StarfruitCactus Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	What to do when a friend doesn’t see her value?	SEEKING ADVICE	StarfruitCactus	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/12/19 02:49 AM
12	What would you do in this situation?	ADVICE	StarfruitCactus	/r/RedPillWomen	03/12/19 12:28 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	FDS isn't just cringe, it's actually dangerous, I know because I'm in their Discord Withholding of sex is abusive? bruh	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/20 05:55 PM
1	Schrodinger’s DB I know a guy like that, he peaked in high school as the class clown, and can't understand why people don't like him anymore as they've grown and he hasn't seemed to.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/12/19 10:06 PM
2	oof My boyfriend’s passion is gaming. But because of that passion, he became an amazing coder, was hired by a game dev company, and then went on to be headhunted into a 6 figure position at the age of 23. It’s still his passion (he likes to design games and hopes to eventually start his own gaming company), but it doesn’t come before me, or his responsibilities, or his career drive. Sometimes we play video games together because I’m a bit of a nerd too, but we keep it balanced out with hobbies like …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/12/19 10:02 PM
4	Proud mom plans on NOT telling her son to never hit girls. Looking forward to her daughter-in-law’s exposé on r/JustNoMIL in 15 years. Assuming he’s not living in her basement still because he’s poorly socialized. I think it's a pretty big jump to assume this is going to lead to jail stints. She can teach him that it's ok to defend himself while still teaching him to properly respect women. In fact in an equivalent scenario in an adult situation, the girl would be going to jail here. Let's say a grown man is getting mugged by a grown women with a bat (replacing the paper folders for a bat). I really don't see a problem if he knocks her out to defend himself. It's no where near the equivalent of punching a…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/19 02:49 PM
1	Proud mom plans on NOT telling her son to never hit girls. Looking forward to her daughter-in-law’s exposé on r/JustNoMIL in 15 years. Assuming he’s not living in her basement still because he’s poorly socialized. As far as I can see, she never tells him that he should hit girls outright. She only says that she "won't tell him to never hit a girl." I think those two things are pretty different.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/19 02:36 PM
128	Man (36) mad woman wants to stay friends instead of stepping into his ex wife's shoes. Let's discuss? Wtf does he mean she's trying to have things both ways? She's been very clear: she wants to be friends. Does he not understand what the definition of friendship is? He complains she is keeping him around when it suits her but but he is discarding the friendship when it doesn't suit him. Lol.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/12/19 12:21 PM
20	Is it normal to feel like my boyfriend doesn’t care? Not normal! \| I feel like he's just with me because it's convenient for him If you feel like this then it is likely becuase that's actually the case. He's not delivering what you need, find someone who will. Good luck!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/12/19 08:20 PM
1	What would you do in this situation? Neither of us like the prospect of long distance but we have done it before and gotten through it. He told me that he understands if me leaving first is the best thing for my career and that we could handle the distance again, but I know he would (of course) prefer me to stay with him. He is serious about moving to English speaking country. We know that when we are ready to get married/buy a house/have kids we want it to be in home English speaking province. He already has some offers from compa…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/12/19 11:09 PM
1	What would you do in this situation? Thank you so much for such a thoughtful reply! You made me realize - I'm anxious about him feeling resentful or feeling like I am a burden, but that is my own projection when he has given me zero reason to actually think this. The reminder to communicate was much appreciated, and I'm going to talk to him so that we can find the best way to plan the time together. I absolutely see him as someone I want to spend the rest of my life with and hopefully whatever ends up happening, this will be an opp…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/12/19 10:50 PM