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This is what some people seem to refuse to believe. Women here want to deny there is any male advantage when it comes to aging and men here want to pretend that an attractive man is at peak attractiveness to late adolescent early young adult women at a ridiculously high age.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 10:32 PM
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I have more options with women now at 43 than I did at 23. These are Hot women, although under 25 is rare and not my preference anyways. I’ve always preferred women between 25-35. I think many people are talking past each other. It is hard to believe a 30,35,40 year old guy is at peak attractiveness to 18-22 year old college girls. But does an attractive, well aged, successful 35 year old guy have more options with women in the age range you stated? Of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:13 AM
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What percent of non obese women over 35 do you find attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:27 AM
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An attractive woman gets free stuff just for existing and has her time in the sun. Why should it last forever? Don’t have any sympathy to be honest. In some ways I think it is better never to have that time in the sun because you have something better to compare it to when its' gone. Not to mention the spectre of your time in the sun ending. If I have a daughter, I hope she's not a head turner for that reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 08:06 PM
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Yeah, and I've seen men make low effort passes on attractive women all the time. If it is just one instance, it says nothing about the woman or her actions. If it's happening all the time with no men interested in more then something else is up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 05:39 AM
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Do people not know that a man making low effort attempts to get laid means nothing about the target as a one-off event?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:41 AM
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All humans hit a wall, it's a matter of degree not kind. Men aren't at peak attractiveness to young, attractive women forever. I feel like a lot of this wall and age gap (15+ years when one partner is below age 25) relationship talk is a niche issue but blown up by both genders' insecurities about father time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:15 AM
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Depends. The Asian aging joke exists for a reason. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0923181105001738 Asians are also more prone to soft tissue changes in some areas than whites (and MENA people) https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/14648062/ Both Black people and Native Americans age better than whites on average. I would say fully Native American people age the best. I saw a lot of them when I stayed in a Kichwa community. All fully Native American people don't bald but the peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:32 AM
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They look better relative to white people but they still look older relative to their ethnicity. This is why men in every culture studied have preferred younger women. have seen kids with wrinkles in 3rd world countries, they still looked like kids due to soft tissue and bone. Soft tissue and bone changes damage facial harmony far more than lines on a face will.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:21 AM
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How much difference has it made in your skin? Of course, bone changes and soft tissue changes fuck up facial harmony far more than some lines on a face will. No one cheats father time completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:15 AM
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White people may look older sooner but in the end all races age like milk. Humans age like milk. My 15 year old cat has sleepy eyes and his fur is not as smooth as it used to be but the difference between him and a young adult cat is nothing like the difference between an 80 year old human and a young adult. It's one reason I think humans are such an unfortunate looking animal. This leads to half of the population of one of the most intelligent beings desperately clinging to their youth and they…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:13 AM
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"The wall" is probably not as bad outside of white countries because white girls are more prone to UV radiation skin damage, and it's made worse by their addiction to tanning. The thing is, a woman's declining options with age has been shown to be pretty universal. Non white people still look older when compared to other people of the same ethnicity. Look at Ashanti when she was young and now. She doesn't have any wrinkles but her face has changed. The idea of a woman rapidly aging at 30 is base…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:01 AM
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It's because if a man has sex with 60 women, he likely has some attractive qualities. Still to me, a man with 60 partners will be less attractive than a man with a more normal amount if you hold all things equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:39 AM
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I don't think this is necessarily true, it's the same as saying that rich men do not like women who look for resources in the cases they lose it/she divorces him. Losing resources is a matter of if, aging is matter of when. Every year past a certain point a woman will lose dating value. Of course women want the best they can get. However when they understand how men value youth, they don't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:19 PM
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Because humans are insecure. No one wants to see that they are literally declining in mate value year by year with no way to stop it. It's a bit like some men becoming insecure when being reminded about the age women rate men the most attractive or the age of male fantasy characters in novels for women. Or some people being insecure when iq is brought up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:43 PM
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its astonishing how much incels dominate online dating discourse. in the real world things are very different. Of course. Most people in their 30s do not age drastically. The men who say the only age a woman is attractive is her teens (lets be honest they say a woman begins her prime at 18 just because it is the age of legal adulthood) and early 20s are not in touch with reality. Still women of all ages are not comfortable with how men are attracted to youth, regardless of their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:49 AM
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I disagree. An attractive older man dating significantly younger women sends the signal that a woman's value declines with age. Even young women are bothered by it. It essentially puts them in the position of not wanting to get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:39 AM
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It's not interesting, it's perfectly understandable. Aging causes a massive amount of suffering for women. Look at how many women desperately cling to their youths by paying tens of thousands for a surgeon to cut off their face and sew it back on, will pay hundreds of dollars to inject muscle paralytics, etc. Sex and romance are a great part of life, and it's natural that a decline in the ability to get it will be hurtful. Not only this, but women feel a societal pressure from both genders and p…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:00 AM
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While age impacts male fertility, it does do so to nearly the same extent as it impacts women's. While this is true if you look at sperm quality there is one thing that everyone seems to forget about, erectile dysfunction. As a man ages the chances he will get to have natural sex and create a child decrease. Not to mention a much older man may die/become frail long before a woman and leave her in middle age with children, with a lower chance of finding a suitable male partner. From an evolutiona…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:40 AM
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That's hard. If it is pretty, not overpriced, and will be worth having years from now. Personally, I like large statement piece stones and/or a unique design. I used to college faberge egg necklaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:36 AM
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Thailand explains it haha. How many of those men get women who truly lust after them vs it just being a business arrangement?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 09:42 AM
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where dudes my age all have wives and numerous gf’s that are half my age or younger. Where are you where 60 year olds are dating 30 year olds and under? What do you think is the difference between women like you who at peace with themselves and woman who are still worried about ever new sign of aging in their 60s?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 08:56 AM
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Youth and beauty add to a woman's smv far more than being good does.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:37 PM
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I'm not assuming every man in that situation is doing that. I am going by what many men claim online about how they get pleasure from pissing over older women with their young gfs. Regardless of whether they are telling the truth, the sentiment is off putting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:03 PM
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If a man has the ability to inspire genuine feelings in young women then you can't blame him for taking that option. But if he relishes in women aging, using a young woman to piss older women off then it is off putting for the same reason a wealthy person bragging about how much better their life is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:28 PM
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Isn't this the same as women who date those men, accepting that the man they can attract has now changed. It sounds like they were smv and rmv matched. At least your step-dad can look back on his life with happiness, many can't do that. Men who want a young, thin, childless woman are asking for a woman who is in demand. If they lack in demand traits, then it makes sense how they won't get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:45 AM
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Why do you resent her reaction? It sounds like she felt awkward after the rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:40 AM
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. They're not equivalent accusations. You can cheat once and basically be a good person — a good person who did a bad thing. If you abuse kids, you're a piece of shit. This is true. The better analogy is how they would feel if their partner hired someone to go through their digital footprint to make sure they didn't cheat. However, accusing someone of faking paternity is worse than accusing someone of normal cheating. It basically accuses of woman of betraying a man in one of the worst ways poss…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:32 AM
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That's how, however, the pressure to look young is not evenly distributed among the genders. Men consistently rate women in their 20s the most attractive, regardless of their own age. It's the root of the aging asymmetry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:51 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:22 AM
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It's the truth. Some young women might not acknowledge the truth but the denial is a tacit admission of disheartening reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:38 AM
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All women are repulsed by the male attraction to youth as it signals all of their value will go down.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:18 AM
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How much does a man's career prospects contribute to his attractiveness for a casual relationship? I see men state their careers while also saying they just want a hookups. I don't understand the point of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:51 AM
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In many Arab countries that is true in a lot of ways, What Arab country is this not true in? In my experience even liberal countries have large swaths of the population with very misogynistic views. Your husbands families is likely highly educated and more insulated from this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 08:51 PM
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They can still get the guy, but they will have to hide something and the risk of it coming out is there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:01 AM
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Philosophy has real world applications but not economic applications.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:53 AM
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What is a fat woman to you? Is someone 10-20 pounds overweight really the equivalent of a man in terms of attraction? I'm not asking if you will date them but only if some sexual attraction is there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:46 AM
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Men don’t do this to each other and more importantly other men DONT CARE if men judge them because it doesn’t trigger the existential dread of being an unfit genetic dead end that a look of scorn or disgust does when it comes from a woman. Does this feeling in men get triggered from all women or just young, decently attractive ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 11:09 PM
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Another factor is older men pursuing young women signals that a woman's desirability declines with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:32 AM
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Your body and appearance is what you are (for a transient period of time), not who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 05:17 AM
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For most men the attraction is subconscious. Doesn't mean the reason isn't fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:28 AM
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Not really as women will experience that continued loss of desirability as negative. Humans derive self esteem from being attractive to the opposite sex and valuable to society. Women get the message that it decreases with time and that they have little time as being at the peak of their value before the decline. Look at skincareover30 on reddit, it is a sad subreddit. What about women who are widowed, cheated on, divorced? How about women who had hellish youths? They don't get more good years. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:30 PM
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Having your advantage first does make it easier. The wall is about the time in a women's life she has aged to a point she no longer attracts the type of men she once did. Men have their time when they have built the resources women look for. Taking dating out of the equation, what is better: A life with a lot of pleasure/ease in the beginning for a short while and then hardship for the rest of it or more hardship/suffering in the beginning followed by a long period of ease/pleasure. I would pick…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:33 PM
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But then that will lead to them being widowed in middle age and according to the men here, they will never be able to find a partner because older men will all be dating women 20-30 years younger. The stronger the male attraction to youth and the harder it is for older women to find partners, the more it is to the advantage of women not to date significantly older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:15 AM
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