StarwarsITALY Archive

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1	6 steps for a casual night and motivation		StarwarsITALY	/r/seduction	30/04/18 12:59 AM

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89	26 years old. Making big changes in my life. Never had GF, Sex or Kiss. But that’s changing. Should I tell women about my lack of experience ? Congrats man. Your story is still bieng written. So it comes down to one thing – CONFIDENCE. Confidence is essential to game (and what naturals are doing, which is still game, they just don’t know it). A lot of bad game advice is along the lines of “fake it till you make it” or be “or be confident”. Very difficult to make actionable and leave guys struggling. A better approach for those starting out might be to purge everything that is not confidence from your thought process. So these things ne…	/r/seduction	29/10/21 12:49 AM
0	I tried following the advice of Leil Lowndes and I saw some results already If you’re projecting sexual intent (talking to her “man to woman” instead of “friend to friend” or “woman to woman” lol) She’ll either fuck you or bail entirely, because she knows that being around you means she’s going to end up fucking you. So if she has a BF and would feel guilty cheating etc, she won’t be interested in chatting because you guys will fuck if you “hang out”. Just make sure intent is very clear, even if I’m going indirect, I’m escalating it FAST (innuendo, kino, etc) Guys who h…	/r/seduction	25/10/21 05:15 PM
30	Are we fooling ourselves? Or are pickup coaches misleading us? Here’s my life story lol tl;dr version: It was a fuckton of work. Noobz don’t appreciate how hard learning pickup was back in the day. We didn’t have DVDs and free YouTube content and blog articles from 400 different gurus handing us this shit on a silver platter, and bootcamps were only just starting to be offered and were super unproffesional (Tyler sleeping on your couch style) and not a “bootcamp tour across North America, we’ll be in every major city so sign up at your convenience!” situ at…	/r/seduction	29/12/19 05:00 PM
23	Status: The Key To Being Attractive To Women True shit. This is also why chicks can’t grasp that asshole alpha game works. They forget about the fight they had and just remember the banana in their purse or the voicemail rap. They don’t realize that that shit would go horrible if they weren’t already attracted to the guy, so they give other guys shitty advice like “leave her a sweet message” when the guy is nowhere near in the position where that would be a good move. After a year of casually fucking a chick (I liked her and we had great c…	/r/seduction	28/07/19 11:08 AM
1	The Correct Mindset. It's not about the money I don’t care about anything except what works. If money made a difference I would go get some. You are still not boiling your beliefs down to their core. Its like if I asked you what was in Pepsi you’d say “Pepsi!” instead of listing off the chemicals used. A chick on the weekend (22-26ish marketing exec chick (whoops just realized we haven’t asked eachother our ages) she was sober, babysitting her drunk friend) I literally took to a McDonalds the next day. Wearing the same clothes I had on the …	/r/seduction	25/07/19 08:25 PM
2	The Correct Mindset. It's not about the money This is why money is not an “attraction trigger”. When women are all earning a bunch of money, as this study shows, money loses its value (the same way when Brad Pitt, Clooney, and Matt Damon all hangout together they aren’t sitting there in awe of eachother’s fortunes or movie careers) and a man relying on money to attract women is left going “wait what? But I have a BMW!! I’m rich that’s a trigger!!!” while the girl says “cool. I have two BMWs. Yawn.” and then fucks the confident asshole. She …	/r/seduction	24/07/19 07:47 PM
1	Can anyone give me some tips on regaining frame after supplicating too much to a woman? Just for self improvement, not to 'win her back'. I mean it's not that serious. Just so happens you have a case of the oneitis. Cut all frivolous chit chat. Increasingly cold approach outside of work. Never apologize or attempt to explain any of this to anyone. Especially her. OR drop the bomb Ask her if she finds you attractive. When she says no or anything other than a hard Yes. You take that like a man. If yes then tell her you think she is attractive and ask her meet up on the weekend for a coffee. For me the first option is way easier. I w…	/r/seduction	07/07/19 03:02 AM
1	Can anyone give me some tips on regaining frame after supplicating too much to a woman? Just for self improvement, not to 'win her back'. What if you were not pretending. What would be your reality?	/r/seduction	07/07/19 02:50 AM
1	Can anyone give me some tips on regaining frame after supplicating too much to a woman? Just for self improvement, not to 'win her back'. In my opinion you can only have one of the following. You are attracted to her sexually You are her buddy You are her senior business minded co-worker. So what's the truth?	/r/seduction	07/07/19 02:46 AM
1	Can anyone give me some tips on regaining frame after supplicating too much to a woman? Just for self improvement, not to 'win her back'. My concern is this is some how making you upset with your former actions. Kind of accusing your past self as being dumb for not seeing these consequences.	/r/seduction	07/07/19 02:17 AM
1	Can anyone give me some tips on regaining frame after supplicating too much to a woman? Just for self improvement, not to 'win her back'. The way I see it is you are having two interactions with her. She needs assistance with her duties She needs someone to banter with	/r/seduction	07/07/19 02:11 AM
1	Can anyone give me some tips on regaining frame after supplicating too much to a woman? Just for self improvement, not to 'win her back'. Would there be any conflict if you stopped helping her with work?	/r/seduction	07/07/19 02:02 AM
13	I am 16 and I always feel lost. I think I’m good looking but it’s just that I have no Idea how to escalate an conversation Jesus kid no one is laughing. We are all on here to better understand this crazy little thing called love. Ask yourself what’s the difference between day game and night game? What kind of game do you think every guy is running on the 10 as she goes about her day? It's indirect game. Because the guy at the convenience store, the grocery store, the guy serving her McDonalds, the guy asking her for the time, the guy asking her for directions, the guy making small talk on the bus, the bus driver, th…	/r/seduction	07/07/19 01:49 AM
1	False Time Constraints. Back to the basics Here’s my process and how I become as good if not better than a natural. tl;dr version: It was a fuckton of work. Noobz don’t appreciate how hard learning pickup was back in the day. We didn’t have DVDs and free YouTube content and blog articles from 400 different gurus handing us this shit on a silver platter, and bootcamps were only just starting to be offered and were super unproffesional (Tyler sleeping on your couch style) and not a “bootcamp tour across North America, we’ll be in every maj…	/r/seduction	29/06/19 11:29 PM
8	False Time Constraints. Back to the basics lol for any newbies to Game reading this, this is pretty much how Naturals operate. This is the mindset of a Natural. A lot of times newbies can’t even wrap their heads around the concept of having to “learn to approach women”. It would be as strange as someone saying “I’m learning how to breath air” or “I’m so nervous to breath air!!” The mindset that you don’t care, don’t expect anything to go wrong, don’t attach any self-worth to how girls react, and that you just overall expect to be able to…	/r/seduction	29/06/19 07:58 AM
2	How do hookups, fwbs and one night stands even happen? How does it work? If I fuck her like any other guy fucks her, she doesn’t care if she loses me or not, so she’s more likely to be sloppy and lose motivation. I’m the same as any guy. I'm replaceable. But if I fuck her couple days a week in ways that make her fantasize about me 24/7 and rock her world sexually more than any other guy has ever rocked her world, she’s going to be a lot more careful with keeping our relationship serious because now it would be an actual loss to her if I found someone else.	/r/seduction	28/06/19 03:35 AM
-5	How do hookups, fwbs and one night stands even happen? How does it work? I know what you mean. It's ridiculously easy to get a girl to fall in love with you that that’s not a challenge. Here’s how I do it: See her more than once a week. Done. Some guys are happy with one piece of ass at a time and that’s cool, do what you want. But if I pick up a new girl 3 or 4 times a year, I simply get massive experience in picking up and understanding attraction. I enjoy girls whenever I want. Fuck one during the afternoon, kick her out, go out and chat some new ones up, if nothi…	/r/seduction	28/06/19 02:30 AM
3	Depressed virgin. I am typing this right now inside my parents' house. I am socially isolated and having moderate amount of FOMO. It is another Saturday night and I have no plans or anything. What would you suggest? lol jesus, 26. It’s waaaaay too soon for you to lose hope. That should be one weekend, if you’re just starting out. Remember: Rejection is only a rejection of your approach, not of you as a man. They don’t know you, they can’t tell how awesome you are based off the first 30 seconds if you aren’t presenting yourself properly…their rejection is completely not an assessment of your worth as a man. Once you learn to present yourself properly, you’ll get rejected less. It’s a long, long road. But…	/r/seduction	23/06/19 01:53 PM
14	How do you do pick up when you are alone? It’s not as harsh as you think it is out there. :) Other people don’t logically compare your life resume to see if you’re worth interacting with, all they care about is “do I feel good emotions around this person?” and “do they bring value or are they looking to take value?” Value can be making people laugh, smile, cheering them up, complimenting them, helping them with something, helping them relax, etc. You’re not shooting for banging 10s on day 1 here, you’re more at the “I like your outfit!”…	/r/seduction	07/06/19 11:26 PM
1	Thoughts on “Seduction” from a book regarding acting Yes of course I'd like to see someone try "being a sincere lonely man". Then post a field report of how far that gets you.	/r/seduction	12/05/19 04:13 PM
2	What's your initial conversation starter with girls at night? Me. Can I buy you a drink? Hb. Yes and 1 for my friends Me. OK I get paid next Friday. I got you then. Hb. Ass hole! Me. Lol actually, sorry, you girls aren't allowed to be in here. You look to good tonight, you are going to crush the self esteem of all these girls when their boyfriends line up to buy you drinks.	/r/seduction	22/04/19 09:48 PM
2	What's your initial conversation starter with girls at night? Me. My friends dared me to tell you some outrageous pickup line. Just smile and pretend like we're having a good time talking. I'll be gone in five minutes. Oh, by the way, make sure to give me your number so I can thank you later. Save your money ☺️	/r/seduction	22/04/19 08:13 PM
3	What's your initial conversation starter with girls at night? Her. “It looks like you’re trying too hard.” Me. “Ya. I have to make up for my extremely small penis.” Guaranteed she won’t have a clever response to that. And now you two are talking about your penis. The seddit community used to follow something like that up with “It’s like a wet baby carrot. You’re going to be so disappointed when we get back to my place.” I would throw in something about not even being able to slap her across the face with it, but I can get away with that. Now you’re using f…	/r/seduction	22/04/19 07:58 PM
15	What's your initial conversation starter with girls at night? Walk up to the Hb or group. Then in a raised voice with a tone of breaking rapport say. "Hey girls/You girls look fucking hot tonight, I figured I’d come say hi before 10 guys line up to buy you drinks." Hb. Lol Blah blah blah "But now I'm thinking I should’ve waited a bit, I’ll seem way more charming when you’re drunk." That will get you some shit tests and lots of IOI for being man to woman on the opener. Report back on how you handle it. If that's too extreme try this https://youtu.be/2Ba5IA8…	/r/seduction	22/04/19 06:02 PM
5	I'm getting rejected a lot and something's not working I'm sure you know how to be man to woman. Walk up to the Hb or group. "You girls look fucking hot tonight, I figured I’d come say hi before 10 guys line up to buy you drinks. Hb. Lol Blah blah blah "But now I'm thinking I should’ve waited a bit, I’ll seem way more charming when you’re drunk." That will get you some shit tests and lots of IOI for being man to woman on the opener. Report back on how you handle it.	/r/seduction	10/03/19 02:21 AM
0	Best ways to tease on date? If you want to break out of the nice guy frame do this. I guarantee that you won't get laid. But you won't be a NICE guy. Who took her on a NICE date. Turning down her advances Accusing her of being the one with a dirty mind Softly disqualifying yourself ("we're bad for each other!") Tell her your eyes are up here. Tell her she's a problem child. Tell her nothing's going to happen, so don't even try. (If she's into you, she will.) That’s because you’re a woman Past . I’m tough Me: There were ten…	/r/seduction	15/08/18 02:24 AM
0	I'm 26 and I have Asperger's, I'm a virgin and the sexual frustration is driving me insane, is there any way I could be attractive to a woman? Unless a girl is literally disfigured, she just has to eat healthy, do some extremely minor exercise, learn to dress herself up, and she can land a BILLIONAIRE. Without doing a day of work in her life, she can earn billions just because she ate a chicken breast instead of a McChicken. When a woman says she can’t get laid, that usually means “I can’t get laid by a high-value guy I’m super attracted to when I don’t bother to take care of myself or try to impress him in any way. Sure I get attentio…	/r/seduction	02/07/18 07:34 AM
1	6 steps for a casual night and motivation Here's something for people getting over AA https://youtu.be/tZkAVtTUZug If anyone has other videos demonstrating The steps in action please post it and name the step	/r/seduction	30/04/18 01:01 AM
6	"you're under no obligation to be the same person you were 5 minutes ago" -Alan Watts \| Understand that in life you are free to choose your actions. You can be reborn at any instant. You can talk to the girl right now, you can hit the gym right now. I talk about all sorts of shit that I KNOW the girl knows nothing about or had zero interest in…but she starts to become interested in it BECAUSE I’m so interested in it and excited to share it with her and teach her about it. But I’m focused more on the emotional side of it than the technical side. Women want to experience a broad range of emotions, and they can do that through conversation and imagination. So this is a logical way of explaining your love of WoW, that a woman who doesn’t play w…	/r/seduction	30/01/18 12:34 PM
–	I was told by a girl today that I’m not fucking material and instead more of dating material, what does this mean? Unless a girl is literally disfigured, she just has to eat healthy, do some extremely minor exercise, learn to dress herself up, and she can land a BILLIONAIRE. Without doing a day of work in her life, she can earn billions just because she ate a chicken breast instead of a McChicken. When a woman says she can’t get laid, that usually means “I can’t get laid by a high-value guy I’m super attracted to when I don’t bother to take care of myself or try to impress him in any way. Sure I get attentio…	/r/seduction	29/01/18 06:14 PM
25	"you're under no obligation to be the same person you were 5 minutes ago" -Alan Watts \| Understand that in life you are free to choose your actions. You can be reborn at any instant. You can talk to the girl right now, you can hit the gym right now. Go out a lot. Go to different environments and bars that you don’t “belong” in. Travel. Be social and friendly with everyone, even people who are different from the people you’re used to. Focus on making deeper connections with people instead of just idle small-talk. Grab contact info to hang out in the future. Arrange parties/events where these groups of people mingle with you as their social connector. Within a few months, especially if you actively make it an actual goal, you will have multip…	/r/seduction	28/01/18 09:42 PM
1	"you're under no obligation to be the same person you were 5 minutes ago" -Alan Watts \| Understand that in life you are free to choose your actions. You can be reborn at any instant. You can talk to the girl right now, you can hit the gym right now. Go out a lot. Go to different environments and bars that you don’t “belong” in. Travel. Be social and friendly with everyone, even people who are different from the people you’re used to. Focus on making deeper connections with people instead of just idle small-talk. Grab contact info to hang out in the future. Arrange parties/events where these groups of people mingle with you as their social connector. Within a few months, especially if you actively make it an actual goal, you will have multip…	/r/seduction	28/01/18 09:40 PM
21	[FR]My first cold approach and what it taught me Concept is solid, execution is flawed. You’re on the right track, I’ve used a similar “pointing out the fact we are strangers meeting for the first time” thing before and hot girls appreciate that you understand their world/reality, but the words are too vague they might have thought you wanted to sell them something and it just falls apart. Conceptually your version contains: reversing expectations breaking out of the buyer(you)/seller(her) dynamic showing you’re unimpressed AMOGing the rest of…	/r/seduction	28/01/18 02:29 AM
1	What’s the best response to a ‘rejection’ text? Aloof text game stuff doesn’t work if you don’t have enough value to the girl. That doesn’t mean you aren’t a high-value dude or that she didn’t view you as high-value when you first met and got her number…it just means that for whatever reason your value at that point in time isn’t high enough to her (hell the reasons can even be out of your control like you have blonde hair and yesterday a blonde guy creeped out her friend and now she hates blonde guys this week even tho she loved that when yo…	/r/seduction	13/01/18 09:23 PM
3	We're having sex now, how do I do my part in keeping up the attraction ? This is the solution for it: A woman can think you are the greatest alpha ever even tho OBJECTIVELY you are not. If you have a strong reality/frame, she will pretty much anchor herself to you. She won’t really give any other guys an actual chance. If you are giving her tingles, she’ll only have eyes for you. It’s when you stop giving her tingles and start losing value that what you’re talking about may happen. I’ve always said the one type of woman that’s impossible to seduce is the woman who se…	/r/seduction	12/01/18 05:39 PM
2	Wanna truly know a woman? Ask her to cook with you Solid reframe. Great example Agree and amplify. You did not take the statement seriously. Instead of qualifying or becoming defensive you started self amusing and started role playing. Thanks and keep posting.	/r/seduction	05/01/18 09:37 PM
5	If I can’t get a girl to laugh, is she not worth pursuing further? If you want to be her dancing monkey. Keep trying to make her laugh eventually you will succeed. If you want to be in a healthy relationship. Ask yourself does she say how much she appreciated something you did for her. And offers to do something for you like take you out for coffee	/r/seduction	25/12/17 03:21 AM
4	Midnight Tinder Date Coming Up (HELP) Message her "Can you guess what kind of movie we are watching after our walk on the beach." "Hey good guess, I was feeling some (example.. Scary movies) I'm not going to tell you the name. It will be a surprise :p" When you get to your place give her option of any three movies	/r/seduction	25/12/17 03:17 AM
1	Friday Night Field Report - Harsh Criticism encouraged, will do anything to improve Review each interaction in your head “How WOULD I have gotten my original target if I could do this night over again? What kind of things should I have done different that would have led to a better chance of that happening? What game principles could I have applied? Was there anything in my environment I could have used to help me? How could I have isolated my target from her friend so she could loosen up more? How could I have qualified better? How could I have demonstrated which one was my ta…	/r/seduction	18/06/17 02:07 AM
8	Say hi to random girls in the street, good starting point ? I think the problem is that different people picture direct being different things. Guys who don’t do direct just picture the cartoon character version where you chase the girl down, shout “YOU’RE SO HOT I HAD TO SAY HI.” and then stand there staring at her until she goes “omg I just creamed my pants, here’s my phone number call me asap so we can have sex!!!” The reality is that instead of: “Hey, hold up, I thought you were cute and had to say hello.” “Oh, uhhh…hi?” “Ya I like your dress…the col…	/r/seduction	11/06/17 06:47 PM
2	What hobbies attract the most girls? you’re essentially thinking “What can I say/do to earn this girl’s validation?” and you’re already coming from a frame of having lower value than her. When you think “What I’m saying is gold, of course she’ll love me, I’m so awesome!” you’re essentially screening her for “Is she cool enough for me to let her hang with me?” and you’re coming from a frame of having higher value than her. Girls generally pick up on this subconsciously, because they’ve spent their lives having to learn to quickly as…	/r/seduction	07/06/17 01:28 PM
1	[30 day challenge] day 0 Basic Field Report Define the motivation for approach. (I am religious so my belief is) I like cold approach because god put that beautiful woman in my life at that very moment. She could have been anywhere but today she is here so I will chat with her because I am thankful of this opportunity. I will share these good emotions with her and if she returns the sentiment I will escalate to show my appreciation for her. Describe the environment Then review the interaction in your head “How WOULD I h…	/r/seduction	23/05/17 02:26 PM
1	How to get girls from the club to go home with you? Remember to qualify them…it's a lot easier for you and congruent and smoother to them to make an SOI off a qualfier, like "what? You can cook?? I LOVE girls who can cook (pull in for a hug)" VS just out of the blue like "that's a nice necklace (awkward makeout attempt)" lol It can be retarded like "Are you from City? You ARE? I LOVE girls from City (hug)" and "Are you from City? You AREN'T? Oh thank god I HATE girls from City (hug)" lol But I find I'm more congruent if I qualify them on shit I A…	/r/seduction	01/05/17 03:17 AM
1	These are the techniques I used to spot my patterns of avoidance and comfort and started getting much better results in dating and self-improvement (If you let them, your flaws will destroy you). Right, there’s not really a magic trick to it…like PUAs can give you a bunch of advice on mindsets and reframes and games to play infield and steps to follow and mental tricks to try etc but at the end of the day it comes down to you stepping up and taking right action. Some people pay a coach to push them into sets, or make their buddy push them in etc to help get past that, but if you’re solo it’s up to you to throw yourself in and see what happens. Nobody is above the process.	/r/seduction	01/05/17 12:49 AM
2	These are the techniques I used to spot my patterns of avoidance and comfort and started getting much better results in dating and self-improvement (If you let them, your flaws will destroy you). A lot of it is just internal mindsets. It’s why you can take two guys and have them learn external game (the what to say and and all that), but the guy who focuses on all the negative fuckups he makes and refuses to give himself any credit when he’s successful will take forever to improve, while the guy who just makes little mental notes of stuff to work on when he fucks up and gives himself massive credit for even having the balls to attempt cold approaching a girl or trying to pull her to bang…	/r/seduction	30/04/17 04:52 PM
4	Women at Bars? We were all thinking it consciously infield when we started out, but over time you internalize it. Same as playing a guitar, at first you have to think out every note and string, but over time you internalize it. Babystep it, take it one element at a time. Like tonight go out earlier and make it your goal just to open and hold eye-contact with a girl. If I get an Approach Invite like her giving me eye-contact I like to go over and deadpan “hey, are you mad at me or something? You’re looking at m…	/r/seduction	09/04/17 05:42 PM
15	Older guys, how did you actually find opportunities to meet women as you got older? How do older guys create a target rich environment for themselves? I’m not kidding when I ask is it in any way possible for you career-wise to relocate to a better place? Whether it’s another city or a better location IN your city (ie – if you’re out in a burb type area macking locals VS if you could get an apartment beside a college campus where there’s bars and daygame with lots of hot young chicks). My current location is the first time I’ve ever had good logistics (I’ve always lived far from the bar area or in cities with not a lot of action going on etc) a…	/r/seduction	20/03/17 12:46 AM
1	I have NEVER walked up to a random girl and started chatting with her with the intention of asking her out. Where do I start? These days my Newbie Guide would be this: – Mystery Method. I prefer the seminar where he teaches it over the PDF eBook of it because I like Mystery’s passion for what he’s teaching, all the vids were on YouTube at some point but now there’s just scraps, here’s one of them to get you started: I believe that’s from the Mystery Method 5 DVD set which you should be able to torrent easy. Magic Bullets is an eBook that’s a more brief streamlined explanation of MM if you’re tight for time – “The Tyler…	/r/seduction	05/03/17 08:04 PM
2	This is gonna sound really pathetic, but I learned something about approach anxiety I lucked out and got into it in my mid/late 20s, so I have a few years up on ya. But I was a virgin who’d never gone on a date or held a girl’s hand till my mid-20s. Crippling social anxiety, lived in my computer room, all that shit. I know 30yos with like one lay under their belt, no girlfriends in their lives, etc. who are just starting out. Hell, some guys don’t find out about this stuff till they’re 40+. You’ve got 10 YEARS up on those guys lol You’d be doing alright by 35 if you started wor…	/r/seduction	28/02/17 05:44 AM
2	This is gonna sound really pathetic, but I learned something about approach anxiety In every interaction, one person is reacting more to the other person. It might be 49.9% to 50.1% (two alpha bros shooting the shit with eachother), it might be 0% to 100% (nerd girl chasing football jock or Beta guy chasing cheerleader). The person who’s reacting more has, in that moment, lower value than the other person. So when you let her lead the interaction and you’re basing and changing your actions, beliefs, values, etc. off what she throws at you, you’re reacting to her, and she can su…	/r/seduction	27/02/17 06:25 AM
1	This is gonna sound really pathetic, but I learned something about approach anxiety Yes you got it. But it only works if you have the ambition to improve your life in general Step 1 be attractive. Step 2 don't be unattractive. Step 1 means you are taking actions that give you passion and happiness. The knowledge that you took action is where you base your confidence Step 2 means you are openly sharing that passion and happiness with everyone you meet. Regardless of how successful you were at taking action you remain outcome independent while planning and evaluating your next ac…	/r/seduction	27/02/17 02:35 AM
2	This is gonna sound really pathetic, but I learned something about approach anxiety Another thing to consider is that a confident guy, or someone who practices game, sees potential the average guy doesn’t. We’ll approach girls 100% cold, like they don’t even know we exist, until we stop them and say hello. A newbie PUA will stop them all and cross his fingers. But an advanced one will pick specific targets where his RAS notices “she’s not wearing a wedding ring, she’s smiling and in a good mood, she’s wearing an item of clothing thats really easy to tease her about, an event ju…	/r/seduction	27/02/17 12:07 AM
0	Girl said "i don't know, Ill think about it" to date A2 = her giving you ioi’s (Female to Male interest) A3 = you giving her a statement of interest (basically a very clear ioi showing interest in her, Male to Female interest) But to go FROM A2 to A3, you want to QUALIFY her, otherwise it looks like you give your interest to ANY girl who gives you interest and she assumes it must just be because of her looks which doesn’t make her feel like a special snowflake or like she’s earned you or like you were hard to get (we don’t value a prize we don’t h…	/r/seduction	25/01/17 01:02 PM
1	Dating Tl:dr Be 6' tall. lol jesus It’s waaaaay too soon for you to lose hope. That should be one weekend. Remember: Rejection is only a rejection of your approach, not of you as a man. They don’t know you, they can’t tell how awesome you are based off the first 30 seconds if you aren’t presenting yourself properly…their rejection is completely not an assessment of your worth as a man. Once you learn to present yourself properly, you’ll get rejected less. It’s a long, long road. But worth it. More depressing would be NO…	/r/seduction	25/01/17 12:45 PM
3	Should I stand up for a girl? Or I’d've avoided it entirely and just told her “It’s loud in here, let’s go for a walk.” and used it as an excuse to venue change to isolation, and progress toward getting her back to my place to bang. Lots of options that don’t involve even entertaining the thought that the situation could end in violence.	/r/seduction	25/01/17 03:59 AM
1	A girl at a bar, among other things One thing to keep in mind is that your looks can affect the style of game you should be running. The higher status you are externally/passively (ie – a girl can look at you and go that dude is super handsome or rich etc.), the more “boring” your game tends to have to be. A guy who looks like Tyler can be a complete dickhead because visually he’s low-value so girls are intrigued that he’s so cocky and full of himself and an asshole. So Tyler saying arrogant cocky shit and talking about fucking a …	/r/seduction	23/01/17 01:52 AM
1	How to act in a night club?? You got it lol Just own whatever it is that’s awkward. If you feel awkard about it they will, if you don’t they won’t (and if they do then that’s okay, walk away, you’re not going to die lol). Props for taking action. You can’t control the outcome…you can’t say “I’m going to be a guy who’s good with girls” because who knows how the girl will react. But you CAN say “I’m going to be a guy who TAKES ACTION” because approaching a set like that IS under your control. Maybe there was a better time to …	/r/seduction	23/01/17 01:40 AM
1	My first club experience and some questions! You got it lol Just own whatever it is that’s awkward. If you feel awkard about it they will, if you don’t they won’t (and if they do then that’s okay, walk away, you’re not going to die lol). Props for taking action. You can’t control the outcome…you can’t say “I’m going to be a guy who’s good with girls” because who knows how the girl will react. But you CAN say “I’m going to be a guy who TAKES ACTION” because approaching a set like that IS under your control. Maybe there was a better time to …	/r/seduction	23/01/17 01:38 AM
10	Make Her Horny To Solidify The Lay All credit u/bray-db https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/5a62oh/slug/d9ebcw6 Okay wow, this is going to be long and very honest. This is just random stuff I like, a fish's techniques on fishing: One of the sexiest thing a guy can do is put his hand on my lower back. A friend on mine did this to me while just walking by once, he didn't even look at me, I was standing still in a crowd and he just put his hand on my lower back as he passed by, as if he wanted to gently move me out of the wa…	/r/seduction	22/01/17 09:47 AM
19	Make Her Horny To Solidify The Lay These days my Newbie Guide would be this: – Mystery Method. I prefer the seminar where he teaches it over the PDF eBook of it because I like Mystery’s passion for what he’s teaching, all the vids were on YouTube at some point but now there’s just scraps, here’s one of them to get you started: I believe that’s from the Mystery Method 5 DVD set which you should be able to torrent easy. Magic Bullets is an eBook that’s a more brief streamlined explanation of MM if you’re tight for time – “The Tyler…	/r/seduction	22/01/17 08:34 AM
9	Make Her Horny To Solidify The Lay My pulls look literally exactly the same as anyone else’s except my hands aren’t on the girl. Otherwise they can happen just as fast, and the girl gets just as sexually attracted etc. Laser eye-contact and cutting space (Richard Laruina Forumla For Night Game video (around the 20 min mark I think, when he demonstrates on the girl) and Liam Mcrae’s Rapid Escalation videos) while talking about sexual topics (displaying comfort with sexuality etc) skyrockets sexual tension/attraction in girls. It’s…	/r/seduction	22/01/17 08:12 AM
2	Make Her Horny To Solidify The Lay I’ve DONE and can DO kino, I started out with lots of it because back in the day it was a core part of the system like peacocking or palm-reading (yes I’ve done the serious cold-read stuff too lol). And I still do it here and there for fun but it’s rare for me. Kino comes with some downsides, like raising ASD if she’s worried about her friends seeing you groping her, or triggering orbiters/cockblocks into action, visually it comes off more like the guy “preying” on the girl (like a potential Cos…	/r/seduction	22/01/17 07:46 AM
1	Practicing seduction as a woman without seeming desperate or out for just sex? Op we could talk theory until the sun burns out. Give us a real field report of you making any romantic gesture towards him so we can see how he rewards you for your efforts. Relationships are Person A makes romantic move Person B rewards A by making a romantic move And you go back and forth until someone dies Both parties need to hold up the relationship I don't see that here	/r/seduction	31/10/16 08:28 AM
0	Practicing seduction as a woman without seeming desperate or out for just sex? I accept your withdrawal Why did you get so rowdy? OK first, fuck you	/r/seduction	31/10/16 01:05 AM
-1	Practicing seduction as a woman without seeming desperate or out for just sex? Friend zoned so hard she's willing to become his buddy just so she's got a chance. I have a lot of other traits besides 'hotness'. I have hobbies, academic interests, a circle of friends, athletic prowess, and an awesome family. I have a pretty cool personality too. Cool story bro Now go out and have a meaningful relationship where you are rewarded for your affection.	/r/seduction	31/10/16 12:08 AM
5	Practicing seduction as a woman without seeming desperate or out for just sex? You have oneitis. The recommended cure is to have 10 different relationships before you go back to this guy	/r/seduction	30/10/16 04:11 PM