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Errrr. No, this won't go any way like it will in your fantasy lol.
/r/seduction28/01/21 08:39 AM
3

I'be bungee jumped before and I felt the same thing. I forgot how scary the whole experience was.
/r/seduction03/01/16 01:51 PM
1

You know I started with The Power of Now but couldn't get into it. I might start reading it again.
/r/seduction09/12/15 05:00 PM
5

Well this was familiar. Fuck. What's with the necklace though? Does it represent singleness or something?
/r/seduction08/12/15 10:53 PM
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Yeah I agree, there are some parts you need to take with a grain of salt. Same goes with The Power of Now.
/r/seduction01/12/15 06:48 AM
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I would recommend to also start reading The way of the superior man. In my comment above in this thread you can read why I think this book is important.
/r/seduction30/11/15 11:49 PM
2

When I binge watch series on Netflix I always feel so useless afterwards, like I waste a whole day doing nothing but watching series. However when I play video games I might feel some slight regret but it's a lot less with series. I wonder why? I'm really trying to do my best to not start gaming whenever I get home from work, I even don't like the game I'm playing. ..while writing this I realise I'm avoiding my tasks and my life in general by playing that stupid game. I already kind of knew this…
/r/seduction30/11/15 11:29 PM
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Also check out The way of the superior man, I'm 24 myself and started reading it recently. It gave me great insights on how I should see myself and why playing too much video games (or any other activity your parents wouldn't call a hobby) is something you should reduce. Edit: In the book the author talks about finding your inner/ultimate purpose and dedicate everything in life to fulfill that purpose. This way you are the best and truest version of yourself which will make you happy and also at…
/r/seduction30/11/15 11:21 PM
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I remember reading A Thousand Tiny Failures. I will read this book as well, thanks!
/r/seduction19/11/15 01:20 PM
3

I'm a fan of the smirk emoji in these situations. You can send them with a black background. Maybe with a line like 'I like where this is going'. If you have abs, you might send a picture of them. I don't think you should send a dick pic, but if she asks for one, get some inspiration from the Critique My Dick Pic Tumblr. Also question what do you do when you know this girl send her picture to you along with a bunch of other guys? How do you make yourself stand out?
/r/seduction11/11/15 12:01 AM
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Funny to see all these negative comments, I think the list could be pretty helpful. It's all about context and the way you say it. I noticed Cajun's 'Do you think I look like a drug dealer?' in this list and in the way he says it, that line totally works. Some of them are not openers per se, but great for continuing conversation if you can't think of anything else to say.
/r/seduction18/10/15 09:13 AM
3

I'm curious if there are a lot of Dutch sedditors? I'm from Brabant though, so Amsterdam won't work for me. Maybe later when I live there for my internship.
/r/seduction08/08/15 04:23 PM
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Well you're pretty direct, so that's good. Maybe you can become even more direct so you won't come of as cheesy and someone who says this to every girl. You: 'Hey nice outfit'/random question about where you can find a coffee shop or something She: 'Thanks'/gives directions You: 'Okay I'll be honest, I saw you and thought you were really cute, so that was my excuse to come talk to you.' Now look at her expression, if she smiles and even when she's not, put your hand out and ask: You: What's your…
/r/seduction06/08/15 09:31 PM
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I'm quite aware of the stuff happening around me and I really enjoy watching other guys trying to pick up girls.
/r/seduction02/08/15 12:08 PM
2

Be cocky and direct. Show girls your intentions and tease them with it.
/r/seduction31/07/15 03:34 PM
1

You can really hack your brain. Problem is you're already doing it by thinking negatively about yourself. If you believe you don't have confidence, you indeed won't have any. If you tell yourself you are the man, you'll act upon it, because you want to be aligned with the image you have of yourself. Read Psyco Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz for more about this. Really awesome stuff.
/r/seduction05/08/14 11:10 PM
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Push/pull is based on complimenting a girl, followed by giving her a 'neg'/tease her. You show interest but you don't come across as needy or overcomplimenting the girl. This works because the girl knows you want her, but she isn't getting your attention easily. Simple example: when you kiss a girl, you can take your head back and look her in the eyes, and go back in for the kiss. But now when she comes to your head with her lips, you can pull your head back in so she needs to come closer and th…
/r/seduction05/08/14 10:36 PM
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Awesome!
/r/seduction29/07/14 05:41 PM
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Follow your impulses. Don't doubt it, just do the things you would've done if you were drunk. Also change your perception of reality. You are awesome, people want to meet you, girls want your attention. Keep that frame.
/r/seduction03/03/14 03:24 AM
1

I know I'm a week late, but man it's a shame Bravo gets so much hate in this post. Why would you bash on someone who provides a service in exchange for money people are willing to pay? Of all the mPUA's/dating coaches out there I believe Bravo is one of the most honest guys you can find. As he said, he doesn't use annoying ads or any other subtle ways to get money from innocent men. He provides a service, he provides knowledge he gathered from years of experience and he provides a few nights out…
/r/seduction28/02/14 12:42 AM
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And we also have a tv-show about people with handicaps who are trying to date. In the first episode there was a guy with a stutter who got on a date with a girl he met online. While they didn't got on another date, the girl really enjoyed his company and the date went very well. It gave him a lot of confidence to start dating other girls.
/r/seduction30/12/13 05:43 PM
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Yes this has worked for me numerous times.
/r/seduction03/12/13 09:54 PM
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Yeah just be bold, she's there so she's obviously interested in you. Take action or nothing will happen.
/r/seduction30/11/13 01:04 AM
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No, because when I'm being outcome independant and I try to kiss a girl but she rejects me, I don't make a big deal out of it. I'll be still having fun with her and respect her. You definitely can be outcome dependant and genuinely nice to people.
/r/seduction28/11/13 10:50 AM
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Yo, if you don't want something back (like sex) for being nice, how could people take advantage of that? How could you get hurt? You did it for them right? I think you actually are expecting something back for it (sex, validation, respect, kindness), but don't realize that because you are afraid to admit it. The reason people hurt you/take advantage of you is because you are nice to them for the sole reason of expecting something back. Which is selfish. I've been there so I know what I'm talking…
/r/seduction28/11/13 10:34 AM
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Taking cold showers. They won't hurt you, but damn they're uncomfortable.
/r/seduction26/11/13 10:15 PM
5

Call an old friend to catch up. Better yet, call an old female friend to catch up. Talk about your lives of the past months, talk about past relationships, talk about past sex. Flirt some. Continue to talk about sex. Continue to flirt. Go in for the kiss. Have sex. This worked for me on some old female friends. When talking about sex you can response with "Oh I never tried that, that sounds fun!" etc.
/r/seduction26/11/13 10:15 PM
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This is awesome. Do you just open with: "Hey do you want to get a picture with me?"
/r/seduction26/11/13 10:11 PM
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I love this one!
/r/seduction26/11/13 10:10 PM
7

Read The Sex God Method. It's like the bedroom edition of Models.
/r/seduction20/11/13 11:12 AM
3

Great job OP. Also if someone asks you to help you out at a concert because you are way taller, I wouldn't call it a shittest, but more of a indicator of interest. But you handled it very well.
/r/seduction15/11/13 12:05 AM
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If you don't want to stop cold turkey, at least only fap to imagination/memories. Just don't watch porn. And only fap when you're done with your day, so you don't waste your time and you won't lose your energy/motivation for the work you still have to do. If you really crave for some porn, atleast look at something realistic like /r/nakedprogress. Gonewild etc and all other porn will fuck up your mind. But my best advice is to stop cold turkey. Set a goal, like 30 days, and try to keep up with t…
/r/seduction10/11/13 06:02 PM
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/r/gainit /r/malefashionadvice
/r/seduction07/11/13 05:44 PM
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Yeah okay she knows some of the guys want to sleep with her, but she doesn't realize all those guys want to sleep with her.
/r/seduction07/11/13 03:46 PM
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To me it seems like there is something going on in her personal life, I wouldn't know but my advice is be confident and keep going. Until she gives you verbal rejection there is nothing to be afraid of.
/r/seduction07/11/13 03:35 PM
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I know a girl who is like this, but I'm not sure if she realizes all those dudes just want to fuck her.
/r/seduction07/11/13 03:28 PM
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Be a provider of value. You can do this by introduce people to each other, let cool people meet other cool people. Everyone likes to make new friends, so they will remember you for it. Be positive about everything. Never talk negative. Don't complain. Nobody likes to be around someone who can only complain about everything. Invite your friends to cool shit/parties. Or come up with ideas to do something with your group of friends. Be the one who invites the others. Why would people invite you if …
/r/seduction07/11/13 03:16 PM
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All very great! For most of them it's indeed important to be very confident and keep your frame. How stupid you may feel. Also, any advice on how to get rid of cold hands? I have trouble with these openings because my hands are most of the time very cold. Very frustrating.
/r/seduction04/11/13 10:23 PM
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Awesome man! I'm really curious how you responded to this? Because I wouldn't know what to say but thanks, haha.
/r/seduction04/11/13 07:56 PM
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Oh man offtopic, but the part about bragging reminded me of one of my favourite sketches ever. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=THNPmhBl-8I
/r/seduction30/10/13 06:01 PM
3

You guys planning to come to the Netherlands?
/r/seduction30/10/13 05:19 PM
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3-second rule mate. But you'll get there eventually. Keep it up!
/r/seduction29/10/13 11:46 PM
2

Well that's disappointing, I guess Bravo was right in his AMA. Did you get a refund or anything? Also, was Cajun there? I'm curious about how he is in real life. Talking about Bravo and bootcamps, I never considered taking a bootcamp until I learned about that guy, he seems more of a genuine lifestyle coach than a businessman. Anyways, what did you learn/do at the RSD hotseat?
/r/seduction29/10/13 10:03 PM
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I like it how you just went with the Fuck this foreplay bullshit let's fuck attitude and lifted her up to take her to the bedroom.
/r/seduction29/10/13 04:18 PM
1

Btw, don't forget to write field reports! They really help a lot understanding what you did wrong and could've done better etc.
/r/seduction28/10/13 04:37 PM
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I'm going to do this. Otherwise I won't ever make progress.
/r/seduction28/10/13 12:31 AM
1

You read a lot PUA books though, which ones do you think are an absolute must read?
/r/seduction28/10/13 12:31 AM
1

Awesome!
/r/seduction28/10/13 12:30 AM
2

If said app is Tinder, then no. Because she already 'liked' you which means she thinks you are attractive. Now you just need her to get off the app and meet in real life.
/r/seduction24/10/13 10:56 PM
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Yeh this subreddit gets a lot of hate sometimes on other subreddits (but then again, so are most subreddits getting hate somewhere). I really dig your style/direct game and this really is one of the better AMA's imo. Keep being awesome!
/r/seduction23/10/13 03:51 AM
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Aight I will check them out.
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:50 AM
1

Who is/are your favourite PUA's btw? And why?
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:31 AM
1

You've got yourself a deal. Remembering those stories really helps me motivate to go out sarging more. Just for the emberrassing stories.
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:19 AM
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Man you're great. Your advice is solid and you're hilarious. This is by far one of my favourite AMA's, I will definitely check your website out later. Thanks for the answers, I appreciate it!
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:15 AM
1

Since you're not a fan of bars, where do you say this? In the supermarket? Serious question.
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:08 AM
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wat.
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:05 AM
1

Ooh man that was brilliant, I guess those things happened to a lot of guys on their first night out sarging... Not that I would know though....
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:04 AM
1

I don't know if you're still here but I've got some questions about confidence. Before your failed marriage, how confident were you? After your marriage when and how did you truly became confident again? I like to think I'm pretty confident, but sometimes I meet guys who truly never show a sign of a slightly low self esteem. Like they never in their lives have been thinking anything less about themselves. Is this something you can become (and if so, how?), or is it already too late for me becaus…
/r/seduction23/10/13 01:41 AM
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I didn't knew about* you but I'm starting to like you. No homo.
/r/seduction23/10/13 01:30 AM
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I've been here for years and I have no idea.
/r/seduction17/10/13 08:01 PM
1

Oh well I got this question while reading his book about how there are three kinds of girls: Receptive, Neutral and Unreceptive girls. Girls who are neutral will become unreceptive eventually if you don't make a move. But I'll guess you're right, as long as you stay attractive she'll be at least a bit receptive to you.
/r/seduction13/10/13 11:22 PM
1

Yes I've noticed this aswell.
/r/seduction09/10/13 08:40 AM
2

Yes, makes sense, thanks.
/r/seduction09/10/13 08:39 AM
2

No it's more of a precaution instead of an escape. Like you set a frame where you two are friends but she's still interested in you. But I guess now, reading these comments, that's not going to work.
/r/seduction09/10/13 08:36 AM
2

Mostly logistics considering I still live with my parents for the next two months. And I've met more cute girls lately than I can handle at once.
/r/seduction09/10/13 08:29 AM
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Yeah I do drink alcohol though, and when I had a little it gives me a bit more confidence/DGAF attitude, but I never drank coffee before going out. Nor do I ever drink coffee actually, trying to stay away from it before I get addicted to it. Ah well I sometimes do drink Red Bull though. You also seem to be a big fan of RSD.
/r/seduction24/09/13 09:30 PM
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Assure myself I'm not special and I'm just doing something wrong which I can change. Seriously change your attitude. You're not special. You too can do this.
/r/seduction24/09/13 09:20 PM
1

So coffee seems to be your secret, interesting...
/r/seduction24/09/13 09:17 PM
15

No I would try to find a better way to work out.
/r/seduction24/09/13 08:17 PM
1

This is something I really needed to hear. Great perspective, awesome post!
/r/seduction12/09/13 06:47 PM
10

I don't think it's fake, but she's probably not the first girl he opened that night.
/r/seduction08/09/13 12:13 AM
3

Even if it doesn't, cold showers have some benefits.
/r/seduction07/09/13 01:29 AM
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I posted this many months ago, but it got removed by the mods. Still think it's great advice though. Cold showers are great for overcoming flinch. Also: The Flinch
/r/seduction07/09/13 01:27 AM
3

Really? I love going to dubstep/edm parties, but I never feel like hitting on girls there, because I have this idea that everyone there is just to dance. Maybe it's because I love to dance at dubstep so much.
/r/seduction17/08/13 10:04 PM
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Yeah I thought I was an introvert. Now I can't stand being alone at home in the weekends. I have to go out and meet people/my friends, or it will drain the energy of me and drive me insane. I was just out of my comfort zone.
/r/seduction03/08/13 09:28 PM
1

I have the same thing. I don't often meet a girl that really interests me. Most of the time when I get interested in a girl, I already know her as a friend. This summer I was at a festival and there was this girl, she was so cute/funny/interesting/whatever. If she didn't had her boyfriend with her, even without ever got to know about this subreddit, I would've approached her. That was the first time in my life I actually really wanted to get to know a girl I hadn't even spoken to yet.
/r/seduction02/08/13 12:39 AM
1

Yeah I think if you buy it you'll be more determined to actually use the information and try to get results, because you invested in it and now you want to get something (results) from it.
/r/seduction31/07/13 12:56 PM
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Now I get it why people on other subreddits always complain about /r/seduction.
/r/seduction30/07/13 03:15 PM
4

Yes, it's not just the eyes, your whole face will subtly change when you think something like that.
/r/seduction26/07/13 11:31 AM
7

Yeah when I read your FR I was hoping so much to find a comment from one of the guys from your FR. That would've been an awesome coincidence.
/r/seduction22/07/13 01:31 AM
1

Then you don't have to worry.
/r/seduction20/07/13 11:16 AM
1

Maybe your Facebook needs a make-over? Cajun talks in some interviews about online profiles and what kind of photos you need to use etc to make them more attractive. I'm on my phone, but you can search for them on Youtube. (Cajun online profiles)
/r/seduction20/07/13 10:53 AM
2

I've done molly multiple times, but never got the urge to pick up some cute girl while rolling. It doesn't even cross my mind, but maybe that also has to do with that I only take molly at EDM gigs, where pretty much everyone is rolling and where people usually don't go to to get laid/find new love. But I can do adapt the outcome independent state of mind you have while rolling while being sober though.
/r/seduction18/07/13 03:21 AM
1

He was hot because he was confident. Not because of his looks.
/r/seduction02/07/13 07:00 PM
2

Cajun talks about online profiles in this video. You can search for other videos from Cajun talking about this subject in interviews. It gives you an advantage to other guys online.
/r/seduction01/07/13 07:13 AM
2

I thought the ladder was the career and the flowers her friends... Ah well, different version.
/r/seduction15/06/13 07:12 PM
1

A mugging isn't national news, but if someones get beaten up, or there is an armed robbery, it is in every paper and every newsstation. The Netherlands. And while you think you may have done something carrying a concealed weapon, I think it could've end up way worse for you if you took a gun out. If you carry/use one for your own safety, criminals will use their guns for their own safety.
/r/becomeaman13/06/13 12:51 AM
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Yes, but as I mentioned I don't live in the USA. Violent crime is very rare where I live, if it happens it's national front page news.
/r/becomeaman12/06/13 10:08 PM
2

You should Google him to see his other ridiculous outfits in which he seduces women very well.
/r/seduction27/05/13 11:07 PM
1

Everytime you see yourself in a mirror or just the reflection in a window or whatever, tell yourself you look good. Tell yourself you're awesome. In time you'll think this everytime you think about your looks.
/r/seduction12/05/13 11:20 PM
6

Kino, talking sexually and looking at her like you're fucking her without being a creep.
/r/seduction04/05/13 10:40 PM
4

Damn.. To kiss a girl who sees you as a friend when you have zero experience with girls and then get this as a reaction.. I think that's pretty rare. Anyways: "we were best friends and that's not supposed to happen, but liked it even though it was fast and short... when we are going out again?" She liked the kiss, this means she'll like it the next time you kiss her. She also asks you when you are going out again. So don't ask her what she wants to do, but invite her to something you came up wit…
/r/seduction04/05/13 10:37 PM
2

I really like this, a few weeks ago I was out with friends and I felt really cool/in state. It was because that day I watched Skyfall and I unknowingly had took over the way James Bond acted/talked. So since then I watch a few James Bond clips before I go out.
/r/seduction04/05/13 12:21 AM
1

Thanks, this is very helpful and eye-opening.
/r/seduction04/05/13 12:14 AM
2

I don't think it has a lot to do with luck, I mean, you can get anything you want as long as you focus enough on it and put the right amount of time and effort in it. Despite that, the one time I had a treesome I found myself very lucky, because I wasn't trying to get one and there were some crucial factors that I had nothing to do with. I had this bisexual ex-FWB, HB6, that I was still good friends with. We didn't had sex anymore because she got a boyfriend and I was trying to get someting with…
/r/seduction02/05/13 11:13 PM
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This is the most cheesiest post I've ever seen on Seddit.
/r/seduction23/04/13 08:13 PM
2

Yeah if you want to play games, play at least a game you can finish, so that if you completed the campaign you won't feel the need to play it anymore. With games like LoL you can play forever.
/r/seduction22/04/13 08:35 PM
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Yes. Slow down the way you speak, talk more quietly with each word and use pauses! Pauses are gold for creating sexual tension. There is this video from Gambler where he shows this but I'm on my phone right now so I'll post it later. Edit: Here's the video. Fucking brilliant.
/r/seduction22/04/13 08:10 PM
1

Yes, this so much. Everybody is new and in the same situation as you where they know nobody. So start introducing yourself instead of waiting for the others. Be the social fun guy who is easily friends with everybody because he interacts with everyone. At my first day of college I made sure to get in as many conversations as possible, so I wouldn't be the quiet guy like I was in HS. This helped me a lot because I was in a group that very first day. And I made sure I wasn't in the background of t…
/r/seduction22/04/13 08:04 PM
2

OP don't start smoking. You don't need to smoke to interact with people.
/r/seduction22/04/13 07:54 PM
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Well I think that's why they didn't gave you their number, especially if they don't have a lot of self esteem (like maybe the HB5).
/r/seduction07/04/13 11:32 PM
1

I would love to go out sometime with some Sedditors, but I live in Noord-Brabant, am broke and I don't have a studenten-OV at the moment, so maybe in a few months.
/r/seduction07/04/13 11:16 PM
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I guess they knew it was a dare.
/r/seduction07/04/13 11:13 PM
1

NoFap isn't so hard, as long as you don't get triggered by porn. To withold yourself from watching porn install K9. It made it so much easier for me to remind me to not get temped by pornwebsites.
/r/seduction06/04/13 01:07 AM
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Don't fap or watch porn for over a week. Then watch porn without fapping. Then go out. You'll be horny as fuck.
/r/seduction05/04/13 08:31 PM
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I think it's funny how we always say on this subreddit that you shouldn't ask advice about picking up women from women, but when a girl ask us advice about picking up guys, we ignore this theory and give them advice. Not that I think our advice is bad, just an observation.
/r/seduction04/04/13 10:32 PM
3

I'm not sure but... Her: I like to chill around with friends than go out Doesn't she mean she rather hang out with friends at a frienda home than to hang out in clubs, instead of then?
/r/seduction04/04/13 01:25 PM
1

I like your day-game #-close.
/r/seduction04/04/13 12:49 PM
1

Good stuff. Worth watching.
/r/seduction22/03/13 10:07 PM
2

Yeah just keep your cool.
/r/seduction03/03/13 10:41 PM
1

I like you.
/r/seduction28/02/13 07:07 AM
3

Try without one!
/r/seduction20/02/13 10:17 PM
4

I disagree. I know it's different in the USA and some big cities around the world, but knowing how to handle a gun in the area where I live adds nothing to your manliness. It may even make you look weak, because you'll live with the idea you'll ever need one. How to defend yourself with your hands, okay, that's something that will ever come in handy, but to know how to handle a gun and own one, in the area/country I live in, that's just ridiculous.
/r/becomeaman05/02/13 07:45 AM
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Luckily not where I live.
/r/becomeaman05/02/13 12:40 AM
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Is it much of a difference if you go to the gym and follow a workout, or do the same workout at home? I don't have a lot of money to spend on a membership, and since I don't have a gym close to my house I don't always have the time to go to a gym.
/r/seduction04/02/13 02:34 PM
4

Good FR, I can learn from this, I have trouble with social proof.
/r/seduction04/02/13 12:04 AM
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I don't know, I have lots of female friends, from HB4's to HB8's, and I think it makes me more look gay than desired by them.
/r/seduction01/02/13 02:53 PM
3

Ooh I like this one.
/r/seduction31/01/13 11:29 PM
2

Instead of sprinting, I started running. I'm doing the Couch to 5 km program, /r/c25k My stamina is shit, considering I only have one working lung, but today I started to change this! I only could run 1/4 of today's workout, my legs feel like shit (also from the squats yesterday) and I'm tired as fuck, but I feel so good! Can't wait till thursday when I get to run again.
/r/becomeaman29/01/13 11:44 PM
1

Good job. (e.g. the small ladder with few rungs leaning against the cube means that you have a small group of close friend that you're very loyal to) Wait, I thought the ladder is your career and the flowers are your friends? I know it doesn't matter much, but now I'm confused.
/r/seduction28/01/13 10:29 PM
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As a skinny guy, skinny as in I'm 21 and this guy has more weight than I do-skinny, thanks for mentioning this. I'm eating more and more, but never counted my calories. Will start doing this, eat at least over 3000 calories per day (that's over 1000 more calories I used to eat), and if I can eat more, great.
/r/becomeaman28/01/13 03:25 AM
1

Dude, a smile back is the best invitation for an approach you can get! You can open them with: Are we going to keep flirting from a distance or are you going to give me your name? Or: You can't keep looking at me like that without saying anything. Depends on how direct you want to approach, but if a girl keeps smiling at you, it's a good indicator you should approach direct.
/r/seduction26/01/13 11:54 PM
3

Sometimes I think he is funny, other times I cringe because he thinks he's funny.
/r/seduction26/01/13 04:43 PM
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Breda or Tilburg by any chance? When a girl is eying you, do something that requires a reaction from the girls, this could be a smile, a nod with your head or even a wave, when they give you a reaction that is not negative, like a eyeroll or disgusted look, you can approach them shortly after with a 'Hi, I don't know you yet, what's your name?' Even when she doesn't response at all at your smile/nod/wave, as long as she doesn't responds negatively, you're good to go. Good field rapport.
/r/seduction26/01/13 04:31 PM
1

Yeah this is great advice when you have trouble getting into DGAF mode.
/r/seduction26/01/13 01:01 PM
2

It's a fun challenge, when they mention your height just say you love tall girls. I mention how my ex is even taller than she is and then she'll realize it's not a problem.
/r/seduction24/01/13 08:44 PM
5

You seem to be enthusiastic.
/r/seduction24/01/13 08:42 PM
2

Oh really? Why's that?
/r/seduction24/01/13 03:27 PM
6

Same here, I'm skinny as fuck. Start counting your daily calories, you'll be surprised at how little you actually eat, even when you think you eat a lot. Now try to eat at least 3000 calories a day, if you keep up with the gym you'll never get fat, but you won't be skinny anymore. Eat, eat, eat. Edit: /r/gainit
/r/becomeaman23/01/13 12:38 PM
1

On my phone, comment to save.
/r/becomeaman23/01/13 11:55 AM
2

This is why the best cure for hangovers is to drink so much water you almost explode before you go to bed.
/r/seduction23/01/13 02:24 AM
2

Keep it up! Most of us started with massive AA.
/r/seduction21/01/13 10:00 PM
1

'Funny, I was thinking the same thing.' And kiss.
/r/seduction20/01/13 03:57 PM
1

Oh God, that's brilliant.
/r/seduction20/01/13 01:43 PM
1

Sarging = Go out to meet and seduce women.
/r/seduction20/01/13 01:26 PM
14

I did a cold read I actually wrote myself ages ago and I've got memorised which pretty much fits all women I'm interested, care to share?
/r/seduction20/01/13 03:16 AM
1

Read this. It's all about how you frame it.
/r/seduction17/01/13 12:48 AM
2

Yeah don't do this. Just look at them like you want to say: 'Oh God, I want to do so many naughty things to you.' without actually saying it. You get a little smirk on your face, like you know something funny they don't know about, and it doesn't matter what you say to the girls, because your subtext is saying: 'We should go to bed together, it'll be fun.' And women tend to be gods at reading subtexts, one of those reasons women always believe/know there is something wrong when you say there isn…
/r/seduction16/01/13 02:03 AM
2

Well, I use this trick when I'm out to have fun and meet girls, and when I meet a hot girl, ofcourse I want to do naughty things to her. That's not creepy, that's totally natural. That's why a lot of people go to bars/clubs. So instead of ignore those thoughts, why not embrace it? Everything you'll say has the subtext that you want to go to bed with them. Which is true. Which is why you are talking to her. And she knows it, she just need a guy who isn't afraid of those thoughts. Edit: A good alt…
/r/seduction16/01/13 01:50 AM
5

Stupid joke? I've been on Reddit all night and this was the first thing that made me actually laughed out loud.
/r/seduction16/01/13 01:38 AM
2

Cajun on Online Dating. And another one. Edit: I know this won't help you with this girl right now OP, just thought I would share it since we're on the topic of Online Dating.
/r/seduction16/01/13 12:33 AM
2

Not being a nice guy does not mean cheating on your wife you twat.
/r/seduction12/01/13 10:32 AM
11

... Well this was a little disturbing for me considering you're my dad's age, but good job I guess.
/r/seduction12/01/13 12:23 AM
10

High Sensitive Person Edit: Sensitive, not Sentisive..
/r/seduction09/01/13 11:58 AM
1

This worked for me. Skinny as fuck, working on it, but in the mean time, everytime I see myself in the mirror, I'll think in my head how good I look. After a while you see yourself in the mirror and say to yourself: Damn, you look handsome!
/r/seduction07/01/13 11:44 PM
6

Yeah I'm curious about his hat trick.. Edit: Well, I guess I never knew about the term hattrick.
/r/seduction07/01/13 06:15 PM
1

Holy shit that AMA is awesome. For some reason I've never heard of him, but damn I like him.
/r/seduction06/01/13 02:20 AM
1

You should read Cajun's blog, it's quite dead now, but the first posts about confidence and body language are very interesting to read. Next to that it's quite enjoyable to read, very funny stuff. That guy is a true inspiration.
/r/seduction06/01/13 12:58 AM
3

Yeah, well, we have the sidebar for the new guys. But new guys don't read the sidebar, for whatever reason, but also because it is quite a shitload for them to read when they know nothing about the stuff discussed here. They much rather start another new thread about something that is discussed a shitload of time, because they will get much quicker responses. Maybe the sidebar should contain more advanced seduction stuff, but I don't think that's a really good idea either.
/r/seduction06/01/13 12:52 AM
4

I really liked the IAMA with Cajun, but that might be just because I think he is awesome. Which he is. I also liked the field reports from the guy with only one leg. That guy is one bad motherfucking boss.
/r/seduction06/01/13 12:45 AM
2

I agreed with OrganicEvil's comment until I read your comment and learned a new psychological trick, which could be very handy. But overall it's just repetition of stuff I already know.
/r/seduction06/01/13 12:26 AM
1

How about no.
/r/seduction02/01/13 11:06 AM
1

What would you response if she asks why?
/r/seduction29/12/12 01:20 AM
4

Thanks, I was totally serious and that was hilarious. I'm glad I never had something like that happening to me, but at least you've got a good story out of it.
/r/seduction28/12/12 11:16 AM
8

This sounds stupid, but I'm sick at home and need something to cheer me up. Your stories do. Please tell me more.
/r/seduction27/12/12 10:41 PM
2

So naïve, hehe.
/r/seduction27/12/12 07:45 PM
9

Do you like salad?
/r/seduction24/12/12 02:10 PM
2

I really liked the third one where he goes in for the kiss, get's rejected, made her giving him a kiss on the cheek and went back in for the k-close, with success.
/r/seduction22/12/12 11:57 AM
2

briains What? Also, if a girl did this to me I would think she's pretty clever.
/r/seduction16/12/12 11:29 PM
2

Hi there. Yes me too please. Thanks.
/r/seduction15/12/12 07:24 PM
5

Sidebar.
/r/seduction14/12/12 10:13 PM
4

Very entertaining field report. Also the video about Knock Her Off The Fence is very informative, and funny how he talks about Cajun, haha.
/r/seduction13/12/12 12:31 AM
41

RIP
/r/seduction13/12/12 12:09 AM
1

Dude, no joke, you even come across as a girl over the internet. Anyways, your lack of being dominant is something we've all dealed with, it's what made us AFC's before we discovered Seddit/the community. Improve your game, stop whining and act like you want to be and then become it.
/r/seduction10/12/12 12:37 AM
1

So how did it went?
/r/seduction09/12/12 11:31 PM
1

How do they usually respond to 'with benefits'?
/r/seduction09/12/12 11:28 PM
6

Good stuff OP, I can't wait for part 3.
/r/seduction26/11/12 12:28 AM
1

As cold as possible, but you might start a bit less colder. I mostly go for five minutes, or well, as long as I need to get my body clean.
/r/seduction25/11/12 11:40 PM
2

Yes, because it's probably fucking ice cold. Turn up the heat a little if you get the idea that you're freezing, but not so much that you're comfortable with the temperture.
/r/seduction25/11/12 10:27 PM
5

Ofcourse the best way to get over AA is by approaching as many girls as possible, but if you're really struggling with AA, this might help to get you started. I don't say this will get rid of your AA, but it can give you a push in the right direction.
/r/seduction25/11/12 07:32 PM
4

Yeah I know what you mean, try to get it as cold as possible without having a lot of trouble with breathing. And then slowly try to get it colder and colder. I don't think it will go away over time, but if you stay long enough under the cold water you can breath a lot better then.
/r/seduction25/11/12 06:57 PM
3

Well, it changed my mindset in doing things I need to do instead of continue with procrastinating. Just if something has to be done, like writing a paper or paying my bills, I now make sure I'll do it ASAP, instead of trying to forget about it because I don't like the thought of doing it.
/r/seduction25/11/12 06:51 PM
3

Yes, this exactly. Kill your fear for something that doesn't even harm you.
/r/seduction25/11/12 06:28 PM
1

I honestly have no idea, it's just that in many situations, not only in the game, when you feel like you're overthinking something, there is a big chance you're overthinking it.
/r/seduction22/11/12 02:11 AM
2

If you feel like you're over-thinking it, there is a big chance you're over-thinking it.
/r/seduction22/11/12 01:37 AM
1

If you say so, okay. It happens. But a girl approaching you in the hope of a free drink happens 100 times faster. Also, when it does happen, you still shouldn't just throw yourself at her. She will lose interest. Girls don't want guys who are easy to get. Those are AFC's who look desperate. If a girl shows interest, don't make her lose it immediatley. You can buy her a drink on your real first date, after a #- and/or k-close.
/r/seduction21/11/12 01:08 AM
1

It's not often that I get approached by girls like this Same here, but when I do get approached, it's always by girls who wants to take advantage of my generosity. Girls who are actually interested in me just wave their hair and smile a lot at me, hoping I approach them, but there is no way they approach me. Let stand alone with a 'You're cute.'. Because girls just don't have the confidence to do this, or they don't want to waste their time on a guy who seems to be afraid of approaching them, si…
/r/seduction21/11/12 12:44 AM
1

So you only get approached by girls with no self confidence? If a girl knows shes hot and wants to have a free drink she just goes to a random guy, maybe a guy who doesn't look very confident, and tell them they're cute. After some talk she'll ask for a drink. If you act like an AFC you'll buy her a drink because you're afraid of losing her. That's why it's appropriate to respond with: Is that a pickup line?
/r/seduction21/11/12 12:12 AM
1

Yeah I know, and I don't care much, just wanted to share my experience.
/r/seduction20/11/12 11:16 PM
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Nope. I did all this with a girl I liked, she still only wanted to be friends. But well, I'll guess you're right about not doing this will certainly get you in the so called friendzone.
/r/seduction20/11/12 12:39 AM
3

Giving an IOD when receiving an IOD. I love it when a girl starts showing interest when you show them you don't care that much about how they think of you. Also: Kino and looking in their eyes while thinking about fucking them.
/r/seduction19/11/12 01:08 AM
3

Yeah but if a girl is saying to a guy that he's only good enough to be just friends with her, she's also full of herself. So instead of building her op by saying 'Nah, you're too cute to be my friend.', it's better to say 'Nah, I'm too cute to be your friend.', which also is funny, so if she doesn't like that she's just someone you shouldn't waste your time on.
/r/seduction14/11/12 11:51 AM
1

Giving IOD's back when she gives you IOD's.
/r/seduction14/11/12 01:18 AM
2

It's different with each person, but chances are you can't hold it as long as you could hold it first. But that's okay because you can easily go for a second round after you ate her pussy or whatever you like to do, and then you'll last longer. At least, in my experience. Also: Damn, your dick will feel so much harder. No joke.
/r/seduction07/11/12 12:38 AM
1

/r/NoFap & /r/Pornfree. My record was 42 days. I felt like a beast. Totally worth trying.
/r/seduction07/11/12 12:32 AM
5

U jelly? Seriously, what's your problem? The fact that he might be good looking doesn't make his post useless. He can learn from it, some others can too. If you're good looking you still might suck with girls because you've got no game. So if he wants to improve his game by asking for feedback, don't bash him because you think it's unfair that he get approached by girls since he's probably good looking. Give him feedback like you would give to anyone else, or say nothing.
/r/seduction06/11/12 02:32 AM
5

I had the same problem. What helped for me was /r/NoFap along with /r/Pornfree, really, all women become prettier when you don't fap or see pictures of beautiful naked women for a few weeks. Next to that, if a girl is good looking, just approach. When you get to know her better, you might start to like her more and more, and realize that despite she doesn't look cute or sexy, she actually has a really cute or sexy personality. If this doesn't work for you, you'll just have to wait untill you mee…
/r/seduction06/11/12 01:27 AM
6

Awesome post! My biggest problem with approaching girls when going out was that I thought they will know I almost never go out and dance with/approach girls... But they don't know that. So it was totally fine for me to approach them, because in their eyes, that's who I am. Fake it till you make become it, yes. Now it makes more sense.
/r/seduction06/11/12 12:59 AM
6

Okay this guy is awesome. I'm dealing with oneitus at the moment and watching a few video's of him helped me handle it.
/r/seduction04/11/12 11:23 PM
1

Upvotes to you.
/r/seduction29/10/12 12:55 PM
3

Great post! I really like the 2/3 invest ratio. I'm going to use that. I have a question though. When I try to live text, the girl always take a lot of time (compared to me) to text back. What should I do then? Keep going giving immediatly responses, or take as much time as she does? Or make a comment about it? (Well, I don't think that's a good idea, lol)
/r/seduction29/10/12 12:54 PM
2

Aight! I'm so glad for you, haha! Happy to read you went out and stopped thinking about everything and what people will think of you! You finally stopped giving excuses, hehe. Dancing like nobody's watching is one of the most awesomest things you can do when you're at a party. I love it to climb on a stage or whatever, where people can see me, and dance my ass off, Thom Yorke style. (Yes I like the attention, lol) Now I'm getting excited for your upcoming fieldreports. Great job!
/r/seduction29/10/12 01:32 AM
1

Act like she's already your girlfriend. I know there is an active thread about this atm, and I don't know if it works as an approach, but acting like the girl is already yours while texting works great for me.
/r/seduction27/10/12 05:59 PM
1

Yeah I know this is what I'm doing wrong. I never did it on purpose though, but now looking back on my ways of 'teasing' I come to the conclusion that I did it with the wrong intention.
/r/seduction22/10/12 08:05 AM
0

Yeah okay I found out what I'm doing wrong.
/r/seduction22/10/12 07:59 AM
1

Yes, nice example, thanks for the reply!
/r/seduction22/10/12 02:47 AM
1

Will certainly do. Any advice for texting?
/r/seduction22/10/12 02:38 AM
-4

I guess my problem is that when I neg a girl, I really try to decrease her self-esteem a bit. So she'll qualify herself by defending her actions I pointed out as negative. I try to make her laugh about it herself, but probably not enough as I try to decrease her self-esteem a tiny bit. So I need to know when it's not as funny as lowering her self-esteem, so I could keep my mouth shut... Any idea how I could know where the line between those two is?
/r/seduction22/10/12 02:36 AM
1

Great field report, too bad about the end of the night though. I liked the way you k-closed, I'm going to use those lines. Also, while I don't think people appreciate it when you put photos of them on a site like this, I really like those pictures in your field report though, it gave your post an extra dimension.
/r/seduction22/10/12 02:21 AM
-4

Lol! Oh God that must've been funny. And awkard.
/r/seduction22/10/12 02:05 AM
1

Since when did we stop using gifs on Reddit?
/r/seduction22/10/12 02:01 AM
2

Well, now we know we help people out and don't waste our time by talking about our experiences here.
/r/seduction22/10/12 01:55 AM
2

This.
/r/seduction22/10/12 01:52 AM
2

I'm with you bro. Be glad you now know this though, the let down on all your expectations every time could've gotten you depressed. As it did with me the first time I had this girl who gave me a lot of expectations, not even because she wanted to, but because I had putten so much effort in her that it felt like she'd owe me her love and company. But that' just not the case. I can tell you though that once you're happy and confident without her being there with you, you'll experience one of the b…
/r/seduction22/10/12 01:38 AM
1

Learn to have fun in clubs without trying to attract girls while being sober. Alcohol could be a great tool to have fun while going out, but you shouldn't rely on it.
/r/seduction22/10/12 01:28 AM
1

Aww man, I feel bad for people downvoting you. But yeah, it's the truth. This girl isn't worth your time. I know you've invested a lot of time and energy in her, but it seems like she keeps giving you expectations, and that's why you don't want to give up on her. I know because I was in the same (six months) situation. Edit: I like gregariousbarbarian's way of handling this situation. I know it sucks to move on after you put so much investment in her, but since you won't see or talk to her anymo…
/r/seduction22/10/12 01:13 AM
1

Alcohol could help, yes. But try to change your mind into being tipsy, while being sober. And act upon it. Now you shouldn't do this, but I've done MDMA a few times, and for me it really helps to open sets when I act like I'm on MDMA (very social and friendly, making sure everyone has a great time without thinking what people think of you) while being sober.
/r/seduction22/10/12 01:01 AM
1

In your case: Yes. But that's okay, I think you'll find a lot more interesting girls for you in bars than in clubs. Especially if you don't like clubs.
/r/seduction22/10/12 12:39 AM
1

Yes thank you, English isn't my native language and I knew I did something wrong...
/r/seduction22/10/12 12:32 AM
1

No. People learn from their mistakes. Other people can learn from their mistakes as well. Field reports are important because you can look back on your night/day and find out what you could've done better. Other sedditors can help you with that.
/r/seduction22/10/12 12:27 AM
1

First of: See? You'll get a lot of advice and learn a lot if you post a FR, especially when you didn't accomplish the things you wanted to in field. Now, about this advice we give you: start using it. I checked your profile and my concerns were confirmed: it's you, the guy who makes up excuses. Okay, let's assume you're not a troll, but just really a guy with a lot of problems with girls and social contact in general. It's okay, you're not the only one, and you're doing great by coming here aski…
/r/seduction22/10/12 12:21 AM
2

Good job! Great field report, I would like to read more of these.
/r/seduction21/10/12 11:44 PM
0

Fart in her presence. Just kidding. No honestly, even though you get so see her everyday, I think being honest is the best way to deal with this. She'll get her feelings hurt anyways, because once you like someone, and you'll see them everyday, it's very hard to lose those feelings. Tell her why it wouldn't work between you, because of you (so she can't say: Oh I'll change), and it sucks but she'll find some other dude who would be perfect for her. Idk, this is what I probably would do. Complica…
/r/seduction21/10/12 11:41 PM
4

Hm, when a girl just want to be friends with you, asking for advice about another girl creates attraction because she'll get jealous for not getting the same attention from you like that other girl does. So won't he create even more attraction when asking advice about another girl? Please correct me if I'm missing something here. I do like the idea of keeping her self esteem high though. Edit: To the person who downvoted me: Yes thank you, but now I still don't know what I'm missing here..
/r/seduction21/10/12 11:23 PM
3

Ah man, the best compliment I ever had in my life wasn't in words, but a huge wet spot left on the matrass after I ate* this girl's pussy.
/r/seduction21/10/12 10:35 PM
1

When I invite a girl to a party and she says she doesn't want to because she doesn't feel comfortable in that enviroment, I tease her about how boring her life must be, and then convince her to come with me. I'll get her out of her comfort zone by bringing her to a party, and then I'll make sure she has the time of her life by showing how awesome parties can be, even without drinking or smokeing. I know this doesn't help you right now, but thought I would share.
/r/seduction21/10/12 01:51 AM
5

Especially if you replace the door with the girls forehead. Wait what?
/r/seduction21/10/12 01:36 AM
3

I usually go for the less attractive girl because they enjoy the attention and are less likely to brush you off Is what I did the first time I went sarging. All the girls tried to hook me up with her. The poor girl disliked that as much as I did, ha.
/r/seduction21/10/12 01:00 AM
1

Do you have a lot of male friends? I have the same problem as you OP, but I don't have a lot of male friends, so maybe that's my problem. But yeah, one of the reasons I don't have male friends is that I don't like to be around so called AMOGs...
/r/seduction21/10/12 12:45 AM
1

ITT: OP giving excuses. Dude seriously, you come here to ask for advice, people give you advice and then you refuse to take the advice. You get advice from people who make a living out of teaching this stuff, and you still won't listen. It's all in your head, I'm just like you, I am 21 but look like I'm just 18. So what? Even if I was only 18, it's just a number. Do you think girls don't want to talk to interesting, fun guys because they're a few years younger? Bullshit, they just want to have a…
/r/seduction19/10/12 02:22 PM
5

I really enjoyed reading this field report. Great job bro.
/r/seduction18/10/12 02:15 PM
1

I'm going to try this with a group of friends. In that group there is a girl who gives me oneitus, and since it's too hard for me to game her, I decided I just move to another group of friends to hang out every weekend. I wanted to let them know I won't be there anymore, but now I'll just say nothing, unless they ask me if I'm still coming. And then I will respond with something like: "No, but I'll see you guys tomorrow, some of you I haven't seen in way too long time." (The girl will know I'm t…
/r/seduction18/10/12 12:58 AM
1

Oh man, your username...
/r/seduction03/10/12 02:35 AM
1

Have you tried Rules of the Game?
/r/seduction03/10/12 02:01 AM
3

What's the most important thing you do know now, but wish you knew when you started picking up women?
/r/seduction03/10/12 01:57 AM
2

"You can't keep looking at me like that without saying anything/introducing yourself."
/r/seduction25/09/12 10:39 PM
2

One of the reasons I love dancing on a stage when the avenue has one. Just dance like you want to on the music, having a great time, and getting a lot of attention from everyone in the club.
/r/seduction24/09/12 07:52 PM
5

Why would you hand out candy?
/r/seduction19/09/12 11:00 PM
1

Phil reminds me a lot of Shaggy. Edit: If you haven't see it yet, watch Cajun on the Keys to the VIP.
/r/seduction14/09/12 03:16 PM
3

A few years ago my best (female) friend gave me her copy of OK Computer because I loved Radiohead so much. We spent a lot of evenings/nights driving to random locations while listening to the CD, enjoying the lonely roads, the music and our strong friendship. I remember driving calmly through the woods while No Surprises was playing. Beautiful memory. Ninja edit
/r/seduction11/09/12 10:53 PM
2

Oh I'm sorry, I mixed things up. There are a lot of benefits from taking cold showers. From health benefits to mental benefits. Also, you'll get used to it before you know it. http://wakeup-world.com/2012/04/11/ten-health-benefits-of-cold-showers/ It also gives you an increase in self-discipline. Taking a cold shower is not something very comfortable or something you like to do, but it doesn't harm you a bit. Same goes with approaching girls for example, approaching a hot chick might be somethin…
/r/seduction09/09/12 02:56 PM
0

I didn't fap for 27 days once, also no wet dreams whatsoever. I felt like a beast, every girl I saw I wanted to approach and get her too sleep with me. I didn't care about anything else. I felt alpha as fuck, great confidence because I really couldn't care less about the girls who didn't want to sleep with me. It's like a dog who fucks all the bitches from the neighbourhood, who then got castrated and wouldn't even bark anymore, and then after a month grew his balls back and started fucking all …
/r/seduction09/09/12 02:37 PM
3

He means it's hard for him to eat enough to gain some weight. I have the same problem. Gaining weight is not as easy as it sounds like. Eating for us is hard and something we sometimes rather not do. OP should check out /r/gainit Also, if she says you look too young for her you can always respond with: Nah, you don't look thát old.
/r/seduction09/09/12 01:39 PM
6

Yeah she thinks you're a creep by talking to her so respond with this to become a bigger creep.
/r/seduction08/09/12 12:40 AM
1

Ah, the friendzone... For me the friendzone is when you really like/love/want to fuck/whatever a girl, while she just wants you as a gay BFF. Someone who she can rely on when she needs to talk about guys who don't treat her the way she wants it. If you're in that position, you can make it a lot worse by listening to her, help with all her problems and be extremely nice to her in the hope that she'll like/love/want to fuck/whatever you back. Which will NEVER happen. A few months back before I dis…
/r/seduction05/09/12 12:37 PM
2

Doesn't sound weird at all, I'm actually doing NoFap, on day 8 now. My record is 27 days, and damn, I was full of testosterone, I felt like a beast. So I'm going to continue with that.
/r/seduction31/08/12 03:56 PM
2

Yeah I'm probably worrying too much, but it's just I think I won't be confident enough if I'm talking to a girl I'm not genuinely interested in, because my interest in her will be fake, and she'll notice that I guess? Maybe it's a good thing, because I don't come across like I'm all over her and if I'm not giving her a lot of attention she proabably just wants more of it. Anyways, I guess know you're right. Practicing with girls I'm not interested in is a good thing because I'll be more experien…
/r/seduction31/08/12 12:10 AM
2

Oh man, I hope this doesn't offend you, but this reminded me of this hilarious video.
/r/seduction24/08/12 10:26 PM
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