Squidney995 Archive

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14	My BFs reaction to minor inconveniences worries me Wow. Unless he gets some serious therapy to understand why he is so bothered by minor inconveniences and does such horrible things in reaction, I don't think it's a good idea to remain in a relationship with him. However, him doubling down, being proud to tell his kids about this? Unlikely he'd accept therapy. Telling potential buyers about issues is one thing, but letting his dog roam is a recipe for disaster, and smearing poop is unhinged. What will happen once you're in the apartment together…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/09/22 10:01 PM
5	Boyfriend doesn’t pay for dates It can be awkward to start talking about finances, especially in new relationships, but your options are to legitimately talk about it (rather than just hinting because let's be honest, he doesn't seem to be taking the hint), let it bother you and build resentment for him, or figure out how to let it go. And I would try to bring it up naturally, rather than point blank asking where he gets his money from. Maybe you have a funny story from your first job that you just remembered? Then he will off…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/09/22 03:13 AM
5	Boyfriend doesn’t pay for dates Have you tried asking him? Does he see this as a serious relationship with an eye towards the future and marriage? Or is he still just dating for fun? If it is serious, you'll have to talk about finances and expectations surrounding planning and paying for dates. The fact you're both broke college students certainly doesn't lend itself to him paying for everything, but perhaps find a method that works for you both. Could you perhaps venmo him the cost of your meal, or slip him some cash in priva…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/09/22 02:09 AM
2	How does one balance being bisexual and marriage? Absolutely. It's not my favorite thing to do, but I like pleasing and reciprocating. There's definitely other ways to spice it up besides a basic BJ	/r/RedPillWomen	17/09/22 09:27 PM
6	How does one balance being bisexual and marriage? I've met one man who wouldn't ever let me give him a BJ because he said he just didn't like it. He didn't mind going down on me though. I felt so bad not being able to reciprocate that it didn't last long.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/09/22 09:12 PM
3	Man's view on IUDs I got on the pill when I was 18. I knew there could be side effects but got it anyway and was fine. Close to a year in, I got more irritable and moody but chalked it up to working 70 hour weeks over summer breaks from college. I've progressively gotten worse, losing sex drive, gaining a little weight that doesn't want to come off. I've chalked all the side effects up to a result of life, rather than bc because it took years for me to notice. I've got everything going for me now and I'm still mis…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/09/22 01:43 AM
2	I am a messy person. Check out Clutterbug. She's got a website and YouTube channel where you can clean at the same time as she is. Her theory breaks decluttering/organization into a couple different categories to find what is most functional for you. She's got a good Ted Talk too, maybe watch that first. ETA: something that's seriously starting to help me is the "only touch it once" principle. Found elsewhere but helps me just do it rather than put something down and procrastinate	/r/RedPillWomen	31/08/22 09:58 PM
29	How can I step into the role of giving less and receiving more? It sounds like he doesn't think about you. A strong provider will care for you when you're sick, make meals, do some cleaning while you can't. Someone you have been with for over 3 years and plans to marry you should care a little more. It seems like he is using "stoicism" as a catalyst for learned helplessness.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/08/22 10:07 PM
1	My girlfriend has had sex with 7 different people is that bad? Have you had a discussion with her about it past just finding out the number? Maybe learn her reasons why and how she feels about it looking back. Details about each one or timeline don't really matter unless she's willing to share and you're willing to listen without judgement. She isn't less than just because she's had sex. Personally I went from 0-9 in my first year of college alone for reasons I won't share here, and I am 23 now with a wonderful boyfriend that hasn't been with as many people…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/08/22 11:18 AM
4	Choosing to adopt or not I would absolutely hate to make any child feel that way, and I'm sorry your mom has that trauma. I'm sure being outnumbered by her siblings didn't help. Thank you for sharing. I know it's truly a fine line to walk, and I've certainly got plenty of time to learn more about how to handle things before I get there	/r/RedPillWomen	09/07/22 04:43 PM
9	Choosing to adopt or not I'll admit that I don't have children of my own, as my partner and I are planning to wait until after marriage and after I have completed a masters degree. I have never really been enthusiastic about being pregnant and going through childbirth, but have always wanted to foster or adopt. My partner is on board with this idea so far. There's a lot going into this decision, more than I can put in one comment, but I'd like to have one biological child and adopt more, or foster. There's a lot of kids…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/07/22 08:16 PM