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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Am I just going to have to put up with my husband flirting with other women? Childhood lessons taught her that a woman is only worthy of love if she provides 😟	/r/RedPillWomen	09/06/26 12:32 PM
3	Clothing/Fashion Advice: How to dress in the style I prefer while still being attractive to men? I see ladies of this style paired up with older, esoteric types. You know - long hair, yoga, tantra, making their own toothpaste, etc. This might be location dependent too, of course. What type of man would you like to attract?	/r/RedPillWomen	12/06/25 08:22 PM
6	Have your platonic relationships with men affected your romantic relationships with men? Absolutely: my platonic relationships with men have indeed affected my romantic relationships with men. On the positive side: I grew into an understanding and trusting person. Since my teenage years I've had very close, platonic male friends as a stable presence in my life; I had no built-in mistrust and my bonds with men confirmed that. On the (somewhat) negative side: those friendships might have resulted in me positioning myself in the friendzone of many potential love interests throughout my…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/04/25 10:32 PM
12	Petty Revenge OP - is this the same guy you posted about a few days ago? The one who told you he's in an open relationship from the start? If yes, then why would you be surprised to find out he is, indeed, entangled? Petty revenge makes you petty. You went in eyes fully open.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/02/25 02:36 AM
6	I like a guy but I don't need/want a relationship? You are saying two things that stand out: you're not sure if you want a relationship at all / you feel happy on your own. It looks like you should figure out your own path in life, where you want to go first. And only then can you decide if the path is wide enough for two people or just one.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/08/24 07:22 AM
5	Advice needed to save marriage Plan a date yes, but go for sex before the date, dinner and everything else. Given the long gap and both of your possible anxiety over the topic, doing the sex bit first would make you both more relaxed and open for bonding. Saving your marriage takes intentional action and repeating actions from you, considering your husband has already brought up opening your marriage and divorce. His needs have been neglected for years.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/06/24 09:04 PM
3	Advice re housework I live in a different European country, but the size of uk domestic giga-bins always baffles me. It takes a long time to fill, and something always starts to smell. I have many friends in the UK and I visit them frequently. So I've seen many homes. At home, we fill up one grocery bag of trash and take it out when leaving house. It's never heavy, it's never a specific project - just something you take along as you go. Could you do something like that? You may have asked advice about your spouse, …	/r/RedPillWomen	10/06/24 06:48 PM
2	What to do after an unresolved argument What are the future plans with your boyfriend? Could it be that you unknowingly inserted 2 triggers into your comment: disrespect of work talk + "my wedding"?	/r/RedPillWomen	20/05/24 08:02 AM
1	80/20 rule origins? 80% of women being sexually active does not sound believable though. Got no links, just sayin...	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/24 10:47 AM
9	Feedback needed? The text comes off wordsalad-y and reads as "you're a great guy, but..." I'm not a man, but for me the message is: he's not good enough and you're not happy. And now she's telling me what to do, but in an unclear way. So I need to process and read again (hence no response). Or he might have been turned off by getting this feedback on something he thought was progressing nicely. I also had to read several times to understand it's NOT a goodbye message. But I'm a patient woman. It's perhaps not lo…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/04/24 06:11 AM
5	Can’t go past the honeymoon phase Great question! I realised how damaging it was to be chasing the high with partners who initially gave me "the spark". The spark wears off and you're left with trying to fit a square peg into a round hole. Incompatibility! And getting attached & hopeful too soon, ready to build a house using shit bricks instead of quality. When I realised that, I promised myself I wouldn't jump in like I did before. Spent 5 years celibate. Dated and flirted, but learned to see behind their intentions (or lack th…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/04/24 01:15 PM
36	Can’t go past the honeymoon phase Love is not a feeling, it's action that stems from a decision to stay with your person and making it work. So the first step would be to make sure that this is your person and you're on the same page about building a life together. I know, I was a fireworks addict my whole life. It wasn't until my very late 40-s when I realised how delusional my expectations were, and only then was I found by a really amazing man. We're married now and our life is so loving and great! Don't wait as long as I did…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/04/24 12:37 PM
3	Fiancé doesn’t mention me in future plans Well, those are my reasons, or what I suspect they are. His reason can be something else. Maybe you should ask him? For me this feels like maybe you are looking for reasons to be offended, or the real offence lies somewhere else?	/r/RedPillWomen	18/04/24 02:19 PM
8	Fiancé doesn’t mention me in future plans I talk like that too. I think it's a combination of growing up as an only child and spending significant time by myself in everyday life. Some people just talk like this!	/r/RedPillWomen	18/04/24 11:21 AM
3	Makeup is basically a mask and it reflects women's insecurity. Personally, I say there is definitely a correlation between me feeling insecure about a situation and applying makeup. When I know I have to face a group of new people, present something and be in a leadership position, makeup serves me like a war paint, giving me extra confidence in that situation. I don't feel the need for any makeup in my everyday life and don't use it. I don't use it to enhance my beauty, more like hiding behind it. So it's like a made-up persona, stepping up in place of mys…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/24 10:33 AM
2	Why should women take advice from people who loathe them? RP women subreddit here usually advises women to not listen to or follow RP men's content. So maybe you haven't really researched the sub? The way I understand, the mutual/universal red pill concept boils down to accepting that men are men, women are women, we move in the world differently and we can only strive to be better ourselves in our union, not changing the other person. Support your partner in life, show and express appreciation for them doing their part (which people often forget in se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 05:52 PM
2	Why would women be jealous of a young woman getting married, if they want to ride the CC instead? CC means cock carousel	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 05:42 PM
10	The great divide It sounds like a dictatorship, because you know your man/bf and we don't. My first husband was like this - we didn't last. He wasn't a good leader and I should have vetted much harder before having a child together and finding myself in a ship with a drunken captain. Your choices are still the same: get with the program and try to meet each other's important needs or move your separate ways. He's needing something from you that you're not willing to give / you're needing someone that he is not. …	/r/RedPillWomen	09/03/24 05:47 PM
6	The great divide If you want him to lead, then you have to let go of the steering wheel and actually let him lead. Differences in leading/following and parenting styles should have been sorted out during the vetting process. He is telling you what he needs. Your choice is to get on with the program or not. You've separated before, I understand? What was the reason?	/r/RedPillWomen	09/03/24 05:08 PM
8	My husband hates my new dress I think this is a good opportunity for a discussion, to present your thought process in a small matter like this. Ask if it's okay if you wear the dress when not in his presence. So you respect his taste and he respects yours. That your choice to wear it is not coming from a place of not caring about his opinion, but a spirit of compromise. Small things might become big things, if not opened properly.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/03/24 08:38 AM
5	My husband can't follow instructions You mentioned Christianity and his beliefs not lining up with it. Can you give some examples? Being able to assemble ikea is not proof of faith. You sound like a new and immature Christian and that's understandable as a new believer. Find grace for your man though, or he might not become your husband. Why pick an incompetent man to father your child and then point a finger at him, instead of yourself? You picked him. You can't change him. You have some growing up to do. Others here have pointed …	/r/RedPillWomen	03/03/24 09:23 AM
2	Woman really don't like most men sexually I've never watched lesbian porn, but when I searched for any watchable porn, it was really hard to find a believably pleasurable straight one. You see the dick going in and coming out dry, you know she's not wet and aroused + angles that are not pleasurable for the woman that I could relate to. Sometimes I'd find a homemade one that I could relate to, but it's a long search lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/24 07:13 AM
9	What is the logic behind dating knowingly bad men? Beauty and the Beast syndrome. The idea of domesticating a dangerous creature who can protect her from anyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 06:01 PM
1	Would you like it or would it turn you off to a person romantically if he or she tried to take up the same interests as you just to impress you? By this description it sounds like trying too hard to please me, which would turn me off, I imagine. Genuine interest and excitement has different energy than jumping through hoops to impress me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 03:44 PM
5	Getting married in 2 months and fiancé broke down in tears due to sexless life By your own words: we can't just throw in the towel when stuff gets hard. Read it again until you get the meaning.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/02/24 05:00 PM
4	Q4W: Who is the most romantically/sexually unsuccessful woman you know? What’s their personality like? Describe her. What are they like? (personality) She is volatile and moody, one would never know, how she'd react. What type of men do they typically go after? A man above her range of options. Why don’t they manage to make a relationship work? (If they even get to that point) They expect to be catered to without reciprocating. What do they look like? Butch and strong, approaching 50. Do you think it’s because of their looks or something else? Are they overweight? Ugly? Somewhat overweight, doesn't voice what …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/24 05:58 PM
1	Talking to first red pill guy So did you cut contact with the SD when you started with your current guy? Or is he still one of your "friends"? If your guy was not happy about friends, he'd not be thrilled about a history of sugaring, I'd assume?	/r/RedPillWomen	04/01/24 11:52 PM
5	Talking to first red pill guy Is he the generous sugar daddy from your comments a month ago? Are you trying to shift the relationship dynamic to a different one? If he's not the sugar daddy, then does your guy know / do you consider the SD a "friend" too?	/r/RedPillWomen	04/01/24 11:03 PM
0	How much control do women really have over the dating market? I think you got a word wrong. RP claims women are naturally hypergamous; you used the word polygamous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/24 10:31 PM
1	Letter to my middle and high-school as well as uni bully (hoping she is now a healthier adult) - as an adult ADHD woman seeking, working hoping for a better world How does this connect to RPW? To the topic: this person does not owe you explanations of her motivations from half a lifetime ago - if she even knows or remember these incidents. Or if she does, she might not be willing to take accountability, much like you yourself only brushed over the fact of being an accomplice. These are your feelings and emotions - it would be more productive book a professional and work through the weight that's on your shoulders/conscience. Sending the letter would proba…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/12/23 07:39 PM
6	Generosity. I don't understand where I'm going wrong ? You mention cabs a lot, like it's the only material thing you spend on. Other things on your list are immaterial: time, attention, etc. This leads me to wonder: what is the nature of your relationship? Don't you do anything other than take a cab to/from his place? Are you in some fwb arrangement instead of committed relationship? If yes, then you might be expecting too much.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/03/23 06:06 PM
1	How many of each category of clothing items should/do you have? Hey, this totally depends on your lifestyle, occupation and climate! I (F49) have all kinds of stuff in my wardrobe, but I have zero jeans (no jackets or bottoms), zero hoodies or bottoms for them (sorry, can't recall the english word for it rn), no pajamas (I sleep nude), no office attire. I work as a dance teacher and I have tons of dresses, some slick pants, sexy-ish elegant tops, a lot of dance shoes. Winter clothes in abundance (Northern Europe). I love fancy lingerie, so there's a nice col…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/03/23 08:09 PM