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I feel like your argument about fetish subreddits support's their argument. Men are attracted to elements of a woman's body in a visceral, "flesh over mind" type of way. Even when idolizing unconventional things like stretch-marks, they tend reduce the woman to those elements. She is just a stretch marks haver. I think it is saying something, when it's mostly men who frequent such sebreddits. And this isn't me saying that women somehow are more pure in their attraction. Not at all, I just genuin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:30 PM
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yet every woman is not being raped Nearly every woman has a story of being SAd, groomed or somehow victimized by a man, usually a boyfriend. If you're imagining "rape" as being held down and violently assaulted, then no. But that's a problem in and of itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:59 PM
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Decentering men (in this case) means that you aren't building your entire persona to please men. You don't dress for men to find you attractive, you don't style your hair the way men like, you don't mask some of your potentially off-putting traits like inability to cook, etc. etc. You're just you. If the right person comes along that likes you for who you are - great. But you're not chasing him, you're not casting nets, you're not actively trying to attract. A lot of men on this sub seem to be d…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:28 PM
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How would you define romance, other than the desire to form long-term, deeply emotional relationships? Not the person you replied to, but that is a very good question. I know a lot of people would say it's the desire to do explicitly romantic gestures to a person, like kiss and hold hands. But kissing and holding hands are entirely social behaviors. How would romantic attraction look like in a society that doesn't hold hands or kiss? Would it even exist separately from friendship and sexual attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 12:09 PM
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It's not.. accurate, though. There's so much smut when the man is the sexual desire. You haven't read enough romance, which I don't blame you for, of course. Hell, if you dip your toes into the BL genre, the men and their bodies are straight up fetishised. Watch Heated Rivarly. And before anyone assumes it's made for gay men - it is not. It's an adapted Stucky fanfiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 11:21 AM
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Explain why the romance genre (entertainment created by women for women) is not overwhelmingly lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 11:16 AM
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What is a woman’s sexual fantasy? What kind of men are women attracted to? Well, according to data from pornographic websites the most consistently popular kind of adult entertainment among women is lesbian. Please do not go to straight male-catered porn for data on what porn women watch. Instead, check out romance books and AO3.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 11:13 AM
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chalant nice guy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:09 PM
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Yeah, but I feel like for a gay man to go as far as to date and marry a woman, he has to be really in denial, while the lesbian thinks her crushes on her female friends was how all girls are like. Again, just vibes and anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:52 PM
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which i think is gross I have a friend who is very into BL and I strongly suspect two of her boyfriends heavily overplayed their bi-curiosity to seem more attractive to her. This is me being judgemental and mean, obviously I can't know for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:13 PM
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Plenty of lesbians have said they truly loved their husbands and they were their best friend and feel guilt for wanting to break up
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 04:50 PM
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Human nature is heterosexual by default. This feels very false, but I can't prove it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 04:47 PM
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My opinion is based on vibes alone. I sort both agree and disagree? For bi men, sure, they are extremely reluctant to date other men because society hammers in the whole "gay=less of a man thing" into their heads and as we learned, being bi is also a turn-off for straight women, the other group of people they are trying to date. A lot is at stake. If the man is full on gay, however, I find it.. harder for him to bury? Men are much more "explicitly" sexual, on average. If he wants another man, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 04:46 PM
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It's bad when the man don't ask for consent. But it's also bad when the man does ask for consent too though I had this exact conversation with my group of female friends recently. One asked what we thought of the "can I kiss you?" question. She thought it's kinda cringe, ruins the mood and she wants her potential partner to be able to read the room and go with mood. Another friend said she finds direct communication like that a massive green flag and would prefer a verbal question to avoid awkwa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 04:18 PM
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Lol, sure, but your reasoning can be bigoted. Reflecting on this reasoning can be healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 02:13 PM
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But a lot of people would exclude someone based on that anyway. Because that's a signal of someone's lifestyle and temperament.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 02:00 PM
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Not with other queer women. Straight conservative-aligned women? Yeah, probably true. But the more liberal and/or queer communities are much less hung up of.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 01:05 PM
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No, I actually disagree that it's ok to hold bigoted views even if you are respectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 01:01 PM
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I'm sorry you're never curious or introspective enough to actually question why you like or dislike certain things. You should try it - you might discover things about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 12:34 PM
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Spin it however you like but most straight people are romantically interested in other straight people. Spin it however you want, but when your attraction to someone disappears based solely on the reveal of their sexuality (not dating history, not preferences, just sexuality*), it tends to boil down to biphobia. And I think people are within their right (and should) to call it out as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 11:41 AM
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True. Way too often I see men get called "DL" as a shaming tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 11:08 AM
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Speaking strictly from my own experience, but kinky stuff requires very high levels of trust. If you're specifically after that, perhaps opening up with that from the get-go will be beneficial. If you find an equally freaky woman, that's ground for a very healthy sex life. And if she knows you're into the same things she is, she will immediately feel more comfortable with more spicy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 07:01 PM
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1) At this point the only straight man I'd be down to date has to be trans. 2) Not unless he is also trans and/or bi.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:57 PM
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as well as men desire men at lower rates Sounds like an excuse, tbh. Just because the rates are lower, doesn't mean it isn't a "backup option". Plus, the fetish scene seems quite easy to get into and you don't even have to be good-looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:08 AM
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I would argue it isn't even a problem. Most men are, in fact, the fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 02:19 PM
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It's not a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:06 PM
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Do you think women lives nowadays are better in every way or some things about the past was better and more stress free? They are better in every way, because women nowadays are free to vote, own property, earn their own income, have abortions, get divorced for any reason, be protected from being raped by their husband, serve on juries in all 50 states in the US, open a bank account or get a credit card , apply for any job without being legally barred based on gender, receive equal pay for equal…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 07:09 PM
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Oh but what about celibates or whatever” we arnt talking about these exceptions we are talking about the average boy becoming a man, who desires sex and relationships. But you can’t say "sex is required to be a man" and then go "except when it isn't". It either is or is not. And it clearly is not, when people become men without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:19 AM
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See, I would never sacrifice my authenticity, I would just remain single. Which is what I'm doing. If whoever I'm attracted to cannot love the real me, then we shouldn't be together anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:00 PM
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What I imagine as a mask is fundamentally switching your habits and personality. If you're a shy somebody who likes to paint Warhammer figurines as a hobby and frankly hates working out, becoming a lean gym bro would be a mask. As an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:38 PM
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I'm not sure, not to a point. I probably cannot attract a 10/10 Chad because I don't present feminine, don't wear make-up and have short hair, etc. etc. I could fundamentally change my appearance, grow out my hair, get lash extensions and wear dresses, but that will never be truly me. It will always be a mask.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:36 PM
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What is the point in being with a 8/9 if you have to wear a mask around her all the time? That sounds absolutely exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:05 PM
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Babe, wake up, new copypasta just dropped
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:55 PM
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I don't understand the appeal of pretending to have emotional conversations. I only have those with real people I feel emotionally connected to. Me neither, but Character AI wouldn't be as popular as it is, if there wasn't something for people in there. Idk, maybe we just have extremely high IQ, you and me, we're ~not like other girls~. I doubt feminists would even let that come out, though that's probably a good thing in this case. I promise you most feminists don't care if men talk to AI girlf…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 01:15 PM
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What I find ironic is that AI partners seem to be more popular among women. And I guess it makes sense. Ment want visual stimulation, they care less for long emotional chats with a faceless robot. Women, on the other hand, crave that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 09:32 AM
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It’s 100% about the uncanny valley of social interaction. If you’re trying too hard or following some weird dating script instead of just talking to people, it sets off alarm bells. The term is a weapon sometimes, sure, but usually, it’s just a reaction to someone being "off".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 02:25 PM
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I’ve seen plenty of conventionally attractive dudes get labeled as creeps because they didn't know how to take a hint or had zero respect for boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 02:17 PM
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Yeah, I’ve made my peace with just being the "decent" option. It's a boring answer, but honestly, it’s a lot more sustainable than the crazy expectations people post about on here. Most people settle for decent eventually anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 02:06 PM
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The problem is that oftentimes the "I have a boyfriend" lie is the only answer men will take without issue, for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:41 AM
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Yeah, I would be the one asking this, so if my partner wanted That too, I'd be very happy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:01 AM
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"ELO score" It's not ELO, it's Elo. It's the name of the dude who developed the rating system for Chess.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:21 PM
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"They're never going to find love if they're constantly waiting for the next best option". I am honestly fine with that. I am not suffering if I am alone. And neither do those who "don't want to settle". I think it's an important detail.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 11:08 AM
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then get called misogynistic for holding women to a higher standard. Who cares? Why do you care what some rando thinks? Men call women who have high standards all kinds of bad things. You're looking out for yourself. You only have one life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 11:06 AM
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Okay, solution! You ready? Men, raise your standards, don't go for "any woman", don't swipe on everyone until you run out of swipes, learn to enjoy being single, do not place your worth on your relationship status.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:48 PM
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are more likely to be abusers, players or cheaters because those men have natural good looks and confidence. Insecure men are most likely to be abusers
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:22 PM
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Chads, high-value males, alpha males, whatever you want to call them, are the ones who hate women and abuse them Do they, though? Why are you assuming that? You know who abuses women? Insecure men. Who tends to be the most insecure men? "Incels and low-value males", who are convinced the world is unfair because they don't get matches on tinder. Ironically, "chads" are usually confident and chill. They aren't scorned by women. They don't expect to get got by them at every turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:50 PM
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Really? Am I a psycho? Because if i got cheated on, I'd just be kinda sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:38 PM
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Get a prenuptial with this exact clause.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:36 PM
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Women are abused more often by unsatisfied partners and a gay man hiding his identity is bound to be unsatisfied. Not only that but they're more likely to give their woman an STD she can't protect herself against. And it's normal to not want your partner to be gay if you're the opposite sex! But yet this rational fear is branded as homophobic sighs for 10 years
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 12:00 AM
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Do you think bissexual men are, on average, nearly identical to heterossexual men in every aspect, especially about sex? No, I think they're as diverse as straight men. Do you think it's completely insane for women to feel turned off by the idea of her man having sex with another man? No, just biphobic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 09:31 PM
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So you're only considered a good person and a true ally if you're sexually attracted (or neutral, at a minimum) to every category of people of the opposite gender? Nowhere did I even imply that. I gave you an example how "not being attracted to literally all trans people ever" can be read as transphobic. Are you a racist if you don't feel attracted to most people from certain races? This is a bad comparison because ethnicities have a large cultural and visual aspect to them which can greatly inf…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 07:33 PM
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More bi men for me :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 07:00 PM
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Does that make you a transphobe? This comes up so much, but yes, potentially. You will see a lot of people claim they are not attracted to trans people as a blanket statement, but once you dig even a little deeper, you realize the reason they are not attracted is because they don't accept that trans people are "really the gender they are". They see trans women as men and trans men as women. And it has little to do with their genital preference either, because it applies to otherwise very well pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 06:55 PM
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Yes... that's what I said in my reply
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:50 PM
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Because you, perhaps subconsciously, assuming that a bi man somehow inherently only likes masculine people, that he likes you because he sees you as more masculine, that he cannot appreciate femininity. A bi man can be into ultra fem people, only date fem women and never having been with a man, yet you would still be rejecting him because he is bi. I don't know you or your reasons for rejecting bi men, I'm not calling you specifically problematic. Just trying to illustrate how this can be biphob…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 04:00 PM
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I feel more feminine knowing a guy specially only is into women. If a guy is also into men it makes me feel less feminine even if that’s not necessarily the case. It’s an insecurity but I’m not really in a rush to fix it because who cares? This is where it gets into biphobic territory, potentially. You can date whoever you want, but your reasons for it may or may not be... problematique.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:45 PM
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They are tone deaf in pretty much any setting because they trivialize the crime. There is no context in which forcing yourself on a woman is funny. It's a thing that happens in our times, frequently, to a lot of women in most communities. Upper class, working class, it doesn't matter, it's a universal fear that women live with. When you laugh at it, you are showing everyone around that you don't think this happening is a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:12 PM
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Yeah, they are picky, but it's not because they are just unable to be attracted to average men. Because average men get partnered, they clearly do, all the time. Some are genuinely unlucky. enough women can be unreasonably picky I disagree that it's "unreasonable". They simply aren't attracted to you. Why is that unreasonable?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 12:39 AM
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Maybe you're not as fun and charismatic as you think. Or your breath smells. Or you're just severely unlucky. I don't know you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:25 PM
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men love women idealistically a woman to us is the embodiment of spiritual bonding and the essence of beauty and nurture, we love women in ideals like there femininity and their admiration those qualities only highlight other factors like their intelligence and social awareness. Ah yes, but god forbid that woman has age lines, or crow's feet or has a slightly masculine jaw, is bald, is fat, is tall, is muscular, then all of those ideals fly out the window. Men by and large cannot even appreciate…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:14 PM
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Yeah, but how can OP be sure? I often see the "chads" women allegedly date being called assholes as opposed to "nice, but not as attractive" average men, but I always wonder, are they really assholes, or do the average men just see them in a much worse light, because they're perceived rivals? Very clearly the woman saw something in him to continue to date him, even if the initial encounter was purely based on his looks. And yeah, sometimes women complain about their partners, god knows the femal…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 05:53 PM
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A bit off-topic, but I noticed when people on here talk about "approaching", they more often than not mean coming up to a woman you barely know and asking her out. Honestly, I don't know who that would work for. Maybe someone looking like Christ Hemsworth? But in my experience, that's not how couples meet. Thru the years I have witnessed my friends getting together and it happened through mutual networking. A lot of the time there was never even a "first date", two people just click and suddenly…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 10:27 AM
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Unattractive is when you are not good looking enough to land a date or get swiped on, as I went on to explain in my comments this is a pre requisite for a relationship hence its more important than being funny and emotionally available which isn’t to say those don’t matter. But that depends so much on the woman. Woman A might swipe on someone Woman B will not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 10:17 AM
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no amount of emotional unavailability(or good personality traits) is gonna get you a date if you are unattractive Okay, but what's "unattractive" in this case? Not looking like Chris Hemsworth? Cause I've met plenty of very average-looking men who have no problem dating, because they're fun, charismatic and (probably) caring. Were those men somehow deformed? No, but they were fat, short, had unimpressive jobs, etc. What they also had was a wide social circle. They had female friends, they went t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:57 AM
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Honestly, I think in real life it tends to the opposite. Insecure, unattractive men tend to be more misogynistic, because they think women hate them, while the attractive ones tend to be very chill. And no, I am not calling the ugly men inherently evil, it's just that with all the pills, they are at risk of becoming bitter and angry and consequently dangerous. And even less attractive. I know dating is hard and I know it sucks to feel undesirable, especially when society is telling men their wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:52 AM
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Why are we assuming that the tall, funny guy is never kind and emotionally available?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:29 AM
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That's a great attitude to have. I think if you're determined to reshape your body, it shouldn't be to please somebody. It should be so that you yourself enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 08:08 PM
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I just want to point out that in both pictures the man looks fit and healthy. You can definitely see the muscles under the fat on the left, but he looks more "casual" and not like he lives in the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:19 PM
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Very rare. They're not pleasant for most women. I do not know a single woman who even has a fantasy of one. I would never in a million years agree to one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:13 PM
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They clearly meant "happy staying single". My mother keeps telling me to "Never get married" and how happy I should feel that I'm free, basically. I do admit, I am very reluctant to sacrifice this freedom. And before you say anything, my friend network is very strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 04:37 AM
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Dude, if I wanted an boyfriend, I could get one next week. I am not exaggerating, it's that easy. Will I be happy? Hell no.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 10:19 AM
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I'm aware that all women don't want big , but when research after research tends to show the same thing over and over again , how can men believe otherwise? Does it matter? You can't change penis size
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:57 PM
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I don't know if that's a universal truth. Plenty of women with children still manage to date and even marry. Even have more children with the new husband. Hell, plenty of divorced dad's manage to find love, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:55 PM
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I feel like this video described very well what being a single woman is like. https://www.tiktok.com/@gettothepointbro/video/7495548922002165022?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 07:27 AM
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See, I would never say that being alone sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 07:22 AM
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They might be, but likely not because they're single. A good relationship is better than no relationship for most people. No relationship is better than a bad relationship for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:05 PM
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Yes, you are 100% right
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 10:40 PM
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Istg, whenever I say anything nice about men on this sub, I get snarky comments like "but only when he's 7 feet, right? :)" so no, it would be far easier to virtue signal if we just agreed with OP every time. Saying you don't care for dick size or height is the opposite of virtue signaling.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 08:03 PM
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Depends on your particular flavour of autism. If you're into it, if you can get your DnD character to date a woman's DnD Character in the campaign, you're likely set to marry her. As an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:52 PM
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Skinny
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:11 PM
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Maybe it isn't, but the feelings are real. Therefore, to keep my mental health in check, I step away.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 08:18 PM
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I have, it sucks! I can totally understand how someone would want to distance themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:51 PM
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I do. Sometimes it's better for you to move on quickly and not constantly be surrounded by someone you have strong feelings for. It feels really bad knowing you will never be "the one" for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:22 PM
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As long as the man doesn't judge me, being sober is more of a green flag for me. I'm not an alcoholic or anything, but I enjoy a drink or two when out. If he is okay with that, we're golden.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 06:36 PM
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Not really. But I myself am like 183cm tall, so 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 06:35 PM
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Then he doesn't drink and I get a glass of wine at a cafe or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:30 PM
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Coffee dates are fine, don't listen to anyone. I prefer drinks, personally, I need those inhibitions lowered. I will treat you to a cocktail. But coffee is fine, too! First dates are not supposed to be expensive. If the woman is dressed to the max and expects luxury treatment and you don't like that, then you're clearly not a good match. There will be women who enjoy coffee dates. There will be women who want to get tipsy with you at a fun bar. There will be women who are fine with gorcery store…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:20 PM
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I think the reality is that most people will marry whoever they are dating around their mid to late 20ies. Is it the best choice for them? Probably not! But it's what happens! I think most people are "settling", in a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:44 PM
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I don't even like penetration that much...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:43 PM
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I actually prefer smaller. Pringle cans are a turnoff. I am a Roman citizen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:18 AM
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Many. There's always the trusty showerhead..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:51 PM
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When women see all these huge dicks in the porn they watch, why don't they also start to think that bigger is better, and then get dissatisfied by their partners' average sized penis? Women don't like looking at that kind of porn. That porn is for men. Porn geared towards women either has elaborately drawn gay twinks or elaborately described rare male specimens. Yes, sometimes those specimens have very big dicks, but the focus in female-centric porn is on sensations, how does that dicks make her…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:44 PM
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Yes Edit: I am single, borderline ace and it takes a lot for me to fall for anyone. My life wouldn't change except that I would also be rich. So, easy choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 03:05 PM
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You're never going to have that girl you want. She isn't going to curl on the couch with you to binge watch One Piece. She isn't going to sit through the entire extended cut of Lord of the Rings with you. She's not going to sit through the next installment of the Final Fantasy 7 remake trilogy with you when it comes out however many years from now. She won't play couch co-op games with you on a cold morning. You aren't proposing with a paupou fruit or a Pokeball and if you do you deserve to and …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:48 PM
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Universally? Humour.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:28 PM
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I knew of one. She wasn't deformed on anything, but she was a nerdy geeky type, who simply had more fun staying home and playing video games, than hanging out. Most of her friends were online and the irl friends just happened to all be women. When she turned 27 something flipped and she started fishing for a boyfriend. She had a few guys she met and liked, and she got a bf within a year. It's not that she didn't make a conscious effort, she just didn't care enough to have sex for 27 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 07:51 PM
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If a woman wants to have sex, she need an Internet connection and 40 mins of free time. Yes, getting An Sex for a woman is easy. If a woman is a virgin it's probably not because she is just that repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:25 PM
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She would get dresscoded immediately with that outfit in a serious business setting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 02:16 PM
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These same women Are you sure about that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 03:55 PM
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That is not true
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:15 AM
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A man using make-up is being a nonconformist, who goes against societal conventions and shatters gender norms. Of course he appears more confident. A woman using make-up is just.. A woman. But there can be a middle ground. A dab of concealer on those dark circles, a tiny bit of blush and maybe mascara? Already looking more presentable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 10:36 PM
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Yeah, but a lot of guys seem to be complaining about "full face-o-splat" women. You don't have to date those ones, my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 10:13 PM
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I feel bad for them. Make-up Would give so many men so much confidence. Make make-up gender neutral!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 10:12 PM
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I did notice a strange tendency some men here have of complaining about a certain type of women.. and then proceeding to do everything in their power to try and date that type of women. Like when they complain about make-up, for example. If you don't like make-up on women, stop trying to date women with lots of make-up! I assure you, there's plenty bare-faced ones around.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:26 PM
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Asian girls with white guy fetishes are so bizarre to me. The ones from actual east Asia, at least. I follow this artist on Twitter who draws spicy art of certain white video game characters sometimes. She is Japanese and the shit she posts about "western men" is outright insane. Once she unironically asked if "western men" have softer penises when they're aroused because that's what she read in a book titled "how to please your western boyfriend". I am scared to think what that book said about …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:18 PM
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It's hard to explain, but I think it's the degree/language used. With fetishes, all people of that subgroup are almost turned into this samey faceless "thing" that the women (in this case) can parade around and brag about dating. Say the man in question is disabled somehow, maybe he's in a wheelchair. And his date is really into that specific thing. He can be black, white, fat, skinny, into whatever hobbies and have whatever personality, she instantly gets excited when she sees that wheelchair. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:14 PM
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I think there's a difference between being immature because you're kinda dumb and being immature because you graduated school yesterday.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:14 PM
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My girlfriend is incredibly mature. I'm sorry, but this is textbook creep language. You're both adults, do whatever you want. But when you do things creeps do, then you'll probably be thought of as a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:08 PM
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Okay, but what do you actually want? For people to stop judging age gap relationships? Yeah, that's not gonna happen, cause they are weird. I'm 32 and I cannot imagine dating a 19-y-o, they are cringey teens, I can barely have a conversation with one. Nobody is saying such relationships should be illegal. A 19-y-o is an adult and can make her own mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:49 PM
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They are a minority, that's not normal behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:05 AM
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No woman does this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:36 AM
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Speaking for myself, but I would not engage in sexual activity with anyone if that's the most communication we've done.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:49 AM
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Personally, I want to say "no", but at the same time I can't imagine those interactions being enough without resulting in some kind of verbal exchange. There are only so many time you can smirk at someone before you eventually talk. You gotta become antiquated and that comes with talking, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:27 AM
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I believe you that there are some, but I think they're rare, at least in my experience. Of course, we are probably matched with very different people. Still, show me, I am curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 08:48 PM
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You really think most women on dating apps are doing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 08:40 PM
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romantic and sexual validation What I am curious about is how much of it is societal and how much of it is innate desire. If there was 0 cultural pressure to find a partner, would you still want one?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:19 PM
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Nice to know you're doing good! You're not less of a man for not chasing and your life has so much value without a partner! Stay gold!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:18 PM
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I think AI partners are a bit dangerous because they will lack empathy and will, at the same time, attract the loneliest of our society - people who's mental health is already shaken. Which is grounds for catastrophes. There were already cases of suicidal people confiding in AI and receiving no meaningful support. At the same time, if AI partners are safe and helpful, then I'm all for it. I don't think they will replace real human connection, but if someone out there can realize their Anime Waif…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:11 PM
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I don't use the term "mansplaining" sparingly, but this dude seriously went "Uhm, no, actually you're *not* attracted to thing, I know better".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 07:55 PM
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Oh my god, the whole "destroyed by 15-y-o boys" thing has got to end. Did you read your own source? "Of course, this match against the academy team was very informal and should not be a major cause for alarm. The U.S. surely wasn’t going all out, with the main goal being to get some minutes on the pitch, build chemistry when it comes to moving the ball around, improve defensive shape and get ready for Russia." No, they weren't seriously trying to beat a bunch of high-schoolers. They were practic…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:59 PM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:23 PM
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If we completely dismiss personality and only judge the man on his looks alone, then, in a weird, sociopathic tier list of physical traits, I'd say that a good hairline is above height. For me. I prefer long hair, in fact. Like if you lined two perfectly identical men for me and told me to pick one based in physical traits only, with the only difference being the one you described, I'd pick the good hair guy. Again, going full sociopath here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:38 AM
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Hheeeeey now, what's wrong with shipping? :,D
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:56 PM
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Oh my god, yes, women have a much easier time getting dates on Tinder. We know. Everyone knows. Literally what does that change?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 10:38 PM
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They were pretty toxic to each other and should have separated way earlier. But in any case, in her attempt to use me to punish him, she ruined my life, too. I don't care how much they hate each other. I shouldn't have gone through this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 09:53 AM
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My father cheated and my mother still hates him. She has tried her best to condition me to hate him too, prevent me from seeing him, prevent him from seeing me. She wanted to punish him. As a young adult I had to lie every time I saw him, say I was with friends. Whenever he gave me a gift, I had to hide it from her, or lie again. I lied to him too. It was exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:52 AM
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I personally know several happily-married men who seem to really love their wives. It really sucks for your friends though. I wonder how a couple like that even formed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:34 PM
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Of course, I'm simplifying it. But legal protection was also a weighty part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:13 PM
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I think most people just view it as a nice tradition, nothing more. When a relationship is "serious" enough, you get married. It's what you do. It's "the final step". Then comes the psychological aspect of being married, you feel like you can't really step away as easily as would be able to if you weren't married. Especially if children are in the picture. I think it's a bit of both. It's definitely a legal social contract, but it also symbolizes two people trusting each other deep enough to sha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:56 PM
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I mean, your friend and your pet also don't run your household with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:44 PM
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Legal stuff, mostly. It's why gays fight for marriage rights. I mean, marriage has always been largely a political-social thing. The couple is officially recognized as a unit. Add religion to it and you have this illusion that marriage is a sacred bond of love, when really it's just a social contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:42 PM
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Not sure it's a good idea to deprive children of a parent because said parent was a bad spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:59 PM
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Isn't that what the prenuptial infidelity clause is for?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 09:33 AM
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So just get a divorce immediately? Pretty sure that already happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 09:22 AM
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A guy sitting there by himself at lunch was seen as weird and sometimes as potentially dangerous. A girl on her own will more likely be shown pity and from my experience they rarely existed Completely beside the point, but as someone who wanted and still enjoys sitting alone , at work or whatever, this pity is a nightmare, let me enjoy my lunch in peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:10 AM
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Then don't court anyone who you don't see as a potential friend. It's better to be single, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 11:37 AM
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But what is the point of being in such a relationship if you have no common interests? It seems miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 09:41 AM
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Why would you court someone who doesn't have the same hobbies/tastes as you, though? I never understood this. Just because you find her hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 01:35 AM
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I wouldn’t. A lot of those books are just porn/masturbatory material. I think we've established that treating porn as a dating guide is a very bad idea. Fantasies are just that - fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:39 PM
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I think Avan Jorgia is the handsomest man there and he's "mid" according to that chart. I don't even know who he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:09 PM
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Honestly, the men at the top tiers of that chart look weird. Sure, they aren't ugly, but I honestly would not prefer them over some of the "sixes". They look... odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:00 PM
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I've seen people on dating subs claim that "liking the office isn't a personality" but then post their Tinder profile and "coffee" is one of their passions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:08 PM
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It's OK bro, just date men, bro, take your homies to dinner, have a picnic together, it's chill
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:07 PM
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I'm not disappointed with men. Plenty of men I know are wonderful and I'm sure they'd make great partners. I'm just bored with their company. Not because they're boring as people, but because they couldn't scratch the itch I have. Plenty of women can't either. I don't want to seem like "not like other girls" type or anything, I don't think I'm special. Neurodivergent, borderline autistic - maybe, but I'm no unicorn, lol. And I do live in a rather sparsely populated place, you can hardly find a d…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:59 PM
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You guys I think you’re describing a stereotypical reddit man. Naaaah, I think you are severely underestimating the type of autism we would want to engage in. I have met and even tried dating a few "nerdy" guys, but their nerdiness is still not "quite there", it's a different type of nerdiness. Men don't really engage in fandoms the same way women do. The ones that do are queer 99% of the time, usually gay, and even they can't really be exactly on the same wavelength. I don't know if it's social…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:37 PM
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We gotta find him first :D
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:14 PM
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What would constitute a man that would be worth marrying or partnering wit Someone who is autistic enough to brainrot about our OCs together, maybe write a few books and illustrate them. He would read my fanfiction (sincerely, not out of obligation) and send me memes that remind him of us. Would be nice if he's handsome too, maybe a bit feminine, I want to take care of him like a puppy. But that's secondary to my first point. Yeah, men like that are very rare, turns out. Women are much more comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:07 AM
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Ozempic isn't a Tictac, it's a strong drug with a lot of unpleasant side-effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:05 PM
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Personally, I never cared that much for music. But having a passion, especially a creative and productive one like art, is attractive. For anyone. Don't take up hobbies to impress someone, do it because it's genuinely fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:43 AM
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Usually because a lot of men on this sub insist women are serial adulterers and will cheat no matter what, so posts like OP tend to read as "women bad, put them in jail".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:19 AM
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We're not talking about financial incentives, we are talking about status. Having a hot trophy wife is status.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:07 PM
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If men didn't date for status trophy wives wouldn't be a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 01:01 PM
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Fine. Even if we are to assume trans kids are getting bottom surgeries at the age of 11, the implication here is that they want them. They are asking for those surgeries. Circumcision is usually performed on defenceless babies or on children by demand of their parents. There is no cognitive dissonance. One is a procedure that is supposed to improve quality of life for a patient with gender dysphoria, something that the patient wants, the other is cutting off a healthy piece of an organ for no re…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 01:06 AM
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Nobody is performing bottom surgeries on minors.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:56 AM
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I can say as a woman - 30 times a year is very high. I don't know where that person is hanging out, but... strangers just don’t approach you. It doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:41 PM
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I would choose bear and then rape the bear. How the turntables now!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:58 PM
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If they're going to a touristy resort, how likely is it that they're going to be jumped by a cartel of gang bangers though? Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:50 PM
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I'm sure they'd figure it out. Consider that these are the women that were genuinely treated as property. They don't know how to farm. And they managed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:47 AM
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The Umoja village in Kenya?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:10 AM
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For instance, women are horrified when men abandon their kids, but for the vast majority of human existence paternity was never certain. Unlike women, men didn't have the privilege of being confident in which kids are really theirs, so why would men have evolved to be as invested in children as women are? In most mammals, males don't participate in childrearing at all. So you're justifying being a shitty father to your child because "muh evolution". Really? One of the theories on why humans did …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:41 AM
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Yes, a lot do, and this isn't exclusive to ugly women. What usually happens is that these women are able to land guys above their league in their 20s for hookups or short-term relationships, etc. Those guys don't commit but these women's egos and expectations still inflate. Then they don't want to lower their standards after inflating them. So now the average or below chick feels entitled to above average men, or men above their level which leads to 2 main negative outcomes. Then why does it mat…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:52 PM
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Not annoyed. Just stated a fact, which is that self esteem should be based around what's real. Not what you look like through filters, makeup, and photoshop. It's never a good thing to have an overinflated ego. Overinflated ego is bad, I agree, but people with overinflated egos usually fall flat on their face when forced to really prove their worth. Do ugly women who rely only on filters and makeup fall flat on their face? If they don't, I'm guessing they're not as ugly as we think. At the very …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:38 PM
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You know what, I am all for makeup being acceptable for men. I encourage all men out there to use a lil concealer once in a while. Try contouring. Cover those dark circles. Shine your best self, king. I'm serious. It will boost your self-esteem. And if some idiot decides to call you feminine for it, remind them that all male Hollywood stars are wearing makeup when they are on camera. Quite a lot of it, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:08 PM
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So you're annoyed ugly women have high self-esteem? Genuinely, like what do you want to happen? You want ugly women to admit they are ugly all the time and only date ugly men? What if that same ugly woman has success with pretty men? Should she not be allowed to date them?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:01 PM
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The blur filter is very strong with those Korean idols
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:02 PM
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Of course natural beauty is better, but far from everyone looks like that without makeup. If a woman looks beautiful without makeup, then of course she likely wouldn't be wearing any. Dark lashes, clear skin, stuff that makeup mimics. But alas, not everyone is blessed with that. When people say "women look better without makeup" they usually mean models, women in the top few %. If I have small eyes, blemishes and dark circles, would a man still prefer me bare-faced or with just a touch of concea…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:57 PM
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So it's just fit man vs. out of shape man, at the end of the day
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:06 PM
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So we are assuming the 20-y-o is fit and athletic?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:42 PM
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I haven't checked, but I have a sneeeeaking suspicion those women might have been racist and against immigration, instead of being jealous of Thai women or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:50 AM
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Attractiveness is hardly ever a factor. In case of the very rare "a stranger jumping you in a dark alley", the rapist would prefer someone who is dressed more humbly, walks with less confidence and looks more "plain", since they appear as easier victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:32 AM
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I don't even identify as a feminist, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:06 AM
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Yeah, women who date a man they don't trust to this degree is unreasonable and I would completely understand if he got offended. Men who date a woman they don't trust to this degree are unreasonable and I would completely understand if she got offended. The reason why you want the test to be mandatory is because you want to control women's feelings. "Oh no, honey, don't get upset, I didn't ask for a test, it was mandatory, you see, out of my hands". Man up and ask for it. She gets offended? Well…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:51 AM
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LMAO. First of all, I don't know a si gle woman who does this, since most trust their partners. Second of all, if course she's doing it in secret if she doesn't trust him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:40 AM
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Women know men get offended at rainy day money, that's why they're saving it in secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:25 AM
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Can you change your own oil with the proper tools on your own? Can you assemble/disassemble and clean a simple rifle? How’s your form when throwing a baseball? Can you lift weights with good technique? More advanced: Can you properly field dress and butcher an animal for food? Okay, but genuinely, unless the boy has personal interest in this stuff, why should he need to be able to do this? I grew up with a father and I have none of these skills. Why would I ever learn to butcher an animal? Are w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:57 AM
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Men at all ages (on average) preferring women who are in their early 20s Women (on average) preferring men who are 2-4 years older than them, until they are middle aged where they start preferring men who are slightly younger. Worth noting: this preference is for "attractiveness", not for dating. Both men and women prefer to date people close to their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:54 AM
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I'm 31, if it matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:17 PM
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That's okay, I think most people do. At the very least I find it exceedingly hard to explain to people how I need my space, I need to be by myself, that being around someone physically will likely just make me annoyed and we'll end up in a massive fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:52 PM
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That's fair enough. Personally I would give up romance for the rest of my life if I could just draw unhindered, lol. But all people are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:45 PM
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Is that all you do? No passions or hobbies?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:40 PM
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I'm sorry, I just cannot relate. I'm very close to my friends. I know they love me. But living with them? Oh boy. I know I'm in the minority, I get that. But if or when I get a partner, I will insist on separate houses. I just need my space, I need to get away sometimes. Often. And I'm baffled at how most people don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:21 PM
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I know I'm not like "most humans". But it's not perpetual at all. I talk to my friends every day. I just shudder at the thought that some people wake up every morning and see the same person immediately after waking up, hear their voice every day, sometimes all day, sometimes even without as much as a room to be away from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 12:56 PM
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I just kept thinking how I'm going home to a bed that's entirely mine, an apartment that's entirely mine, a space where I can be myself without having to worry about upsetting someone. It's insane to me that so many people crave cohabitation, to me it's one of the most uncomfortable things in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 12:37 PM
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I feel like being single > being in a mediocre relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:44 AM
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Is that concerning to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 08:37 AM
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Man, wearing fashionable clothes that enhance your waist and getting haircuts that fit your face shape is also deceiving. Honestly, anything you do to your appearance that makes you even a little bit more attractive that you would otherwise look, shaved bald and completely nude, is deception.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:17 AM
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Half of the world's population disappearing overnight would collapse society no matter the gender. This is such a weird thought experiment. Are we imagining a hypothetical scenario where only one gender exists? Because yes, a society like that would be different from out current one, but it would still be a society. Short of making babies, men don't need women same as women don't need men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:43 AM
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Never understood why some men on this sub are convinced they're going to pull a Pierce Brosnan in their old age. Nah, fam, the average man will date just as "poorly" as a woman. By that I mean he will just age. People age.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 11:50 AM
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I live in a European city
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 06:04 PM
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Dude, genuinely, I think you are severy underestimating the amount of makeup both men and women, but particularly women actors wear for these Hollywood events. It's most definitely not "your average women" level. Try it yourself. Borrow or buy some makeup and try to perfect your face. Go easy at first and eventually go for full Hollywood actor look. See how much it takes. Mind you, their makeup is also done by profession stylists who know what will look good on their face.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 01:04 PM
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She is wearing a lot of makeup in that photo. Like a lot. Professional grade, too. For 99% of women, it is unfeasible to do a full face-o-splat like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 11:39 AM
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Lmao why would I want to be with Clooney or Gosling? We probably have nothing in common. Besides status that I'm not honestly not that interested in, they'd have nothing to offer me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:10 PM
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Oh, well that is a very masculine coded pose in general. I rarely see anyone in real life sit like that. I do see men sit in "the skirt way" all the time though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:54 PM
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Wait, how are those significantly different from the businessman? Is it because she's sitting diagonally on the chair?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:36 PM
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"You look better without makeup" While the woman in question is wearing primer, foundation, concealer, nude eyeshadow and mascara.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:38 PM
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