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I’m so sorry that happened to you, dude. I assumed your wife had cheated but letting you to raise the children yourself goes to show she wasn’t a stellar mother to begin with. You sound like an amazing, responsible father. So glad you’re enjoying Hawaii!! I’ve had a blast there. Can’t do it now since my children are small and that’s too long in the plane. Safe trip back to Oz and best of luck to you.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/24 01:49 AM
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You are a judgemental person. You can be a cheater, a bad husband and a great father.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/24 05:44 AM
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God?
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/24 02:48 PM
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Memento!!
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/23 06:39 AM
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Are suicide hotlines depressive??… I doubt it. They’re both tools to uplift depressed people and show you there’s a light at the end of the tunnel, that’s all.
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/23 01:04 AM
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The ONLY reason to get married is to raise children, if you have that reproductive imperative. If you don’t, and you don’t have any problem picking up women, it is complete idiocy.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/23 11:24 PM
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Thank you very much for this suggestion. I do use the ATM every other day and try to keep cash for most of my ordinary transactions. Should the savings account where I get the auto deduct be under my name as well??
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/23 03:43 AM
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One year married, one year old daughter.
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/23 03:35 AM
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I hear what you’re saying, brother.
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/23 02:51 AM
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What a wonderful, thoughtful, and kind advice you give me here, brother. I agree with all the stuff you're telling me. I'll try to be tight, but not a complete tyrant. I'll just keep a close eye on things. Thank you again!!!
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/23 01:32 AM
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Thank you my man. It's because of this type of support that I love this sub. I'll have a talk with her again.
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/23 01:29 AM
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Haha... spot on, brother. Thanks for the advice. I completely agree with you. What the fuck is she doing with that 100k??
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/23 01:27 AM
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Dude, this advice is gold. Thank you very much. I will work on the local financial account in a different state under my parents. I owe them a lot of money, anyway.
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/23 01:25 AM
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Elaborate, please.
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/23 07:35 AM
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Thanks for the great response!!! Can I use the HSA in the future for other purposes? I’m assuming this would be split as well if we divorce?
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/23 05:38 AM
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Thank you brother. You think she should pay for that stuff, tho, when I’m doing all the heavy lifting?
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/23 05:05 AM
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Are you in the US? How much you paid for that beast? I want a V-Tail, early 80’s. Great to meet a fellow pilot around here.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/23 01:52 PM
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Ahhhh, yesss… the A36. I am a physician and am drawn to those V-tail Doctor Killers for some reason. You’re a man of taste, my dear friend!!! And congrats on your uplifting life after divorce!!!!
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/23 08:16 AM
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Thank you for the suggestion my friend!
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/23 05:59 PM
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Ok, keyboard Rambo. Hope life lets you forgive whoever hurt you so much (because sure as hell it wasn't me) and I hope one day you find inner peace.
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/23 05:35 AM
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Hey man, I don't know where all this animosity comes from. Yes, I've made plenty of mistakes, I have crippling OCD and anxiety, I am selfish sometimes and make premature decisions. But at the end of the day there's a lot of stuff that is good about me, you just don't know me, and that's ok. By the way, there's a clear selective advantage to good looking people, and physical attractiveness is associated with reproductive success in humans living in industrialized settings. If my daughter is sligh…
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/23 03:16 AM
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Yes, we've talked about it. She knows we're very different. We're in the middle of the move now, and with the extra space things have eased down a bit. We'll see what happens but I certainly keep the communication open with her (trying to be tactful, of course).
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/23 02:49 AM
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Dude, I’m a YouTuber, I’m used to trolls. Just tell me I should stay in the relationship, that’s all. Don’t insult my wife or my vocation to be a father.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/23 03:39 PM
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The prejudice is quite heavy on this one. Yes, I was/am a hedonist, I could come across as a prick with my selfish acts, and I picked a wife based on looks to give my children that selective advantage. I don't believe in the sanctity of marriage, and I find religious zealots and prudish people repulsive. I disclosed all that, and am not here for permission, commiseration or condescension... I'm here to see what the best course of action in this difficult situation is.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/23 05:18 AM
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Yesss... I knew it was the price I'd have to pay. But what better destination will that money have if not to support my child. I don't really have many materialistic aspirations.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/23 05:00 AM
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Well, I’m here for guidance (one way or another because it’s a difficult situation), not validation, and certainly not to get scolded. If I wanted to be lectured I just have to leave the toilet seat up at home.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/23 01:52 AM
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Dear Pat, thank you for your kind and supportive feedback.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/23 12:25 AM
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Thank you : )
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/23 12:23 AM
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Best you can hope for is to rotate them to keep that 'new / passionate' feeling. Haha... you're so right my friend. Thank you for your answer.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/23 12:23 AM
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Jesus… what a kind, thorough answer. Thank you very, very much for your feedback!!!
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/23 11:37 AM
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Thanks man. I turned 40 years old and came up with a list of things that I wanted in my life before I died. Having children was in the short list (there were 3 things, the others were related to work and life choices). I thought I would be willing to sacrifice some happiness in order to be a father. I didn't know if I'd ever meet that "perfect someone"... at some point the whole concept sounded naive. So I convinced myself into a second marriage... to raise children. I fundamentally do not belie…
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/23 10:26 AM
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No. I always downplayed the connection part. To be very honest, I think subconsciously I have always wanted to show the rest of the world I have a beautiful wife. I sound like a fool now, but this is where I am.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/23 10:15 AM
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Yes. It was clear. She is a very attractive woman. I REALLY wanted to have children. I know it sound very utilitarian but I needed somebody to help me raise children. She’s been a great mother. It’s a marriage of convenience… I bring the money, just got a house, May get her a car, she takes care of the house and the baby. I don’t know if this is fair to anybody.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/23 08:19 AM
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So did you have the talk with her?… how did it go?
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/23 11:44 AM
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Hahaha 🤣… spot on. I barely wanna have sex with her… and I just paid for her boob job. But it’s so hard when the intellectual connection is not there. Shit.
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/23 11:28 AM
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She is a superficial person. Conversations are shallow, there’s no detail, everything is vague. Her upbringing was in a farm, and even though she has multiple degrees there’s no sophistication, and I just can’t blame her for that… that’s just who she is. But I get so damn bored… we don’t like the same movies, humor, etc.
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/23 05:27 PM
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I could’ve written that myself. Married for a year, together for 2.5 years. I’m 45, she’s 37. I got with her because I wanted to have kids and now we have the most beautiful 11 month old girl. She’s my world. But my wife and I don’t connect. She’s a very attractive woman (a solid 9, or a 10 corrected for age), but she’s into esthetics, Botox, and all that superficial crap. I’m a physician, I’m very well grounded and like to have deep conversations about philosophy, economics, classical music, ar…
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/23 05:56 AM
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It’s excitation of the sympathetic system… that happens when you’re angry or scared (think of fight or flight reactions). It’s adrenaline mediated.
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/23 09:13 AM
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It sounds like situational anxiety/depression. Yes, ask your PCP about SSRIs. I’m a doctor and most people will benefit from them. Again, you have to take them for at least 6 to 8 weeks to take effect.
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/23 07:47 PM
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Same thing as the rest are saying here. You have to man the fuck up and keep contact to a minimum while the lawyer gives you further instructions. But I will add, you sound like you’re depressed, and you might need treatment for that and for the anxiety. Get that treated. SSRIs take 8 weeks to work but getting out of that depression will help you get the real perspective of the situation, which is the one the people in this thread are seeing. Good luck my friend.
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/23 11:40 PM
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Hi kid, you dropped these: …….,,,,,, But seriously, lawyer up!!
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/23 07:13 AM
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You’re overthinking this. You’re a kid… don’t waste your 20’s with a cheating wife. Live your life, meet lots of other women. DO NOT MARRY AGAIN… unless you have lived with the new person for a long time and don’t see any red flags… ideally in your 30’s. Take this as a lesson, and learn from it!! Not sure why you asked about the chances of the other relationship failing, but to answer the question, chances are high… reasons are immaturity and people who cheat engage in regular cycles of cheating…
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/23 09:12 AM
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