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I do think it's worth the effort, but I'll let you do you. I just ask that you don't make it hard for me to defend the movement. While the feminists are gaining the support of both women and men, we shouldn't be pushing people away. Mgtow will be meaningless if it's only a handful of guys.
/r/MensRights05/05/24 10:57 PM
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Gotta start somewhere... I think we could start by not putting targets on our backs, acting just like the feminists. Let's not give people a reason to hate us.
/r/MensRights05/05/24 10:28 PM
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You don't think we should gather support from women?
/r/MensRights05/05/24 10:25 PM
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Not sure what you're getting at, exactly. My comment sure did get a lot of hate, though. Strange, cuz I'm pretty sure calling women emotional and illogical as a sweeping generalization here is emotionally charged. Understandable but counterproductive. There are many well-reasoned women who will dismiss the cause because of statements like that, and it gives feminists ammo to paint us with a broad brush. Well, at least here I don't get banned like I do from every feminist sub.
/r/MensRights05/05/24 10:21 PM
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That's a sweeping generalization, which I disagree with. I'll give you that feminists argue from emotion and have successfully manipulated a decent portion of the population, but I wouldn't go around making claims like yours that could undermine this movement and make it look spiteful instead of reasoned.
/r/MensRights05/05/24 07:33 PM
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Or making arguments in logical form.
/r/MensRights05/05/24 06:55 PM
1

Make me king. I'll fix it.
/r/MensRights05/05/24 06:46 PM
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Replace every instance of 'man' with 'black person' in their comments; they get really defensive.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/05/24 06:16 PM
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You have horrible taste in friends.
/r/MensRights04/05/24 10:55 PM
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Does anyone have a link to the study this is likely referring to? I believe it was a survey exclusively on like a single college campus, in which they defined rape as any gendered act that makes one feel uncomfortable and violence as anything that makes one feel uncomfortable, or some bologna like that. This makes that argument 1. stupid, which it already was, and 2. circular.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/05/24 10:24 PM
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That comment section made my brain hurt. "But it's not about whether or not JEWS are actually dangerous, it's about how the JEWS make us feel." Like, okay, Hitler.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/05/24 10:20 PM
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So, what you're saying is that Asian women are underrepresented in waste management. Get them to the sewers!
/r/MensRights02/05/24 04:03 AM
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Yeah, why aren't we making women and minorities do all the jobs we hate? Liberation!
/r/MensRights01/05/24 04:06 PM
1

I'd rather take my chances with a bear than a woman. At least, the bear won't accuse me of rape.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/05/24 04:55 AM
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Idk about this study, as I said, but the basic conclusion is pretty well backed up by studies probing evolutionary mating strategy. In fact, the basic model of female dating strategy across the animal kingdom (you know, mostly) is the battle model where a few males are desirable. This is not even the least bit controversial. Look at the mate choice and sexual selection documents on the open access nih.gov. it's pretty well known that everything from bugs to people follow basically the same rule.…
/r/MensRights26/04/24 06:30 AM
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No, if you're a male abused by a male, they eat that GAY up. Sorry, been in both situations, so it's cathartic. Yeah, I'm really ashamed of our species. Like when God comes down from his space ship and asks what we been doing for 2000 years I'm just gonna look at the ground
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/04/24 06:10 AM
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Fertility rate has nothing to do with how well we can reproduce and how healthy our sperm, eggs, and whatever else are. It's just a ratio of births to people. In other words, people aren't having kids cuz like naw.
/r/MensRights26/04/24 05:35 AM
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https://blogs.sas.com/content/sastraining/2014/10/16/how-do-men-rate-women-on-dating-websites-part-2/ Data begs to differ. Idk about this secondary source, but the data is true.
/r/MensRights26/04/24 05:16 AM
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I thought #metoo was great until I tried posting my experience and was laughed off the stage...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/04/24 04:41 PM
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Men are disposable. It's easy not to care about men when everyone grows up being told that girls are precious. Now that you're a man, there is little incentive to care about you. Get a job you hate, work yourself to the bone, provide value for everyone but yourself, have no feelings, and don't complain. At least, that's what women will expect as the default (yes, I am grossly generalizing, don't pick on me). We will slowly change the course of female preference through education and empathy, and…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/04/24 04:39 PM
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I mean, there was no implication that you would be involved in the dress anyway... Celtics wore skirts called kilts, boys used to wear dresses
/r/MensRights11/09/22 06:52 PM
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That assumes you and I share the same culture.
/r/MensRights11/09/22 06:49 PM
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That's not even true, though. This is one of the things that is culture-dependent.
/r/MensRights11/09/22 06:44 PM
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You must take great care to use language, reason, and emotion effectively when you speak with others. Make your points so clearly that your thoughts cannot be misconstrued on any level. The reason, or logic, should be valid and sound with strong evidence stated in it's most simple form. An example, 'If A is true, then B must be true. A is clearly true because of XYZ. So, B is true.' Clear and concise language will ensure that the meaning and purpose of each word is identified and defined, genera…
/r/MensRights26/08/22 07:35 AM
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Men go to war, men freeze in the cold to build a shelter, men sacrifice their bodies and their lives for women ang children. It's no wonder we're told not to cry. What use would we be if I had to fight to protect my wife and baby from a bear but I was scared and started crying? That's the biological imperative nature gave to us, but we don't need to think like that anymore. Teach your sons to feel.
/r/MensRights21/08/22 06:55 PM
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You sound like a good father. Teach your son how to feel and not to let anyone stop him from feeling.
/r/MensRights21/08/22 06:40 PM
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Men are the only ones that want men to be allowed to feel. There are men's groups that you can join that will actually listen to you, as a man should listen to his brother, and lift you up. If your partner is really neglecting your emotions, she isn't worth her weight in dirt. Do remember that it's hard to know what to do when someone is grieving, so maybe your wife is just really bad at it. A true test: tell her precisely what you want her to say and do for you to heal. If she doesn't do that w…
/r/MensRights21/08/22 06:35 PM
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What is your experience like as a woman in construction? Are there differences between you and the majority of women that compelled you to take such a job? What would make the job more appealing to most women? Why do you think it is currently unappealing to most women? I am a very feminine man, and I would never work in a job like construction. I would have to get sweaty, dirty, and mess up my nails and hair. The smell of other men's sweat would make me sick to my stomach. It seems like a job mo…
/r/MensRights20/07/22 01:15 PM
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I never said not to tell her that she's a rapist, but to do it in a way that gets her to listen. I called her a rapist, too. You don't need shame to change someone's behavior, and it isn't even an effective way to do it without being able to reinforce the shame. Shame worked a long time ago in small communities, but anonymous shame over the internet is weak.
/r/MensRights11/07/22 04:53 AM
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Even if she doesn't see it as rape, maybe she won't do it again if we actually CONVINCE her that it's wrong nonetheless. Legally, it matters, but I can't do anything legally. So, let's just try to convince people instead of acting just like the feminists. Attacking people for wrong-think is not the way to make change.
/r/MensRights11/07/22 04:48 AM
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Not what I said. She is a terrible person but what is anonymous shaming going to do? She will just delete the post and keep acting like this. Do you know where she lives? Can you call the police on her? No, so the best we can do is try to change her mind.
/r/MensRights11/07/22 04:42 AM
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I feel sympathetic towards both the male and female that raped me when I was young. It was hard for me to come to terms with the fact that they won't receive any punishment, but I don't believe so much in punishment as in reform. I would rather have my rapists genuinely apologize to me and change their ways than see them behind bars. This isn't a gendered issue, either. If the roles were reversed I would have said the same. But that's besides the point. The point is that the only way you're gonn…
/r/MensRights11/07/22 04:35 AM
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Yes. That's the best way to convince a stranger. Their anonymity prevents any of us from actually doing anything EXCEPT trying to make them understand. I can't call the cops on "thisIsThrowAwayAccount", so why not try to genuinely convince them that they're in the wrong?
/r/MensRights11/07/22 04:28 AM
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Yeah it's horrible and disgusting, but young people of both sexes do this shit all the time and justify to themselves. That's the power of hormones, it turns good people into rapey creatures. I'd like to ask this sub to be constructive and sympathetic, like you have their best interest in mind, that's the only way to change a stranger's beliefs. I was raped by a girl in high school and I wouldn't ask that she be pulled apart because of it. Just that she someday understands that what she did was …
/r/MensRights11/07/22 03:53 AM
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Yeah, man. Everything is radicalized now... I hate it, that's why I identify as a radical centrist.
/r/MensRights18/06/22 02:44 AM
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Yeah but I trust Shapiro, the guys wife is a doctor, after all.
/r/AntiFeminists16/06/22 12:43 PM
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She dodged a bullet by getting banned. Who knows whether or not exposure to the toxic waste has any side effects.
/r/AntiFeminists16/06/22 12:42 PM
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She dodged a bullet by getting banned. Who knows whether or not exposure to the toxic waste has any side effects.
/r/AntiFeminists16/06/22 12:42 PM
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I didn't say you said it, but I had to say what had to be said. You left-handers always try to play the victims. Guess what? I'm not buying it
/r/MensRights12/06/22 09:39 PM
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That doesn't mean right-handed people can't or shouldn't complain about things that effect them.
/r/MensRights12/06/22 08:29 PM
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Biology is, in fact, changing. Men have more estrogen than they used to. Men and women will likely, over time, become more physiologically similar as the demand for brute strength is reduced by technology. Men are still stronger and women are still more socially apt, but it's all slowly changing.
/r/AntiFeminists09/06/22 03:09 AM
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Lol no problem
/r/AntiFeminists07/06/22 06:19 PM
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/s is common on Reddit when you want to convey sarcasm. At least, it was on pupular subs. It comes from html coding, I think, in which individual sections are labeled following this example: <heading> Title </heading> Where the opening tag <heading> says that what comes next is the heading for the website while the closing tag </heading> says the header is complete. For brevity, on Reddit, the opening tag and brackets are removed. My original comment was then: <sarcasm> ...sexist bullshit... </s…
/r/AntiFeminists07/06/22 05:54 PM
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You do know /s
/r/AntiFeminists07/06/22 05:34 PM
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Lol, don't get me wrong. Animal societies are not strictly about instinct. There are logical, cognitive processes that lead animal societies in one or another direction. For example, if a chimp makes his way to the top of the hierarchy by being a bully, then a group of weaker chimps gang up on the big chimp and kill him. Murder in a society of chimps is certainly wrong, but in the case of a tyrant maybe murder is justified BECAUSE it benefits the society for a chimp law to be 'you can only kill …
/r/AntiFeminists07/06/22 01:39 PM
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Oh, I see. I am sorry to hear that. I hope you and your husband live long, happy lives. Cancer takes the best people and makes you watch as they suffer. I know the hurt and rollercoaster of emotions: hopes and fears. It is unfortunate for my wife that she cannot be on birth control because she gets cysts on her ovaries and the birth control would also keep them from growing. So, she is in a lot of pain during her period. As soon as we finish having kids she wants to get the whole thing ripped ou…
/r/AntiFeminists07/06/22 01:32 PM
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There are many sources of morality, just not objective morality. In order for you to prove that God is the source of morality you need to 1. prove God exists, 2. prove that God only speaks the truth, 3. prove that God actually said these things. The morality of an animal species usually comes from survival mechanisms brought about by social nature. This is why chimps may share their food. We live in a complex society and the social rules are muddied by variations in the genetic makeup of people.…
/r/AntiFeminists07/06/22 01:24 PM
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Religion led to things like the dark ages... I think we need to move past religion and build a morality based on simple principles and minimize the harm of perfectly natural things like premarital sex. There is a good reason premarital sex is frowned upon in religion, but we have much more control now and the harm is reduced significantly. Edit: I realize my comment comes off as rude, my apologies. I do mean that we have a secular society and that we cannot and should not use the rules of religi…
/r/AntiFeminists07/06/22 01:13 PM
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Oh, good. I am glad to hear it works well for you. Do you have any ways that you reduce the nausea? And why not do something more permanent, like tubal ligation or a vasectomy? I'm just curious, not critical.
/r/AntiFeminists07/06/22 01:04 PM
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Well said. I made a similar comment, albeit less coherently, probably because it was late and I was high, and expected a bunch of backlash. Surprisingly, it seems like the feelings are mixed in this sub. The reactions to my comments have been respectful and non-aggressive, which really gives me hope for this movement. I am constantly worried that this movement will fracture into 100 different sub-movements all infighting, which is what feminism did, but I am continually surprised by the etiquett…
/r/AntiFeminists07/06/22 01:00 PM
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"most people" don't ACTUALLY care about their religion. Add the atheists to the once-a-year church goers and most of the United States doesn't care about what the Bible thinks is sinning. Even most people who do believe that don't care very much. I noticed this stark contrast escaping the religious cult I was born into, which was as strict as you say. Most people don't care as much as they pretend to, though.
/r/AntiFeminists07/06/22 12:53 PM
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I don't know what the big deal is... Like, when cleaning the dishes or cleaning the sewers you wear gloves. So how different is it, really? /s
/r/AntiFeminists07/06/22 12:48 PM
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Thanks for the information, I appreciate your effort and willingness to educate. And thank you for tolerating my 'thinking aloud'. Though my numbers were incorrect, I don't think my point is much different because the failure rate for condoms and hormonal BC together is 0.07x0.13=0.009= 0.9%, using the CDC statistics. So, using the pill makes it 10 times less likely she gets pregnant.
/r/AntiFeminists07/06/22 12:38 PM
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He is doing a cost-benefit analysis, in which it is most preferable for a male to have a partner on hormonal BC because it will cost less assuming the same outcome at different probabilities. He is getting at the fact that it's better to have more avenues of protection than less.
/r/AntiFeminists07/06/22 12:25 PM
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First, thank you for this great information. I already did disagree with the idea that a man should pay child support for a child they did not want and did not have a choice in maintaining the fetuses life. It is nice to see that older, more respectable feminists have brains. I still don't think many of those other things help that much, though. All of the chemical birth controls have side effects that are almost always negative. One is actual surgery. A few are a nuisance. And the final one is …
/r/AntiFeminists07/06/22 04:59 AM
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My wife was on the pill. It made her mean and selfish and almost destroyed our marriage. Every BC medicine she tried changed her personality significantly and for the worse. I agree with you and am totally for BC, I just want to spread awareness. Ask your partner, family, and friends if you have had a significant change in personality or perceived happiness since taking the BC. If so, maybe a vasectomy is a good option.
/r/AntiFeminists07/06/22 03:52 AM
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I hate feminism, it's cancer. Now don't ban me like feminist subs for disagreeing with this initially. I don't think we should just dismiss the effects of birth control on women, nor should we remove the option of birth control. I think we need to expand the options of birth control so that both sexes can completely determine their reproduction while enjoying sexual relationships. Is there something I am missing?
/r/AntiFeminists07/06/22 03:47 AM
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'Men going their own way' is a movement where men stop forming relationships with women. Usually, these are people who have been abused by women or by society for their beliefs or actions. Some men choose this based on reason or caution, though
/r/MensRights21/05/22 06:23 PM
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Your view is perfectly consistent with denying an Uber ride to a black person just because you think they might steal your muffler. This is why discrimination is illegal, it gives a huge power to the majority that can negatively impact the rights of others and make their lives unnecessarily difficult.
/r/MensRights21/05/22 06:03 PM
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Lot of people saying to run. I think only you can tell if you should. Is this a one-off remark or does she believe many things like this? A girl might say "men are such jerks" after getting their hearts broken but they don't really mean it. Does she generally hold sexist beliefs? If so, consider the difficulty in navigating that relationship long-term. She hates what you are, will blame you for her problems, and make you feel ashamed. That is no way to live.
/r/MensRights17/04/22 07:20 PM
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I wish you and your children peace. I think it would mean more to your children that you are mindful of them rather than seeking revenge. You got what you wanted, maybe let it go and move past this with your kids. Do you really want your kids growing up with a father that holds grudges? Would they be scared to try something new, fearing you? Would they be the kind of people to carry on to hold grudges? Would they be so scared of vengeance that they never form relationships? Your ex was a POS and…
/r/MensRights09/04/22 02:16 AM
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Damn, I'm sorry to hear that. I hope you recover from that loss. It's sickening how backwards that is, though. There appeared to be an enormous bias against your friend, if what you say is wholly accurate. It seems like there are a lot of sex offenders on the list who have served extensive jail time for a much lesser crime.
/r/MensRights08/04/22 11:19 PM
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My landlord got 8 years in jail because he had 3 pictures of a naked 16 year old, that lied about her age, but did not engage in any sexual activity. Then all these female teachers have sex with 16 year old and get a slap on the wrist. Hmmm...
/r/MensRights08/04/22 12:39 PM
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I don't think I am confusing them. Being evil is just one way in which a person can be wrong, assuming that evil means 'deliberately harming others' and that 'harming others is wrong'. Evil isn't the only negative result of wrongness. Expressing belief in incorrect ideas isn't necessarily evil, but it does usually make people feel ashamed. I suspect that is because when people believe in something wrong, they often have either done something to hurt someone unwittingly or allowed for someone to …
/r/MensRights26/03/22 05:40 AM
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If Hitler realized the error of his ways, I don't think he would be proud of his growth. His growth would be the bare minimum we should expect, so there is nothing be proud of but everything to feel bad about. Do you disagree?
/r/MensRights26/03/22 04:45 AM
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I am a bit upset about the way you view shame. It's as if you think no one should experience shame, which doesn't feel right. Shame can be useful, it evolved for a reason. It seems only natural that someone who finds out they were wrong would feel ashamed. The selfishness of going back and deleting a post you disagree with now isn't a tragedy. I will say, however, that being able to read the deleted comment without identifying the OP would be beneficial since it could convince someone else with …
/r/MensRights26/03/22 03:09 AM
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Is it your money that buys them anyway? That's how it is for me lol
/r/MensRights25/01/22 05:37 PM
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Lol, name one. You cant.
/r/MensRights10/12/21 04:52 AM
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"As with most strategies" made me exhale loudly from my nose. I second this, though. Really go for it and try to make the school look as ridiculous and draconian as you can. High school administration has become so toxic that I think someone needs to show them at their worst and set a precedent. Team Piss Conditional.
/r/MensRights10/12/21 04:51 AM
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As a man, I would gladly accept a bros homemade dildo.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/11/21 05:37 PM
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I think it was a sweet gesture of compassion and understanding. /s There's really no need to hand out sex toys. Never underestimate the ingenuity of a horny man.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/11/21 05:36 PM
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Well, clearly men can't work with children given that they are all rapists and child molesters. Seriously though, I don't think we should push for men going into those fields in the same way they push women. My wife was pressured by her parents to be strong and independent, "get a good, high paying job in stem", she was told. She didn't want that. She wants to be a SAHM but now we're an extra 100k in debt cuz society pushes choices onto people. We need to quit pestering people about what jobs yo…
/r/MensRights05/11/21 02:31 AM
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I think she gets 50 points for that one. What do you guys think?
/r/AntiFeminists08/10/21 10:22 PM
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My eyes, often on campus or within government or in stores. Online and on tv in any news source. I like MSNBC and mostly watch that, especially Maddow and Shaprton, but can't stand Hayes. CNN pretty often and CSPAN every morning. I tend to stay away from fringe news sources but I have found some independent journalists that do some good work. Anyway, why is this relevant? I want to know about Malawi.
/r/AntiFeminists29/09/21 02:07 AM
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I hate feminism in America because it has become a spiteful organization dedicated to controllong the social and political landscape through thought policing and shaming. Feminism, as much as I have observed it in my own country and on the internet, is a disease. That being said, I don't know a single thing about Malawi but maybe they really do need feminism there... despite the chief being female, which doesn't seem unequal to me. But hey, I don't know anything about there society so if anyone …
/r/AntiFeminists29/09/21 01:47 AM
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I agree... If anything, you need to keep evidence of mutual engagement in the activity. If you were both in this "making out" together, then the video will show clearly that there is no forced action. Without the video, there is only her word and the words of all those frat guys who think you're a rapist. Don't delete the video, find someone who has a copy and keep the copy somewhere safe.
/r/MensRights21/09/21 12:17 PM
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What a vile place. I never looked at the fds page before but my god it's horrible. I believed some of the people in this antifeminist subreddit overreact to a few things and assumed fds was one of them... But holy shit I am disgusted.
/r/AntiFeminists21/09/21 11:33 AM
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Wow, a lot of you are lucky. Everyone around me, men and women alike, will chastise a man for crying or showing emotion. Because of this, I developed a pretty severe depression, anhedonia, and dissociation giving me a completely flat affect so that I sound and look like an empty shell. I am working on that. My wife is supportive and medication and therapy are helping. But God damn what I would have given to have had one person just let me cry.
/r/MensRights21/09/21 01:33 AM
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By posting that here I assume you already knew that you should break up... It isn't worth it, there are people who will respect you out there in the world. Good luck
/r/MensRights21/09/21 01:26 AM
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When we speak up about German oppression and abuse, obviously we know it's not all jews. But when 1 in 3 Germans are conned by a jew in their lifetime, it's enough to make all Germans afraid. I think that's how it went.
/r/MensRights20/03/21 06:51 AM
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