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I've known a few single moms. They did get good men, but every single one of them has confided in me that a part of them resents their partner, because they feel like they could've gotten a better man were they not a mom. They never broke up over it, but they felt it, and it frustrated them enough to confess it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:46 AM
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The kid is either theirs, or it isn't. I wouldn't want to be duped into raising/paying for a child that isn't mine either. A chimpanzee has 98.8% similar DNA to a human. That doesn't mean we've got family members in zoo exhibits. If it didn't come from their balls, it's not their kid. You could make an argument for adoption/step parenting, but that's a role someone can only fulfil willingly. Not forced upon them, or tricked onto doing so. Given the inappropriate way you spoke to women in the las…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 08:59 PM
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God, being in a relationship with a lawyer has to suck so badly if not for the money. Boiling down such complicated and emotionally driven things like relationships and gender dynamics into "Erm, well, actually! -vomits a page of legalese- ☝️🤓" No wonder they have such a high divorce rate. And not much screams Fragile, like naming yourself and giving yourself a handle around sexually dominating men who consider themselves masculine to prove that you're actually superior. ... It's outright creepy…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 09:34 PM
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When I'm done with a man, how he feels is completely irrelevant. No matter how close we were, at best, we have a relationship that's like a distance co-worker relationship. I could not possibly care what he does once I'm done with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:16 AM
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Honestly, not really. But men will fight to the death over basically anything with a pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:29 AM
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Yet men stay competing. 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:56 PM
3

Wow, you're so different than all the other guys, Mongo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 09:16 PM
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But more importantly, I can have my cake and eat it, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 01:10 AM
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Men with traditional, provider values are hot. Men with modern political values are moral. Who thinks women don't want provider men with open minds towards women's lib?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 11:06 PM
9

A bestie who's attractive is relationship material. Anyone who isn't attractive is only able to hit bestie material.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 05:49 PM
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It's just the society we live in. The world we live in, really. The weak and vulnerable men get taken advantage of. The same thing happens to we and vulnerable women. If you're a doormat, you get walked over.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:26 PM
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They're almost synonymous with one another. But, being attractive has very little to do with being a good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 10:42 PM
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I need to look into getting an anxious boyfriend. 🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 06:47 PM
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I'll fully acknowledge it. I just don't care that you have a harder time, so it becomes irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:51 PM
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How come the mens version of this thread was deleted?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 12:03 AM
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Masculinity that negatively affects women in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 09:11 AM
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It's not the main reason, but it's definitely a consideration. A man is meant to make my life better, brokies tend to have a hard time meeting those expectations. Men shouldn't bother dating until they're in a position to improve a woman's life monetarily. Remember, there's always a better man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 11:42 AM
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No, I honestly don't care what happens with them either way, so long as it doesn't affect me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:53 AM
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... Come on now, honey.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:38 PM
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People just either stop getting what they need from someone or get enough of it. Then, once they're done, they drop them and move on. There's no need to overcomplicated it. Whether it's excitement and thrills, love, tenderness, being taken care of, validation, attention, or so on. People fill their tank and abandon the station. People only really change in surface level sense. Someone really changing is incredibly rare. Most people never really change. And people know who they are. This is just …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 08:49 AM
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I'm just being honest with you. I want as much as I can get, while giving as little as possible. And honesty, it's working pretty well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:05 PM
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Yeah. Keep doing those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:04 PM
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Well, duh? I want rid of the parts that impact me negatively, and maintain the aspects that benefit me. Why would anyone want anything other than that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:32 PM
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Not really. There's always a better guy just around the corner. No matter how great an ex has been, there's always another one that makes up for what the last one was lacking. Honestly, even if there wasn't, I'm fairly positive any ex would be willing to get back together. Men give themselves in abundance to women, always. Who regret anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:43 PM
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This is true, but you can't expect people to miss out on what is arguably the best, most wonderful part of life. Love and intimacy, and expect them not to lash out and have them be as invested in life and everything as the rest of us. If you work a job where you get paid $250,000 a year, you'd love the job. If you worked the same job and only made $15,000 dollars a year, you'd likely hate that same job. Life is hard, cruel, and more often than not, unrewarding of your suffering. If you take away…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 04:09 PM
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Lol. Lmao, even.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 11:00 PM
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What's average length and circumference? I don't know why exactly, but I always assumed 6x5 was the average.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 12:33 PM
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It matters, but only to a certain degree. Being sightly larger, snd slightly thicker IS better. But being huge is just painful. I measured with my ex. He was only like, half an inch over average at and half an inch thicker. The extra... volume, was great feeling. But he was only 6.5 long and 5.5 in circumference, which is only a half inch bigger than average. It's definitely better, but it's not world altering.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:37 AM
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I immediately gave up when he clearly didn't see the issue with his answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 04:26 PM
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Yeah, gym bros and influencers. What an unbiased, accurate look at the general population, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 04:09 PM
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They understand that it just hurts their feelings, so they can't let themselves accept it. It's better to just repeat the same thing over and over than it is to be confronted with the idea that someone might just never be into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 12:44 PM
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Objective truth refers to something that is objectively true regardless of what anyone thinks it feels. MOST women agreeing would make something a subjective truth. Regardless, you're not philosophising me into sleeping with men I find unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 10:18 AM
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So do people who need to touch grass outside of their little bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 10:07 AM
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No, some people are into that. An extreme minority, but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 10:06 AM
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There is no objective truth in this. It's all subjective. But most women agree with my subjective opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 10:06 AM
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Having another man fuck your ass is not a masculine thing to do. It's extremely unmasculine. Generally attractive men are masculine. Getting topped by another man is SO unmasculine that it permanently stops me from viewing them as masculine men. They become unmasculine. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 09:12 AM
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Like I said, if how I feel about not being interested in bisexual men makes people call me homophobic, as though its something bad, I'll just be homophobic then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 09:10 AM
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Don't know, I don't date women. Ask men how they feel about bisexual women. This is about how women feel towards bisexual men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 09:07 AM
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Like I said, I'll just be homophobic then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:52 AM
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"Objectively gross" can not exist. Subjectively in the sense that the vast majority of women agree with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:51 AM
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In terms if being partners for straight women? Yes. It diminishes them. Not as humans, but as partners for straight women. Women don't HAVE TO accept everything about a potential partner, in the same way that men don't with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:49 AM
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Because there's another man fucking his asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:46 AM
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Top makes the thought of having sex with him gross. Bottom is both gross and makes him almost asexual in my eyes. He's more woman than man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:43 AM
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No. It's 'Man had sex with lots of women = gross.' 'Man puts his penis in other men's bottoms = gross.'
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:41 AM
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Alright, fine. I'll just be homophobic then. I don't really care. I won't be guilted into having sex with unattractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:29 AM
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That's just a small, loud minority of women online. The vast majority of women IRL will fully admit to being unattracted to gay/bisexual men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:24 AM
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Men putting their penises in each others bottoms is gross to me. No one said they shouldn't be allowed to do it. I don't have to be enthusiastically attracted and gleeful about every aspect of homosexuality in order not to be homophobic. Dicks in hairy ass holes is yucky. Gay men can think vaginas are gross. It's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:14 AM
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Homophobia isn't when women refuse to date you or not find you attractive. By all means, gay/bi men should live their life the way they see fit, with the people they love. But they won't they aren't entitled to a relationship with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:09 AM
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I don't like, and am not attracted to slutty, promiscuous people at all. So I wouldn't disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:45 AM
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The thought of my man having sex with another man grosses me out. The thought of my man getting fucked by another man makes him gross AND unattractive to me. On a base level. It diminishes them as men to the extent where they become unsexual to me. Edit: Some very upset men in the comments. I'm giving up explaining things to you, as we're just going in circles. But always remember, you don't get to force women to be okay with dating men they find unappealing. Good luck! 👋
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:38 AM
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It's because the virgin is unattractive, but abusers can be attractive. Easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:57 AM
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No, the majority of men aren't attracted to morbidly obese women, no matter what the Internet tells you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 06:38 AM
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Yeah. Most men are fat women. Men don't want to be perused by fat women. Women don't want to be pursued by most men. Don't try to make us feel bad about how most of you aren't attractive to nearly all of us. Those women hitting on you might have been older than you, but they were attractive 40 year old women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 06:33 AM
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A ten minute conversation will do it. If he's a virgin at 30, women can tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:38 AM
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No, but I'm not willing to give virgin men a chance regardless. If no other woman wants you, there's a reason that I'm not sticking around to figure out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 09:42 AM
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In terms of dating, both single mothers and single fathers absolutely suck. They can be great people, but that kid(s) that isn't yours in an absolute 10TON iron ball and chain around your neck. I'd prefer single parents stay with other single parents, but you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 11:59 PM
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Counter point, it seems scary, and I don't want to. Also, if women don't, them men still have to, or they'll be alone, while women will always be more desired than men. So, nuh-uh, we don't want to, you guys do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 04:09 PM
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Attractiveness is subjective to a certain extent, discounting extreme cases. Attractiveness IS 95% objective. No one confuses a 1 for a 9. But people might debate whether an 8 is a 7 or not. You can lie to yourself if you want, but if people see you as a 2, it's likely everyone sees you as a 2. If you're lucky, someone might confuse you for a 3. But never a 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:19 PM
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Unattractive men have given up on dating. Attractive men are still dating. Women have to choose between attractive men and being happily, peacefully single. Only the unattractive men aren't happy with things. Something is right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:50 PM
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These are relationships where we've been together for years. We're madly in love, and I ended them all. I'm sorry this upsets you, feel free to stay upset though!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:22 PM
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Body count says a tremendous amount about a person's values around love, relationships, and sex. Very few people, men or women, want a partner who doesn't value sex, love, and relationships. It's painted as a gendered thing, but both women and men have great distaste with the idea of having a slutty partner. Man whores are just as vile as woman whores. Casual sex is disgusting, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:32 AM
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Be attractive first. I'm not so much as making eye contact with you otherwise. Then, after that, be a good person towards me. You don't even have to be that good. But attraction will always be first and foremost.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 10:32 PM
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No, you're begging us to care, and it's pathetic. You're not an aeroplane. There's no need to announce your departure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 12:46 AM
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Look, I don't care to engage in this weirdo behaviour. Ultimately, if you want to leave, then leave. But leave because YOU want to. Not because you expect any of us to care. We don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 12:42 AM
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No one desirable towards women is trying to convince strangers on reddit that they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 12:39 AM
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If they're the kind of men resorting to checking out, they weren't the kinds of men women wanted around anyway. Literally no woman gives a shit about these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 12:35 AM
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Not what I said, but you're busting out the emojis now, so I'm going to put my hands up and back away slowly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:51 PM
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You just told me you'd leave him if you had a negative thought. That would also be entirely out of the control of either of you. I have my own issues, but I think you might have your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:48 PM
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Sure, you're above worry or anxious thoughts. But for the rest of us who don't reside on a cloud next to God himself, we aren't impenetrable to worry and paranoid thoughts, even if they're silly. Sometimes, we meer humans get worried over something that turns out to be nothing. Also, crazy reason to throw away a man who loves you. Because you might have been a little worried over something that turned out to be nothing. I hope you realise that if you truly were to throw away a whole marriage ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:43 PM
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I've said it a million times. Just get the test done and have the results sent to your parents' or siblings' house. Easy as that. No one needs to know, no drama unless you aren't the father and no big blow up. Don't worry about what you are and aren't entitled to. Just get it done and stop whining about it all the time, men. You can sure as shit bet if there was a magic button that would tell me whether my partner had been unfaithful or not, I'd be pressing that shit in secret. Furthermore, any …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:26 PM
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Plenty of male sluts are terrible in bed. Plenty of good men are good in bed. How many strangers you bang has very little to do with how good you lot are at it. Good sex comes from making an individual feel safe, comfortable, and knowing what works for them specifically. It's why casual sex is almost always terrible. Also, the median number of partners by 50 is something like 4-6. And everyone is WELL into being settled down by then. So all these promiscuous people are purely in your paranoid im…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 05:29 PM
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More and more women will stay single and unmarried unless they can find a partner who makes enough to earn being in a relationship. Women won't just start finding unattractive men attractive because there aren't as many as there were. More and more men will whine about isolation and loneliness, more and more women will be happly single.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 03:31 PM
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Can this account just he banned? It's SO OBVIOUSLY bait posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:34 PM
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I don't want to be rude in my answer here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 07:23 PM
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It's the same as every other manual. "Be confident, socially adept, and attractive. If you can't be those things, be quiet how lonely you are because you're bugging me." And that's it. It's all just rewordings if that. Honestly, as shitty as it sounds, I WISH more men would just learn the lesson.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 06:19 PM
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It's not a question of empathy. I'm just telling you how the world is. I have no emotion in this one way or another. Some people will be alone forever. Some children will get diagnosed with cancer. Some puppies will get hit by cars. It's actually sad, but it's objectively true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 05:37 PM
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Confidently, whilst being socially adept and attractive. If you're not all three of these things, DO NOT approach. Life isn't fair. Not everyone gets a chance to do everything. No book is going to help you if you can't get all three of the only important factors down. Honestly, if you have to read a book about how to interact with women, I'd say that you likely should stay away from women. It's not to say you have to die alone, there's other ways to get girlfriends, but do not approach unless yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 05:02 PM
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Women can approach if they want to, but I don't think even 5% would want to be in that position. Such a small percentage of men are actually attractive that it likely wouldn't alter the lives of 95% of men even if we did start approaching men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:54 PM
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Because I don't want to do it, and the societaly standard for men is that they should do it. If men don't meet the societal standard expected of their masculinity, they're failing as men. So I can. Trust me, I'm fully aware I lucked out as a woman on that one. I won't lie to you. Approaching is scary and hard, can be painful, and is subjecting yourself to some of the most painful rejections you can get. You're being looked at and given a thumbs up or thumbs down. Why would I want to be the one r…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:45 PM
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Sure, I guess? Feels like a weird point to cling onto, but whatever makes you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 10:48 PM
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I don't give a shit about altruism. I want what's good for my son, because he's MY son. I don't care about other people's sons.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 10:44 PM
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To date successfully, you have to have some morality. But the better looking you are, the less moral you HAVE to be. There's more leniency. It doesn't work in the other direction. As in, morality making up for looks. Looks can make up for a lack of morality. Morality can not make up for a lack of looks. The 6'5, sixpacked adonis with a full head of hair, killer teeth, and a great jawline guy can get away with being uncaring about the homeless. 5'4, chubby skinny fat, balding guy with a receding …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 08:49 PM
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Well, no. They think that two parent households are STATISTICALLY better for the child. No one is so stupid as to assume that they must inherently be good without exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 08:43 PM
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Well, no. When people say "X doesn't do Y", what they're saying is *"A high enough percentage of X doesn't do Y, so that it makes it acceptable to say X doesn't do Y, while being able to trust that others don't assume I'm speaking in absolutes. If 90% of women don't approach men romantically, then it becomes socially acceptable to say, "Women don't approach." People are generalising, not speaking in absolutes. This is social interaction 102. People are virtually never speaking in absolutes. It a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:16 PM
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A. Easy question. His life will be better. I'll cut to the root of what you're really asking. Attractiveness can make up for misogynistic viewpoints. There are certain types of misogyny viewpoints that can actually even be a bit attractive. I think the term is benevolent misogyny, or something. The worst thing a person can be is ugly and unattractive. It's basically the only thing either gender can't make up for. In the same sense as the make example, no guy is giving the ugly, fat, awkward woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 10:01 PM
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Sure thing. Wagies still gonna wagie, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:21 PM
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Cool, lose once indefinitely, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:18 PM
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Do you think they have the option, lmao? The types of men that have to decenter relationships, aren't the type to have relationships. You can't elect to not be a part of something you weren't allowed to be a part of. They also have to rely on and be correct in every other, or a great number of men, doing the same thing they are, and are willing to give up women and form more feminine relate with other men. This'll work in getting undesirable men to leave women alone, but the odds of finding pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:04 PM
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Adult love is more logical and less emotionally turbulent. Teen love was wild, exciting, unpredictable, and thrilling. Like doing MDMA. Colours were more vivid, feeling was more intense, air was brighter and more refreshing. I would ge giddy with excitement. Whereas adult love is nice in all the same respects, but dulled by like, 75%. I think it's just ageing. I can't be a giddy girl with my heart thumping out of my chest, ready to collapse into my loves arms, and stay against his chest for the …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 02:21 PM
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Of course, I wouldn't love a man who would treat me like that. He'd just be a pay pig. 🐽 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:02 PM
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Yes, I don't love him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:46 PM
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Don't care. If he's sleeping with other people, I don't love him. Whether that's selfish or not is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:20 PM
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If I'm sharing a high value man, then I don't love him. I'm just using him for whatever high value stuff he has. My cutoff is my emotional connection to him. He's basically a pay pig if I have to share him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 07:46 AM
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You're lonely, isolated, in pain and alone? You've been raised in a society that creates these issues and keeps them in place? You're so alone you think about suicide? And you don't see a way out? Try chemical castration! Lol. Lmao, even.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 06:29 PM
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If it's only lazy and/or autistic men that are isolated and lonely, I would've never been interested in them anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:42 PM
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You really can't. Pursuing is a risk that can be difficult, can be painful and embarrassing. Women don't want and, more importantly, we don't need to do that. If a man decides, he will no longer pursue, his chances if finding a partner drop INCREDIBLY. Men want women more than women want men, so there will always be more men pursuing women than vice versa. Women know this. They know there's an essentially endless supply of men that are desperate for their attention. If a man decides not to do th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:34 AM
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Men can hide some amount of fat by also being strong and having big muscles. You can be fat, muscular, and large. Large is a mix of fat and muscular. Muscular and large are attractive on men. Fat generally aren't. You also cannot be morbidly obese and hide that with muscles. But you can be a little obese and just be large with muscle. Women can't be fat or large. They can be slim or muscular. This is all generalising to the beauty standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:27 AM
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I'll be brutally honest. Just be confident isn't me telling you how to do it. It's me telling you what to do. I don't care if you can do it or not, just that you do it, or I don't think of you as attractive and disregard you. I don't care about any sob story or emotional trauma, no tragic backstory that explains a man's low self-esteem or whatever. It just isn't attractive. No one is saying it's easy. They're saying that they don't care. No one cares about your problem, only that you've fixed it…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 06:07 PM
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No, leftwing men are just as able to display toxic behaviour as right-wing men. While right-wing men are more likely to display traditionally positive masculinity. Maybe the shitty people are the ones who feel the need to hide back handed insults in their comments where their imply others must be shitty for their opinions towards masculinity and romantic partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:57 PM
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Right-wing men tend to be more masculine, which is to say more attractive. Statistically, they're also more likely to physically larger and go to the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:44 PM
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Yes, unless he's very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:43 PM
1

Did you type that while driving?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 10:56 AM
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Men have little reason to treat women like people if they aren't subservient to them. ☕️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 06:58 AM
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I know where you're going with this, so let's just skip it all. If you feel like you can alter the world to where men will be treated with the emotional attentiveness as women, go for it. Best of luck, genuinely. But I don't think you'll never make any notable changes in our lifetime. My advice would be for men to deal with the situation they're in, not the one they want to be in.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 11:15 AM
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Again, making sure there isn't a problem, isn't a problem. Making a problem, like cheating on your partner, is a problem. Honestly, yeah. I won't sugar coat it. Women tend to be more receiving of empathy than men in matters like this. Right, wrong, it doesn't matter. That's the way it is, and the way it's going to stay. You can live in this fantasy world where women and men are both going to be empathised with equally, but you don't. I'm giving you advice on how to conduct yourself as a man in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 10:52 AM
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No, of course not. What a ridiculous comparison. It's fine to check that you haven't been cheated on. Not to cheat. You can get an STD check without telling your partner if you suspect them of cheating on you. If it turns out you just had an ingrown hair, you don't need to bring it up to them. You didn't do anything wrong. You had a worry, you checked the worry, there wasn't anything to be worried about, so it's fine. Now, if you find out that you do have syphilis, you can act accordingly. But i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 10:38 AM
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I get it. If there were a way for me to be impregnated and have the baby be someone else's, you can bet your ass I'm getting a test done, regardless of how much I love my partner. No matter how much I trust them. If there's even the slightest chance of it, the theoretical possibility, I'm getting a test done. And let's be honest. Cheating isn't exactly uncommon these days. But heres the thing. Just fucking do it. Get the test, have the results sent to your mom's, or brothers house or whatever. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 10:34 AM
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Hot IS my type. But there are certain aspects I'd prioritise more, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:54 AM
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If he's hot, yeah. If he's not, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:40 AM
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Look, I'm aware that as a woman, I have a much easier time in aspects of life that men tend to have a harder time in. Namely, dating, love, sex and romance. That's generally true. We don't have to hide from that. What I don't understand is why women should give a shit? Do men care about the aspects of life where women have a harder time? Yeah. You're struggling. You're lonely. You're in emotional pain and so on. We know. We're aware of the suicide rates and everything else you guys don't shut up…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 01:54 AM
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Being boring makes a person a shitty romantic prospect. That just is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 01:34 PM
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Yes, these are features worthy of attention in the sexual marketplace. Worthy of attention being the definition of remarkable. Not low enough, apparently. As many men seem to be unable to enter a relationship and suffer loneliness
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 01:33 PM
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A deadbeat can't be particularly attractive physically? A deadbeat can't be exciting? A deadbeat can't be charismatic and charming? These are all traits that make one remarkable. If these bad guys didn't have remarkable traits that made them attractive, women wouldn't be sleeping with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 01:28 PM
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Repulsive in terms of relationships, yes. Being with someone you find borning and unremarkable in relationships is genuinely nauseating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 01:23 PM
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Oh, well, I wouldn't disagree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:30 PM
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Doesn't matter. Women are selectors, for the vast majority of the population anyway. These deadbeat men have aspects of themselves that don't suck and make them remarkable. Perhaps it is attractiveness, being exciting, or so something else. They have something about them that makes up for their negatives. Where as these lonely men don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:29 PM
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Being good is irrelevant in terms of being primarily attractive for both mem and women. You can be shitty and also be friends. Plenty of people have boring friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:16 PM
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Most unfuckable losers are unfuckable losers because they're shitty. They're repulsive in some way. Not exclusively villainy, it could be as simple as just being a boring person. They're shitty. Not as a moral statement, but one of personhood. If you're an unfuckable loser, it's because you suck in some fashion. Being shitty isn't as black and white and being mean and cruel. It's being unlikeable in some way. You can be shitty by being so bland or awkward to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:51 AM
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Men in their 50s aren't attractive in anything but the most extreme cases. Saying Elon is more attractive than Joe the Plumber is like saying cat shit is more attractive than dog shit. It's all shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:51 AM
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Ask in the Body Count Thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:36 AM
2

Dudes hideous. Wanting to fuck Elon Musk is chronically online.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 08:41 AM
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I'd phrase it more as being too shy/nervous to speak to the guys you like, but not really caring about the other guys, so you can be normal around them. But there's also guys I don't care about at all, so I don't interact with them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:20 AM
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Yeah, the ugly, flabby, 53 year old with a surgery broken face and a social disorder isn't attractive. No matter how tall or rich he might be. Yes, the term evolved over time. It's how language works.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:50 AM
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No man I've ever been in a relationship with has EVER given a shit about how much money I made. So long as I'm not dying. How much I made has never even come up in conversation. Or even been hinted towards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 11:03 PM
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These are features attractive when demonstrated by physically attractive men. Not 53 years old, pudgy, balding men with social disorders.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:56 PM
2

Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 08:31 PM
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Read it again. It doesn't mean that ALL women will be prepared to make the trade. Just that there ARE women who'd be willing to make the trade. Just because A woman is a prostitute does not mean ALL women are prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 07:58 PM
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When he was still the heir of an unbelievable rich family? While he was showering her with gifts? The same girlfriend who would later go on to auction off the pictures of them together so she could make more money?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:23 AM
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Any man can trade something in exchange for pussy. But that's all the woman in question will ever think of the situation. Sex with this man is an ordeal she must deal with in order to get what she wants. But other men are also sexually attractive outside of getting something beyond the sex. If you think women aren't aroused by incredibly handsome, fit, sexual men, but ARE aroused by frumpy 50 year olds with flabby bodies just because they have money to provide security, you're out of your mind. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 11:56 PM
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Even there, he's grotesque. He looks like a bloated man who's had a series of plastic surgeries that's left him with a bulbus, shiny face. Maybe, 50+ men just aren't attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 11:44 PM
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I literally couldn't care any less about hypergamy or men's feelings towards it. Whether it's real or not, it results in women getting the best. That's all I care about. You can deal with the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 11:27 PM
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Yeah, so long as he has lots of money and money related things you can have access to, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 11:18 PM
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Yeah, it's almost like 20+ year younger than him women he was sleeping with only did so for his money and influence, not his gross 53 year old body. Sex was the hurdle, not the goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 11:14 PM
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<image> Between his sickly body, uncanny Valley face, and extremely apparent social disorder, it's a wonder he's not got EVEN MORE children he neglects.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 11:07 PM
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You can tell if a guy gets pussy or not, despite wanting it. It's palpable. People also operate off of the assumption that a person is straight until given reason to think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:20 PM
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He can get pussy because he pays for it, not due to his own viscerally attractiveness. You can be an incel and still sleep with prostitutes. Elon Musk will never have sex with a woman because he's incredibly attractive to her. He will, however, find women who will tolerate sex with him in order to get something else. Sex with an incel can never be the goal, but can only be the hurdle in the way of the goal. Sex with non-incel men is a goal. Edit: People can disagree all they like, but I'd like A…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:13 PM
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Because they're getting pussy/can get pussy if they want it. They are not involuntarily celibate. Please, don't think you're clever and say something like "Uhh, so bad guys can be hot?? Smug reaction. " Yes. Bad guys can be hotter than incels. By definition of not being incels, they are. Get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:49 PM
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It's hard to put words, too. You know it when you see it. Being sad and open with me about being sad can draw me in closer and make me want be with you more. Sad isn't hot itself, but it makes me feel closer to them, which leads to greater attraction. Being TOO sad is like being repelled by a magnetic force that used to pull you toward it. The polarity switches. It's up to men to know when they're being too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 06:19 PM
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Well, yeah? We want men to be open with their emotions so we know who they really are inside. I want to know if I'm committed to someone worth committing to, and a wee wee cry baby, or sociopath or whatever. Part of wanting a person to be open with their emotions IS so that you can make judgements on what you're seeing. Men also wouldn't be in a relationship with a woman who expressed particular emotions that made them sick either. There ARE right and wrong emotions to express or to have too int…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 06:09 PM
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You can just get a test done in secret. Have the results sent to a friends house or a PO box. Skip out on all the drama, extra tax, and so on. No one needs to know. Honestly, if you're even a bit suspicious, there's no harm in it. Just make sure you're not an idiot and your partner doesn't find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 04:21 PM
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I don't know if you meant it to be funny, but that made me laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:51 AM
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Anything you need to cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 06:56 PM
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Sure won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 06:13 PM
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Sure, you keep waiting in that and I'll keep doing what I'm doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 06:04 PM
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No, they won't. They'll keep plodding along, doing the same thing they've always done.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 05:58 PM
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Pick me? I said I don't care if they drown, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 05:36 PM
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And where has that gotten you? With me reaping all the rewards, and you whining about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 05:22 PM
4

Again, more boohoo I'm having a hard time, so make your life worse to make mine better? How worse would you make your life to make mine better? You wouldn't. Not at all. Don't whinebat me, whine at men to stop whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:42 PM
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So date me or we'll being thr nazis back? No, sorry. I'm not loving you underthreat of recompense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:37 PM
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I'm 30, pretty plain looking, non obese, able-bodied, and... I'm assuming fertile. I've never checked. I'm pretty much, just not fat. In every other respect, I'm the default woman option.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:28 PM
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Men HAVE TO understand that even if you do love him, there's always another guy right around the corner. There's always an infinite supply.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:17 PM
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It's fine. There's always this talk of some impending revolution, but here's what really happens. Those men go onto live little meek, quiet lives where they live lives of isolation, shit post online, keep the gears spinning and give themselves over to whatever they find that sooths their loneliness. Be it video games or whatever else. Maybe at some point in the future, it'll go tits up, but not in my life, or any of yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:15 PM
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I'll fully cop to it. I have no issue with men knowing these things either. But don't ever expect me to change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:11 PM
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You don't get my extended empathy until you've proven you're worthy of it. I don't treat every sad little man like he's the love of my life because he isn't. I'm not sacrificing myself in order to save someone who likely isn't worth it. If you want to go jumping under every bus to save every loser out there, be my guest. But when you're doing that, you'll destroy yourself quickly and be used up and spat out by everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:10 PM
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I don't know anything about fancy water, it was just the first example that came to mind when carrying on from OPs desert/swamp analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:01 PM
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I wouldn't cry, I'd simply leave. There's more than enough great men out there. As soon as you get rid of one, you could have him replaced with another if you wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:00 PM
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Women are in control to make decisions with the information they have, but men are still able to lie and present false information.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 03:59 PM
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Nope, getting into a relationship is only a little bit more complicated. A smile at the right time, sweet words, a giggle, and they're smitten. Men delude themselves into believing that they're the guardian of relationships or whatever, but that's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 03:57 PM
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In selecting a sexual and romantic partner, one should be selfish. You MUST get yourself THE BEST mate you possibly can. Don't settle for anything less. If some men have to drown, so the rest of us can float in the sun, so be it. All is fair in love and war.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 03:53 PM
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I'm literally just normal looking. Most women, even normal ones, have a level of sexual and romantic power that most men can't imagine having. Being a totally average woman, the vast, vast majority of men are thrilled if we even stop to talk to one on the street in anything resembling romantic interest. We can make a man's whole day just by chatting and smiling.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 03:51 PM
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One thing is very clear. You have no idea what it's like to be a woman and have come to some pretty fantastical conclusions in your mind and think they at all represent reality. Your premises are incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 03:26 PM
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Maybe. Probably, yeah. He's my child, so I'd love him and likely want the best for him in all circumstances. But I'm not altering my wants and desires in life for some hypothetical son I may or may not have at some point in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 03:24 PM
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This isn't true, and we don't need to pretend it is. I, as a woman, have a better time in dating than men do. I'm not in a swamp, I have the keys to my own love life, and I can entertain most men I would find attractive, quite easily. I'm in my 30s, still live with my parents, and I STILL can enter relationships with men I'm attracted to at any time I see fit. I understand that some men are literally dying of isolation and loneliness. That the desert analogy is actually fitting for them. I under…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 03:08 PM
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If you don't put yourself first, no one will.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:21 AM
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I might see one man I find attractive enough to notice once every two or three months or so. I wouldn't know how many hundreds of people I'm seeing in that time frame, it could be in the thousands. Most people are just whatever normal people I don't think to pay any attention toward. If I see someone special, big, tall, kind looking, masculine, hot guy, them they catch my attention. Very rarely am I thinking strangers are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:18 AM
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And they say men aren't overly emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:15 AM
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Please, don't get so angry that you break the rules of the sub again.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:53 PM
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Fine, pick breast size or whatever you want. Point still stands. Its not unkind to answer a question men keep asking us. It's unkind to force us into situations where we have to like in order to preserve your insecurities. If you don't like the answer, don't ask the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:57 PM
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Men have been asking us directly what we think of penises. It's not insulting to answer questions just because they don't like the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:52 PM
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Compare it to anything you feel is more fitting then. My point remains the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:40 PM
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I know who I'd rather be making feel good anyway. 😝
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:11 PM
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Yes. If they let it affects them negatively, they shouldn't go to those places.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:10 PM
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The truth can hurt, but it doesn't make it any less truthful. If it upsets you, don't go to places where women discuss men's penises.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:04 PM
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Of course it affects men, but who cares? Do men care how it makes fat women feel when they talk about how they don't like fat women but instead prefer skinny women? Why should women care that it hurts men's feelings when we say we don't like small penises but instead prefer big ones? Women get to have preferences, even if it upsets you. If you don't have a longer, thicker penis, and you get upset hearing women have more enjoyable sex with those, don't ask. I understand that men with small to ave…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:58 PM
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Of course, it affects men, but who cares? Do men care how it makes fat women feel when they talk about how they don't like fat women but instead prefer skinny women? Why should women care that it hurts men's feelings when we say we don't like small penises but instead prefer big ones? Women get to have preferences, even if it upsets you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:51 PM
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An end to loneliness and romantic isolation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 05:07 PM
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I understand that it makes you feel differently about a woman. I'm asking that you please let women know that you're that kind of man, preferably early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:20 AM
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Please, keep asking so we know who you are right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:17 AM
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Women are happier being single because they can be in a relationship at whatever time they choose. I'm never REALLY single, I'm just not dating anyone. If I wanted, I could be dating someone tomorrow. Being single is a lot less oppressive when you know that you're the one in charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:51 AM
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So long as it wasn't gargantuan, it wouldn't put me off of him. It's quite exciting when your partner is well endowed. It does something to your mental state. It's thrilling. It's nice knowing your man has a big package. It's very masculine. Length is for the mental effect. Girth is for the physical. He will have to go slower and be more careful with it, but not insanely so, just ease into it a little. It's not a deal maker, but it is a deal sweetener. It's similar to height in some ways. I'm no…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:18 AM
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Fun isn't the best word, but being taken care of is nice and comfortable. It's fun to have a wild time, then nice to be pampered, adored and taken care of.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 07:02 PM
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Alright, well. Enjoy living in your revenge fantasy, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:41 PM
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You're not listening, and you're missing what I'm saying to you. We can have the bad guy and the good guy. Whenever we want. You don't have to swallow anything. You just get what you wash when you want it. There's literally no struggle here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:37 PM
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It's not swallowing your pride. You just want someone there to take care of you and love you. You don't have to swallow your pride because you wanted steak yesterday, but you want chicken today. You just get what you want. There is always another bad guy, but you don't feel like you want him anymore, you just want someone to look after you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:31 PM
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The vast majority of women can get a sweet, caring, but unattractive man the day they decide they want him. There's no shortage of lonely, desperate men out there that would worship the ground a woman walks on in a relationship with them. How many men here alone whine constantly about how lonely they are despite being sweet? The bad guy isn't fun for long periods. They're only fun in the short term. By the time it's over, you're already over it. You can have as many good times with a bad guy as …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:24 PM
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Some men are more viscerally attractive and sexual. They do this by being hyper masculine. They tend to be big, aggressive, domineering, strong, and with an attractive edge. The kind of man you want to grab you, pin you to the wall and bite your neck. But being attracted to these kinds of men is a bit embarrassing because you know they're so bad for you, but that only makes them more. These men are also more likely to make the first move, which men should be doing. We're not stupid. We know that…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:13 PM
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Truthfully, I'd examine the type of life I would have with the unattractive man. Does he have the money to support me and maybe our children? Is he kind enough, or am I going to have to put up with bad treatment? I could get past being with an unattractive partner if he were to sufficiently improve my life in other ways. It's the same thing for being with an attractive man with no finances. He's improving my life, just in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 05:39 PM
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Immediately, the first man to post in the thread did so in order to justify his fantasy of hurting a woman for doing something he disliked.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:28 PM
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Men use anything to justify their sociopathic behaviour towards women. Claiming they're experiencing abusive behaviour from a woman is nothing new.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:18 PM
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Helps who?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 03:08 PM
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Oh, barely. 99.99999% just sit inside, play video games, and whine about male loneliness. A handful in every few billion go schizo. I don't really care. Same with Trump, I don't really care. Young sexless men are violent. You mean like the young, constantly having sex men who are responsible for virtually all the violence in their demographic? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 03:06 PM
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Yeah, the western world will fall apart because muh no pussy. We'll be war torn Iraq in 60 years. And just to think, it could all be avoided if women threw some pity pussy to work a day dweebs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:58 PM
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I'm sure society will fall into utter disarray because women have sex with attractive men, lmao. The world isn't going to fall apart because nice guy, meek men aren't getting as much pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:17 PM
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I'm happy as I am. Life has been pretty great. You're unhappy with the way I am, and I see no reason to make myself unhappy for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 01:31 PM
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If he's attractive and displays attractive traits, we'll be attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 09:46 AM
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You can be as angry about it as you want, but it doesn't change the fact that men who are more assertive and confident are just more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:39 AM
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It depends. They tend to be assertive, confident, and pretty enthusiastic about their look, which are all attractive features. They also tend to have money to do things and live well. That is also attractive. And the sex tends to be incredible. But there's a lot of really obvious downsides. The issue is that regular men tend not to be very confident, assertive, and look quite... boring. Lots of guys just aren't exciting, thrilling, or evoking of any emotional state to be around. They also tend t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:03 AM
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It's not chastity and purity. It's having some social decorum. Why immediately go straight to sucking cock/eating pussy? It's so juvenile. You also wouldn't fall in love with someone on the soul basis that they gave you oral sex, where as you would fall in love with someone due to their kindness and tenderness. There was an assumption that you'd be having sexual relations with the person you love.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:03 PM
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It's some combination of factors. Like how someone looks, carries themselves, looks at others, behaves, their social ability all coming together to make someone... unsexual. The thought of fucking some men is like fucking a family member, even if you don't know them. It's just... not what any woman wants. Not to be a bummer, but those kinds of men are near universally seen as unsexual, too. It might be just picking up on someone's autism or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:50 AM
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You can't. At best, unsexual men can be like brothers, but that's it. I don't know how to put it other than they give off an unsexual energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:24 AM
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I'll be brutally honest. If it's 18, you were likely a bit awkward and weird in high school, but that can be fine depending on the person. By 25, it's concerning. You're likely VERY awkward and likely have some kind of autistic disorder. It's not the END of everything, but it is a major sign that you might be an unsexual man. By 30, I'm basically positive there's something majorly wrong with you. And even if there isn't now, you're likely to become way too attached early on and depend on me for …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:36 AM
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Absolute coomer nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:23 PM
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Of course, for a woman to be interested in you, you have to be attractive to us. It's not that we hide this, it's that we assume you're adult enough to understand that from the get-go. Being attractive is what gets you in the door, but that's not enough to get the job, you also need to pass the background check and the interview in order to get the job. I do care about your social status and whatever else. We get tired of explaining what we like in men, then having someone like you turn around a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:20 PM
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Whatever you want to call it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:31 AM
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In all likelihood, if other women aren't into him, there's good reason for me not to be into him, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:57 PM
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I'm not advocating for anything, I'm just telling men how women and the world REALLY feel. As in, they currently feel. Of course I don't want men to start treating women the way women treat men. But I'm exactly zero percent worried about that ever happening because I'm absolutely positive they never will. Even when being entirely honest about this dynamic. Men will literally never reverse this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:53 PM
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Honestly, if they'd take note and just go away, it would be the best outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:45 PM
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It's not the male population that'll turn around. It's the lonely men. Of course, things would be bad if ALL men turned around, but they won't. The happy ones are getting what they want, so they'll never turn around. The lonely men, the ones we don't care about, can do whatever they want. How they feel is irrelevant. Happy, sad, angry, alone, it doesn't matter. No one cares what they think or their opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:44 PM
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You can if you want, it won't really affect women's lives. We'll still be treated the way we have been. Do it. It literally won't change anything. We already treat men the way I've described, and women are treated well. It's literally the current status quo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:31 PM
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I don't smoke or drink. Maybe you do, as you seem to be experiencing an episode of mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:22 PM
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Yeah, I can see Colorado following Arab Spring, lmao. Live in delusion of you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:11 PM
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Based and blackpilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:03 PM
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Revenge fantasies...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:52 PM
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Honestly, it doesn't matter. Realistically, womens lives won't change one bit. Vote far right, vote far left, everything I enjoy about being a woman will be the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:44 PM
2

If they ever had it in them, they would have done it before now and wouldn't be in this position to start with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:38 PM
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Thank you. There's no point in lying on the Internet, so I might as well just say it. They won't do anything. If we're honest with ourselves, they know we don't care. They've likely known for years if they've been experiencing it. If they were the kinds of men who didn't meekly sit in the dark, seething online in places like r9k and reddit, they'd be in a better situation now. It's all just revenge fantasise. Yeah, every now and again, some lunatic goes and does something horrible to people that…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:23 PM
1

I won't. I'm happy as I am and with the men I care about. It's some men that need me to change. I'm not the one in pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:17 PM
1

I don't care if it changes. Like I said, I don't care about those men. And if we're honest, the vast, vast majority of people don't. Social change requires women to change, and most women and a lot of men just don't want to. It doesn't benefit them, so they don't care to do so. It benefits me in no way to lower the bar for men, so I won't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:16 PM
1

We know the problem, it just isn't going to be solved. Men are expected to be a certain way. If they're not that way, they become unattractive and undesirable. I'm not willing to because I don't have to. There's no consequence for me if some guys are lonely. Like I said, there's no reason for me to care about those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:13 PM
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Look, I'll be honest with you. We KNOW male friendships aren't as close as our friendships. We KNOW you're lonely and outside of romantic relationships, you don't really get closeness to anyone. We KNOW you're in pain. We don't give a shit. If you're the kind of guy that suffers from loneliness, isolation, and most importantly, a lack of romantic interest, them no one cares about what pain you might be in. We KNOW there's basically zero chance that you'll be able to manage to switch up hundreds …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:02 PM
1

If one section of society did ONLY care about looks, then the respect and value we give them would also reflect that. If men or women were universally shallow and superficial, we would owe them less in society. We value good people with depth and profound emotions and feelings towards others. If one section of society is only interested in the superficial, society would rightfully value them less. In the same sense, a partner who loves you for who you are, your thoughts, feelings, actions, and i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:12 PM
0

It's because they're hot. Stop over thinking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:48 PM
0

Inb4 What does a person's past matter? As though a person's past isn't entirely the greatest method of predicting their future actions. And imagine thinking a person's feelings and views around sex, intimacy, and romance aren't incredibly important in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:47 PM
32

I see how it increases an incel problem, but incels aren't really MY problem. I never run into any in real life. It's only an Internet thing for me. If I didn't have the Internet, I'd go my whole life, not even realising there WAS an incel problem. Inceldom is another issue for men. Men who fall into it end up suffering. Even if they fall into it because they're pushed into it. It only affects women who willfully enter those spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 02:12 AM
226

Just to be a little clearer. It's not that women WON'T look past flaws. It's that they don't HAVE TO look past flaws. Women are always going to have far, far more suitors than men are. It's just the way it is. She refuses to accept a flaw, she gets closer to a flawless man. If a man won't look past flaws, he gets loneliness. If a woman won't look past flaws, she just gets a better man. As a woman, I don't HAVE TO settle for a man living with his parents. Ect. Ect. Even if I have those exact same…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 12:25 AM
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I don't agree with the premise, but it is VERY funny to see so many women here talking as though sleeping around and not having an orgasm is something akin to a traumatic event, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 04:55 PM
11

A good man wouldn't be having sex with someone he didn't love.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:03 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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