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Family law is a joke. Us men are atms
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/25 09:18 PM
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You have no idea the things I would do for 50%
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/25 09:15 PM
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I will be filing complaint but don’t think it will do much. Parents are nuts. They’re the ones who pushed this this far as far as I am concerned. At the beginning her parents drove 2 hours to come to a softball tournament I was playing in and booed me and heckled me. In the middle of her withholding, I caught her mom driving to my workplace 30 mins from her house and down a dead end street just to pull in the parking lot. I took pictures as I was outside at the time and saw her and she turned ar…
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/25 11:33 PM
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Stay strong friend. We will get through this
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/25 05:31 PM
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It happened in Ontario Canada. It’s possible I can work remotely but going through this all destroyed my finances and the rent in that city alone is about double what I currently pay and am struggling. I figured I would be able to get back on my feet with the sale of the house but they gave me only 44k of it. I just don’t know what to do
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/25 03:51 PM
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Fought with everything in court
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/25 07:03 PM
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Or worse, her mom starting drama.
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/25 04:16 PM
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I can move there but the rent there is nearly double what I pay here, very little jobs, don’t even know what I would do. No support system, etc.
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/25 04:15 PM
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You know it
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/25 12:27 PM
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I don’t know anything about custody evaluator or gal? What are these?
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/25 09:40 PM
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In other words, didn’t want me, didn’t want anyone else to have me. Or maybe she did want me but is so broken she could never put me first. I don’t know… 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/25 07:35 PM
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We had constant interference from her family for the whole of our marriage. For example Literally got home from honeymoon and her mother had arranged for her (mothers) friends daughter from New Zealand to move in with us (just me and wife at the time) for however long she wanted for a Canadian voyage. Neither of us had met this girl before and she didn’t contribute anything to house ie no rent, groceries etc, didn’t have a job, we paid for her food, etc. I voiced my concerns and my ex said she c…
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/25 07:07 PM
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The worst part is the only reason she wants to move is to get them away from me, to hurt me and impact my relationship with them.
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/25 04:59 PM
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Thank you for the advice. I know that’s what I have to do and I’ve been trying, but then I find myself falling into a pit
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/25 04:10 PM
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This made me tear up. I feel so lost right now. I feel I failed them. I tried my hardest
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/25 02:27 PM
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I can but it will cost $80,000 which I have no means of. I’ve basically bankrupted myself to get to this point, and only getting $44k back when I was sure I’d be around $125k plus court costs definitely doesn’t help.
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/25 02:02 PM
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Thank you so much. This actually helped a lot
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/25 01:54 PM
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That’s great idea. She loves Roblox so maybe I can do that with her
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/25 01:49 PM
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I honestly feel like I failed them. I haven’t been able to step foot in their room or even look at pictures of them since this happened.
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/25 01:47 PM
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Update for more things I didn’t get to mention last night. I pushed to get my 7 year old in therapy once I started seeing them again. During one of her therapy sessions, she said something her mom told her and therapist reported it to FACS/CAS and they opened investigation on my ex. I told them everything she did including saying terrible things to the girls about me and affecting there relationship with me, how my oldest said my ex would lock the younger one in a linen closet when she was havin…
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/25 01:42 PM
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From my lawyers advice, we were even considering that we might get them more than 50%. I’m like shellshook.
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/25 01:19 PM
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Ontario, Canada
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/25 01:16 PM
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False abuse claims meant nothing. Her lying on affidavit about them meant nothing. But my Spotify playlist was “potentially family violence” for song titles like “ur mom gay”, “I hate you”… 🤦🏻‍♂️
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/25 01:16 PM
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That’s exactly it. I wasn’t saying she shouldn’t have them. I was asking for equal time even though we proved in court I did more caregiving than she did. When I tell you this is shocking, you have no idea
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/25 01:15 PM
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I was typing last night tired, she does have to drive half way each way but still 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/25 01:13 PM
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Counter arguments that I guess swayed: her parents lived with us in a seperate contained basement apartment (seperate entrance). She said they were integral caregivers to the girls lives. My witnesses including someone who live with us for nearly 2 months said they didn’t see them come up at all. Arbitrator believed my ex. Another counter argument that swayed: my ex presented a parenting plan for the new city. When asked why I didn’t I said I had never been there, knew no one or nothing about th…
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/25 01:10 PM
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I’m sorry brother. I know this is my future now too. How is this right? Like why are men pushed aside like we don’t matter? I like the idea of the life stories journal. I think I will do that and gift it to them so at least they know me too. I just am struggling coming to grips with all the stuff I will miss with them. They are literally my world.
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/25 08:16 AM
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I can’t afford the $80,000 it will cost to appeal, especially if it just goes back to the same judgement. She won’t give up the kids, whole reason she withheld and did all this was to hurt me because she didn’t want me to move on.
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/25 08:01 AM
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Ontario, Canada
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/25 07:05 AM
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Nearly two years later and $160,000+ in lawyer/court costs… I lost. The judge allowed my ex to move my two beautiful, brave, intelligent daughters (7 and 4) two hours away. I had previously won an emergency order to even see the girls as my ex withheld them from me for 6 months after seperation without so much as a phone call and I was given a “without prejudice” order of every other weekend and Tuesday to Wednesday one week and Monday to Wednesday the other week. That was stripped from me and I…
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/25 06:56 AM
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Thanks bro, it was the comment from the dad “she’s just like her mom” and I opened my eyes and was like I do not want their relationship in 20 years. If you ever have any RV questions or anything, I’m a GM of an RV dealership also so let me know.
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/24 12:21 AM
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It was an above ground pool. Just one of those cheapish ones meant to last a few seasons. I just dug down about a foot and levelled the dirt, laid stone, etc to make it sturdy. It was 24’ around and I dug down the foot all 24’ and was wheel barreling it out to containers then driving and dumping the containers in the dirt pile for new construction. Probably took me about 2 weeks total to do everything, while working full time. I did finish, went to the store and exchanged it and told her we were…
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/24 12:14 AM
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I mean there were so many but the one that “broke the camels back” was this. My ex didn’t work and I was putting in an above ground pool in our backyard. Multiple weeks spent working all day, coming home, making dinner for the girls and then spending til 10-11 outside digging, moving dirt, levelling ground etc. I was working 6 days a week at the time and then coming home and doing all this because she wanted a pool. I was finally ready to put the pool up and I unboxed the one she had bought and …
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/24 12:03 AM
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Thank you. This is great.
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/24 04:34 AM
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Bro… I know.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/24 06:31 PM
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Will do.
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/23 12:49 AM
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She hasn’t even opened the coparenting app (you can see time stamp of last time she was on) since telling me she wouldn’t let me take them 40 mins before I was supposed to get them on a weekend we had agreed on on Sept 8. I went to try anyways and she had taken them out of town. Every Friday since then I’ve tried as well and she’s never there with them. Will it matter that she doesn’t look at the app?
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/23 10:06 PM
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Well I just hope that when we do get in front of a judge they can see this is not good for the children
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/23 04:31 PM
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