Starburst9507 Archive

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1	What’s the psychological reasoning behind this behavior? Idk it seems more like a changing of mind as the night goes on. They say they won’t have sex, they see you’re respectful of that decision, and all it does is make it easier for them to trust you and relax with you. A woman who trusts you and is relaxed with you gets turned on much more easily. As a woman gets turned on she gets more interested in sex. This is my take as a woman. It doesn’t mean they’re lying or testing you at the beginning, though they could be, it could just mean you end up mak…	/r/seduction	12/07/22 01:26 AM
49	You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sex Idk as a woman I love it when the tension builds. You want each other so bad until eventually you explode in fiery passion and just throw yourselves at each other. 🤷🏼‍♀️	/r/seduction	07/02/22 09:33 PM
4	As a woman you can’t seduce me by flirting if I’m not attracted to you : I’ve known way too many men who were gross once you got to see how they took care of themselves behind closed doors. It’s too common to find men who don’t keep themselves clean in even basic ways. I get hit on by men who obviously haven’t showered or brushed their teeth or give a rats ass about their clothes or appearance. So I think it’s valuable advice but whatever	/r/seduction	31/01/22 09:07 PM
2	My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend material You’re relating sex with a hookup to “prime time” or a “bonus” and getting to be in a whole relationship the short end of the stick. This baffles my mind. Go have tons of casual sex then, plenty of women will do it. But if you want a relationship it seems strange to think that her wanting to get to know you better because things seemed promising is somehow a loss. You get to have plenty of sex with her in a relationship and the one night stands only got to hit it once. How did they win? Where wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/22 05:22 AM
1	When is explicit(verbal) consent ever given by women for initial intimacy(touching and kissing). Is this practiced in reality? Plenty of couples’ “meet cute” stories are gross to me. It’s not always that cute. Edit: I would also like to add that those kind of meet cute situations seem to be rare for the average person, if they weren’t, life would be a Hollywood rom com for the majority of people. It’s better to assume in those contexts that it’s not a good time to try and hit on someone, that’s just a numbers/probability fact right there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/22 05:17 AM
1	When is explicit(verbal) consent ever given by women for initial intimacy(touching and kissing). Is this practiced in reality? I don’t want to get into everything you mentioned but one point I can respond with is that context matters at least. I don’t want my boss to make a flirtatious comment to me, when I’m working I don’t want customers to try and comment on my body parts and call it a “compliment,” if I’m clearly with my girlfriends laughing together at a bar I don’t want to be hit on. Context matters and it happens far too often that I, and many other women, get “initiated upon” by men in contexts where it should b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/22 08:51 AM
-1	My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend material The idea that’s a problem is you see her having casual sex as a “reward” for the man she decided to have casual sex with. There is nothing wrong with wanting to feel good or have fun with someone you can tell won’t be relationship material but is still a fun person. It’s a “reward” for her, if you wanna call it that. Casual sex is fun for both genders. Have you ever had sex with a woman you didn’t wanna marry or date? You should feel great she considered you someone worth getting to know and dat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/22 10:32 PM
2	Is crying a turnoff for you? I am a woman who finds a man capable of that very attractive, my heart feels very emotional and connected to my male partner when he shows signs of vulnerability, emotion or tears. I think he could break down sobbing in front of me and I’d just want to hold him and help any way I can or be supportive. I’d wake up the next day feeling closer to him and just as attracted and in love. It’s happened before for me with male partners. Not everyone is the same but this is my truth one hundred percent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/22 09:26 PM
2	Girl in my class This	/r/seduction	07/10/21 07:19 AM
1	When looking at the top 16 Billionaires, they almost always married much younger women. And if they didn't they almost always got married way before they became rich. I just think saying that rich and hot men are the only ones considered to be high value is wrong. I made myself clear about what I think and feel. I’m just pointing out that you cannot claim all women want the same kind of man and just settle if they can’t get him. It’s simply not true. Even if a man who was a 10 and a billionaire wanted to get with me and marry me for life, I wouldn’t want to be with him unless his values and personality were compatible with my own. I know many women like this …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/21 09:04 PM
3	Got a girls number at the covid vaccination clinic As a woman I’m way more comfortable dating people I’ve found some common ground with. I’m not the rule, I know women who are comfortable with cold approaches but I have a hard time receiving them myself. I’ll be friendly back but it’s hard for me to feel romantic interest until I know a person a little bit at least. This story was lovely to read I hope y’all get that coffee date and it goes well 🥰	/r/seduction	13/09/21 07:38 PM
2	When looking at the top 16 Billionaires, they almost always married much younger women. And if they didn't they almost always got married way before they became rich. I thought your whole argument was that women go for high value men and the “lesser value men” don’t get women? Lmfao proved that wrong though I think my man is very valuable, I can simply recognize that by society’s standards he isn’t a 10. He’s absolutely lovely in my eyes. And about money, woman don’t just go for money, SOME women do. Other women care about substance more, money is nice but not what’s at the top of my list or any of the women I know. You’re just wrong about what women want. SO…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/21 09:11 AM
1	When looking at the top 16 Billionaires, they almost always married much younger women. And if they didn't they almost always got married way before they became rich. Me and my boyfriend have been together just about 6 years, and still goin. We are polyamorous so I don’t just intend to “keep him all to myself” we are definitely lower class and live paycheck to paycheck. We used to hop around friends couches when we first got together and then stayed in a shitty pay by the week motel For a six month stint it was hell. We both work in the food industry and we love each other very much. All of these assumptions about what women want are just so off base. Edit: a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/21 11:53 AM
2	When looking at the top 16 Billionaires, they almost always married much younger women. And if they didn't they almost always got married way before they became rich. Again 10 and less years younger is not a notable age gap. My aunt made tons of money, and my uncle did too. She is 6 years older than him. They’re quite successful and live out in Cali on a huge ranch with their daughter who has her own house on the property with her kids. I’ve always loved visiting cuz it feels like a beautiful vacation on their property out there. Age gap that small isn’t that big of a deal when you’re older. And your ideas about what women value most, as if they’re a fact for…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/21 11:51 AM
1	When looking at the top 16 Billionaires, they almost always married much younger women. And if they didn't they almost always got married way before they became rich. Actually I’d say I’m lower class but me and my partner of nearly 6 years are polyamorous sooo you’re facts are skewed even in that	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/21 11:48 AM
2	When looking at the top 16 Billionaires, they almost always married much younger women. And if they didn't they almost always got married way before they became rich. It’s possible but not advisable or desirable for many reasons, I’m not saying ppl can’t be good parents at that age or that children won’t love them, but I immediately think of how those kids are literally incapable of having their parents for NEARLY as long in their lives. Even if their dad lives to be 100 that would mean the child would lose their parent at 50…and people don’t often live to 100 so yea… My dad had me when he was 40. (He’s ‘55 and I’m ‘95) and all I can say is I’m worried all th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/21 11:46 AM
3	When looking at the top 16 Billionaires, they almost always married much younger women. And if they didn't they almost always got married way before they became rich. This	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/21 10:52 AM
9	When looking at the top 16 Billionaires, they almost always married much younger women. And if they didn't they almost always got married way before they became rich. That’s minimizing it. There are 3 main reasons for divorce, money issues, sex issues, children issues like disagreeing how to care for and raise them. It isn’t just money, there’s what’s known as the big 3.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/21 10:51 AM
18	When looking at the top 16 Billionaires, they almost always married much younger women. And if they didn't they almost always got married way before they became rich. Who tf wants a dad who is 50+ years old when they’re growing up?! Wtf	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/21 10:50 AM
5	Socially and sexually successful women are not impressive Juvenile is right. Glad you aren’t like that, proves men can recognize this bullshit as exactly that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/21 05:59 AM
1	The "household chores distribution" (specifically the cleaning part) debate between men and women boils down to men and women on average having different standards for what constitutes a clean/tidy environment and what constitutes a mess/dirty environment. Do you believe there is any standard that could be deemed the “correct” one? A cleaning standard for homes that isn’t subjective because humanity can agree collectively it is too disgusting to live in otherwise? If woman expects a partner to do that, to do the “correct amount” of cleaning in the “correct time frame,” and he doesn’t, and then she asks him to and he still doesn’t, or he complains as he does do it, is that wrong? Also even if we have every right to break up with someone and find a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/21 06:22 AM
4	So I went on 5 dates today Yea this part irritated me. The way he thinks he knows what the women are thinking and feeling as if he’s a mind reader really irked me. So confident about his own interpretations with no room to consider be could be incorrect, like not even being open minded to the possibility.	/r/seduction	30/06/21 09:12 AM
2	So I went on 5 dates today I’m 25 and it is very disconcerting to me. I’d have a very hard time using dating apps because I wouldn’t trust anyone on the other side of the screen.	/r/seduction	30/06/21 09:08 AM
23	So I went on 5 dates today Thank god that there are some men who do not like this guys vibe	/r/seduction	30/06/21 09:02 AM
1	Want to know one of the best ways to get a good woman (and keep her)? Respect her boundaries! :) Literally. And then they wonder why they don’t get women. Here’s a clue guys, it’s not because you’re nice or weak, it’s because you’re an asshole who thinks being a jerk is somehow manly, because you think you can tell women how they REALLY think and what we REALLY want without listening to a damn word we say. Why be in this sub if you already know how to get women?! 🤦🏼‍♀️	/r/seduction	07/10/20 11:50 PM
1	Want to know one of the best ways to get a good woman (and keep her)? Respect her boundaries! :) Most men I meet do not respect boundaries. Just had a customer tell my 17 year old coworker today that she has a fine ass and should be a stripper while he paid. Disgusting. It doesn’t look like a strong man, just an idiot. A gross idiot.	/r/seduction	07/10/20 11:49 PM
1	Want to know one of the best ways to get a good woman (and keep her)? Respect her boundaries! :) It takes strength, not weakness, to humble yourself. Idk how the man comes across as weak. It’s a meme so It isn’t gonna have the couples entire relationship in the cartoon strip. It’s just an example. Not hugging someone when they say they don’t want to, is simple	/r/seduction	07/10/20 11:47 PM
1	Want to know one of the best ways to get a good woman (and keep her)? Respect her boundaries! :) There’s nothing wimpy about listening to what people say to you and acting accordingly	/r/seduction	07/10/20 11:43 PM
1	Want to know one of the best ways to get a good woman (and keep her)? Respect her boundaries! :) Have you had a healthy relationship? Sometimes people just don’t want to be touched. A healthy relationship does not me “we touching each other every second and nobody complains”	/r/seduction	07/10/20 11:43 PM
1	Want to know one of the best ways to get a good woman (and keep her)? Respect her boundaries! :) This is a beautiful post and you’re fielding questions beautifully. Respect is key. You can’t ask for respect if you won’t give it. You can’t have boundaries you expect someone to respect if you cannot respect the other person’s boundaries.	/r/seduction	06/10/20 10:33 AM
3	Want to know one of the best ways to get a good woman (and keep her)? Respect her boundaries! :) If they don’t talk to you they aren’t the ones for you and you aren’t the one for them. That happens, to everyone.	/r/seduction	06/10/20 10:32 AM
1	Want to know one of the best ways to get a good woman (and keep her)? Respect her boundaries! :) Even if a partner didn’t ask but just gestured that they were coming in for a hug, it is a possibility that every once in a while their partner could respond with “I’m just feeling XYZ and I’m not up for a hug right now but I love you and your hugs” that would be a legit interaction too where boundaries need to be respected. Again it isn’t healthy to withhold affection and touch all the time but boundaries must be respected when they’re made known	/r/seduction	06/10/20 10:30 AM
2	Want to know one of the best ways to get a good woman (and keep her)? Respect her boundaries! :) If they’re bad guys they attract bad women. Maybe they’re hot but I bet those women are awful in some way to be attracted to that kind of energy	/r/seduction	06/10/20 10:28 AM
0	Want to know one of the best ways to get a good woman (and keep her)? Respect her boundaries! :) Why do your boundaries matter and hers don’t?	/r/seduction	06/10/20 10:26 AM
-2	Want to know one of the best ways to get a good woman (and keep her)? Respect her boundaries! :) I have no idea how people downvote something like this 🤦🏼‍♀️	/r/seduction	06/10/20 10:25 AM
1	Want to know one of the best ways to get a good woman (and keep her)? Respect her boundaries! :) You speak the truth they just don’t wanna hear it	/r/seduction	06/10/20 10:24 AM
5	Want to know one of the best ways to get a good woman (and keep her)? Respect her boundaries! :) It is sad how many men follow this subreddit thinking that being a jerk is more attractive to women somehow even though we keep telling them nice guys really do get the girl.	/r/seduction	06/10/20 10:22 AM
-1	Want to know one of the best ways to get a good woman (and keep her)? Respect her boundaries! :) Love it	/r/seduction	06/10/20 10:20 AM
1	For genuine nice guys and noobies Those are very old posts. I find it weird when people want to dig through my post history to try to find a way to diss me lmfao. I am the woman y’all say don’t exist. I love nice guys. I’m turned off by egotistical jerks. I love sex. I want it every day. I initiate sex. I also greatly enjoy for my man to come on to me as well. Not that I should even have to defend myself. Have a good day. 🤦🏼‍♀️	/r/seduction	27/09/20 07:59 PM
3	For genuine nice guys and noobies I am a woman who agrees with this woman. Jerks turn me off. Manipulation and playing games or being fake turns me off. Being over calculated in your actions will turn me off. Every guy here is just gonna have to get over the fact that they will have to find a woman who actually likes them for who they are, no psychological games will get you a happy ending.	/r/seduction	23/09/20 07:07 PM
3	For genuine nice guys and noobies Because dating isn’t supposed to be some psychology game. It’s just supposed to happen naturally. The moment you start trying to math out the best way to get a woman you’re interested in, you’ve already lost the “game” Thinking about how to hack a woman’s psychology is manipulative as hell, and shows true weakness.	/r/seduction	23/09/20 07:05 PM
1	For genuine nice guys and noobies I don’t take nice behavior as weakness. Never get any idea how men think this way 🤦🏼‍♀️	/r/seduction	23/09/20 07:04 PM
0	For genuine nice guys and noobies THANK YOU	/r/seduction	23/09/20 07:02 PM
1	For genuine nice guys and noobies Uhhh...I’m not nice just to be manipulative all the time. Where you get your facts about why women are nice? 🤨 tf	/r/seduction	23/09/20 07:01 PM