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I'm providing and example to demonstrate that her fundamental premises is wrong. She didn't provide specific examples about specific men. She said that it seems that men don't marry younger women and that they only talk about how hot there are. This is not reflective of reality.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/21 12:18 AM
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Yes and?
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/21 11:21 PM
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Men marry for different reasons than women marry and most of the reasons are cultural. Plenty of young women get married to men around the world every day. Probably the majority of women get married under 30.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/21 04:00 PM
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Do what you think will keep your children safe but understand that it might cause an unrepairable rift between you and your husband. If you believe that you know better than him, then separate yourself and your children from him. If you submit to your husband then you must trust in his actions and leadership and work to establish a calm household.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/20 03:24 AM
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What I'm going to say to you now is not going to affect your mindset because you are in a bad place mentally. But you should look to the future as an opportunity. You are young, 10 years younger than I am. as a 30 year old, it's hard for me to look at any 19 year old person as a failure. Laughable even. There is just so much more time left and your 20s are a huge development period. First of all, stop comparing yourself to your man. You are not in competition with him. You and him are a team, yo…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/20 06:02 PM
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You need to learn how to love yourself and be happy. Nothing would make your man more happy than if you were cheerful and feeling good. I promise he doesn't care about any of those comparisons. He wants you to be happy and feeling good. If you are in a good mood all the time he is going to love being around you. That's all he cares about.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/20 05:27 PM
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Buy her dinner and drinks to show you're a man with money. She'll appreciate being taken care of (even though this is basically the first date).
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/17 08:11 PM
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The ammonia inhalants are a normal things in competitive weightlifting + waking up unconscious people. I don't know what their practical efficacy is, but the feeling is certainly electric. Not pleasant (intense, like inhaling tabasco fumes), and entirely different from the feeling of popper type nitrates.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 10:13 PM
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It's more valuable to define who/what you do care about rather than who/what you don't care about. How do you define control?
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 05:40 PM
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They probably just want you to validate their choices by engaging in the same behavior. Same deal as peer pressure towards drug use.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/16 11:25 AM
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If they use up all your resources then you're bad at budgeting. Children are an expense like any other, a high expense for sure, but they are not going to destroy you financially unless they fall seriously ill or you have minimal finances in the first place. As for never getting anything back, I guess that's your opinion. Many millions of people are cared for by their children into old age. Many businessmen raise their children to help them with their company and often pass it on to them. But th…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 06:40 PM
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Just speak clearly. Stop with the euphemisms. You think that children are a waste because they are a "black hole" or a deep pit which can never be filled. Is that supposed to mean something?
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 06:02 PM
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Black hole means what to you exactly?
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 08:24 PM
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For some people living life to the fullest means raising a family. What does "needing" a family have anything to do with gaining something in the end? You could make that argument for literally anything. "Who needs a nice house/car/body/woman when you have nothing left to gain in the end. Just live your life to the fullest."
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 03:04 PM
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Family. You're not going to raise children and build a tribe with someone you're not married to in America 99% of the time.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 01:49 PM
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Bouncers appreciate polite people and will remember the customers that are difficult and attention seeking. It's really not hard to become friendly with a bouncer. Just be a good customer and considerate towards others, build a rapport, introduce yourself, offer to get them a water, etc. Bouncers really like not having to do anything. If you behave in a way so that they can forget you exist the second you come in, they will be happy to see you come to the door because they will know you are a qu…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 09:30 PM
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Be outcome independent. You are not pursuing a woman for the purpose of bedding her, you are speaking and spending time with her because you enjoy yourself in that moment. When you are enjoying yourself and remaining present, you can move in any direction mentally and it will work. Sitting on a bench in a park chatting and enjoying yourself. Suddenly he jumps up and bolts at the pigeons that just landed sending them frantically into the air. "Can't let em get to comfortable," he says walking bac…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 08:53 PM
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Thanks for repping Gavin McInnes, his "Free Speech" video podcast is excellent.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 06:35 PM
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I've struggled with this problem rather often in my past. I enjoy communicating and as a result I often engage too much. If your relationship is in a bad way or not red pill enough that arguments are occurring frequently, when you text too much you're just rolling the dice faster on the next sentence that will be blown up into a fight. It's also important to note that you are never ever going to fix someone's problem through a text message, especially if they haven't asked for your help. Serious…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 08:12 PM
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It's worth noting that "tuna casserole" sounds funny in itself. It's so utterly plain and familiar that it highlights the absurdity of a man that can be driven into a rage at the slightest provocation. You can imagine the (mild) disappointment of coming home to a tuna casserole, which he then turns around into something that is fundamentally ridiculous.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 11:20 PM
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I think they are pretty good together. He's such a powerful presence she has to balance him out with attitude, but it's clear he likes it and doesn't hesitate to call out her bullshit and she does the same to him. I swear I can hear her making eyes at him after he's said some of the things
/r/askTRP04/11/15 03:04 PM
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Could be. But who would they be trolling? The people that visit the site? Supporters or otherwise. Seems stupid.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 06:42 PM
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The best part is in the "Our Lab" section. We have worked with over 9,000 physicians. That's impossible!
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 01:45 PM
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Of course it's okay. Her reasons for breaking up with him are reasonable. What this guy did, was demonstrate to her what his lifestyle was and how he chose to live it. She decided he and his lifestyle were not right for her. Then she finds out about the money and is all "Well that changes everything!" Does it really?
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 06:47 PM
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Televised news is fucking garbage. Full of drama is perfectly accurate. Why do you think otherwise?
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 07:37 PM
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Well RPWomen is in place to help women. Going there as a man and asking for tips is explicitly not allowed, nor the point of the community.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 01:26 PM
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Men don't understand what it's really like to be a woman much how they don't understand men. Women grow up and realize that the world is controlled by men, that all the powerful people are men. They understand what life as a woman is and will be, far more fundamentally than men, who are often quite clueless due to lack of training or clarity of vision. Women just get it. And then they put on armor and fight. It's why they can move on from relationships and are less likely to appeal to the sunk c…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 05:20 AM
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Don't conflate your preferences and values with honor.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 09:08 PM
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And it all comes back to the fact that you want other people to like you and are willing to sacrifice your own opinions, ideals, and convictions to make sure you do not make other people upset. Absolutely brilliant. This impulse, this desire to be liked and to conform in order to avoid attack, is what ultimately causes the feelings of apprehension you get when you A.) Attempt to talk to a beautiful woman. B.) Dance. C.) Think about people watching you in the gym. We fear public scorn quite right…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 02:20 AM
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He's not a natural, he didn't read it, he just learned it himself. It helps that he was tight with Patrice O'Neal, a goddamn red pill Socrates, whom Bill clearly greatly admires (runs a charity show benefiting Patrice's family).
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 01:58 AM
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it's all about mitigation and presence. If you are friendly with patrons, they are going to be less likely to be difficult if "their buddy" is the bouncer. No one wants trouble, and so long as you don't make someone have to defend their ego (just be respectful and don't escalate) things are going to go well. Always give someone an out. Don't take it personally, don't make it personal with the patron.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 09:18 PM
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You don't know what you think? Play along with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 06:32 PM
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Do you think there are more unfuckable women or unfuckable men? Or is it perfectly even?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 06:27 PM
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And you're suggesting those men are fuckable?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 06:21 PM
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Incels don't constantly bitch about how no one will fuck them because they are deeply ashamed about their lack of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 06:18 PM
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I would like you to believe me when I say that I am trying to be constructive. I have no intention of obfuscating or being intentionally difficult. Your previous comment is not clear, and you say a lot of things. I mean all the guys who are making low effort advances to every woman on the site and obviously wouldn't show you even basic human respect if you accepted their advance, those are guys who've looked at your picture and might recognise you on the street, and take it as a reason to approa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 06:14 PM
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In my experience, Incels have extremely low feelings of self worth, not inflated. That's one of the main reasons no one will fuck them, because they have zero confidence in themselves as a sexual being.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 06:08 PM
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So if I get this right, you're saying that the majority of men on OKC are sending out low effort "want some dik" messages, obviously don't respect women, and if they were to see you on the street there's a good chance they'll get pushy and assault you? And because of those reasons, women evaluated 80% of the men as unattractive? Is that what you're saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 06:05 PM
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So you're suggesting that male incels are all "knees too pointy" types?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 05:56 PM
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Would you be willing to venture a hypothesis to explain such a phenomena? Can you think of any reason why men and women, taking the same study, would evaluate the opposite sex upon different criteria? The red pill hypothesis is that men, being highly visual, accurately asses the comparative attractiveness of women (resulting in a Gaussian distribution). While women are biologically wired to see the bottom 80% of men as unattractive (resulting in the skewed chart).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 05:21 PM
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So what you're saying is essentially "the majority of the men on OKC are less attractive than the general population" aka filled with fuggos. But then this begs the question. How did men evaluate the women? Either the women on OKC are equal in attractiveness to the general population or the men evaluated the women on OKC exclusively (without considering ALL women). Why are the charts for men and women different?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 05:06 PM
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Making a woman feel scared or rejected does not make you a bad person, especially if that is not your intention.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 04:50 PM
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If you're going to be uncivil then there is nothing more to talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 04:46 PM
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Girls like him because he's an extraordinarily wealthy international pop icon, in addition to being very attractive. He has a SMV that is sky high, and based upon such factors, I would bet my life that he treats women like absolute garbage and they love him for it. He's a perfect example of a high SMV male.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 04:43 PM
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You're rambling pretty hard here. The point of the OKC study is that men evaluated the attractiveness of women on a perfectly distributed scale. Half of women were below average, half above average. Exactly what you would expect of a population. That's the definition of average. Women evaluated the attractiveness of men on a heavily slanted scale. 80% were below average, 20% were above average. And you're saying that OKC is skewing the study because reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 04:38 PM
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OMG, same thing. They are not the same thing at all. Involuntary means that you do not have a choice, you do not have the option to "pick".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 04:17 PM
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You said Ignoring someone is a form of social aggression among women. So when you do this, you are conveying, nonverbally, that you are angry and displeased with her for not having sex with you. Yes, I am displeased and as a result, I am no longer choosing to invest my attention in you (what she wants). Am I angry, no. With an abundance mentality you should never be angry at a girl for not wanting to have sex, it is what it is, cest la vi. But to argue that men shouldn't ignore a woman because i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 03:31 PM
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So what? Now men are only supposed to fuck "mature" women? What does that even mean? How many 18-25 y/o fall under that label? If you want men to only fuck emotionally mature women, the species will die. And once again, you are avoiding the concept of "mixed signals". You say that men should find women that are mature enough to say so verbally or non-verbally. And I am telling you that women will say "you're a pig" while having "fuck me eyes". Don't you understand that? TRP constantly talks abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 03:06 PM
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Well in the real world, women LIKE to play coy little games. While you work on changing that, we over at the red pill are going to continue teaching men the skills to navigate women as they are today.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 02:39 PM
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I didn't say that cuddling makes a man a loser. I said that cuddling with a woman in the hope that she'll fuck you, makes you a loser. At the very least, cuddling is a far second place, a non-sexual consolation prize. Now, based on what you've said, what's so bad about fiddling with your phone and withdrawing attention as a method to overcome LMR? What do you define as coercion? What suggested methods of overcoming LMR are coercive in a manner that you don't think is right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 01:38 PM
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His story is a great example of LMR and how not to overcome it. He highlights a very important fact in that story, that men are placed in bad situations, given mixed signals and are expected to succeed in spite of everything thrown in their way. Someone with a sexually savvy alpha mentality probably would have probably recognized what she was doing and held her down and fucked her, or simply left if he didn't want to play such a risky game. By trying to do the right thing, the good and noble thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 01:33 PM
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How was I supposed to know? Perhaps I should have known because I was her date and we were naked in her bed making out. If I was more savvy, more red pill, more horny and less tired, then I probably would have "overcome" her last minute resistance and fucked her like she wanted me to do. You call the girl crazy, but I just see normal woman type behavior. I don't believe she was actually mad at me, I believe she was frustrated with how things turned out and when her roommate came back and asked "…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 01:18 PM
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maybe cuddling leads to kissing, and kissing leads to sex This is precisely the kind of BS, blue pill advice that women give to men that leads to frustrated chumps shamefully concealing their boner (because they don't want to make her uncomfortable) while they lie next to a woman they desire, impotent. You have to understand something. When you sexually desire a woman and are denied, cuddling is no reward. It is in fact torturous. It's like waving a plate of food under the nose of a starving man…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 12:03 PM
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Everything you are saying is operating from the assumption that this woman does not actually want to have sex, and would otherwise abstain were it not for the man's dark machinations. You are describing one set of possible circumstances, the feminine perspective from one angle and a specific situation. In the way you describe it, this situation of overcoming LMR is like halfway to rape. A scenario where the man does not give a shit about the girl and will get what he wants, damned how she actual…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 11:44 AM
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Well you brought up "overcoming LMR" as an example of a bad thing. From there you've described a certain woman's perspective on the issue (aka a perspective highlighting the dangers women face in some kinds of romantic liaisons). In that context, how do you suggest a man act assuming he is acting without cruel intention?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 02:32 AM
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What then, is your advice to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 02:06 AM
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Why would you put yourself into a situation where the only escape is to fuck your way out of it? Isn't that fucking insane?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 01:46 AM
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I think that everything you have said is reasonable and an accurate description of the factors involved in such a situation. That being said I have two questions. Is this wrong to do? (and why) Is it not a woman's responsibility to care for her own security?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 01:39 AM
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LMR is all about overcoming mixed signals. You say that "the girl has expressed that she doesn't want to have sex" which I acknowledge is true in these examples (that she has said as such). What you are not factoring in, is that the concept of "I want to have sex" is very often (like 99% of the time) expressed non-verbally. One of the most often recommended methods of overcoming LMR is by withdrawing attention. She expresses that she doesn't want to have sex, you don't make a big deal about it, …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 12:51 AM
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Okay so what are they about?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/15 08:57 PM
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Do you stay up at night worrying about the plight of starving children in Africa? No, but I am aware of it. The issue here is that it was possible for you to get through a good deal of your life without having to consider how the other half lives, without even knowing that there was something to know. I didn't say what I said to criticize or insult you. I'm trying to point out the fact that women often have zero idea about the realities of sexual marketplace because they do not need to understan…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/15 08:42 PM
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The fact that such a thought never occurred to you is kind of mind melting. I'm not surprised by you, it's indicative of feminine solipsism. But for something (the reality of male sexuality) that is so ever-present and occasionally all consuming for men, to not even have an inkling of what men are going through, is like living in a dream world.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/15 07:47 PM
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then there's no way to influence the extent to which women want to sleep with you (besides making yourself more attractive). What are you trying to say here? TRP and PUA teach men how to behave in a manner that is attractive to women. Becoming more visually attractive, (fitness, clothes, etc.) is just a subset of becoming more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/15 07:35 PM
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Look you can't conquer the visible galaxy if you're still fucking around with spears.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/15 06:23 PM
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A hem...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/15 02:54 PM
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You appear to be arguing with someone else about something I'm not familiar with, so I'm done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/15 01:54 PM
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Constructive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/15 01:46 PM
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You said, My point is that she apparently felt that in order to have a "male" experience, she had to engage in these stereotypically male activities, and the masculine stereotype (the one endorsed by TRP, incidentally) is toxic. and I am refuting your conclusion based upon the fact that you have presented no evidence for this statement beyond your own feelings. I don't care what opinions you hold, I would just like you to substantiate them with more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/15 12:20 AM
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"Holy shit I hoped thought you died!"
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 12:08 AM
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Ignore the fucking chick. If you're in the middle of a conversation with someone and this girl (that has now been rude to you several times) comes up to the both of you, do not acknowledge her presence. Leave the simple pleasantries to the woman she's friends with. If she addresses you, one word responses or silence are perfectly acceptable responses. There is nothing red pill about saying "nice to see you" to a cute girl when you're 20 years older than her. A Man would not be worried about thre…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 10:09 PM
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So what then? Women want to kill themselves as often as men do but they are shitty at it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 04:59 PM
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So now you're choosing to be snarky? You just seem so completely sure of your position and what you're saying and I don't know why you insist on imposing your personal experiences on all male spaces. It doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 04:32 PM
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My objection goes all the way back up this chain where you implied (about so called male spaces/activities) that men feel forced into them and that they are "life-sapping" and "soul destroying". You then basically said, "no wonder that lady was suicidal, I would be too if I had to spend time doing those man things." I object to your conclusions because your descriptions are divorced from reality and my experiences and I challenge what you're saying. When you say that you haven't spent any time i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 08:00 PM
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Being a man is nice but participating in male spaces/events is soul destroying? I'm sorry that your experiences have been so miserable. Perhaps you're hanging out with the wrong types of people. I know it's largely irrelevant to say such things, but in my experience, my groups tend to highly value the expression of thoughts and ideas. Story telling is an integral part of these kinds of normal hang outs and the hallmark of a good story teller is their capacity to evoke emotion in the listener. Em…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 07:18 PM
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My point is that she apparently felt that in order to have a "male" experience, she had to engage in these stereotypically male activities, Agreed and the masculine stereotype (the one endorsed by TRP, incidentally) is toxic. Grossly reaching assumption. I don't understand why you conclude, having not read the book, that these male spaces are toxic and are what caused her to have negative emotions. That's a huge huge jump to make. She even states in the book that the men in the bowling group wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 06:48 PM
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Yes? What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 05:13 PM
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Well if everything is stacked against women it should be easy to provide two examples. Like a pro and con list. As an example, you might write something like this. Education In getting college scholarships, women have X disadvantages over men who have Y advantages due to patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 05:11 PM
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Can you provide a few examples of ways things are exclusively stacked against women in education?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 04:13 PM
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Why do you think any of those men feel forced to do those things? I would say the vast majority of men in bowling leagues find it invigorating and fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 04:03 PM
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How exactly are "nice guys" and TRPers two sides of the same coin? I understand what you're saying, but not the why. I need some kind of explanation longer than two sentences.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 05:36 PM
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Would this make women the gender of form? We rarely talk about what the purpose of women is, why their emotionality and solipsism is useful for the tribe.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 05:16 PM
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All bow before the powerful alpha "y'all are faggots" male.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 05:04 AM
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It is useless to worry about things you cannot change. What you can do, is plan for possibilities. Continue the course as though this guy was not in the picture, but create plans to deal with any curveballs he might throw. The fact is that ANYONE can meddle their way into your hard earned money if they are clever enough, but you don't fear them. Fear of progress because of the possibility that bad things might happen is a fallacy.
/r/askTRP18/05/15 05:13 PM
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I can't wait to listen to 30 minutes of my balls slapping.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 04:41 PM
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They say that love is like a drug. Well technically it is, serotonin and all that, but getting banged by an alpha drug dealer while off her mind on yayo probably ain't too bad either.
/r/askTRP04/05/15 09:48 PM
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In my estimation, the guy is a loyal and well meaning son of an incredibly powerful political heavy hitter and a member of a historically wealthy and powerful family. He was good for the job.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 09:43 PM
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Sex in front of a warm fire sounds all well and good until you're being raped in front of your hut.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/15 08:54 PM
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The codes of chivalry apply to the nobility exclusively. Feel free to rape the farmers daughter young soldier, but if you misbehave and act disrespectfully amongst the women of the your lord's court, there's going to be a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/15 08:30 PM
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But we're talking about interpersonal relationships, which I must insist are apolitical.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/15 05:31 PM
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Regardless of the morality, it is certainly natural for the strong the dominate the weak. Applying value judgments about such realities are philosophical.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/15 05:21 PM
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What do you mean by that? Who establishes/judges/maintains the agency of the individuals in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/15 05:15 PM
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So you're saying you would know because you would just know.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 12:09 AM
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He's not white knighting. You were rude and the girl made a face like she smelled shit. Pretty normal regardless of the circumstances.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 08:18 PM
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Sounds and looks pretty stupid to me.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 08:14 PM
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Well if you read the article, Judit Polgár is mentioned as having beaten Nigel Short in a chess series. Quoting this story has a double effect of being extremely interesting, and showing that she was engineered to be a chess prodigy by her father, a man.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 07:58 PM
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You know you're talking to good people when they know how to joke like that.
/r/askTRP20/04/15 03:31 AM
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I'm a big dude, 260 6ft + and am looking to buy a car within the next year or two. Ideally I'd look to spend between 8-10k on something with 4wd. Pickups are popular in my area, but a waste for me as I'd never use the bed. Vague description I know, but your advice was rather specific, any thoughts/recommendations for me?
/r/askTRP20/04/15 03:28 AM
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I know you're trying to make an analogy but all things being equal, you're a moron to buy a brand new car over one with just a few miles on it. Minimal wear and tear, massive price difference.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 06:17 PM
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That would be extremely effective. Especially since he'll never come.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 01:24 PM
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Beauty is a curse. As are all gifts. That which is given to you is easily taken away.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 01:51 PM
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More like the final solution.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 06:55 AM
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You can want sex whenever you want, but if it's 5am give the girl a break. Be okay with not having sex, go jerk off. If she gets mad that you initiated at all, for whatever reason, a good response is "I'll give you space" and remove yourself from the situation. Show her that by denying you, because she's tired or whatever, you'll find something else to do and give her what she's asking for.
/r/askTRP27/03/15 05:27 PM
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"You wish."
/r/askTRP27/03/15 05:22 PM
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You can't save people from themselves.
/r/askTRP27/03/15 01:17 PM
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He's saying that this is a problem most men have and one that's not really avoidable. Go fuck in a car or a hotel room or figure out a way for your parents to be cool with you bring chicks back.
/r/askTRP13/03/15 01:12 PM
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Life is cyclical because it responds to reproductive pressure.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 12:58 AM
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Generalizations are okay. If you disagree with his claim that is one thing, but it's not constructive to just say "la la la I'm not listening you're crazy". You have to explain WHY you disagree. Use an example or something. I agree with you that his generalization isn't accurate, but his question comes down to this: Why shouldn't I behave coldly to people whose lifestyle I find distasteful? Feminists have no problem behaving coldly, shaming and raging at people they disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 05:31 PM
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In any discussion it's constructive to take the other person at their word and give them the benefit of the doubt until they become logically inconsistent or contradict themselves. Cyralea made a claim, and specifically said that he feels a certain way, and you won't engage. You just say he is insane. It's not insane to venture the possibility that there are some men that find promiscuous women to be revolting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 04:42 PM
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"Nope." - Followed by cheeky smile, a kiss and out the door. I want to be a good father, but I don't want my entire life dictated by diapers and crying. A man needs time to himself to be a man. This is really well written. I think your wife would respect this just as you said it. If you have a good relationship, she's going to want you to be a man and have time to be a man.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 04:58 PM
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Yes. I find that most women I see are sexually attractive. As in, their physicality arouses my attention and my desire. Whether I desire to "date" them is different. I would not date a mother I see at the mall pushing around a stroller but I might find them sexually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 01:55 AM
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Not meant to be a comprehensive reply, but lesbian bed death is a thing and homo bed death isn't. Draw your own conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 12:50 AM
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I'm going to continue chasing something that doesn't matter, because doing the opposite means laying down and dying. This is the nature of life. Fight or die. Miserable choices really, but man does it feel good to win :)
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 12:46 AM
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Then I applaud you for it. Whatever gets you towards your goals is positive. Whatever helps you is positive. You can build your frame around anything you want, even if it's completely delusional (aka alpha frame master Tom Cruise). The people that are confident and dedicated enough to pursue unconventional goals (including entrepreneurship) do not have the time nor the inkling to post on TRP. This is a transitory place. A middle ground.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 12:37 AM
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Both are right. Both are irrelevant. Both waste their time thinking about the other.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 12:32 AM
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Like he said, there is no point. There is no end game as decided by the game. You, the player, decide what is important. While I understand that is depressing to most, to others it is liberating. You are truly free to live a life of your choosing. You cannot control the circumstances of your life, or the results of your decisions, but you can absolutely control your mental state and your choices. You cannot affect what ISIS does unless you fly over there and try and stop them. Since you won't, y…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 12:31 AM
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beta = civilized but without savagery bad boy = uncivilized savage alpha (King) = civilized savage Excellent stuff here. Most beta men are too intellectual/educated/civilized for their own good. They rebuff emotion, or at least masculine emotion and suffer as a result. Why does strong eye contact and body language work so well yet evade the grasp of so many? They are not in tune with their inner savage, the reptile brain, the survival computer.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 12:23 AM
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What if you have zero interest in women? What if you have unconventional goals like body modification or an ascetic lifestyle? Frame is healthy for the mind.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 11:50 PM
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Solipsism is what you're looking for. He's not wrong though, perception is essentially a giant illusion. Just because there are real things doesn't mean that you perceive reality. You can only perceive that which your faulty mortal body is capable of generating with chemicals and electricity.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 11:47 PM
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Some people put others down to validate their own choices. A classic blue pill emotion/expression of ego. "I can't believe that LOSER with NO JOB fucked my unicorn in the ass and didn't call her."
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 11:41 PM
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If this is the case, you need to completely cut this women from your life and get your head on straight. Her pussy isn't worth the compete loss of your self confidence. As if you're going to get better with her influence poisoning your mind.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 10:05 PM
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I believe he's practicing being present/in the moment. Staying relaxed and alert is hard in social situations. It's worth making an effort towards.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 02:50 PM
2

Why don't you venture a guess? This is known as a hypothesis. After you do that, we can have a discussion about your hypothesis and perhaps come closer to the truth of the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/15 09:51 PM
3

Yup. Most knights and samurai were content to extort their peasants and basically do whatever they want.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 09:05 PM
2

Chivalry was really a description of the ideals of how a vassal should behave towards their lord. That relationship is the paramount one. Behavior towards women is just about how a young knight should conduct himself towards noblewomen in the lords court. Just as Bushido defines and establishes how the samurai caste should behave, the codes of chivalry were meant to be like the knight bible.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 06:45 PM
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Why are you even asking the question? A woman isn't going to ever truly answer that kind of probing nonsense. There is no reality check here because your reality is based on the words of a girl trying to get you off her case.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 08:36 PM
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My gut sank I felt "betrayed by this fucking slut". My first thought was "she's a bitch, no loyalty". I couldn't talk to people normally. I tried to talk to other girls but I felt I was going to be sick so I left. Betrayed? You didn't even buy her a drink. What exactly does this woman owe you in any way? This is a perfect example of how a lack of abundance mentality, a blue pill mindset, effectively devalues and objectifies a woman because you feel like you own her. You believe that because you …
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 08:28 PM
1

People tend to take it well when you playfully point out verbal stumbles and stupid statements. "How long have you been speaking English?" is a fantastic line.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 02:21 PM
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If you think she looks like a fat slob in the 6th picture of the slide show I don't know what to tell you.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 02:46 AM
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Modern society is not healthy for human mental well being. When you read things like merely having plants in an office reduce worker stress across the board, you can begin to understand that a species that evolved to navigate the dynamic and visually complex space that is the wilderness, suffers much in the same way a golden retriever will become neurotic without interaction/space/things to play with.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 05:22 PM
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As a counter anecdote, I slept with one woman that absolutely could not come unless she was screaming. For the sake of her roommates, I covered her mouth.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 05:15 PM
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There is a literary device or perhaps a historical insight that I would describe as "the weeping(wailing) of women". In texts and poems relating to war (most of them), it's not uncommon for a giant battle and slaughter to occur, when the narrating element details the horrific sound and agony of the loser's women (dressed in black of course). The exhausted soldiers are dazed and confused, simply happy to be alive. Thinking about yesterdays carnage is a distant concern compared to finding a bed fo…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 02:37 AM
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I am committed to a life of poverty Please elaborate? You can't just throw that out there.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 02:19 AM
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You need to understand that this kind of exchange is not sad or pathetic. This has been the reality of the human sexual marketplace for thousands of years. "Gets away with." You don't understand
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 07:20 PM
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How to heal, guide and care for your mother from a RP perspective would be useful. How to use masculine energy as a son to improve the household (assuming you live with your parents/have a big family).
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 07:09 PM
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After getting rejected the first time you should have stopped interacting with her. You come across as creepy needy, especially with the pawing and unsuccessful kissing (wtf dude get a hint). Even if she was playing hard to get or whatever the fuck is going on, you gave her too much of your attention, completely sober. You acted thirsty and entered her frame listening to her bullshit storied about a boyfriend whatever. Putting your number in her phone is weak, she's not going to contact you ever…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 07:05 PM
10

Why would you be grateful to people that do nothing for you?
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/14 06:50 PM
3

Power of industry and power of military are fundamentally connected. Who builds the most powerful weapons of war in the world? American corporations.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 03:15 PM
6

All I know is that large mustaches are involved.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 03:44 AM
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You never lose points for thinking, and you can always tell people that's what you're doing in the even they press you for an answer. When you interrupt a man that's thinking, you're a brute. That's why it will rarely hurt you to hold your tongue and just sit on it for a bit.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 01:52 AM
5

Don't write checks your chin can't cash.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 04:26 PM
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The 8th law is why trp so often advocates that you shut the fuck up more often. Bide your time, stop texting back immediately. When you're not always so eager to act and fill up the silence, others will. When you appear to be calm, comfortable and composed, people assume you are operating from a superior position and they will either submit or attempt to reestablish their position. The 8th Law is why the "deliberate antagonization followed by a 'Hey calm down bro, it's just a joke'" tactic can b…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 05:16 PM
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Once again, this is another facet of understanding frame. Don't act like a neckbeard and think you're alpha because you don't care what other people think about your fedora. Understand that there is practical value in being well liked and well thought of, but also realize that strength and frame come from within. Do not allow your value to be defined by others. Honestly judge yourself, understand your capacity for self improvement, and don't allow negativity to direct your life.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 02:44 AM
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As a juicer, how do you feel about beating your meat? I find that whenever I beat my meat, I tend to end up with with a thick, chunky, and viscous mess that's really not all that pleasant to drink. I can't deny its nutritional value, but I also can't help be repelled by it, like towards cottage cheese, and fage.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 02:09 AM
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If you already cook breakfast for yourself as a habit, then sure, make her some too. But don't get up to cook for her specially, it should be incidental. Don't go hunting for your woman. Go hunting because you are a man and because you are so virile that you bring back more than enough meat for the both of you.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 01:53 AM
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For money, self, or builders of steps for the next wave of humans to do...... what? Another thought for another time. Hopefully that time comes soon. I think what you're getting at here is the ultimate destination of red pill philosophy. Why do all this? What do I want out of my earthly experience.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 01:53 AM
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Your writing style is strangely poetic. I like it. Also, this statement Many of them enjoy in crushing weak man. is an excellent example of why frame control is so important. Women shit test and take pleasure in mentally dominating people the same way that men do. The only difference is that when they fail to dominate, they get horny.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 01:34 AM
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LTRs are about saying "I'm in this but it has to be healthy. I will not accept any bullshit substitutes." This is really excellent. Blue pill men in LTRs suffer because they endure and cultivate unhealthy (feminine dominated) relationships. If a man allows himself to be ordered to the couch like a dog, he will never be respected. One of the hardest aspects of maintaining a LTR is knowing what "healthy" really means in the first place, especially if the people involved are unhealthy themselves (d…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 03:07 AM
2

What do you hate about it and what do you do?
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 11:10 PM
2

There's nothing like fucking a beautiful woman and especially nothing like having your spine sucked out your dick.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 06:40 PM
2

From a male perspective, it sounds as if he's saying that he isn't going around flirting with girls and trying to bang them, but if some hot pussy just fell into his lap, his willpower would probably fail. I understand that this is worrying for you and understandably so, but I think he's just honestly expressing the basic reality of male sexual desire. He doesn't want to cheat on you, and he's not doing anything to risk your relationship, but he does want to fuck other girls. The fact that he ex…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/14 12:00 AM
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Your line maybe. It's all subjective. Watching him commit pragmatic murder was shocking and enlightening to me. I don't have to like it, but it made me understand.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/14 01:09 AM
2

I don't understand how people can be so unbelievably fucking obtuse. The societal and economic benefits of easily available low cost birth control are hu-fucking-mongous. B-b-b-but my taxes! Sluts! Stop fucking you whores! I don't understand how people here can be so dense as not to realize that birth control is one of the very few demonstrably beneficial medical tools we have. If we stopped subsidizing birth control taxes won't go down you morons. (Just in case, I understand your sarcasm and ag…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 01:21 PM
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How can you say that it was necessary for him to act there? Clearly it wasn't because they were all fine. If the rockets hit them or that building, they would all be fucking dead, orders and actions be damned.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 10:13 PM
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If you're not a karma whore, the implication is that you are a "sexual" whore. He's joking you're a prostitute. Aka, he's just razzing you.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 02:24 AM
1

I think that by constantly framing these decisions in terms of your children's health (above and beyond your own) her motherly instincts will ultimately overcome her difficulties with food.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 06:59 PM
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Vicky said no, but he could hear Christina dripping onto the floor.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 11:34 PM
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"I don't care what the Fuck he does for a living, when I'm standing 2 feet away from this guy he is nothing more than another man" Quoting for excellence. This is Frame. Do not allow yourself to be dominated by societal judgements of value (wealth) and importance (fame). Just another man indeed.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 06:24 PM
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Well when brits veer into the absurd it's only natural to begin quoting Monty Python. If she wasn't stopped it was only a matter of time before she's yelling "Help! Help! I'm being repressed!"
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 04:32 PM
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People downvoted you because you said things like "use kicks to keep them at a distance," which is just terrible advice for pretty much everyone. If you're untrained, trying to throw a kick is likely going to be completely ineffective and just throw you off balance. And if you're attacked by a group, it will just inspire them to stomp you once they knock you to the ground.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 02:33 PM
5

BJJ is like the opposite of fancy. More like calculated and deliberate.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 02:09 PM
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How can you possibly argue that global warming is a movement against religion? As if climate change is a manufactured problem to alter the means of cultural transmission.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 05:25 PM
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Clearly they are related. Lesbian bed death is a thing, while I highly doubt that there are many male homosexual couples whose sex life devolves into nothing.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 05:39 PM
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That is one aspect of it. Young men get caught up in the romance (read sex) and make rash decisions before they have the experience to know any better. Another huge factor, is that the military will pay you to get married. That's right. If you're a single 18 year old recently enlisted, you get to live in the barracks with another hundred dudes in the same situation. If you're married however, you receive a stipend called BAH or Basic Allowance for Housing, and you're allowed to live off base. Of…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 06:58 AM
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It has been said that the greatest happiness comes from spreading joy. I think TRP message is about finding and achieving happiness for oneself, and the natural inclination of man is to share that happiness with those they care about.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 04:16 AM
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Honestly, the nicest part of this story is that you made your wife happy.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 03:49 AM
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