking to hear - you built something that could’ve made a real difference only to have it destroyed by devil-spawn. I admire how you’ve regrouped and chosen to keep going by working from within the system. Wishing you all the best as you move forward - your story will definitely stay with me. Thanks for sharing it.
/r/MensRights28/05/25 10:25 PM
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That feels a bit disingenuous - legislation can’t really be discussed meaningfully without looking at enforcement and impact. That was my whole point. Also, I didn’t mention income inequality at all. Great talk, bye.
/r/MensRights28/05/25 10:14 PM
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Thanks for sharing - burnout is real & pursuing change can be exhausting. It’s important to take care of yourself mate. If you’re comfortable, would you mind sharing some of the low points or challenges you faced? Hearing about what’s hardest can help others prepare & maybe find better ways forward. Sometimes the toughest stories spark the most useful insights.
/r/MensRights28/05/25 09:52 PM
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I understood the question to be location agnostic - until laws are fair everywhere, it's hard to claim real progress. These are systemic design flaws. And just to nudge the irony: if gender neutrality on paper alone meant real world fairness, I’m guessing American men must be living their best lives, right?
/r/MensRights28/05/25 09:42 PM
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Yes, you're right about the U.S. - the laws may be gender-neutral in wording but enforcement & societal perceptions often lead to unequal treatment in practice. On the other hand, there are countries like India where the laws are not gender neutral even on paper and others like the UK & Japan, where gender neutrality in law is still a work in progress.
/r/MensRights28/05/25 09:19 PM
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Yesterday I made post sharing how I felt radical feminists were immature in their behaviour and how I would be able to take them more seriously if they behaved responsibly. OP, You expected to say the truth and not be punished? How naive! 😂
/r/MensRights28/05/25 08:23 PM
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Good core question - Make all gender based violence laws gender neutral. End male only obligations (e.g. conscription, alimony, forced paternity) Ensure equal legal presumption in custody (e.g. shared parenting as default), divorce and rape laws. Also, by extension equalise false rape allegations to rape in terms of punishment. These changes are essential to ending the current invisibility of men as victims - invisibility created by laws that assume men are always strong, responsible for abusive…
/r/MensRights28/05/25 08:07 PM
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Of course he didn’t notice. Men never do I’d never trust a man alone with children He’s just being a baby. . He’s over 30 and single? Something’s wrong with him. (got banned for this from a sub because I said that "it's a wrong thing to generalise like this : everyone - men & women have their own circumstances & life choices") 😂
/r/MensRights28/05/25 05:10 PM
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OP, I agree with your observations. I personally feel we need two things - Men’s safe spaces and training to handle/manage the ogres & devil-spawn (spotting and nullifying tone traps, whataboutism, guilt-flipping, false equivalence & identity gaslighting kind of things)! So, safe spaces are the healing ground. But when you go to public forums, it's always a battlefield and the training will help.
/r/MensRights28/05/25 08:00 AM
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The men are visual, women are emotional thing is oversimplified BS. Attraction is a mix of biology, psychology & social conditioning for both genders - it’s not at all black & white. So I agree, women often chase the optics - the tall, charming guy with a 6 figure income. Then they get run over & in the end - average men have to deal with the bitterness they didn’t cause.
/r/MensRights27/05/25 04:23 PM
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Didn't we call it barbaric and had stopped it?
/r/MensRights26/05/25 06:33 PM
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Victorian Police Association secretary Wayne Gatt says officers remain under constant pressure and often have to fight for their lives while on duty. . "This is what our (police) members are dealing with on a regular occasion … confronted by people in vehicles like this. It can be not only life-altering, but it can end your life," he said. . "There's no magic wand for situations like this. . "When a car's coming at you, there's not a lot you can do it, and it is literally a case of do or die.".
/r/MensRights25/05/25 11:43 AM
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Yes - you are correct, that applies to normal people.
/r/MensRights25/05/25 11:39 AM
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will a feminist woman marry and take care of him?? Bro, that sentence violates the core principles of modern feminism. Take care of him?? That’s blasphemy.
/r/MensRights25/05/25 11:16 AM
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OP, You're making a fair & under discussed point - feminist narratives have revised, simplified & selectively framed history & this framing has been globally absorbed & echoed, including in countries like India where the actual historical context is quite different, Lol In India's case: - Women and men were granted the right to vote in 1950, at the same time - when India became a Republic. But the women here still talk about voting rights that they had to fight for. So, the global feminist narra…
/r/MensRights23/05/25 08:09 PM
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Yes, that can be a fun way to learn skills too - especially if you have access to wild or semi-wild areas nearby. (The park behind Ikea doesn’t count, lol). I suggested creative activities because they start off slow but really hook you in. You face all these little problems to solve along the way and before you know it, you’ve built real skill.
/r/MensRights23/05/25 01:36 AM
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Wonderful post, though I don't completely agree with the Let’s Be Honest About What This Really Is section. Focusing solely on romantic relationships just intensifies feelings of loneliness. There is a lot of value in other forms of connection as well. My suggestions for men to consider individually - Engage & participate in community service or volunteering. This will provide a sense of purpose & belonging. Initiate & nurture male friendships. Even a fist bump a day can keep the therapist away.…
/r/MensRights22/05/25 09:26 PM
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OP, this is painful, but think ahead & without hating me, consider this idea. While you'll always be the real father, your child needs a father figure. Try to get your wife remarried or at least get her into a cohabitation arrangement. Depending on your location, with sufficient evidence of cohabitation, you can get the alimony adjusted or terminated if the wife remarries. Consider doing this stealthily. Remember, your child needs a father figure in their life.
/r/MensRights22/05/25 01:06 AM
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I think it could be because Men don’t vote as a bloc unlike identity based groups like women, Black voters or LGBTQ+. Men are not a unified voting demographic in their eyes.
/r/MensRights20/05/25 08:39 PM
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OP, I suggest you also post this on the following subs: SociopathCommunity TwoXChromosomesExposed FeminismUncensored Known_Ongoing_Frauds Scammer_Radicals /S
/r/MensRights19/05/25 08:42 AM
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Complaining gives moral high ground. You can participate fully & then later flip the script and say “he didn’t know how to please me.” It keeps the control in her hands, especially in a culture that sees women as passive or acted upon. If he walks away feeling inadequate, he’ll try harder next time. That’s the play.
/r/MensRights16/05/25 11:20 AM
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This is an interesting article - Why Women Complain (and Why Men Should Do More of it) - Written by Dr. Kathy McMahon
/r/MensRights16/05/25 11:11 AM
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Please take another look at my comment. I wasn’t criticizing your parenting - if anything, I equated your approach with what good parents are supposed to do (see the first paragraph). My critique was aimed at how culture and policy shape outcomes, not at you personally. Your experience with an absent, abusive father actually underscores the need for male centered support structures - mentors, peer groups, and spaces that help boys grow into stable men. The problem isn’t “women” but how feminists…
/r/MensRights15/05/25 07:06 PM
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OP, I can't reach the link and couldn't find anything using Google search. Any alternative links?
/r/MensRights15/05/25 05:10 PM
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supposed "widespread discrimination" against women. Feminists (of all kinds) oppose lopsided, asymmetric laws they helped create, not just to retain legal advantages, but also because: It threatens their moral superiority control. It risks their funding & political leverage. It forces society to face uncomfortable truths about female agency. It undermines false narratives that they've built And the biggest irony is that true equality that they claim to fight for would make their movement largely…
/r/MensRights15/05/25 05:04 PM
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WRT raising your son - it's awesome that you helped him build his identity outside of his relationships with women & I’m sure it made a difference in his life. However, I can’t help wondering - isn’t this what most good parents are supposed to do anyway? Help their kids build an identity, find interests, grow confidence etc.? In a way, it feels like you were solving a problem that shouldn’t have existed in the first place. A generation ago, boys had male mentors, peer groups & male centered spac…
/r/MensRights15/05/25 02:42 PM
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I appreciate you appreciating me opening up, lol. Nice of you to notice :) I think I’ve heard of that book, but, if you are suggesting the world favors women, I’m not sure I will ever agree with that. I’m not asking you to agree or disagree right now - just thought you might find this book interesting since it dives into the kind of societal support for women you were curious about. Don’t get me wrong. I see plenty of injustices, if you will, toward men and boys that I feel are valid. For exampl…
/r/MensRights14/05/25 11:25 PM
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Maybe I should elaborate - Desire isn’t the problem; it’s just incomplete unless followed by curiosity, respect & care. Attraction & desire mostly come first. People are naturally drawn to others - physically, emotionally or even intellectually. That initial desire isn’t “bad” or “shallow”, it’s just a starting point. Getting to know each other through conversations, experiences & sometimes physical closeness helps people understand if they are compatible. It’s normal at this time to feel some u…
/r/MensRights14/05/25 10:36 PM
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Fair point & I respect you for opening up. I'd really suggest reading The War on Boys by Christina Hoff Sommers. it covers exactly the kind of systemic imbalance I’m referring to. Once we’re on the same page with the bigger picture, we can definitely deep dive into both personal struggles and broader patterns. Why all this weird competition? Lol, The ‘competition’ started when systems were tilted in favor of one gender, while pretending equality was the goal. If you want to talk fairness, we'll …
/r/MensRights14/05/25 09:46 PM
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Glad we agree now that abuse isn’t gender-specific - Enjoy your day!
/r/MensRights14/05/25 09:01 PM
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OK, so now it’s not “men are abusers,” it’s “power enables abuse”? Fair point. But then the framing in your original statement was still loaded - it assumed the man would abuse his position.
/r/MensRights14/05/25 08:56 PM
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It's difficult to give relatable examples when you don't know someone, so I went with the generic ones. Women need to work too, a lot of them don't want to be financially dependant on a man to be abused. Lol, what a twisted way to think. So financial dependence on men = abuse? Are men abusers by default now?" I do agree they are thought as more valuable than men. Yes, Men are born without value - they have to earn it. Women are born with value - they have to preserve it.
/r/MensRights14/05/25 08:50 PM
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Have you ever gone through any situations in life where you had to figure things out on your own? It might’ve been a big messy crisis or just an everyday issue - but you had no choice but to handle it alone. You possibly learnt some bitter but fundamental life truths like: You don’t really hold value unless you have a job or money. Love for some people can be fleeting - you might’ve been someone’s whole world two weeks ago & now they don’t even want to see your face. Lifelong friendships can bre…
/r/MensRights14/05/25 08:34 PM
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Today’s education system often favors girls with structure & verbal learning, while boys struggle to fit the mold. But when it comes to life’s real lessons, the 'school of hard knocks' — it’s often boys who are forced to adapt, while girls are more shielded by societal support.
/r/MensRights14/05/25 05:01 PM
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Lol, true! We all learn the hard way!
/r/MensRights14/05/25 03:54 PM
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Feminists are toxic in just two ways; What they do and what they say. Only two paths to spread the decay; Everything they do and everything they say. 😂😂
/r/MensRights14/05/25 11:11 AM
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So two incidents come to mind - I once got called a misogynist because I asked why women get free entry at clubs while men have to pay. I said, "Isn't equality supposed to go both ways?" That’s literally all I said. Within seconds, one woman snapped back, "Wow, you must really hate women." Another time, I watched a YouTube Short of a women's football match where two female players got into a heated argument and even a bit of a physical altercation. I left a comment saying, Women are more emotion…
/r/MensRights14/05/25 11:04 AM
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OP, take a look at The India Justice Report - 2025 and issues/recommendations. You can read my summary if you are interested - otherwise access the full report with the link provided in the post. It will help you refine your thoughts and ideas. You can also take a look at The World Justice Project (WJP) and Rule of Law Index® to see where India stands in comparison to other countries. I have provided an overview and you can also access the report from the link provided in the post.
/r/MensRights14/05/25 07:25 AM
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Wholesome post! I loved the way you wrote it.
/r/MensRights14/05/25 06:48 AM
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I’ve been seeing quite a few stories about female sex offenders this year. If this is part of a growing trend, it really needs to be studied more seriously. Parents and especially boys should be made aware of the risks, including the psychological impact. On the positive side, at least these cases are being reported now instead of being hushed up or brushed aside. Also positive that the school district took immediate and appropriate action firing the employee, involving law enforcement & communi…
/r/MensRights13/05/25 08:03 PM
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Men's Rights are Human Rights (and that includes everyone!)
/r/MensRights13/05/25 05:11 AM
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If egalitarian feminism supports equality for both men and women, then why use the word "feminism" at all - especially when it carries historical baggage and is perceived (rightly) as being women-centric? Wouldn’t it be more accurate and inclusive to simply advocate egalitarianism, without the gendered prefix? Otherwise, doesn't the name itself already show a bias? Just trying to understand what does “egalitarian feminism” offer that plain egalitarianism doesn’t, apart from trying to stay releva…
/r/MensRights13/05/25 03:44 AM
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TBH the only thing I know is that every sub has its own rules for content - sometimes just framing it differently works - sometimes nothing works, lol. Men's Rights voices are fragmented on Reddit. Just try to get in touch with the mods and see if they can advise you about what's allowed and what's not.
/r/MensRights13/05/25 12:32 AM
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Isn't this also called baccha baazi? I had read about it in relation to Afghanistan a few years ago. Really heartbreaking to see that it's also prevalent in Pakistan. Thanks for raising it and I hope that some kind of awareness campaigns are run about it in Pakistan for parents. I am only aware of SPARC that works for children's causes. Maybe they could be a good place to reach out to for support or to push for awareness campaigns.
/r/MensRights13/05/25 12:25 AM
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It's actually good - only if they grow up hearing that being “empowered” means being prepared, responsible and aware. Not expecting a special safety net while rejecting advice as “victim blaming.” Just like a man is told: Don’t pick fights, stay out of trouble and keep yourself safe, a woman too should hear the same - not as a warning, but as a life skill.
/r/MensRights13/05/25 12:00 AM
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Thanks for sharing - it’s honest! I’m really glad you found your match by choosing authenticity. That’s the win that matters - not perfection, just being real But I want to offer a slightly different perspective on this part Many males desire me, but they don't actually like me. To be perceived as a tool is soul destroying. I think you are saying that men may be attracted to you physically or superficially, but not actually want to know, respect or connect with your whole self. That’s a legitima…
/r/MensRights12/05/25 04:03 PM
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Awesome post but I can’t tell if this is performance anxiety or just frustration with modern dating’s impossible contradictions (which is fair). Either way - The ‘perfect man’ is a myth. Don’t try to become one. Don’t entertain anyone who expects one. And TBH - this list will be outdated in a few years anyway.
/r/MensRights11/05/25 10:11 PM
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Dear friend Lu - I liked it. This feels like draft-1d. of something really important! If you ever want a sounding board or want to collaborate, drop me a note. Just one thought - a tiny thing that could make this stand out and become real - What is masculinity & what should it become? Is it Energy? Duty? Expression? Presence? Service? This could be the backbone this incredible work is looking for.
/r/MensRights11/05/25 08:10 PM
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Annual Victims: Approximately 13.5 million people are stalked in the U.S. each year. Source PDF: Maryland Coalition Against Sexual Assault Lifetime Prevalence: Nearly 1 in 3 women (31.2%) and 1 in 6 men (16.1%) have experienced stalking at some point in their lives. Source PFF: Centers for Disease Control and Prevention
/r/MensRights09/05/25 10:54 PM
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OP, despite your pushback against misandry, you're still operating within the language & conceptual boundaries set by feminists. They own the definitions - so even rebuttals end up stuck in their framework which keeps their narrative in control. Feminist defined terms like patriarchy, rape culture, and systemic misogyny are designed to center women's experiences as the default lens for interpreting society, power and harm & always in ways that minimize or erase male experiences that don’t fit th…
/r/MensRights09/05/25 10:01 PM
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If a man said: “Every woman who says she’s being abused or alienated is probably exaggerating or lying, based on the women I’ve known…” …they’d be called misogynist and their post/comment will be called out for dangerous generalizations. Yet this post does exactly that to men. I don't know why, but such posts sound like they are meant to bully vulnerable men.
/r/MensRights09/05/25 12:47 AM
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Portraying men as victims of violence or in undignified situations is always considered as humorous. It’s a common trope in reels, ads, movies and even social campaigns. I am with you on this - these can be pretty harmful. So, what do women do when they see unfair or stereotyped depictions of women in the media?They raise complaints. They approach regulatory bodies, watchdog organizations, advertisers & content creators to demand removal, apology and amendment. They don’t stay silent. So, Men sh…
/r/MensRights08/05/25 11:01 PM
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Respect for speaking up - most people stay shut and then complain the world's changing too fast. But here's a thought experiment: The objectification of women has been discussed for decades across academia, media & activism. So why is it still 'unsolved'? If it's such a known issue and the world has shifted so much in favour of feminist discourse - then what's holding it back? Maybe the problem isn't as simple as 'men treat women like objects'. Maybe there's something deeper - something contradi…
/r/MensRights08/05/25 09:16 PM
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This is a bigger problem than you can imagine and not just women but even men perpetuate it - Female desire = emotional, elevated, justified. Male desire = base, shameful, suspect. The truth is that both genders have similar valid needs - emotional, physical, psychological and both can act out in destructive ways when those needs are not met. But the moral framing of desire is hugely asymmetric and that affects how we interpret cheating, sex drive and relationship dynamics. In my view, it's easi…
/r/MensRights07/05/25 09:55 PM
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You are absolutely right! But, it also got me thinking ... Help me choose or should we keep both? Femterrupting "Can you stop *femterrupting** for a second? I’m actually trying to finish my point."* "I tried explaining my point, but she kept *femterrupting** me before I could even finish a sentence."* Divalogue "Can we stay on topic instead of turning this into another *divalogue** about your personal struggles?"* "I was trying to discuss the issue logically, but she turned it into a full-blown …
/r/MensRights07/05/25 01:17 PM
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We need a better word than disparity here - gender apartheid?
/r/MensRights06/05/25 06:12 PM
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I think we both see this differently. I see strength & status as intertvined & you see status as pure perception. I’ve laid out my case and if you still disagree - that’s fine. But the key point remains: boys need support systems feminist frameworks can never provide. That’s the real discussion! Also, you can’t equate thousands of years old social contract (even if it's imperfect) with a politicized movement that actively opposes male advocacy. Don’t confuse legacy with lobbying, Lol. Finally, N…
/r/MensRights05/05/25 09:27 AM
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I might end up repeating myself, so let me come at your point about status from another angle. Take Godfather for example - Where does Corleone’s status come from? He’s respected and feared but it’s not just perception. It stems from personal strengths (wisdom, calmness under pressure), support structures (family, loyal friends, community respect) and his ability to deliver justice where the system fails. Without those structures, his strength and therefore status would simply collapse! That’s t…
/r/MensRights05/05/25 01:15 AM
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Bro, your voice matters. You’ve put into words what so many men silently carry. And this - "It’s like the mayor’s phone and the bat signal is only for half the world..." belongs on a T-shirt. Or a damn billboard.
/r/MensRights04/05/25 06:25 PM
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Totally agree that men are no less necessary. But I’d challenge the equivalence between traditionalist systems & feminist frameworks. Traditional approaches with all their flaws still offer men dignity, purpose and coping tools. Not always healthy - but it gaives them a form of strength and a place in the social fabric. Contrast this with frameworks many boys are raised into today - specially those influenced by feminism - they lack these supportive structures. Instead they instill feelings of g…
/r/MensRights04/05/25 05:26 PM
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When someone uses the 'incel' label mid-argument - that’s usually a sign they’ve run out of actual points. They’re mad because you called them out and now they’re frustrated. It’s like their brain-rot starts acting up - they’re so stuck in their ideological bubble that they can’t even imagine another perspective. That’s a clear sign of intellectual decay and lack of communication skills. Looking at your comments on this post just reminded me of how feminism has only managed to create an army of …
/r/MensRights03/05/25 01:26 AM
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Wow, Nice Post. You sound like a field strategist :)
/r/MensRights02/05/25 11:22 PM
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