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Just because your parents don't love you doesn't mean that everybody's don't. I also don’t give fathers who actually parent their kids any thought at all, You literally don't give a shit. FUCK OFF!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 06:46 PM
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So you just hate men, children, and fatherhood. Got it. If you don't want to be a mom you shouldn't spend this much time talking about parenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:11 AM
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Yeah Dads suck lol >_< -- This Sub
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 08:16 PM
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Why aren’t fathers stepping up? I'm not sure if you are aware but you yourself are participating in a psychological operation to demotivate men. Literally, all of the bickering comments on this sub do everything to benefit foreign powers, corrupt forces and giving up and walking away. What man would want to remain a useful idiot in such a society? Who would want to step up to the plate and take one for the team? Men will gladly give up their lives and bodies for your cause if you even pretend to…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 07:46 PM
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Capitalists hate this fact, but markets can remain irrational for centuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 07:42 PM
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I don't know how you support the title of your post by the body. What spurs wonder in me and what I find terrible don't occupy the same space in my mind. The only positive example you illustrated was community care and child upbringing but the tone of this doesn't seem to be written towards anyone who wants to live in a mixed community with elderly folks and children and men and women happy together. Final Grade: B-
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 09:29 AM
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I'm down for changing the narrative but there's gotta be at least a handful of people on board. Short kings rule, quiet is cool, dads are the best, etc. I dunno things could change pretty fast. (Considering this is all in our collective imagination.)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 02:01 AM
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Step-dads are highly disrespected in our culture so any man who does feel that way and chooses that path will have an extra burden to shoulder on top of not taking the easy route.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 01:52 AM
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I want to let you know as a tall man I find your username highly offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:48 PM
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As of 2022, single women own 58% of homes by unmarried Americans, compared to 42% for single men. I know this is stupid, but just to point out how far our culture has drifted, the English word "husband" is from Old English "house bond," literally, home owner. So in a way the language we are using presupposes certain things that are no longer true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 07:35 PM
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Grandma starts by writing "It was the night I slept with 14 men that I first started to try to work out how many partners I’ve been with. The truth is, I’m not sure." I had to stop reading there so I don't kill myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:34 AM
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Yeah, I mean you can tell someone to shut up if they say racist things and they'll just go somewhere to say them. If you dig deep into why they randomly hate entire groups of people based on immutable traits, learn about their struggles and POV, and take a very *very* soft approach, that's the only way I've seen it defused. Hate comes from fear and anxiety, which stems from lived experience, and ignorance is what lets us project our anxieties and fears onto innocent third parties. This is a very…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:57 AM
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I was personally thinking of racism, because I've been spending too much time on 4chan, but it's universally applicable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:50 AM
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I guess I don't know what "funny offtopic" means heh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:56 AM
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You can't convince anyone to choose love until you understand why they've chosen hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:52 AM
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I'm divorced. My ex-wife has tons of health issues which I am glad to no longer worry over. And I have no daughters, I don't intend to have any more children. I mean, it's painful for me to have to relay this because I am a really empathetic person. I give to charity. I care about people. Even above sister, I call her. But at some point, I can't let these things drag me down. I have to focus on myself. why I chimed in Q4M, I have a relevant POV, and there were no comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:18 AM
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I have never lived in the same home as them since they graduated high school. They don't even call me, ever. So no, it's not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:00 AM
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I know almost nothing about these and I grew up in a predominantly female household. I've always been curious about anything and everything. But after a while of being scoffed at, I decided you can keep your secrets then. I asked "what is this commercial for?" to a pads advert and the only answer I got was a dismissive sigh... Oh, and my sister does have endometriosis. Not my problem I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:33 AM
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He thought you were buying a house to live in it. A rental property is definitely more of an asset, compared to your domicile, which is more like a liability. Anyway, sounds fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:19 AM
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Some men are more competitive than others; if they're really busting your balls, they're probably expecting you to dunk on them on something else. Bizarre example that I think kind of relates -- I noticed comedians who tell racist jokes tend to have more diverse friends. Sometimes humans bond through banter. If it's not your vibe, that's fine, too. Some members of society become philosophers, others become warriors. Or balding pot-bellied rabblerousers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:15 AM
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You should call it the sleeper virus if you believe these people are lacking awareness of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:09 AM
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lol whoops I deleted it no I'm just beyond words about a multitude of things but I can see that too
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:28 PM
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Pffffffffffffffft.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:26 PM
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As someone who recognizes the bible as a work of fictions, that's no more convincing then Gaia being Mother Earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:22 PM
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Bill Hicks - https://youtu.be/KgzQuE1pR1w&t=6s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:05 AM
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Why not? I had specific negative experiences at an impressionable age that broke my trust and I observed that it led me to pursue relationships that did further damage to my self-esteem. Guys have universally been more empathetic to my situation outside of 1-2 trustworthy counselors and a good friend. So actually, no, I am not blaming women as a class. I am blaming specific individual women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 06:45 PM
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100% agree and I believe this starts in childhood. Many dismissive mothers and siblings out there create insecure men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:23 PM
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Life is better when your kids are in it. I know a mom who lost custody and became suicidal as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:56 PM
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And the majority of suicides after divorce are fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:33 PM
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The way child support should work is as a get-out-of-work free card for the mother and and a crippling burden for the father. If he abandons the family or gives up on life, that's by design.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:32 PM
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There's that job market.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 06:31 AM
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Many men have been brainwashed to bend over backwards for women and this can only be interpreted as "patriarchy." It feels mentally abusive, to be quite frank.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 06:29 AM
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Does anyone else feel like they're running out of things to give up on?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 06:27 AM
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Cool, I guess it's a difference of opinion then. For my part, I'm done with dating completely because I don't see any aspect of my life that could be improved with another woman along for the ride. And I'm not interested in sex, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 06:22 AM
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Some women do really well being "one of the guys." Women who don't use femininity/romance as their channel of engagement around dudes. Another exceptional case: people you grew up with. But I think more often than not there are conflicts of interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 06:19 AM
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Why not just call it "the system" then instead of 'patriarchy.' The in-group out-group double-hypnosis theory is straining to credibility and unproductive to any concrete action.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 06:16 AM
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I'm just reading this thread and I'm confused if this misunderstanding is deliberate or not? It seems like you're playing that a man could say "I am looking for a woman who pays to take me out. She can pay to have the opportunity to try to convince me to like her" and that this would 1) be a rational opinion to hold and 2) this would work to his advantage in the long run. I'm scratching my head here because I cannot even imagine such a universe existing and the parity gap here is pretty indicati…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 06:06 AM
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I think many people are rushing to escape someone they don't love and find it happening again and again because that one person is themself. This is youth fiction, but I think the Ender's Game quote lands: In the moment when I truly understand my enemy, understand him well enough to defeat him, then in that very moment I also love him. I think it’s impossible to really understand somebody, what they want, what they believe, and not love them the way they love themselves. In the same vein, it's i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 05:51 AM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:19 AM
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A corollary to this, as much as it is expressed as a put-down, the men saying these things are actually viewing it as equal treatment. And the reason these men want women to feel bad over being alone or unattractive, is because these same men have felt bad over being alone and unattractive for many years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:12 AM
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Quick question: Do you know what your personality type is or anything like that? You sound like a catch and I would love to know any hints for sussing out women like yourself. Or maybe I should just find a woman who works in counseling or something. I will say, I have seen that compassion in a professional setting from the best therapists I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:54 AM
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Oh my gosh. Your example just reminded me of my hypochondriac ex who always tries to one-up any pity party.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:52 AM
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Mature, intelligent, empathetic and compassionate individuals can choose to express love and kindness when it is right and necessary. Others? Probably not even within the realm of possibility. Not in a culture that publicly professes "me first." You need to be able to critically dissect and reject social conditioning to get past that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:47 AM
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I've always worn my heart on my sleeve. Maybe this is why my sisters and I have never been close or gotten along, even after decades. Anyway, I wouldn't change who I am to placate someone, not even my immediate family. And guess what? It's fewer Christmas cards I have to send. I feel bad for the little nieces and nephews but I don't know why they'd want gifts from an Uncle they don't even recognize, and I know nothing about them since my siblings don't think lil' bro is worth the time of day 364…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:42 AM
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Psychologically, it holds water. Some fetishes emerge (or remain hidden) because of the experiences we have (or don't have). Honestly, I would have preferred my partner say, "I'm gonna bang this guy because I think he's hotter than you," than for her to lie to me for years and years while doing pantomime theater. And so I wonder, do I have a cuckold fetish? Maybe on some level I wished I did, because of what I've seen. I noticed that I was drawn toward role-reversal material as a young adult bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:26 AM
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Thanks for doing it though. As someone who is just now trying to get fit I am better served by having realistic expectations, otherwise I'll just give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:04 AM
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Both can be true, and more than likely, are. The conscious and the subconscious mind are often at odds with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 02:29 AM
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There's a certain nuance that is lost over time in communication. People learn by imitation so when someone starts out sarcastically saying something, another person may come to believe its true. I think especially younger people are more impressionable. Gotta think about the trends we set more seriously sometimes. Especially with how strong social feedback is and how great the amplification can be on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 02:21 AM
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I scored near perfect on the ACT/SAT and I feel really, really, really really stupid most of the time. Usually when I ask myself "why do people do that?" or "why can't we get along?" but also when I look at my finances, personal relationships and my quality of life. This is to say... I don't really even want to argue any conclusion. I would simply like to believe that anything about life could improve some day. * One way we can do that is by trying to understand different points of view. One way…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 02:14 AM
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This is what breaks my suspension of disbelief. How am I gonna submit to someone who doesn't have more comprehensive opinions about foreign policy, copyright law, or why Thanos was right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:15 AM
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I totally feel this way. Women have become very aggressive and it makes it much harder to be romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:25 PM
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Women have become very aggressive and it makes it much harder to be romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:25 PM
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Here's a great video on body language and social interaction for anyone feels awkward at times: https://youtu.be/VHUrdELKjDw
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 09:27 PM
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Doesn't really follow from this song lol but my favorite genre would be instrumental progressive metal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 02:05 PM
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Sometimes our society maligns groups that they find difficult to understand as a way to integrate conflicting feelings. Like I got called gay 52 times growing up as a just a normal straight dude. Ironically that builds tolerance over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:43 PM
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This is a good song for vibes. https://youtu.be/enJgAKUV9H0
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:41 PM
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Appreciate it. The reason I come here and grapple with these ideas is because I know there must be more to the picture than what I've seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 06:37 PM
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I thought this too, so I made some crafty things like an engraved wine glass and a carved wooden heart picture frame. "What is this garbage" ugh never again. Just kidding, crafts are fun and I still like the things I made. Someone better will come along, surely.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 06:31 PM
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Most guys would and she'd probably still turn them down because thyroid disorder tends to make one a moody and withdrawing person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 06:28 PM
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Topping from the bottom is awkward as shit. It's also fucking awkward as hell when a woman wants to wear the pants in a relationship all the time. Like my ex. She was a wee bit older than me and still believes she has the greatest knowledge and judgement in the entire world. Doesn't matter if she flunked out of community college or that I pay her bills and had to co-sign for her to rent a townhouse. That #BossBitch energy is undefeated. Not to say that getting kinky isn't fun or that social chan…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:37 PM
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Perhaps I should just accept the leadership of men who think I’m not as smart or capable as them. You could do that, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:34 PM
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You're right but I don't blame myself. I blame the mods for pinning two threads that both include "N COUNT" in the title.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:02 PM
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If your love language is any of these, you're missing out by being single words of affirmation quality time physical touch acts of service But if your future partner's love language is receiving gifts That doesn't even sound like love
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 10:36 AM
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Do you remember a few years ago when this virus emerged that overwhelmingly affected the elderly with virtually no impact on young adults or children? We closed every single school. My child was going to Kindergarten over Zoom. Not a single politician or media personality brought an ounce of attention to children or families. My grandparents in Florida continued going out with friends and didn't wear masks or care, and we literally stopped the world to give their generation a couple more years o…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 10:31 AM
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Yeah it was a parasocial internet thing. Working on more applications so fingers crossed I find something soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:26 AM
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My parents are supportive but they're over a thousand miles away. I'll keep trooping for my kiddo, he's the best part of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:25 AM
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Thanks man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 11:50 PM
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I feel like I'm reaching the end. After I blocked the woman from Las Vegas who was siphoning all my worth, I still have the ex-wife drawing blood from my corpse like a vampire. The job prospects are not good, my debt is high, and now the bitch queen wants to abscond out of state with our child. I can't handle all this legal shit, signing up for food stamps, applying for jobs and trying to get unemployment all while feeling like an absolute worthless piece of shit. Good thing I spent 10,000 hours…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 11:48 PM
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A voice in the heavens cried out, "Let the gender roles be destroyed," And lo, the salaries did drop. And lo, none in the home could cook a meal, The mortgage was unpaid, And the credit cards, For there was none among you Who knew the payment plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:57 AM
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Incompetence is worse than malice or conspiracy. Social justice is not a problem. The stagnancy of reform is the problem. Unless you believe the freest country on earth should have the largest incarcerated population of any nation in history in total numbers and percentage, America is in real distress.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:00 AM
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That's the difference between the past generations and the future ones. The past are really obsessed with perpetuating suffering while the younger generations really want to work hard to improve things for everyone, everywhere. But yeah, keep on that. I'm sure that's all great news for the continuing disintegration of society. GenX is the most checked out generation for a reason and it is partially because Boomers are the most selfish generation of all time. They continue to hold the reigns of o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:43 PM
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Indeed, times are very tough for young people, men, the disadvantaged. Just look at the incarceration rate, for one, or wealth disparity, the erosion of real wages, rising cost of shelter, healthcare, etc. There's no picnic to be had here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:27 PM
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Your flair is incredibly accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:30 AM
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Seems like us guys are having a lot of anxiety around relationships whether we are in them or not. Not sure what to say about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:03 AM
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1% it would be really weird if it happened without trying when it's the lowest priority item on my list.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 09:23 AM
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A lot of these women are bad at finances so they don't necessarily save anything in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 09:18 AM
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Thank you. Validation actually does help people like me to know that we aren't wrong for wanting basic rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:55 AM
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My ex-wife does everything she can to try to get me to abandon my child. It's fucking disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:32 AM
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I pay $3000 a month in child support. I just broke up with a woman who was in the habit of asking me for thousands of dollars a month. I dunno...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:07 AM
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Nevermind if I was agreeing with you... anyway, I know many women either married or divorced who are quite glad to have had their kids, and while some of their partners were dicks, none were purity focused naggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:01 AM
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While we do this, can we also improve the criminal justice system? If you are going to incorporate an Orwellian database of genetics, we should resolve the fact that the US has the most incarcerated individuals who have not had a trial. And then can we also overhaul the child support system? Eliminating things like child support burdens for unemployed or impoverished parents and supplementing those systems with welfare funds? Eliminating things like jail time for contempt of court due to non-pay…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:57 AM
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I think it's down to the partner. There's plenty of guys who go for moms and cougars, which debunks 100% of this side argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:51 AM
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I want to burn C# but they made me write Java for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:12 AM
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Right. It turns out the better dating advice for men (and women too I guess) is to recommend folks improve themselves in the ways they see best, investing in confidence and the future, and developing better standards for partners. We should also encourage people to be resilient to rejection and probably also denounce superficial norms. Anyway, that's how you would find someone who is a good match and get them to take you seriously. For me, I don't think it's worth my effort or focus right now. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:05 AM
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I said yes to all these types of women under the same pretense of quality time. Now I'm very broke and very single, pretty disillusioned as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 11:56 PM
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No, but I slayed Terminids and Voteless then made a new MtG deck.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 09:15 AM
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Decades late entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 09:14 AM
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I'm going to really start applying now. I needed to take a break for a couple months from Java hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 09:12 AM
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I think I'm the victim of discrimination but I'm a white guy so I don't care I guess. I was at a tech company with all visa staff. They laid me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 09:09 AM
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Y'all make up the wildest things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 10:54 PM
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Sure, my family members who have had spine surgeries are "fictitious" and being grossly over-weight is "healthy." Can I go now?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 10:52 PM
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That is only a normal healthy weight if she is 8.5 months pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 10:49 PM
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Look, I'm not trying to shame anyone, but as a dude who was fat most of his life, who has a large family of "large" people... that's just untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 10:45 PM
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Sure, if you're over six feet like me, it's a normal weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 10:40 PM
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These men appear as if they are trying to enter their first relationship. Honestly, I think guys like that will only have a chance with terrible women because I think only manipulators and narcissists wouldn’t find that type of behavior off-putting. Sounds like the type of experience that would make someone bitter and change their behavior going forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:36 AM
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It gets tiring, doesn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 12:10 AM
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How I've felt for decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 09:42 PM
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You're already smarter than an A.I. because you asked a follow-up question. 0% of LLMs have this capability.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 10:00 PM
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Nice. Back to solder tech!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:58 PM
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Humans will remain at the forefront of science by continuing to ask stupid and ambiguous questions with no real answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:56 PM
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People who write code do not just sit in a box and program all day. No, I spent most of my time at the vending machine, day-dreaming. That's why I'm sweating bullets.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:52 PM
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You misunderstand Gödel's Second Incompleteness Theorem. There are mathematical truths that have no proof, but can only be proven if you have a Turing machine that runs for infinite length of time. No thinking being, meat or machine, can resolve that paradox. For another example, just ask for the Busy Beaver number BB(10100). Calculating this figure would involve simulating several machines larger than the universe if every atom in the universe were replaced with another universe. If you're scar…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:49 PM
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You realize you are training your replacement, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:43 PM
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No, it's an uncomputable function. Read more Gödel and Turing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:41 PM
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Ask it for the set of sets that don't contain themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:26 PM
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I can tell you that as a 6'0" man, I was once regarded as tall, I have been told that I am short. Back to using people as armrests my guy. Used to drive my sisters crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:10 AM
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That's because you're not divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:07 AM
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For contrast blue pill would be: Love happens - it's like magic. Just be yourself! Things will happen when you least expect it. Marriage is a great idea and will totally work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:22 AM
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Folks seem to be very confused as to what the red pill is so let me break it down in simple terms. Red pill says: Life is not a fairy tale. There are specific and measurable goals that men can take to improve themselves. Self-improvement is the best way to get better dating outcomes. There is really no benefit to offering exclusivity or commitment in the modern world. That's pretty much it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:16 AM
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Well enjoy your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:13 AM
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? Being able to travel alone without fear? Yes, good point. Men are much more likely to be victims of violent crime wherever they go.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:54 PM
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What's with these dudes larping as women to make their threads? Clearly, a western woman would not parrot TRP points like a frat-bro. Nice try though, gents.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:52 PM
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Obviously men don't have to worry about period cramps or dying in childbirth, but pretty much every other thing you could be concerned about, men have worse outlooks than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:15 AM
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It's not just aggression. With the sentencing disparity gap and being treated with kid gloves in the legal process, women lack awareness of legal ramifications for actions. In the original post, as described by the OP, the first actual crime was her assaulting a drunk man. If her boyfriend stepped in to play out whatever fantasy she had in mind, he could've spent more than a night in jail, apart from the risk of getting stabbed others have mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:32 AM
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-Plato
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 02:50 AM
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You've gotta conquer your doubts by setting yourself up as something cool. You're like a Cyborg, man!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:00 AM
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My Mom stays in touch, which I appreciate. That's about it. I like that my sisters have their lives put together. They make it look easy, because, really it is. My cousins are pretty normal as well. I'm single so I don't have a partner, but thinking of past partners, I really enjoyed the simple things. Trading music on a USB stick or playing Skyrim all afternoon, walking around to get burritos, going to the zoo. So: friendliness I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:47 PM
1

Never. What are the odds a random woman would have anything in common with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:04 AM
1

I made my first 3D video game when I was ten years old. I was working as a computer programmer before I had my driver's license. In college I played drums in a rock concert in a radioactive part of Japan. I've come way too far to be put down by the shitty circumstances I'm in caused by cowardly idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:34 AM
1

Being smart and horny is hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 07:06 AM
6

I, too, mentally program myself to enjoy the horrible reality that sets before me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:35 AM
1

Sounds like B.S. You're saying you wouldn't jump on a hot homeless man?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:34 AM
1

Help me brigade my ex's sub c'mon PPD show up for your insolent celibates.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:31 AM
1

I should have said succubus.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:28 AM
1

I'm on meds, I've have had a psychiatrist for a decade. Finding a good counselor though, that's hard. The last one I saw had full on dementia. Could not remember my name or really grasp what an adult in his 30's might be grappling with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:22 AM
1

I dunno, I'm trying to find an interesting person who isn't a piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:21 AM
2

They're churchy, hypocritical and judgemental so it usually just gives me a headache.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:18 AM
1

My n count is 3 and somehow I have this much drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:15 AM
1

Appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:12 AM
1

No, I didn't marry the prostitute. I married a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:04 AM
1

Oh my god I wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:02 AM
1

I didn't expect much until she divorced her husband. Then I got too invested.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:01 AM
1

Don't worry, she's still a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:00 AM
1

hahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahaa 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:58 PM
2

It's sad. My greatest gifts are intangible but folks only want my assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:54 PM
2

I mean there's something about having complete strangers dissect my poor decisions that's sobering. Why I've waited so long to bring up my issues here. Good God, asking my family for advice, that's wishing pain upon myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:53 PM
1

Which is hilarious because I'm devoted to living a modest and humble existence. I don't give a shit about money at all. I've dreamed of living as a Tibetan monk since I was 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:50 PM
1

I can actually explain that. I'm chronically single, not really a conventional guy, and after spending a couple hundred bucks on Tinder and Bumble and Hinge and all of those I couldn't even get a decent date or conversation. So when I started throwing money at OnlyFans models, the fact they treated me like a person really sucked me in hard and fast. I have a martyrdom complex as it is. My first wife has older boys and I helped her with legal trouble with her first husband. I guess first girlfrie…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:46 PM
1

I mean usually asking for a little bit a time. Promising to pay it back. And alluding to returning to sex work as the only option if I didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:36 PM
2

She makes me want to kill myself all the time so I don't know that strategy there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:36 PM
1

Nominally it's child support but since she has virtually no income she uses it as alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:28 PM
2

It's par for the course. I still owe my ex-wife $490k over the coming nine years.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:21 PM
6

https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/18vwa6j/daily_community_chat_megathread/kfvf67c/ Since they depleted of my life savings and continued not to return my calls, I don't think this person is my soulmate anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:18 PM
3

Yes we can, change you believe in.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:05 AM
1

I am glad you had fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 03:36 PM
1

**as she stood, head-back I see I need a better editor still.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 03:33 PM
1

I'm a Carnival disaster waiting to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 03:18 PM
1

It's good then you give with the blood of an artist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 02:59 PM
1

Takes one to know one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 02:02 PM
1

⠀⠀⠀"I just want to have fun tonight," she said. Her long red hair covered the nape of her neck in a flowing silvery dress. She was luscious; her bright- eyes, young, darkened, cast about--for what she had not found, yet. Silver-ish blue and teal, the stainless-steel bar fountain, reflecting from her drinking glass, met her eyes as she finished her water. Setting it down, "and can I have some more ice, please?" she asked expectantly. The bartender nodded from down the side of the bar, drying mugs…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 12:18 PM
1

It is a hugely cerebral and emotional thing, yes. We have plans to get together in the next 7 months that involve international travel and new experiences for both of us. If I wanted it to work, short-term, I would have been on her doorstep with a boombox a long time ago, and she would have had to have bailed me out of jail by now. She's meaningful enough to me to do things the right way. And you can't go to Canada with any DUI's, so I'm on my best behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 11:01 AM
1

I feel, upfront, yes, that's not out-of-line. But ya never really know where you're gonna find someone special and important.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:02 AM
2

Sure, I already have kids, so I'm not looking to have more right now. She has an extremely fast-paced career and I work hard as well. Best way I can explain it is... we both have a full Sundae already and just need that cherry-on-top. We are both young, as well, so there's ample opportunity on the horizon. More than that, we are old souls.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:41 AM
2

Then I'd just wait longer because what we have is phenomenal and I'd like to go the distance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:31 AM
1

Yes, this really resonates.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:19 AM
2

Cheers, that's useful knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:09 AM
2

She is 1700 miles away and we've been together maybe two months. We will be apart for a few more months, at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:08 AM
1

That seems to be the conventional wisdom, but we've been texting buddies for years and just now moving toward seeing each other in person. I just really love her presence in my life and try my best with things the other way. Honest, I've never met anyone like her. I don't think she's met anyone like me either. So I don't really worry about survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:07 AM
1

What's everyone's best tips for success in a long-distance relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:58 AM
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Ah, yeah, that's good. Actually sent me down a rabbit-hole into some movies I saw Before. Mmm yeah thinking hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 01:49 AM
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Q4W: What do you find charming in suitors?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:38 AM
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I'm doing it y'all, I'm still in it to win it! I found the coolest girl in the universe, and she thinks I'm the coolest dude in the universe. Things couldn't be simpler than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 11:44 PM
1

I like this plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:17 AM
1

The last purchase was a shiny new guitar.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 11:14 PM
1

I'm at a masculine 55%
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 11:12 PM
2

I already did lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 11:11 PM
3

Anyone have personal finance advice? I just maxed out all of my cards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:51 PM
2

I met her online on a niche platform. We had a shared interest and began chatting right away, starting three years ago this month. I feel she is the one for me because we grow together and support each other through anything and everything. And I think she is my soulmate because thinking of her inspires me to live my best life, with or without her by my side. It's a really freeing feeling and not one I expected to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:45 AM
1

She
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 08:32 PM
1

Found my soul-mate AMA.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:45 PM
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So what do you do when you find your soulmate?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:41 AM
1

You dropped this: /s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:41 AM
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Definitely not the case. Virgin women are not out there throwing themselves at men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:21 PM
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𓆉𓇼
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:21 PM
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yolo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:20 PM
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Holy ship, I fell in love and she loves me back!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:41 AM
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