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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 18 | Did you guys see the house wife unpopular opinion post on front page?It seems like reddit guys want women to be houswives, but only if it's against their will. They will applaud an ambitious career woman who gives up her dreams to be there for her kids, but they shit on a woman who wanted the SAH life to begin with. It's like a weird fantasy of wanting to take us down a peg. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 07:37 AM |
| 7 | WOC and our current complex feelings about missing woman media coverageThank you for making this post. I'm not from the USA and so I have only seen online discussions of this situation but this really shed some valuable light. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 07:48 PM |
| 18 | Thoughts on long-distance?Yeah - I think I need to get over the fact that I've gotten attached and be more pragmatic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 03:57 PM |
| 9 | Thoughts on long-distance?This is a really good point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 03:56 PM |
| 11 | Thoughts on long-distance?Thank you for the advice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 03:56 PM |
| 617 | Pick me-ism is a hell of a drugThe sheer amount of men that replied to this tweet with stuff like "oh why can't you just let him be happy" is making me honestly sick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 04:00 PM |
| 154 | Male fragility means that a picture of a small sausage in a South Korean ad makes men there feel bad about the size of their genitals. So the answer is getting back at feminists by playing cancel culture towards the supposed companies they work for. (You can't make this shit up!)For people who can’t get past the paywall: By Hawon Jung Ms. Jung is writing a book about South Korea’s MeToo movement. SEOUL — One day, she was an ordinary working woman in South Korea, married with a son and designing ads for one of the country’s largest convenience store chains. The next day, she was branded a man-hating feminist on web forums popular with men, a “cancer-like creature” among an “anti-social group” of “feminazis.” The hostility centered on an ad the woman had designed for camp… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 09:27 AM |
| 9 | Men are intimidated by my educationI’m still in undergrad and it’s always so inspiring to hear women be so driven about education, it makes me feel motivated! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 06:36 PM |
| 74 | « In 2019, 65% of women reported only being attracted to men, a notable decrease from 77% in 2011 »Happy pride month ladies <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 01:18 PM |
| 259 | The Dating Pool in 2021It's the "single mothers should have just picked a better guy" while simultaneously the "women are so materialistic and needy about commitment" for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 11:41 AM |
| 71 | Gillian Anderson in "The Fall"What a badass character! She took no shit from anyone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 09:31 AM |
| 35 | Oxfam charity after being found out protecting MALE woman and child rapists decide to blame women, especially white women for males’ actions. Men’s rights subreddits silent on this subject of course. Oxfam charity supports rape and hates White women.Not only is this sexist, but it is also incredibly racist to ignore the fact that sexual assault survivors are frequently women of colour not just uppity white ladies or whatever. In fact, sexual violence targets women of colour even more. So disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 08:09 PM |
| 3 | How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning?massive social stigma: not anymore, it's pretty much normalized in a certain degree, the eradication of slut shaming was in their benefit. I'm sorry, but in what country. I don't know any place in the world where this is true. You also don't have to believe me on any of this, just look into the increase in sex trafficking in countries that operate on full legalisation - it is an overwhelming trend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 02:47 PM |
| 3 | How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning?If women have too much sex, they're sluts causing the end of human society through single motherhood. If women don't have enough sex, they're evil bitches that only want chad causing the end of human society through male sexlessness (despite female sexlessness literally also being on the rise). The men in this thread want women to have few partners lest they be sluts,yet have no standards lest they be excluding sad lonely men, but also not end up being single mothers due to a deadbeat dad lest t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 09:22 AM |
| 4 | How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning?Who raises the kids in this hypothetical? Men? Robots? The main reason women are necessary in society isn't sex, it's unpaid domestic and reproductive labour that makes up the largest sector of the world economy. The reason birth rates are down is because women with other options prefer to get compensated for their labour, rather than do it for free | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 09:08 AM |
| 2 | How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning?It does seem that sex work legalisation may happen as it is becoming popular but honestly there just won't be enough sex workers in rich countries for the 'market correction' to work in a vacuum. If you think about the prospects of sex work (no career advancement, no pay rises - you actually earn less as you get older, massive social stigma, huge occupational hazards of pregnacy/STDs that can kill you or have huge medical consequences that effect your entire life) it is clear that prostitution i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 09:00 AM |
| 3 | How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning?Isn't violent crime at an all time low in Western countries? Everyone knows about the few incel mass murder cases (because they are so shocking) but it seems like these are generally anomalies. It will cause social problems of course but I'm not convinced that widescale violence is one of them, at least not yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 08:53 AM |
| 1 | How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning?First gen immigrant communities also tend to have very high birth rates and while they are often socially more conservative tend to vote democrat in the US which might work against this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 08:52 AM |
| 1 | How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning?The richest members of society always have the least number of children which seems to somewhat contradict this. Same goes for how developing countries have high birth rates than richer developed nations. It seems to me like government subsidised childcare or other measures that would appeal to young and educated professional people should be tried. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 08:50 AM |
| 3 | How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning?Do you think making single mothers less of a protected class would improve the situation for anyone though? Surely we should be trying to support children of single parent households as much as possible if they have so many issues? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 08:46 AM |
| 413 | I have no wordsThat’s not even half as bad as well because period products are literally a medical necessity! It’s on the same level as trashing someone’s inhaler or prescriptions imo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 07:04 PM |
| 121 | What's something that always bothered you/felt weird while growing up, but you could never place why until you realized it was misogyny?The ‘ball and chain’ trope which never made sense to me, or why women were always portrayed as desperate for marriage. I always said as a little girl that I never wanted to be married only to be met with “you won’t feel that way when you’re older, every girl wants to find a husband” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 10:38 PM |
| 44 | The importance of not sharing your trauma with the men you’re datingI will implement the “blood in the water” tip What is this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 03:03 PM |
| 121 | FDS perk #358961 - Seeing through their BS and manipulationQueen shit! Proud of you for not making it easier to lie to the next lady | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 03:01 PM |
| 125 | Not holding men to a high standard while dating them because you're afraid they'll disappoint you is a self fulfilling prophecy"Dudes who exhaust you with their pathetic man-baby shit and can't handle this level of boundary setting without throwing a fit are completely expendable and replaceable and never let anyone tell you otherwise" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 02:13 PM |
| 6 | Ladies be careful about accepting massages in public. Have you all seen any Luo Dong videos on YouTube?Larry Nassar the team USA gymnastics doctor used to m*lest little girls under the pretense of giving a 'medical massage'. When the police received complaints about him he would send them a fake Powerpoint (that he made) about how what he was doing was non-sexual and medically sound (even though several victims reported that he was visibly aroused when he perform this 'technique'). It literally took over 100 women reporting him and the police finding child p*rn in his house for anything to happen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 03:10 PM |
| 1 | What’s up with left wing LVMs?? 🤔90% of all so-called 'male feminists' nowadays seem to spend all their time speaking out about 'men not being able to have feeeeelings' or 'men actually also experience [INSERT THING THAT WOMEN DISPROPORTIONATELY EXPERIENCE]' while never speaking out against stuff that is harming thousands of women disproportionately daily like sex trafficking or domestic violence. Oh yes Tyler tell again me how male victims of rape aren't taken seriously. Because women victims (who make up the majority of victi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 11:50 PM |
| 27 | What in the fresh hell-- throw this man out of your LIFE and slam the lid shut 😡Throw the whole man out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 12:29 AM |
| 82 | Share your standards!A guy I used to hook up with in the past (🤡) used to BRAG about never reading. It seriously is the most unappealing thing ever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 11:03 PM |
| 18 | Share your standards!I feel like going to a large university in a bigger city broadened my perspectives a lot, so I prefer when people have that similar shared experience too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 11:01 PM |
| 36 | Share your standards!Agree!! I don't think this particular one is that arbitrary because it definitely reflects on general grooming standards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 10:59 PM |
| 70 | Do not take that condom offI recently found out that HPV can even be spread through oral sex, and cause throat cancer. I had never heard of this before and it shocks me that nobody ever taught me that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 11:47 PM |
| 15 | British/ European woman in their twenties, how do you navigate dating while sticking to FDS principles?I'm not British but I attend university in the UK. I haven't dated for the past year of the pandemic, so when I dated before I had never read FDS. I found that both being a student and not using dating apps the kind of date I would be asked on: 1 - almost always coffee 2 - I would pay for myself without any conversation about it I don't know if this is just how British men are, or if it's a consequence of dating other students. I think I might try going out with graduates/older guys when I start… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 11:06 AM |
| 57 | A group of boys harasses and assaults a group of girls minding their own business.This is so disturbing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 04:06 PM |
| 7 | A group of boys harasses and assaults a group of girls minding their own business.Dm me if you're comfortable to do so | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 04:03 PM |
| 39 | Beware!Getting married is only advisable after a ton of vetting, and if you do get married you should always be prepared to end up as a single parent anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 09:51 PM |
| 48 | Beware!So right! And for the men who's lives don't change it's usually because their girlfriend or fiancé is already expected to do all these tasks without even the title! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 07:22 PM |
| 65 | As a woman with a PhD in a hard science, who was told too many times that I act too masculine and "I'm not a real girl" by my own family, all I will say is this: DO IT ANYWAY.I am studying chemistry and my class is almost half female! I won't be surprised if this continues to increase as the years go by. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 10:07 PM |
| 141 | Discussion: A Shrinking Society in JapanI'm starting to think of the declining birth rates as a kind of unionisation or strike for women. Like we have decided we deserve better! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 02:08 AM |
| 190 | The single demographics in the US and why young men are angryI wonder how many of the young men labeled 'single' have women in their lives that have been led to believe that they're in a relationship with these men... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 02:53 PM |
| 31 | When you ask a question on reddit, you are asking (more or less) 80% men, 10% females, 10% other.The first principle of critically evaluating information is knowing the source and controlling for bias. On reddit, this means valuing male opinions less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 05:01 PM |
| 48 | Men in womens health subredditsI wonder how many of those are even real, honestly. I don't doubt that some of them are but some men will also do anything for the attention of internet strangers, especially female attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 04:57 PM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Check-InIt's normal to want shared values in a partner, like political opinions or cultural background, so no reason why you can't extend that to smoking etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 04:22 PM |
| 15 | Weekly FDS Check-InStudying for my final exams right now! It's been a really weird year of doing just online college, especially because my subject usually has a lot of practical elements. Hoping to get a high average to end off the academic year:) I've been working really hard so hopefully it pays off! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 04:19 PM |
| 7 | the hypocrisy scrotes have when it comes to complicated/powerful women, real or fictional. let us have fun, losers.Critique of individual women perpetuating harmful systems is one thing, but when the critique specifically targets her gender it's just obviously sexist bullshit. . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 09:40 PM |
| 48 | the hypocrisy scrotes have when it comes to complicated/powerful women, real or fictional. let us have fun, losers.Has anyone noticed recently that any female CEO/public figure/person in a position of power gets made fun of and called a girlboss where their male counterpart would just not be commented on/nobody would care to talk about them? It feels like a woman doesn't even have to purport to be a feminist for her presence to be seen as a political statement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 06:49 PM |
| 5 | NVM's wife raised the kids and managed their home for nearly two decades yet he resents her for not working? Feels like an abuse victim?? He has the option to retire early and live a comfortable life together but comments he rather have her work a cashier job "for the principle"It's the same as with SW honestly. Sex work and being a SAHM have one main thing in common; both are types of labour that women exclusively perform. This fact means that they are devalued, denigrated by society and assigned a low status. Yet us pointing this out makes conservatives claim we hate houswives and liberal feminists say we hate sex workers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 06:41 PM |
| 17 | NVM's wife raised the kids and managed their home for nearly two decades yet he resents her for not working? Feels like an abuse victim?? He has the option to retire early and live a comfortable life together but comments he rather have her work a cashier job "for the principle"Men will say 'what about male victims of domestic abuse????' to derail conversations and shut women up and then THIS is what they meant by abuse. Not being a good enough workhorse bangmaid hybrid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 11:53 AM |
| 17 | NVM's wife raised the kids and managed their home for nearly two decades yet he resents her for not working? Feels like an abuse victim?? He has the option to retire early and live a comfortable life together but comments he rather have her work a cashier job "for the principle"I think the problem with situations like this is as much as we can recognise the value of domestic/reproductive labour, society simply does not. Women should be able to spend their lives as SAHM exclusively if they want to, but with society the way it is it's strategically a terrible option because of how vulnerable it makes you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 11:46 AM |
| 10 | Women aren't funnyThe fact that they find smart women LESS attractive is hilarious. How fragile do you have to be to literally want to exclusively date dumb people so that you can feel like the smart one??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 03:32 PM |
| 54 | ‘I Want a Wife’ by Judy Syfers Brady - Ms Magazine, December 1971'Traditional marriage' is indentured servitude | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 08:15 AM |
| 3 | The "bed nest" post that was mentioned in the podcastWhen I heard this mentioned on the podcast I assumed that the nest was just like a pile of laundry on a bed? But this is so much worse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 12:57 PM |
| 17 | Sigh.I honestly think this is by design. Most guys probably know social cues to differentiate when a woman is interested in them and when she is just being friendly, but pretend not to be able to tell the difference. This way, they can feel justified in getting angry at women who 'lead them on' when truly the only crime she committed was rejecting them. It's learned social obliviousness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 08:20 PM |
| 65 | The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of menIt's like saying that workers who quit when their employer treats them badly are somehow being manipulative because the boss needs them to work for the business to run. Women have the right not to date any person for any reason, even if that means that guys who refuse to treat women well can't get partners. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 09:23 PM |
| 401 | The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of menI think a central point of a lot of what the women here believe is that no relationship is better than any bad relationship. If women following FDS never find a suitable partner then they are happy to engage in every other fulfilling aspect of life that doesn't require a man. Nobody is being imposed upon, nobody is being forced to buy us things or treat us well, nobody is being forced to commit to us. Men who don't want to buy us dinners can just opt not to date women with standards. If this hap… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 02:52 PM |
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