StardustIIX Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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7	How do you get ride of the laziness to approach more women while in the talking phase with a woman?? "Scarcity breeds obsession" The more practice you get in with other women, the less obsessed you are when talking to her, plus you'll avoid unnecessary mistakes and keep your game tight. Above all else, if things dont work with this girl you won't feel as devastated because you have options. Live in abundance!	/r/seduction	24/07/25 03:21 AM
3	Should I approach a girl at the pub if she’s there with her family Well let's be honest, no matter what you do or how well you try to make situations as comfortable or pleasant as can be for women..you're always going to creep SOME of them out. Nothing you can do about it. Same goes for the men she's encountered before you. You had nothing to do with that so don't automatically guilt yourself for something you have no control over. It sounds like your intentions are pure so don't worry about awkward moments. Success is not linear, even when you're a master at t…	/r/seduction	20/07/25 03:20 AM
1	Should I approach a girl at the pub if she’s there with her family No offense taken..though I should've been a bit more clear on the part you mentioned. I actually meant bragging rights for himself or in other words a positive highlight for future reference. Like if he sees a girl in a group in the future, he can just reference this incident and have the confidence to do it.	/r/seduction	20/07/25 03:03 AM
2	Should I approach a girl at the pub if she’s there with her family You'll be fine. Practice approaching EVERYONE not just women. The more you do it, the easier it gets. If you can, take improv classes.	/r/seduction	20/07/25 02:44 AM
4	Should I approach a girl at the pub if she’s there with her family I would say go for it. Thatd be a massive win in your book and to them especially the girl signals that you have such high confidence and high regard for yourself. All you really need to keep in mind is, if this girl was someone you already knew, you'd just go up say hi and introduce yourself. You wouldn't get all nervous if this person was a best friend, so think of it that way. To get yourself started just simply say: "Hello everyone, I understand you're having a get together, but (your cue to…	/r/seduction	20/07/25 02:38 AM
1	How does a minority have success with dating? That's in regard to online...I'm referring to IRL. I dont use online dating and for a good reason. It's essentially rigged to keep you hooked and feel hopeless. I hear nothing but bad things for "average" guys that use it..hell I often hear from women that not only do they not take it seriously, they more often than not use it as an ego boost. Stick to approaching women IRL dude. You'll have way more success in the long run and have an added confidence boost on top of it.	/r/seduction	20/07/25 02:16 AM
1	How does a minority have success with dating? Not really. If you're going in with "my race negatively affects my success" then mentally you're going in with a losing mentality. Other people can feel or even see how you treat yourself so if you go in, even on a subconscious level that you're inferior, you'll reap inferior results. But again, people have preferences and on the off chance it's due to race who gives a fuck?	/r/seduction	20/07/25 01:27 AM
5	How does a minority have success with dating? Race shouldn't have anything to do with your success. Sure people have preferences but overall how you feel about yourself and how you handle rejection is what matters most. Looks get your foot in the door, but if you know how attraction works, what to say and how to act you'll far outclass any "flawless 10/10 guy".	/r/seduction	20/07/25 01:10 AM
1	How do I avoid coming off as a creep/weirdo? What should I be saying when I approach? Never feel inferior or feel like you have to walk on eggshells due to your skin color! Congratulations and thank you for wanting to overcome your quiet kid phase of your life. I recall feeling the same way and it feels so liberating to want to express yourself. That being said, before I give advice on what to say, also remember that: You NEVER need anyone's approval, validation or assurance from anyone, that's something that was always within you, therefore you dont need it. Give yourself the ap…	/r/seduction	20/07/25 01:02 AM
1	What is next after an initial open Try getting them to invest. After you do the initial open/cold read and you have their attention try asking a qualifying question. Basically a question that prompts to think about an answer she thinks would impress you like: What's something you secretly wish you could get away with? On a scale of 1-10 how adventurous are you? Tell me, what's your most positive quality? Base it off of things that you think would be engaging to talk about. Challenge/tease her even, like: I bet you have bad taste …	/r/seduction	19/07/25 04:08 AM
1	Girls who trash talk during night game Gotcha. If that's the case you can also: Qualify the girl(s) which is asking her a question that prompts her to reveal something meaningful about herself. Just be sure that you acknowledge what she told you like "really, that's pretty cool"...because if done right she'll be coming from a place of "selling herself" or thinking of ways to impress you/look good. Ex: Yknow we've been having a playful back and forth for a while. I especially like that you're able to take and dish out fun little insul…	/r/seduction	18/07/25 07:46 PM
3	Girls who trash talk during night game I'm a bit confused what your end goal is here. You say you want to just trash talk with them all night and then what, take them home? Always keep in mind is that if they're actively engaging in conversation and NOT finding an excuse to leave, they most likely enjoy your company. It sounds like you already have enough skill to keep conversation going so keep doing what you're doing but you can also prize frame, where every time she gives you shit or tries to get under your skin you can playfully …	/r/seduction	18/07/25 07:08 PM
1	I’ve heard that some men are doing about 50-100 approaches a day, how is that possible? I have a few buddies that actually do this. Now I can't speak for EVERYONE but I've noticed they tend to just go with the motions or do it to meet the quota of "yea, I did 100 approaches 😤". Yet when I see them approaching it just looks like a half assed sort of fake approach and I think that's the result of subconsciously checking out due to the high volume of rejections over time. I on the other hand do as many as Im comfortable ranging from 5-10 per session as I'm a firm believer of QUALITY o…	/r/seduction	18/07/25 06:55 PM
1	Called soft by girls i hook up Easy. Prize frame. Always spin women's playful yet snarky comments aimed to get under your skin as her way of flirting with you. She says you have soft eyes, you spin it into: oh yea? I bet you're really bad at eye contact... Place a bet on how long she can last. When you win you could follow up with "I get it, my gaze is intimidating, you'll catch up" Dont take it so serious dude lol.	/r/seduction	17/07/25 07:16 AM
1	Approached a girl, got her insta but this always keeps happening? What am I doing wrong? Check out the YouTube channel: Dark Needle - It contains easy fixes for the scenario you listed. Shorten your opener! Keep it simple: Excuse me, you just look amazing or whatever attracted you to her...say it with 100% authenticity, because women can instantly sense a bullshit compliment (truth will always set you free) Other than that it seems like you're doing well enough to get contact info, but next time put yourself in a leader ship position by rephrasing "are you free at xyz" to: Tell me w…	/r/seduction	20/04/25 05:10 AM
2	How to approach women at the dance floor Most obviously..just go up and talk to her. Make a fun playful comment/statement..could he as simple as: Hi, I dont know anyone here I just broke out of jail. Can you be my ride home? <- basically something that's silly that she can playfully respond to Ask her to dance. Hell, just go in with no script! Improv it!! Nothing happens, if nothing happens!	/r/seduction	24/11/24 04:52 AM