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I hate to say it but these beliefs have been held by certain men for decades. The internet helped the shit hit the fan, though.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 11:33 PM
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Yeah he wasn't operating under the label of redpill, because he was like this before redpill existed. But it's basically the same shit.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/26 03:30 PM
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Ideas/beliefs like: You can and should trick/manipulate women into what you want. Everyone is out to get you and manipulate everyone else so you need to do it to them before they do. Constant power games and ego trips. Flaunt your money, posessions, and physical power. Don't get me started. Traditional families with tradwives is the way to go. But also how dare she not work and not give you money... Constant sexualizing of women and girls. Pedophilia. Voting republican. Racism and homophobia.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/26 03:12 PM
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I was raised by someone with beliefs very similar to redpill and it was incredibly damaging. Very traumatic.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/26 01:17 PM
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Think about it. Do the opinions of random idiots on the street speak for all men?
/r/ExRedPill27/05/26 09:04 PM
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For the record, it also depends on what you're looking for. Do you just want to have a good time with someone? A short term or not serious thing? Anyone with basic social skills can do that. If you want something more serious, more long term, a future with someone soon, that's something that you need to get your crap together for. Both you and the other person will have to show you are capable and serious about it.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/26 07:57 PM
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Those street interviews are often scripted and/or they pay people to be there who have concerning views.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/26 07:50 PM
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Girls? Or women? At 20, they are women. Not girls. Is it women who are putting this pressure on you? Or is it random internet people? Or is it society in general? What socioeconomic group are you in, and what is the socioeconomic group of the person you're listening to? This is all relevant. You're going to find yourself under pressure from all sorts of directions as you get older. You have to discern for yourself what information is useful and constructive vs what is unhelpful judgement. Some p…
/r/ExRedPill27/05/26 04:46 PM
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Nobody yet has mentioned how it depends on age. If you're an 18 year old, no one expects you to have your entire life figured out. But you can date and have fun anyway. 25ish? You don't have to have your life completely together but you should be on your way to doing so. 30? 40? Older? Yeah you should have your act together by then.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/26 03:37 PM
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Getting rid of social media (or at least starting over with new accounts and completely different content) and meeting as many people as you can irl will make a huge difference. Try this for an extended period of time (months at least) and see how it goes.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/26 12:13 AM
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Dating is about compatibility. You're not compatible.
/r/ExRedPill30/04/26 09:52 PM
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Redpill or blackpill is not the place for that. Go talk to real people in real life.
/r/ExRedPill07/03/26 07:10 AM
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The second that someone uses tik tok as a source, their argument has lost.
/r/ExRedPill07/03/26 07:09 AM
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I bet their wives are unhappy
/r/ExRedPill14/02/26 01:17 AM
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Detox takes time.
/r/ExRedPill05/02/26 01:23 PM
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AI will tell you whatever you want to hear. Not necessarily the truth.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/26 03:02 PM
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Most people your age are very focused on looks because they are immature and don't have the life experience to understand that there's more to dating than looks. Of course 16 year old girls want a handsome guy... it's called being young and dumb. They don't even know themselves yet. Don't let this bullshit define you forever. Seriously, what gave you such terrible self esteem? Because you're going to have to stay away from whatever is doing that to you and heal from it.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/26 04:10 PM
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Bro you're only 16. Everyone your age thinks their life is over already. Most teens are self conscious of their looks in some way or another. But you live and grow anyway. Few people take dating seriously until they are in their 20s, because it's an age range with a huge amount of growth and change. And few people have the attention spans to focus on someone for more than a few weeks or months anyway. You're going to meet so many new people in the coming years. You can't expect to have loads of …
/r/ExRedPill24/01/26 04:05 PM
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I don't even want to encounter people like that on a daily basis... forget about dating them. Eww
/r/ExRedPill24/01/26 03:45 PM
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Eww 🤢
/r/ExRedPill24/01/26 03:42 PM
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Who said anything about creating a fake image or a magical treatment? What are you even referring to?
/r/ExRedPill25/12/25 05:31 PM
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You sound familiar. Did you have an old username "defo18" something?
/r/ExRedPill26/11/25 04:40 PM
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Maybe ditch the redpill and go for a creative writing degree. That sounds like a more productive life goal for you, because it's clear you have a lot to say.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/25 04:05 PM
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I disagree. I've seen too many people be miserable because they try to fit themselves into whatever box society dictates for them.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/25 04:05 PM
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If you don't like it, the last thing you should do is try to adhere harder to those norms. It's destructive. It sounds like you know this. Doubling down is not the answer.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/25 03:34 PM
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Of course there are gendered norms and expectations. But you don't have to follow them and build your self esteem around it.. Nor do you have to write an essay about it.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/25 02:59 PM
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When I was in my teens/early 20s, I didn't care who else was a virgin or not. If anything, dating someone who had a lot of experience would probably have been too intimidating. My first boyfriend after high school also had very little experience and I'm glad. We learned a lot together.
/r/ExRedPill24/11/25 06:33 PM
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Good lord why are you dating this guy???
/r/ExRedPill07/11/25 08:14 PM
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What helps is taking your time. Don't rush into things with people. People who are fake nice on the outside and have shitty intentions typically can't hold it together for too long. The other part is to have some standards and self-esteem. People who don't have any of that will typically stick around shitty people for too long. Learn that it's better to be single than to be putting up with someone's bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/25 03:49 PM
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Read this.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/25 03:44 PM
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None of that is valid in the fields of sociology or psychology.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/25 11:20 AM
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You not being in agreement with someone doesn't make them a liar.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/25 07:25 PM
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Have you tried talking to your parents and getting them to understand? I understand it's difficult but I thought I'd ask.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/25 05:20 PM
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Dude you have issues.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/25 03:40 AM
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Op has a good looking body but he's convinced he's fat and ugly.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/25 03:39 AM
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Post history checks out. Dude, you are very mentally unwell. Please get help.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/25 09:28 PM
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No true scottsman fallacy.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/25 05:01 PM
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If you're this lazy on dating apps, you'll be just as lazy when it comes to real life dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:08 AM
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If you're this lazy on a simple dating app, it's safe to assume you will be equally lazy when it comes to dating someone in real life. Disagree with this all you want. It doesn't matter. This is how it appears to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 09:51 PM
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If nothing that you do matters, then why bother with online dating at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 09:46 PM
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How would you know? Did you read the minds of the women who swiped left on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 09:41 PM
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I always read bios when I used online dating. If a guy didn't have any bio, it was instantly not a match.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 09:37 PM
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I had a friend once and she was tall. Like 6'0 ish. (Her whole family was tall, I think her dad was like 6'5".) It was mostly shorter dudes who were interested in her and that's who she dated.
/r/ExRedPill25/02/25 04:05 AM
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From what I've seen, they mostly ignore gay men and lesbian women. It's like they don't fit into their worldview at all.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/25 12:06 AM
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For what it's worth: I'm a 5'2" woman. My height is very common for women. I think the average USA height for women is 5'4". Even if most women want a guy taller than them... the fact is that for a large number of women, most men are taller than us by default. It's not like we're all 5'10" vixens who insist on 6'4" guys.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/25 12:04 AM
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Why would you say that? If you have so much experience, then my comment is not relevant to you.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/25 08:23 AM
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This post is ancient, lol. If he's so experienced, then my comment is not relevant to him. What a weirdo.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/25 08:22 AM
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?? You sound unhinged.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/25 01:05 PM
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Women are evil liars. Cool. So don't date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:08 PM
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I was raised by someone who had redpill-ish ideas. It was very damaging. It had nothing to do with online coaches, grifters, or influencers. If the results of an ideology are shit, then it's shit. It's not that complicated.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/25 02:03 PM
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Yeah if you're looking for a specific type of person, you will have to get more into detail about that. If not on this subreddit, then at least do more exploring on your own.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/25 11:46 PM
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You should still provide more details. My initial thought after reading your post: the sexual revolution was like 50-60ish years ago. And there's a number of studies floating around right now that say Gen Z is having less sex and socializes less compared to previous generations. I see no evidence that non promiscuous people are less common these days. It might be more difficult to find them, since the internet is flooded with very sexual people and trolls, but it doesn't mean they are all gone. …
/r/ExRedPill22/01/25 10:02 PM
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We need more info from you to answer your questions. If you don't define what you are talking about, how do you expect to find it or avoid it?
/r/ExRedPill22/01/25 02:05 PM
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The misinformation is another one.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/24 10:13 PM
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And yet they wonder why nobody really wants to be around them.
/r/ExRedPill18/11/24 03:15 AM
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Lol nobody has the right to check your public post history, but you have the right to women's bodies? Bro you are fucked up. Get outta here. Edit: lmfao he blocked me.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/24 04:12 PM
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Why do you give a shit what bullies say? Tell them to fuck off, block them, and move on with your life. These bullies you ran into don't speak for those of us on this subreddit. We know these bullies suck. You know these bullies suck. So what's the problem? Do you really expect any of us to agree with that bad behavior?
/r/ExRedPill11/10/24 04:10 PM
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How is this relevant to the discussion here? This is nearly word salad. What are you even talking about?
/r/ExRedPill11/10/24 04:07 PM
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I was raised by someone with similar ideas to redpill. It was fucking damaging. It's not good to raise children that way.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/24 06:38 PM
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Why are you so obsessed with trans people? You've posted this garbage on multiple subreddits. Why do you even give a fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:16 PM
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"I have control over my emotions" says the person who can't change his own mind. You're a clown.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/24 02:26 PM
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Because you're too stubborn. Be like Elsa and let that shit go. Quit reading dumb shit on the internet and go meet more people in real life.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/24 04:26 AM
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Do you want to believe in this garbage or not?
/r/ExRedPill13/09/24 04:10 AM
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You keep proving my point.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/24 02:20 AM
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It's sad how you believe the made-up garbage that people write for fun on reddit. Going off of your comments... you don't know how relationships work. The problem is not women. The problem is your shitty view of yourself and the fact that you project that shit onto women. You're not ready for sex or relationships.
/r/ExRedPill12/09/24 05:13 PM
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Using your own logic.... you are planning on settling in your relationship.
/r/ExRedPill12/09/24 05:11 PM
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Obviously you are looking to point fingers at other people (for problems you made up) to distract from your massive issues. It's not a good look, buddy.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/24 10:15 PM
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Lol bro you have serious issues.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/24 10:14 PM
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I don't think you're here in good faith.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/24 10:12 PM
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Yeah if anything, people might be having less sex these days. The internet seems to be making so many people antisocial and fearful.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/24 10:10 PM
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You make a lot of false, stupid assumptions. Then you get afraid of them. 30s age range is great. You get to leave behind the stupidity of being in your 20s. Guess what bro... you haven't hit 30 yet. So you don't know what it's like and you're still acting like you're in your dumb 20s.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/24 10:09 PM
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Did you read the context of this conversation?
/r/ExRedPill27/08/24 10:34 PM
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Because people tend to grow up and mature.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 11:20 PM
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Y'all want to blame feminism for the world falling apart. But then you post shit like this that clearly wants to break all social contracts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 11:14 PM
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Lol, you must be new to having conversations with other humans if you don't understand that sometimes things go on a tangent. Go start your own post if you have a problem.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/24 05:34 PM
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No, I was responding to one redditor and using their logic against them. Try to keep up.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/24 05:31 PM
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You missed the point
/r/ExRedPill11/08/24 05:10 PM
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Document everything. You may need to talk to a lawyer. Block him and get away from this dude. Time and distance will do you some good.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/24 02:05 AM
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"you can see your penis size based on your height" Right off the bat... this is so not true. The rest of it comes down to compatibility. after breaking up with your girlfriend a few hours later after we saw each other for the first time a little later, So are you talking about breaking up in a relationship? Or are you talking about dealbreakers when two people only have gone out a couple times? Pick a lane. Your question makes no sense.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/24 08:22 PM
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Right, because nobody lies or exaggerates on social media. /s Don't watch content that upsets you. Find less shallow people to spend your time with. You're causing your own problems at this point if you're wasting your life believing every dumb shitty thing you see on social media. Don't you have anything better to do? Your self-image was already poor if it was so easily eroded by body shaming crap online that nobody is forcing you to watch. Jesus christ, it's sad how media illiterate so many pe…
/r/ExRedPill09/08/24 01:31 PM
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Tik tok and dating apps are not real life.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/24 11:56 AM
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So where did you come up with porn brain responses?
/r/ExRedPill07/08/24 12:13 PM
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You watch too much porn.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/24 01:13 AM
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What about it?
/r/ExRedPill06/08/24 01:09 AM
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The more you talk, the more you announce you don't understand abuse. Go educate yourself.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/24 06:52 PM
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Why shouldn't women be picky? Why shouldn't anyone be picky?
/r/ExRedPill05/08/24 03:20 PM
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The fact is that you don't understand how trauma and abuse work.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/24 03:19 PM
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Exactly. The same thing happens over on the incelexit subreddit.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/24 03:17 PM
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A lot of patriarchal society is rooted in "applies to you not me." I've really been coming out of the ether with a lot of this shit and the more I actually analyze it the more it comes unraveled. "Conservatism consists of exactly one proposition, to wit: There must be in-groups whom the law protects but does not bind, alongside out-groups whom the law binds but does not protect."
/r/ExRedPill12/07/24 09:06 PM
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They say Gen Z is having a harder time making/keeping friends irl compared to past generations. So no, you are not the only person out there struggling.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/24 02:17 PM
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It actually shows that shorter men have more successful marriages overall; they’re significantly less likely to get divorced, though they tend to get married later than taller men. Getting married later isn't even a bad thing. People who marry too young and before they are ready is one reason why folks get divorced.
/r/ExRedPill08/07/24 05:49 PM
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It sounds like attachment issues.
/r/ExRedPill04/07/24 04:59 PM
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It's time for you to get the hell off the internet and go interact with people in real life. Leave the house for once and get out of your bubble. See how men and women are with your own eyes.
/r/ExRedPill22/06/24 03:13 AM
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Lol I was gonna write a similar comment. Woman 1: I like XYZ, not ABC Woman 2: I like ABC, and not XYZ Men like OP: why are women such liars?
/r/ExRedPill22/06/24 03:09 AM
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I read somewhere in OP's comments that his parents sheltered him, and his mom is the type of person who is a religious nutjob and yells at the TV all day. Something along those lines. Basically, his mom is the only woman he has ever interacted with. He needs serious long term therapy.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/24 07:43 PM
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Hahahaha I feel like that gives us too much credit. I'm too busy thinking of what I should make for dinner and what color to paint my nails tonight. Hmm I guess I should have been plotting world domination instead! 😆
/r/ExRedPill20/06/24 06:07 PM
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I'm dating a human being. Not a robot. My partner and I are vulnerable with each other every day. Define "respect." You're being disrespectful to men by calling them "males." Why would you assume all women are amoral? I'm committed to my partner. We are building a life together. We have a comfortable and intimate mental/emotional space with each other. Why give that up? My partner is incredibly attractive to me. Other random dudes who I don't know have no appeal to me. r/AskOldPeople is probably…
/r/ExRedPill20/06/24 05:57 PM
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Bro, nothing says "I know nothing about sex" more than the arrogant comment you just wrote.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/24 05:48 PM
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I was reading his comment history yesterday. He admitted he thinks women are sex objects.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/24 05:27 PM
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We are unknowable to people who don't listen, don't pay attention, and would rather listen to their own delusions. 🤣
/r/ExRedPill20/06/24 04:13 PM
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Your problem is not women. Your problem is you. Have you learned anything from your previous posts? Anything at all?
/r/ExRedPill20/06/24 04:11 PM
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women have a monopoly in the dating world. They are in high-demand, and most women are primally, enthusiastically wanted like most men will never be Even if this was true, the solution is for lots of men to stop being so desperate.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/24 06:51 PM
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How ironic... your comment shows just how disconnected from reality you are.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/24 06:46 PM
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The fact is that if those redpillers were correct in their ideology, they would be out there getting laid and living happy lives instead of complaining and proselytizing on the internet.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/24 03:17 PM
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And yet, these guys don't want to lose their virginity with promiscuous women. They want virgins.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/24 03:16 PM
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Here's an idea: multiple things can be true at the same time. Person 1 thinks ABC. Person 2 thinks EFG. Person 3 thinks HIJ. When it's a topic that is all subjective and comes down to personal taste, it's all valid. None of it is false. If you don't get along with opinion ABC but EFG works for you, then don't have out with person 1. Look for someone like person 2.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 04:48 PM
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I meant I've yet to have one since my last one. That's called being single and it is normal.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 04:42 PM
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Yeah, if you want stuff in your life to improve you will have to let go of some stupid and upsetting stuff.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 04:39 PM
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Some =/= all. Don't waste your time on the girls who act like that.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 01:29 PM
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Finding someone hot and wanting to be with them are not the same thing.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 02:13 AM
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It's normal to have crushes and flings not work out. It happens every day to everyone. You have to get used to it and not take it personally. Not a single person on the planet is a good fit for the majority of people. It doesn't work like that.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 02:09 AM
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Communication, bro. Communication is everything. Communicate what you want. Check in with her how she is doing and if she is on the same page.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 02:04 AM
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Use an image uploading site and drop the link here.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/24 11:57 PM
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That's part of the problem with these dudes. They think high school drama is how the rest of the world works.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/24 01:13 PM
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You should express that same concern for incels and redpillers. They all have their own traumas and mental health they need to work on. That's what this subreddit is for. If they're not gonna listen to a woman saying it, maybe they will listen to a guy saying it.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/24 02:53 PM
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By the way, having trauma doesn't invalidate someone's opinion. What an asinine comment.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/24 02:16 PM
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Lmfao tell that to all the incel and redpill dudes!
/r/ExRedPill06/05/24 02:13 PM
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I just want to say that every one of your comments I've read has been spot on.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/24 05:25 AM
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Thank you.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/24 02:55 PM
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I was an emo kid and that was nothing like these pill ideologies.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/24 02:53 AM
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That's the type of answer OP wanted. We had empathy. But it ran out when OP made it clear he doesn't want advice, he just wants to complain and have people tell him what he wants to hear.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/24 02:14 AM
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That was a really shitty way they tried to play "matchmaker."
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 10:16 PM
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If he was hitting on an entire sorority, he's got bigger problems. Agreed, too many men think their own biased/subjective opinions are objective facts. It's the height of arrogance.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 09:50 PM
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I'll give OP the benefit of the doubt that it happened. Who knows... but I'll go along with it. Thats means it was likely a traumatic experience. Trauma fucks with people's self-esteem and self image, which he obviously has problems with. He needs professional help, which reddit is not. Instead he would rather bitch on the internet.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 09:35 PM
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Watch OP not reply to the comment he wanted to hear.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 09:29 PM
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OP hates himself no matter what anyone says.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 09:23 PM
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By the way, the stuff you say is "ridiculous" has a lot of research and evidence behind it. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5440192/ https://bdd.iocdf.org/expert-opinions/the-roles-of-bullying-and-victimization-in-ocd-and-bdd/ https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2015/03/02/387007941/take-the-ace-quiz-and-learn-what-it-does-and-doesnt-mean https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/me-we/201312/10-sources-low-self-esteem https://www.healthline.com/health/mental-health/why-am-i-so-…
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 09:10 PM
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Lol where do you live?
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 08:58 PM
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Right, the one who refuses to read is the smart one here. /s Obvious troll/alt account is obvious.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 08:56 PM
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How do you know it's ridiculous? Have you done any of the research? I asked you last time on one of the posts you made. For the sake of argument, let's say you're ugly. Now what? What do you expect any of us to say or do? What do you expect? Why do you need this subreddit to tell you that you're ugly? You can listen to the trolls who hang out here, they would be happy to tell you what you want to hear. Once again, you aren't answering the points or questions in front of you. You're inventing str…
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 08:55 PM
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There's lots of good information in the comments, if you bothered to read any of it.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 08:48 PM
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That means there's no reason for OP to hate on himself, if that were true.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 08:44 PM
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Are you gonna answer any of the points that were made?
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 08:43 PM
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I never said that. I absolutely believe that happened. It would make perfect sense, because you learned to hate yourself and your looks. Trauma fucks with people's heads and self perception. You should do some reading on trauma. There's a lot of research going on about that subject right now and it's helpful to a lot of people.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 08:39 PM
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Redpill is not supported by psychology or anthropology.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 08:34 PM
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This question has been asked and answered 1000 times before on here and incelexit. TLDR: Most dudes who post here aren't ugly. They just think they are. Their self-image is distorted. They need help that is beyond reddit's pay grade. If lots of people genuinely don't think you're ugly, what exactly do you expect to be told by them? Validate your false belief? Or lie and agree with you?
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 08:10 PM
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It's not the worst interpretation. It's the truth when you understand what relationships are about. Good relationships are about compatibility. Relationships go bad when two people are desperate to not be alone. I can't make this shit up. I've seen it happen countless times in real life. Should I not be telling you the truth about this? Clearly you have some attachment stuff going on. That sucks and that is legit. The answer is professional help.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 02:37 PM
3

If you just want a partner to fill a hole in your life, you'll be getting with them for the wrong reasons. It's clear you just want a warm body by your side. Why would anyone sign up for that?
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 02:32 PM
2

Nothing you say makes sense.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 01:45 PM
6

?
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 11:56 AM
3

Agreed. I don't talk about it because it would be a weird flex... but I have a lot of friends. At least compared to a lot of people. At least, that's what some other people have told me. I don't know how many. I never counted. I don't complain because it's a privileged problem to have. But it's definitely not easy keeping in touch with so many people. I'm close to a handful of them, some more than others. I do have my own trust issues. But I've found that sharing a bit of vulnerability and being…
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 10:32 PM
11

Not having a partner is not a problem.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 10:08 PM
18

not gonna share the thoughts and feelings they have about their deepest insecurities and failures with their friend group? If you can't do that with your friends, how are you gonna do that with a romantic partner? Nobody said anybody has to be perfect. Nobody has to share every detail with their friends. But people are not best friends if they can't ever be vulnerable with each other.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 10:06 PM
14

There's also the fact that us random internet people don't know you irl. Maybe there is something wrong or sabotaging with your situation, but it's out of our scope of knowledge. So internet advice may not be what you need.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 09:23 PM
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I'm not sure if I've said this to you before. But I have said it on reddit before and I'll say it again. Maybe you're one of those guys who just needs to relax and enjoy life more. Maybe you're not exactly doing anything wrong. But the anxiety of this could be killing you inside and giving off weird vibes. It might be one of those things that you don't get what you want until you are okay with not having it or you stop wanting it. Life is weird like that sometimes.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 09:19 PM
16

What are you looking to get out of this post? Advice? Sympathy?
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 08:44 PM
3

Fucking thank you. 👏👏👏
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 08:30 PM
9

"you are more dangerous to me than a wild animal" Once again, nobody said that. You are inserting race into this issue simply because it's another thing you feel victimized by. That's the only thing in common. If you want to talk about race, make a different post. I'm a leftist. Lol. Not that you bothered to ask. And you want to bitch about stereotypes? "Victim Olympics" is not a talking point of any political party. More bullshit you pulled out of your ass.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 07:31 PM
8

Don't you have anything to add to the conversation other than your victim Olympics? Race never had anything to do with this debate.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 07:05 PM
5

You weren't the person I was asking. Wow, your comment is highly insulting to trauma victims. Nice job downplaying trauma. Wild animals don't even do that. What is wrong with you? People like you are the reason many would choose the bear.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 06:13 PM
4

So you didn't even pick up on the joke? Consider yourself lucky and privileged for not knowing what being raped is like.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 06:11 PM
5

You'd rather die instead of dying? Ok buddy...
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 05:58 PM
6

Good for you.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 05:43 PM
8

Your imagination has failed you. Many rape victims are suicidal (or do commit suicide) after it happens. Including men.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 05:32 PM
7

I know this is probably frustrating to hear, but trauma responses are often not very logical but rather very emotional. Not really. Trauma responses make a lot of sense to trauma informed individuals. Avoiding risk, avoiding the unknown, and avoiding trauma are not signs of low intelligence or lack of being logical.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 05:21 PM
6

Clearly you don't understand how dehumanizing rape and assault is. It is so bad, that loads of people wouldn't ever take the risk of it happening, no matter how small the risk. It's not about how likely it is to happen. It's how bad the assault is and the lasting effects of it.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 05:18 PM
3

How
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 05:01 PM
4

If that man was literate, he would have read the comments where women say they would rather die than be assaulted.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 04:23 PM
8

I keep waiting for any of them to prove why they are safer to be around than the bears. But these dudes keep insulting women and not listening. Lol I just had one guy block me because he was so offended over it.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 04:14 PM
11

They say there's an overlap between the smartest bears and the dumbest humans... a lot of men in these comment sections are proving it.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 04:06 PM
7

Guys like you are the reason that most women (including myself) would choose the bear. The bear's behavior is predictable. If any woman chose the man, she'd be stuck having this sort of asinine conversation with him. You really want a woman to choose you to depend on for her survival? YOU the fucking reason, bro. Check your arrogance.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 03:37 PM
4

It's already been explained to you. Too bad you didn't read it or comprehend it. Are you aware that statistics say women are more risk adverse than men? There's a reason you pay more for car insurance. Please tell me, isn't it risk taking that is generally considered stupid?
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 03:33 PM
7

Did you read my comment at all? Jesus. I'd still rather pick the bear because at least the bear has an excuse for being illiterate.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 03:28 PM
5

Victim blaming! Wow. A bear isn't going to victim blame women... you're not helping the case for men.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 03:18 PM
3

Irrelevant. The point of the thought experiment is that the woman in the woods is guaranteed to run into either a bear or a man, and she has to pick one.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 03:17 PM
10

Read his post history. His stubbornness and unwillingness to listen are astounding.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 03:07 PM
3

Yup, that too.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 02:55 PM
6

Victims of rape are dumb? Wtf is wrong with you?
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 02:22 PM
10

I'm one of those people who often prefer animals over humans.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 02:11 PM
4

Oh speak for yourself. Clearly you don't understand the trauma and dehumanization that comes with rape. Many victims of such trauma commit suicide or are suicidal afterwards. They are not stupid. Grow some empathy.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 02:10 PM
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and that the low rate of humans being killed by them is simply due to the fact that we don't normally encounter them, when this is simply not the case. This isn't even relevant to the debate anyway. Because in this thought experiment, it's a guarantee that the woman in the forest will run into either a man or a bear. The point is to pick which one.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 02:00 PM
16

Yup. And every single one of those women have been victim blamed.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 01:52 PM
14

Yeah he just wants to play victim. That's why he played the race card.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 01:51 PM
11

I read a post from another woman who goes hiking/camping frequently and she would rather have the bear.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 01:43 PM
19

Oh fuck off with this. You were using your own anecdotal evidence about how you've been targeted as a minority. How come others can't use anecdotes, but you can? People are allowed to make decisions for themselves based on past experiences.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 01:41 PM
10

But this is exactly the same logic conservatives use to justify police brutality against minorities. You know those arguments are bullshit. We know those arguments are bullshit. Because conservative bigots like to say how the minorities they hate on are animals. This debate is about actual animals vs actual humans. Huge difference. It doesn't compare.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 01:39 PM
20

Nobody cares that you're black. Nobody would have any idea if you didn't bring it up. The arguments remain the same. At least the bear isn't gonna play a victim card...
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 01:37 PM
12

men are more violent and dangerous than wild animals"? Where did I say that? Just my 2 cents. Fuck the statistics. It's about human dignity. The bear has a reason to not understand human dignity. Men do not have any excuse to not understand it.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 01:34 PM
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Just my 2 cents. But I don't give a fuck about the statistics. At least with being attacked by a bear, that's nature doing what nature does. The bear is either doing it for food or self-defense. But raping and/or murdering a human being. That's a choice made by humans. Can't use the excuse that it's for food. Rape is not done in self-defense. And murdering a defenseless woman in the forest by a most likely larger man... this speaks for itself how it's likely not self defense.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 01:33 PM
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You need to do less talking and more listening. Most women have either been assaulted or know someone who has. Many who have suffered through it (including men) would rather die than go through it again. Fuck the statistics. Animals are predictable. People are way less so. Death by an animal has more dignity than rape or murder by a human. Full stop. Have some empathy.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 01:23 PM
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Exactly. Also: a bear isn't going to bearsplain about men or statistics to me.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 01:19 PM
15

Wow you really don't get it.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 01:18 PM
20

There's more to the conversation than cold hard statistics. There's more to life than cold hard statistics. The stupidity is in ignoring the larger conversation and variety of viewpoints. At least the bear isn't going to mansplain statistics.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 01:14 PM
28

This right here.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 01:07 PM
16

Define "ugly."
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 01:10 AM
4

What about the part about women with less than optimal aesthetic value? What about it? It's just meaningless. OP asked questions, I contributed to answering it. Just because it means nothing to you, doesn't mean it's not clearing stuff up for others. You're not the only person on this subreddit. You're not the authority on what has meaning or not. Lol, how is a direct answer to a question meaningless? Doesn't that make the question meaningless as well? This is just some strange way of trying to …
/r/ExRedPill02/05/24 03:51 AM
5

I answered your question in multiple ways. I meant standards in all aspects: looks, mental health, compatibility, and so on. I said it before and I'll say it again: have whatever standards you want. You just need to accept the consequences of having those standards. Lower your standards, raise them, adjust them in another way, or keep them the same as you please. Whatever. Just accept the consequences. What part of this is confusing? How likely do you think it is that a 50-something guy with zer…
/r/ExRedPill01/05/24 06:10 PM
10

Do you have anything to say about the points I made? Typically I think it's a bad idea for people to lower their standards. The exception is when someone has astronomical standards... like the one 50 year old incel from incelexit with a not good job history who expected to be able to graduate from an ivy league school and bang instagram models. I think people usually have too low standards, and that causes them problems.
/r/ExRedPill01/05/24 02:50 AM
0

Maybe you should re-read personal_dirt's comment again.
/r/ExRedPill30/04/24 11:42 PM
5

Sounds like you are unfamiliar with how the internet and toxic internet ideologies work.
/r/ExRedPill30/04/24 10:42 PM
23

It's interesting how you ignored the context behind every comment and post. Overly picky people are less likely to find someone. It's fine to want what you want. But expect that outcome. Less attractive women exist. Do you have an issue with this fact? Dudes on here like to complain how alone they are, while ignoring the fact that women experience the same feelings. Less attractive women often get ignored and dismissed, and treated like they don't even exist. Porn warps men's perceptions of what…
/r/ExRedPill30/04/24 10:39 PM
15

Lol, you got that answer from like one comment.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 08:48 PM
10

He was hostile and rude af yesterday.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 06:08 PM
23

We don't know what he looks like at all. So there's nothing to gaslight about. Did you read the comments that say "for the sake of argument, if you are ugly..."?
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 06:03 PM
7

Only if they want help and accept it.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 04:00 PM
9

Yeah. Exactly. Incelexit is more strict with their moderation compared to here.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 03:44 PM
12

Did you see his comments/post yesterday? He was acting like a real asshole. I asked him for clarification on a thing he wrote, and he got incredibly nasty and condescending. What a piece of work.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 03:37 PM
14

He's probably not bad looking at all, he just hates himself.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 03:25 PM
24

Yup, he says "I'm a good listener" but yesterday he didn't listen to a single thing written here. Then conveniently deleted his entire post/comment history.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 02:32 PM
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You've already said it's all about your looks. What do you want from this subreddit? Do you want people to prove or disprove that you're ugly? Because you've built all this armor around your beliefs about how you hate how you look. What is anyone here supposed to do about that? For the sake of argument, okay, your looks are that bad. Now what? What are you gonna do about it? There's nothing about this subreddit that is equipped to help with that.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 02:15 PM
7

If you're this hostile to women irl, then you deserve to be single. No wonder.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/24 09:27 PM
7

Your first few paragraphs are about what you think other people define as "subjective." But you never defined it yourself. What is your definition of "subjective"?
/r/ExRedPill27/04/24 09:17 PM
5

Yeah OP is just here to argue.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/24 09:15 PM
8

I asked you a question so I could read further into what you wrote. You want to talk about what is subjective or not?
/r/ExRedPill27/04/24 09:13 PM
8

Define "subjective" and go from there.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/24 09:04 PM
2

They are desperate for sex and that's as far as their thinking goes.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/24 05:04 PM
17

I sent a massively long text in the middle of the night basically spilling my guts. Isn't this the opposite of what redpill suggests? Clearly it worked for you, right?
/r/ExRedPill27/04/24 05:03 PM
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Subjective: based on or influenced by personal feelings, tastes, or opinions. It's a fact that not everyone agrees on what is attractive or not. Everyone has their own opinions. Just by definition, it's subjective. I don't know how you can say it's not, unless you believe most people are lying or don't know what they want. Let's be real here, this isn't about what other people are attracted to. It's about your own feelings and experiences with not feeling good enough. You should seek professiona…
/r/ExRedPill27/04/24 04:57 PM
15

This is a very good explanation. Unfortunately this might create a problem. Some desperate, misogynistic redpill/incel dude is gonna read this and think how they don't need to work on being a better person, they just need to learn charm and manipulation. Because the end goal is sex and women, no matter how.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/24 07:28 PM
3

Nothing you said refutes my point.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/24 02:56 PM
3

I don't know who that is.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/24 02:43 PM
25

They're probably getting with women who are also sexist.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/24 01:52 PM
4

Right? If he can't handle comments from women on the internet, how is he gonna handle women talking irl? Let's be real here... dudes like OP are afraid of women. That's why they attempt to be so controlling.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/24 01:14 PM
7

The poll got taken down I guess. But it was roughly 3 men for every 1 woman who visit here.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/24 09:53 PM
7

Sure. I agree. I think the difficulty is when you can tell someone wants human connection with others, but they only know how to push others away. The only way they know how to cry for help is by saying they have it the worst out of anyone, that nobody understands, blah blah blah.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/24 09:25 PM
2

It's such a HCOL area anyway. Get out and see the world.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/24 04:12 PM
2

I've never been to LA... but it sure sounds like it's one of several cities full of fake people. Come to the midwest. Most people are chill here. What you see is what you get.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/24 03:51 PM
4

Help them when they are sick or injured. Encourage them to go to the doctor or therapy. Cook/prepare food for them. (Food is a love language for many people.) Giving cards, flowers, beer, small gifts, ect for anniversaries and occasions. Creating art for them. Caring for their pets, family, and children. Physical intimacy and touch. Organizing and scheduling the household. Doing activities together and spending time together. Having conversations and expressing their love verbally. Bonding over …
/r/ExRedPill24/04/24 03:47 PM
2

Examples from my own life: most couples I know, lol.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/24 03:38 PM
2

Why do you keep finding shitty people to hang around with?
/r/ExRedPill24/04/24 03:37 PM
14

Got a source for that? The majority of reddit users are men. Edit: I created a poll to see who actually hangs out here. Edit 2: so far, it's mostly men here.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/24 03:32 PM
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In the title of your post. The advice comes in the forms of comments. Are you not aware of what you wrote? If you're this hostile to women irl, then no wonder you have issues. If you want an echo chamber, this place isn't for you.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/24 12:36 PM
15

You literally said it's a failure of this sub when women comment. I asked you to clarify and you didn't.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/24 12:29 PM
32

This is a weird way to say "I'm afraid to talk to women, and only being around men is my comfort zone"
/r/ExRedPill24/04/24 12:16 PM
14

The title of your post. Are you gonna answer my questions?
/r/ExRedPill24/04/24 12:11 PM
17

Yup. It's always projection.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/24 03:23 AM
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It's a failure when women talk and have opinions? Loads of lonely dudes have the problem of not interacting with enough women. How does avoiding talking with women solve that issue? Why would you want to date women if you have zero interest in listening to one?
/r/ExRedPill24/04/24 03:06 AM
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OP sure has a case of terminal uniqueness. "Nobody understands me" is just playing victim Olympics.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/24 03:04 AM
1

References to studies and actually understanding them are two different things.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/24 01:07 AM
1

Spoken like a true sociopath.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/24 04:24 PM
1

Redpill is not scientific. Lmao
/r/ExRedPill23/04/24 04:23 PM
7

Jesus christ, keep digging a bigger hole for yourself.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/24 03:59 AM
9

That means nothing.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/24 03:36 AM
14

Maybe the problem is how men (and people in general) tie their value as a human being to getting laid. A one-time sexual encounter isn't going to fill the massive void that is one's low self-worth.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/24 12:26 AM
12

This is racist.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/24 12:23 AM
9

Or a nightmare 💀
/r/ExRedPill19/04/24 08:10 PM
8

My step dad had beliefs similar to redpill. It's thanks to him that I have PTSD.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/24 08:10 PM
7

So you're saying overweight and ugly women are easy? Jesus christ wtf bro
/r/ExRedPill16/04/24 07:03 PM
9

I don't know. Therapy is probably a good idea.
/r/ExRedPill16/04/24 04:58 AM
7

There is no way of knowing. It would constantly be an evolving and dynamic number. Sounds like you need to come to terms with this and worry about yourself. From what I've seen in my own life, every man I've known over the age of 25 has had hookups, and/or girlfriends, and/or marriage. I can only think of one guy where this is not the case, and that is because he rarely leaves the house.
/r/ExRedPill16/04/24 03:26 AM
5

Why does it matter? Who cares? Why are the private lives of other people so important to you?
/r/ExRedPill16/04/24 02:19 AM
8

"You're cherry picking" says the person who left out all of the context...
/r/ExRedPill15/04/24 01:49 PM
3

Get off the internet.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/24 09:03 PM
10

Exactly. It's an ideology based on fear.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/24 07:58 PM
8

Being less strong does not necessarily mean "weak."
/r/ExRedPill12/04/24 06:12 PM
27

Yup, too many dudes don't understand the world beyond their own hetero sex drives.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/24 06:10 PM
18

Just my own experience. But I wasn't taught anything growing up that anybody has any value as a human being. The exceptions are unborn babies, and adult men who are leaders. Typical right wing bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/24 06:10 PM
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It's dehumanizing, like other commenters have said. "Woman" refers to gender identity and also the cultural/social influences that shape us as human beings. "Female" strips away all of that. Same with "men" and "males." I've noticed a lot of pill type dudes want to ignore gender identity, socialization, and cultural influences. They pretend such things don't exist, or don't have much of an impact on anybody. Often when they use the terms "men" and "females" its because they recognize some of wha…
/r/ExRedPill12/04/24 12:42 AM
8

This is ex redpill, yo.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/24 08:12 PM
5

Yup. It's called being young and dumb. We've all been there.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/24 07:54 PM
29

Just my 2 cents. But I want to be around people who I can enjoy their company and have a good time. I don't want to hang around anyone who is arrogant, or so depressed that it rubs off on other people, or who act like an asshole, or whatever. Looks only get someone so far. It's not what long term relationships or friendships are based on.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/24 06:31 PM
6

Here's an idea: maybe nobody is interested in you because you don't give a shit about anything other than finding women. (Or at least that's the attitude you give off.)
/r/ExRedPill10/04/24 03:18 PM
11

It sounds like you just haven't hung out with enough women. Try making friends with women and just talk to them, without any goal in mind other than to just learn and be open to new info/experiences.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/24 09:20 PM
2

Yup. As if marriage is only worth it if you can 100% control the other person.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/24 09:52 PM
6

I was raised by someone who had views similar to redpill. Being raised by a psychopathic pedophile was incredibly damaging. Imagine being taught growing up that you have no value other than your body and whatever you have to do to sacrifice your soul. I think most people don't question how they were raised. But I absolutely had to in order to survive.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/24 06:02 PM
2

The whole point of dating is to get to know people and find out who you are compatible with. I see a lot of pretending you know how to read minds in this post, but not a lot of communication with these people irl. How do you think that is helpful?
/r/ExRedPill08/04/24 04:49 PM
3

What even makes him a "bad boy"?
/r/ExRedPill08/04/24 04:12 PM
5

The solution is to change your worldview. The crap you were taught was wrong. It's too easy to believe the stuff we were told first, or when we were vulnerable and young.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/24 01:37 PM
9

True. But don't forget how a lot of these pilled dudes want to find a wife from other countries because they think she will be more submissive. It's still white supremacy. I guarantee you they want to whitewash these women, while also being insulting to white women by saying "you should be more submissive."
/r/ExRedPill08/04/24 01:36 PM
10

Or they have mental issues.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/24 01:33 PM
6

OP, I was raised with the same beliefs growing up. It took me a few years to undo what I was taught. First, I found better people to hang out with. Good friends who I formed genuine connections with. If the way I was raised (and the things you were taught through redpill were correct, then why would the results of it be so devastating? If a belief system is correct, good, and helpful, it wouldn't have driven you into isolation and fear. It wouldn't make it harder for us to make friends. It would…
/r/ExRedPill08/04/24 01:32 PM
5

I don't know them but I'll take a wild guess. Maybe they don't take her concerns seriously.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/24 05:32 PM
14

I'm gonna go a bit against the grain here. In her defense, it sounds like she doesn't know how to stand up to these guys. Women are socialized to play nice in situations like that, because being too harsh can be dangerous. And many women/girls feel like the bad guy for telling a guy no, because they've been treated with manipulation. I know a lot of commenters are going to say you should break up. What I would do first if I were you is be supportive. Tell her she doesn't need to put up with guys…
/r/ExRedPill01/04/24 05:07 PM
4

I am a woman. I was raised by someone with beliefs similar to redpill. The manipulation, the misogyny, the right wing crap, it was all the same shit. There was so much abuse in that household and I spent like a decade being suicidal because of it. It took me so long to heal from that. I also haven't spoken to my family in years.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/24 05:30 AM
2

Yes, there have been stories like that in this very subreddit. If you do some searching you'll find them.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/24 09:44 PM
3

Ok? Lots of people get lucky when they find the right person for them. Idk dude. It's obvious you want to date and have companionship and whatnot. But also you talk so negatively about yourself. It's a form of self sabotage. Honestly from your post history it sounds like some mental health stuff is holding you back (totally understandable.) Maybe you don't need to completely give up on dating or whatever it is you want. Just put it on the back burner. Or figure out how to stop stressing over it.…
/r/ExRedPill31/03/24 12:10 AM
5

Depends on the person. Some people care, some don't. I'm 5'2" and most adults are my height or taller. So it literally doesn't matter to me.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/24 11:32 PM
3

Even if it was true, that doesn't mean you have to give up. There's a near infinite variety of people in the world, and you only have to find one person who likes you. Maybe work on your life instead of stressing over dubious graphs of unknown origin.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/24 11:27 PM
5

It's literally made up bullshit. Whoever made it either was lying, or thought it was the truth but doesn't know how science works. Not everything you read is going to be true or honest.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/24 11:18 PM
5

No.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/24 10:53 PM
3

You're gonna let a stupid graph dictate the rest of your life? Seriously?
/r/ExRedPill30/03/24 01:18 PM
4

That OP proved to be an unreliable narrator. They changed their height. They said women were rejecting him, but his story was about random teens acting like assholes. Plus he said he has a gf in the past. Then they nuked their account when called out on it.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/24 05:40 PM
3

Like I said in another comment. Even if someone did have a horrible experience with bullying or whatever, it doesn't mean the OP deserves it or that their misconceptions about all women are true.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/24 05:35 PM
6

The story of a group of people descending on a random guy, in a public space, solely to berate and abuse him because he’s the ugliest person ever seen on the planet…COULD, in all technicality, happen. But I’ve never once seen anything remotely like that happen. Like, I haven’t seen ONE person do something like that, let alone a gang of young women. Yeah even if that did happen, it means the agressors are assholes. It doesn't mean the OP is ugly or deserves such treatment.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/24 05:33 PM
4

Why would anyone want to date you when you just want a warm body by your side?
/r/ExRedPill18/03/24 03:54 PM
34

And get arrested for sex trafficking... lol
/r/ExRedPill17/03/24 06:17 PM
12

Define "success"? Is sleeping with a woman one night, not caring about her pleasure, then her ghosting him considered success? A dude who is already in a relationship and he gets into redpill, then nukes his relationship because of it, is that considered success? Even if a dude uses redpill to sleep around, that doesn't mean he ever learns genuine connection with others or how to deal with stuff in life in a healthy way. Where is the success?
/r/ExRedPill17/03/24 06:15 PM
9

That sub is dead. I think pink pill is for femcels. I'm not sure.
/r/ExRedPill17/03/24 01:36 AM
9

Hell no. I don't think I've heard anyone use those terms irl since high school. Who tf talks like that....?
/r/ExRedPill16/03/24 10:53 PM
3

On the other hand, they told me that I am not socially in control or masculine enough. Socially, I am kind of clumsy, bumbly, dorky and awkward. This seems to be fine in a friend but not in a partner. Have you ever tried seeking out women who have the same/similar/compatible traits? A woman who is kind of awkward herself probably isn't going to hold it against you if you are too.
/r/ExRedPill16/03/24 12:21 PM
12

Exactly. It's often misreading other people, or projecting their issues onto them.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/24 04:21 PM
14

I'm convinced some pilled dudes may have genuinely been surrounded by shitty people for a lot of their lives and now have some underlying traumas and/or some misdeveloped social skills. I'm sure it's true for a few of them out there.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/24 04:12 PM
8

Exactly
/r/ExRedPill15/03/24 04:08 PM
17

So everyone you know has either an asshole or has low confidence/self esteem? You don't know anybody who is okay with themselves but doesn't feel the need to be a dick to others? You don't know anyone who is introverted and kind, but still takes no shit from anyone? Either you're around a lot of shitty people or you don't recognize what confidence is.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/24 04:02 PM
19

Confident =/= asshole
/r/ExRedPill15/03/24 03:49 PM
4

Right wing and misogynistic crap. Feel free to read the latest post I've written on my post history. Example: I was taught that spanking is a good way to raise children. Until I actually did some reading on how damaging it is psychologically an physically.
/r/ExRedPill13/03/24 05:06 PM
12

I literally spent a decade undoing the beliefs I was taught. I read a lot on psychology and philosophy. I took a lot of college level classes. I spent a lot of time trying to understand a variety of viewpoints and opinions, and I still do. Also, therapy.
/r/ExRedPill12/03/24 03:52 PM
5

Just my own experience, but I've done all of this for my partner. I bought him a plant and chocolates for his birthday. I keep his favorite energy drinks stocked in the fridge. I've taken his car to the car wash before. And more. "you’re not his mom, you shouldn’t do stuff like that for him” this is usually either said by someone bitter, or because the guy literally doesn't clean up after himself.
/r/ExRedPill11/03/24 10:02 PM
3

Good, you understand that those tropes are bullshit. Guess what? Loads of other people (including women) think it's bullshit as well. Twilight is an obvious example. A bland girl gets the guy who does these big romantic gestures. It's silly. All you have to do is search for criticisms of these tropes and you'll find them. Social media, movies, TV, these are all cartoons of real life.
/r/ExRedPill11/03/24 09:58 PM
5

Exactly. Love isn't just about buying someone flowers. Sometimes it's doing a thing for someone to make their lives easier. The 5 love languages aren't an exact science but it's definitely something to consider about how different people show love: What are the love languages? We all give and receive love in 5 different ways: words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, and physical touch. U/candid_drawer_4856
/r/ExRedPill11/03/24 02:36 PM
7

I'm just glad you recognize the difference.
/r/ExRedPill11/03/24 02:30 PM
16

Why do you keep making a claim you have no evidence for? You can simply say "I'm worried my efforts in a relationship won't be reciprocated." You don't need to say generalizations about women.
/r/ExRedPill11/03/24 01:04 PM
8

I'm not sure if you're aware of this, but relationships take work and effort. There's stuff that goes on behind the scenes. It takes communication, understanding, and effort around the house to keep your lives together. It's not just about making big romantic gestures.
/r/ExRedPill11/03/24 12:58 PM
22

So where did you get the idea from that women aren't romantic? Since you admit that you haven't seen evidence for that claim? Try this subreddit. r/AskWomennocensor
/r/ExRedPill11/03/24 12:30 PM
18

Have you tried asking women what romantic things they do for their partner?
/r/ExRedPill11/03/24 12:21 PM
2

What kind of people are you hanging out with irl?
/r/ExRedPill09/03/24 09:02 PM
10

Get off the internet and talk to people irl. People are way more asshole-ish online than in person.
/r/ExRedPill08/03/24 11:32 PM
3

Lol what... dude you fried your brain on some pilled bullshit
/r/ExRedPill08/03/24 07:26 PM
1

She probably has her own mental health problems. No healthy person would date a fool like him.
/r/ExRedPill08/03/24 07:06 PM
3

This is why you're alone. You fried your brain with sexist horseshit. You deserve to be alone. Because the only thing that makes you feel special is telling yourself that nobody understands. It's pathetic. Responding to you, because obviously you made a new account to comment again: What bullshit. You say this because you WANT to be alone. Because you're so far gone into isolation you have no idea how to talk to anyone. You say this because throwing a pity party is the only way to make you feel …
/r/ExRedPill08/03/24 02:48 PM
3

Lol what? Being pregnant and giving birth comes with its own aches and pains. Bringing a child into the world is a serious matter. It's disturbing that you (and whoever else) would do that just to avoid getting a period. Aren't you concerned for the welfare of the child and how you will provide for/care for them? You have serious issues and your post history confirms it. This is probably beyond reddit's pay grade. Get help.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/24 01:09 AM
3

I had a friend who dated a dude that had that attitude. I don't see how this is a gendered thing. Whoever says it is obviously selfish in a relationship.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/24 02:20 AM
3

I got trauma therapy. When that wasn't available to me, I read a lot on psychology. One bad way I dealt with it was with food.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/24 05:17 AM
4

Ok. Have you spoken to a doctor about how your periods are painful and the PMS is giving you grief?
/r/ExRedPill03/03/24 09:09 PM
3

That sounds unhealthy. Find some comfy shoes and have kids only when you are ready and want them.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/24 09:02 PM
2

What does having a period have to do with redpill?
/r/ExRedPill03/03/24 10:04 AM
10

but now im thinking im pretty much an idiot for menstruating. the only thing that just made me feel better enough to write about this, was knowing women dont experience menstruation for their entire life, either. at some point women dont menstruate- menopause. but the fact that im not pumping out babies and im in pain hurts. should i be in emotional pain? This is extremely concerning that you believe this. Get off the internet now and book a therapy appointment ASAP. Your body doing what it was …
/r/ExRedPill03/03/24 10:03 AM
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Look for examples that contradict your trust issues. For every cheater you see, there's several more couples who don't cheat and they are doing fine. You haven't paid attention to them because it's the cheating drama ones that caught your attention. It should be reassuring when you find examples of people who are still good and loyal.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/24 09:56 AM
2

There's more to life than reproductive success. If all you care about is passing on your genes, be a sperm donor.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/24 06:03 PM
1

Ok? Do you want a cookie for the pity party you throw yourself?
/r/ExRedPill02/03/24 06:01 PM
5

I don't date dudes like that. Because they are not options. It's like saying I have loads of options of what to have for dinner because the restaurant has a huge menu. But if I'm allergic or intolerant to most of the foods, no I don't have loads of options. Just because you were born with an instinctual drive doesn't mean you aren't responsible for it. You don't have to act on your instinct, and you don't have to be desperate because of it. Don't demonize women and say they have it "easier" if y…
/r/ExRedPill02/03/24 03:29 PM
1

Loads of dudes just want to fill the girlfriend shaped hole in their lives. Those dudes aren't dating options at all. You complain about the problems men have, when they created this problem for themselves.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/24 03:19 PM
2

Sounds like they caught feels or they changed their mind. It's bizarre how so many dudes want to have sex early on to see how things work out with a woman. But if it's not working out they way they planned, they assume she's dishonest. Like bro, this is what you asked for. Clearly they were trying things out with you, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 10:02 PM
6

Lol. Good luck with that philosophy. I'm so glad I avoid people with this attitude irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:19 PM
2

So two wrongs make a right? Your moral compass sounds messed up. More men than women are interested in casual sex. No surprise there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:11 PM
5

How exactly does dishonesty get you anywhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:00 PM
4

You said in another post you come off as aggressive sometimes?
/r/ExRedPill28/02/24 05:18 PM
10

You still need social skills to land a FWB. Why do you intend to go to Miami? I haven't been there but I hear the people there have insanely high standards for everything.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/24 04:24 PM
1

This is only anecdotal. But for what it's worth, I'm 5'2" and it's a common height for women. I don't even know any adult men who are shorter than me. Dating guys who are taller is not my preference. It's simply that literally every man I know is at least my height.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/24 06:02 AM
1

He must have read something stupid somewhere and now he's just repeating it. Sad.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/24 05:58 AM
1

Because dudes be thirsty
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 09:15 PM
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No. You're jumping to a conclusion there. Like I said, it's not a good idea to put all of your self-worth in one thing.
/r/ExRedPill24/02/24 10:34 PM
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It's usually the opposite for people who fall for pill ideologies. They feel even more hopeless. So I'm curious how you feel it's the opposite? How did you come to that conclusion? I don't know where you found that idea on incelexit. Nobody (except for maybe a few very rare comments from people who lack empathy) tells anyone to just "get over it." Usually, there's a huge emphasis on encouraging people to find self-worth in things other than their dating life. Because it's not healthy to put all …
/r/ExRedPill24/02/24 10:10 PM
3

I think it's fine if two people are inexperienced and want to learn with each other.
/r/ExRedPill24/02/24 09:16 PM
10

Not at all. I said nothing of the sort. Please try to read what is in front of you. Generally, I choose my words carefully. Dating is about compatibility. If you are inexperienced with sex and you simply want someone who is in the same boat as you, I see nothing wrong with that. If you started throwing out reasons saying it's because non virgin women have less value or some pseudoscience crap, I would call that misogynistic. See the difference? I'm just letting you know that you'll get a lot far…
/r/ExRedPill24/02/24 09:12 PM
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Very good point. I just wrote a post in a different subreddit on a different topic, but the principle is the same. A lot of these backwards ideas that people have were either taught to them as they were growing up, or it arose out of traumatic experiences. Most people don't question how they were raised, and trauma is often too scary or difficult to process. It's possible to change one's mind and let go of toxic crap. But it can be very difficult and one actually has to want to do it.
/r/ExRedPill24/02/24 09:05 PM
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So you're quoting the entire post, is that right? It's a post calling out how having such a preference makes absolutely no sense and is usually rooted in misogyny. You're still allowed to have that preference. Your preference is not logical and is likely misogynistic. But you're still allowed to have that preference. You don't necessarily need to change your preference (how would this be enforced anyway?) But you should accept the labels and the consequences that come with it.
/r/ExRedPill24/02/24 09:00 PM
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It's like you only read one sentence of the entire conversation. No, you are not wrong. You can have preference, anyone can have whatever preference they want. Whether they will/can access that is a difference story. Exactly. This translates to "people can have whatever preferences they want." Why is it usually the dudes having the least amount of sex, who are discussing which women they would "rule out" the most? This is a separate question asking why these dudes are so judgemental.
/r/ExRedPill24/02/24 08:56 PM
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I'm asking what the objective of telling someone they should be okay with dating someone they dont want to date is. Who said that? Can you quote this from who said it?
/r/ExRedPill24/02/24 08:51 PM
11

A lot of insecure people out there (both men and women, usually conservative in some way) are threatened by the idea that women can and should have control over their own sexuality.
/r/ExRedPill24/02/24 08:49 PM
5

I think there's a number of people out there in the world who feel like they have no control over their sex lives, so they jump to the conclusion that they are actively being controlled and need to take that control back somehow.
/r/ExRedPill24/02/24 08:46 PM
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You're replying to comments that say people are allowed to have whatever preferences they want. And yet you read it as So men who struggle with dating should not have standards or preferences? Seriously how did you come to that conclusion?
/r/ExRedPill24/02/24 08:44 PM
2

Yeah I've noticed the same thing. Plus a lot of taller and bigger dudes don't know their own strength. It can be annoying.
/r/ExRedPill24/02/24 03:22 PM
3

Yeah I'm in my 30s. Whenever I see high school kids, holy crap they look younger and younger to me. Like who would even want to date them or abuse them. Wtf.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/24 04:13 PM
7

Eww. It makes me think they would date prey upon even younger people if they could legally do so.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/24 04:12 PM
5

Barf.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/24 06:19 PM
6

r/askanthropology
/r/ExRedPill21/02/24 03:41 PM
2

I grew up in a right-wing family. They drove me crazy and tried to shame me into thinking like they do, glued to Fox News. I consider myself on the left and by definition a feminist. But mostly I just try to think for myself and have the confidence to do so.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/24 02:09 PM
14

I was raised by someone with views similar to redpill. It was damaging and traumatic.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/24 08:27 AM
8

I wrote a comment a week ago that I think applies here. It sounds like you're looking for an alternative ideology to follow instead of redpill/blackpill. The thing is, there isn't one. (Outside of internet spaces, anyway.) The alternative is simply living life, doing your best, and trying to understand and believe the experiences of others. Your own experience doesn't speak for everyone. The world is a huge place, and most people don't even know what redpill or blackpill is. You have your own tr…
/r/ExRedPill20/02/24 06:22 PM
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That doesn't address what I said Tons of people don't date in high school. Teens are young, shallow, dumb, don't know what they want, and most would rather play stupid games and drama. People grow out of it by the time they are 25ish, usually.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 08:35 PM
8

Same as looks. Dating is about finding who you are compatible with. Ask yourself, who would you be compatible with and where do you need to look for them?
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 08:14 PM
7

I didn't say you had a repulsive personality. But would you say your personality and the vibes you give off are attractive? And how?
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 07:56 PM
11

Do you talk to women? Do you have women friends? What about your personality?
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 07:38 PM
11

I think a few rare people (both men and women) out there do date someone they have no attraction to. Usually they have some really bad issues or mental health stuff they aren't dealing with.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 07:01 PM
7

Most men end up married or in relationships at some point. So using your logic, most men are attractive.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 06:59 PM
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I'm gonna take a guess that it's not really about facts or logic. If most women are attracted to their partners, then OP has to face the fact that no women (that he is aware of) are attracted to him. Since his self-esteem and happiness rely on attention from women, this is a very difficult and ugly thing to deal with. It's easier to deflect and say things that aren't true.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 06:58 PM
4

A few women do use apps. Or for only a short period of time. Most don't. A few people find relationships on there, most don't.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 05:55 PM
10

That's not really a gendered thing. People of both (all?) genders experience getting more attention when they lose weight.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 04:41 PM
5

The problem is created by desperate and thirsty men. Because they are desperate and thirsty. It's not the fault of women that many men just want a warm hole to fuck. Edit: don't forget that the ratio of men to women on dating apps is like 3:1. It's a shit show on there that is not appealing to most women. So many dudes message the most degrading shit to women. What exactly is the benefit of all these options if they are complete dog shit? I'd rather be alone than deal with that.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 04:31 PM
6

Think about it.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 12:58 PM
16

So it's men who create the problem that you complain about. Got it.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 05:52 AM
12

This has been debunked many times.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 05:50 AM
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I'm tired of hearing this rhetoric about what men and women should be. Blah blah blah. This shit is old. It's not relevant to my life, nor is it helpful to anyone who posts here. You're just parroting bullshit. Come up with a new argument. You can act like a know-it-all, you can pretend you can read minds, but you probably don't even go outside. Same as everyone else on reddit.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 02:31 AM
10

That sounds sad, shallow, and empty. Also not true for everyone.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 02:10 AM
19

This mentality is sad, vapid, and empty.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 12:45 AM
24

You really think that people stay together just out of convenience? Because leaving is too difficult?
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 12:44 AM
2

My date to marry POV stems from an efficient since (I don’t want to waste much time) Why not? The whole point is to take the time to get to know someone to see if you are compatible. You're 18, you have decades ahead of you.
/r/ExRedPill17/02/24 03:29 PM
3

Hot take: redpillers are misandrist.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/24 06:12 PM
1

I came here to ask the same question. I don't know anybody irl who says this shit.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/24 06:11 PM
8

They put women's bodies on a pedestal. Then get mad about the consequences. 🙄
/r/ExRedPill14/02/24 03:10 PM
15

Same goes for prostitution. Pimp = good. Prostitute = bad. Onlyfans girls = bad. Why? Because women who are in control of their sexuality and profit off of it are threatening to them. They think women shouldn't be allowed to be in control of their own sexuality. The fact that we have prostitution thanks to the patriarchy and higher sex drives of men (on average) is conveniently forgotten. If you (general you) treat women like some sort of commodity, like their only value is their looks and their…
/r/ExRedPill14/02/24 02:52 PM
5

I've suspected for a long time that a lot of men who want to do horrible things to women project themselves onto women. "I want to do XYZ to her, therefore she wants it." I think this is part of where the rape fantasy myth comes from. It's victim blaming.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/24 02:52 PM
1

Actual Jake has some content like that as well.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/24 02:27 PM
1

The weather was lovely yesterday. Unseasonably warm.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/24 02:26 PM
2

Source?
/r/ExRedPill09/02/24 11:45 PM
7

Exactly. Where are the doctors, psychologists, anthropologists, or any other experts talking about this? Oh yeah, they don't talk about it because it's not real.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/24 11:43 PM
2

Do you socialize with people? What kind of effort are you making in your dating life? How is your grooming, hair, and clothing choices? Do you have anything else going for you in life that brings you joy and lets you give off good vibes? I'm in my 30s. Almost every man I know over the age of 25 is in a relationship, married, or was in the past. The only 2 I know who are not... they basically never leave the house nor talk to women.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/24 07:14 PM
3

"WoMeN aLwAyS SeTtLe" 🙄 That's the alleged reason for it.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/24 07:11 PM
2

Nothing changes if you decide nothing will ever change. If you want to give up on yourself, that's your decision.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/24 07:10 PM
10

It's bullshit because it's dehumanizing. It reduces people to their reproductive ability.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/24 05:11 AM
8

The selection is better online.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/24 02:21 AM
11

Source: you made it up
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 07:33 PM
10

Source?
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 06:45 PM
15

It's always the inexperienced who think they know everything about sex. 🙄
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 06:44 PM
10

I love my job (doesn't pay a ton) and I love my average car. Start paying attention.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 05:01 PM
18

Quit getting your sex education from porn.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 04:59 PM
25

The other comments are correct. Besides, even for the large ones, the point is that she is in control of it. If instead it's a dude with a massive dick who doesn't know how to use it... yikes that's painful. Quit getting your sex education from porn.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 04:59 PM
44

People who don't care are not loud about how much they don't care. Quit paying attention to the loudest opinions that upset you.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 01:17 PM
30

Dating is about finding someone you're compatible with. Are you and him compatible? Do you want to be with someone who sees you as not a partner, but as an inferior? Do you want to be with someone who doesn't think for themselves? Do you want to be with someone who doesn't take your issues seriously? I'm guessing a lot about what his mentality is. But this is still something to consider. You can't change someone who doesn't want to change.
/r/ExRedPill05/02/24 08:39 PM
1

r/menandfemales Who is sending you to war? Oh yeah, other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 08:06 PM
2

Plenty of men deny it because they don't talk about their self esteem at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 08:04 PM
3

There's a lot of truth to this. "White" isn't a culture. Being white is largely defined by what your culture is not. (For lack of a better way to phrase it.)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 08:00 PM
1

You're saying this in a subreddit that does nothing but demonize women haha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 07:45 PM
2

It was no surprise that the problem wasn't with the women he was talking to, but with his own desires/needs/wants/insecurities.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/24 09:15 PM
3

https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/s/UvPaVnJbGJ
/r/ExRedPill03/02/24 02:50 PM
7

Redpillers: women need to lower their expectations and settle! Also redpillers: how dare she settle!
/r/ExRedPill03/02/24 04:46 AM
26

It's really bizarre to claim that you (general you) know all about the private lives of people you've never even met. If someone claims they can read minds, they are full of shit. This is one of the biggest problems I have with both redpill and blackpill.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/24 11:53 PM
7

Why does the time span matter? If it was the next day, the next week, the next month, it doesn't matter.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/24 04:29 PM
8

hook up culture, without using an official definition (if there is one) just seemed like what apparently happened in university, an orgy of drunk or drugged people who didn't knew each other basically, which is not exactly appealing to me for different reasons. It's fair to not be interested in that sort of scene. But there's more to hookup culture than that. I have friends who are swingers, or just prefer FWB situations. something ideal have been relationships where the woman liked me and i lik…
/r/ExRedPill27/01/24 07:07 PM
12

I'm trying to understand. If you're not into hookup culture, but you exclusively want lust, then what are you looking for? What kind of scenario plays out in your head that would be ideal for you?
/r/ExRedPill27/01/24 06:44 PM
3

It's definitely a case where people talk past each other and are not listening.
/r/ExRedPill27/01/24 06:41 PM
12

"Dating" usually means romantic dating. Some people interpret it as hookup culture, but that butchers the meaning of the word. If you want lust and to be involved in hookup culture, that's fine. But you do need to be very specific about it. Unfortunately, this is the internet and it's very easy to misunderstand others.
/r/ExRedPill27/01/24 06:26 PM
5

I think if what you want is mostly or exclusively to be lusted over, that's fine. You're allowed to want that. But you do need to be honest and clear about it. And understand that not everyone wants the same as you. Obviously, the advice you were given was not relevant to you. It's unfortunate that it was a big waste of time to deal with that.
/r/ExRedPill27/01/24 06:25 PM
13

So these women were giving you marriage advice when it's not what you want. It doesn't make their advice bad. It just means it's not relevant to you.
/r/ExRedPill27/01/24 05:51 PM
5

, they just want to make other guys pay for the shit another man did, and for sure there are plenty of men more than willing to go above and beyond for those women, but having seen how they live and the dynamics on their relationships, especially when they dont work, i just cant bring myself to even consider being one of those men. What on earth are you referring to?
/r/ExRedPill27/01/24 05:49 PM
5

Why don't you want to be liked for your personality and as a person? Romantic love includes attraction for both personality and physical traits. If you want only the physical part, or don't find the personality part relevant/important, then what you want is lust.
/r/ExRedPill27/01/24 05:40 PM
8

i like being liked in a way, in a very physical way, and a lot of women both on the internet and real life tell me i have to do it their way, A lot of lonely dudes on here say they want to be liked in a physical way, but they want to be liked for who they are as a person too. Maybe there was a misunderstanding between you and the women you were talking to. Women are tired of being told that they only care about looks and not personality.
/r/ExRedPill27/01/24 05:37 PM
15

got lots of women saying stuff about guys having to be something i would rather not be, Such as?
/r/ExRedPill27/01/24 04:16 AM
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Isn't it dumb how redpillers complain that women are not loyal, but when there's evidence of a woman who is, they say she's just settling? It's moving the goalposts.
/r/ExRedPill27/01/24 04:14 AM
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Those are all the worst assumptions about someone. People date around because not everyone is compatible with each other. Many people don't even know what they want when they are younger. This whole concept is intended to suggest that women should commit to the very first person they date/partner up with. Whether or not they actually are good together is irrelevant.
/r/ExRedPill27/01/24 02:37 AM
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What bothers me is that im pretty sure this is a remanent of some of those weird ideologies that i picked in the past when browsing manosphere content, Sounds like it. Pill philosophies rot your brain. i still have a lot of distaste about these guys who are settled for How do you know someone was settled for? when women cant no longer sleep around with handsome men Uhh, what? Who says they can't? Why? those beta bucks (not sure if they are called like that now but i think you get my point) This …
/r/ExRedPill27/01/24 02:31 AM
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I came here to ask the same thing. If she's happy, how is that settling?
/r/ExRedPill27/01/24 02:22 AM
12

Drama and flaky relationships are kind of the norm when it comes to teenage/early 20s relationships. Nobody has matured at that age, and few people know what they want. From both genders, people act like idiots. I'm sorry to inform you of this. Dating as a teen is typically a drama filled shit show. It's best to just focus on having fun and meeting people. You don't need to take it so seriously at this age. If someone hurts you or if you hurt someone else, that's understandable to feel bad about…
/r/ExRedPill24/01/24 03:51 PM
4

Hopefully. They tend to weed themselves out.
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 10:32 PM
2

It's not "feminist academics" that disprove it. It's reality and the scientific method we use to research it. Anybody can take a dive into their own genealogy (or the genealogy of others) to see that there's no such thing as a perfect family.
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 06:34 PM
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A wife and kids aren't some sort of loot crate that proves you succeeded in life. They are people who also have needs. OP has made a ton of posts similar to this one, and not once has he considered this concept. It's all about him and his desire to find a spouse and put her on lockdown.
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 06:28 PM
2

If you're not a virgin anymore, you're not gonna create that experience again.
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 06:25 PM
7

What does "toying with sex" mean to you? What does that look like? Why is that something that happens whenever sex between multiple people is involved? Is it not possible in a monogamous relationship?
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 02:20 AM
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If you aren't interested in socializing, why would you want to get married and have kids? You'd have to socialize with them.
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 02:17 AM
5

I'm sure this happens every day, unfortunately. These guys probably don't know how to please their wives.
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 02:14 AM
5

Why would you marry someone who wanted to sleep around with other people, and has before? Obviously you wouldn't be compatible. What exactly does the gang bang scenario say about you? How does it reflect on you?
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 02:02 AM
3

Well said!
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 02:00 AM
8

People still have sex in those cultures. If anything, sometimes religious pressure is so bad that some people never learn to enjoy sex. It kills their libido and they never want sex. Because they were taught it was sinful and dirty. This only happens in religious, traditional cultures.
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 01:59 AM
3

I think this "wanting a virgin" mentality may come from some sort of motivation to reproduce, thanks to the lizard part of our brains. That tells me that whoever believes this shit has their own lack of self-control. Which is the opposite of what OP suggests.
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 01:57 AM
10

Not necessarily. Someone who has slept with nobody (or very few people) can have impulse control issues. And someone sleeping with lots of people can have plenty of self-control. They decide to sleep around because they want to. It's a choice.
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 01:51 AM
10

Same as people did back in the day. If it's taboo, they do it anyway but just aren't open about it.
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 01:49 AM
3

I just suppose my problem is a get invested in people lifes just because mine is boring. You're not alone, lol. A lot of people do that. But if you're gonna do it, keep an open mind. Just listen and don't make quick judgements or assumptions. People are indeed interesting and there is a lot you can learn.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/24 08:40 PM
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There's plenty of examples out there, one of the ask women subreddits might be helpful. The point I was trying to make is that a lot of people who say "women have it easier" ignore all evidence to the contrary.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/24 06:55 AM
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Sure, if you ignore all the stuff that makes womanhood difficult. 🤷‍♀️
/r/ExRedPill22/01/24 06:46 AM
10

She's like Aunt Lydia from Handmaid's Tale.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/24 06:10 AM
36

Don't waste your time watching such garbage.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/24 06:13 PM
10

You should get therapy for your trauma. Why would you leave your kids at home with a woman you don't trust?
/r/ExRedPill21/01/24 04:55 PM
13

You really shouldn't be dating or trying to marry if you're this insecure and paranoid. It's not good for you, it won't be good for your spouse, and you'll pass on your mental issues to your children.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/24 04:51 PM
17

Redpill/blackpill dudes be like: freedom for women is bad because they didn't use their freedom to pick me
/r/ExRedPill21/01/24 04:50 PM
9

Kids have to get out into the world and learn to socialize. Daycare and school provide that. Do you realize that if you're working, you're not gonna be spending time with your kids? Edit: besides, you insist that women are not trustworthy. So why would you leave your kids with your wife all day?
/r/ExRedPill21/01/24 04:49 PM
14

The patriarchy is not gone.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/24 04:47 PM
10

They don't want to be married to guys like you, who assume the worst of them.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/24 03:36 PM
16

That's enough kool aid for you.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/24 03:33 PM
17

Sounds like you're consuming too much crappy content and not enough of real life.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/24 03:29 PM
71

Don't get married at all if you don't know how to trust anybody.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/24 01:18 PM
10

Check the detox kit in the info section of this subreddit.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/24 04:37 PM
11

This sub gets a lot of visits from trolls and pilled, bitter weirdos. r/incelexit is similar but has stricter moderation.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/24 01:08 AM
5

Two conspiracy theorists die and go to heaven. Now that they have the chance to ask any question of God, one of them asks "Who was REALLY responsible for 9/11?". God responds "A group of Al-Qaeda terrorists led by Osama Bin Laden and Khalid Sheikh Mohammed." The conspiracy theorist gulps and turns to his friend. "Fuck. This goes even higher up than we thought."
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 08:46 PM
9

What?
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 05:32 PM
7

If you actually were doing that, you'd understand better the experiences of women. Clearly you don't. Let's call attention to what this is really about. You feel inadequate, unworthy, and not good enough. This is about your mental health and your insecurities. Why not talk about that, instead of deflecting using some sort of debate about which gender has it harder? Come on. The former will help you, the latter will not.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 05:12 PM
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Lol, says the one who thinks he knows what women go through. I don't deny you feel bad about yourself. I'll deny that you know what you're talking about when you assume the experiences of others.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 04:47 PM
14

How do you expect anybody to give a shit about your perspective if you're gonna outright deny the perspective of others?
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 03:36 PM
13

This is a subreddit for people who want to leave redpill or any pill ideology. Similar to r/incelexit. There are pilled people who post/comment trying to spread their ideas. For example all the people replying to my comment here and saying dating an "average" guy is unthinkable and worse than being alone What are you referring to?
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 03:17 PM
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Lol do you even know what standards women are held to? Grass is always greener. You could spend your time bitching on the internet, or you could be working on yourself instead. It's your call.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 02:58 PM
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A lot of dudes put zero effort into their looks and they look like trolls. So obviously holding them to any sort of standard is gonna seem unfair to them. You guys could never deal with the standards that women are held to since birth.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 02:54 PM
2

Being alone is not the worst thing in the world.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 02:30 PM
28

I don't know anybody in real life who does stupid shit like that. Except one or two narcissists I've met.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 01:11 PM
1

That's a very sad way to view life. I don't think anyone on here can help you if you insist on this "all or nothing" way to live. If you want to flush your life down the toilet, that's your business. Most other people figure out how to be happy and okay with just their normal lives.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 12:37 PM
12

People can read vibes but they can't read minds.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 02:58 AM
4

I'm not trying to be rude or dunk on you. I promise. It's obvious from the way you talk that you're letting your depression get the best of you, and it probably throws off bad vibes to other people. I think you're aware of it, because you see around you that everyone else seems happier. This sounds like major depression and it calls for professional help. Have you tried therapy or medication? I'm not sure what your goal is, but a girlfriend can't fix this for you.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 11:43 PM
3

Yes, because people make bad decisions every day.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 10:59 PM
2

Once again, you see people as one dimensional and never changing. I can't help you with your rigid thinking and lack of imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:55 PM
8

If you found a partner, you'd still be unhappy. It's your own responsibility to figure out how to make yourself happy
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 10:54 PM
2

Someone who is independent can have the goal and skills of being a stay at home parent. A stay at home parent can be independent again after their kids are grown. No, there is no contradiction. Are you trying to assert that nobody changes throughout their lives? That people are incredibly one-dimensional?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:24 PM
2

"You're exhausting" isn't an insult. It's an observation. You could waste time getting offended, or you could just quit being exhausting to be around.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 10:10 PM
2

Don't find each other attractive enough to want to have sex with. Don't have similar libedo and partners are too possessive to allow satisfying the higher libedo partner with external help. One partner realizes they're getting old and gonna die without ever experiencing all of their fetishes that they want to explore and their partner is traditional/boring and exploring those things would mean cheating or ending the relationship By definition, that's not a happy marriage lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:11 PM
1

There's no contradiction there at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:01 PM
6

How do you not be bitter and resentful? By learning that being bitter and resentful is not going to help you. It's self sabotage. Learn to relax and enjoy life. Be someone that others will enjoy the company of.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 08:31 PM
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This is one of those narratives that is spread online/in media that doesn't really reflect real life. Don't use dating apps if they don't work for you. It's mostly guys on there anyway.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 08:28 PM
3

Same.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 08:27 PM
7

That subreddit is a shithole. Some of the people pushing pill ideas on there sound so disturbed.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 07:15 PM
3

Lol then why make a post asking for opinions? Why are you even here?
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 07:14 PM
2

You're the one who made the claim. If you have nothing to back it up, then it's your claim that falls apart. I'm not doing your research for you.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 07:13 PM
3

You have a very one-dimensional view of sex and attraction. It's obvious you're inexperienced and uneducated. Please shut up about things you know nothing about, and get some therapy for your insecurities. Talking to you is depressing. Bye.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 02:44 PM
2

settling simply means that you are not physically attracted to your partner Looks really are the only important thing in your world. Wow. As if looks are the only thing anyone can settle for lots lf people can be compatible with each other or be emotionally attracted without being attracted physically Looks is included in compatibility. Wow, you're placing such a high emphasis on looks, but you don't factor it into compatibility? That's backwards. but is it worth to build a ltr without physical …
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 02:40 PM
3

It's pretty arrogant to think you speak for everyone. Mutual lust has nothing to do with settling.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 02:35 PM
3

That's pretty sad. They shouldn't be with someone they aren't compatible with. Also in general, it's not difficult to see which couples are actually attracted to each other and which one are setting Sure, if you assume a lot of stuff you really have no idea about. Besides, people change over time. Attraction can change over time. You have no idea. You don't have to be settled for. If you think that's how it is with whoever you're dating, then leave. If you don't leave, then you're the one settli…
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 02:34 PM
2

Where did I say that? Why do you care, anyway? Because you haven't dealt with your insecurities?
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 02:26 PM
5

That's not Occams razor. That's jumping to conclusions.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 02:25 PM
3

Nobody has to be settled for. You aren't required to date anybody, you can say no Dating is about compatibility. If you're dating a decent person who commits to you, they will be with you because they care about you and you two are compatible. There is no "settled for" involved here. If #2 ends up not being the case, then that means you weren't dating the right person for you.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 02:04 PM
2

How do you know?
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 01:54 PM
3

Not everyone cares about this or wants this. It's so superficial.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 01:53 PM
2

Ok? And?
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 01:53 PM
6

You sound exhausting to be around. No wonder you're single.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 01:50 PM
4

I'm saying the threshold has gone up. It takes more to be attractive as a man. Source? How would someone measure this anyway?
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 01:49 PM
5

All the female friends I have (and had) are heavily fixated on how cute the new guy is. Ok? So what? This is normal human behavior. You've never heard men say stuff like "she's so hot, bro!"?
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 01:48 PM
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Hot take. People should have higher standards. I will die on this hill. I've seen many relationships between others who have low/no standards. It's not pretty. It always ends up super toxic. People need to filter out who they are not compatible with. And I'm sure people who spread redpill/blackpill ideas are gonna be a red flag for many. Like, I'm not gonna date someone who watches Fox News and believes in it. Same thing with redpill.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 01:45 PM
7

My point is that it has gotten more difficult on average. If you're gonna say shit like this, you better find some data for the past number of decades. Who would measure this shit and why?
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 01:41 PM
10

Average height for men in the USA is 5 foot 9.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 01:38 PM
1

You're going off on a bizarre rant. I have no clue what you're talking about anymore. Have a good day.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 01:35 PM
7

There's not just one reason why someone turns to redpill or incel ideas. They might be an asshole, they might have mental illness holding them back, they might have social anxiety or be lacking in social skills, they might be living in the wrong place at the wrong time. There's not just one reason why someone will get rejected. It's more than just looks. Whoever they asked out may be creeped out by them, maybe they didn't like their attitude or personality, or maybe they were interested in someo…
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 01:36 AM
1

It's not my idea.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 01:18 AM
4

Answer this. Why do you think people get together if not for love? Looks or money? Because that's shitty and shallow, if there's no love.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/24 10:47 PM
1

It's a weird fucking idea that the first person you date has to be the hottest and best person you'll ever date. As if compatibility means nothing.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/24 07:36 PM
2

It doesn't change my point at all.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/24 04:42 PM
3

Your friends don't speak for everyone else your age. Find better friends
/r/ExRedPill14/01/24 02:41 PM
11

How the fuck did you come to THAT conclusion from my comment? Lol wtf
/r/ExRedPill14/01/24 03:19 AM
8

Either you haven't noticed, or you're surrounded by shitty people.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/24 02:38 AM
7

It's really obvious from your post history that you don't want to change your mind. So why are you even here? You don't listen to anyone, you only see what you want to see.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/24 01:58 AM
7

Confirmation bias.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/24 01:48 AM
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Lol if that's what you want to call it. What a sad existence you choose to live in. That doesn't answer the question. Also, it sounds like you don't understand what dating is about. It's about compatibility.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/24 01:46 AM
8

Find people who genuinely love each other and observe. You'll know it when you see it.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/24 01:44 AM
6

Ah, so you think your friends group gets to represent the entire world?
/r/ExRedPill14/01/24 01:38 AM
6

Your college is not a representation of the entire world.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/24 01:35 AM
5

How do you know? Did you survey every single man in your area?
/r/ExRedPill14/01/24 01:34 AM
5

You think the likelihood of someone settling for you is as likely as a pet is going to die? Meaning, 100%? You must think very little of both yourself and everyone else on the planet. What makes you have 100% confidence this is going to happen?
/r/ExRedPill14/01/24 01:33 AM
9

Why do you care about any of this?
/r/ExRedPill13/01/24 11:05 PM
12

Why would this be a bad thing?
/r/ExRedPill13/01/24 10:40 PM
14

I agree changes happened.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/24 10:39 PM
16

Well yeah, because feminism ruined everything /s
/r/ExRedPill13/01/24 10:15 PM
9

Sorry, I read your comment wrong. My bad. Yes, I've heard it before. But it's been a long time. I don't hang out with people who say sexist nonsense.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/24 10:10 PM
18

Such an idea paves the way for madonna-whore complexes.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/24 09:51 PM
23

The 80/20 rule doesn't apply to men because as so many men and woman will tell you. No, this is the first time I'm hearing this. It's rare to hear any women supporting redpill ideas, even more rare to say such a thing. Men will sleep with anyone. Which sure is hyperbole, but I think is much more close to reality for men than women. You're not making men sound good here.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/24 09:45 PM
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80/20 rule debunked History of 80/20 Basically, 80/20 is a mathematical principle that works in fields like computing and economics. But it's not very reliable when applied to sociology. People are not as predictable as computers. Edit to add: How does the 80/20 rule not apply to men? That's never talked about.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/24 09:27 PM
1

It boils down to Stop consuming toxic crap. Start consuming stuff that helps you. Stuff that makes you feel better about yourself and be more productive. There's no other way around it. Your feelings CAN change, but it takes time and work. I'm saying this as someone who spent the first 25ish years of my life with zero self-esteem.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/24 06:48 PM
1

If you're seriously dating someone, you can't hide who you are and your attitude forever. That bitterness leaks out.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/24 06:23 PM
1

How do you have 600 rejections when you said so yourself that you never approach anybody?
/r/ExRedPill13/01/24 06:21 PM
1

Exactly. Point is, being jealous of OF creators is like saying you're jealous of garbage collectors because they get free stuff every day.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/24 06:20 PM
2

Why do you care?
/r/ExRedPill13/01/24 12:56 PM
2

Thank you for mentioning this! Good point.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/24 12:05 PM
8

It recently came out that amouranth (popular female twitch streamer) made 57 million USD on onlyfans since starting it a few years back. I had to click off the video informing me because I was so enraged and disgusted. I nearly cried and banged on my bed because of how easy she and many other women have it. What would you say to someone who is upset that they are not rich and famous like Margot Robbie or whoever? I went through an article for a minute just to see how rich some celebrities might …
/r/ExRedPill12/01/24 01:14 AM
9

Yup, well said. The internet and the media are basically a cartoon version of real life.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/24 01:05 AM
12

What makes you think women have it easier? Onlyfans has something like 75 million users. 1/3 of them are women, so that's 25 million women. Compare that to 168 million women in the USA (half the population, this includes women of all ages) that's less than 15%. Compare it to all the women in the world (3.95 billion) that's 0.0063% of women in the world who are on OF. So it's obvious that most women are not on Onlyfans. They choose not to, for many good reasons. Those who are on OF don't represen…
/r/ExRedPill12/01/24 01:04 AM
1

This is definitely some trauma that is resurfacing. People who have trauma sometimes can seek out scenarios, behaviors, or validation that reminds them of their trauma. I forget what exactly the mechanism in our brains is that does this (please read The Body Keeps The Score) but basically we do it because it's familiar territory. Please get therapy specifically for trauma. In case no one has said so, you didn't deserve it. You deserved better. You're in a better place now. Edit: downvoters are i…
/r/ExRedPill11/01/24 04:45 PM
11

Redpill sure doesn't teach anyone healthy communication.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/24 07:14 PM
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Same reason anyone falls in love with a hobby all over again. They like it. Some people are old-fashioned romantics. Some like the boost to their imagination, which gives a boost to their libido.
/r/ExRedPill05/01/24 11:13 PM
2

Andrew Tate, moron. Obviously you're a rape apologist yourself and you can fuck off too.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/24 02:57 PM
1

"Don't insult rapists and pedophiles, guys!"
/r/ExRedPill04/01/24 02:39 PM
10

Good. Quit chasing ill-defined, unattainable goals. Go for what YOU want in life. Sounds like a better plan.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/24 03:30 AM
11

Angry and upset is understandable. Violent and aggressive is not ok.
/r/ExRedPill01/01/24 09:33 AM
9

I'm afraid I have had extreme schizophrenia and psychosis episodes and PTSD due to reading creepypasta and being exposed to MGTOW forums... I have to ask. Did you see a doctor and get a diagnosis of these issues? You are barely an adult, and you've unfortunately spent a good chunk of your formative years consuming horrible content. It's like an addiction. The solution is to detox starting now. Seek therapy specifically for trauma. I'm no expert, but it does sound like you're traumatized. It's ok…
/r/ExRedPill29/12/23 05:55 AM
1

I didn't read your past posts so I checked your post history. There's a ton of content regarding cheating. I'm not entirely sure why you're into this sort of content. But in conclusion, people around the world every day make stupid decisions. It's best to use the examples you speak of as a lesson of what NOT to do.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/23 05:37 PM
2

You don't have to confront them. Just walk away. Gray rock method.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/23 07:38 PM
2

Agreed. I wouldn't want to fall for someone who is too good to be true.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/23 07:25 PM
1

I've never seen a non-famous short guy gushed over the same way some people do about conventionally hot people. Does it matter? Celebrities are eye candy. Most of us don't know any celebrities personally. All we know is how they look and perform. Like, people drooling over Margot Robbie has no effect on my life. It has no relevance to my relationship. And most people doing the drooling know they aren't going to end up dating that celebrity anyway. You don't need to be threatened by fantasies tha…
/r/ExRedPill27/12/23 07:23 PM
2

That's the most vague question ever. Same as how other dudes do it.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/23 07:15 PM
3

Most adult (age 20+) guys I know are in relationships/married. This includes a handful who are roughly 5'6" or shorter.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/23 06:24 PM
8

Sorry your family sucks.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/23 04:54 AM
5

They wouldn't even want to raise their own bio kids, Let's be real here 🤣
/r/ExRedPill25/12/23 03:44 PM
1

Yeah you are being judgemental. Even if what you say is true, who gives a fuck? So somebody wants someone out of their league. Ok, then they stay single. Big deal. It's not hurting anyone. Or, if they do end up with who they desired, then they weren't out of their league after all.
/r/ExRedPill25/12/23 03:17 PM
1

Lol no. You're being judgemental and assuming everyone thinks the same dumb shit.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 05:33 PM
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I was raised by a parent who had beliefs similar to redpill. He was an abusive piece of shit.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 02:00 AM
3

Everyone is allowed to want what they want.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 01:29 AM
7

Danny Devito has been married for 40+ years, idk what OP is talking about lol
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 01:28 AM
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I said nothing about how long you have been like this, because you never mentioned it. It's obvious you have trauma you need to work on. Like that one woman said, natural selection. So do you believe what that bitch said or not? If what she said was so offensive and hurtful to you, why would you take her seriously? I think I'm finally done with everything You're being dramatic. And if you're not, seek help. It's really sad that you hate women but you're willing to throw your life away over not d…
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 01:16 AM
8

Well said.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 12:43 AM
8

WOW what an asshole thing to say. Maybe you would have more friends if you quit the victim Olympics here. Everyone on this planet has problems, including insecurities. Maybe if you were nice to others, you'd find friends who were willing to comfort you and relate to what you say.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 12:43 AM
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But people aren't pointing out the flaws in my opinion, they're misrepresenting it and assuming I hate women. You say you don't hate women, so why do you say such hateful stuff about women? No one has contradicted me on men needing to be exceptional in some way to be attractive to a large amount of women. Yes, another commenter has. You ignored what they said and somehow twisted it around to fit your narrative. Everyone keeps avoiding my actual point and keeps assuming that I have an unattractiv…
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 12:31 AM
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I said you could maybe talk to an average guy who may have not been on your radar and see if you like him enough for that. Who says we haven't? I know multiple women who went out with "okay" guys just to see how it would work out. I've given plenty of guys chances. Guess what? That shit didn't work out. Nothing horrible happened to me, but other women have different stories. https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/s/9Xz0WNq8WD https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/s/4ZZYwP4zlE How do you not realize that…
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 12:23 AM
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We acknowledge you have this insecurity. You're gonna have to work on changing your opinions if you want to ditch the bitterness. Pointing out the flaws in your thinking isn't the same as belittling or dismissing it. How do you expect your feelings to change without doing anything different? Do you really expect everyone on this subreddit to just go along with what you say? Please answer my question about shooting yourself in the foot.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 12:12 AM
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The point of this post wasn't to play oppression Olympics But you did it anyway. Maybe other people won't be so dismissive of your issues if you weren't so dismissive of theirs.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 12:07 AM
7

Why do you want to date women when it's obvious you don't like women?
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 12:05 AM
7

Why do you insist on being such an asshole, accusing others of shit you made up? I guarantee you that everyone else is picking up on your bad attitude. This is why you're not desirable. How are you not supposed to be bitter? By realizing you're screwing yourself out of any good opportunities. Keep digging your own grave, if that's what you want.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 12:05 AM
10

Find other asexuals. And quit assuming the worst of others.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 12:02 AM
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Everyone so far HAS taken you seriously. Nobody here is calling you fake, or a liar, or anything like that. We just think a lot of your points are wrong. This sub is exredpill, isn't it supposed to help me out of those beliefs and not reinforce them? Omg how ironic. Dude, just accepting your false beliefs as is would be the reinforcement.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 12:00 AM
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Exactly. What is supposed to be appealing about someone like OP who voices these opinions? Why would women want to date a dude who won't listen to her and take her seriously?
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 10:23 PM
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How exactly does playing the victim Olympics here help you out? For the sake of argument, let's say you have the worst dating life of anyone on the planet. Ok now what? There's no award for that. Do you want a cookie? Women have their own valid experiences in the dating world. It's just as valid as your own experiences. How is claiming their experiences aren't valid, don't matter, aren't real, whatever, how is that helping you out? Why would any woman want to date you when you obviously will dis…
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 10:22 PM
13

They don't forget. They ignore. And blame everyone else for their insecurities
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 10:10 PM
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Misogyny. Maybe some pedophilia thrown in. They only value other human beings based on reproductive ability. Even then, they believe a lot of lies. Nobody should be having kids with these dudes anyway.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 10:07 PM
5

Couple's counseling.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/23 02:00 PM
7

It's bizarre how redpill and blackpill folks blame feminism for things that are actually due to patriarchy and traditional ideas. In regards to suicide, men complete suicide attempts more often than women. In more feminist countries, the gender gap is less. Such as the Scandinavian countries, it's like 1 woman for every 2 men. But countries (like some in Eastern Europe) they are much more traditional in their values and beliefs. It's one woman for every 5 men who commit suicide. (I'm speaking in…
/r/ExRedPill18/12/23 09:58 PM
18

They need to learn to support each other.
/r/ExRedPill18/12/23 07:27 PM
6

Yeah one can only bottle up their emotions so much.
/r/ExRedPill18/12/23 06:16 PM
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It's one possibility. Some sources say women self-harm more. (I see sources conflict on this, some say there is no gender difference.) Just speaking for myself (32F) when I attempted, I changed my mind at the very last second. My mind sort of went blank. The choice I thought was right suddenly felt wrong. I'm not usually one to nit-pick and debate semantics... but I don't care for the word "fail" in this context. Failing at suicide can be considered a good thing.
/r/ExRedPill18/12/23 05:49 PM
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Women are more likely to choose less violent methods, like poisoning. Which may or may not work. I read somewhere that women are more likely to consider who finds and cleans up the body. So a messy method is not preferred. Women attempt more often than men. Women are more likely to seek help. These stats are just off the top of my head. I can dig up sources if you want.
/r/ExRedPill18/12/23 05:39 PM
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Men are more likely to choose violent methods of suicide.
/r/ExRedPill18/12/23 05:31 PM
3

I don't think it matters either way. He sounds dumb as hell and you don't need to defend him.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/23 06:25 PM
6

He sounds like a moron. Only a complete idiot would talk like that.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/23 05:05 PM
14

Delete your Instagram and other accounts with the same sort of content. Go outside.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/23 05:03 PM
3

Agreed.
/r/ExRedPill14/12/23 01:25 AM
6

Break up with him now. You deserve better than him. He's a creep who openly admits he wants to prey on young girls.
/r/ExRedPill13/12/23 11:34 PM
15

The patriarchy hurts everyone.
/r/ExRedPill13/12/23 02:38 PM
2

I'm not here to mess up my youtube algorithm. What does the video say?
/r/ExRedPill11/12/23 01:02 PM
4

Damn you guys are all describing my parents so well... lol 😭
/r/ExRedPill08/12/23 07:13 PM
3

I guarantee you that for the redpillers who are in relationships... it is toxic.
/r/ExRedPill08/12/23 07:12 PM
9

I have lived in an abusive family home for most of my life You answered your own question. Toxic jerks enjoy the company of other toxic jerks.
/r/ExRedPill05/12/23 07:57 PM
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Both men and women make bad decisions, which includes choosing the wrong person to be with. I know some people who have done this, and usually it's because of their own problems they never sorted out. "Bad boy" can be just an aesthetic. Maybe he looks like the bad type on the outside, but it's entirely possible he's a perfectly decent person. For example, did you know there are biker dudes out there who go to court to stand up for children who were abused? That's one of the toughest types of per…
/r/ExRedPill03/12/23 02:43 AM
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Then you haven't paid attention.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/23 02:33 AM
1

Well that's a new one. r/askoldpeople <--- is that way
/r/ExRedPill29/11/23 03:34 AM
12

Regardless of what studies say, why do you care about past sexual partners at all? Should people be judging you on how many people you've slept with?
/r/ExRedPill28/11/23 06:30 PM
8

I think redpill fills a hole in a lot of men’s lives, the want to be seen and acknowledged and find confidence and value in your life. It can be a good source for motivation and often pushes men to pursue self improvement instead of feeling broken and lost - Got a hole in your life somewhere? Loads of people do. You can fill it with garbage. Alcohol, self-harm, toxic ideologies like redpill... Or you can fill it with good things. Friends, volunteering, exercise, go to church if that's your thing…
/r/ExRedPill27/11/23 09:47 AM
9

Yup. It's just more redpill terminology, too. Like, nobody uses words like "redpill" and "bluepill" irl.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/23 09:43 AM
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Only used by redpillers.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/23 07:39 AM
24

Blue pill isn't a thing. It's only a dumb subreddit made in response to redpill.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/23 06:45 AM
12

There's a youtube channel where they do a great job of breaking down tropes/stereotypes about people, especially in the media. Especially gendered stereotypes. Just wanted to share this.
/r/ExRedPill24/11/23 06:52 PM
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It's ridiculous how redpill and blackpill will take certain truths and just completely say the opposite so they can spew their narrative. I saw a really dumb reddit post the other day where someone (with redpill tendencies) claimed that women and feminists believe that men should not seek mental health help. Meanwhile, most women I know beg men to go see a therapist/counselor.
/r/ExRedPill24/11/23 06:50 PM
1

People do it every day, bro.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 07:29 PM
1

Parties, work, concerts, hobby groups, sporting events, fitness classes, art groups, loads of places. Depends on what you're interested in. When you make friends, meet their friends and family. Then meet their friends.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 07:12 PM
8

I think they're saying the quiet part out loud.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 04:48 PM
5

Well said.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 04:41 PM
10

Source for this statistic? Dude. I was raised to believe this bullshit too. It made me want to off myself everyday. I'm serious, you have to ditch these beliefs. It's not helpful to you or anyone else.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 07:23 AM
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Part of cleaning up your life means starting to view human life as worth more than just sex.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 07:21 AM
7

Self improvement is never done and over with. It's a lifelong journey. Don't use dating apps. They are shit. Meet people irl.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 07:14 AM
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I can’t help but see women as incredibly demanding, unempathetic and judgemental Who gave you that idea? because they get tons of attention from men. If you’re a woman, you’re automatically more valuable to society than men. Based on what? Our bodies? Fuck that. If a woman goes onto OLD, she can get more matches and offers for sex as well as dating in one hour than a man in a year. They also have more options for situationships as well as casual sex. Why is any of this a benefit? None of this so…
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 12:13 AM
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If I go into the mens rights subreddit. They act like us men are seen as worthless and women are automatically high value just by being women by society, is this even true? I find it ironic that they are spreading the message they claim to hate. The mensrights sub is super toxic. Don't bother going there.
/r/ExRedPill20/11/23 11:55 PM
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Lots of good answers already. I'll add that they most likely hate themselves, and saying shit about others makes them feel better. It's sad.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/23 11:26 PM
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Why do women post on any social media? Why does anybody post on social media? Are you aware that not all social media is people posting selfies? Reddit is social media. Most people don't post pictures of themselves here. My social media is all art, dogs, music, memes, and stuff related to the industry I work in.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/23 03:15 PM
4

Dumb high school bullshit doesn't define the rest of your life.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/23 01:26 PM
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If you want the real thing like you said in 2 and 3, then why does 1 matter? There's a billion different possibilities why a stereotype can be true. We don't know which reason is true here. Either way, it might not be a healthy situation between those two people. So it's nothing to be envious of.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/23 09:22 PM
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Are you trying to discuss stereotypes or real life people? Are you looking to date a stereotype of a woman, or a real life woman? Would you rather be noticed for you who really are as a person? Or would you rather be judged as a stereotype, or try to fit into some sort of stereotype?
/r/ExRedPill07/11/23 08:23 PM
2

There's not necessarily overlap between those three things.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/23 04:07 PM
1

Define "bad guy"? Are you talking about guys who just look like bad guys, with tattoos or something? Are you talking about guys who end up in trouble with the law? Are you talking about guys who are abusive?
/r/ExRedPill07/11/23 02:58 PM
2

Silly me... I realized that right after I posted my comment, lol
/r/ExRedPill05/11/23 08:49 PM
12

I'm not clicking on links to give some idiot more views. Why don't you say your own opinion? Is this your own YouTube channel you are trying to promote? If so, what the fuck?
/r/ExRedPill05/11/23 08:07 PM
10

Why are we posting links to toxic youtubers who don't know what they are talking about?
/r/ExRedPill05/11/23 07:58 PM
11

I think u/fathergoose77 said it better than I can.
/r/ExRedPill03/11/23 07:00 PM
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You honestly see zero point to interaction with other humans if sex isn't involved? Bro wtf.
/r/ExRedPill03/11/23 06:36 PM
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Maybe don't take advice from someone who is a rapist and sex trafficker?
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 12:41 PM
3

This is a very scary and unhealthy way to think about sex. This is something that requires professional help.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/23 01:20 PM
6

Ok. That's why communication and compatibility are important. Communication and compatibility are everything. I think you both have some trauma and misunderstandings about sex. If you do decide to go through with it, these sorts of issues will make sex so much more difficult.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 04:18 PM
10

Okay. So then why does the sexual lives of anybody else matter?
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 04:02 PM
7

I have to ask... are you two waiting for marriage to have sex? There's nothing inherently wrong with that. But a lot of couples who do that expect their fears/insecurities/misunderstandings about sex to go away once they are married. It doesn't work like that. You don't want the beginning of your marriage to be stuck in a dead bedroom.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 03:41 PM
6

I just want to say, if you feel alone in this, you're definitely not.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/23 06:12 PM
10

This sounds like a classic case of being unhappy with yourself, and you're directing it at others. No judgement, I think we've all done it at some point in some way or another. We don't know you so the advice here is generic. But you really do have to figure out happiness and acceptance for yourself. Nobody can change the past. I get it, it's not fun. The process of figuring it out sucks. But I wouldn't be suggesting it if I haven't seen it work for myself.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/23 06:05 PM
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Most people experience jealousy over something or another. Myself, I'm jealous lately of people who can afford to buy a house. What I do is I try and turn that jealousy into motivation. It motivates me to do better at school/work or to do other good things. It's clearly nothing personal against whoever has what you want. There's probably stuff going on in your life that other people would be jealous of.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/23 05:56 PM
9

Why do you feel such resentment?
/r/ExRedPill21/10/23 05:50 PM
3

It's like redpill teaches people how to NOT be relationship material.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/23 12:02 PM
7

Yup, you put it into words better than I could! The only thing I would add onto is #5. Profit doesn't necessarily mean money. It can mean they get whatever they want out of you. An ego boost, political power, sex, control of any kind.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/23 08:45 PM
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The stories here of guys falling down the alt right rabbit hole are so similar to the stories over at r/foxbrain. These grifters use fear to get people hooked on their nonsense. It's like a drug addiction. He has to want to change. Otherwise, I'm very sorry but this is probably the end of your relationship. You really don't want to stay with someone who sees you as an enemy.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/23 06:18 PM
2

This thread might interest you. These couples have been together for decades.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/23 01:38 PM
5

We saw each other more often when our schedules lined up better.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/23 01:24 PM
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Do you really need multiple posts asking the same question?
/r/ExRedPill04/10/23 01:18 PM
10

Lots of couples live together so they see each other every day. I've heard the average frequency for sex is once a week. (Don't quote me on that.) I don't live with my partner and we work opposite schedules. So I only get to see him once or twice a week. I'm looking forward to living with him.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/23 01:18 PM
9

relationship dogma What are you referring to?
/r/ExRedPill02/10/23 05:22 PM
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Because that's the nature of advice on the internet.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/23 05:22 PM
14

Your own sexual preferences don't speak for everyone else. This is just another example of someone who thinks their own opinion is objective fact. 🙄
/r/ExRedPill02/10/23 05:22 PM
2

I was raised by someone who had similar beliefs to redpill. My childhood was hell.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/23 04:09 PM
12

What on earth is this crap?
/r/ExRedPill02/10/23 03:57 PM
1

The draft in the USA hasn't been implemented in 50+ years. What are they supposed to fight against? Don't you think there's more important, recent stuff to work for? So you do understand my point. They complain about men being disposable, but then want a world where this continues to happen. Hypocrites who dig their own grave.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/23 04:46 PM
1

Well unattractive women still are higher value than men. Who do you think would be saved in a sinking ship an unattractive woman or a good looking man? Who would be given shelter at war and who would be sent to the frontline? Men are disposable women are not. Some say the reason behind this is biology other say it is not, I personally don't know but whether we like it or not this is how it works in our societies. How is this a feminist blind spot? Feminists have been arguing against this stuff f…
/r/ExRedPill25/09/23 04:21 PM
7

Source?
/r/ExRedPill23/09/23 03:38 PM
6

Pretty privilege is a thing. But it's not really so gendered. There's privilege of all sorts in the world. Being good looking, being white, being rich/born into wealth, being born into good family, and so on. Nobody here will deny it. But it doesn't mean it's worth throwing your life away and not bothering to try. Sometimes, privilege is a hindrance. If you skate by in life due to XYZ, maybe you don't learn other necessary skills. At the end of the day, how some other random person lives their l…
/r/ExRedPill23/09/23 03:36 PM
3

Well said.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/23 04:14 AM
5

Yeah this subreddit isn't as strict on moderation.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/23 12:16 AM
3

I mean, he's got a point. But it goes hand in hand with my top comment in this thread. It's only fucked up, shallow people who think that women have inherent value because of their beauty/reproductive ability, and men because of his wallet/hard work. It is very true. But only in the world of shallow and sexist people. It is upsetting. It's a bullshit ideology. I understand. I was raised with this shit and it fucked me up too. It's horrible for both men, women, and LGBTQ folks. It might be worth …
/r/ExRedPill23/09/23 12:08 AM
4

Tbh reading some of the comments in this thread just depressed me and makes me think rp is right Which comments? The RP troll comments?
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 11:17 PM
6

Oh yeah. It's like they de-value sex in the process. I'm not sure if I can explain it well. But it's like they put sex on a pedestal. But by doing so, it's a cheap commodity and it loses what makes it special.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 11:12 PM
6

It's all messed up no matter how we slice it.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 10:54 PM
2

Yup. Another thing. For some dudes in these incel/redpill spaces, anyone with a vagina is automatically pretty. Therefore, men are ugly. They're blinded by their own heterosexuality and desperation.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 10:51 PM
5

I was just reminded of the movie/musical Grease. The whole entire film is about sex and rock n roll, and promoting old gender norms. Half the characters are obsessed with sex. Even in the film, they admit sex lasts like 15 minutes, so what else are you supposed to do the rest of the day? Smh. Sex is fantastic but there's still more to life, people.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 10:41 PM
10

Since when do redpillers and blackpillers act like there's a difference?
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 10:37 PM
10

Well, according to this bullshit worldview, ugly women should get good at cooking and cleaning. If you can't be pretty, make yourself useful. Or some shit like that. 🙄 I can't believe I just wrote that out...
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 10:36 PM
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“women are born high value” “A women’s value comes from her beauty and being beautiful opens you up for more success in life” This is true among shallow, narcissistic, sexist people. People who only care about sex, money, and looks. People who have sad lives because they find no value or enjoyment in life other than sex and money. They also pretend everyone else is just as obsessed with sex and money and looks, because they don't know what it means to find anything else important in life. I was …
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 07:09 PM
5

Feminism isn't a dating strategy.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 09:57 PM
11

I didn't say he was a creep. I responded to his points about online dating and asked why his title didn't match the post. I said nothing about approaching women. I honestly don't know what you're talking about. Did you respond to the right person?
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 06:13 PM
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A lot of your post has been debunked many times already. Most women don't go looking for sex on demand with random guys. That means it's not that easy and/or not worth it in the end. For men, they're competing with the algorithms. Dating apps/sites are all a sausage fest. Whoever runs the sites/apps wants your money and your time, and they design the sites/apps as such. What does your title have to do with the rest of your post?
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 04:08 PM
7

It's exhausting dealing with anybody who thinks they need to be dominant and in control all the time. I walk away from those types of people. I wish they would take a chill pill.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 02:20 PM
6

This is some word salad. Are you ok dude?
/r/ExRedPill06/09/23 11:53 AM
1

I have felt like women have had it easy as they can become sugar babies or use men for money and not have to work a 9-5 job If it was so easy, then why do most women not do that sort of thing?
/r/ExRedPill01/09/23 04:16 PM
2

That was a bizarre reaction from that person. Lol
/r/ExRedPill01/09/23 04:14 PM
1

This is such a stereotypical scenario that redpillers are afraid of. So much so, that I wonder if this story is written just for ragebait. If it's not, pick better dates next time. Wear a condom. Why would you date someone so shitty?
/r/ExRedPill01/09/23 04:10 PM
11

Lol, spoken like a redpiller.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/23 04:43 AM
6

Bad advice.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/23 04:41 AM
14

I’m not ex-red pill or red pill And yet you start spreading redpill bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/23 04:40 AM
17

If you truly loved this man you'd be going straight to him having this conversation, not posting here. He'll either tell you it is over or if he truly loves you, you'll know immediately. Or he will try to manipulate her into staying with him, telling her that she's wrong. I hope OP is smart and brave enough to see right through it.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/23 01:43 AM
17

Beliefs don't live in a vacuum. They affect our actions and how we treat others. He's showing you the awful person he is. Believe it. Do you want your kids raised like this? I can tell you honestly that my own parents were kind of redpilled and it fucked me up big time. You have a duty to your future children to pick the best partner to parent them with. This dude ain't it.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/23 01:41 AM
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He believes that marriage is fundamentally unfair to men and that divorce is a way for women to steal men’s hard earned assets. So marriage is unfair and divorce is unfair. Why get married at all? He has asked me to sign a pre-nup where in case of divorce I would get nothing. That's not how pre-nups work. Pren-ups are to protect assets each person brings into a marriage. Why would you sign something that means you forfeit everything no matter the circumstances? Even the things you worked for and…
/r/ExRedPill29/08/23 01:36 AM
9

Why are you listening to redpill bullshit?
/r/ExRedPill26/08/23 07:06 PM
4

Is there a language barrier here? What you wrote comes across as word salad.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/23 03:10 PM
13

If you have plenty of things in life that make you happy, and sex is the only thing missing, then it's true that you have plenty of other things to focus on. There's tons of dudes out there who find themselves in your situation, that when they do get laid it's still not enough. They still aren't happy. So try to learn something from that. What is it about sex that you believe is so great that you're missing out on? What about sex, exactly?
/r/ExRedPill25/08/23 10:58 PM
15

You don't have to be rude. Just be like "yeah, uh-huh" and either walk away or change the subject. something that would make the conversation interesting is the connection we have if that makes sense Why is that what your mind first goes to? Can't conversations be interesting without the suggestion of sex or dating? My brain automatically jumps to sex cause well I’m not getting laid so putting that out there. There's people out there who are getting laid and they still inappropriately try to tur…
/r/ExRedPill25/08/23 10:47 PM
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Because usually for example when a girl coworker comes to talk to me it’s about nothing like literally just her dry ass personality with no brains It's part of being an adult. Having to be polite to people in public when you think are boring. What exactly would make the conversation interesting to you? and I’m not just saying this to be mean and at that point I’m thinking what more can you do for me but fornicate. That's kind of insulting. I know when I deal with boring or annoying people, I jus…
/r/ExRedPill25/08/23 10:27 PM
17

What makes you think that?
/r/ExRedPill25/08/23 10:20 PM
18

I have this mentality if we’re not fornicating why are you even talking to me Why do you believe this? Do you really think there's no point to socializing if you aren't getting laid? There's more to life than sex.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/23 09:46 PM
6

Trying to make things into a competitive pity party isn't going to help you.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/23 02:56 PM
4

What do you think is the difference between "radical" feminism and non radical feminism? Rhetoric from the right and the far right tends to label as anything on the left as "radical."
/r/ExRedPill25/08/23 02:42 PM
7

Either you're trolling or redpill melted your brain. Good luck with that.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/23 02:38 PM
10

So you're just going to ignore the rest of the advice? You need to work on your communication skills.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/23 02:36 PM
6

Lol masturbation is normal. Most people do it. You're still stuck in the redpill, huh? How's that working out for you? Clearly you feel like you're reading to explode so it's not working. Dude, even if you were getting laid you'd still be having issues. What are you trying to achieve here?
/r/ExRedPill25/08/23 02:35 PM
2

What?
/r/ExRedPill25/08/23 02:32 PM
9

I don't get it. You work with her and you've barely said two words to her. What's the problem? It's probably your age. You're not going to die of being horny, despite the number of guys the same age as you thinking they will. Here's my advice. (I'm going off of what my boyfriend would say worked for him.) Jerk off before you leave your house in the morning, so it's less of a distraction. Hit the gym more often to release that energy. Learn to socialize and deal with it despite your feelings. Thi…
/r/ExRedPill25/08/23 01:20 PM
5

I'm sick and tired of these arguments against trans people. Whoever is spewing this crap doesn't actually give a shit about women and children. They just use them as weapons in their arguments. If a woman or child gets raped by a cis Christian dude, do you really think they care? Are they gonna do shit about it? No way. They will protect the abuser and tell the victim stuff like "you were asking for it" or " you need to forgive them."
/r/ExRedPill24/08/23 04:38 PM
2

If you're interested... here's a video explaining most political ideologies out there.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/23 04:31 PM
2

Gotta dye your hair a deeper blue to announce how blue pilled you are. /s
/r/ExRedPill24/08/23 04:26 PM
2

Why do you hate yourself?
/r/ExRedPill23/08/23 01:40 AM
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This doesn't even make sense within itself. Redpill likes to say "all women want attention so they don't deserve it" meanwhile men want sex and they deserve it. It's not consistent at all.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/23 03:06 PM
1

Hahaha
/r/ExRedPill19/08/23 10:36 AM
12

"Women make incels" implies that women have some sort of responsibility to sleep with men. Which they don't. How are women supposed to take the virginity of men while also remaining pure virginal goddesses themselves, anyway? The ideology makes no sense.
/r/ExRedPill17/08/23 04:57 PM
4

Who the fuck is raising these kids... holy shit
/r/ExRedPill16/08/23 07:45 AM
11

Watch the show and you'll find answers.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/23 07:06 PM
12

A way to manipulate people.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/23 12:04 AM
3

Nobody has to do this stuff. But it sure is funny to think about. 🤣
/r/ExRedPill11/08/23 04:37 PM
1

Just because you gave someone a chance, doesn't mean you have to stay with them. You two don't even like each other. Girl what is you doing?
/r/ExRedPill11/08/23 04:36 PM
1

Well yeah, this redpill and blackpill shit doesn't live in a vacuum.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/23 04:34 PM
7

Thank god. No, it wasn't a great subreddit to debate in. It was overrun with manosphere rhetoric. I couldn't read that shit any longer, it was incredibly toxic. I remember chatting with people and getting strong vibes just from reading that shit on my phone that they were psychopaths and sociopaths looking to spread more pain.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/23 02:47 PM
2

Good question. They probably hide in plain sight, or don't go out much at all.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/23 04:42 AM
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It's homophobia, too. For some reason, so many homophobes out there will meet someone who is gay/bi and think they will hit on or sleep with anybody. It makes no sense. Liking the same gender doesn't mean you'll fuck anything that moves.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/23 06:04 PM
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Anybody can claim anything. It doesn't make it true. The thing is with making podcasts, youtube videos, whatever... the income is inconsistent and not guaranteed. What you make one month might not be the same next month.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/23 02:03 PM
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True. But I think it's also true that some people insist on living their lives according to strict rules, regardless of if they are helped or hurt by those rules.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/23 05:01 AM
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It's a really long story, lol. Maybe I should make a post on it.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/23 04:56 AM
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One of my parents is a redpiller, kind of. He was like that before redpill was a thing. You can say I was raised into that ideology. I've been debating on if I should make a post about it.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/23 02:09 AM
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That kind of content is not healthy nor helpful. I avoid it like the plague, and you should too. Women are tired of being harassed and objectified. Rightfully so. But there's a group that emerged and became more extreme in their outrage. Their rhetoric is not helpful or healthy. And somehow, the abusive dudes never got the message to stop their bullshit while a lot of innocent dudes have had their self esteem issues exacerbated. If you're not harassing women, then you don't have to worry.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 06:44 PM
5

You just outed yourself as someone who doesn't give a shit about anybody else.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 09:18 AM
6

Women are happier when single. Men are not. Sounds like a you problem.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/23 01:55 PM
1

Sounds like he's blaming you for his own shortcomings.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/23 01:52 PM
2

The grass is greener on the other side because it is fertilized with bullshit. Thank you for taking the time to explain, I do appreciate it. Maybe I don't understand from my own perspective because of the shitty way I was raised. (Sorry for the incoming rant.) My mom was one of those "keep up with the Jones'" types of people. I've seen firsthand what jealousy (and being blinded by that jealousy) does to people. My mom was convinced that other people had some perfect life, she only saw the great …
/r/ExRedPill25/07/23 08:55 PM
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Please just remember you don't have to "convince" someone you're profoundly unhappy, and that it hurts that they don't care. Well said. I think there's a number of redpillers out there that actually want women to be unhappy. It's some sort of sadistic revenge fantasy. They think women deserve the worst, because they dare to be pretty and get tons of attention. Women need to be put in their place or some shit. (Obviously not my opinion, I don't think it's true.) It was very apparent when we had a…
/r/ExRedPill25/07/23 08:44 PM
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men built this world, so get over it”) This is one of the most infuriating comments, lol. They're just mad we don't worship men, lol. Even if the statement was true... then any guy who says this is welcome to fuck off. Clearly they don't need women in their lives. It's also fucking dumb because this statement basically admits that the patriarchy exists, which they firmly deny. "Men built this world!" Is said by man babies who sit on the couch, don't change their children's diapers, and haven't c…
/r/ExRedPill25/07/23 08:32 PM
2

I do really want to know. Who taught you/where did you learn that you need to have an abundance of anything or else you are worthless/pointless?
/r/ExRedPill25/07/23 08:13 PM
2

It really doesn't have much to do with what I said. It doesn't answer my question. Someone can have few options of anything in life, and take rejection with grace and humility. Someone can have many options and be a complete asshole when it comes to getting rejected.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/23 07:56 PM
2

A lack of what options? What does that have to do with not being taught how to handle rejection?
/r/ExRedPill25/07/23 06:51 PM
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I also don’t think that the people who condemn them are actually concerned about their children being bullied at school. Exactly. The people who say this are probably also the ones who bully the kids at school. Why? Because it's not about the kids. It's about shaming women. It's the same issue with trans people. It's not about kids transitioning or getting bullied for it, and it never was. It's about shaming people for breaking gender norms. The people who complain about it are the bullies thems…
/r/ExRedPill24/07/23 01:43 PM
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I suggest you speak to a therapist about your misplaced anger and resentment towards women. The fact that some women were not attracted to you in the past, and different women are attracted to you now, is not a rational reason to hate or mistreat anyone. You are not entitled to anyone's sexual attention, and women are not a hivemind acting in concert. Sometimes I wonder why rejection is such a massive deal to some people. Yes it can hurt, but it shouldn't be so devastating that it makes you bitt…
/r/ExRedPill22/07/23 06:10 AM
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Why do I have to "work on myself" to get in a relationship? Technically, you don't have to. You don't have to do anything you don't want to. The fact is that everybody brings baggage into relationships. When you date someone long enough, they get to know you more and more, on a deeper level. Don't you want to be a good person, for yourself and them? Don't you want to be the best version of yourself you can be? Personally, I don't want to be someone who is negative and going to bring someone else…
/r/ExRedPill22/07/23 06:05 AM
1

Did you read my comment? Search Jordan Peterson on this subreddit and you'll find answers.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/23 07:06 PM
5

Yeah that definitely counts as a core wound. Trust issues suck and you're not alone. You don't have to answer this now, it's something to work on over time. Was it a past relationship, friendship, or problems with your parents that helped you form these trust issues? That's usually where this comes from. It's important to take your time getting to know someone before you are officially a couple. Even then, people can spend years dating before they decide to combine and build their lives together…
/r/ExRedPill19/07/23 05:24 PM
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I think you have to address whatever insecurity/negative feelings about yourself these thoughts appeal to.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/23 04:37 PM
2

Agreed. My comment was definitely an oversimplification, lol
/r/ExRedPill19/07/23 03:18 PM
1

The "man's world" is also the default world, i.e. what is normal. This is basically what the patriarchy is. But a lot of them claim the patriarchy doesn't exist.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/23 03:42 AM
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Just my two cents, but I've never understood the appeal of trying to find the hottest date ever. This goes for both men and women.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/23 10:41 PM
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He believes it because he wants to believes it. It speaks to his insecurities.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/23 10:14 PM
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Sounds like you need to hang around better people.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/23 10:13 PM
10

Largely excluded =/= totally excluded
/r/ExRedPill18/07/23 06:13 PM
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There's a lot of issues with Jordan Peterson. Honestly I haven't even kept track of all the issues with him so I couldn't even tell you. I don’t waste my time on him. Sounds like your counselor has their own issues. How old are you?
/r/ExRedPill18/07/23 06:12 PM
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Here's an example from history. Faber-Castell AG is a manufacturer of pens, pencils, other office supplies (e.g., staplers, slide rules, erasers, rulers) and art supplies, as well as high-end writing instruments and luxury leather goods. Faber-Castell was founded in 1761 in Stein, Germany, by cabinet maker Kaspar Faber (1730–84) as the A.W. Faber Company. It has remained in the Faber family for eight generations. The company expanded under Kaspar Faber's great-grandson, Johann Lothar Freiherr vo…
/r/ExRedPill18/07/23 06:09 PM
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I find it interesting how redpillers say feminism ruined everything, men built this world, but also the patriarchy doesn't exist and never did. It's completely false and contradictory.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/23 06:05 PM
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Even if that was true, statistics don't really predict individual outcomes. You could easily meet anyone who has a different opinion.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/23 12:10 AM
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And pornhub.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/23 12:40 AM
2

There's a lot to pick apart when it comes to this claim. But right now I'll just bring up one aspect of it. They usually say this and follow up with "because women get frequent attention and possible sex all the time." Not every woman gets sexual advances and attention all the time. The redpillers/blackpillers are stuck in their own mindset. They want attention. Sex is always a positive thing. Therefore, receiving sexual attention is a good thing. It's an "I want XYZ, therefore you should be hap…
/r/ExRedPill16/07/23 12:37 AM
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Don't get me wrong, I don't think Gus was a great guy. I just think he had a better grip on his ego and masculinity than Walt did. "A man provides even when he is unappreciated" is a better outlook (even if it's not perfect) than the manipulative, broken ego shit Walt did. It never occurred to me that Gus' family might be a cover story. I assumed we didn't really see his family because he kept them away from the attention of the people he associated with. Which is not a bad idea, considering wha…
/r/ExRedPill14/07/23 06:47 PM
7

So you're just going to ignore all the other points that were made?
/r/ExRedPill14/07/23 02:12 PM
9

Gus Fring had a better sense of what it means to be a man than Walt did.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/23 12:42 PM
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You just refuted how you said it's impossible. If it's possible for some people, that doesn't make it completely impossible. Edit: my bad, I didn't look at who was responding. Ignore me
/r/ExRedPill14/07/23 03:00 AM
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Yes. It's a thing among countless people.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/23 08:32 PM
8

Why
/r/ExRedPill13/07/23 08:31 PM
8

I hope so.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/23 04:41 AM
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Maybe I'm wrong... but I think the job market and the housing market are going to be the biggest influences on the future of the younger generations. Even if you manage to find your soulmate one way or another... it doesn't mean shit if you can't build a life with them. Even just basic starter houses and 1 bedroom apartments are out of the question for TONS of people. Trying to find decent jobs is a bullshit process. You have to network and know people, blah blah blah. We know how that goes.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/23 04:41 AM
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No idea. I think in the western world, a large percentage of young people will try it at some point or another. That doesn't necessarily mean they will choose it as their main method of finding people. Social trends do change over time. Maybe younger people (millennials and younger) will use such sites/apps even more. Maybe in the future there will be a trend of not using them much/anymore for whatever reason. Maybe Gen Z is using it the most, but generations younger than them will see the issue…
/r/ExRedPill13/07/23 12:32 AM
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I think if/when the majority of people literally are not leaving their houses to go meet anybody irl, that means there are massive problems in the world besides dating.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/23 11:38 PM
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Plenty of people still meet in person through friends, work, or whatever. Seems to me like social media in general (online dating, Facebook, Tik Tok, LinkedIn, literally any type of social media) is making life difficult for younger generations. Dating can be a pain in the ass. Same with jobs/careers, friends, anything. It convinces everybody that they aren't good enough, that they aren't doing enough, they aren't successful enough, that they will end up alone, that they aren't good looking enou…
/r/ExRedPill12/07/23 11:30 PM
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It reeks of jealousy.
/r/ExRedPill11/07/23 01:53 PM
8

These videos sound dumb.
/r/ExRedPill07/07/23 09:21 AM
5

Omg you have no idea. 🤮
/r/ExRedPill06/07/23 01:15 AM
1

You don't know until you try. Lol 🤷‍♀️
/r/ExRedPill06/07/23 01:15 AM
2

Link?
/r/ExRedPill05/07/23 08:22 PM
22

One thing I've learned from therapy is that trying to cure emotional issues with logic doesn't really work.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/23 07:03 PM
3

I'm convinced that a lot of them need to try psychedelics. 😄
/r/ExRedPill05/07/23 06:55 PM
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The one redpiller-ish person I know irl is like this. I'm pretty sure they're a sociopath or a psychopath. Everything is a threat to their ego, and it's a nonstop game to try and be top dog. What a lame, stupid, exhausting existence.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/23 05:51 PM
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Long story short: find better people and figure out how to be a better person so you don't drag them down with you. Trust me, I get how hard it is. I could have written your comment myself.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 06:07 PM
3

Redpillers be like: yes that's how it should be
/r/ExRedPill23/06/23 01:23 AM
7

What ideology do you think we have on this subreddit?
/r/ExRedPill20/06/23 04:35 AM
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Wow, you assumed a whole lot of shit about me that isn't true just from a simple question I asked. Sounds like you're the one who prefers to hang out in echo chambers. Projection isn't a good look, bro.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/23 01:46 AM
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Sucks that you have no better ideas.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/23 01:28 AM
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It's nice to feel a part of a sexist community?
/r/ExRedPill20/06/23 12:49 AM
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Because it's done a lot of damage to people's lives. Please use the search bar to look for such stories in this subreddit.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/23 12:49 AM
1

I watch a lot of his videos.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/23 12:41 AM
1

Surveys don't predict individual opinions. If you were as good at statistics as you think you are, you would understand that. Not to mention, you keep inserting your own opinion as some sort of objective fact. It's not the case. You really should keep your mouth shut until you learn the difference. Besides, none of what you are saying would help OP. He needs professional help for his issues. Professionals would not see someone with body image issues and show them "statistics" for who thinks who …
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 06:12 PM
1

I read something somewhere about how manhood and masculinity shouldn't be about trying to be ultra manly, in opposition to femininity. Being a man is in opposition to being a child, a little boy. (The logic would also follow that being a woman is not in opposition to being a man, but not being a little girl anymore.) So many of these redpill types act like immature wannabe frat boys. And they seek out women who don't act like grown women. This makes perfect sense the more I think about it. So ma…
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 03:06 PM
2

I just want to say, I'm sorry you're going through such a rough time and I hope things start to go better for you.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 03:00 PM
2

This subreddit attracts that kind of thing.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 02:57 PM
2

We know that body image issues are often caused by bullying and rejection.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 02:21 PM
2

I never said he was. You didn't answer the question.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 02:15 PM
2

Wow, so you think you can read minds?
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 02:14 PM
2

For what reason?
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 02:09 PM
2

Anything regarding aesthetics is subjective opinion. All of this nonsense about trying to pin down what is conventionally attractive is just a cope for body image issues. You really should work on speaking for yourself and not pretending you know the thoughts of others. It's not a logical argument, it's purely emotions and insecurities.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 02:08 PM
2

Lying about what? For what reason? I think he looks like a normal dude.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 02:04 PM
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Yeah. In women, it leads to things like eating disorders. In men, it seems to lead to incel behaviors/attitudes.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 01:57 PM
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Why is it that if we said he looks fine, it automatically means we're liars, but if we said he looked ugly we are telling the truth? Selection bias and confirmation bias. And an inability to distinguish subjectivity from objectivity.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 01:51 PM
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Nobody is lying here. Your own subjective views of his appearance are not an objective reality.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 01:45 PM
3

It's sad how they project their body image issues onto others.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 01:44 PM
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Yeah, OP looks like a normal dude. Body image issues affect men, too.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 12:46 PM
7

I don't have an interest in melting my brain with that garbage. I'm sure I'm not the only one here.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 12:28 PM
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Something I've noticed is that the way one person acts and what they do can influence what other people think of them in terms of beauty and attraction. Like Jeffrey Dahmer. People said he was a conventionally good looking dude. I know myself and others think he is ugly, and it's very much due to what we know of his crimes. This stuff about if people are shallow and if they are good looking... it's so subjective. Who gives a fuck? Worrying about it too much is bad for your brain. It fucks with y…
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 07:40 AM
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Sounds like you have some pretty strong beliefs about this already. What would change your mind?
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 07:29 AM
3

Seriously, he looks like a normal dude.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 03:09 AM
1

You don't get to tell other people how they should feel about how others think of their looks, bad or good.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 09:45 PM
1

Just because being objectified would make you feel good, doesn't mean it's the same for others.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 09:17 PM
2

Posts like this are a reminder that men can and do suffer from body image issues just as much as women. It's pretty obvious that the difference is that they turn their negatively outward, while women turn it inward and are more likely to develop eating disorders. To OP: I guarantee you that your image of yourself is not accurate.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 08:46 PM
1

Personality can't change? Not with that attitude
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 06:37 PM
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Looks are definitely not enough. You have to not be an asshole and not scare people away.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 05:30 PM
3

Sexual attraction from random people is cheap, shallow, and objectifying. There's nothing special about it. There's nothing about it that says "you are wanted for something that is intrinsically you." People are more than their genitals, bro.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 05:27 PM
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Because it's good for your health and good for your confidence. There's many reasons besides looks.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 05:23 PM
11

Who is calling you ugly?
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 05:21 PM
3

You must be a really fucked up person if women are seeking out other fun sexual situations over you. They don’t need another person. It's not a need, it's a want.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 04:54 PM
2

Nah, you just want to film your own.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 04:45 PM
6

Lol, look who thinks they can gatekeep the dating world with their keyboard skills.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 04:45 PM
4

Source?
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 04:37 PM
4

Source?
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 04:34 PM
4

Can we please ban this asshole? He's planning revenge porn.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 04:27 PM
1

I honestly can’t see how threesomes really help with relationship issues. They don't. The problem is people think it should help.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 03:41 PM
3

That sucks, man. It sounds like it really sucks that so many people don't really figure out their sexuality (or lack thereof) without first trying things out with people they were incompatible with.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 03:40 PM
2

Not everyone wants or asked for options. Tons of people don't even care, they just want their one partner. Women didn't ask to be put on a sexual pedestal. It's bullshit and comes with its own problems. If so many men weren't such horndogs, there wouldn't be a pedestal.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 03:27 PM
1

Maybe if you weren't acting so bitter and hateful, you'd receive some support and understanding for your troubles.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 03:18 PM
1

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 03:17 PM
6

Look who thinks he understands people. Lmao.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 02:43 PM
6

People having threesomes confirms your beliefs? Sounds like you never left redpill to begin with.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 02:41 PM
7

My bi and poly friends would have zero interest in you because you're acting psycho, bro. Get over yourself.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 02:39 PM
6

Dude, you need therapy. If that doesn't work, try psychedelics. You are out of your goddamn mind.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 02:17 PM
5

Lol, I've been in a monogamous relationship for the past 3 years. Sex isn't a commodity, bro. It's not a zero sum game. They're having fun as they please. Maybe if you weren't so bitter, you wouldn't be scaring away potential partners. If this is how you act online, you're definitely scaring people irl.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 02:15 PM
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People having sex is selfish and disgusting? Then why are you so desperate to get laid? You're not fooling anyone on here with your thinly veiled threats. This is exredpill, bro. Do you want to leave redpill or not?
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 02:13 PM
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Lol, I don't see that happening. People have been having group sex since forever. You should work on your bitterness. Your comment is the definition of not coping well.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 01:59 PM
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You're only going to continue to be miserable if you keep worrying about how the world should conform to what you want. You really shouldn't be hanging out in online spaces that will help ruin your mental health. How is it selfish for them to do their own thing, not even knowing you exist?
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 01:56 PM
9

Does it matter? Being offered to be in a threesome isn't appealing to everyone, for multiple reasons.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 01:51 PM
1

Do you think that discord chat speaks for the majority of people? This has been explained on exredpill and related subreddits a million times. Hookups =/= dating. They are two totally different ballgames. Just because a woman gets a bunch of people who want to fuck her, it doesn't mean they actually give a shit about her and want to date her.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 01:44 PM
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Source?
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 11:53 PM
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I've read comments on there that must be from psychopaths or sociopaths. I've gotten the creeps just reading what they say. Like, really bad vibes. Some of the stuff on there isn't just hateful, it is cold and devoid of anything good.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 10:40 PM
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Add to the "ok to watch" list: F.D. Signifier Contrapoints Patrick Teahan (for working on trauma and mental health)
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 10:35 PM
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Some people make themselves feel better by shitting on others. It's that simple.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/23 06:21 PM
4

Exactly
/r/ExRedPill13/06/23 09:12 PM
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I'm a woman. I was never redpilled. I visit here because I believe my mom married someone with redpill tendencies. Basically, I experienced redpill parenting.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/23 05:45 PM
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Where are you getting this bullshit from?
/r/ExRedPill13/06/23 04:12 PM
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Asshole advice. Most of of the time it doesn't work. People develop PTSD. Some go on to off themselves or hurt themselves.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/23 01:24 PM
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Asshole advice
/r/ExRedPill13/06/23 12:39 PM
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It sounds like you have some trauma in your past. It would help a lot to work with a therapist to try and process that.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/23 12:38 PM
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Redpill is full of a lot of narcissistic and broken people. I've spent a LOT of time reading up on mental health issues and abuse. I believe I was raised by someone with a lot of redpill tendencies. (Redpill parenting... what a nightmare.) I'm no expert, so this is just my 2 cents. I think a lot of people in that sort of mindset don't really know what love is. They don't know what abuse is. They don't know what respect is. They may think that abusive tactics are respectful (or at least fair game…
/r/ExRedPill10/06/23 02:22 PM
1

Google the question. 😄
/r/ExRedPill08/06/23 04:25 PM
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No kidding. I'm 5'2". I've dated guys who were 6'2" and 6'4". Like... sex doesn't even work that well with that height difference. Lmao.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/23 04:19 AM
1

I knew one girl who was like 6ft tall. Tons of short/shorter guys liked her. She dated some of them.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/23 03:00 AM
2

One guy I dated for a long time was like 5'6".
/r/ExRedPill02/06/23 02:57 AM
2

I have a question. Does Barry Manilow know you raid his wardrobe?
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 05:27 AM
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Their ideal woman is instagram beautiful and could make a billion bucks if she opened up an onlyfans but so pure and chaste that she's never spoke or looked at another man other than him. It's pure fantasy. Like Rapunzel, basically.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 05:23 AM
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Do it if you want. But I don't believe sticking to rigid norms (and trying to get others to do the same) is healthy.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 05:21 AM
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Sometimes I wonder if they even like women at all.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 10:00 PM
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Nobody here said that it's the only thing that matters. But it does seem like all you care about is the finances and risk.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 07:19 PM
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That's an incredibly heartless and cruel answer. Besides, your DNA is not that special bro. Nobody's DNA is that special. If you don't know how to love or care for anyone who doesn't share DNA with you, that says more about you than anybody else.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 06:53 PM
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That's a very shallow answer. Decent people get into relationships, marriage, and kids because they care about each other. If you care mostly about risk and risk assessment, you should be looking for jobs at an insurance company, not for a relationship.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 04:28 PM
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Children are an investment in the future, no matter who their parents are and no matter if their parents are in their lives. Personally, I think it's messed up to not care about others simply because you don't share DNA with them. That's some tribalistic crap.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 04:23 PM
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He gets to decide that for himself. He shouldn't be with her if he doesn't love her and the children. If this is purely a financial decision, then maybe he shouldn't be with anybody.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 04:22 PM
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If he wants to. If he loves her, loves the kids, and they all get along well, then sure.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 04:19 PM
1

No we do. We just don't advertise it as much.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/23 06:30 PM
2

Beauty has no value if those who gaze upon it don't like it.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/23 06:27 PM
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Lots of lonely dudes seem to have body image issues. They're not as ugly as they think. There's a genre of porn for everything.
/r/ExRedPill13/05/23 04:57 AM
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Depends, are you trying to hang out with shallow people?
/r/ExRedPill11/05/23 12:53 PM
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It sounds like you're getting a little too attached to people you just met. Focus more on being yourself and having fun.
/r/ExRedPill10/05/23 02:46 PM
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I have CPTSD. Basically that means a long history of trauma. At times, exposure therapy has done wonders. The whole point is that you have to leave your comfort zone to make progress.
/r/ExRedPill10/05/23 02:14 PM
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That doesn't even make sense within the context of redpill. Allegedly, women have millions of options while men have next to none. So why would women be settling? It sounds like men would be the ones who have to settle. It's all bullshit anyway.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 01:31 PM
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For inexperienced men (most redpillers) yes that might have its appeal in theory, I think a lot of redpillers don't even realize why it appeals to them. but both experienced men and women realize that the volatility, poor communication skills and general chaos that comes with dating an emotionally immature person is not worth it. It definitely goes both ways for both genders. Being young, dumb, and immature is not specific to a certain gender.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 05:00 AM
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That's what redpillers want, though. It proves their (wrong) bias that women are inherently immature They are immature themselves. Like attracts like. If she's young, dumb, and immature enough, they can take advantage of her and treat her like garbage easily.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 04:37 AM
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Same. I'd rather meet someone through people I already know.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 04:25 AM
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Because it's not about power. Dating is about trying to find the right person for you. If you think dating is about power dynamics, you're already off to a bad start. Going through messages from guys online is kind of like going through your spam folder in your email. Quantity =/= quality. It's difficult because loads of guys do just want one thing but they pretend to want another. There's also the fact that many people (both men and women) don't know what they want in life or dating. So it ends…
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 04:24 AM
2

You're going off of bullshit statistics.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/23 10:08 AM
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Nothing wrong with wanting someone who's on the same page as you.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/23 10:03 AM
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It can cause problems in the bedroom too. I've seen it pop up on r/DeadBedrooms sometimes where a married couple is having issues because the husband has a madonna-whore complex. The wife wants to sleep with her husband like any normal couple. But he sees married, non virgin women less attractive so he isn't interested in his own wife. It's messed up.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/23 04:45 AM
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No man will take a woman seriously if she is open for the streets. Speak for yourself. It's also pretty telling how you wish you could be easy.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/23 04:40 AM
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It's easy to believe in gynocentrism if one dismisses or ignores the problems women deal with.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/23 07:13 PM
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Equality feels like oppression to the privileged.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/23 07:04 PM
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I think it's worse than hypocritical. Such an ideology is based on the fact that one person gains value as a human being by doing something that is degrading to another. I don't know how much more fucked up it can be. Life is miserable when it's all a zero sum game.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/23 07:02 PM
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Your marriage was never a real marriage if you've never been able to be vulnerable with them.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/23 01:45 PM
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They probably weren't broken up with for being vulnerable. They were broken up with because of other bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 10:01 PM
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Good luck with that. Sounds vapid and shallow to me. I'm glad none of my friends are like that.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 07:54 PM
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Lives with parents? Yes. I am right now. Ugly? I don't think of people that way. You really are ignorant on a lot of these matters, and what's worse is that you pretend everyone thinks the same you do.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 07:50 PM
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You are seriously ignorant on all of these matters.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 07:48 PM
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Sure. When you're seeking out vapid and shallow people. Go find people who don't care about that shit.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 07:25 PM
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I did not specify friends or romantic partners. Why? Because it doesn't matter. It's both. I've met most of my romantic partners through friends anyway. My friends and I don't hang out with shitty people. I don't date shitty people. We all hang out with each other. We meet new people through each other.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 07:23 PM
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Of course there's people out there who only care about looks, money, and status. Is it everybody? No. When I was around people like that, I was miserable. When I put all that bullshit behind me and found better, more genuine people to hang out with, I've been so much happier and successful in every way.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 05:42 PM
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I already answered in another comment. For the record, I don't really waste my time on giving thoughtful answers to people who are just going to reply with crabs in a bucket excuses. I'm not the only one like that, either. Not sure why you ask these questions when you are prepared to dismiss every answer.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 01:20 PM
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LMFAO
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 12:29 PM
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Depends on the situation. But there's always better choices to be made. Why do you need an ideology to follow? Think for yourself and drop the doomerist crap.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 12:28 PM
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Depends on the situation. There's almost always alternatives. Lack of imagination is zero excuse.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 12:27 PM
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Like I said in another comment. It's really sad that dudes in the manosphere are so miserable that they can't imagine anything getting better for themselves. It's insisting on making bad choices and I have no sympathy for that.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 12:24 PM
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Nah. It's self destruction.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 12:13 PM
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What's weird is that many men in the manosphere will admit this. But they have zero solutions. They're so stuck in the toxicity that their only idea is to stick with the toxic bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 08:44 PM
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What's your point? People like that are shitty.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 08:07 PM
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So what? The fact that it's mutual is the whole point. It's what makes it good. I'm sorry if your experiences have told you it's impossible. That was my guess as to why you seem to have zero hope with this kind of thing. I've had a lot of shitty people come and go in my life too. That doesn't make it worthless, quite the opposite. It makes me even more driven to find good people and appreciate them. Hint: they exist. Plenty of them.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 07:22 PM
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Not sure if that's sarcasm or not. Can't tell through text.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 07:19 PM
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What exactly have you done to make yourself such a garbage person? Everyone is has the opportunity to improve their lives and work on themselves. People who are doing great in life all still can find stuff they can do better with. People who aren't doing so great can make improvements to their lives. Even the most awful people in the world can do better. People who go to prison for horrible crimes can find ways to pick themselves off the ground. They get jobs, they study, they find spiritual mea…
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 07:19 PM
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Why is spending your time with someone who you enjoy sound like a bad/not worthwhile/unhappy idea?
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 07:06 PM
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I refuse to believe there's no way you can improve yourself. If you're here asking questions that's a good start in itself. The only way to fail here in this kind of thing is by giving up.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 07:05 PM
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What I'm doing with my own life is trying to be a better person. Be a good friend, be good at my job, find other goals, opportunities, and things that make life worthwhile. Part of helping others is being a good example to follow. If someone I knew came up to me with the issues you describe, I'd give the best supportive advice I could, like I would to a friend. I would also try and share how the good things I've done with my life are working, therefore it's worthwhile to try. The other part of i…
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 07:02 PM
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That's just not true. Ask anyone over the age of 40 or 50.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 06:52 PM
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Yes. Humans are social animals. We need friends and companionship. That being said. Why are those the only two options? Why is finding someone who you genuinely enjoy as a person not an option?
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 06:49 PM
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That's a really sad way to look at relationships.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 06:47 PM
2

It's even worse when people start learning this shit from their parents when they are kids. That is a huge impact on brain development.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 06:40 PM
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Toxic people are everywhere, both men and women Toxic people teach those beliefs/behaviors to their kids. Those kids grow up to be adults with toxic bullshit that they spread to their own kids and others. These people don't live in a vacuum. Someone is dating them. There's men out there dating toxic women too. Toxic people attract each other. Toxic people date relatively healthy people and spread their toxicity to them.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 06:38 PM
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Eating poison is not a great idea just because you have no food.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 06:36 PM
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Yeah pretty much.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/23 03:56 AM
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It makes me wonder if these idiots actually believe the words coming out of their mouths. If yes, then they are delusional. If not, they're just trying to be edgy, shocking, or doing it for attention. Don't give these fucktards another view.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/23 03:39 AM
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Mark it NSFW or give it a trigger warning so people don't have to see this shit if we don't want to.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/23 03:37 AM
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Last time I had a girls night with my friends, we got stoned, ordered pizza and watched a movie.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/23 08:38 PM
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Man, if this is what girls night is supposed to be, I've been hanging out with the wrong crowd! 🤣🤣🤣
/r/ExRedPill11/04/23 08:38 PM
1

Exactly. If OP thinks sex is about treating women like trash, then it says a lot about what kind of sex he's planning on having.
/r/ExRedPill29/03/23 02:44 PM
1

Ok? So what? This is exredpill, not an abortion debate sub.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/23 07:30 PM
1

I don't disagree with you that people who can appear as convincing and/or charming are persuasive to others. I wholeheartedly agree. I agree that those who have a good underdog story (or claim to have one anyway) will be appealing to others. They will be attractive to the opposite sex and probably seem like a role model to the same sex. That doesn't mean they are actually worth listening to though. This is my original point. Take a peek behind the curtain and see who they actually are. Are they …
/r/ExRedPill22/03/23 03:52 AM
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I think it's admirable when people don't pretend to know shit they don't. Hasan is good with this, Tate isn't. You keep listing reasons why Hasan IS a role model. If you would rather look up to people who are supposedly underdogs, even if their story is fake and they are an asshole, just say so.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/23 02:16 AM
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He admits it. He doesn't pretend not to be. Honesty is a good thing to admire. Is it a requirement to start off broke as fuck to be a role model?
/r/ExRedPill21/03/23 05:56 PM
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Every adult, man or woman, needs to learn emotional regulation. Basically, you're allowed to feel whatever you feel. You're allowed to show it at the right time and place, and do your best not to hurt anyone else in the process.
/r/ExRedPill21/03/23 05:53 PM
3

Got a source for that?
/r/ExRedPill20/03/23 04:04 PM
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Maybe its legitimacy is questionable. Maybe even if it is legitimate, it's a waste of time to worry about.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/23 08:24 PM
1

It sounds like you need a therapist.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/23 08:08 PM
1

Welcome to Capitalism, where you have zero worth as a human being other than your labor or your body.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/23 07:53 PM
2

Feminism isn't a dating strategy.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/23 01:26 PM
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Does anyone around here remember that sometimes people change jobs/careers? When I met my boyfriend, I was making more money than him. We both changed jobs a few times since then. Now he makes more money than me. Be happy and supportive of your partner when they find better opportunities and pay. Gender doesn't matter here.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/23 01:24 PM
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I was raised by a parent who had similar beliefs to redpill. Long story short, I was convinced I had zero worth as a human being. I was depressed and suicidal. When I got the hell away from them and realized I was raised wrong, my life started to improve. Authoritarian and sexist parenting is harmful.
/r/ExRedPill07/03/23 11:42 PM
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Sorry but I'm really not sure what you're referring to. I highly suggest stop worrying about pills or whatever ideologies. Work on being your best self and your social skills, or whatever you struggle with. Just be chill.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/23 07:14 PM
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No. Purple pill is mostly just a subreddit made up to argue against redpill and other manosphere ideas. Same with bluepill. It's not a real ideology anyone follows.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/23 06:53 PM
1

It feels like you have to be dishonest with women, What do you think you have to be dishonest about?
/r/ExRedPill22/02/23 07:01 PM
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20 is really young. You have tons of life to live. You'll be fine.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/23 06:59 PM
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People are more than their reproductive organs.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/23 01:28 PM
1

Same
/r/ExRedPill18/02/23 03:58 PM
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There's a ton of racist and bigoted people out there. You wouldn't want to date them anyway. Work on finding friends and your mental health. It's a bigger priority.
/r/ExRedPill18/02/23 03:50 PM
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Because it's too young. Nobody's dating life is over if they haven't gotten laid by age 12.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 04:03 PM
4

12 years old. Omg. facepalm
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 03:53 PM
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You're not as good as it as you think you are. Same with tons of other guys out there. Redpill exists to feed their broken egos. One day when you're older you'll agree.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 03:42 PM
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Considering how much you ignore half of what people write in this comment section, I highly doubt you have the listening skills to pay attention to a woman and find out what she wants as an individual. Learn some humility bro.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 05:08 AM
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It's called listening to people and getting to know them as individuals.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 05:06 AM
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Lol. Millions of dudes will say that. But really they are overestimating their knowledge and their skills.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 05:03 AM
6

Play shit games, win shit prizes. He deserved it, even though it was a lame joke.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/23 06:52 AM
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Making a fake women's dating profile doesn't mean you suddenly understand the perspectives of women. There's probably red flags that lots of women would pick up on from the conversations you had, while you missed them. It's just a simple fact that you haven't lived as a woman and experienced what they deal with.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/23 04:02 PM
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Confirmation bias. Doomerism mentality. You gotta work on both of these things if you want anything in your life to get better. Find your own reasons to live. Think for yourself.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/23 03:57 PM
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The cookie cutter dude bros are the ones who don't fill out their profiles. Have you not heard women complain about how guys put in zero effort? The bar is so low and it's still too much effort for you.
/r/ExRedPill30/01/23 06:58 PM
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Yeah, they tend to put effort into their profiles.
/r/ExRedPill30/01/23 06:45 PM
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I wasn't trying to contradict you, I was just adding onto what you said. You make very good points here.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 11:51 PM
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Lol. I'm not afraid of that. What I am afraid of is people clinging to ideas so much that it's unhealthy and sabotaging. Edit: you don't see any value in skepticism, do you?
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 08:59 PM
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Well then you just admitted you're too stuck in your own confirmation bias to ever make any changes in your life. Good luck with that attitude. I'm sorry your imagination sucks that bad.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 08:54 PM
1

Well yeah, but I don't know why you or anyone else would want to sabotage the chances you do have. If you really really want to be dating someone.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 08:46 PM
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Good point. I find it interesting that so many guys complain that they aren't getting noticed by women on those apps, and yet they put zero effort into their dating profile or conversations. Empty bios, shitty pictures, and so on.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 08:39 PM
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That looks aren't everything. Can you imagine that as a hypothetical situation, even if you don't agree with it?
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 08:32 PM
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It's only a competition if you're desperate or have ego problems, and you make it into a competition. I agree the apps don't help with this.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 08:29 PM
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You completely missed the point.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 08:24 PM
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Companionship. Sharing a life with someone. Being there for someone, and you can depend on them too. A more steady and healthy sex life. Having someone to do fun things with.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 08:21 PM
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The problem with that is men who are struggling with relationships and dating might not know what it means to be successful at relationships. That's why they go for PUA's. They think getting as many women as possible means success, when in reality it has nothing to do with making a relationship work.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 08:18 PM
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Redpill doesn't live in a vacuum. This stuff actually affects people's lives. I think you don't take it seriously enough. Honestly you sound really young and immature, having zero empathy for anything.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 01:25 PM
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Thanks for proving my point.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 12:49 PM
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You're being pretty dismissive of people's real concerns with redpill. Why don't you try actually listening to people and not assume everything is just "trendy"?
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 03:50 AM
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Don't have kids with this guy. I had a parent who had a sort of redpill mindset and it fucked me up so bad.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/23 10:58 PM
2

Exactly. This was what I meant when I said they see some good quality in him.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/23 06:46 AM
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They think "geriatric" means anyone over the age of 25. 😄
/r/ExRedPill22/01/23 06:36 PM
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Not sure about the percentage but it is indeed a small number. I would say those women are either mentally ill, naive, or they are assholes themselves. There's assholes in every gender. Those types of relationships are nothing to be jealous of.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/23 08:51 PM
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I would say it's really important to make friends and acquaintances with people. You will need a social circle of good people. It will help you in dating. It will help you in your career. it's helpful for your mental health. There will be many times in life when you're looking for a job, or looking to date, or you need help with something. It's important to have decent people in your life which can help point you in the right direction. Making connections is important. I'm sure you will learn th…
/r/ExRedPill20/01/23 06:58 PM
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I can’t get over the whole “women expect men to be perfect!” part of redpill world. I've had some women friends who have dated shitty guys. They were jerks, didn't have their act together, abused substances, couldn't hold down a job, that kind of stuff. They didn't date these guys because they were jerks who didn't have their crap together. They dated them because they saw some good quality early on, then used that to forgive or put up with the other bullshit. Or they wanted a guy who was a "fix…
/r/ExRedPill20/01/23 06:34 PM
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You just said that victims deserve some of the blame.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/23 03:06 AM
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Nobody deserves to be assaulted.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/23 03:05 AM
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Probably that if she gets hurt or assaulted, she deserves it. That kind of mentality is what encouraged the person who abused me to do so, and then take zero blame for it. It's blatantly harmful and offensive to women. It's not helpful to men, either. This type of toxic right-wing crap teaches men that their experiences and feelings don't matter, and they don't have to be responsible for hurting others. That's the type of logic we're dealing with here.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 11:54 PM
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You can't control the inner desire. You can control your behavior and what you do with what you feel.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 11:49 PM
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I've been thinking a lot lately about how psychological manipulation works on people, both small-scale and large-scale. When I say psychological manipulation, I mean tactics like some of the ones you mentioned. Dread game, negging, smear campaigns (which I think can happen to anyone), love bombing, lying, intimidation, acting hot and cold (like good cop/bad cop), victim blaming ("you made me hurt you!"), triangulation. Narcissists seem to be individuals who typically do it on a smaller scale wit…
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 11:46 PM
1

He's a controversial figure and discussions about him pretty much always go off the rails.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 11:16 PM
1

I know you didn't say that. I was only adding to what you said.
/r/ExRedPill17/01/23 05:57 PM
1

Casual sex doesn't fulfill that desire.
/r/ExRedPill17/01/23 05:52 PM
1

What exactly is supposed to be appealing about that for women? Are you aware of the orgasm gap?
/r/ExRedPill17/01/23 03:36 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/109gfax/what_are_your_main_problems_with_the_red_pill/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/ExRedPill17/01/23 03:26 PM
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Cost of a party planner and decorator. Cost of a chauffeur/frequent ubers or lyfts Cost of laundry services Cost of dog walker/pet sitter
/r/ExRedPill13/01/23 01:47 AM
1

Because they have a persecution complex.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/23 01:42 AM
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How about this idea: anyone is allowed any preferences they want. If what they want is unrealistic, it's nobody else's problem but their own.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/23 01:39 AM
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I think people like that do exist. But I think it depends on where you're from and what your social circle is like.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/23 01:30 AM
2

Ding ding ding! Exactly. Redpill guys be like: "heads, men win. Tails, women lose."
/r/ExRedPill13/01/23 01:26 AM
2

A lot of redpillers seem to hate their moms so I'm not surprised.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/23 02:08 AM
1

Just like your mom
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 09:37 PM
1

Your mom is a scam
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 09:31 PM
1

I think it's super cringe when a guy complains something like "how come no women want to date me? I'm a feminist!" Like, feminism is not a dating strategy. Why are social movements for women focusing on equal rights and less violence towards women, while men's social movements (like redpill) are largely about dating? If you have to be told that whoever you want to date is a human being just like you, and they deserve some basic respect, you shouldn't be dating. (General "you", not you in particu…
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 09:29 PM
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I think the point is that by 30 she's supposed to be married with kids, so any value she has is because she's a mother. It's why childfree women get shit on so much.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 08:01 PM
3

My high school boyfriend was kind of like this. Just a complete debbie downer. I had zero idea what to do for him.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 06:10 PM
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Ok but tell us how you REALLY feel.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 06:01 PM
1

Humans are social creatures. Everyone needs attention to some degree or another, and that's okay. The problem is that most people don't just straight up say they need attention and validation, and instead play stupid games to try and get it. I do wish people were more comfortable being alone.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/23 02:37 PM
1

No kidding. Smh
/r/ExRedPill08/01/23 02:35 PM
6

I don't have the numbers on any of this. It wasn't my intention to make this discussion political.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 11:58 PM
5

Some do.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 11:49 PM
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Some people think feminism is the opposite. Doesn't have to be radical feminism. I consider myself a humanist. I respect people regardless of sex or gender, and hold the same standards to everyone. That has a lot of overlap with feminism. Some people might want to explore religious ideas. There's probably more I'm not thinking of.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 10:57 PM
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Stick with it to some degree or another.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 10:51 PM
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Aren't you exhausted of trying to be something you're not? If you have friends who are chill and you find a lady who is chill, you don't have to try so damn hard. Always improving is good but it shouldn't be a constant grind to be someone you're not meant to be. Good for you for heading down a better path.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 07:55 PM
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There are a few women out there that date assholes, whether they are aware of it or not. Usually they have their own issues they aren't dealing with. If you have any self respect, you wouldn't allow these women into your dating pool. TL;DR: Fucked up people are fucked up. More news at 11.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 07:51 PM
1

I think people complain that they don't have options because they don't want to take responsibility for themselves. It's always easier to blame someone/something else. People don't want to leave their comfort zone, basically.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 07:48 PM
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We literally just had a post on this the other day. https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/102yt22/former_red_pills_can_i_know_what_damage_is_caused/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button It's your own decision if you want to leave TRP or not.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 07:45 PM
1

Do you have a link to that article?
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 08:14 PM
2

I had a parent that was sort of redpilled. (He would not have known about redpill but he harbored the exact same beliefs.) It beyond fucked me up. I still have CPTSD. It doesn't go away.
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 08:05 PM
2

Along with all the conspiracies and misinformation lol
/r/ExRedPill31/12/22 10:42 PM
3

It's worth it.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/22 04:52 PM
2

Tell him to cope harder. 😂 Jokes aside, it's sad how far people will go to defend someone. Tate isn't just a manipulator of women, he's a manipulator of men too. It's easier to fool someone than it is to convince them they have been fooled. Sometimes I have this fantasy in my head that all the manipulative narcissists on the planet would just disappear to their own separate space and let the rest of us just carry on with normal lives. The narcs world would dissolve into madness instantly.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/22 04:51 PM
3

You do deserve better friends.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/22 06:32 AM
2

Someone is really trying to cope haha
/r/ExRedPill31/12/22 04:56 AM
1

Always a pleasure!
/r/ExRedPill31/12/22 04:55 AM
2

I hope so. That would be the best result from this situation.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 07:02 PM
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I can't speak for the influencers. If you have enough money and fame, you'll have a fan club somewhere that supports every stupid thing you do. As for the garden variety redpillers, there's no way they get older without alienating people in their life. They die alone, with the exception of maybe a few braindead enablers that stay by their side. No true friends or love.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 02:57 PM
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It's not a fact just because you want it to be. Putting words into my mouth and creating strawman arguments doesn't help your case. Where'd you get your information from anyway? From Andrew Tate? Lmao
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 06:14 AM
1

Lol none of that is a biological fact. You didn't answer the question either.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 06:08 AM
1

Bullshit. You're referring to pseudoscience and cherry picked info.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 06:07 AM
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I got u fam
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 02:33 AM
1

I don't want to give that asshole another view. Clicks and likes equals income and fame. I've seen some of his content when I was watching Hasan Piker. Well fucking said!
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 01:05 AM
1

He sounds like a fucking psycho.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 12:44 AM
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OP should volunteer to help animals. Give the animals some love. Plus there's loads of lovely ladies to meet in those kinds of groups.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 11:38 PM
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Turns out, sexual market value IS REAL. It's called sex trafficking! Guess what? That shit is immoral and illegal.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 11:35 PM
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What the fuck is a sexual market? It's called Sex Trafficking. Or Human Trafficking. Which by the way, Redpiller's homeboy Andrew Tate was just arrested on trafficking charges. Fuck around and find out!
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 11:32 PM
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Bullshit. You don't get to pretend you know other people better than they know themselves. Fuck off with that nonsense.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 11:20 PM
1

I’d say majority of women don’t want to financially support their husband. They’d want him to be the provider, protector, and leader (which is no problem btw). So they’d rather not pay majority of the bills and/or lead him in a relationship So you think the average women would much rather pay majority of the bills, marry a man that can’t really protect u in certain situations, and rather make majority of the decisions? It’s pretty much the reason why they want the “6ft, 6 figure, confident, inte…
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 11:18 PM
1

Says who?
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 11:13 PM
1

Got the age wrong but yeah I'm dating a guy who is in that spot in life.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 11:13 PM
1

Your question assumes SMV is even real.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 11:10 PM
4

It's called a search bar. Lol. You being lazy doesn't mean such stories don't exist.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 11:07 PM
2

However, there is this issue where most people (primarily women) aren't realistic with dating partners when it comes to socio-economic circumstances. I don't think either gender is realistic. Too many men have zero standards except wanting to find someone attractive. That's not a recipe for long term relationship success. It's not realistic. Now that the other half of the population has entered the work force, the salaries are lower and generally the market is more competitive. What does that ha…
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 11:03 PM
2

In gender terms, I just feel like a disposal tool - yet another cog in the machine. I don't feel as though I'm taken seriously as a person unless I provide something only the top percentile of the population can provide. That's not a gendered thing. Loads of women feel the same way. Most of my perspective and mental health issues (like most men) are downplayed or invalidated by society disproportionately compared to women. Women have been socialized to be more emotionally aware and sensitive. Th…
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 11:00 PM
1

Your title says "women who date these men" but your post says "women who use these men." Which is it? Do you think that dating someone means using them for something?
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 10:49 PM
5

There are success stories. You have to actually look for them.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 10:45 PM
2

Lust mixed with anger, resentment, and trauma is not a good place to be in.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 10:44 PM
3

Nope. The other commenter explained it better than I can so I don't need to elaborate.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 10:43 PM
5

The successful ones don't come back here. Lol
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 10:41 PM
6

I was raised by a parent figure with redpill-like beliefs. It was hell.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 10:39 PM
3

They did not allude to it. You just want to believe they did.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 10:36 PM
4

It's plain old lust.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 10:31 PM
2

Love is a form of joy. I'll just leave it at that. I think the fact I got so depressed over the past year is because I started relying so much on loving someone else. That's a very powerful and wise realization. I think you have more potential than you realize. It's just plain as day how much you drag yourself down. Nobody wants to watch you do that and I know you don't want to do that either. . I often do end up looking back at myself years ahead and realizing "wtf, how did I think that," so it…
/r/ExRedPill28/12/22 05:39 PM
2

You really need to work on keeping an open mind. About anything and everything, really. New ideas, new experiences, new people. It's important to recognize our own biases. One of them being, once someone believes one thing it's incredibly difficult to change their mind. Another bias is how just because you haven't experienced something, doesn't mean it doesn't exist. Especially if you're lacking in life experience (which everyone is at your age) then there's so much you just don't know. Yet anot…
/r/ExRedPill28/12/22 05:03 PM
3

I don't "envy" them. I don't think it's envious in any way. It's just a form of entertainment they choose to go with. Sex and going on "cute" dates is fun, Then why would you constantly bring up how shitty people end up in shitty relationships? You know it's not relevant and it's not the best way to go. and it gets more fun when you're with someone you think is extremely valuable. Shitty vapid people think this way. Normal people don't. You can get this idea out of your head now. Well it's just …
/r/ExRedPill28/12/22 04:36 PM
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It's the way the world works for shitty people. But plenty of people out there are not shitty. You're not going to attract them with a shitty attitude.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/22 04:23 PM
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Most people aren't aware of how they appear to others. So I don't believe you. People stick in shitty relationships because they are afraid to leave and be alone. Your astounding lack of experience, paired with your arrogance, is making you say shitty and wrong opinions like you just said. Do you envy shitty relationships between shitty people? Why is it so hard for you to believe things can/are different for other people out there who aren't so shitty?
/r/ExRedPill28/12/22 04:21 PM
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Sounds like that's the kind of life you want. Have fun bro
/r/ExRedPill28/12/22 04:17 PM
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Let me put it this way. Do you want to date someone who is resentful, depressed, and angry? Does that sound fun to you?
/r/ExRedPill28/12/22 04:16 PM
3

You don't have to talk a certain way to give off the same vibe.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/22 04:12 PM
2

Despite the fact that it happens all the time
/r/ExRedPill28/12/22 04:00 PM
2

So you don't have a real answer. Sounds like you're projecting.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/22 04:00 PM
3

Nobody wants to date you because you have that bad attitude.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/22 03:40 PM
3

Sounds like you need to learn to lighten up, have fun, not take everything so seriously.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/22 03:35 PM
2

Meanwhile, all I fucking care about at this point is just someone to be decent looking. I honestly have no fucking idea what else I would care for. Lots of women your age think the same way. Nobody in your age group has any life experience so all they know is who they think is hot or not. As people get older, they learn to value things that are more important than looks. You're honestly going to shit all over women your age for having the same standards as yourself?
/r/ExRedPill28/12/22 03:28 PM
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This is what happens when young people are told that the only value in life is to find someone else to date. I'm sorry you're going through this man. You're going to have to find your own path. No one can or will do it for you properly.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/22 02:26 PM
2

Confirmation bias. Your example is nonsense. Good luck with your self sabotage. Nothing I said was about blaming men. Happy holidays!
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 02:41 PM
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I told you looks don't matter so much and gave you examples. It should be good news for you! Why are you trying to fight what helps you?
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 02:38 PM
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You're pretty happy being miserable, aren't you?
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 02:35 PM
3

Let me know if you want to learn from someone who has more life experience than you. There's a lot you can learn from other people and you'll never get better with your crabs-in-a-bucket mentality. Good luck with that.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 02:31 PM
3

You just keep missing the point, don't you? I think the one suffering from confirmation bias is you. I lived for years thinking all I had to offer the world was my body. It was miserable and depressing. Sounds like where you're at right now. I worked on my depression, found another purpose in life, stopped giving a fuck, and grew the fuck up. It's way better and happier. I don't give a fuck if people are into me sexually. Don't need it. It's too much baggage. Besides, someone has to photoshop th…
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 02:26 PM
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does not mean he is attractive especially when the bar for men to be attractive is so high We don't know what he looks like. except there are men (and women) who have active and great dating and sex lives Source? Not true in my life. All of my friends are just average people and they get laid. artistic talent is near worthless compared to something as massive as looks You missed the point of what I said. It's subjective anyway. I'd rather be artistic and ugly than beautiful and talentless. The l…
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 02:13 PM
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Most people are bad at viewing their looks objectively. You're probably not as ugly as you feel. Even if someone else is good looking, it doesn't mean their life is all happy and perfect. Everyone has problems. You don't know what goes on in their private life. Literally everyone in their teens and 20s compares themselves to others and thinks they aren't good enough in one way or another. There's probably someone out there who is jealous of you or some aspect of your life. I have a friend who I …
/r/ExRedPill20/12/22 11:57 PM
2

It's not a good analogy at all.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/22 08:42 PM
2

It's not just the photos. Did you read the rest of what I wrote? Have you read how women are sick and tired of guys who put in zero effort?
/r/ExRedPill17/12/22 03:09 AM
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Usually their relationships are shitty and/or its hurtful to their partner. That's not something to be jealous of. Having a partner is not a good thing in itself. It depends on the relationship. Would you want to date someone with any of those bad qualities?
/r/ExRedPill17/12/22 03:07 AM
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I agree. I don't think I could ever date someone who was not intelligent. There was a few guys I went out with who were not the best looking. But we had a good thing going because we had great conversations.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/22 01:43 AM
1

That's a pretty sad life if the only thing to value is sleeping around with women.
/r/ExRedPill16/12/22 10:51 PM
1

It's like anti-dating advice. It's like redpillers WANT to be alone. Every single one of those ideas would make me avoid someone like the plague.
/r/ExRedPill16/12/22 10:32 PM
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