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| 16 | Who cares more about sex?Alternatively, I’d say men care more about getting sex. Women care more about what they’re getting out of having sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 08:46 PM |
| 8 | What is an unpopular dating opinion you have about your gender?Women don’t suck at judging character. They just don’t care about it until it begins to adversely impact them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCheck your chats when you get a minute bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCheck your chats when you get a chance bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 03:33 AM |
| 1 | If men want societal safety nets, they need to band together and weather the storm to get them.Check your chats, pls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 03:27 AM |
| 1 | How do you explain your dating struggles to your parents?Hey bro, check your chats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 02:37 AM |
| 3 | How do you explain your dating struggles to your parents?Hey bro, check your chats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 02:16 AM |
| 1 | what do women gain from being in a relationship with men if they’re seen as valueless after 25?Check your chats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 02:13 AM |
| – | What exactly do you mean when you accuse men of "stringing women along for sex" ? Can you give examples of this behavior?Here’s the thing about the communication, though. Until your sexual partner implicitly communicates that they want more, your assumptions are your own responsibility. If you agreed to become sexual partners with a friend, that’s all you are until otherwise has been clearly communicated. If they boldfaced lie to you, shame on them. Anything else though, that’s on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 10:13 PM |
| – | What exactly do you mean when you accuse men of "stringing women along for sex" ? Can you give examples of this behavior?In all fairness, it’s not necessarily cherry picking if it’s true. The problem is the majority of women, and many men too, aren’t wired to constantly have sex with someone over a span of time and to completely dissociate that from any aspect of a prospective romantic relationship. HOWEVER Sex, itself, is supposedly this sacred, romantic thing, right? So, if you have already taken sex outside of the committed relationship concept and placed it into the platonic realm, you can’t then assume that s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 10:11 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAnything 30-35 and over. Even at her fastest, there’s just no reason why more than 25 men has touched her over the course those 15 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 08:18 PM |
| 8 | What are your actual dating requirements? (Single Women Only)Wait, so for body count you want a virgin but for sex you want a generous lover who shares your kinks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Choose better is always the response when women are in bad relationships? Do you show the worse parts of yourself when just meeting someone?Wait… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Are guys who don't go to college screwed in the dating world?Yeah I wasn’t tryna clown you ab the typo sorry if it came off that way. But the rest of my point stands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 11:21 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou gotta give it the old college try it ain’t hard stop being a pussy lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 11:20 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWe miss you in the server btw, I’m only over here lurking for potential invites | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 08:07 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNah Ik that, Ijs the way he described you like when that account has been gone for so long is wild | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 07:51 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHim calling you out like that is crazy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Choose better is always the response when women are in bad relationships? Do you show the worse parts of yourself when just meeting someone?Most people aren’t that highly skilled. A lot of victims just don’t care about their partner’s past as long as they’re able to believe it won’t happen to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Is it true that male "players" were shamed prior to the sexual revolution?If they weren’t contributing members of their community and just going around sleeping with whoever they could as some of those guys can now, yes. The family unit was heavily prioritized back then so even if a guy wanted to have his Cate and Edith too, more often than not he’d at the very least be married and if he just had to sleep around he would have a mistress somewhere, maybe a couple if possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 07:19 PM |
| -1 | Single men are bitter. I wonder why?Hey, if your chats are off do you mind turning them on? I’d like to extend you an invite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 07:13 PM |
| 7 | Are guys who don't go to college screwed in the dating world?He’s overselling it but if your experience in college was that it’s “easiest as shit to get girls in college”, maybe you’re a little more fortunate than you’re letting on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Why do men feel entitled to romance and or intimacy?It’s not testosterone alone but the difference mainly does lie in physiology + chemistry. Women don’t have the means to incapacitate, maim and murder each other, let alone the other gender as easily and without assistance as men do. It boils down to that. Then, take into account how many women seem to be afraid of firearms and that naturally curtails the means to do so even more. But, as far as temperaments go women are roughly equal to men give or take a few margins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 02:21 AM |
| 9 | If you've ever called a man an incel, you can't really claim there's nothing wrong with being a male virginthey’ll never find out where i buried the Jacks…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Are women really that disgusted by inexperienced/virgin men?Call this thread WrestleMania 20 because it’s where it all begins, again! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 08:03 PM |
| 1 | I had a chance to lose my virginity with my female cousin years ago...Rivet? | /r/AllPillDebate | 27/10/23 02:22 AM |
| 2 | You only think women’s standards are unrealistic because you view them as a monolith.That’s not all that true, considering we have a bird’s eye view of a large enoigh sample size of the activities of men who do get their way with women and who either have lack of desire to be monogamous or a lack of discipline to do so. Everyday, women get on social media and talk about how men, “will fuck anything”, not realizing that she is the “anything” that men will fuck. If the switch flipped but no other factors changed, you’d simply have a bunch of men racing to see how many different wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis is a lot of text to justify dying on your hill when you could’ve just said, ‘yeah, it’s all semantic but it’s my opinion’. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 12:14 AM |
| 2 | You only think women’s standards are unrealistic because you view them as a monolith.The “Rowdy” is supposed to come first but otherwise, dope username bro bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 12:06 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat’s wrong with being revered by your spouse? the new Oxford defines revere as having deep respect or admiration for something (or someone). Adoration, on the other hand, by that same institution, is defined not only as deep respect and admiration but as worship. Why is adoration alright but reverence not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 11:48 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadwhy is it ridiculous for a man to want to have a wife that adores him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 09:45 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTrp is about maximizing your chances for success in whatever manner you desire. If a man wishes to build a roster and be able to maintain it long term while switching out a “plate” here and there, trp is supposed to help with that. If a man wishes to find his wife who reveres him, trp is supposed to help with that. If a man wishes to have a long term girlfriend then switch her out with another while having a side piece or two, trp is supposed to help him accomplish that. If it seems that trp is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 09:17 PM |
| 9 | As a male you won't know your true league unless you quit online datingThere’s a lot of “soft” sugaring going on these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 08:48 PM |
| – | Dating has shifted in gen z and millennials to where most women are having "situationships", as in casual sex with the possible future promise of relationshipsShe definitely played herself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 12:29 AM |
| – | Dating has shifted in gen z and millennials to where most women are having "situationships", as in casual sex with the possible future promise of relationshipsIf it was inevitable, it was never casual in that girl’s mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Non virgin men shouldn't ask for virgin womenHere you go, fam. Most paywalled articles can be skipped with this. https://archive.ph/MKPsK | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’m still here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 07:15 PM |
| – | What this sub has taught you about dating and the other sex in general ?Well look at you lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 09:57 PM |
| – | What this sub has taught you about dating and the other sex in general ?Nobody comes to PPD to have their minds changed, Grid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Should a woman who has lost significant amounts of weight give men who did not want her a chance after weight loss?Doesn’t make them a bad person but that allegation of shallowness has room for debate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 04:02 PM |
| 1 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceThat’s an interesting point, and a valid one too. The only issue with it is perception. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 03:28 PM |
| 3 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceschadenfreude It’s not everyday someone makes me google a word lol it’s a dope lil piece of diction for sure but i’m never using this in casual conversation I’d scare all the hoes off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 03:06 PM |
| – | What happened when I asked my neighbor is she wanted to go for coffee?If I had to take a stab at it, she was already seeing someone. Maybe things were seemingly fizzling out on their end and she was going to start paying you some mind or use you as a welcome distraction. So, she gave you an in. Things got better or more exciting between her and who she’s seeing so she rescinded the offer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 03:01 PM |
| – | What this sub has taught you about dating and the other sex in general ?Black man discusses black women, radical idea am I right? I’ve always said PPD should be split up into sects. There’s no reason for me to debate sex and dating dynamics with a 24 year old conservative married woman. We’d both be right. She’s right about the dynamics she lives among, and I’d be right about the dynamics I live among, but where the disconnect comes from is that we’re debating each other as if we’re talking about the same group of people when we aren’t. This mashup of culture leads … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 02:58 PM |
| 1 | What this sub has taught you about dating and the other sex in general ?One more time for the nosebleeds, you can’t disagree with something I didn’t posit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 12:28 AM |
| 1 | What this sub has taught you about dating and the other sex in general ?Well, we have to agree to disagree on the matter of accountability, but you have a fair point. Also, my sincere apologies about this but I thought I was speaking to a woman throughout this exchange | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf a tree falls in the woods and nobody hears it, does it make a sound? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 10:00 PM |
| 2 | What this sub has taught you about dating and the other sex in general ?Well, that we can definitely agree on. Most people will believe what they want to be true, and in this case, some people want women to be the problem and not themselves. In what case is this specifically? We were sort of together but you managed to turn this into some way to still victimize women’s role in being accountable for what is the way of dating at the moment. I’d say everyone is to blame. I get your point but men usually share their relationship issues with friends just as much as women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 09:50 PM |
| 4 | What this sub has taught you about dating and the other sex in general ?I gotta say, I appreciate the honesty here in that you were willing to admit that they probably aren’t and that’s just your perception due to it being most of what you see. For the most part, I’d say that no matter where everyone is on the pill spectrum, most aren’t here to have discourse with a willingness to have views changed. Men don’t have friends they feel comfortable venting their frustrations ab their dating woes to in the way that women do, which probably contributes to what you feel is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 07:30 PM |
| 4 | Serious question. What will you do with your lives if you don't find anyone?“Latishas” is insane… What you got against Tisha? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 07:14 PM |
| 6 | What this sub has taught you about dating and the other sex in general ?I’m asking if you believe that rp guys are the only group of people that come here to have their views validated or confirmed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe Tom Brady Memorial Conference. What else did you think it was? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 07:06 PM |
| -1 | What this sub has taught you about dating and the other sex in general ?That last one seems to be something you’re great at doing yourself lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 06:26 PM |
| 6 | What this sub has taught you about dating and the other sex in general ?You’re only subscribing that to rp guys? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPretty sure that’s more or less just being average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 06:16 PM |
| 1 | It seems like men fail to understand that the attention that women get is not the compliment or even a privilegeDid you write an entire p.s. to attempt to check me on something I didn’t even say? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe weird ass PPD narrative that women give pussy to guys they don’t take seriously faster than they’ll fuck guys they do take seriously is just some crazy ass cope concocted to attempt to explain away why women with no discipline seem to play themselves by hopping into bed too fast with the men they want, but who don’t want them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 11:43 AM |
| 1 | It seems like men fail to understand that the attention that women get is not the compliment or even a privilegePrivilege is invisible to those who have it and the select women who, themselves, experience this drought of validating attention that men fail to experience feel the same way. Just last year a plus sized woman went viral for venting on this very subject. She cried ab the fact that she doesn’t feel beautiful bc when she goes out with her friends, they get attention from attractive men and she doesn’t. She said her friends always tell her that she’s beautiful but those words do nothing for her bc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 11:40 AM |
| 13 | Men on this sub need to understand that actually being attractive to women is more important than finding the right place to approach.lmaoo you’re not gonna get me like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 08:52 PM |
| 15 | Men on this sub need to understand that actually being attractive to women is more important than finding the right place to approach.That’s simply not true. It’s very much cope. Idky this PPD narrative gets pushed around but it’s not how many women operate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadyour youth pastor is taking on a very literal interpretation of the word. The verses that concern what some refer to as marital debt has to do with honoring the covenant you voluntarily agree to bind yourself in. As sex is “supposed” to be had in marriage, that means you shouldn’t just violate the covenant you voluntarily entered into and starve off your husband from sex. However, as a husband, he shouldn’t just force sex upon you if there’s something legitimately bothering you that’s keeping yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreaddamn, who’s the first one? what’s up with all these new people, bring the ogs back | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadyou’re twisting what The Word says. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 08:09 PM |
| 14 | Men on this sub need to understand that actually being attractive to women is more important than finding the right place to approach.Every time the question of whether or not women were typically able to tell they were attracted to their partner very soon after first meeting comes up around here, the women answered in the affirmative. Now, some women have a bit more discipline than others and are willing to wait for “The Fun Stuff” but 9/10 you’re going to know early on if a woman sees the potential for you two to end up in one or the other’s bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 08:02 PM |
| 1 | It seems like men fail to understand that the attention that women get is not the compliment or even a privilegeTo you, maybe. To men, maybe not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadwhat’s wrong with your face? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 04:29 PM |
| 3 | Are straight women really qualified to give advice on how to date straight women?The only problem with this is that unless you’re really, really close with a woman, odds are that she’s not going to be willing to be honest with you. Women, well the ones I’ve spoken to ab these sorts of conversations in these spaces anyways, are very ‘path of least resistance’ when these topics come about. They’re not trying to risk vibes for some shit you may not even be willing to receive in kind. I’d say unless the man has a cousin or sister with no skin in the game, most of the time this w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 04:22 PM |
| 4 | There is a active push to limit the scope of socially acceptable venues to approach a womanare you serious? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 04:15 PM |
| 1 | It seems like men fail to understand that the attention that women get is not the compliment or even a privilegeOne without the other is a lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 04:13 PM |
| 1 | It seems like men fail to understand that the attention that women get is not the compliment or even a privilegeFor women, as long as you look decent the chances that you’ll garner sexual interest is almost guaranteed so you perceive it to be of no value. The default doesn’t feel validating. For many men, we crave it bc we don’t receive it for long periods of time if ever. So, you’re right; compliments from the elderly and other men are of no value when we’re not receiving that value from those we’re hoping to validate us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 04:08 PM |
| 1 | It seems like men fail to understand that the attention that women get is not the compliment or even a privilegeThat’s completely wrong. The majority of men have baseline commonalities that should prove “relevant” to the job they’re applying for. You’re not hiring him bc you feel that he doesn’t have certain superficialities that you feel the position requires. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 03:25 PM |
| 4 | There is a active push to limit the scope of socially acceptable venues to approach a womanis this satire? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 03:20 PM |
| 1 | There is a active push to limit the scope of socially acceptable venues to approach a womanI wouldn’t say there’s an active push to limit the scope of socially acceptable venues to approach a woman. What is happening though is that women are starting to attempt to subvert the rules of life. What I mean by that is with good, comes bad. It’s always been how the world operates. When you get offered favorable attention from those you are attracted to and wish to be attracted to you, the other side of that is that you’re going to have to deal with being approached by those who find you att… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 02:15 PM |
| 1 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?You can’t disagree with me when I didn’t say the thing you disagreed with. You’re disagreeing with your projection of what I said, but not what I said in and of itself. That’s cool, but it’s not something for me participate in. That’s between you and you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 05:49 PM |
| 1 | It seems like men fail to understand that the attention that women get is not the compliment or even a privilegewomen value compliments in a way that men don’t, in a sense. But, the truth is, even women know what men are going through where this particular topic is concerned. Just last year, a plus sized woman went viral for venting and crying about how she doesn’t feel pretty because she doesn’t get any attention from men when she’s out with her prettier friends, who always tell her that she’s beautiful but never feels that she actually gets to experience being beautiful. Compliments lack value to those … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 05:43 PM |
| 1 | It seems like men fail to understand that the attention that women get is not the compliment or even a privilegewe’re talking ab attention or the lack thereof from the other gender, right? why would i believe i’m a catch if i’m told so by guys when i’m heterosexual and want this compliment to validated by real life attention from women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 05:29 PM |
| – | It seems like men fail to understand that the attention that women get is not the compliment or even a privilegeThe title of the thread we are discussing is: It seems like men fail to understand that the attention that women get is not the compliment or even a privilege The OP of the comment thread we are currently on says: I sympathize with women and how they have to deal with creepy men, I really do, but trust me, being a man and just feeling completely invisible everywhere you go and no one ever wants to talk to you or acknowledge your existence is no fun either I’m getting that out of the way to ask; … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 05:27 PM |
| 1 | It seems like men fail to understand that the attention that women get is not the compliment or even a privilegeit’s not ab perspective, it’s about utility. And, aren’t we having a conversation concerning something in the sex and dating dynamics realm? If so, what does everything not revolving around sexual attraction have to do with anything? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 05:24 PM |
| – | It seems like men fail to understand that the attention that women get is not the compliment or even a privilegeOfc, being told you’re doing a good job when your stimuli says something completely different is patronizing. Nobody wants to hear that they’re a great catch when they aren’t being caught. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 05:23 PM |
| – | It seems like men fail to understand that the attention that women get is not the compliment or even a privilegeBecause men don’t find validation in that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 05:21 PM |
| – | It seems like men fail to understand that the attention that women get is not the compliment or even a privilegeit’s not that we fail to understand, it’s that you cannot compare being an applicant that never gets hired to being a hiring manager that isn’t satisfied with the applicants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 05:21 PM |
| 1 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?i didn’t imply anything, you’re projecting that onto my statement based on your petty need to have a point to clap back with. i hope you’re proud of yourself. where’s Fine when you need to give a medal out to someone JFC | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 03:18 PM |
| 1 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?Ok, so some women aren’t doing what I said some women are doing. So what? Where are we now? At the end of the day, you cannot deny that for plenty of (average) women, a large facet of their relative comfort being single is that they still get to participate in the intimacy with the man they want while “single”, which is something that plenty of (average) men wish to do but cannot, hence their unhappiness with being single. My replying to your comment doesn’t mean I like to go around arguing “no … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 03:02 PM |
| 1 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?Here’s my original comment: Easier to be happy being “unpartnered” when you’re already fucking the person you want. Did I say that all women were having not-so-casual-casual sex with the man they were romantically interested in? No. Y’all really love to argue just to argue on this website. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 02:54 PM |
| 1 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?I’m not making it seem like anything. I said it’s easier to be happy as a “single” person when you’re still able to have sex with the person you want. That’s a situation the average woman can find herself more readily so than the average man will. You’re deflecting, when you say I’m acting as if women crave random sex in the same way that men do, bc that’s not what the meat of my point was ab nor did it imply anything of that sort either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 01:34 PM |
| 1 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?You’re deflecting. I didn’t make any mention of women having or craving “random compulsory sex the way an average man is”. I said it’s easier to be happier being single when you’re already able to have sex with the person you want, and that’s not a debatable point… well, it is bc you can debate anything but somethings don’t need much debate. But, for you to be a black woman yourself and act like you don’t know what’s going on in the community is wild. Our marriage situation, our broken homes cri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 12:02 PM |
| 1 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?Irrelevant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 11:51 AM |
| – | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?Easier to be happy being “unpartnered” when you’re already fucking the person you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhich statistics are you pulling from? The one that says 70% of men report having sex within the past year? That stat doesn’t account for sexual activeness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadKey word, “from time to time”, which does not mean often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadthere’s no practical difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadshitting on people for being displeased with their misfortune isn’t helping anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOdds are that any relationship I find myself in, i’m gonna be one of those guys that others look at and ask, ‘yo, how tf he pull that??’ so as long as it happens, i’m cool with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadin all fairness, if you’ve been attempting to date since the age of 15 with no success while you’ve had multiple peers go on dates, have fun w/ the opposite gender, lose their virginity, and whatnot, if you haven’t achieved anything by the age of 21, there’s nothing wrong with being honest with yourself. i wouldn’t suggest a 21 yr old give up though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 11:36 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADBe decently attractive and accept attention from other horny teens and young adults? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Women do get rejected by menThere are way too many women who believe in the loophole principle for these “lifetime averages” to be valid talking points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Not receiving sexual attention causes lot of issues and society doesn't acknowledge itThere are already drugs abound that make women hornier. They don’t get the urge to fuck other men at some higher rate when they’re using the drugs. They just help them to have better sex with the men they were going to fuck anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Not receiving sexual attention causes lot of issues and society doesn't acknowledge itI just want to say thank you bc I knew reading his post that the first comment would start off as yours did and I was not let down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Does experience from paying for sex counts?It counts in the sense of getting your stroke right for when or if the opportunity to have a love in your life presents itself. At 31, most women you come into contact with are definitely going to expect you to be competent in bed and the lack of said competence is definitely going to turn plenty away. If you don’t mind engaging in pay for play, it’s probably pragmatically the best way for you to make sure you’re going to be sexually competent once you get your shot. But, just keep those truth o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 07:25 PM |
| 5 | CMV - if you don’t have a strong social circle, you have no right to complain about the dating market being unfairThis is definitely not true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 07:13 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWhy do you find it to be silly? If a woman who has only slept with 4 men by 24 doesn’t wish to be the girlfriend of a man who has 30 previous sexual partners, is that not a valid determination on her end that they aren’t compatible? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 06:58 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI’m not saying compatibility is based solely on a number of sexual partners. I’m saying the number of your sexual partners may be a factor in determining the potential compatibility of two people. If you don’t believe that’s a valid position to have after further clarification, that’s fair. I’m not dating someone who’s going to judge me. What do you mean? Everybody judges everybody. When you’re dating someone in the pre-commitment phase, you judge people based on the factors important to you. Co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 06:38 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADSo… because you don’t see the value in sharing quantity, you don’t believe the men you’re dating have a right to judge you two’s potential compatibility based on a potential disparity in previous sexual partners? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 06:19 PM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWhy do you feel that honesty has a limit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 12:31 PM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADActually, I think I wasn’t as clear on the exclusivity point as I’d meant to be. Let’s say a guy isn’t the type to have sex “on the side” while he’s dating a woman and wishes for both of you to remain exclusive in that aspect in the pre-sexual time frame of dating? Would you be willing to participate in that? Also, with regards to your answers to the first point, would you not be willing to disclose your number of previous partners if asked? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 09:22 PM |
| 5 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWhen you say, “being honest doesn’t mean being graphic”, what does that mean? Are you going to lie to a man who doesn’t wish to date a woman who isn’t willing to be exclusive while dating him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 08:02 PM |
| 5 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADYep. Your views towards sex and how you’ve interacted with sex is one of the most important elements of your potential compatibility between you and a prospective partner. If you feel like you have to lie ab what you’ve done in the past then you shouldn’t be dating that person and if you’re willing to lie ab your past if asked, you’re a bad person. Whether you’ve slept with 2 people or 200 people, you should be able to stand on whatever you’ve done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 07:55 PM |
| – | Men, do you actually reject women for this reason?This is true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 11:11 AM |
| 4 | CMV : There’s nothing wrong at all with modern dating. Women are just attracted to less men.I think we’re already there, as far as the sexlessness rate goes. Women aren’t going to remove themselves from the genitals of the men they find attractive though. If anything they’ll stop feigning ignorance on the matter of sharing him and attempt (yet fail) to make share pacts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 06:24 PM |
| 5 | CMV : There’s nothing wrong at all with modern dating. Women are just attracted to less men.Aren’t we already at the 25%-30% male involuntary sexlessness rate? I think we’re already there. If we’re already there, then that means it’s gonna get uglier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at alli can have empathy without you resulting to telling men they need to experience a situation that goes completely against their entire sexual orientation to understand something women go through that they find inconvenient but is still within the confines of their sexual orientation. it’s the asinine attempt that makes me less interested in showing empathy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allHere’s the thing… once you’re saying that men should experience something that completely goes against their orientation, there’s nothing to understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 11:44 AM |
| 3 | Do people even date anymore or is everything just casual until two casual partners decide not to be casual?I think, like Derek said to an extent, a lot of zoomers are either weirdly puritanical or straight up freaked out and there’s little to no in between for many of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 11:40 AM |
| 1 | What do guys do if they want virgin women but cannot get them?The best thing every man above 25 can do is assume all women are hoes and select based from there. That way it’s completely out of the equation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 01:49 PM |
| 2 | Anyone here regularly visit sex workers?Great movie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allStill doesn’t correlate, doesn’t make it any less ignorant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allIt’s not a picture worth painting. I’m not gay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 04:15 PM |
| – | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allyou women on here really gotta stop making homosexual suggestions to try to make your point. I’m not gay. I don’t want to be approached by any man and idgaf if he looks like a Greek god, I’m gonna be uninterested regardless. The fact of the matter is, there are more men in existence willing to have sex with women they aren’t attracted to than there are women willing to do the same. You don’t get it bc you aren’t a man, and I understand that; it’s cool. But, pls, stop suggesting that men experien… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Getting sex isn't an accomplishment, or something to be ashamed ofIt sort of is. Sure, it’s not all black and white, there’s some grey in there; but, women by and large show that they would rather date community dick as opposed to someone who ain’t getting pussy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Is your current boyfriend/husband the best looking partner you've ever had sex with?Nah, it’s definitely a valid concern on a case by case basis. If a man has known a woman for a while, even knew of her in her past relationships and got to see how she regarded her partners in those relationships, it’s a valid observation if he feels she isn’t exhibiting the same energy towards him that he saw her exhibit towards others. This exact dynamic is why we see so many posts around dating Reddit ab men talking ab wanting to do things with their partners and finding out that not only did… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis is a lie y’all gotta stop this shit. Some women just realize from a young age they have no desire to sit in a cubical, like having sex, like doing hoe shit and realize it’s ways they can make a profit by putting their freakiness to use. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 09:18 PM |
| 11 | If dating is so broken, why don't women seemingly complain about it?Women complain to their friends. Men complain to the anonymous internet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 08:35 PM |
| 2 | If you’re over 25 and still a virgin, you need to hire an escort or have an ONS alreadyBased on the amount of low or no sexually experienced women roaming around this aubresdit telling men firsthand that they have no desire to engage with a man of an equal lack thereof of sexual experience. There are plenty of prostitutes, escorts, hookers, call girls, whores, whatever you wish to refer to them as, who keep themselves clean, enjoy what they do and are happy to accommodate a man with no experience as long as he’s willing to pay her fee. At a certain age for men, which I agree is ab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 02:07 AM |
| 2 | Most men simply want women at or even slightly below their level of attractiveness, or just one who isn’t overweight. Most women feel entitled to men way more attractive than them and meet a whole laundry list of criteria. The whole “neckbeard wants supermodel” narrative is fictional projection.Emma Stone is a very average woman with status that gives her a push upwards. Margot Robbie? Yeah that’s a bad bih right ngl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 12:55 AM |
| 0 | I don't blame Deadbeat fathers as much as women, because women control almost 100% of the sexual market and still choose those men“You should have known I was a piece of shit” isn’t a good excuse. Depending on the circumstances, it’s actually a pretty fucking good excuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 10:24 PM |
| 2 | Are average men really desperate for sex?All the time, for sure. Google the rapper that went by the stage name Trouble and look into the circumstances surrounding his death. Guys die in the pursuit of pussy all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 04:04 PM |
| 2 | PurplePillDebate Moderator Nomination Threadu/saraimarsena She’s very fair, highly motivated, a self starter and great with childish people, which most of the wacko inhabitants of PPD are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 10:29 PM |
| – | How are men supposed to meet women?Aren’t men already doing this? It’s called the status quo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Women can easily find a yielding, nice guy if that's what they truly want. If women continuously date assholes it's because they have a preference for assholesYou are still deflecting goddamn this is elite shit from you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 12:19 AM |
| 4 | Women can easily find a yielding, nice guy if that's what they truly want. If women continuously date assholes it's because they have a preference for assholesBc him being an asshole isn’t what she had a problem with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 08:39 PM |
| 6 | What would a society in which all men are red-pilled look like?Outside of “just be yourself” there is no real blue pill thought process. To be bluepill is just to disagree with redpill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 08:23 PM |
| 3 | Women can easily find a yielding, nice guy if that's what they truly want. If women continuously date assholes it's because they have a preference for assholesyou’re deflecting but it’s whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 08:12 PM |
| 6 | Women can easily find a yielding, nice guy if that's what they truly want. If women continuously date assholes it's because they have a preference for assholesNo, you’re deflecting. She said her mom knew her dad was an asshole from the jump and when life just consisted of them two doing their thing without any further responsibility, everything was fine. Her mom was fine with her dad’s being an asshole. What her mom was not fine with was her dad being unable to be the provider that she needed her husband, the father of her children and the head of her household, to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Women can easily find a yielding, nice guy if that's what they truly want. If women continuously date assholes it's because they have a preference for assholesNo, some women actually like that he’s an ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 07:55 PM |
| 7 | Women can easily find a yielding, nice guy if that's what they truly want. If women continuously date assholes it's because they have a preference for assholesThere are girls who’ll plain as day say that they like a “mean nigga”. What they’re saying is they want an asshole who’ll be standoffish towards others and be sweet to them. They are definitely women out there who are attracted to the traits of a man that explicitly make him an asshole. They find it sexy, it is what it is. What they’re looking for is the status of being able to say that the guy who dawged other bitches out, dotes on her. You’re absolving women of responsibility for the choices t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 07:54 PM |
| 1 | A lot of women are awfully entitled to male company and friendshipYou’re a gaslighter and a deflector. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 06:02 AM |
| 2 | A lot of women are awfully entitled to male company and friendshipYou’re trying to use this as a gotcha and it doesn’t work bc there’s a utility disparity between men and women. If my guy hits me up and asks me for help with a couple pieces of furniture, that’s fine. I have no problem helping him out and 9 times out of 10 I know he’ll be useful to me if I need his help with something similar at some point. The problem with intergender friendships in these contexts is that men feel there’s no reciprocal energy. Woman asks male friend for help with furniture or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 02:48 AM |
| 3 | purplepilldebate bannedCheck your chats. | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/08/23 11:37 PM |
| – | purplepilldebate bannedCheck your chats. | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/08/23 11:36 PM |
| 3 | purplepilldebate bannedSince Olympus has fallen, wanna come over to a cool ass discord? | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/08/23 11:31 PM |
| 0 | Being called a "fuckboy" is the biggest compliment you can get as a manpretty sure my English transcripts were better than yours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Being called a "fuckboy" is the biggest compliment you can get as a manIdek who that is smh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 05:17 PM |
| 5 | Being called a "fuckboy" is the biggest compliment you can get as a manpls go away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Being called a "fuckboy" is the biggest compliment you can get as a manthere’s this thing women do where you guys are very on code and defend each other no matter how ridiculous whatever you just said sounds so I don’t take much stock in upvotes or some women who wants to jump me disagreeing with my prior statement in defense of what it is you stated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Being called a "fuckboy" is the biggest compliment you can get as a manAs long as we’re speaking facts it’s alright with me lol 🤝🏾 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 03:49 PM |
| 12 | Being called a "fuckboy" is the biggest compliment you can get as a manthese are mean mental gymnastics, we gotta call a spade a spade sometimes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 03:48 PM |
| 7 | Being called a "fuckboy" is the biggest compliment you can get as a manAll other things being equal, who do you think has the better chance to become a hero, genius, saint, beloved husband or great dad — the “fuckboy”, or an i-word? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMy guy, if you’re 16 then you need to get far the fuck away from this subreddit and pls don’t come back until you’ve at least put good effort out there for the next 5 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTrp is not ab helping men become better at obtaining casual sex. Trp is ab aiding men in maximizing their potential for success in whatever their chosen path is, whether that be to find a wife who willingly and enthusiastically submits to him, to become a sexually successful man in the casual sex realm or whether it is to have a girlfriend forever. If Trp seems to help men become sexually attractive in the casual sense it is only bc the casually successful man is the man who has the easier time … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 08:25 PM |
| 4 | Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s?Interesting how you jumped to this harebrained conclusion when it has no basis in what’s being said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 07:07 PM |
| 1 | You have three wishes, what dating behaviors in men/women would you change?These are his wishes. How you gon tell him not to wish for what he wants to wish for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 10:07 PM |
| 1 | I often hear women say "I have attractive male friends with awesome personalities, but I don't like them that way." If they're attractive, why aren't they attracted to them?Don’t disrespect Texas Roadhouse like this smh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Women dislike passport bros because they have no equivalent option themselvesyeah, i just want to add-on to this: How Stella Got Her Groove Back | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 09:41 PM |
| 5 | Most problems in this subreddit are caused by people not knowing how men/women really areThis is a point I’ve made on previous accounts. PPD really needs to split into more regionalized or more focused categories and the people who live in those regions or want to date in those categories can debate in more focused groups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 06:15 PM |
| 1 | What's the female equivalent of "manning up?"Hey, you mind checking your chats when you get a second? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt’s only right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Do men need to shame each other more for dating to improve?No, men shaming men isn’t the answer. Women have to put their money where their mouths are and start cutting off the men of whom they claim not to want’s sexual access. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI swear this my last time doing this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 06:18 PM |
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