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| 0 | Modern feminism is female supremacy, feminists don't actually want equalityAh, okay then. "one of the most blatantly patriarchal religions on the planet" came across as quite negative to me when I read it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 02:38 PM |
| 0 | Modern feminism is female supremacy, feminists don't actually want equalityThey're just describing the more generic definition of "discriminate" in which it doesn't mean anything bad. Like, I can discriminate between two brands of ketchup. It makes sense to not say "I discriminate in dating" because people might get the wrong idea, but because "discriminate" has two definitions, the other commenter was pointing out that it is incorrect to say you "don't discriminate in dating" because it implies you'll date literally anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 09:20 AM |
| 0 | Modern feminism is female supremacy, feminists don't actually want equalityYou can't really equate the two. Feminists might push for the upsides of being men without the downsides, and without giving up their unique benefits, and therefore not be pushing for equality, but there isn't really any objective benefits to being LGBTQ; so, any positive they gain that the cis straights already have is always going to be a step towards equality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 09:14 AM |
| 0 | Modern feminism is female supremacy, feminists don't actually want equalityMaybe don't adhere to it then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 09:03 AM |
| 1 | “Men are expected to be attractive and/or funny, fun, charismatic, etc - women just have to exist”Ah, I see. Yeah, fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 02:53 PM |
| 1 | “Men are expected to be attractive and/or funny, fun, charismatic, etc - women just have to exist”JDBF? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Nice guys are given contradictory advice that keeps them in a loop and never answers their predicamentSometimes, you find that romantic spark with someone while you're chatting. Other times, it just isn't going to happen. There's no use trying to hyper focus on acting in certain specific ways and abandoning old tactics. Be chill, be funny, don't push too hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Women’s sexual preferences are seen as valid while men’s sexual preferences are notWell, I think it's more that people hate preferences that they can't qualify for. It doesn't bother me if women are more attracted to men that are slimmer, more muscular, or with shorter hair; I could eat less, work out more, and cut my hair if I wanted to, so it's all pretty in my control. I'm over 6' and not bald just yet (though who knows if it's ready to pounce at any moment) so I'm doing okay on the preferences which most hurt men's chances and are out of their control. ... Then again, a lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Women link a mans romantic invisibility with a moral or character flawNo idea what you're on about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 09:43 AM |
| 2 | What are some secrets men dont tell women?I am not annoyed by unattractive women, generally. I'm not annoyed by most people. When I say I'm more likely to find them annoying, I mean that behaviour that might come across as cute from an attractive woman might come across as annoying from an unattractive woman. Not sure I can make this make sense. It's not fair, but that's the vibes that I believe are knocking around in my head. Might not even be true, but I think it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 02:31 AM |
| – | What are some secrets men dont tell women?What was I hypocritical about? I never said women were shallow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 03:24 PM |
| – | What are some secrets men dont tell women?3) If I’m honest how much I enjoy the company of a woman is highly related to how attractive she is, even just friends I never really thought about this, but I'm exactly the same. Even though I'm in a committed relationship, I definitely feel like I get on better with attractive women, and I'm more likely to find unattractive women annoying. You're a piece of shit for cheating though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 08:20 AM |
| 1 | lusting after a body =/= unconditional loveNot saying you're wrong, but I'm far too lazy to research claims made on Reddit, haha. Reddit's search feature is trash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 10:12 PM |
| 2 | lusting after a body =/= unconditional loveWho's claiming that? What you're saying is obviously true. I haven't seen anyone suggest otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Women’s Dating Problems Are 100% Their Own FaultIs it really such a deeply thought out process? I would have thought women just do what feels natural with guys they like in the hope it will develop into something. Sometimes, it works out. When it doesn't and you were still invested, why wouldn't you blame the bloke? We'd do the same the other way round. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 09:39 AM |
| – | Men: Can you honestly say most guys you know are attractive?I would say all my mates are fairly attractive. Hard to tell, really. They certainly don't have dirty nails and greasy hair like you're saying. Before someone says women should be dating men they aren’t physically attracted to Are people suggesting this? Can't imagine that working out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 10:51 PM |
| 2 | This quote "the bar is in hell for men". This quote doesn't make sense all. Because that bar isn't usually meant for all men.For sure, but most people wouldn't actually say it out loud like that. It's just not how these things work. People temper the physical stuff when they say what they like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 10:37 PM |
| 1 | This quote "the bar is in hell for men". This quote doesn't make sense all. Because that bar isn't usually meant for all men.Yeah, dawg. People have their standards and try to make themselves seem viruous. That's how we all are. How many men have you actually seen openly communicate "no fat chicks"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Stop being emotionally vulnerable to women, your close male friends are the only ones who can actually handle itMy partner has never weaponised that sort of thing again me. I just avoid sharing because it obviously makes her uncomfortable and it doesn't really help anyone. It's our job to be somewhat stoic, even if we're constantly stressing and regularly thinking about the least painful way of ending it all. Both genders have their struggles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 05:55 PM |
| 2 | If you knew a woman/man who could never have sex, would you still marry them?Perhaps what you're suggesting simply won't make sense to people who aren't asexual no matter how you reword it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Why do you assume men are only looking for sex?I think you overestimate your ability to cheat if you think you could do it a dozen times in a few hours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Why do you assume men are only looking for sex?Men want a root. That’s it. Which then leads directly into Alive isn’t even a necessity for some of them. You're now taking the "some" out of context, but my comment was responding to their whole comment, which included a part that shit-talked all men (saying "men want X" or "men do Y" does imply all men), which was then compounded upon. I don't deny that necrophiliacs exist. Plenty of them may very well be women. Not sure there's really enough data on it to make any statements with any certaint… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 11:17 PM |
| 6 | If you knew a woman/man who could never have sex, would you still marry them?The sex part is a pretty big unchecked box. That's like asking "Would you exclusively drive a car with no seats or steering wheel if it checked every other box?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 10:17 PM |
| 1 | If you knew a woman/man who could never have sex, would you still marry them?That's called being a romantic asexual. Sexual people and asexual people aren't compatible. That's no one's fault. You just don't understand sexual urges. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Why do you assume men are only looking for sex?Certainly not a common thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Why do you assume men are only looking for sex?Not sure I agree with that logic. An interested man and an interested woman are both required for every instance of cheating, haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Why do you assume men are only looking for sex?Nope. This cryptic comment hasn't really helped me there either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Why do you assume men are only looking for sex?I was interested on your personal view, fellow redditor. From a quick ChatGPT search, rates of cheating seem to be almost identical between the genders, especially with unmarried couples (at least in the UK, where I live). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Why do you assume men are only looking for sex?But you presumably wouldn't because you don't want to hurt his feelings or break his trust, right? In that regard, we'd be the same. Or is it primarily just because you have no desire to sleep with other people at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Why do you assume men are only looking for sex?Right, but this is all people I don't know online. If all the women in my life, personally, claimed this, it'd be different. But even then, if we're talking about how men think, then I'd trust men more, because men are themselves. Same way I trust women more about how they think, despite the fact that my experience may not reflect that based on their actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Why do you assume men are only looking for sex?I'm sure there is a good deal of truth to what you're saying. I don't want to sleep with other women, but honestly that might be almost 100% coming from either not wanting to hurt my partner or, if she wouldn't find out, the guilt in knowing that it isn't what she'd want. Then again, I wouldn't want her to sleep around either, so I figure that's just how everyone feels. I mean, both men and women cheat, so surely we all have that desire? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Why do you assume men are only looking for sex?Yes. Men watch porn. Compete tangent there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Why do you assume men are only looking for sex?Indeed. Some men are bad people; most aren't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 07:33 AM |
| 2 | Why do you assume men are only looking for sex?Whatever you say, buddy. I hope you get past that sexism one of these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Why do you assume men are only looking for sex?Well, as a male, I can tell you that isn't true. I don't know where you've gotten that from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Why do you assume men are only looking for sex?You think you can be certain how the majority of a group thinks based on your interaction with a fairly small number of individuals belonging to that group? You don't see how that is a super problematic stance to take? By the same logic, a person could say "The majority of black people steal things. I know this because several of them have stolen from me". You can't just extrapolate your personal experience onto a group of billions of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 01:11 AM |
| 2 | Why do you assume men are only looking for sex?Is that having your cake and eating it too? Sex within a relationship is pretty normal. I didn't say anything about a mommy wife or harem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Why do you assume men are only looking for sex?Wow. Don't even know what to say to that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Why do you assume men are only looking for sex?Yeah, that's probably for the best. We're not going to agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Why do you assume men are only looking for sex?I'm not saying whether most men wanting only sex is good or bad, just that it isn't true. I have no reason to doubt your experience that the men you've been with seem to only want that. That's some bad luck if so. No need to whip out the broad brush. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 05:50 PM |
| 0 | Why do you assume men are only looking for sex?I'm not dismissing your experience, I'm dismissing your cynical and patently false conclusions. It's like if I said "All women are evil and want only to make men suffer! I know, I've dated loads of them!". It's just obvious that I'm a jaded person who's unfortunately had many negative experiences, but I'm also obviously wrong. If I'm a narcissist for dismissing your absurd delusions about how heartlessly sex-crazed most men are, so be it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 05:32 PM |
| 0 | Why do you assume men are only looking for sex?It's kinda sad that you feel that way. Sorry you've had so many negative experiences, I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 05:20 PM |
| -2 | Why do you assume men are only looking for sex?I must have just misunderstood you somewhere. I thought you were asserting that most men were like this. I don't disagree that many are like this. When you say "men do X, men want Y, men say A but think B", that implies the majority of men. Like if I said "crows have black feathers". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 04:23 PM |
| -3 | Why do you assume men are only looking for sex?I have many male friends and we have no reason to deceive each other on this topic because there is no judgement either way. Neither of us really know what all men think. I have one 100% accurate data point on what one man thinks, you can try to interpret what they think from their behaviour with you, but you can never really know. None of us can really know what other people think, and we have different reasons and different experiences for why we think what we do. Personally, given that your t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Men cause just as much drama as women.This is the sort of thing that immediately came to mind for me. Men accidentally do more oblivious things that set their partners off (e.g. "were you looking at her butt?!" while spacing out, or your phone example) but I wouldn't perceive that as "causing" drama, as only the reaction was dramatic, not the initial action or lack of actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 03:25 PM |
| -1 | Why do you assume men are only looking for sex?Yeah, that's fair. I think you have an overly cynical view of men, but dudes like this are to blame for that, haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 03:17 PM |
| -2 | Why do you assume men are only looking for sex?OP has quite strange views as well, but you have an inaccurate view of what most men want. Most men want a meaningful relationship and plenty of sex. This "situationship" things sounds even more hollow than friends with benefits, which most men would still only go for in the hope that the person they're having benefits with will eventually fall for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 03:16 PM |
| 3 | Why do you assume men are only looking for sex?Not sure what a "composed man" is, but men who want to wait until marriage to have sex are definitely a small minority. And even women who worry about men only wanting sex usually don't want to wait that long. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 03:10 PM |
| 1 | I don’t think men are “intimidated” by strong independent womenThe suggestion that men are "intimidated" by strong independent women is usually just pure cope from women with abrasive personalities. However, most of these points are also cope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Advice geared towards men is circular and designed to drive you insaneGotta just tune it out and strive to be your best self, my man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Men are not attracted to young women because they are "naive and easy to manipulate" but mainly because they are thinner and have nicer skin. If you are a woman and you take care of yourself, you can post-pone "hitting the wall" and remain attractive even into your early 40s.Yeah, it's an interesting theory that I'm not really sure how you could prove one way or the other. 15-year-olds don't look like 18-year-olds. I would have thought the majority of men would not be attracted to them physically. Certainly not mentally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 01:51 PM |
| 8 | Women who have de-centered men completely, what drove you to this?Sounds rough. Hope you're still loving life anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 11:25 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Consent is sexyI would never! Nice chatting with ya. Always interesting to hear different perspectives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 06:07 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Consent is sexyThat seems misguided and counter productive to try to patronize people into changing their behavior Progressives do this all the time. Like with "big is beautiful" or "healthy at every size". Just say a catchphrase so often that they hope it'll change others. Perhaps the next one will be "war is peace, freedom is slavery, ignorance is strength" (these specific lies don't align with progressive views at all, I just wanted to highlight the vibe). Hearing "consent is sexy", to me, is like hearing "… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Participation trophies were never a problem. Thats a conservative myth.All subs that aren't country-specific speak English because this is an international forum and English is the global lingua franca. Be aware of your US defaultism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 01:44 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Consent is sexySo, as I said before: My interpretation of that phrase was just that it was a fun and silly internet way of saying you should ask for consent. This video doesn't give me any reason to think otherwise. It sounds like a progressive buzzphrase rather than a thing people actually mean literally. They're all holding signs protesting sexual violence. That doesn't exactly go hand in hand with sexual thoughts. It's got the same energy as "looking both ways before crossing the street is wicked cool!". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Participation trophies were never a problem. Thats a conservative myth.Daily Wire, Turning Point USA, Fox News I'm not American. When you say conservatives, are you just talking about American conservatives? That wasn't obvious to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 01:30 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Consent is sexyWe all know that "consent is sexy". Does anyone actually think this? Genuinely, I can't imagine anyone literally thinking this is true. My interpretation of that phrase was just that it was a fun and silly internet way of saying you should ask for consent. In my opinion, it is awkward and unnecessary, and this whole thing has come about because many people are incapable of reading social cues. Infantilising women by suggesting they can't just say no is odd. If they feel scared to say no... Well,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Conservatives and the manosphere also love the demonization of men.Most people are hypocrites. Especially when it comes to charged topics like this, most people are so committed to opposing any point made by people on the opposite side that they make blanket statements that ultimately go against their own beliefs. No one wants to concede ground, and we all get further apart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 12:55 PM |
| 3 | Participation trophies were never a problem. Thats a conservative myth.I wrote it twice, please actually read. My bad. I didn't know what "PPD" stood for and I kinda glossed over it. I'm new to the sub. They're putting a woman on a pedestal because she didn't get a 5th place trophy. Again, this is the point I'm referring to with the Simone Biles thing earlier. You're addressing these points at "conservatives" but I can't imagine most conservatives even know who Riley Gaines is. You're talking about a specific small loud group of arguers. You can't extrapolate that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 12:49 PM |
| 10 | Participation trophies were never a problem. Thats a conservative myth.Prager U is full of complete nonsense. Kids know the difference between participation trophies and trophies for winning. I think they're a waste of metal, but they're not harmful. People are upset with trans women in women's sports because they have an unfair advantage. That doesn't mean they will always win. It's a bit hard to see what it is you're trying to debate with some of this, as there is a few tangentially related points which don't really group together; were all conservatives upset wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 11:17 AM |
| 2 | Generalizing by Gender Is Lazy and HarmfulWe generalise because it is usually true that "men do this" and "women do that". It's helpful to acknowledge patterns where they exist so you can better understand people. Men are quicker to anger and women are quicker to tears. This won't apply to every individual in those groups but, broadly speaking, it is a helpful generalisation when it comes to considering how to interact with people. To try and prevent yourself from realising those generalisations would only handicap you in social interac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Free the Nipple is the only example of women, as a group, advocating to give up their gendered privilegeI use italics for emphasis because that's what italics are for. I have no idea what reddit coded means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 10:21 PM |
| – | Free the Nipple is the only example of women, as a group, advocating to give up their gendered privilegeI didn't say that I didn't personally consider breasts sexual. No need to get so worked up. Learn to have an adult discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 10:28 AM |
| 1 | When men face any problems disproportionally, It's framed as being their own fault. Whereas with women, it's always "systemic"What's MGTOW? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: do you pay for your platonic women friends when going out?No. Also, "in his custody"? Da fuq? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 09:32 AM |
| 3 | If you are celibate, you can't expect your partner to not have sex with others, nor does he have to tell youWhy wouldn't they just break up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 09:25 AM |
| – | Free the Nipple is the only example of women, as a group, advocating to give up their gendered privilegeBreasts are a secondary sex characteristic for women, but that doesn't necessarily make them inherently sexual. I'm on the fence about the whole thing, honestly. It's hard to determine whether or not there's something innate about it. They aren't genitals though, so they're certainly not the same as penises and vaginas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Men who complain about being friendzoned mostly just find women boring and annoyingNo idea where you're getting this from. I don't agree with your view at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Men who complain about being friendzoned mostly just find women boring and annoyingI don't think that's true, personally. In most cases, if they did agree to be FWB, it would be in the hope that they would later start a relationship. Most men are not as blindly sex-obsessed as you seem to believe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Men who complain about being friendzoned mostly just find women boring and annoyingThat's a horrible way of looking at it. Romantic relationships are more than just sex. You're way off base here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Men who complain about being friendzoned mostly just find women boring and annoyingI think it can just be difficult to see someone as just a friend when you started things off seeing them as a potential romantic partner. A person could get "friendzoned" by one woman and feel uneasy and uncomfortable staying friends after trying to woo them, but otherwise have several female friends they're perfectly comfortable with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 10:30 AM |
| 11 | Women, would you be okay with your man getting eggs from another woman and having a baby in your womb?Yeah, I have no idea what this was referring to. Honestly, I thought it was a racist thing before they mentioned height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 08:54 AM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Have you ever fallen in love with an ugly, old, or fat woman because of how nice she is?Obesity grosses me out, so not that. Not trying to be mean to anyone here but this one really hits me on a visceral level. Even on myself, I hate to see any folds or whatever if I've gotten a little complacent for a while. Hard to tell if a woman I've fallen for has been ugly because they wouldn't have been ugly to me. I've fallen for women who aren't "traditionally" beautiful. Big noses and stuff like that. I've never found older women attractive, which I'm hoping changes as I continue to age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 08:49 AM |
| 1 | It's not offensive to ask for dna testIt very obviously is offensive. I share your fear; you only get one life, and if you find out that the kid you thought was yours, that you sunk decades into raising, actually isn't yours.... Well, I can't think of much that could be worse than that... However, asking for a DNA test is saying. You're telling me you didn't cheat, but I don't trust you and need it officially verified. To a faithful partner, that is obviously hurtful, and you're just being obtuse if you claim not to understand that.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 02:44 PM |
| – | American men are becoming disinterestedWell, it's not all bad if they're becoming less religious. Look on the bright side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Men would not make the decisions they want women to make if they were us.I wouldn't consider masculine clothing made for women to be gender neutral, as it's still specifically made for women. I might just be misunderstanding your use of the term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Men would not make the decisions they want women to make if they were us.Interesting. I don't really understand that, but fair enough. If they're making sales, they're making sales. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Men would not make the decisions they want women to make if they were us.Is there a demand for gender neutral clothing? As you point out for the trousers there, clothing intended for the opposite sex doesn't usually fit properly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Men would not make the decisions they want women to make if they were us.There are perhaps more eccentric clothes I might consider if they were more socially accepted, but I don't think clothes meant for women would look good on me, for the most part. A lot of clothes look good on women because it compliments their shape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 03:07 PM |
| 3 | Men would not make the decisions they want women to make if they were us.I'd just spend a lot of time getting different outfits. I see a lot of gothy rocky clothes with skirts and unique tops online and think "Man, I would rock this shit all the time. Why you wasting your gift of social acceptance wearing this stuff by just wearing a t-shirt and jeans?!". But yeah, cleaning is a chore now and it'd be a chore if I was a woman. No one wants to do it. I don't think I'd do onlyfans though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Women define a 'good guy' by his positive qualities—men define him by a lack of red flagsIt's certainly my type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Women define a 'good guy' by his positive qualities—men define him by a lack of red flagsAh, it was because I was excluding married. Forgot that part. I wouldn't want to date a woman older than myself. Would increase the range if I was older. The minimum would also go up, but perhaps not as quickly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Women define a 'good guy' by his positive qualities—men define him by a lack of red flagsPeople have many, many opportunities to do bad things throughout their lives. There are temptations everywhere. Resisting all of those temptations is an active act; if you never do anything bad, you are a good person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 07:50 PM |
| 4 | Women define a 'good guy' by his positive qualities—men define him by a lack of red flagsWhat is this site? I just filtered: Women, 22-30yo, 4'6"-6'0", earns over $30,000, not obese, non-smoker, and left the rest open. It says that's 3.6%. Doesn't sound right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 08:54 AM |
| 4 | Women define a 'good guy' by his positive qualities—men define him by a lack of red flagsIf you're not a bad guy, you're a good guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 08:47 AM |
| 2 | Millennial males (and older) had it easier.Oh, I see! Yeah, my dad was a big tech guy so he switched from that at the soonest possible time. I don't think I ever experienced dial-up. I'm 30 though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Millennial males (and older) had it easier.What do you mean by free internet to play? Like playstation network on the PS3? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 03:34 PM |
| 3 | Millennial males (and older) had it easier.I don't think most women are doing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 10:52 AM |
| 12 | Millennial males (and older) had it easier.Gaming certainly hasn't changed. Most millenials guys grew up playing stuff like Halo and Call of Duty online all the time (maybe also FIFA, don't remember when that got online). Many of us, myself included, spent years sinking every waking moment into Runescape or World of Warcraft, haha. One thing I will say is that it was much more common, I think, to speak with strangers online. Guilds in World of Warcraft would have voice chat servers running often and voice chats would be full of people sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 10:47 AM |
| 2 | Millennial males (and older) had it easier.I don't think alternate apps like Hinge and Bumble existed, but Tinder was very popular when I was in university (I'm 30 now) and I don't think feminism has changed much in that time, other than the occasional coining of a new buzzword like mansplaining, manspreading and toxic masculinity (this one has admittedly caused a lot of collerateral damage), as well as the reluctance to change their surname when they get married. Doesn't seem super different. I blame the fact Gen Z blokes have started t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 10:40 AM |
| 3 | A lot of the women redpill men complain about not getting, you wouldn't actually want to date anyway.You're definitely right. Sometimes they're hot though. Makes you think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 08:17 AM |
| – | If dating dynamics were changed, women would not use the same argumentsThe simple answer to all this is just that most people are hypocritical and inconsistent. Firstly, there are plenty of people who want to move away from gender roles and, consequently, don't expect or even want men to pay for a date. They do exist, they're just not the majority. Worth acknowledging them. For all the other woman that claim to want gender roles gone but still expect men to pay for a date, it's just the natural desire of wanting the good without the bad. The male equivalent would b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Motherhood is disrespected from both the left and the right — no wonder women are having fewer kidsAll these things are awful, but the main pressure in women not having children is probably financial. People want financial security before having kids because they know it will be expensive. That financial security isn't possible for most people. I have to admit, I appreciate a child-free wedding myself. Especially babies during the ceremony. I don't feel super strongly about it though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 08:38 AM |
| 1 | “Men are looking for clean water in a desert while women are looking for clean water in a swamp” is the most misandrist analogy I ever heardYeah, for sure. The optics are just different, I suppose. Men will often swipe to match every woman on dating apps and just assess the result of all of those matches. The fact that they have swiped on practically everyone gives the impression that they set the bar very low, but if you would have swiped 10% of women and a much smaller total 10% amount of women would swipe you back, there's a good chance those matches will never coincide and you'll see no one. I believe that is the case anyway. I'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 10:26 AM |
| 3 | “Men are looking for clean water in a desert while women are looking for clean water in a swamp” is the most misandrist analogy I ever heardI suppose a large part of it is that you have to ask as a man. There are plenty of women that a lot of blokes wouldn't be interested in at all. For the ones they are interested in, some aren't interested in you, some are taken; it's a potentially lengthy process of searching because of relative perceived scarcity (water in a desert). Women are regularly approached by loads of the men they're not interested in which naturally filters out the men who are taken or uninterested (and a tiny few they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 12:12 PM |
| 5 | Women are basically miny celebrities. Which is why the dating climate is badWhat laws you talking about, man? I don't like the sound of that, haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 11:10 PM |
| 34 | “Men are looking for clean water in a desert while women are looking for clean water in a swamp” is the most misandrist analogy I ever heardI agree that it sounds mean, but you can't deny the sentiment it's implying. Men struggle to find any partner, women would fairly easily be able to find a partner but need to filter through them to find the right partner. This will always be the case while men are primarily the pursuers in romance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 08:22 AM |
| 1 | Cheating and casual sex is way more common than you realise, if you deny it then you’re simply just naive or wilfully ignorantI've never thought about how common it is. All that matters to me is that it isn't happening to me, and all I can do is choose to be with someone who seems like they wouldn't do that. It has worked out so far. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Men, what’s something you love about being a man?Burger King has clubs now? Brave new world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Men, what’s something you love about being a man?Can't think of anything specific that I appreciate except for strength, as the top comment says. Anything else would just be "I don't have XYZ as bad as I would if I were a woman" on a few different things, which I wouldn't really classify as things I love about being a man. One thing I might pick (though it might be a bit of a generalisation that can't be extrapolated beyond the people I've personally known) is that I generally don't feel negative emotions as strongly as most women, so I would … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 01:23 PM |
| – | I've tried helping a few younger guys get dates, something is wrong here.Don't know where it is you work, but that aspect is pretty much the same as it has always been, as far as I can tell. You feel out for signals that they're interested. If you hit the mark, you have a date. If not, they might be taken aback and made uncomfortable. I don't think that is considered inappropriate at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 01:02 AM |
| – | Feminist infiltration in liberal spaces has cost us everything.The people you're talking about definitely exist, but I think it's an unfairly broad brush to just refer to them simply as "feminists" given that there are plenty of feminists who are perfectly normal people. The definition of "feminism" varies in intensity from person to person. The JK Rowling thing is pretty crazy. She was made the face of transphobic bigotry and I never really questioned that, assuming she said loads of really blatant and horrible stuff. But if you actually look up what she a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 09:22 PM |
| 3 | There is nothing wrong with gooning if only done in moderationI thought gooning specifically meant masturbating in excess? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Men aren't approaching women due to a lack of social skills, merely because they are taught not to.Man, that's crazy. I'm 30 and there was never any moment during my childhood where I was taught how to treat women. I can see the logic because some men grow up to be shits and childhood has gotta be the most effective time to address that, but the stuff you've described sounds annoying and patronising as fuck as someone who is not a sex pest. Most people are able to read social cues and can tell if someone is uncomfortable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 09:35 AM |
| – | CMV: dating is harder for women because we have to look goodYou brought it up in the context of dating being difficult for women, so that's a confusing U-turn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 01:35 AM |
| 3 | extreme stories about men having to pay child support even though the child isn't hisIf the government agrees that the man shouldn't have to pay child support, that means that the government is going to be footing the bill. Messed up, but it's in their best interest to make out like it's somehow your responsibility even though it isn't your kid. | /r/MensRights | 04/04/22 03:51 PM |
| 8 | judges in the UK are biased worth regards to gender. Things seem to be getting worse"Mr Turner's cause of death was not mentioned by the court." I don't think the doctors who determined she wasn't at fault are lying, but it seems like this is very much the kind of situation where knowing the actual cause is pretty important... "It seems like she killed him, but she didn't." "Oh, that's surprising. What did it then?" "I'm not telling." | /r/MensRights | 04/04/22 03:48 PM |
| 2 | why are people scared of me??The one sense in which I would say it's more difficult to be M2F is that, from what I've seen, it is very difficult to "pass" after heading in that direction. Most F2M individuals I've seen who have been on testosterone for a while, worked out a little, and grown a beard, don't look trans at all. Sometimes their speech mannerisms seem a little more feminine though, even if their voice is low enough to pass as a man's voice. | /r/MensRights | 04/04/22 03:06 PM |
| 7 | Can someone explain Antisemitism?"David Silverman began publicly challenging religion in high school and often states in interviews that he became an atheist at the age of six.[6] Although he was never in the closet about his disbelief, he was forced to do his Bar mitzvah." Doesn't sound all that Jewish to me. Sounds like an atheist promoting atheism. | /r/PussyPass | 19/04/17 11:59 AM |
| 10 | Can someone explain Antisemitism?Why would Jewish people promote atheism? | /r/PussyPass | 19/04/17 10:03 AM |
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