He couldn't refuse to sell them a cake and he didn't refuse the gay couple either. He refused to make them a gay themed wedding cake. Should you not be able to refuse custom requests? Would you go to a jewish baker and request a cake formed as swastika?
"To be fair, a LOT of women have to put up with lots of crap from dumbass guys" So men who experience crap from dumbass women should retire earlier as well?