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You wanted a debate. If you cant accept opinions and you are set in your thoughts, why ask questions? Feminism is rooted in progress for women, to achieve equality compared to men as men are and were the standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:54 PM
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Feminism is about equality, not because we hate men but because we hate inequality and want to be treated as an equal human being. That doesnt mean to be blind towards guys' problems, as they for sure suffer in certain area's as well. That should be adressed as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:20 PM
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Pain experience is different in women and men I once read somewhere. Women believe they can handle pain better than men, but I read its not true actually. Maybe that explains the higher use of opioids in women. Also women are more inclined to seek medical help compared to men.
/r/MensRights19/09/24 07:35 AM
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For some people it might work. I just really disliked it. You cant see how a person behaves, how a person carries themselves, how their movements are, how their energy is. All you have is static pictures of a multi dimensional person. I cant judge if I like someone from a picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 05:29 PM
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I really dont know, I read a lot of guys saying it doesnt work so Ima stick to that I dont mind it all amd cant talk for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 05:18 PM
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I dont mind, being friendly to strangers is a humanly duty. But at night in a park might make me much more wary and uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:52 PM
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I talk to anyone, but being "presentable" is a plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:00 AM
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Ofcourse I dont think lesser of people who do online dating. If you dig that then good for you. I just disliked the apps a lot. The first "blind" date, having massive high expectations because texting was so much fun, only to let down by guys who cant keep up a conversation, are extremely boring, dont ask questions back, seem not interested in you or dont look anything like their pics. I just prefer having seen someone already and talked to them already. You can talk to me anywhere. Yesterday I …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:40 AM
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Dont know him, never met him, so you gotta ask himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:19 PM
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An adult is an adult and 20 and younger arent my type of adults thank you very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:58 PM
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Haggmaxxing? Are you calling a witch a witch 🤭? But honestly I dont mind it. Age is still often times a number.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:28 AM
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The weird thing about hitting the wall is: the older I get, the more interest I get from younger guys it seems. So Im not seeing the wall really, maybe a nice rose grown fence everyone seems to climb over.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:07 AM
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Nope, just a normal quite popular discord server.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 05:43 PM
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I think daddy discord or something
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 04:38 PM
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Not a datingprofile but I did on a big discord server. A guy friend told me to try it and see if the experience as a man would be different from being a woman. So we set up a fake profile using my real photos, but photoshopped into a guy and he gave me some guidelines to follow to make me a more realistic guy. Let me tell you: I was ignored the shit out of, and the ones (girls) that did talk were only asking about how much money I made or what car I had or if I was dom. The normal car? Girls wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:30 PM
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I hear you sister and I agree. Well said!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:29 PM
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Since there is tax on stuff, if women consume more they pay more tax?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:49 AM
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Consume more what?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:45 AM
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Society works good if there is a balance. I believe men and women are equal, but not the same. If we look at christianity we can see women are placed in a lesser role and are seen as less. Just look at the "in the name of the father, son and holy spirit". Where is a woman in there? Why is the focus on only the father and son? Not on the mother or daughter. Also holy Mary has been the mould women were pushed into: virgin and pure. She even had a child without having intercourse. When we look at w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 07:46 PM
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I agree. Every venue has its own specific audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 07:36 PM
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Hard question. In general I dont think it's a good or bad thing he doesnt care about it. I dont care about his career, money or status either, because to me it doesnt define a person. What makes it more difficult is in a relationship. Then he should somewhat care in a sense we should support eachother. So we can share good and bad days of work. Also if one of us would lose our job, then it's good we both care about eachothers income/financial situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:15 PM
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Tough question as Im introverted and reserved myself as well. Option 1 would probably understand the need for alone time more, but option 2 could balance out my own energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:06 PM
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Its interesting to see how a lot of guys want a surplus of women, while women themselves prefer a 50/50 ratio. Kinda sweet that men want women to outnumber them and for women to rule the earth (insert devilish laugh).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:20 PM
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As more answers stated: not only the "attractive high status/value" men are toxic. Ive dealt with several low selfesteem episodes in my life that I consider myself to have low selfesteem, but not so much "low value". My experience: there are good "low value" guys as well as good "high value" guys. But both also come with their own toxic traits. So in my opinion your view is very one sided on this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:53 PM
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Have you ever given a blowjob? After that we will talk again. And also, a lot of women like to be on top, myself included. It takes thrusting, tilting and bobbing as the one on top.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 12:42 PM
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How can women detect men that dont care about our orgasms? By the time we detect, he is 4 orgasms in and getting ready to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:07 AM
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Very well said. If no guy gives me orgasms, but I myself do, whats the point of having guys in my bed? Then I rather do things my own way and have a lovely evening
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:04 AM
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Thanks for your insight. But I think if you love your partner, the income, status and all that stuff shouldnt matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 07:14 PM
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Well both my sisters had kids and remained working, still earning more than their partners. Maybe it would have been hard for them to find someone with a higher income. Statistically it might be generally different, but I have a different point of view. Also isnt it true more women are higher educated and will probably close the paygap or out earn men in the near future?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 06:58 PM
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Those are the only two I knew the financial situation of.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 06:50 PM
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Both my sisters actually, a doctor and a lawyer, both earning more than their partners 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 06:37 PM
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I prefer an openminded guy so we can talk about anything. I dont care if he is liberal or conservative as long as he has an open mind and is willing to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:42 AM
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First option. Id rather be friends without sex and that there is liking towards eachother. Sex with someone who doesnt like you, I mean you are lowering yourself to theirs by giving in to a pity fuck? No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:14 PM
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My aunt divorced couple years ago. Shes reaching 70 now, if not slightly over. And she has the juiciest dating stories Ive ever heard. No shortage of men, no wall. I feel the wall was created to play into womens feelings, to make women rush into relationships or something, or to belittle them and have control over them in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:17 AM
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It was a male friend of mine who said it to me as we were talking about it thank you very much
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:17 PM
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Someone once told me "theres only high quality men, women cant be high quality as they are already 2nd rate"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 08:54 PM
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I thought we already did in this subreddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 08:40 PM
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Thanks for stating the obvious we all already knew
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 08:22 PM
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From the point of view from the women: I guess we dont see them as a threat or as a predator in such a way. We feel safe around them. Often they share same interests and they are interesting. From the point of view of gays: I have a feeling women are more accepting of being gay and open minded. Make less fun of them or mock them, so maybe women are more safe for them to interact with. Just my thoughts based on my feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 03:50 PM
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I also wondered where the story "men become better with age" came from. I rarely see older guys that I think "damn, you aged beautifully" more often than woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:32 AM
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Someone called Stacie?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 07:32 PM
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For some yes, for some no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:53 AM
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Have you checked the validity of the studies? I only checked the first study and am left with serious questions about the validity and bias in it. I could write a whole critical paper about why it lacks validity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:03 AM
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I only get approached when Im going out to like a party/bar/club. During my "normal" daily life I dont get approached really. Guys sometimes smile and I smile back, but they wont come over or make a move. As a woman you have to start making that move and maybe approach guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:19 PM
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I keep an open and welcoming mind towards them, be friends with them and unjudgemental, even when Ive had many many unpleasant experiences with them. I keep reminding myself "not all of them".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:35 PM
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Personally Id wait. Now Im reaching 30 my life is much more stable and less drama. Got a steady life situation (good job, nice house) which means a lot to me. So if I get kids they can grow up in a safe environment. Sure it feels there are less datable guys out there, but is it really? Or do I Just get more and more picky on who and what to tolerate after strings of dates? I guess a combo. But either way Id marry later and get your own stable and independent life first.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:12 AM
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This gives me flashbacks to my ex. I would have a night out with my best friend to just dance and chat together and absolutely nothing else. When Id get home he would shower me with accusations "so who you kissed?" "you flirted right?!" "attention whore" "Im sure you are meeting up with guys". That made loving him very hard. He projecting his insecurities and no matter what Id say or do, he wouldnt believe me. Eventually I broke up and he kept stalking me for years after. So no, never ever again…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:01 AM
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dating the top 20% means you are never alone in the relationship and threats come from everywhere. Too exhausting, give me the normal, average guy please, fits me much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:27 AM
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Sorry, you called for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:49 PM
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Seriously this is so weird to me. I dont even know the exact number I make a year because It doesnt matter to me. Then why the hell would it matter how much a guy Im dating makes a year? Its his money and its none of my business to even know in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 09:27 PM
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yes its quite common for some women to ger urinary tract infections after sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:03 AM
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yes its quite common for some women to ger urinary tract infections after sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:03 AM
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Maybe she Just has to pee or she doesnt want to have any urinary tract/bladder infection
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:54 AM
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Probably does. I remember as a teenager I would fall in love real quick and it was a storm of emotions, moodswings etc., the stormy type of love you read in books. Now Im older I hardly fall in love. I like a person, we match in energy, its a good time. Then after months and months I feel like: oh I think Im in love or really deeply care and want to take care of this person.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:41 AM
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Heard of it before, I personally dont understand it and would never do. Then again I dont do dinners as first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:39 PM
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Keeping hope. Besides seeing a guy watch you and follow you with his eyes while riding your bike or in the car or walking somewhere, feels kinda good as well as a substitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:19 AM
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Funny thing is Im from quite conservative/traditional background, but my parents always pushed my sisters and me to work hard and provide for ourselves, be independent. So we all became independent young women. Does it mean we dont value family? Nope, theres nothing better than being together with the family on like a sunday, cook together, have games together, talk with eachother and seeing kids playing and running around in the garden.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 12:02 PM
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Not saying that at all. Im exploring what OP considers romance and the reason why men would provide it. Jumping to conclusions without exploring reasons isnt my style.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:29 AM
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It's a hard question. First define romance? Is it a candlelit dinner? Breakfast in bed? A picknick in a park with wine and watching the stars afterwards? A hot bath surrounded by candles and soft music? Or is it morning sex followed by coffee? A quickie when you get home after work? I think women love romance in general and that might be why men provide romance? Maybe romance should be seen as some sort of foreplay and thats why men provide romance? Do men like romance themselves as well or is i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 07:43 AM
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Not if I hear what my mom says about my dad, she's just kinda accepting of him. So I guess my dad would be forever single knowing him the way I do and my mom very picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:16 PM
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Been there, done that. I tried dating guys im not physically attracted to, didnt work out. Feels like you're missing something, didnt have the feeling "omg I wanna rip your clothes off right now!". So no, didnt work for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:05 AM
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I was talking about real life, not some online stuff. Basically you are saying the same as I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:26 AM
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You really think in general a 20 year old girl will have your way of thinking? 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:16 AM
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I agree, the most stunning men for sure can pull it off, but in general very unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:21 AM
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If you have chemistry age shouldnt matter that much. But that said, a 20 year old girl often views a 30+ year old as that: old. 40+ as ancient.Talked with my colleagues about this and we all agreed when we were early 20s we wouldnt date above lets say 25/26. I dont know why its almost always guys saying 30+ year old dudes can date early 20s girls. I rarely see it happening. If you wait a couple years a 25 year old is much more likely to date a 35 year old than a 20 year old dating a 30 year old.…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:52 AM
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You forget this is the purple pill community. I feel like you and I have a similar background (stable parents/family, no divorcing within family and succesful females). Ppl in this community view life a little different.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:29 AM
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Oh well, I keep telling them to just approach me. If the feminists want it some other way, let them have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 09:46 AM
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What I learned is how amazing it is to see how "other worldly" some ppl view the same world I live in. A difference from day and night. Sometimes I see valid points made, sometimes I see a person venting and projecting personal frustrations. But either way it makes for good amusement most of the time 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:09 PM
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I never asked for men not to approach me 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:35 PM
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Thats beautiful devotion! Even without a spouse life can be very fulfilling, thank you for sharing your story 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:04 PM
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Then I will be a loving and devoted woman to my friends and family. And all my assets and belongings will go to my niece and two nephews. But before that I will spend it to live a comfortable life and take care of my parents when they are old and in need of care.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:31 PM
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At my cousins marriage on the dancefloor i was "introduced" to the shy brother of the groom. The introduction was like: my aunt (mother of the bride) and my mom were telling me the brother of the groom was single. They kept pointing (very obvious and I was not really into it) at him and trying to get us closer together. At one point he walked past me and they literally pushed us against eachother so we both had to grab eachother to not fall down. It was awkward as hell. We talked a bit and went …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:15 AM
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I Just want a guy to approach me, anywhere really. I dont bite, I wont spill a drink on you. I will smile and listen to what you say. But yea guys dont approach anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:35 PM
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my experience as well, thats why I stay away from the toxic stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:18 AM
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Im for sure men face difficulties us women have no knowledge of and how hard those are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:46 AM
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Try being a woman for a day and see for yourself how nicely you are treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:32 AM
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Because men havent been seen as the weaker sex for centuries and been put as 2nd class people. I still have geriatric female patients when I ask about their work past they say: oh I got fired from my job when my husband and I started a family because that was how things were, but would have loved to continue to work. For men Im happy they get paternal leave these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:01 AM
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then why arent more men working in nail salons or working as nurses? Some jobs Just speak more to men in general and some to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:39 AM
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Define a "nice girl". In my experience guys go for the hot girls who arent always very nice in their personality. So I guess for girls it depends on their looks if they finish last or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:37 AM
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Sounds like my ex, not kidding
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:20 AM
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Nope. I had a spark with my ex and I didnt think of him as attractive (physically) at first at all. We had good chemistry and I fell in love, then I started to see him more and more as attractive (physically). So the spark was there before I found him physically attractive. Looking back I wonder how I was ever physically attracted to him. Love is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 12:28 PM
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Yes I wouldnt dream of telling guys to smile, yet guys have told be to smile before, some even put their hand in my face to move my mouthcorners up. Yes these were strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:25 AM
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I dont know, considering the fact women are generally speaking weaker than men, a woman has more difficulties fighting off a man. As a man theres a 50/50 chance you are stronger than the guy attacking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:35 PM
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would you rather live as a man now or a couple centuries ago? what is this question really?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:33 PM
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so men and women both are victims of.... men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:04 PM
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If you keep downplaying what I say, suit yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:24 PM
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Sure. Have you seen also this video of guys being catcalled? No me neither
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:31 PM
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Never seen those catcalling videos? Theres something that make men feeling okay doing that to women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:13 PM
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Yes, dont get me wrong, life isnt easy for either men or women. We all deal with our own struggles and sometimes having a one sided point of view is Just too easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:39 AM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:17 AM
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Tell that to the women around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:16 AM
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Yet you dont get raised to call when youre home or leave to let others know youre safe, hold your Keys a certain way so they can be used as a weapon, looking around when going home at night to spot threats, scared the guy walking behind you might be speeding up a little to possibly grab you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:12 AM
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Partly true maybe. But less likely to be victim of violence? There is a reason we women are often scared to walk alone especially in the dark. And you know how guys talk about their crazy ex girlfriends? A lot of women dont make it out alive to talk about their crazy ex boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:03 AM
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What makes you even think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:46 AM
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Just look around reddit to see how guys view women. Also to name a more personal example: period products are still not available for free for women to use everywhere. If men had to calculate if they could make it throughout the day without the fear of bleeding through clothes, it was already free available everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:16 AM
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Women already are treated as 2nd class citizens and have been for centuries. Whats new?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:20 AM
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I guess so, yet still sometimes being single is heaven
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:00 PM
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"I just think some empathy with how difficult it is would be good" honestly women have been oppressed for centuries by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:54 PM
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Do we? I know plenty that came out of toxic relationships and wouldnt dream pointing a finger at a guy ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:53 PM
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Amusement how others view the world in complete different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:47 PM
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My hoe phase was because I was finally free from my parents, living on my own, feeling the freedom to do what and to do whom I wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:48 AM
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why are you talking for women when you are not a woman yourself? I know in general most guys probably are stronger than me, no matter his height. Its the attitude of guys that scare me, not his height. Maybe study this: are insecure men more prone to physically threaten/abuse women? And how does male insecurity relate to body height? I think these are good questions for you to research first. -my guess: shorter men are more insecure, and insecure men are a bigger threat to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:10 PM
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Ive had my fair share of "niceguys", no thank you to that, someone else can take their turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:14 PM
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youre mistaken if you think im going to watch a 30 min clip of some girl reading her tweets
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:54 PM
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Are we talking about "niceguys" ? real good guys yes 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:44 PM
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Its really lovely when a guy tells me what I as a woman prefer... Anyway yes there has to physical attraction but in the end personality >>>>>> physical
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:40 PM
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Well i dont like stds and in a relationship i prefer monogamy so B
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:03 PM
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dont they all involve sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:00 PM
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so are we talking Just sex or like a grown up mature kind of long term relationship as in marriage kind of stuff? Just sex? Then A or B or D Real emotional long term relationship B
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:55 PM
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Sexual relationship? Is that like FWB in other words? Then I dont care about anything but him being a man. That leaves option A, B and D open. But in D you say something about "not romantically love you"? Then why is D an option? The whole question is confusing as in the other options its about sexual relationship and not an emotional or even romantically love relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:44 PM
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he was very much an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:16 PM
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Thats a good one actually
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:15 PM
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Haha he was one. If he didnt grab my boobs before talking I even might have said yes to the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:12 PM
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im under 30 and im not 100% free to choose. Sure a nice face and body is good, but im not perfect so I dont expect my partner to be perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:00 PM
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biggest pussy i ever laid eyes on
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:58 PM
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grabbing a girl you dont know by the boobs, see her get upset and angry and dare ask her out on a date. Yes it happened to me once.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:56 PM
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"many guys struggle to find women that are physically attracted to them" What is the reason of that? Why arent women physically attracted to them in comparison to like 50 years ago? Also I see plenty of average guys in relationships with above average girls. When I get to know the guy i realize: personality is more important than looks alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:09 PM
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What you find beautiful, the next person might think extremely ugly of. Obesity for sure has to do with indulgence. But yet why is cancer and other illnessess more common these days than in the past? Im sure it has to do with more toxins in everything we eat and our changing lifestyle in general. But lets not forget obesity can be the result of medical problems as well. Anyway if you want to talk more about stuff it can be done in dms.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:45 AM
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Regardless of gender, just take care of yourself. Sexy and beauty still is in the eye of the beholder. If these overweight people need to say all that to feel secure about themselves, who am I to tell them otherwise? Im more for taking care of yourself, eat healthy, exercise on a regular base. Still overweight? Maybe theres a medical reason. Are you a queen? No but you tried, well done. Now keep up the healthy lifestyle 😊.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:34 AM
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Europe, Netherlands
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:32 AM
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Im not from the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:15 AM
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Thats what Im saying with your society is different from mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:00 AM
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Probably not. We were talking if a guy who eats cheetos and plays videogames complains about not finding a partner would get treated the same. And I think they do yes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:54 AM
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Twitch? Ah I see, you have a different society.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:38 AM
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Oh yes they do the same to women in this example.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:33 AM
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If a woman is eating cheetos and playing video games and complain about not being able to find a partner, society would do the same to her as to you. Then stop eating cheetos amd get out of the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:28 AM
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Why am I brought into this?🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:37 PM
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I cant really speak for all women but I think in general its more often than not that women conciously or subconciously care about the opinion of others. I dont think ppl will make direct negative comments, but Im sure I would hear it in the form of "lighthearted jokes".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:48 AM
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You are right, yet it is how it is and I am how I am. My love life Just isnt that easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:56 PM
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Im 28. Probably has to do as well that I have a somewhat more "traditional" background, even though im quite the rebel of the family. Still in the back of my mind "what will others think/say (especially my parents)". Doesnt prevent me from not meeting and doing non conventional things. But when it comes to serious things like dating, I find myself wondering what will be said (probably because my parents didnt approve of my ex).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:59 PM
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I Just had this convo with my friend (both of us women) and asked her how important height is. We agreed height isnt that important personally. It's more that we feel judged by others and not the "norm", so basically we are insecure about what other ppl might think and say about it. And around 6 year dryspell.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 09:46 AM
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A Stacie type woman? Thank you I guess 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:55 AM
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women get stds
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:51 AM
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fuckboys get stds
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:23 AM
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Im fully aware of this situation and accept it. My sisters responsibility was providing kids, mine taking care of our parents when they are older. I dont want kids myself. Who will take care of me when Im older? Hopefully either my niece/nephew. Otherwise a nurse will.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:49 PM
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I guess online is easier, as you have access 24/7. But online and offline both have their pros and cons.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:57 AM
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If someone specifically asks about it I will tell it. But in general its private or must be a real funny/weird story attached to it to share. But I guess someone telling you can have different reasons: they trust you enough to share it, they want to make you feel jealous, they want to get a reaction, they want to teach/tell you something about what they like, they want to impress you etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:46 AM
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Im fine being without a partner. I got a fulfilling life: bought a nice house, got a car, workout, lovely family, a group of great friends, a nice job, hobbies I love. I am very family oriented yet I dont want kids anyway. I love my niece and nephew and cant wait for my other nephew to be born. So yea, even without a partner I feel life is beautiful and worth living. And the pro of having no partner is just doing anything I like without having to ask anyone first. And like others have stated: al…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:23 AM
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CMV? what does that even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 03:29 PM
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I either get too overwhelmed by the amount of guys that my brain cant function properly and the amount of inbox messages. And I get underwhelmed by all the standard talking "how are you" "how was your day" "what are you doing?". Yes I get that men are under a massive amount of pressure to often make the first move and deal with rejection. But how hard is it to have at least a somewhat interesting conversation? The last guy I went on a date with didnt even talk. He Just looked at me and smiled an…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:42 PM
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Nobody is perfect, I think eventually we all settle down and accept the flaws of the significant other.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:21 AM
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A womans sexuality is very complex. Unlike men, who are hormonal more stable, women go through hormonal phases. And hormones are a bitch. What a woman wants one day doesnt line up with what she wants when lets say she is ovulating. And then Im not even talking about pressure of society and other internal and external factors. Also women are in general weaker than men. If we were as careless we would put ourselves in situations of high risk of being (sexually) attacked/abused or even killed. But …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:09 AM
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I will talk to anyone anywhere if I want to, its easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 07:36 PM
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can literally meet anyone anywhere if only you have the right mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 07:17 PM
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And thats why I dislike datingapps and stay away from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 07:54 PM
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I have and would do again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 07:27 PM
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I dont understand why you ask if women would date a man with a perfectly normal job? Ofcourse I would date a man, no matter his job. Apparently asking what someone does for a living entitles other people to judge how much respect they should be given. Everyone deserves respect. So yes, I would date any man regardless of his job.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:52 PM
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I tick it off myself, then why cant anyone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:20 AM
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I wasnt aware we were having a competition 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:05 PM
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I think its expected of the woman in general yes. And yes, a smaller family would be less stressfull.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:05 PM
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Well you should ask her. Sometimes you know feelings wont develop, so Just ask her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:56 PM
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28
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:40 PM
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Im not someone that falls in love at first sight. It grows over time and a good personality will make physical flaws fade away as its less important.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:30 PM
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Sacrifices are a part of life, juggling whose family we go to during holidays etc. is to be expected. I Just value family a great deal. If for whatever reason he has a bad family relationship Id like to know why. For my kids as well Id like to have loving grandparents around.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 05:42 PM
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Im sorry to hear that. You are right, it doesnt mean someone by default will be bad parent themselves. I appreciate people learning from it and try to be better than what they are used to from their own parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:08 PM
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yes, have you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:40 PM
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Because family is one of the most important things in my life and I feel its important to share the same value. Learning and growing from trauma is always good, if his parents/family were really bad then I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:37 PM
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Well honestly i can have a crush on/love a guy because he has real good personality and values while not fancying him physically in the first place, so looks are less important to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:59 PM
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Less high on the list, also why would looks make someone of higher or of lower value?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:51 PM
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I wonder what my great grandmother, grandmother and mother would think of the concept of "women have no position in society". Actually in my parents marriage it was my mother who brought the status.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:38 PM
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What I consider to be valuable traits will differ from what someone else thinks valuable traits and will also differ from culture to culture, but here are mine: big hearted, makes me laugh, has a serious and caring side, open to continue to work on himself and grow, has his own hobbies and interests and is passionate about them, has a good relationship with his family, takes care of himself, has no problem sharing his thoughts/feelings/emotions, is a good communicator (basically a male version o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:18 PM
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When the convo only revolves around: Hi, how was your day? What are you doing? How are you? And when you ask questions they dont ask questions back? Quite hard indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 05:34 AM
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Even with 5 matches I get greatly overwhelmed. But yes, online dating is awful in general to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 05:02 AM
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I dont see why your income should be of importance to a woman. Isnt love about the person and not about the bankaccount? At least thats what I believe, so I wouldnt care.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 05:21 AM
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Personally I saw different in my own family. Both my sisters as well as cousins got together with "normal" men but considered "lower status" compared to our own family. Nobody cared about it, nobody looked down on it, so I dont really seen this "hypergamy" everybody seems to be talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:58 PM
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