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How are you mixing all men on women violence such as partner homocide. With what we’re actually talking about which is “guys getting rejected” violence. Those are separate statistics
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:13 PM
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What a surprise that if you google something you’ll see alot of it. You can google just about anything and find it. That doesn’t mean it’s common
/r/seduction03/07/22 05:46 PM
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not all of those murders are motivated by “u rejected me so die” logic. My point is I don’t think that entitlement is as nearly as common as you think.
/r/seduction01/07/22 01:29 PM
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Umm no. The first link was some guy that killed mostly males. And he may have happens to be an incel but we definitely don’t have reason to believe that motivated his actions. The last one is like the only contemporary example that makes sense out of the 3. But cherry picking from 3.5billion men in the world doesn’t really prove your point about the general population on men. u can find an example of someone getting struck by lightning every year. Doesn’t really mean it’s “a thing”.
/r/seduction30/06/22 10:22 AM
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Umm you do know Eliot rojer which is the most clear cut example you have of incel killer happened in 8 years ago. It’s just the article was written in 2018. And don’t start with the “😭”
/r/seduction30/06/22 10:16 AM
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I guess there’s bound to be some men we can find when we’re going back a decade. But honestly it’s few and far between.
/r/seduction30/06/22 10:11 AM
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I think this post is just sharing a funny way he was turned down. Do u actually think any man in 2022 thinks they are owed sex?
/r/seduction30/06/22 08:46 AM
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hand hold is perfect here. but having little quirky things alows you to break the touch barrier even easier especially among friends. like sometimes a grab the girls hand just to examine on it, and maybe make a comment about her hands. and then i. keep holding it in a relaxed low intensity way. i think the trick is just to touch in a low intensity way and then bring the intensity in slowly, once the touch barrier has been broken enough.
/r/seduction08/01/22 08:36 AM
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for me i tryed to always see the humor in a situation. get in the habit of asking whats funny about whats happening right now. also learn to be excited. your gonna talk to some guy at work. learn to internally be somewhat excited about it. at first its less about what u say but rather how u say it. then its about, again, finding the humor in whats going on. your gonna make a point about something in a conversation. try to during or after the conversation ask how could/can i say that in a funnier…
/r/seduction23/12/21 02:00 AM
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i think this is something that either comes to you naturally or something u put a consious effort to develop.
/r/seduction23/12/21 01:52 AM
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i agree with this. the women who ive had obsesses with me and the most beautiful ways, are women who i support in emotional ways without expectations (or a desire) of sex, WHILE having my own life and goals that i still focus on. i think its also important to establish the fact that the relationship with her is special in some way. Having little rituals with her and things you can call your own that you dont do with anyone else. basically be her friend. but be attractive and focused on your own …
/r/seduction20/12/21 04:56 PM
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so true
/r/seduction20/12/21 04:50 PM
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not as much a mistake and more of a “just do this” . GUYS WORKOUT YOUR SHOULDER. FOR VERY LITTLE WORK YOU GET BIG APPEARANCE CHANGE.
/r/seduction20/12/21 04:50 PM
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i think being funny and intresting is another factor. there obvs more factors then just style hygine and looks. if youre funny and fun. youre always gonna pull.
/r/seduction20/12/21 04:48 PM
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i think some girls are just gonna be more open to it. if they like you and theyre flirtatious energy theyl send a sexy photo. and then follow up with nudes. ive never asked for nudes
/r/seduction19/12/21 03:31 PM
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i just be quiet and let the compliment linger until i figure out the right thing to say. on the bright side your “thought out” responses are all great.
/r/seduction31/10/21 04:28 PM
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hint at it. and then ask him.
/r/seduction27/10/21 09:23 PM
19

i wonder what happens when a gay guy reads this? a glitch in the matrix?
/r/seduction04/10/21 04:22 AM
3

attraction is multiplicative. looks x confidence x status/social skills. notice how having 0 in any one kill attraction, but having some in everything is better than being carried by one.
/r/seduction03/10/21 06:29 PM
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actually just bare with me. try being 20% mean
/r/seduction02/10/21 05:39 PM
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you have to repair boats alot?
/r/seduction28/09/21 06:35 AM
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whats wrong with owning a boat?
/r/seduction28/09/21 06:33 AM
0

ok cool, ill get off of this r/seduction post.
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:12 PM
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ok, but i thought you wanted advice in how to be more attractive/seductive
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:06 PM
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trust me i cant take this shit seriously even if i wanted too 😭
/r/seduction16/09/21 04:53 PM
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ok so, i think its perfectly ok for you to want to look a certain type of way. but all im saying is that in your case i dont think that being skinny will actually make you “more” attractive. or r/seductive
/r/seduction16/09/21 04:51 PM
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oh god please dont be dumb, being some skinny girl isnt going to make you more of a “long term girlfriend material” . that commenter is fucking stupid. you said in another commnet that you have a really good body at 150. it seems like you think that being skinny will single handedly get you some hot boyfriend and lose all the creepy attention. thats just dumb.
/r/seduction16/09/21 04:33 PM
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im sorry but arent you in r/seduction. obviously the advice youre gonna get is about how to be more sexy. now you dont always have to activate that sexyness all the time, but that should be the type of advice you can expect here.
/r/seduction16/09/21 04:26 PM
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this advice actually works only when you have someone in mind to emulate., who you can imitate pretty well.
/r/seduction04/09/21 04:33 PM
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stop “chasing”. it makes me not make any moves.
/r/seduction04/09/21 04:30 PM
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this is a good rule of thumb, but often times people in general will have some traits that imply not interested, and some traits that imply very interested.
/r/seduction22/08/21 03:58 AM
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actually that absolutely can. enthusiastic consent is recognized legally.
/r/seduction16/08/21 12:58 PM
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no you dont start violently undressing a chick whose doing that, but you do a little touching, then a little kissing, and if shes matching your energy a little more touching in certain areas, and then your already fucking before you even know it.
/r/seduction15/08/21 04:54 AM
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“would you like to have sex 🤓”. stop caping a slow escalation to sex with touching and waiting for enthusiastic consent is way better.
/r/seduction15/08/21 04:43 AM
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this. watch coach kyles recent videos on this.
/r/seduction08/08/21 04:48 PM
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golden advice
/r/seduction08/08/21 07:28 AM
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this isnt some manoshpere sub reddit.
/r/seduction08/08/21 07:06 AM
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f you want your wife to be attracted to you sexually its usually good to take a couple pages from this sub reddit. obviously an emotional connection is still important but pretending that “finding” a wife and hooking up are things that completely change how attraction works for women doesn’t make sense. i take it you still rather have. a husband that is flirtatious and with somewhat of an edge to him.
/r/seduction05/08/21 02:34 PM
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dude no shes not. maybe to be friends
/r/seduction05/08/21 02:34 PM
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f you want your wife to be attracted to you sexually its usually good to take a couple pages from this sub reddit. obviously an emotional connection is still important but pretending that “finding” a wife and hooking up are things that completely change how attraction works for women doesn’t make sense. i take it you still rather have. a husband that is flirtatious and with somewhat of an edge to him.
/r/seduction05/08/21 02:27 PM
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f you want your wife to be attracted to you sexually its usually good to take a couple pages from this sub reddit. obviously an emotional connection is still important but pretending that “finding” a wife and hooking up are things that completely change how attraction works for women doesn’t make sense. i take it you still rather have. a husband that is flirtatious and with somewhat of an edge to him.
/r/seduction05/08/21 02:27 PM
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f you want your wife to be attracted to you sexually its usually good to take a couple pages from this sub reddit. obviously an emotional connection is still important but pretending that “finding” a wife and hooking up are things that completely change how attraction works for women doesn’t make sense. i take it you still rather have. a husband that is flirtatious and with somewhat of an edge to him.
/r/seduction05/08/21 02:27 PM
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if you want your wife to be attracted to you sexually its usually good to take a couple pages from this sub reddit. obviously an emotional connection is still important but pretending that “finding” a wife and hooking up are things that completely change how attraction works for women doesn’t make sense. i take it you still rather have. a husband that is flirtatious and with somewhat of an edge to him.
/r/seduction05/08/21 02:26 PM
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if you want your wife to be attracted to you sexually its usually good to take a couple pages from this sub reddit. obviously an emotional connection is still important but pretending that “finding” a wife and hooking up are things that completely change how attraction works for women doesn’t make sense. i take it you still rather have. a husband that is flirtatious and with somewhat of an edge to him.
/r/seduction05/08/21 02:25 PM
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yeah he gave you some good dick.
/r/seduction23/07/21 05:34 AM
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hey op, why are being so honest about this stuff.
/r/seduction23/07/21 05:19 AM
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in my experience when you break up with a girl who you were on “dream boyfriend mode” for. shes usually doesn’t have some immediate sadness from it. it may take her years to realize what she lost, and most likely YOU WILL NEVER FIND OUT ABOUT IT (at least for a very long time) this is exactly why don’t shower women with affection UNCONDITIONALLY. especially women who are have low confidence. they will mistreat you and drop you on a dime as a confidence boost, because deep down they feel like the…
/r/seduction18/07/21 11:26 PM
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Holy shit. before i give literally any of my mediocre advice i need you to understand that what u went through in your last relationship is super hurtful and that you had a horrible boyfriend and hopefully you never meet a guy like that ever again. but advice wise. try being more polarizing. if you had sex and it was trash don’t come off as excited at all about it. if you had really hood sex be super cuddly with him after and give him head after or something as a reward. it may sound kind of man…
/r/seduction18/07/21 11:02 PM
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yeah pretty cringe. idk bro wouldn’t wanna know her. but maybe hit it and quit it if you’re so inclined.
/r/seduction18/07/21 10:33 PM
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“oh come on thats not you🤨🤨”
/r/seduction18/07/21 10:31 PM
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i see. it seems like you’re attracting guys who who don’t have a mature relationship to sex. or perhaps (just putting this out there because it is a possibility) something about you is making these guys not care about your pleasure.(not likely) when u attempted to talk to them about sex do you start with a recommendation. is the discussion more open ended? and how do they react?
/r/seduction18/07/21 10:30 PM
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diss her back. assume attraction. and assume she wants to keep a playful vibe. if you were the hottest guy in he world and she texted you that, what would you assume she ment by that? she joking around) joke around back. also i recommend a little more pull to your game. when she pushed toward you with the “ill kiss you” you should’ve given a little bit if a light hearted response but don’t dwell on it its really mot that important. edit: just saw some of the replys and most of them dont seem ver…
/r/seduction18/07/21 10:18 PM
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and most of them, didn’t like to communicate about sex?
/r/seduction18/07/21 10:12 PM
1

how many relationships make up “your experience”
/r/seduction18/07/21 09:45 PM
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even after you nut. also do round 2s
/r/seduction13/07/21 08:51 AM
1

did u reach out to them, and they didnt respond?
/r/seduction13/07/21 08:50 AM
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it seems like all you did was stop sleeping with men unless you saw them wanting a romantic relationship. (which is a smart move). but it also proves my point. the reason you’re not sleeping with them if they don’t want a relationship, is because you know you’ll get attached if you do sleep with them. which proves my point “women get attached to men that sleep with them early on”
/r/seduction09/07/21 09:09 PM
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i say this as a guy who actually prefers to take things slowly. my recommendation to guys who wants a woman to like them is: if you can seduce her, as a early in as possible, do it. most women are turned on by men who can seduce them. and it will make her more attached to you.
/r/seduction09/07/21 09:06 PM
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i bet in your life the guys you’ve gotten the most intense attraction towards were guys that slept with you earlier. and even if thats not the case. its true for most women. (and btw i know tons of guys lie as a way to sleep with women, but i’m not advocating for that)
/r/seduction09/07/21 08:53 PM
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what does that have anything to do with what i said. you’re talking about false promises and lying, i’m talking about seduction. my point is, if you seduce a women earlier they tend to become more attached then if you take the nice guy “lets take this slow” approach. do you actually disagree with that?
/r/seduction09/07/21 08:49 PM
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what does that have anything to do with what i said. you’re talking about manipulating and lying, i’m talking about seduction. if you seduce a women earlier they tend to become more attached then if you take the nice guy “lets take this slow” approach.
/r/seduction09/07/21 03:29 PM
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yeah this aligns with my understanding as well.
/r/seduction09/07/21 03:25 PM
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ok lets be honest women become WAY more attached to guy if they had sex sooner rather than later.
/r/seduction09/07/21 03:04 PM
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ok i don’t agree with some of the stuff your saying but based on my experience THIS IS TRUE.
/r/seduction09/07/21 03:00 PM
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im using my phone too but ok you do you. just know that no one knows wtf your talking about half the time. respectfully.
/r/seduction02/07/21 10:12 AM
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i don really follow this sub at all , but i do skim through some popular posts sometimes. it all seems pretty sensible to me. just some life advice. trying being more specific with your criticism about stuff. i notice you tend to say thing like “this sub reddit is toxic” or “alot of the stuff you’ve been saying...” but can never seems to give specific examples of stuff you disagree with. (every criticism you’ve made was your own assumptions about what my beliefs are”
/r/seduction02/07/21 09:47 AM
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what? ok dude i don’t see how you just made that leap
/r/seduction02/07/21 09:40 AM
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most first time sexual encounters between new sexual partners happen before any official labels are established.
/r/seduction02/07/21 09:38 AM
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i don’t know if you’ve made me out to be some incel. but what that reply literally has nothing to do with what i said. where did i even imply that?
/r/seduction02/07/21 07:46 AM
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if x men make themselves more available and women have to choose out of the men that are available. then its very likely that women will eventually sleep with them. am i missing something?
/r/seduction01/07/21 09:20 PM
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raw probability
/r/seduction01/07/21 12:03 PM
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most women will eventually sleep with some asshole in their life and most women will sleep with many assholes. i don’t really see that as sexist thing to acknowledge. its not like women want to sleep with them particularly , but those men do tend to put themselves out there more.
/r/seduction01/07/21 11:46 AM
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ok i didn’t read the whole post, but isn’t this post literally saying don’t be another asshole, and have the courage to approach women because they will eventually meet an an asshole.
/r/seduction01/07/21 09:27 AM
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its completely illogical, but alot of men like women with low #s
/r/seduction12/05/21 01:20 AM
2

a good way to get good at sex is to you know... have sex
/r/seduction10/05/21 05:06 AM
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so are women who have casual sex with random guys also insecure? or do you just #hateallmen, cuz that kinda the vibe you’re giving off.
/r/seduction09/05/21 07:44 PM
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why would it be?
/r/seduction09/05/21 01:54 PM
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do you card everyone you fuck? or do you add a little common sense to the mix.
/r/seduction09/05/21 01:53 PM
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i know right. but you can also see it as him saying, “why cant you lower yours standards for me of im able to lower my standards for you 🤷‍♂️”?
/r/PussyPassDenied01/04/21 09:12 PM
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i dont think anyone was being a niceguy
/r/PussyPassDenied26/03/21 02:54 AM
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well most women have height preferences so its not like shes singled out. also with that blurry picture no one can recognize her.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/03/21 02:49 AM
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i wouldn’t care if wouldn’t if i didnt think i did something wrong.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/03/21 02:30 AM
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if there is nothing wrong with what she or he did, whats wrong with posting it on reddit.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/03/21 02:16 AM
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he was matching with her to “give her a chance” the same way she was gonna give him. “a chance”. so u cant know that, youre just assuming. i could be wrong. but i think you’ve internalized the idea that women stating a height prefences is any different than men stating a prettiness preference.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/03/21 02:15 AM
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yeah. ik. interestingly. i think they are triggered for the same reason alot of people are calling the OP an asshole. alot of people dont like when people have physical preferences about things people cant change. i personally think its perfectly ok to have physical prefences. but that should go both ways . if women are aloud to say your not tall enough for me, men should be aloud to say tour not pretty enough for me. and i agree. if you’re gonna criticize one, u should also criticize the other.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/03/21 02:11 AM
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nothing is 100% shallow. there is a gradience to it. some preferences are more shallow than others. and some preferences are “a little” shallow while others are very shallow. if i said i only date models because those are the only girls im attracted to. you would rightfully call that very shallow. bit if i said i only date girls my height or shorter because thats the only girls im attracted to, i would call that only a little shallow.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/03/21 02:05 AM
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yeah, she stated hers and he stated his. but notice how him stating his preferences pisses everybody off.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/03/21 06:52 PM
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he literally just stated his preferences the same way she did. he cant control being 5’8 she cant control being average looking.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/03/21 06:45 PM
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heres the thing, youre right, but if you think about it his stated preferences are technically equally as valid as hers. being pretty and being tall are both completely fair preferences to have, they are also both a little shallow.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/03/21 06:40 PM
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i consider myself really good at physical escalation. and only decent at verbal game. if you want we can learn from one another.
/r/seduction06/12/20 06:00 AM
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U wouldnt do it is different than saying its stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 03:34 PM
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Ultimatums arent “dumb” they make perfect sense. If u had a partner that never took you on a fate would you not loses attraction ti them and offer and consider ab ultimatum?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 02:53 PM
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I agree that looks match is a different kb concept
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 02:49 PM
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U sound confused
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 02:57 AM
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“Attractivness match”. But looks match is a diffrent concept
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 02:55 AM
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a) all decisions we make are economic in nature. look the definition of "economics". many people want a small amount of resources which by definition creates an economy. this also translates to dating where woman compete for men with desirable traits. not sure what point you think you made. i guess you mean something along the lines of "THAT MINDSET OF LOOKING AT ECONOMICALLY IS TOXIC", to which i would respond that it isn't toxic because it accurately predicts and explains phenomenons that we e…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 11:05 PM
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the point you brought up isn't really the point i was trying to make. It wasn't about exoticness or foreign accents. my pint was just to reductio ad absurdism the comment i replied to, and arguing that looksmatch is simply someone who's appearance is as attractive as their partner by common beauty standards. However i dont think most relationships are looksmatched because there are other factors to attractiveness other than appearance. there are also other factors that keep people in relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 10:53 PM
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why do you think bosses pay people who they need more (aka afraid to lose more) more money? hint: people value and work harder to get things that they can lose, more than things that they consistently have. has nothing to do with insecurity. ill give you another example. even though you need air to live more than a luxury car. you are more likely to pay more for a luxury car than for air because air is abundant and easily replaceable. every time you buy anything non essential that cost more than…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 08:28 PM
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that doesn't mean "if you had 0 personality or 0 finances". Its more assuming everyone had the same personality and finances. so the only differentiating factor would be physical appearance. in that universe, the most attractive person you would get would be your looks match.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 08:22 PM
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so we agree with the parameters i added.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 08:19 PM
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sounds like an over simplistication. i think we all do a little dread game, in all aspects of our lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 08:18 PM
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The general trend is true. I agree there are more variables but again the general trend is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 09:25 AM
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sam harris' wife. not a celebrity. i don't know anything about celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 07:26 AM
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this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 07:18 AM
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pussy has been thrown at me, but i just immediately get scared that such a promiscous girl has stds
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 07:16 AM
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completely irrelevent to the discussion. btw you first paragraph basically just repeated his point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 07:09 AM
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not the "there are a lot of x that do y" argument. completely disregarding the rates of each.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 07:04 AM
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it actually seems pretty connected to both if you ask me. women biologically only need to get inseminated a couple times and then commitment becomes extremely desirable. while men biologically were better off going for the inseminate anything that moves strategy therefor valuing sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 06:59 AM
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i agree that this is part right, but slightly over simplified. The main desire, other that sex/commitment, is actually biological security. let me elaborate if men want sex they could just get a hooker and fuck her over and over. but on a biological standpoint there is no security that his offspring will be his. (generally that is why biologically men are wary of promiscuous women). SO. men want sex yes. but preferably with women who aren't having sex with other men. and also preferably from a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 06:45 AM
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the best definition of looks match is the most attractive person that you can get, disregarding your personality status or finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 06:16 AM
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by that logic every American mans looks match is a model. (but from a third world country.) i think the element of, "and is accessible to you" should be added. or maybe "if you are in the same economic standing"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 06:14 AM
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genrally speaking you like your partner the more u fear losing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 06:08 AM
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"Dread is used to indicate or remind someone of your value, usually by showing that you’re willing to remove yourself from a situation, walk away, or seek another option as a replacement in order to gain more power or respect in the power dynamic that is a romantic relationship. " tbh this is basically what red pill game is in a nutshell. i dont really know why its really wrong, and if you dont do this women leave you for men who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 06:05 AM
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Can confirm all of these to be generally true
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/20 06:18 AM
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Makes sense to me
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/20 05:49 AM
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