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DiscriminationStanDando/r/MensRights10/11/19 01:04 PM
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DiscriminationStanDando/r/MensRights07/01/20 03:40 PM
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Activism/SupportStanDando/r/MensRights13/07/20 11:00 PM
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HealthStanDando/r/MensRights17/05/20 08:39 PM
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Legal RightsStanDando/r/MensRights11/11/20 02:36 PM
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Activism/SupportStanDando/r/MensRights28/02/19 11:01 AM
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Social IssuesStanDando/r/MensRights11/11/18 03:51 PM
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StanDando/r/TheRedPill11/04/20 07:12 PM
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StanDando/r/askTRP11/04/20 05:07 PM
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Inner Game StanDando/r/seduction08/04/20 06:56 PM
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StanDando/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 11:48 AM
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Welcome to get in touch.
/r/seduction23/02/21 03:20 PM
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Don't know what the post was, or why its been deleted, but my response from the visible paragraph was gonna be: yeah, well, get in touch then.
/r/seduction23/02/21 03:18 PM
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Yeah, but you know what your luck's like... :)
/r/seduction23/02/21 03:03 PM
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Thanks. I don't have multiple girlfriends (I would go nuts), but I do fuck girls other than the girlfriend Im with at the time. So, I'd add as a caveat that (in my experience anyway), there is a risk that the girl will end it after that talk. Just so people are prepared. That is why so many cheat - women cannot and will not accept men as they are. And as long as the feminazi mass media messages continue unaddressed, so will it continue. I've had 6-12 girlfriends who were exclusive to me, dependi…
/r/seduction23/02/21 03:02 PM
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So there's a word I haven't used much, and it is 'cogent'. Think it fits here, well put :)
/r/seduction23/02/21 02:08 PM
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This outcome-independent stuff... needs more qualification. It's bandied about a lot online, but has anyone called out the emperor's new clothes? I wonder what you'd make of the following. Lets take it right back to the simplest foundations. To come across as sexually outcome-independent, is one thing. Here there are skillsets - tactics, self-checks, and communication techniques to present that you are not bothered about having sex with her. To actually be sexually outcome-independent, is quite …
/r/seduction23/02/21 01:31 PM
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Bear in mind that some of these 'random people' do actually know what theyre talking about. Having said that, yes a lot of them don't. The problem with online pickup groups is that they are targeted by fraudulent companies - most commonly RSD and its affiliates - so thread starters who link to one of these large companies are more than likely trying to promote a product. And often a scam product at that. Consider that in the golden age of online 'seduction', posts were almost exclusively text-ba…
/r/seduction23/02/21 12:41 PM
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Pickup is about picking up girls. I would be more nuanced here, but that really is what its about. Making life work for you is very subjective, dont you think? Then you should look into the life goals you have, and then find the different areas you wish to focus on. Or even to try to change society, if your goals are being repressed by the system. But these are specific to what you value in life. I think guys have been syphoned away from results with women, by fraudulent companies, who try to re…
/r/seduction23/02/21 12:15 PM
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... :D Well aren't you the man. Oh and thanks for reminding me - Guys: marijuana lowers your testosterone too.
/r/seduction22/02/21 11:41 PM
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PS. Having read most of the replies on this thread... seriously...how many accounts has Oprah Winfrey got?? Isnt this supposed to be a fucking Pickup forum?! Weird times man. Weird, weird times.
/r/seduction22/02/21 11:02 PM
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Straight up answer: No, it is not ok. We live in an extremely feminised world of fag- oh wait, theres a polite word these days - 'metrosexuals' - with plummeting testosterone levels. Most males are being brainwashed by the feminazi mass media to become sexless cash machines for women. A man's natural instinct is to fuck as many women as possible. That is not some idealistic 'saw it on Youtube' sentiment. That is hard, cold, professional, peer-reviewed, scientific DATA. So scientifically, there i…
/r/seduction22/02/21 10:42 PM
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I cannot believe what I just read. How. DARE. YOU. ​ I will try not to buy into your pro-Fascist trolling. After all, this is an important subject, and you are a tumour on this forum that clearly should have been removed long ago. Who is moderating this? You need to ban this Blair Apologist immediately. And I am usually completely against banning people. This is quite an exception. Defending Blair's gender-apartheidist dictatorship in a Mens Rights forum, is the single most bizarre thing I think…
/r/MensRights14/07/20 12:37 AM
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What I agree about is that dating apps are terrible, and in fact, they take any smouldering fragments of whatever remains of male power away from us. What I dont get, is what someone so dismissive of hooking up with girls is doing on this group. What are you hoping to find on, say, Tinder? A future 90 year-old pensioner who has got used to the accidental pissing you do on your zimmerframe, because she remembers what an internally beautiful and unique snowflake you were before you got married to …
/r/seduction19/05/20 12:32 AM
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"Having one night stands is just begging to get an STD"?! Thats the gayest fucking thing Ive ever heard from someone who claims to be male. Nurse, we need 1000 gallons of testosterone at 'EvilDom's bed, STAT.
/r/seduction19/05/20 12:14 AM
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What have you got against homeless people?
/r/seduction06/05/20 11:59 AM
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I appreciate the straight-forwardness of this post, and how you take us through what you do. But you lose us at 'dont cold approach', and 'let the girls come to you'. Game for me and those I now advise is necessary because they Dont have enough social proof to be anything but chastised in bars and clubs. Also, theres no reason to think youre 'extremely good' at picking up women, when what you do is go out to bars - the right bars - with social proof, and wait for drunk women - any women - to eve…
/r/seduction05/05/20 08:17 PM
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I could not possibly agree more. I've been doing pickup for many years, and I teach from my experience. There are many dynamics going on, and my teaching starts from where the client is at right now. As you say,there are reasons for needing assistance, which is why they come to me / forums in the first place. These include being on the autism spectrum, being otherwise mentally/socially handicapped, born into poverty and isolation, being otherwise socially marginalised, physical disability, extre…
/r/seduction05/05/20 01:24 PM
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Thats great, but what Do you write as an opener?
/r/seduction05/05/20 12:32 PM
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Cleverly-phrased question, good shot! I'm gonna throw something out there that isnt coming from a brainwashed 'Inner Game' perspective. And it was quite simply, learning to stack. With stacking I had the confidence to just go out in the day and meet women on the street. Repeated practice enabled me to calibrate, react quicker, and basically control the conversation. Also, learning that you should always be leading the conversation in the direction you want. After that, body language - such as di…
/r/seduction03/05/20 07:57 AM
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The categorical and scientifically bulletproof answer is Yes. Most men do not have the money/status to be anything more than average in womens eyes. Many men, such as those born into poverty, isolation, and the homeless, are completely invisible to women, and wish nothing more than that there were no heirarchy or materialism. After consulting the scientific research (evopsychology, anthropology, evobiology, etc), you will easily draw the undeniable conclusion that women are the only reason we us…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 08:05 PM
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Thank you for your input
/r/seduction11/04/20 02:00 PM
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Why, thank you for the cake-ulationary wishes! A very merry unbirthday to you :) (If you'd like to answer the post, very welcome too)
/r/seduction09/04/20 11:07 PM
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(Man here) To give as straight and simple an answer as possible: Yes. Metrosexuals talk like theyre gay, and use sarcasm. They also try to turn the room against the competition in the room,behind their backs. And tend to be more concerned with getting the girl drunk. They also use what I call 'Sim Game' a lot. Real men actually tend to be more genuine, funny, cheeky and fun. Or, theyre quiet, shy and overthink.
/r/seduction09/04/20 11:00 PM
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I'm gonna go oldschool with this: stick to text, draw what you like from what you can trust, and go out there and try it out repeatedy. I started with The Layguide. Which I think is fucking underrated. The only book in major bookshops where I was, that came out just before The Game. I turned into a badass, and thats where I started from. ... Oh. And NONE of it was 'Inner Game'. RSD invented that concept. I've actually got a thread kicking around here about - here come the inverted commas again -…
/r/seduction09/04/20 10:48 PM
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I agree with so much there. I think a few of the leaders in the old underground scene Did manage to work out some good shit, which we still use today. The turning point, from what I can gather from Strauss' persective at least, is when 'Papa' (and Owen 'Durden' someone) moved into Project Hollywood. Maybe it was from Strauss' infiltration itself, but from that point, RSD started, the arbitrage industry started, prices soared, The Game became totally about gaming their clients not women, and.... …
/r/seduction09/04/20 10:37 PM
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There are many preconceptions and variables on this issue. Would I rate the sexiest girl for you as a 10 myself? Vice verca? I personally do think her score is a bit less important than the fuck. The most attractive girls Ive fucked have generally not been as fun as the 7s and below. Where this 'HB score' Does assist though, is as social proof. There, you can work towards using a fish to catch another one. Also, dependent on the situation, 10s can be easier than 8s and 9s with a really solid gam…
/r/seduction09/04/20 10:26 PM
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Like the name :) Mine's Don Romeo. As I said to our friend here, you can get in touch and I'll help find where to get you started.
/r/seduction09/04/20 09:51 PM
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Ok then, well done on not being scared to post :D And as for my typing, I donate all my apostraphes to build shelters for the poor.
/r/seduction08/04/20 07:57 PM
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Daygame is every day. Depending on various factors there may be one or two to avoid, but the approach that some days are better than others is a limiting one, as it justifies not going out. Weekends - especially Saturday noon-afternoons - obviously are busier, but students tend to have a higher ratio on weekdays. The thing is, when you go out for a few weeks or months, you will Want to go out. You'll be hooked on it. And then it wont matter what day of the week it is. Being particular about when…
/r/seduction08/04/20 07:47 PM
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Hi, I'm Don Romeo, been a high-level player for over a decade, daygaming since 2004, and my brags include living the gigolo lifestyle, seducing loads of women as a former homeless beggar sleeping on the streets, and giving well-recieved advice to men with all manner of issues as an affiliate of Bristol Lair. I was personally barred from Mystery's forum when I got too much of a following, so I got pissed off with the whole thing and got on with my life. However, this Covid-19 isolation bollocks h…
/r/seduction08/04/20 06:31 PM
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'Started making significantly more money' - how would this Not lead to having sex with more women? It's the single most consistent finding in evolutionary and anthropological research. This planet is a whorehouse, and if youve got money, women fuck you. Unless of course you're 'Papa', aka 'the Millionaire who couldnt get girls', who co-founded RSD. You dont need to go to the gym either. Butt-ugly, fat, old rich guys date supermodels. Same for butt-ugly, fat, old famous guys and politicians. Stat…
/r/seduction07/04/20 02:03 PM
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This is a brilliant question, at least from a masculist perspective. Some 'gurus' say you should use disrespectful behaviour as an opportunity to show how unphased and non-reactive you are. That you should just ignore it like she said nothing. This flies in the face of other things they say, such as demonstrating high value and being commanding. Moreover, it encourages women to disrespect men in general, preaching that they should be unaccountable for their words and actions. Obviously, this mak…
/r/seduction07/04/20 12:20 PM
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Girls with lower reproductive status are, for this purpose, about the same as men with lower social status. Men born into poverty, or with no network, have vastly fewer opportunities with women than the rest. Fatter girls may know this, and to boost their body esteem may accept a hotter man who's lower social status - and who they know will be easier to get. I dont know about your social status/wealth, but thats my experience on that topic. So it could be that you're presenting something, unavoi…
/r/seduction07/04/20 11:08 AM
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I agree with much of that, and that conscription/the draft should be illegalised or equalised (preferably the former). And that the leaders are to blame. What I would say though, is that we should remember that actions directed exclusively against males do Not have to be perpetrated by females to be misandric. The definition of discrimination is in the identity of the victim, not in the perpetrator. ​ Remember that fat moron Michael Moore? He published a book called 'Stupid White Men', about how…
/r/MensRights08/01/20 06:16 PM
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Thats an excellent question. I would say, much like if people refuse to accept the value of currency, what can the banks and government do? It ceases to be enforceable or validated. And I think you are entirely right to take that stance (though its still reactive not proactive). I think what the government are betting on is that this would take at least a basic level of syncronicity. Of coordination, where men refuse to be conscripted at the same time. Thus widespread communication platforms (wh…
/r/MensRights08/01/20 06:02 PM
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Well, let's just qualify the 'since the 1970s' thing with 'in the United States'. Conscription is a fact of life in many countries throughout the world even today. (to my knowledge only in Israel are women conscripted).
/r/MensRights08/01/20 05:56 PM
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I'm... I'm blown away. How this wonderful woman came to be is something worthy of identifying and encouraging in the girls and women in our societies. For the benefit of both genders. Thank you for posting this. Long may the spread of the compassion and maturity in this speech continue.
/r/MensRights07/01/20 04:52 PM
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What I do is forget my universal understanding of women as bigoted whores and focus on the ones I can, at least in the moment, respect. Knowing what you want in a woman helps - then when searching for women your internal standards will guide you a bit more reliably to those who trigger your feelings. You will also more readily recognize them when you have it in the back of your mind. ​ On the other hand, some might say this is an ideal state to be in - not emotionally dependent, only sexually, a…
/r/askTRP09/11/19 08:40 PM
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Just saw this as I was checking something else. So as an aside: If a reply like my one above triggers no positive reaction or discussion, what sort of Male Rights champions are you people?! I just gave you a sequential account of the rise of misandry in the mass media, masses of examples and areas in which misandric agendas are executed, a new perspective on conscription in the First World War, an acronym to add to our vernacular, and so on. I know it's my post, but even so, christ that's a good…
/r/MensRights17/04/19 09:46 PM
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Make sure you read my other comment for ideas, and find out current stats for yourself. I'm one of the first male rights campaigners of this generation, and I respect your awareness. Very glad it initially went downwell, keep us posted if you like, and any questions about misandry and male rights for your project, let me know. Great logo too :)
/r/MensRights28/02/19 10:19 AM
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Very well put. Also, conscription (military slavery and the draft, in war or peacetime, where 100% of those forced into the line of fire are male). As an example of that: the Trench Warfare of WWI. In WWII young men of all major countries were also forced, as in Vietnam. Captivity: 98% of Prisoners are male The still prevailing 'Titanic policy' The misandric music industry (post-1997 behind-the-scenes takeover), where rock was killed and replaced with 'Girl Power' - examples include 'No Scrubs',…
/r/MensRights28/02/19 10:09 AM
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I get that this seems like the simple answer - at least its the official one. First lets remember that many women moan about being discriminated against on the basis of gender. Much more often they are not, but sexism certainly does exist, as all here will confirm. Now yes, it seems that males killing males wouldnt hint at anything other than war. But remember that there were distinctions in who was forced to go, who had to go over the top, and so-forth. So its not just 'men', its 'class'. The m…
/r/MensRights12/11/18 11:00 PM
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Hm. I like it when people write a life scenario. And it's good with the 'replacing words' thing. I also think that this is the career progression of a privelidged/very privelidged person. While it may be a model, the analogy may result in a scenario more like: you cant get a job because of mass immigration, outsourcing, discrimination, and automation of low-level jobs, so you are perpetually unemployed. Due to the age-old 'work experience catch-22' you cant get a job because you cant show that y…
/r/askTRP29/07/18 05:29 PM
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No men are not hypergamous. Also, hypergamy doesnt mean 'whats best for us', it means having sex with/pair-bonding with wealthier males, and not having sex/pair-bonding with poor men. As the evilutionary psychology of men and women is completely different (even polar opposite), there is very little if any overlap. Males are attracted to the young and the physically attractive in the same way that women are attracted to males born high in the class system. As hypergamy refers specifically to fina…
/r/askTRP29/07/18 05:18 PM
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Humour. Giving it back to them (if youre around other people). In a fight situation though, looking unpredictable/crazy works. People dont like to pick on unpredictable people. Even going up to them and asking something/saying something first, works, cos it shows youre not intimidated and you just see them as another person.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 11:22 PM
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Girls & Boys - Good Charlotte The lyrics of Tray Deee from Tha Eastsidaz, a collaboration with Snoop Dogg. Bitches Aint Shit is one song, theres others, this man is THE alpha shit. Lost Prophets - Kobrakai (although the singer is incredibly fucked up, but the first album is incredibly good) Mystikal. Tupac as ever. Twista - So Sexy Peaches - general Deftones - general Generally though theres fuck all mainstream, cos there was a massive silent takeover of the music industry by feminazis in 1997 a…
/r/askTRP09/07/18 10:53 PM
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I started womanizing in 2004 so I dont know about 'when they discovered the Red Pill', but go out and meet women. Fuck them if you can, as many as possible. Then youll have them to think about, and oneitis will be in the psst.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 10:48 PM
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If she fucks with you, calmly and firmly call her out on it. You can add 'Im not angry' if you like. Deep voice, dominant body language, strong eye contact. This is a mens rights forum first, and your responsibility as a man is to call out women who give men shit - not to make them think they can get away with it for your own personal gain. Thats not being a man, and its not getting respect from anyone, girls included.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 10:44 PM
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Good attitude. Im in the same boat, I guess it will never go away, real life isnt happy endings, its shit, unfair and bitter. The thing I did is to shift my focus, rather than find some sort of denial-acceptance. Shift my focus to what I can do, what I can improve, and put my energy into that. Learning to get good with women was a big focus shift for me. It takes all your energy and is a constant challenge.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 10:36 PM
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Well played!
/r/askTRP09/07/18 10:08 PM
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Why continue on that tack when shes had her chance and blown it? Use her. What you would need is strong hard-to-get, uninterest demos, jealousy plotlines and the like. So do something similar and use her at the same time. Next time you see her, say you have a question for her, its a bit sensitive, but youre single and youve been wanting to ask her for a while. Observe her reactions. Then say 'are you any good at matchmaking people? Because Im looking for a drinking buddy whos good with girls, an…
/r/askTRP09/07/18 10:06 PM
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If we look at 'seduction' as a linear process, then charisma can go further into the mid-phases than looks can. They both work best in the opening phases. Also neither of them are particularly important for closing the deal, though charisma can play a role in attractive typology game. Height, however, is a huge advantage, as it is judged not just as an index of attraction, but of status. Ultimately social status and wealth are the most important factors, and with those, you could be a butt-ugly …
/r/askTRP09/07/18 09:50 PM
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These are important terms in the gender war. Lets get them right: A whore is a prostitute. Worthless, using their body to get a free ride in life. A sex-positive girl/woman, termed an 'ethical slut' by Betty Dodson, is a woman who is open to sexual experiences with new people (which we as men need and like). She is our ally and should be respected for her maturity and harmony with the male value of casual sex. She isnt a whore because by definition a whore is a woman who sells her body for money…
/r/askTRP09/07/18 09:36 PM
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Arent we all involuntarily celibate at times as men? Surely thats a central point of development and male emancipation, and people talk about game here, so I dont get your angle. No man gets laid as much as he needs to, bar the rich and celebrities, so I dont see how theyre different from me, and Ive been with 50+ women and have a young girlfriend. Its unbearable when you cant get sexual access at all, and we should have sympathy and be supportive of this very core issue of masculism that affect…
/r/askTRP09/07/18 09:21 PM
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Why so serious?! Get into comedy, saturate yourself in fun and funny stuff. Stop taking yourself so seriously. No revelation there. Choose your typology - and one that is cohesive with your demeanour. This may even be a low-energy badboy, or a typology based on your appearances or life situation, rather than your character. Also know that girls sense of humour is usually pretty shit. They love sarcasm, which is famously said to be 'the lowest form of wit'. Sarcasm can be delivered dry, wry, iron…
/r/askTRP11/06/18 03:11 PM
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Youve been in a very good situation that you've bedded 100+! I must admit it is fucking hard to not think women are pieces of shit. And what I've found is that the more, not the fewer, women Ive slept with and had LTRs with, the more convinced I become about this fact. However, learning about women and evolutionary psychology seems to place some responsibility in the learner to find some sort of silver lining - if for nothing else, for co-existence. What I have found is that virtually all women …
/r/askTRP11/06/18 01:20 PM
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You would only do this once your process through Hook-Attract-Rapport-Bond-Eros has passed to the right phase. In Hook there are elements of tension, so too in Attract, but the Eros stage is what I presume you are talking about. Pure tension itself, without a sexual driver, can be created simply by asking her to sit on her hands. This naturally creates tension. Pausing while speaking also creates tension. It is not specifically sexual (unless pausing is combined with intimate eye contact). As fo…
/r/askTRP11/06/18 12:37 PM
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Hi Bitcoin Shill, what Im hearing here is 'I'm young, I'm looking good, and I have loads of time'. If not now, then when?! Game isnt online, it's in the shopping malls and bookshops and in town squares and the highstreet and on public transport and so on. If you have access to that, and you want to get better, you have the perfect opportunity. If you have enough money and you dont live in a city, then use your money to get to a city centre and start on your mission. By the way, Ive no idea what …
/r/askTRP11/06/18 12:09 PM
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With little information, its even harder to diagnose an event that one wasnt at. Hard originally because you dont know what you didnt do. Did you play a bit hard to get? Were you alpha? Were there bitches talking to her behind your back? Did you give her haptics (touch)? Are you even goodat communicating? Did you give away too much about yourself? Did you smell? Was your body language wrong? What did you do that (assumingshewas interested before) revealed an opposite to how you presented yoursel…
/r/seduction04/06/18 06:44 PM
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That book, though too 'literary', actually does have some very useful parts. I believe he says that the reader may have traits from several. It is for you to pick the one that is strongest, or that fits best with your situation and that feels most authentic.
/r/seduction04/06/18 06:32 PM
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Youre not gonna post every single interaction you have are you? XD
/r/seduction04/06/18 06:21 PM
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This is so dumb and delusional. True mens rights theory holds that we are All incels. Or rather that we are all getting less pussy than we need. So to turn on incels is really idiotic. I dont know what angle you came here from, but sexual access is a Massive part of male emancipation.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 10:56 PM
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Poverty, social alienation, misanthropy, someone who doesnt have a TV or Facebook, and someone who's into Fight Club. Good start anyway.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 10:49 PM
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Night game is just wearing no briefs. And staying around until closing time.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 10:29 PM
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Im not sure what the point of the OP is, if I read a field report I always scroll down tbe bottom and see if he fucked her, if not, its pointless reading the rest imo. But to reply to a point you made, LJBF isnt after sex, its before. It happens because the man hasnt generated enough intrigue/attraction, dominance, flirtatiousness or arousal. And aftersex, generally women either want to pin you down in a relationship, or distance themselves for anonymity andreputation. Ive stayed in touch with s…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 09:53 PM
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Thanks for the information! Im interested. But as a mens rights supporter for over 15 years, on the front line of the Gender War in Britain and other countries, I would be very interested in contributing. I have seen how deep the rabbithole goes, and I would like to know how I can bring my front-line experience to the audience and to the panel. Thank you for your assistance!
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 09:24 PM
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Direct vs indirect is an interesting debate, until it is resolved through experience. The above is false advice. Let me give a scenario. Say a man posts his experience of having much better results with direct versus indirect game. For the first phase, when he was an economics student say, he was indirect in his approaches. It is hard yes, it takes a lot of investment to grow and to apply, and rejections can be a big let-down. After he graduates, he gets an assistant-level job in a department of…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 04:14 PM
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I gave up on LTRs for a long time, and Im still not as invested in them as I was. When I broke up with someone, I would get shitfaced, and then after a shorter and shorter period of days I would do the Austin Powers thing. 'Wife turned out to be a Vambot and just exploded. Wait... that means... Im SINGLE AGAIN! YEAH BABY YEAH!!!' Without the public nakedness (for the most part). Then Id go out and fill my day talking to girls in town, the more the better, getting over her while also improving my…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 12:27 PM
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When have Politicians ever found a solution? Arent they the ones who make all the problems?! The decline of modern society happened ages ago - with various major events dating back to around 1860. More recently, things got worse in 1997, and then they did 9/11... game over. Revolution by any means necessary is the only way to fix things. In fact I think even that has ceased being logistically viable after around 2008 or so - but its still the best thing that can be done. Revolution is what I cal…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 12:12 PM
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This is a much simpler way of saying all the stuff I did. Go with this guy.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 12:01 PM
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Yeah, in the main I get your question. One reason must be because we're overanalytical, and while 'intellectually curious' is a great way to describe it, I think 'aware' is another, and being aware can make you more self-conscious. Another reason - the guys who start out as worst at game often have things in common. One of the most consistent is masculinity that manifests in the autistic spectrum. I'd hardly call computer programming masculine, but the focus on direct commands, lists and systems…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 11:56 AM
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And your game, is where you need to work. If your metabolism facilitates bulking up, its your choice, but if it doesnt, dont waste your time. When I was ripped and training 4 hours a day in martial arts and weights, I got no pussy. When I was smoking, drinking beer and slightly overweight, I got far more than most men do in a lifetime. Work out if you like, but the definition of seduction or 'game' is 'strategies that circumvent or overpower evolved female preferences'. For you, the place to sta…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 11:36 AM
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As I understand it big guys are universally attractive to women. Thats not to say that lean isnt the way to go for you, maybe it suits your type better for one thing. Which country are these girls from?
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 11:16 AM
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I thought like this when I was younger. Occasionally it still crops up, but my experience with women has taught me that (also depressingly), it's nothing personal. It feels personal, and maybe women are encouraged by the feminazi mass media to make it seem that way, but it has nothing to do with you as a person, as a soul, a bloodline, or whatever else. Women only fuck two things: money and status, or game. Theyre not fucking you as a person, and theyre not rejecting you as a person. Even though…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 01:19 AM
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Why dont you ask them? And then tell me what they say XD I guess I or someone else will find time to start answering, but if you had studied anything you would have more specific questions, and specific questions are much easier and quicker to answer.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 01:13 AM
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Politics only ever gets worse with time. Simplistically, 'entropy' is a good word for it. The only positive change that can happen will come from either total abandonment of the industrialised world, or violent revolution. With that established, Western society is indeed doomed, frankly didnt the world totally end in 1997 or 2001? If it can be reborn, it is from violent revolution on a species-wide scale.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 12:52 AM
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I agree. But what the hell has 'married' or 'not married' have to do with it?!! If theyre in an exclusive relationship, it just makes sense to not get involved. However intellectually bullshit monogamy is.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 12:41 AM
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Thats frikking beautiful! Attitude, learning style, balance, assertiveness, humility, writing style - and plenty of time to learn... Youre the man :D
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 08:14 PM
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Wow. Hypergamy turned against the mother instinct. Maybe this could lead somewhere...
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 08:04 PM
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Money and status is absolutely what women care about. I learned that the hard way when I saved a girls life, started dating her, was in a serious soul-mate relationship with her, was the best sex she'd ever had, and then she dumped me. For being 'too poor'. Later, other girlfriends would dump me for the exact same reason. Girls always rejected me -and would continue to - because I was 'the poor guy' from the wrong side of the tracks. I grew up in third-world poverty, as a perpetual traveller wit…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 04:03 PM
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Im not short but Im in a country with the 2nd tallest males in the World! That said, a general principle Ive learnt is means and ends values. That is to say, women subconsciously or evoluntionarily favour males 5 ft 11 or over (in a marraige partner it must be said). 80% of personal ads that mention height say 6 ft plus. BUT, this is not because height matters to them. Its a means value, and the ends value - the underlying thing theyre after - is security and protection. By fighting and exposing…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 04:06 AM
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Good stuff, good presentation. Agree with all of it. All of it except one thing, sorry XD While women are evolutionarily programmed exactly the same, and they are the same, culture is a Far more significant factor than your 1%. Ive banged girls from and in a lot of countries and places, and there are differences between those female populations. Irish women are conservative and very bigoted. Greek women come from a status culture that's only just leaving the dowry system (some places still have …
/r/seduction30/03/17 04:37 PM
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Some answers on seduction forums are so arrogant. You could ask 'are you subject to gravity?' and people would answer 'gravity is for newbs, I don't bother with it' or 'it depends'. For sure there are things that can help the conversation going, you'll find as you get more practice that you build a 'critical mass' of momentum and things just keep rolling. Pre-scripted (but practiced) game Does work for this purpose. Even once you've got good enough not to need it, you have something if things go…
/r/seduction30/03/17 04:10 PM
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The more you propagate the idea that guys who are alone (you know, like you) are 'creepy', the more damage you do to yourself and other guys. Surely thats obvious.
/r/seduction30/03/17 03:40 PM
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Cheers, this is a decent message to encourage I think. Nice stuff, and positive things can come from internalizing it if they havent been before.
/r/seduction07/12/16 02:49 AM
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Ok thanks! Im still using the sextant, technology isnt really 'my bag baby'. Bumble... As sexist as that sounds - and it is sexist - its seems like pretty good delimitation. Had a go on someone else's Tinder - a girls and needless to say I swiped the same way for all her matches - and it didnt seem like you could make an account without Facebook's approval. Still, I'll google it. Cheers!
/r/seduction07/12/16 02:32 AM
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No, I dont believe in Facebook, Im not religious! Never had one either. Sinister shit if you ask me.
/r/seduction07/12/16 02:20 AM
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For those on the Autism spectrum, he doesnt mean an actual wrench! Or does he... Do you? :-D
/r/seduction07/12/16 01:22 AM
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If I can juuust get into university, make some classmate friends and join a fraternity in time for Christmas! (checks to see if theres a clean pair of socks)
/r/seduction07/12/16 01:20 AM
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Yeah I guess I can give it away for free XD In the marines, snipers use breath control as part of their firing drill, to control their state. This got me thinking about how to transfer it for public speaking. I found out that you can put yourself into a Charismatic state, which shows enormous perceived confidence and control through all your movements, just by using the magic number 7. One of those beautiful rules of thumb/heuristics is coming up... Seems that if you take a minute to slow down y…
/r/seduction07/12/16 01:09 AM
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Cool, youre welcome :-)
/r/seduction07/12/16 12:58 AM
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Ok, well I look forward to your take on the frame-game to address this needyness in particular. Lifestyle is a bit more dodgy - if a method works, it works for a homeless man or the disabled. Confidence... what girls think is confidence is all fake. Ive had real confidence and girls never pick up on it. Its almost like I have to 'act' like myself to be perceived for who I really am!! But you go for it.
/r/seduction07/12/16 12:57 AM
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Yes, Day Game. I also lived a travelling lifestyle, where I seduced a lot of women in hostels. Ive pulled girls in all sorts of places, mostly in public in the day. Some in bars too, but I dont really consider that 'game' so much as 'thanks again Alcohol!!' Most, almost all of my conquests have been cold-approach to sex on the same day. But I could meet them on the street at 3pm, and have sex at 9:30pm, or variations on that. A good example would be the period when I seduced about 30 girls from …
/r/seduction07/12/16 12:49 AM
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Behave hahaha! Think I'll just take a note of your name and move on XD
/r/seduction07/12/16 12:30 AM
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Day game IS hard to start with. And it can be hard later. It is Not easy, and it takes what service professionals call 'emotional labor'. Youve got to be strong, and if youre sensitive, youve got to be even stronger. Push through it. If you learn and add new things, play with it and have fun, youll break through the hardest part, and it gets natural. Its still tough, but each rejection brings you closer to getting laid. And alcoholism, but thats fun too XD Look at it as a Fight Club experiment; …
/r/seduction07/12/16 12:08 AM
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Frat party. Christmas. Alcohol. Social proof. Game? What game!
/r/seduction06/12/16 11:49 PM
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Whats the deal with Bumble, never used it? And as we're talking Tinder, do yiu guys know how to use it without having a Facebook account? That Facebook bullshit is the only reason I dont use it.
/r/seduction06/12/16 11:42 PM
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You feel it. Happens in very short lingering moments, such as in eye contact. Its all situational. Also happens when youre being assertive, going 2 steps forward - a subtle but mutually acknowledged step further than a platonic meeting would warrant - and then she Rolls with it! One of the best feelings! Because youre subtle, you keep it seeming normal, but you both secretly know youve offered something more and shes accepted it. Thats an example of when tension happens. Its situational.
/r/seduction06/12/16 02:07 AM
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Indeed, they Do get off on rejecting people. It always amazes me how few guys have actually worked this out. Girls go out to play the game - having their own sadistic fun with guys who approach them. Some count the number of times theyre approached and compete with eachother to get the highest number. Others compete on number of guys phone numbers collected. Other gangs have more advanced systems. If they didnt want to be approached, they simply wouldnt go to nightclubs, its that simple. They go…
/r/seduction06/12/16 01:48 AM
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Damn could I have used This advice before I started day-gaming in college! In a xenophobic foreign country as well... Most of this is bang on I think - but the alternative seems to be 'night game' - which is basically about social status. And many guys wouldnt be here if they had social status, so while its great advice, 'social circle' takes the approaching and self-control away again. Day game is still the way forward, but you need to have this thing that doesnt seem to have a name, its a sort…
/r/seduction06/12/16 01:32 AM
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hahahaha
/r/seduction05/12/16 01:41 AM
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Id say this is generally how women are accross the spectrum. Its just that youve got some good inside track on other non-Anglo Saxon people. The other theory of course, is racism. One of the most amazing changes in my success with women came when I realized how fundamentally bigoted they are - and therefor that 'game' was the way forward. Most of the girls Ive been with could be classified as upper-middle class caucasians. And you are absolutely right - being geniune has very little value with t…
/r/seduction05/12/16 01:36 AM
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This probably isnt popular, but I dont follow cults, I do bang a lot of women, and from my experience, there is no such thing as 'Inner Game'. There are all manner of skills and methods to control your state, to model your filters, and to maximize your chances. But 'Inner Game' is a specific commercial product. Besides, if women were so deep that they judged you based on the beautiful and unique snowflake that you became and learnt to project through just your velour-soft intentions and Daoist e…
/r/seduction05/12/16 01:05 AM
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Hahaha yeah, what a scoop! She'll discover gravity any day now...
/r/seduction05/12/16 12:31 AM
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As a general rule, the more women you go with, the more cynnical you get. I havent been looking for a relationship for three years... Self-improvement is the name given to a different genre entirely surely. This is 'getting the basics'.
/r/seduction05/12/16 12:29 AM
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Im not answering all three for free, I'll pick one at random...question 2. Actually thats 2 questions as well, jesus... So if youre sitting down and youre a confirmation type, simply sit back against the wall. That way you can see the people behind her and can confirm that people are just going about their own thing - and can stare them out back to their conversations if theyre evesdropping. I hate people evesdropping, really I do, but I just push through with it and get more focussed on her. It…
/r/seduction05/12/16 12:08 AM
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Humour helps. I make people laugh, they laugh, I can see myself affecting her, it builds confidence in a spiral. Also if youre listening to what shes saying, thats where to focus. And when shes talking shes not so focussed on you. Also theres nothing to worry about, its one on one. But project relaxed, casual and light-hearted in your body language, and it will make you feel relaxed, casual and light-hearted. A fascinating concept that I call 'backgesturing' - if your body does it, it tricks you…
/r/seduction04/12/16 11:51 PM
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You already have an advantage because youre in an ingroup with her. Also the ratio is brilliant - unfortunately, because colleges are only taking girls in, but thats for another discussion... At the same time, the college may be a villaige, and she may be conscious of getting a reputation. Perhaps it's for that reason that I've been with more girls who I met on campus, when I wasn't at that college. The university was in the centre of town, the nicest place to sit or lie down in the sun, and I j…
/r/seduction04/12/16 09:58 PM
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Can you just clarify if youve approached 25 or youve had something sexual with 25, because for a beginner the latter would be an incredible score and you wouldnt need help...
/r/seduction04/12/16 09:49 PM
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You do need to be super-smooth for daygame to work. But you dont need to be a natural extrovert. I became that, just by making cold-approaching a part of my daily life. The smoothness comes with experience. I really do recommend that guys taking their early steps work out what theyre going to say - even scripting where necessary, and take those lines out and practice them with the girls they meet. Sometimes I do standup comedy, and I wouldnt get anywhere without a carefully-written and well-rehe…
/r/seduction04/12/16 09:47 PM
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