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That's called lying by omission and I disagree with it. Healthy relationships are built on mutual trust and communication. If OP doesn't feel like this man can accept a past that she has left behind, then that's something that should be discussed with him. Building a relationship based on secrets and shame is not good for anyone involved.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/26 09:29 PM
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If you're okay with it, genuinely, and he isn't controlling in a way that harms you (isolating you from friends and family, encouraging unhealthy habits such as extreme dieting, etc) then who tf cares? It's your relationship and what anyone else says doesn't matter.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/26 09:23 PM
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In order for us as a society to move on from this mindset, I believe we have to adjust what we tolerate and reward. Most people who claim victimhood rather than taking responsibility do it because they have been raised to beleive that they will be rewarded for their pain with special attention. This disincentivizes meritocracy, and it makes the 'victims' uncomfortable when they're faced with objective merit-based criteria for acceptance.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/26 09:06 PM
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While I think this is a valid perspective and valuable information for OP, it's important to remember that each man is different and has different reasons for what he does. He is the only one that can truly answer that question.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/25 03:46 PM
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Since everyone else has suggested making sure your values and needs align, I'll just say that I agree with them. That's your choice. If you decide that it's worth it to stick with him, I think it's important to communicate with him and try to find a compromise. It's important to involve him in your struggles so that you can work through them together rather than feeling like you're alone in it. I'm sure that he finds it difficult as well, which is probably why he's so devout about it. Bonding ov…
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/25 03:42 PM
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I know this isn't exactly what you had in mind, but if you want something that you and your man can watch together and discuss, I suggest checking out Robert Sapolsky's Stanford lecture series about evolutionary biology. He spends a lot of time going over the differences between men and women, the science behind certain behaviors, and the reasons for certain inherent dynamics. The series is not solely focused on male/female differences and relationships, but it plays a big role. He's extremely g…
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/25 02:45 PM
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The reason you are attaching yourself to this one man and overthinking this is because you don't think you can pull someone like him. I know this because I've been there. Before I met my husband, I matched with this incredible guy with a PhD, amazing sense of humor, similar interests... And I blew it because I thought he was out of my league, which he wasn't. I didn't value myself enough and he very kindly said that he wasn't interested in seeing me again, and I agreed that I wasn't ready. I sug…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/25 02:29 PM
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I was pretty much in the same boat through my 20s. Excruciating depression and untreated PTSD, couldn't get much of a job, couldn't attend college because of financial reasons, etc. I absolutely felt like I was wasting everything I had going for me as a really smart and above average looking woman, because the depression alone made it impossible to care for myself in a way that allowed those things to shine through. Went through a very ugly first marriage. Now I'm in my early 30s and living the …
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/25 02:01 AM
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Lol I only shop at thrift stores, so I wish I could provide links. However! I suggest learning about how to dress yourself and simply applying those bits of knowledge to everything you wear. For example: I have a soft gamine body type with a warm/neutral skin tone, and I select a very specific style of clothing that creates a very personalized style. I don't buy things just because I like them, I buy them because they fit those three criteria. Every single thing I wear, including my lounge cloth…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/25 09:53 PM
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I agree with the assertion that most happy couples don't really want to talk about the underlying reasons for their dynamics. People struggle to open up about the insecurities that fuel motivation. I relate to your experience; before my husband I dated a few guys that I was frankly embarrassed by, and id usually rather not bring up the embarrassing past relationships that make me appreciate what I have now.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/25 09:45 PM
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I've been with my husband for a long time and pretty much everyone in our life thinks we have a 'perfect' marriage. However, that's not through luck, it's because we understand the synergy between men and women, and we build our relationship around that; it pretty much all comes down to respect and mutual attraction. The foundation of a good marriage is a woman's respect for the man, the man maintaining that respectability, and the woman putting at least minimal effort into the way she looks. As…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/25 12:47 AM
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