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ahahaha. i love pseudo-"alpha" fucks like you. You're suggesting that cheating is a good alternative? I have no moral qualms with sleeping around while in an LTR. But if you're too much of a pussy to let the other person know you're not exclusive, you need to re-evaluate your understanding of the TRP mindset (especially the principles of man). There are always women that are worth your time. Sure they're harder to find or might need conditioning, but they exist. Of course YOU can't find them bec…
/r/askTRP26/11/18 04:36 PM
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No it doesn’t. What do you not understand about temporary SMV boost? Girls that come after you predicated on the lie you managed to bang VS models will eventually come to an end. You just simply won’t have the boss attitude of the guy who ACTUALLY banged the VS models. They’ll end up going after him.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 06:21 PM
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Those of you that picked social proof failed. Remember this, if you increase your SMV through external sources, it's only temporary. ex/ You're at a wedding, you're dancing your ass off and everyone is impressed. Literally nobody else is commanding the floor like you. Your situational SMV there is far higher than your average day. As soon as you leave that venue though, its over. If you don't "practice what you preach" per say, then what other people think doesn't matter. Sooner or later they'll…
/r/askTRP16/11/18 04:50 PM
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You need to get your head out of your ass. You're focusing way too much on pussy and are glorifying the relationship ideal. This is a BP mentality. My advice? Time to go Monk Mode. You need to start hustling in the gym, on school, and building your career. If you still manage to have free time, pick up a sport or go to dance classes. Once you have sufficient self control and confidence, THEN work on your game and kill the approach anxiety. This won't be simple, but I found NoFap helps. Quit porn…
/r/askTRP16/11/18 04:45 PM
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Try to strike a balance. An hour or two of video games a week isn't bad. Make it a reward for when you accomplish certain things or when you want to wind down after a busy week. It's the same principle with alcohol, sex, pot, or any other such vice (except porn, that stuff just rots your brain). Use it when you need it.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 04:37 PM
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I'm hoping you are referring to your wife ​
/r/askTRP15/11/18 06:24 PM
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1) Hold frame against your mother. Use the guide to help you with her shit tests (Pressure Flip, Agree/Amplify, Ignore/Subject change, etc.) 2) Doesn't matter the opportunity, you're being devalued if you take that job. never go backwards to go forwards. If you must take a lateral into a different path, fine. Just start planning for it. 3) Shit happens. Cars break. Houses catch on fire. People get robbed/mugged. Accept it's out of your hands, focus on dealing with it instead 4) No such thing as …
/r/askTRP15/11/18 06:17 PM
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It’s time for you to network hard. You have direct customer experience and some leadership. You need to spin a story to get into the industry your degree (and your passion) pertains too. I’d suggest scoping out all the local art shows/gallery events in your region and start going. Introduce yourself to any artist or collector. Collect cards/e-mails. You never know what conversation will lead to a job opportunity. In this economy, you need to market yourself to find and get what you want. Also, d…
/r/askTRP14/11/18 04:16 AM
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Yeah I can’t get behind this.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 02:16 PM
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Sounds like she was plate material from the start mate. And also a shitty choice of friends on your part. Being a “leader” doesn’t guarantee respect. Leaders are often resented or envied. What your “boys” did is just a classic example of why hierarchies don’t work in male friendships. Each of us have an explicit understanding of what’s cool. If anyone violates our agreement, he should be prepared to gear up in the ring. That’s fear and respect. I will say this tho, we definitely lead our own liv…
/r/askTRP31/10/18 01:57 PM
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That’s a lie, your boys wouldn’t do you like that. Especially if they respect you. They’ll ask to know where you stand and then make their move on her based on that. Obviously if she’s a plate, she’s fair game. Now if you’re boys don’t respect you... different story altogether.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 02:04 AM
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I asked her what she thought about heading to my place after dave and busters Really? You asked her what she thought? Her and that hamster brain? Come on, you're giving into her frame without even realizing. Call the damn shots. Go to Dave and Busters, have a good time, and just say that you're going back to your place. Invite her, don't fucking concern yourself with her thoughts. If she says no, drop her home, and go out and have fun with your friends. She'll likely hit you up to come over. Rec…
/r/askTRP02/10/18 05:31 PM
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Glad to hear it. You'll get even better at it over time. The first step is always the hardest.
/r/askTRP01/10/18 05:57 PM
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Hey dude just think of it like your banter with the professor. You can even ask the audience questions rhetorically and then answer it if you want. “Guess what is the leading cause of lung cancer? short pause That’s right, smoking” See if you can bring up valid points DURING class, you can bring up valid TO the class. You’re still the smart one. It’s just slightly different format of showcasing it. So ease up and do what you gotta do.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 09:57 PM
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Ah, the old "performance anxiety" manifested in the real world. Good stuff. Here are my tips (and I'll do my best to keep them condensed). 1) Practice in front of a mirror. Make eye contact with yourself, smile, and get comfortable with your own mug. If you fall in love a little, good. A touch of overconfidence won't hurt going into your presentation. 2) Know your material but DO NOT blindly memorize your presentation. The better you know your material, the easier it is to improvise the script a…
/r/askTRP26/09/18 07:55 PM
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There's a lack of detail here but I'll go for it anyways. Is there any particular reason you need to see her? I'd wager the answer is no, it really just sounds like you're typecasting her as the "one that got away" even though she is clearly not THAT important to you. Hard next. Start fresh with new women you meet, play the field, strike out a bunch, then eventually spin a plate (or 5 who knows?). Go live your life my friend, E is a fish that has escaped back into the ocean.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 02:20 AM
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Aha girls shit talk all the time. Just laugh it off and move on. You need to maintain FRAME at all times. Make your moves on other girls and be a lot more direct. Push/Pull, Escalate, Kino, etc. Girls won't care what other girls say if you stay dominant, keep DGAF attitude, and are confident in your ability to attract. This is college, remember like 90% of those girls want as much alpha dick as possible.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 08:02 PM
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Her family can't tell you to do shit. If you genuinely killed people to save your own life, then you've got every right to calmly and politely tell them off. If they try to intervene with her, you just have to keep her mind focusing on the NOW instead of something that already is DONE. she clearly already accepts your truth if she becomes an LTR, so don't show a sign of weakness just because her irrelevant-to-her-personal-life parents said something. Someone here made a good point. You can even …
/r/askTRP24/09/18 06:08 PM
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No you're not getting the point. Do not WAIT for those things to happen. You're only setting yourself up for disappointment. IF it does happen, then consider yourself lucky and make your move.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 04:16 PM
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I'm left leaning. I endorse the shit out of TRP. Enjoyed having plates that were (luckily for me) easily disposable. Am currently in an LTR and only because her company actually stimulates me instead of irking the shit out of me. oh and the sex, good lord. So don't generalize leftists in to this. That makes you sound either uneducated or ignorant.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 04:05 PM
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Don't be surprised that a lot of guys are here ready to tear you apart at the seams. It's called brutal honesty so take it for what it is. It's not that they aren't aware you are seeking advice, they're telling you that it's pointless to vet her in the first place. So I won't dive into that. Here's what you should do. Self-reflection. Realize that she's just another sexual creature trying to capitalize on her youth by fucking as many high SMV men as possible. You are not special to her if she's …
/r/askTRP24/09/18 03:34 PM
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You just need keep frame and play it off for what it is, you defended your life and are breathing now to tell the tale. You should be proud of yourself, you did that TO SURVIVE. Nobody can question you as a male now. So keep your head high. If people try to call you a murderer, just shrug and say "I'm glad they're dead and not me" It sounds rough but its the truth, better them and then you. And naturally you'll split the people you meet one way or another. Those who GET IT and appreciate your co…
/r/askTRP24/09/18 03:27 PM
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Don't overthink this, its not a direct shit test. No need to act all bitchy and whiny in public. You could make a crude joke back "Right and YOU could learn a few things too ;)" And when you're back with her alone, remind her who the boss is. Give it to her good and then continue with your life as if nothing has changed. She will go back to craving your attention (and cock).
/r/askTRP20/09/18 02:41 PM
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Like I said start slow. If you're in missionary, lay so that you've pinned her down (to the bed,ground, couch whatever you into haha). or if you are going wheelbarrow or doggy grip her hips tightly. There's plenty other examples i could give but I hope you get the picture. Even something as small as strong eye contact goes a long way. You just need to feel confident in yourself. ALSO we're not talking full on BDSM man, these are just a few small steps you can take. Remember even improving on any…
/r/askTRP18/09/18 06:53 PM
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I'm talking girls I've never hung out with before, and it would be the first time You've already identified your own problem. If they are hanging with you for the first time, you need to get them to meet you in more social settings instead of a one on one meeting. Suggest meeting at a bar, a local concert, some fitness activity, etc. If you have male and female friends, she'll be a bit more comfortable/break down her own walls. This will provide the perfect opportunity to close. If you can't get…
/r/askTRP18/09/18 06:34 PM
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This is great to see. You're getting started pretty early so be proud of yourself. Having been in your position at the same age not too many years ago, I'll give you a few tidbits of advice. Get out of your head. Most sex lasts between 15-20 minutes. So don't worry about stamina. Pulling 40+ is not that important (unless you've established her as a plate and there's somewhat regular sex, and even then its not constant penetration). Don't think about full blown dirty talk yet, work your way up to…
/r/askTRP18/09/18 06:15 PM
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lol "deep state." This is an amusing thought process. Hillary utilized/leveraged/blackmailed DECADES of political connections. Any one of us would in that position, to become president. She managed to win the popular vote, let's not forget that. Whether or not social media EXPOSED the truth is an entirely different subject matter and requires both context and framing for which "truths" you are referring to. I won't dive into hypotheticals either because that's stupid.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 03:50 PM
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